My wife loves it when I tie her up, call her dirty names, etc I know it's a turn on to her but why?

I was visiting a friend and her husband. I'd seen him around but i never really realized how attractive he is until then. I got really turned on and it was kind of hard to look him directly in the eyes. If you know what I mean lol. All I could think about was having sex with him. I usually never think this way about one of my friend's husband, but I couldn't help it this time. Does this make me a bad person/friend? Has this ever happened to you?

Billy and his wife have recently gotten married and had a new baby. They are in the process of understanding that they need to now have new priorities and have started to deal with the new schedule that they must adhere to with a baby in the house. They feel so overwhelmed right now that it is difficult to even identify what needs to change in order to make things less stressful. According to Levenson, they are in the mid-era phase novice phase intimacy versus isolation phase culmination phase

I am married. Between my wife and i things are great but when it comes to the kids its a constant fight. I have 2 step daughters one is 8 & is great, sweet, kind, helpful but whines for everything. The other is 6 & is a cry baby. She cries for everything and when i say everything its everything. Especially when i say no to her. My wife always sides with them. She always gives them their way and i wasnt brought up to be a spoiled brat. I believe kids need consistency and structure. It has been hard because they were with their fathers family up until 4 1/2 years ago. He has no part in their life what so ever he doesnt want any part of them so i took on the "other parent" role. The 6 year old cries if i tell her to take a shower or if i tell her to eat her food if i tell her no she whispers to her mom because she will tell her yes. and i know she does it on purpose to get her mom and i fighting. My wife and i have spoke on many occasions and she gets very defensive if i say anything about the girls. She makes me feel like i shouldnt care. I need some advice on what am i suppose to do. Do i back up or do i fight for what i feel? Regardless we end up fighting because of them

I've always wondered this and I've ever asked my boyfriend and told him I don't care if we ever get married because I know I'll love him and stay with him even if we don't get married and I truly love him more than I love life. We've been together for 3 years and I've always wondered this. Maybe people think that their partner doesn't truly want to be with them if they don't want to get married? Why do people have to be legally together to show they want to be together? I know there are tax benefits to it but why else would people feel they have to get married?

my wife and her ex-husband bought a house while they were still married. her husband kept the house since she couldn't afford it but her name is still on the house. now we are looking to buy a hose and her name on the tittle of the other house is hurting us. how do we get her name off the house. we don't want to force a sale as her son lives there that never speaks to her. long story for another post. but we don't know what to do?

For days I've been telling my husband that I need the car today bc I had to be somewhere by 7. Of course he "forgot". I texted him hours ago reminding him. He called me at 7:45 & said "hey I went to play basketball after work" I told him that I needed the car & he asked why. I said I needed to go to Manchester tonight and he went off. He said "No you're not going why the f**k would you do that after I told you about the mileage...you are so dumb!" He drives 25mi to work everyday even though his coworker/best friend lives right next door and they could carpool. I explained to him that I wasn't driving to Manchester. I was driving ten minutes away to carpool. I ended up hanging up on him. I hate the way he talks to me. He didn't even let me finish speaking before he started going off like I'm his child or something.

I lost my wonderful wife of 9 years (plus 7 years together before that, and friends before that since 4th grade) to a brain aneurysm in 2010 at age 31. I am the same age as she was by the way, so now 37. I have so very much struggled to get back to regular life for the first 5 years of it, and only in the last 9 months or so have I been able to even adjust to getting back into hanging with friends. I still do know to this day whether I ever want to be in a steady relationship/marriage ever again or not. Of course I wear my wedding ring non stop, but if I do decide to go back out and even think about dating someone again, how do I not wear it? I cannot believe I am asking this, but how do I part from wearing it for 15+ years??

I've been friends with the husband and wife for the same amount of time and was equally close to both of them. They broke up in the past, he screwed around through text, never cheated but confessed his mistakes. She cheated and lied. Was sneaking into town in his car to see a man for weeks. They argue every day. He gives her every pay check, bought her multiple cars. She's constantly hurting him, talking **** to him, making him feel worthless and like a screw up. He has no friends because of her. He lost everyone and can't even go out. I usually never get to spend time with just him. Last night I did and she was pissed. Accusing us of foul play. He looked to me and trusted me for honesty but she trusted me for secrecy. I didn't know what to do so I told the truth. Now she says I caused their divorce. She wanted to leave long before this and they were both miserable. I don't know what to do I feel awful. They both hate me now. Was I wrong?

