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- Question: What does it mean when friends say they need time apart from me?
- Question: I just ended my only friendship and I don't know how deal with it?
- Question: Give her the benefit of doubt??
- Question: Help only one more day to talk to my crush what do i say?
- Question: Is my friend a bad friend?
- Question: Is it legal to drug test, search lockers and lie about searching your locker, taking your stuff, and making youstrip tosee ifyou gotanything?
- Question: Is it wrong to help another drunk guy pee if he can’t?
- Question: I just lost my best friend.?
- Question: How to get women?
- Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this?
- Question: I'm trying to stop being friends with this guy but he just can't take the hint?
- Question: What does she want?
- Question: How to distance myself from a friend?
- Question: Do you think I can find?
- Question: I’m scared of losing my friends?
- Question: Should I leave my job if I feel my boss is bullying me or should I confront them?
- Question: How do I repay a co worker for a kind deed?
- Question: Was our boss being mean to us?
- Question: Is it petty to ask for $5 back from a friend?
- Question: I have a friend that always says yes to hanging out on the weekends. Turns out he doesn't mean it. How should I feel about this?
- Question: My best guy friend is getting married and he did not tell me. Am I wrong for being mad at him and ready to end our friendship?
- Question: Does this make me a “gold digger” any advice?
- Question: Am I allowed to have more than one best friend?
- Question: How to break it off with a bad friend?
- Question: Why do I have no friends and get bullied instead?
- Question: My friend is telling everyone about our perszonal business?
- Question: What are the three most important elements of being a good friend?
- Question: Is something wrong with me?
- Question: How do I know if my old best friend I haven’t seen in 3 years wants to be mine back?
- Question: Sometimes I feel like my friends treat me badly?
- Question: Find new friends?
- Question: If there were three stages to a sisterhood, what would they be?
- Question: My friend only wants to die or sleep what do I do to cheer him up?
- Question: My best friend just called me bro I have a strong love for her. What do i do?
- Question: How to make friends when you're a pessimistic sadist and an anxious mess?
- Question: Is it normal to have no friends at all outside the Internet?
- Question: I get bullied at school because I am a muslim can you help me?
- Question: Is this a red flag? Do you think she wants me around?
- Question: Feel like dying at multiple points in my life because noone cares?
- Question: How come I am not "popular" and no one wants to be my partner in classwork's? Please help me....?
- Question: I said to my best friend that i like a guy who is handsome and she told me in a rude way that my face is too ugly for him..what should i do?
- Question: How to get a girlfriend?
- Question: What might it mean if I begged a girl daily to hang out, date me or my friend; she never did; later defriended me despite me trying to readd?
- Question: Should I just only have friends with just men and not other women?
- Question: I'm scared that I'm going lose her? What can I do to prevent this from happening?
- Question: What would you do in my position? I have a friend I want to stop being friends with?
- Question: Como supero la vergüenza a la desnudez?
- Question: Are you a cuckservative or a libtard?
- Question: How do people start their own thing like start a band, or a YouTube series, or whatever?
- Question: My friend sent me a snap video but the instant i opened it my phone died, and i cant see it anymore?
- Question: How do you get a life?
- Question: Am I being selfish?
- Question: Can I fit 60-70 people on my roof?
- Question: I hate school. What should I do?
- Question: Stupid people keep on saying nah?
- Question: Why do people have such a hard time having a normal 2-way conversation?
- Question: There's a girl who is mean, egotistical, and two faced. I've been ignoring her but it's not working. How do I counter this?
- Question: How to handle friends blowing you off.?
- Question: What is a good gift for a good friend who is leaving her old job then going restart her new life and new job ?
- Question: I need to talk to people or someone about personal issues who is not family, but I have nobody to talk to. What do I do?
