Family: Question: My sister kissed me!!!!? |
- Question: My sister kissed me!!!!?
- Question: Why doesn't my dad call my sister by her nickname?
- Question: Should I let my daughter hang out with kids from other schools?
- Question: Is it bad if I use my sister's birthday present at times?
- Question: Am I being too sensitive or was this woman being rude?
- Question: Is it common for children to physically fight with their parents? :(?
- Question: QUICK ANWSERS! 11 yr old watches porn and masturbates?
- Question: How do i get my family to stop encourging my brother bully attitude towards me ?
- Question: How do I get my mother to let me see the family members she is mad at?
- Question: My 9 year old sister and my 11 year old brother make huge messes and i m the one who gets yelled at to clean it up.?
- Question: Deeply despise my parents?
- Question: What makes fathers ditch their wives and have the wives raise the kids alone with little or no support?
- Question: My great uncle is sarcastic and my mother says this is horrible, what is wrong with being sarcastic?
- Question: How do I get my mother to stop telling me things about her sex life with my step-Dad?
- Question: How to get your parents to move out??!?
- Question: Effects of having no father?
- Question: My friend's brother had sex with her when she was 4?
- Question: Would you forgive if they do this to you?
- Question: When I die will my parents look through my phone?
- Question: My dad controls me?
- Question: Sister wears underwear when we're alone?
- Question: Should my brother get married or what?
- Question: Am i in the wrong here (family problems)?
- Question: I am about to spend a week with my new sister in law, but we have never spent any time alone together. I am wondering how to bond with her?
- Question: My Brother Sexually Abused Me. My parents are making me hide it.?
- Question: Should PARENTS have picture of their KIDS IN THONGS, UNDERWEAR, bikini on their phone or computer?
- Question: I have an internet addiction and my dad won't let me use the laptop?
- Question: This all to the haters out there?
- Question: I punched my sister for a legitimate reason and I'm being punished for it. What do I do and was I wrong anyway?
- Question: I spent 480$ on games without my parents knowing what do I do?
- Question: Need advice for family situation?
- Question: Haven't Seen or Spoke to my Father in 5 years!?
- Question: I'm panicking because I can't raise my siblings anymore? My dad provides financially but I have to be the mom cuz my mom doesn't care AT ALL?
- Question: Might be kicked out?
- Question: Does it count as lncest if my cousin used their hand on my?
- Question: I made out with my brother's girlfriend. How can he forgive me?
- Question: Question about my impending insanity (mental health question)?
- Question: My mother is crawling on the floor laughing. She has not been drinking or anything, should I ask her if she is okay?
- Question: My friend has been feeding her baby since 10:00 and she is asleep should I unlatch the baby or not the baby is asleep to. We are at the park?
- Question: What would you do if your sister kept calling you dark skin and an ape in every argument you get into?
- Question: I accidentally caught my daughter cheating on her husband. I confronted her and she shunned me. What to do?
- Question: How to make my daughter feel accepted?
- Question: Was my mom flirting with my husband?
- Question: Why my parents are doing this?
- Question: Is my brother really alot better like my mother says, read below?
- Question: Why does my mother do this?
- Question: Should I feel guilty that I am not going to my great-uncle's birthday with my mother because my cousin is having a party?
- Question: My mother won't let go of old faults of others or supposed faults. Is this simply a flaw of hers I can point out and how do I respectfully?
- Question: I m going on holiday with my mum and GF but my mum and dad have split up, how do I tell him? He will find it odd if I tell him its just us 3?
- Question: Do you think it's appropriate that my 21 year old daughter let her 42 year old boyfriend sleep in my house WITHOUT MY PERMISSION?
- Question: My brother is in the sixth grade, but he acts like he's in second. Why?
- Question: Me and my brother were fighting?
- Question: Is my mom lying to me when she says that she would love me no matter what?
- Question: Should I let my friend breastfeed in the car or should I unlatch her?
- Question: I feel very trapped by my family obligations. What do I do?
- Question: "Brother-In-Laws" Kid and Girlfriend?
- Question: Am I overreacting about this and is there anything I can do?
- Question: What is a "brother in law?"?
- Question: Problem with my mom's friends who are Jesus freaks?