So he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his father and I don't know how to help him. He has nervous shakes, night terrors, and he barely ever has time to work on his job. His boss is a good friend from church and he is trying to work with him but I fear that he will lose his job soon. I was forced to explain to his boss when he fell and hit his head and got a severe concussion. He then had to go to the hospital because he was mixing pain pills with alcohol and its just been a roller coaster. He is 23 and I am 21 we've been married for two years but I just don't know what to do. I love him but he has really pushed me I've already talked to the Bishop at our ward as well as his family about it but I just can't come up with what to say to the man I married for all the pain he has caused me... He just drinks and drinks and I need to know what to tell him so that I can have the man I fell in love with back. On an off note my husband's family and my family are both wealthy so a good rehab center could be afforded .So I packed up my bags and told him I was going to my parents for a week to reevaluate things.... As I was walking out the door he started to cry and said don't leave I don't want to be alone....he then said that he'd get help but he doesn't want to go to a rehab facility for his drug and alcoholism. While I held him I couldn't help but think how overwhelmed I am... Should he go to a group or does he need to go to a clinic?

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We haven't had sex in a long time. Mostly because he doesn't respect me and we've lost the connection I feel is necessary to be intimate with a person. I've told him that if he wanted that to change, to get help for his disrespectful behavior. He never tried to. Instead, he assumes I've slept with other guys all this time. He asked me if I have and I said no. Which I was completely honest about. I've been using toys and keeping the urge of being with an actual guy. He knows all this from me, yet still doesn't believe me. I can't do anything to prove myself but at times I feel like actually finding another guy because being called a wh**re for not sleeping around upsets me to the point where I no longer give a f*ck. Is this a normal feeling and should I just find myself another guy?

I'm 29 and I've been married 5 years. My husband and I moved for his job. I had to quit my full time job in order for us to relocate. Unfortunately for me, I did not have a job lined up when we relocated. We've been here 2 1/2 weeks in our new apartment. My husband has been on my case since the day we moved in to find a job. I've applied to a few but while he's at work I'm unpacking boxes, trying to organize new bills since we have bills we have to pay and trying to get acquainted to the area. I've never not worked s. We had planned to have a child but decided to wait until we are settled into a home and are both employed first in our new city. We also plan to buy a home sometime within the next 1-2 years here if it works out. We did not want to purchase a home "right away" in case things did not work out. We have about $20,000 in the bank as of now. All of our utilities are coming to around $2,000 per month. Remind you, my husband is working at the moment. Is it ok for me to be focused at the moment on getting financially situated as well as just unpacked. Is my husband right? Should my main priority at this moment be job searching or is it ok to spend the first few weeks just trying to figure things out? Should I tell my husband to calm down?

I'm a pretty private person. I don't tell any marriage details to anybody, including family. He knows I don't like him to share personal details about me (like medical issues) or any marriage issues, but he does. I told him that I understand if he needs to talk to his mom about stuff. A year ago at his family's party, I found him quietly and seriously talking to about 15 family members and when I came in everybody noticed and shushed him. As we cleaned up the party, everybody was watching me. When I asked him what he was talking about, he said he couldn't remember because he was too drunk and that it wasn't anything. Another time he told his mom about a medical issue of mine and his brother later called asking about it (she told him). I nicely asked him to please not do that in the future (being my personal issue). He said he would tell his mom that she shouldn't have told anybody. I told him not to because that would make her feel bad and to just tell her in the future if he told her anything personal about us to not tell anybody else. His family is definitely the kind to ask about this medical issue. But later that day when I came by to visit, nobody asked about it... He told them. And then I asked him if he told them (when I told him not to) and he lied and said he didn't. This has happened many times when he says he didn't tell anybody anything (because he knows I don't like it) and there's obvious reasons that he's lying. How do I get him to be more private?

I'm just wondering why it's ok to waste half your youth and marry when you are older to someone who has been rather spent and has slept with half the block, the older someone is and they are single, the likelier they have a higher number count. I find it disgusting to do things with someone who has done it all sexually with several other people, I feel like am getting their leftovers, and it makes things not special... Why is promiscuity so rampant ? Of course promiscuous people will say it's none of anyone's business how many people you've slept with, that's because they have no morals. Kind of like how ugly people say that looks don't matter it's all about personality.. well of course they would say that, they aren't hot !

I wasn't going to stab him. I only pulled it on him because he got aggressive in public. He was shoving me, pushing me so hard in the car to where our dog started jumping on me too, thinking we were being playful. My husband has been abusive in the past too, I've had a chair brake on my leg, I've been punched, slammed around, etc. I never did anything to defend myself but this time, I carry a screwdriver for self defense against anyone. He got aggressive and I got tired of it and pulled it on him. He got even more aggressive daring me to stab him with it. Then said how evil I am for trying to pull it on him. He took the screwdriver to keep it as evidence against me. When realistically speaking, I was just trying to defend myself. Am I wrong for that? He never admits he got a problem and instead, blames me for his actions.