| Question: What does it mean when friends say they need time apart from me? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:53 PM PST So this year I have been dealing with some mental health issues such as depression and took advantage of drinking a bit too much. I didnt really know how much it effected my friends, as I always tried to be fun around them. One night about a month ago, I drank a bit too much and had to go to the hospital. After that happened, my friends all said they needed "time apart" from me because I was too much of a stress. It hurt me a lot and now I feel so lonely. They said they forgive me but "arent ready" to see me. What does this mean? I feel helpless.. will they come back? |
| Question: I just ended my only friendship and I don't know how deal with it? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:38 PM PST I ended a friendship I had with a girl I've known for nearly ten years. She did nothing wrong. I started losing interest in her about a few months ago and by last month, November, I just couldn't do it anymore. I started feeling uncomfortable and awkward around her. She was my best and only friend. She has other friends so I know she'll be fine without me but I was her best friend too. I can't help but to feel terrible about the decision I made, but I don't want to live the rest of my life putting up with her. I feel like I might've ended it quite abruptly. I'm really confused and I'm sure she is too. But I have no interest in fixing this. I only have my parents and my two brothers that I barely talk to. I'm sure she's upset and I do feel bad. I told her over text, which I know is a bad idea, but I didn't have much of a choice. I didn't tell her directly that I wasn't her friend anymore. I told her that I felt like I was outgrowing the friendship about a month back but she didn't think much of it. I'm 15 years old & for the past 2 years, my mental health has been a rollercoaster. I've been in the hospital for 72 hours, been taken out of school & I've been struggling with severe anxiety. I do online school so I don't have any school friends. I go to church with my dad sometimes but I never talk to anybody. I'm asexual & aromantic so I have no interest in dating. Could me ending my only friendship have something to do with my mental health? Is this normal with growing up? |
| Question: Give her the benefit of doubt?? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:27 PM PST I did not tell my only neighbor,,,and my friend Sara off but I have not talked with her in a few days. I take care of my seven year old niece Trisha often. I have her with us til this Friday while her parents are out of town on business. I live off the main highway near Reno. Saturday afternoon Trisha wander off and I found her by the busy highway playing with a stray cat. When I got back home with Trisha. I sat down and lifted her dress up then I gave her a spanking over my lap. . Yes I do that! No belt or paddle but just a few minutes of spanks with my hand. On Sunday in the grocery store I ran into Sara. She mention that while walking Bear (her dog) she seen INSIDE my house where "Auntie was busy spanking the little one over her lap". I was right away thinking WTF? Sara then mention about noticing that she could see Trisha 'butt cheeks wiggling cause her sheer white underpants are so thin". She would have had to be on my porch and looking in the slits in the kitchen blinds to notice that detail! Maybe she came to the door to visit and peeked in the blinds . Should I discuss with Sara? Forgive and forget or keep my distance from Sara? |
| Question: Help only one more day to talk to my crush what do i say? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:24 PM PST In college i talk to this girl sometimes thats sits in front of me in my chemistry lab and she is so nice and i kind of have a crush on her. I actually asked for her name today and what she was majoring in. But i didn't ask for her number. And now It's only one more day of class. I don't really care too much about getting rejected (although i am still a bit nervous to ask), i just dont want to do a "what if" by not asking her at all and never knowing what could have happened. So after class how can i ask for her number. I probably should start a short conversation before i ask. What do i ask her exactly? |
| Question: Is my friend a bad friend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:07 PM PST So I'm friends with this girl and we have been friends for almost 5 years now. I don't really know why but soon after we started high school together regonized been acting really mean towards me and our other friends. She used to be really nice and caring. I would always get along with her and we would do things together. After we started high school, she started acting cold toward my friend and I. Some days she would act really nice and other day she would act all cold towards the group. This one time, she looked like she was having a bad day. During class we were doing this project and i ask her if i could borrow her glue stick. her desk was next to mine, so she could've handed me the glue but she threw it at me instead. It rolled to the other side of the classroom and she said to go get it like I'm a f#cking dog.Sometimes I feel like she want to be popular or to be recognized in high school. We're friend with this group of girls who is pretty popular and she acts really nice toward them. She would buy gifts and give it to each and everyone of them when their bday comes up, but when my birthday come up, she would give it to me three months late. She give everyone candy even though she only talk to them once and would say "that person know my name now". Due to buying lots of candy, presents, etc. and giving it out to people she barely talks to, she's wasting a lot of money and is complaining of how broke she is. We talk it out already, but she still acts like this. |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:05 PM PST Me and two frieds were driven to school and we had a friend in highschool who needed to walk there, we decided to walk him becahse it was cold and he didnt want to go by himself, we came back 20 minutes late and all of our lockers were searched and when I asked them about it they told me they never touched anything even tho all my bags were unzipped every pocket and some things were on the hangers that were never there, they drug tested me and the others, made me stripe my clothes and patted me down, they took my friends stuff after I was release 4 hours later, and he got expelled and his stuff is being kept, he brought a vape to school |
