I hate that my fiancé watches porn and he knows it. A few months back, I tried to be open minded and watch it together during sex. He wouldn't even look at me during sex, only the porn and other women. I tried to lean in and kiss him, and he pushed me away. It made me feel so small and unloved. It made me feel like we were disconnected and hurt me. I tried my best to be understanding and watch it with him but now it's affecting our intimacy. I don't want our sex to be like this for the next 50 years if I marry him.. I deserve to feel beautiful and loved. The sex felt so cold like I wasn't important

I reckon I just have enough, after assets split ~ 300K, to live cheaply around the world till my last day, without having to work. Would the US law force me to continue working to pay alimony? All my life I have worked for 30+ years, very hard-working responsible person, I learned new skills to get a good job, but my wife has been reckless with spending , so I have to abandon the American dream of retiring here in USA with a fat nest egg, with her. It is becoming impossible and very demoralizing to want to continue working until 65 or 67. I have no idea what her plans are, but if she wishes to continue her way of life, she is going to have to find her own job. Is my plan legal ? I mean no one can force me to work if I am not happy, right ?

So this just hit me kind of hard... I would be very mad and upset if my wife cheated on me. But it seems like in my head at least I would not be nearly upset if it was with a girl...... heck, even if she came out and confessed her love for the girl I don't think I would be as upset as if she confessed her love for another guy. In fact, while I might be sad that she would probably leave, I might brush it off easy and say "oh well I guess she was lesbian" why is this? do I/men care about cheating, or only cheating with a guy? what what the hell are you guys talking about? these are completely different questions and I didn't ask the one about the daughter??

We have been together for 7 months and he has always told me how much he hates cheaters and that he would never ever cheat because his dad has cheated on his mom and that hurts him. He says he would never do that to anyone. But him and I tried roleplaying yesterday and we kind of planned it but we winged some of it. He was an Uber driver and I was a customer. While I was in the car, he brought that he had a wife and kids. So yeah, later when we started foreplay , we were still in character and he goes "don't mention this to my wife yeah?" I had even asked if his wife would be okay with it. But what bothers me so much is, if he's so against cheaters, why roleplay as one?? Idk if there's anything to worry about or is this actually weird to anyone else too?

J'ai 17 ans j'ai un frère et mes parents sont séparés depuis l'année dernière. Suite à ça, ma mère s'est mis en couple avec un mec que je ne connaissais pas du tout à partir du moi de mai. Au départ, bien évidemment comme tout le monde, je suis heureux pour elle et cherche à connaître cette fameuse personne. J'ai rencontré la personne et il se trouve que je ne l'apprécie pas. En effet pour moi il est arrogant, prétentieux. Donc récemment j'en ai parlé à ma mère et elle m'a engueulé en disant que je m'attaque à son bien etre jsp quoi... bref. Mais elle a pensé au mien pendant deux secondes ? Enfin bref c'est une situation plutôt tendue et je ne cherche pas une réponse très détaillé de votre part (c'est déjà gentil de life mon histoire 😊) mais simplement quelques conseils. Que dois-je faire ? Dois-je continuer à vivre dans l'ombre et faire genre j'apprécie cette personne ? Le fait de ne pas apprécier cette personne me rend il anormal ? Enfin bref, merci pour votre réponse 😄 et d'ailleurs je sais que certains vont sûrement penser que j'ai tort et que je dois ma mère laisser vivre sa vie jsp quoi. Mais je trouve ça simplement injuste d'exhiber son bonheur alors que personnellement ma vie n'est pas si heureuse.

Long story short I moved to Indiana so my ex husband can follow his career. He one day filed for divorce I stayed in Indiana so our child can live and be closer to there dad. He decided to move back to Illinois to move in with his new girlfriend. My current boyfriend want us to move to Las Vegas and I am actually consider it because he'll have a better job I can go back to school and have more help with my child.