I asked my wife the question about two weeks ago about how many men she has slept with before me, it has been bothering me for some time now that I suspect she could. BE lying to me she told me she has slept with 10 or 12 since the age of 15 when she first got pregnant with her first son now could she be telling me the truth,? or has she slept with 3 times of what she has told me cause id really like to nip this in the butt , I told her the truth about how many women I've been with since I was 19 and I was totally honest , I would appreciate any answeres is get on here

So my wife and I took a "break" or separated less than a week ago. I left the house because she wanted space and time to think. The only communication we've been having is about our son. other than that I have been giving her space. it's not easy because I care and love her alot. I have made lots of mistakes in our marriage. at the moment she doesn't trust me. has lots of anger with me. etc. I told her I would fight for our marriage but the tricky part is. How can I fight for our marriage when I need to give her space. how do i gain her trust back?

Thing is i got married with a gypsy man in Denmark. I dont know if it is a culture thing or what. But i notice that this man Looves to argue and win it. He loves to argue upto the point where i cry and when he comes to that point he doesnt even feel sorry or give me any comfort. Its like he enjoys seeing me like that. What is wrong with him? He has so much care for his sisters and family.. if they say anythng wierd or wrong to me it is Not a problem. But if i ever comment somthng wrong or deny to want to go to one of their food invitations Oooh he gets very upset about it. Should i leave this or what?

Him and I got married 2014. Right after the marriage, i couldn't get along with his roommate/ cousin. I left the apartment since January 1 2015. I have been separate with him in the state of MD for Over YR. Last week, him and i had a court hearing. He said to the judge at our first hearing that he wants to get a divorce but, that's not that accurate date him and I got separated. and he needs time to get his own lawyer and so he was requesting for another day which is schedule in October. Judge asked him, why doesn't he want to just come to term and so we get divorce because first, he wants to get divorce, i want to get divorce, we do not have kids , we have no property, basically we have nothing that would keep us together whats so ever. nor that i won anything that i could have given to him or vice versa. ever since i left , i moved in with a Guy friend ( nothing more ) I guess my question is, what is he trying to do? and If hes trying to say to the judge That I've cheated ( which i never did) what would happen to me? Thank you so much for helping me in this- I just want to have a better understand about his intentions

I'm 31, married for 10 years, have 3 children, and my wife decided she doesn't want to have sex anymore... like ever again. For many years there has been little to no intimacy from her. She doesn't hug or kiss me on her own and barely reacts when I do it to her. She won't cuddle, she doesn't even want to make time to go on dates. She has openly confessed after months of not having sex that she doesn't want to do it anymore. I have begged her to talk about this with friends, which she is refusing to do. I begged her to go to couples counseling, which she also rejected. She seems fully checked out, but won't tell me why other than it's not important to her and she doesn't want to force herself to do it to make me happy. She has even approved of me sleeping around because of her unwillingness to touch me. I'm at a loss here. I don't know what to do. I don't want to cheat and I'm feeling trapped because of my commitment to the kids. Should I send a message to her friends about it so they can at least discuss it with her?

My wife is 5'7" and I am 5'11" I am 27 and she is 23, since its 2016, high heels seem to be taller than before. It has happened like a dozen times, she puts on high heels and is taller than me and gets mad. She says that I make her feel like a drag queen because I am too short. She says she feels REALLY REALLY tall and like a giant because her high heels make her taller than her husband. I tell her its not my fault that I am only 5'11". She says flats are unflattering but she'll just have to make the sacrifice.

I met the love of my life when I met my husband. He is the most honest and kind guy I know and treats me so nice. When he introduced me to his friends they all liked me, and I liked them too. But when I met his female co-worker she was very distant. Till this day she has never said ten words to me. But she never came off as shy. It was almost as if my presence annoyed her. She would talk to my husband (THEN Bf) But act as if I wasnt there and didnt matter. After we got married her behavior toward me began to seriously hurt my feelings. She not only ignored me but gave me dirty looks and rolls her eyes when Im around! She even made my hubby angry (And it is difficult to make him mad) with the way she treats me. He told me in the past the she had made a few advances at him and he had turn her down. I didnt mind. It was in the past and way before me. My only concern is confusion at why she seems to hate me. As if I was wrong to be his wife and love him?I didnt marry this man out of personal spite toward her. We are in love thats all. Now he wont even talk to her because she has zero kindness or respect toward me and Ive been nothing but polite to her. I really wish I could understand how to move on from this. I feel like I should try to prove that Im no threat to her. And just because my husband wasnt interested in a relationship with her doesnt mean I am somehow better than her. I just happened to be the one for him. Im the one who is lucky! But she makes me feel awful for that

She asked me if I could get her I watch I told her that the one on the stove works perfectly fine!