| Question: Is it wrong to help another drunk guy pee if he can’t? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:34 PM PST Omg embarrassing but outside my house I have this CCTV that was installed last year after a broken window...anyway last Saturday my friends and I got soooo wasted and I saw that when we were back at the house (we share it between the 3), we were so drunk we couldn't even walk straight at all, like we almost kept falling backwards...I noticed on the security footage that I had to really owe and so did my friend, however I was too drunk I couldn't even take it out to pee lol as so did my friend...after a couple times of trying and needing to go very bad, I see my friend helping me take it out and then me helping him take his out to pee......is this ok? We're not gay or anything but would u help your friend pee if he was too drunk to take it out of his pants or just let him pee his pants? If he asked u to help of course not just randomly... |
| Question: I just lost my best friend.? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:32 PM PST someone please help me. she's gone & was my only friend. I honestly dont know how im going to live. |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:31 PM PST Is it my duty to smile and go up to the girls I like and smile back What can I talk about |
| Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 03:50 PM PST I just got home from taking my best friend home. She came over after school to help me with my homework. Since I did not have to go in anyplace and came right back home I just drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes. |
| Question: I'm trying to stop being friends with this guy but he just can't take the hint? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 03:36 PM PST I told this dude so many times that i want to just stop hanging with him. I try blowing up his phone with calls and texts to just chase him away but he keeps being so stubborn. |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 03:19 PM PST I got in an argument with a friend of mine. I went over to her flat to talk things out. In the beginning, she was very rude and cold. When I asked her what's all this hatred, she said "I have to love you to hate you." She then asked me to get over her, and I asked how did you do it? She couldn't look at me and said "I stopped thinking about you and having you on my mind. I stopped caring about what you need." She said "I can't trust myself when I'm with you. I don't deserve you. And you won't forgive me for what I've done even though I'm sorry and it makes me sad as to what I caused you." Then i said I was done and went to wait for the elevator, she ran and grabbed me, and hugged me so tight. After over a minute, I tried to pull away and she pressed her cheek against mine. These mixed signals are confusing. What does she want? |
| Question: How to distance myself from a friend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 03:16 PM PST There's this guy who's been in the same middle school and high school as me (I'm a sophomore). He's pretty well-known among our small shared group of friends as being depressed. I'd say starting from about May of freshman year, he started distancing himself from everyone, eventually having no 'friends' while still being generally likable by the beginning of this school year. However, recently, I've become very close with him, in a very fast time period. As in, I probably know the most about him out of everyone he's ever met, and that I've received this information in the span of about one week. I don't want to say he's clingy, because I do genuinely think he's a good person beyond the depression, but with me as his only source of emotional support, he relies very heavily on interaction with me. In the short amount of time I've talked with him, we've video called each other for long periods of time virtually every day, and also took long walks together. Of course one thing I'm concerned about is my time management and my own mental state. I intend to take much more rigorous classes in junior year, and may not even have as much free time as this school year goes on. With no other support, I'm terrified that my friend will crash more heavily into depression when I don't have time to spare for him. He's an amazing person, but I'm already aware I cannot spend the amount of time I already have on him in the long term. How should I explain this to him? |
| Question: Do you think I can find? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 03:09 PM PST Some people from my high school passed away I didn't go to their funeral but I would still like a prayer card someone died at the end of 2008 and another early 2009. Do you think I could contact the funeral home that held their funeral and ask if there is any left over cards? |
| Question: I’m scared of losing my friends? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:39 PM PST I found it so hard since I moved into secondary school to fit in with people I have had so many issues with finding a friendship group bc I always seem to be everyone's second choose i finally found a really good friend but I am so scared that I am going to lose her like everyone else because I feel like I'm never good enough and I really don't want to go back to that depressed stage where I start cutting but I'm so scared I will if I lose her 😔😔 |
| Question: Should I leave my job if I feel my boss is bullying me or should I confront them? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:19 PM PST |