- Question: How to get rid of someone?
Question: My sister kissed me!!!!? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 02:01 PM PDT I was talking to her about school and stuff then she just kissed me out of ni where bd started to rub my boobs we ade both 11 i said stop and pushed her away but shes way stronger than me and push me to the bed and licked ny boobs i started to kick but she wouldn't budge i it tired and gave in i did not enjoy it one bit it was so awkward and bad I want to tell on her but i just can't! It this like rape or molest?? |
Question: Why doesn't my dad call my sister by her nickname? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:57 PM PDT My parents and my grandmother have called me Maddie since I was born and it's stuck ever since (although some of my teachers at school call me Madison). However, when my sister was born, my mom and my grandmother gave her the nickname "Isa" and my dad still called her Isabella, despite everyone around him using the nickname. When he refers to the two of us, he says "Maddie and Isabella." Do you have any idea why he might do that? Unlike me, my sister despises when someone uses her full name instead of Isa, so this has come to annoy her. |
Question: Should I let my daughter hang out with kids from other schools? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:55 PM PDT She doesn't have any friends from her own school and she'll be in grade 9 soon which is sophomore year here. She has a form of autism and she hangs out with a group of girls who don't go to her school and they're not in any of the same programs or anything with her together and they never were. They never went to school with her either and they're not family friends. Should I let her? They're the same age as her. She hangs out with them a lot and talk on the phone, online, and in person. They all attend the same school together except for just her. And she's 14.. |
Question: Is it bad if I use my sister's birthday present at times? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:49 PM PDT I use her drawing table at times and shes okay with it, but I feel bad. Is that wrong? And I also bought her it. |
Question: Am I being too sensitive or was this woman being rude? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:46 PM PDT So I went to my college to speak to a counselor about my program and getting a class added to my schedule. I spoke to one lady the first time but she didn't tell me everything I needed to know so I went back and sat around waiting for any available counselor. Another lady saw me and asked what I needed and I told her about getting a class added on. She asked me why and I said so I can get at least 12 credits or over, she looked at my schedule and in sort of a confrontational tone she said "why do you need more credits, are you doing this for financial aid"? I told her that was partially the reason but I just wanted to have more credits. She asked if I spoke to anyone else and I told her I spoke to one of the women at the faculty office and she says "well, I'm a counselor as well, I work with those ladies, my name is Mrs so-and-so, get your stuff and come with me", like as if she was pissed that I spoke to someone else before her. She takes me to her office and we sit down and she asks a couple more questions about why I wanted another class added on and again in that scolding tone she was like "are you that bad off that you can't survive without 100 percent financial aid?" Maybe I'll give the benefit of that doubt and say she was just tired from a long day of talking to so many people like me but I didn't noticed her being rude with all the other people she spoke to and I thought it was just rude of her to be making assumptions about me when she doesn't even totally know my financial situation. Am I just being touchy or was she being a jerk? |
Question: Is it common for children to physically fight with their parents? :(? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:45 PM PDT My mother was an alcoholic since I was born(she had postpartum depression), and I was a child with a pervasive developmental delay. I was very spirited and had a lot of tantrums many times. When I was 11-13 and got a little bigger though, a lot of anger and disappointment surfaced from my mom's drinking and our arguments escalated to slapping, hair-pulling, even biting sometimes, me pulling a knife on her, and even once I was so frustrated that I pushed her down our very small set of backdoor stairs once(when I say small I mean like 3 steps). My mom died from alcohol poisoning when I was 13(I'm 22 now). I now feel TERRIBLE that I did all of this stuff to her as a kid, because when she was sober she was the greatest mom :( I just wan't to know if I'm alone in my actions or not. Is it common for young kids to do things like this? Especially children of alcoholic parents? |
Question: QUICK ANWSERS! 11 yr old watches porn and masturbates? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:43 PM PDT My 11 yr old sister watches porn and humps her pillow and I called her down for eating and she did not come down so i went upstairs abd open our door and she was sitting on her bed and watching and masturbating I felt alarmed and closed the door I m 12 and i only masturbated 1 time she didn t notice me should i tell my mom i don t think there s anything wrong with it but do I tell my mom? |