As far as I know, my wife and I were fine in our marriage despite some normal hiccups. Then she gets this new job about a year ago and she loves it especially everyone she works with and one particular person who she talks to all the time. Actually it s 2 guys that she is now FB friends with and they talk 24/7. I am losing her attention to them! I know she is attracted to the one guy. Over the last year divorced was mentioned and she s not happy and wants to see a therapist. When I try to talk about it she doesn t give me straight answers. She says that she s not happy and doesn t know what she wants. We ve been married for 5 years and together total for 11. Idk what to do. Is therapy even going to help? I feel like I m losing her.

You can also say how old you are now if you feel comfortable saying it. Not saying since this is yahoo answers but typing...you know what I mean!

How do you do this without it jeopardizing your marriage and relationship with your husband?

My husband is so abusisve at everything every single day i have gone sick i have 5 kids and he bring his own friend problem at home he gives my teenage son cash and then screams at me saying he is spending my monry but my son said oh i never asked for it dad just gave it to me. We have has lots of problems in the past. He has diabetes,stress and hypertension

Okay I need opinions on what to do my husband keeps cheating on me online I have confronted him about it several times it s been 3 months since the last time he did it but I can t let it go my heart says stay my brain says leave we have two lil girls 7 and 2 please I have no one to talk to about this stuff

My has really been pissing me off for the following reasons and don't suggest counseling because we have already done that and I don't know what to do because she is being unfair: 1. I just got done putting a 21 ' x 13' deck and she keeps saying that we have not added anything to the house. 2. We said we should put a hot tub now next to the deck but now she is saying she does not want to go on vacation she wants a hot tub. The trouble is we paid into a time share already and have to use out time or we lose it. I told my wife this several times, but does not sink in. She said several times not hot tub no vacation which irritates me. 3. My wife puts the dirty spoons we use to feed the dogs in with our dirty silverware we use and washed together by hand. This is grossing me out and I tell her but she keeps doing it. She brings up that when I go #1 in only our toilet I don't flush. But I tell her the reason for that is that we were having problem with our leach field and did not want to overload them. 4. We installed a brand new storm door that has the rubber bottom to keep the draft out my wife closes the door on the dogs line that we hook the dogs to to let them out. I am afraid the line is going to rip the rubber bottom and told her to leave the line outside but she gives me an attitude instead of being understanding of these things. She always says I get my way

Sent hubby a text. Said-sent as text message. Not iMessage. Used find my iPhone, no loc found. Called his phone, rang 4 times and went to voicemail, phone wasnt dead. He texted back 10min later. Checked FMIphone again, says he's at work. What's up?

Are their any other possibilities it's something else? I am hoping against hope it's not. I am going out of my mind and am about to confront her?

My Question is ,how do I move on with my life without my best friend, my husband by my side being there for me? Why didn't my best friend tell me he is gay and most of why he would he wait so long to tell me? What would any of my lady friends would do?

I've never cheated or wanted to, oh I've looked at some hunks buns at the gym and got wet but who hasn't. The last three months I've been actually wanting another guy, any guy. Nothing is different in our marriage, no issues problems, I'm wondering if this is normal after 20 years? Anyone else felt this?

I've been with my husband for just over 7 years, married for 3.we've moved into our own house 12 months ago and his dad bless him has done a lot of work while we've both been at work. So he doesn't have to do it when he comes home. Anyway, once everything is sorted at home, tea cooked, washing up done etc, we watch a bit of telly to relax down a bit. Then i try to initiate sex, I start kissing him,or his neck, i dress up. But he's just not interested in sex at all. Everytime he turns me down its really upsetting. I'm 25 and he's 28 and I just don't think that having sex once a month is enough, it's less sometimes. Thing is us not having sex is making me really moody which is making me snappy. Then he uses that as another excuse not to have sex with me, along with I'm too tired, I got to go to work tomorrow and every other excuse. He's not cheating on me and I'm pretty sure of that. I just wanna know what to do to help my husband less tired? He says he still wants me and he still loves me so I'm not sure what the hell to do. Any advice is great thanks in advance x