| Question: How do I repay a co worker for a kind deed? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:17 PM PST I unexpectedly had to work late which was a problem for me. My 15 year old daughter needed a ride home from school. I asked a co worker and friend Bob if he could take her home form school and he agreed. He picked her up from school and was driving her home. He asked her if she had any food for dinner at home and she said no. He ask her if she would like to join him for dinner and she immediately said yes. She thought they might go to Sizzler. He took her to Ruth Chris. She told me it was the best meal she ever had in her life. She was so excited about the great meal she called me a work and told me about it. The next day at work I thanked Bob for driving my daughter home from school and especially for the great dinner they had. My daughter said beside the great meal Bob was a lot of fun to be with. I told Bob I would pay him for my daughter's meal. He said "No Way" would he take any money. He said I was happy to be able to help you. Would it be appropriate for me and my daughter to take Bob out for a meal? The problem we can not afford anything near as expensive as Ruth Chris. |
| Question: Was our boss being mean to us? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:12 PM PST I work in an office with 11 other women. Most of us are single and in our 30s. We have a 29 year old great looking and I mean great looking boss. He is also a great boss and a great friend. He is always giving us training so we can get promotions and better pay. He is fun to work for. We like to joke with him and he loves for us to do it. It just makes the day go buy much faster. One day at a staff meeting, jokingly one of us said "Boss, I can not get much work done today". "I am missing a period". Instantly our boss said "No problem, I will get you a new keyboard". We ALL had a GREAT laugh at his answer. It just made our day. In the employee beak room we were still laughing about it and employees from other departments heard us. They told us our boss was being mean to us. We told them we were just having fun. What do you think? Was our boss being mean to us? |
| Question: Is it petty to ask for $5 back from a friend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 01:59 PM PST A friend and I went out to eat. The place only took cash and she asked to borrow $5. I lent it to her. A month has gone by, and she seems to forgot about it. I know it's not intentional because she is a good friend and has a job. I plan on asking it back tonight when I come over. Is it petty? |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 01:55 PM PST I have asked multiple times if he'd like a weekend off from having company over, and I'm constantly given you're always welcome, come over. Well turns out by asking his other friends I have been irritating him and wants space but will not tell me. It's apparently gotten to making jokes about me always being around. I guess I just don't know how to proceed here. I feel a little hurt and a bit mad that he would lie to me to be nice, then be irritated by the results of his own lie. So confused, help! |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 01:34 PM PST So me and my guy friend has been friends since I was a teenager for 13 years. We have gotten very close over the years. We have even started a fwb, that we have been doing for almost 4 years. So recently, he comes over and we had sex, after that we start talking and we get on the subject of marriage, and that s when I found out he s engaged to his baby mama. So later on I found out that he has been engage for 4 months and he did not tell me. When I confronted him about it, he said that he didn t know why I would be upset, an that he had the right to tell me whenever he was ready to. I feel so hurt because we are suppose to be good friends and he kept this from me, and we ve been sleeping together for years. I don t know what to do. I feel like he damaged our friendship. But he has no remorse for what he has done. Am I overreacting? Should I end my friendship with him? |
| Question: Does this make me a “gold digger” any advice? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 01:28 PM PST Idk if there is something wrong with me, but my last two boyfriends literally always spoiled me. And I loved it! I mean who doesn't? But my current bf is kind of cheap. Like he wants to save money and everything which is fine, but not what I used too. Maybe it's cuz I never was the smartest :( Im still trying to graduate college I work a part time job and my last bf kind of took care of me... I always envied the lifestyle of a stay at home wife/mom....but not many men like dependent women I know...am I the only one who feels like this, I'm 23, and I guess gifts shows love for me,,,maybe I just don't know what Love really is. Any advice ??? |
| Question: Am I allowed to have more than one best friend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 12:41 PM PST |
| Question: How to break it off with a bad friend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 12:36 PM PST I had this one friend that started out being really nice but soon I realized this wasn't the truth. She stole someone's artwork and claimed it to be her own she even told my friend she drew her but if you search girl drawing with curly hair it comes up(she saved a picture of an artists drawing online and bragged to everyone she drew it, I know this because I literally found the actual artists YouTube channel!). She barley cares for what I say and just goes off interrupting me like I'm talking and she just goes off telling me how cute this boy Is. I literally can't tell her anything because she will blabber it out and once in front of my face. She lies a lot too, one day I told her I had a nightmare and she laughed at me saying she didn't have any but then the next moment I heard her telling another girl she had a dream of her being chased by a ghost which is the exact duplicate of what I told her my dream was. But i can't seem to find a way to break it off with her since she's in most of my classes and it will be seriously awkward and she is friends with a lot of my friends, please help. |