Question: How do i get my family to stop encourging my brother bully attitude towards me ? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:36 PM PDT Last year (13)me and my (19)brother moved in with my uncle and cousin since my mom lost her job and was struggling .because im too young to work i earn money babysitting and doing work aroud the house (washing dishies,helping cook ,etc)but because im mostly at home and my brother works he tends to pick on me and critizise me for it.and it doesnt help when my uncle and cousin joke about how since i find babysitting tiring im going to drop.i know their joking but my brother uses their jokes as fuel to critisize me .my brother has completly stoped cleaning up after him self .he pees all over the toilet ,leaves the bathtube dirty ,leaves trash on the counter and leaves his dirty chlothes scattered in the bathroom.when i complain he insults me by calling me lazy among other things.once when i was sick and had a fever he even harrased me into doing what he wanted by picking the lock on my door and threating me and when i gave in he watched my while i cleaned and continuted to insult me by saying ill never get a good job if i let a small fever keep me frow working .granted my uncle doesnt know just how mean my brother is but he allows my brother to get away with not doing any work around the house and using excuses to defend him .im constantly unhappy living here me and my brother have never fought as much till now. i tried talking to my brother about our issues but he says im just being a cry baby .How do i fix this?im tired of feeling like a servant. |
Question: How do I get my mother to let me see the family members she is mad at? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:26 PM PDT I don't want to miss out on events like reunions and holidays just because Mom thinks people aren't fair to her. She doesn't let me go, I am 15 and a boy. My siblings don't mind but I do, I am tired of missing out. How can I get my mother to let me go? What do I need to say? |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:26 PM PDT My brother and sister make huge messes and i m the one that has to clean it up. I ve asked them to help with something but they just say "no" and "your not the boss of me". It s annoying af. My parents don t seem to understand that I DIDN"T DO ****! They just yell at me and say clean up the kitchen and clean up the basement even though I spend little time in either of those places. Please give me some advice on how to deal with this, thank you. |
Question: Deeply despise my parents? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:22 PM PDT They're horrible. Sure they're not perfect and do the best the can but their parenting is abysmal. There's so much I'm not even gonna go into that much depth. But the main point is what can I do to get away from them and have a better future. Notice I didn't use the word hate but despise. They are way to overprotective of me and even admit it because I'm the only son. They treat me like a piece of glass. Not to mention they were dumb enough to have 4 kids when they can barely take care of us. I'm not even allowed to close my door because they always want to monitor EVERYTHING. Not allowed to go outside because of the bad area I live in. They don't have a car so we rely on others.Talked about trust several times but still don't get freedoms. Force their beliefs on me even though I told them I don't follow. They're not even paying for college and only have high school diplomas. Their culture I actually hate so much. I'm not even allowed to have a girlfriend and I'm almost a grown man! The list goes on but that's the basics. It feels like I was born into despair. Some have it way beyond worse than me but this sucks. What can I do? |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:22 PM PDT Few of the people I know have Dads |
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Question: How do I get my mother to stop telling me things about her sex life with my step-Dad? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:15 PM PDT I'd really not like to know that they "did it" when she closed the door last night and that it is the reason my step-Dad is in a better mood today. |
Question: How to get your parents to move out??!? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 01:13 PM PDT So I'm 13 and I live in this small 1 bedroom apartment with my sister and parents. (I have to sleep in the living room.) Anyways we have been here for over 6 years and I really want to move out. My mom and sister has agreed but my dad on the other is too attached. (We have the money to move out btw so I'm not just a spoiled brat 😓) the apartment is infected with roaches everywhere!! In the bathroom, kitchen and even behind my bed... at night I can't sleep cause I'm pardoned that one of them might crawl out. And spiders are starting to move in too so yay??? I really don't understand why my dad wants to stay here considering it's not a money problem. Any advice?? |
Question: Effects of having no father? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:58 PM PDT Im 14 now. i had no father till i was 6. I had that step father until i was 12. Then, I won't have a father ever. My mom isnt planning on getting a father figure for me or anything, so, im wondering what are the effects of having no father from 12 years old to the rest of my life? I am a boy btw. i cant do anything with my mom, she works all day. i have no friends too. i tried convincing my mom to go to the gym with me, (i can only use the gym with adult), but she said no. Therefore i cant do anything at all. i stayed home for two whole years isolated. never once outside. (except school). |