| Question: Why do I have no friends and get bullied instead? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 11:57 AM PST |
| Question: My friend is telling everyone about our perszonal business? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 11:56 AM PST So basically I got in a huge friendship fight with her (I'll call my friend ML and we don't talk anymore it happened last week on Monday and now this girl named Mallory hates me bc of ML telling Mallory bad things about me like I made ML upset in the fight. ML also told another friend of ML and the other friend told me ML did it at lunch and so a lot of people probably know and I'm really upset it's ruining my reputation |
| Question: What are the three most important elements of being a good friend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 10:51 AM PST I'm trying to find some deep qualities, not just things like making you laugh or being a good listener because anyone can do that. |
| Question: Is something wrong with me? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 10:21 AM PST I'm 17 year old, almost at the age of 18. I don't have any friends and the family that I have in my life are my parents and sibling. I didn't have friends when I was 14 years old and was bullied for my appearance and speech impediment, I was apparently ugly and the speech impediment was so hilarious. I was homeschool the next school year, because of my mental state has become polluted and my well-being was in questions. Within the time frame of 2 or 3 years, I haven't been around that many people. I did spend some time with my cousins and her friends, but none of them like me enough to actually talk to me or try to befriend me. I was the oddball out. The people that I am around in my town and others don't like me. No boys are interested in me. Never had a boyfriend. I try to befriend others, but no one wants to be my friend. Am I truly worthless? What's the point of life, if you don't live? I don't want to be lonely for the rest of my life. I know I don't look like a Victoria Secret Model, but I know that I am not that ugly The bad part is my cousins get a boyfriend every time they break up. |
| Question: How do I know if my old best friend I haven’t seen in 3 years wants to be mine back? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:56 AM PST So I had this friend who I was really close to since I was really little when I was 9 I moved house and for three years I didn't see her or anything and when I moved back a couple of months ago I found her Instagram and all and last week I decided to text her hi but unlucky her friend was on her account so then I found she unfollowed me a couple of days ago so I texted her she ignored me after a day or two of ignoring she finally decided to text back and just said why she wants me to follow her but I just asked if it's her and it was but I don't think she wants to be my friend if I see her she doesn't even look at me smile or anything if she does see me she just looks and stares like when I first moved back in and I don't know why but I really want to be her friend how do I find out she wants to be mine too without speaking to her in real life cos I've only seen her twice in the past 4 months I moved back and only once she saw me don't say give it time or something cos that doesn't really help I'm 12 and she's 11 in yr7 so I'm in year 8 when she's been texting me it feels like she doesn't want me around |
| Question: Sometimes I feel like my friends treat me badly? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:51 AM PST I have these two best friends and we have banter all the time, but sometimes they take it too far. Sometimes they're really offensive to me and if I try to bring up something they said that offended me they will cut me off or tell me that I keep talking about it. I also seen to be the friend that's constantly picked on, I know there's banter, but sometimes I feel like they're ganging up on me. I also sometimes feel like I'm treading on egg shells with one of them because she can get really angry at me for stupid things that I wouldn't bat an eyelash at, so I'm always trying not to anger her. I have noticed that they never listen to me when I speak, like if I wanted to talk about a boy or something I like, they'll say something that's meant to be funny, but isnt or they'll tell me to shut up and that I talk about it too much, but when it's the other way round I always listen to her problems even though she talks about them all the time. Like, sometimes I'll do something small, like say something or like shove her for a joke and she will get in a mood with me. It's been really getting to me, but they're my best friends and I'm not sure if I'm being too sensitive or if they're actually being mean? |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:47 AM PST alright, here's the thing: my school is tiny. I know everyone in my grade, and when I say that, I mean I know everyone well enough to know some basic info and their personality. So none of them were people I want to hang out with except 2 - my best friend and another friend. however, my best friend and I share no classes together for so long we drifted apart a lot. I'm afraid he doesn't even think I'm his best friend anymore. the other friend hangouts with this other person 24/7, so even though I can talk to her, there is rarely a time where we can hang out. besides, I'm looking for someone that will always be sticking by my side. there is no such thing as "meet new people" because there are none. What should I do? I'm 16, so I'm very old and almost an adult, and I still can't find a really close friend. |
| Question: If there were three stages to a sisterhood, what would they be? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:42 AM PST I am writing an essay on the importance of sisterhood and I need to come up with different stages of sisterhood. |
| Question: My friend only wants to die or sleep what do I do to cheer him up? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 09:01 AM PST |
| Question: My best friend just called me bro I have a strong love for her. What do i do? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 08:21 AM PST |
| Question: How to make friends when you're a pessimistic sadist and an anxious mess? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 08:21 AM PST The title says all. I've lost every single friend I've ever had. My longest friendship lasted four years, and that one ended recently. My last friend who I've desperately trying to keep is gone now. I just repel people because of my sadistic demeanor. I can't make new friends though because i'm an anxious wreck and I can't talk to people. When I do manage to talk to people, they're either driven away by my awkwardness and incapability to talk to them or the fact that i'm a pessimistic little ****. Don't tell me to be myself because that clearly isn't damn working. Just help me so that I, you know, don't have to ******* alone for my entire life. |
| Question: Is it normal to have no friends at all outside the Internet? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 07:36 AM PST I have no friends offline but have some random strangers who I talk to, but don't even care about, online. |
| Question: I get bullied at school because I am a muslim can you help me? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 07:28 AM PST Hello, my name is Ahmed and I am 15 years old. I live in Sweden and I am always thrightened to go to school because they always call me a suicide bomber or a terrorist. They are in a group attacking one person for being a muslim. It seriously makes me depressed and thrightened to go to school. I do not call them anything bad because I have more respect than they have, they are just bullies who have nothing better to do. Can you help me by giving advise? Please don't say tell the teacher or change school. First of all ever since I told the teacher it got worse. Also I don't want to change school because I don't want my parents to feel bad about me or believe I am bullied. Can you give me other advise? I appreciate it |
| Question: Is this a red flag? Do you think she wants me around? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 07:21 AM PST I asked my friend if she wants to hang out one night. She told me she wants to stay in. But later that night I saw she was hanging out with another friend of hers. I asked my friend about it she told me her friend dragged her out of the house. Her and I only hang out once or twice a year. Whenever I ask her to hang out she couldn't. She made time to hang out with her other friends. She told me we are Facebook friends and we text each other so she must want me around but I question it. It doesn't seem she wants to hang out with me. She complained how my crush hasn't made an effort to come see me but she doesn't make an effort to hang out with me. I asked her to hang out she ignored my text. |
| Question: Feel like dying at multiple points in my life because noone cares? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 06:53 AM PST I'm currently in Highschool, the problem i'm facing is friendships. I made 2 cliques, i 'left' the first clique because one of them keep leaving me out and i was done with that sh1t ( and also language barrier with some of them as they're from another countries ) , so i decided to mix with the newly form clique but the thing is, they dump me???? Like, i helped them alot and ... i have fun with them but they dump me. I cried multiple days and even self harm. I only have like one good friend but she's from another school. What should I do? Sorry for this long sh1t. |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 06:12 AM PST I am asian and there is another asian girl in my class. She is a junior while I am a freshmen. How come when she came to school everyone wants to be her partner in schoolwork or wants to be her friend even though she isn t speaking english that well like me. Still everyone WANTS to be her friend. Is it because she dresses better than me or what? In being smart, we are about the same but, people make it seem like she is the smarter one than me which like I said we are basically the same. Please help, even though I have friends, it makes me feel lonely because of this. My friends aren t in this particular class, so I am basically by myself. No one wants to be my partner. Even the teacher likes her more than me. Usually when I went to school, the teachers would like me better than all the other kids. |
| Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:50 AM PST I did not answered to her but she always enjoy to kill my self esteem and she smiles when she do that.. i cant understand why...is she so jealous of me ?or she is just mean and she really finds me ugly? |
| Question: How to get a girlfriend? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 05:36 AM PST I'm 12 years old, from Lithuania, and there's a beautiful girl in our class. She's 2 months older than me. She mostly hangs out with her friends. Once I had with my friend and her friend lead her to them house. It was so cool moment, but I was little bit crazy in the middle of walking so when she said "I'm a little bit scared right now to walk" I thought "Wait, what? What am I doing!!!" And then I little bit stopped. And then few months ago we leaded her again so I was normal this time, but she didn't really noticed me, but still was pretty cool. And months later she and her friend asked her again to lead her, but I didn't had time because I had a club. So MY FRIEND leaded her with my other friend!!!! And they said it was pretty cool. But I didn't knew my friend wanted to lead her... But again months and all these months I tried to make her be my friend, and I don't even know if she is my friend, she doesn't notice me except for like 2 times in a weekend... So help me this: 1) When somebody says "She's crying" I don't even know what to do, when her friends are going with her like huging!?!?!?!? 2) When I can talk with her, or give her gifts? (When she's near by friends or alone?) 3) She's at school learning better than me, but not best. Is it has any relationship about that? Help :D |
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| Question: Should I just only have friends with just men and not other women? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 04:39 AM PST Ever since I was a teenager, I've never gotten along with women. They always bullied & excluded me for being weird. I do get along with guys a lot better than I did when I was a teenager even though the guys were at one point just as hateful. Rather than getting better when I'm older, it's gotten worse. I've dealt with petty, immature behavior from some women in college and have been socially rejected many times. I lost my patience with other women and I don't have any intention on making friends with them anymore because they're too cliquey & excluding. They'll lead other women on by inviting them out and end up either not showing up or ignoring their calls. I feel like I'm better off competing with them because I always get too much hate for being who I am and not much love from them anyway. I already find myself disliking some women who are extroverted and have a lot of friends anyway, so that's a good start for me. |
| Question: I'm scared that I'm going lose her? What can I do to prevent this from happening? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:59 AM PST I have been friends with her for 3 months now and so far this is the my first time being so distant with her. We used to speak on the phone from 5 am to 22:00 pm when she would be on study leave. I was on leave as I was done with my exams(we study different subjects). On Friday I went to hang out with her at College and have lunch with her and it was great. But on Friday evening her she just stopped replying to my texts in the middle of the conversation. On Saturday I didn't hear from her for nearly a whole day and she only spoke to me for a short time. On Sunday afternoon into the evening we spoke, and I tried to video call but she told me that she has family over. She stopped texting to me in the middle of the conversation again. I didn't hear from her until yesterday late afternoon and she told me that today was busy. She told me that after she is done working out, she will talk to me. She didn't. This morning after 8 she told me that she is sick and we'll chat later. I have noticed that she would try to talk to me and then she would be too busy to text back. Which isn't really like her. I did ask her if I'm boring her and she said no. Ps voice notes on the chatroom is normal. I'm scared that our friendship is volatile and will end up like all my other failed friendships with women. We aren't just friends we've something together and I don't want it to be ruined. What can I do to stop this from happening. We are both 20 years old Btw she finished her exams on Friday and we hung out as a celebration She starts the conversations, not me |
| Question: What would you do in my position? I have a friend I want to stop being friends with? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:43 AM PST So I have this friend who's really sweet and genuine but I'm kind of tired of being her friend because she TALKS non-stop!! When we hang out I can't get a word in edgeways because she cuts me off and just talks and talks and talks. I empathise and comfort and listen until I'm drained and that's the problem: my friendship with her is so draining :-( She also does this thing where she buys me things now and then and I feel like she does that so that I would remain her friend and not run away. But I don't know maybe she's just a generous soul Like I said she's really sweet but I'd like to get away from her without her feeling bad. When I avoid her she tells me that she misses me (aka misses having me listen to her for hours) and I'm running out of excuses. I don't want to hurt her feelings. Help! |
| Question: Como supero la vergüenza a la desnudez? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 02:38 AM PST Hola, soy un chico de 13 años. Desde siempre he jugado al fútbol pero hasta entonces no he tenido problemas con los vestuarios porque no había dinero para construir unos por lo que cuando terminábamos de entrenar o jugar nos íbamos a casa a ducharnos. Hace unos meses el ayuntamiento los construyó y son abiertos, es decir, no hay cortinas ni nada. Los primeros días muy pocos chicos se cambiaron ya que estábamos acostumbrados a no llevar la ropa pero ahora se cambian todos menos yo. El entrenador ya no se cree la excusa y me dijo que sería beneficioso ya que antes de la ducha hablan de tácticas y jugadas, luego él se va (no piensen mal de él, es buen hombre) y los chicos se duchan. También me dijo que así se estrechan mucho más las relaciones y en eso sí que lo noto... La semana pasada mis padres se enteraron de que el vestidor estaba ya construido y me obligaron. Yo lo intente, pero al bajarme el short y quedarme en bóxer, marcando el pene me dio vergüenza. Así que me puse el pantalón y me fui. Me gustaría poder hacer como ellos y cambiarse sin vergüenza, y si se me para poder reírme de mí mismo como ellos hacen. Algún consejo? Gracias |
| Question: Are you a cuckservative or a libtard? Posted: 05 Dec 2017 12:03 AM PST |
| Question: How do people start their own thing like start a band, or a YouTube series, or whatever? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 11:49 PM PST You make it look so easy like wtf people? What do you people do? Do you just randomly find someone and say "come with me ***** you gonna be apart my project"? To me IT'S ******* HARD IS AND STRESSING ME OUT I swear every time I ask my friends to Join I ALWAYS GET THE SAME ANSWER ALMOST EVERY TIME "Maybe" yeah I been getting maybes like maybe is not an answer to me now Going off topic for a minute I'm always sitting in my messy *** room board to tears I rarely hangout with friends out side of school And of course they keep on giving me a maybe for an answer or they will say they are busy JESUS CHRIST BUSY WITH WHAT? Yea... then they will start their own thing and already have people to help them out with it Sometimes I wonder DO I EVEN HAVE ANY FRIENDS? |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2017 11:46 PM PST so i went like oh **** my phone died when i was about to view it. if your friend had this happen to them how would you react? i take AP biology and have a test tomorrow so im ****** anyways. **** bill gates. |
| Question: How do you get a life? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 10:39 PM PST Big break-up last year meant finding myself back in my country with no job, friends, or life (after living in limbo between two countries). Work is a priority but there are multiple barriers, for now I just work in voluntary roles - but there's no opportunity to make friends there, work is a priority but as a human being I need friends! I spend the majority of my time on my own t home staring at a laptop, now it's winter it's even harder as less opportunity to find free activities that might allow me to socialize. There has to be some way of actually MEETING, interacting, and trying to befriend people...rather than right now where on the rare occasion I get to be around other human beings I find myself just standing there like a lemon on my own! I need a social life, friends, then down the line a new man... I'm just finding it impossible to get back on my feet, any suggestions? |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2017 10:20 PM PST I have this friend and there is a good chance they said we could be roommates. We are best friends. I'm trying to move out of my parents house and so are they. We are both young adults and they said they really want to be my roommate. We have been looking at apartments. Now all of a sudden they are applying to jobs in different states. They expect me to be happy for them if they get a job out of state and keep telling me to keep my fingers crossed for them. It's hard for me to be happy for them if they get a job out of state because I feel like they are flaking out on me as a roommate. Am I being selfish? |
| Question: Can I fit 60-70 people on my roof? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 10:13 PM PST I just started a masters. I'm throwing a party after the first term exams are over. I'm planning to invite my entire class, like 70 students, and some of them can bring their friends. Compensation coz many won't show up. So I'm keeping a rough estimate of around 60-70. I live in a penthouse, and I have the access to the roof above. I'm thinking to keep the crowd on the roof, rather than in my house. It's good is if I keep the house limited to washroom use n stuff. Besides, partying on roof is fun. It is same size as my house, around 1500 sq ft. Is that space sufficient enough to fit all these people, the food and drinks counter, music setup? |
| Question: I hate school. What should I do? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 10:04 PM PST I really don't like my classmates. Last year school seemed smaller, like I had classes with people who had potential to be my friends. Now I'm with people who don't know I exist. Everyone is ironically more immature and all they talk about are sports. Every single person is being noticed, talked about, and talked to except me. It's like I'm going to the wrong school. This is really bringing down my self esteem and just making me angry. |
| Question: Stupid people keep on saying nah? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 09:50 PM PST Alot of people ecpecially in my school keep on saying "nah" like that's really f**king annoying like why can't they just use normal English and say "no"? Even people when they're texting, they say "nah" i'm really pissed off it's starting to become really cringy and dumb. I swear if any one says it again i will end life |
| Question: Why do people have such a hard time having a normal 2-way conversation? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 09:49 PM PST Half of the people that I talk with (men and women) in everyday places like work seem to just go on and on and on talking about themselves forever without letting you hardly get a word in. I just sit there an nod my head as if I give a damn. They just sit there and talk about all sorts of different bs just to themselves talk. I'll only lose interest when they just ramble on like that but I'm always happy to have a conversation when the other person cares about what you have to say as well because I don't socialize much. Why is this so hard for people |
| Posted: 04 Dec 2017 09:30 PM PST She used to be my friend but she then found other friends. Now she glares at me or looks at me like I'm weird or disgusting or something. She thinks she's so much better than everyone, and talks crap about me to her friends and right in front of my face too! What do I do? |
| Question: How to handle friends blowing you off.? Posted: 04 Dec 2017 09:18 PM PST How would you guys handle having friends that blow you off. They say they're coming over for somethinf you buy beer or whatever but it's "we will be late" then no text and no show. Just be nice but ignore them ? Stop inviting them over ? Stop thinking they are "good friends"? |
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| Posted: 04 Dec 2017 08:32 PM PST So recently ive been feeling rather sad or just lonely. My best friend (who ive known for 9 years) used to be a nice, genuine person. We could talk to each other whenever we needed to and about whatever was on our minds. Recently, she has been obsessed with some Korean pop band called 'BTS' and now she acts like her entire life depends on them. So now, whenever I try to talk to her about issues ive been going through, she just says "well I have it worse because I cant be with a guy who lives on the other side of the world who makes music and is over 10+ years older than me I hate my life you have no idea what pain is because youre not me" so on so fourth. Eventually she changes the subject entirely. Talking to her about it is a no-go, because she'll do anything in her power to prove she is right, and on top of that, she says that she throws her life away to talk to me and help me with my problems, and I treat her like ****. So since family is a definite no, and I now have nobody to talk to, what am I suppost to do? |
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