Question: My friend's brother had sex with her when she was 4? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:53 PM PDT My friend has 4 siblings: two older brothers, 1 older sister, and 1 younger brother. When she was 4, her, her sister, and two older brothers were playing truth or dare. She told me none of them knew what they were doing. Her oldest brother was about 8-10 at the time. He ended up putting it inside her, and putting it in her mouth. He didn't know, nor did any of 4 of them know. She's not lying, you can tell its bothered her. Is this normal? |
Question: Would you forgive if they do this to you? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:50 PM PDT Sister-in-law and her immediately family are tenants. The monthly mortgage is 395 and they used to pay $450, which is $200-250 below the fair market rent if rent to outsider. Then they found out the mortgage is 395 so now they pay $400 monthly. I felt this was so disrespectful to me, my husband did not say anything. I hated this and I cut all the ties including facebook. It was been almost a year now she wants to add me as her friend on FB. She still owes back rents. The thing that I'm still mad the most is they manually lower the rent without asking me. I asked my husband why the rent is $400 instead of $450? He couldn't explain why, he didn't know why $400. Probably his family manipulated him something. We paid for repairs including new kitchen and remodel the house. I felt like they walked over us. To make the family on both sides happy, we decide to be silent on this. His parents know what's going on but they don't say anything. Right now his dad takes care of collecting rents and pay the mortgage directly for us. |
Question: When I die will my parents look through my phone? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:41 PM PDT |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:31 PM PDT 19 & my dad controls me like I'm 10. Ive only been to community college. Want to become a dentist, but was never allowed to complete high school so it's going to be a mission... One I'm willing to take, yet he keeps blocking me and making it hard. From something like that, to constantly pressuring me to get married (even bringing guys for me to meet), to getting me into major trouble for taking my co-worker home after work yesterday (at 6.30 pm, she lives 20mins away. It was that or let her stay in the office alone at night for 1.5hrs for her husband), to threatening to make me quit my job and current career as a dental assistant - with one of the best dentists and college teachers who can make my ticket into college a little easier & my marks a lot better - if I ever go anywhere other than work class and home again, certainly if I don't ask before I go. I must text him when I arrive at work and when I leave. My employer is paying for a trip (for her entire college class + her surgery staff) to an absolutely gorgeous tropical island to do charity dental work, and I can't go (not appropriate for a lady). I'm **** scared that I'm going to end up old and regretful that I never lived my dreams bc of him. But in my culture, respect and listening to parents wishes doesn't end once you turn 18. Obeying them continues till you get married, then you have a reason to respectfully live your life (still listening to them on a milder scale). Help? How do I make him loosen up?! I should add that I live in Australia, not the US. Really I went to TAFE, I've heard that community college is the equivalent in the US? I won't get any GPA (not sure exactly what that is, some sort of score I assume) that gets my into college though (which we call university/uni) In Australia, tafe is fairly easy to get into. Very little requirements. College/uni/dentistry school is much, much harder. Regarding the arranged marriage, it's arranged not forced, so the girl is given plenty of say in the matter. I don't have a problem with arranged marriages (the way my culture does them at least), but I'm 19 for heavens sake. I don't think marriage is the end of your life & I'd love to marry one day, but for now I'm still finding myself & figuring my life out @samantha: What am I running away? Lol? And do you think my entire family will just let me disappear? We may have our problems, but we're a family. Plus what Americans don't seem to get is that in a community, u need to be careful what you do and how u taint your name, n I'm very involved in my community @gary - because unlike Americans, Australians don't move out once we turn 18. We support our families, grow up with them, enjoy them before life takes them away. We fix family problems rather than run away from them. And in my particular part of Australia, we find a man/woman to fall in love with, then transition from living with parents to living with said person. College/uni is not usually a time to move out. We study in the cbd/city of our state. Unless we don't have the marks to get in. |
Question: Sister wears underwear when we're alone? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:23 PM PDT When our parents are out my sister wears only a shirt and underwear. But when our parents are home she almost always wears shorts or pants. Why does she do this? |
Question: Should my brother get married or what? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 12:01 PM PDT Hello, all. My older brother is 33 and I'm 23, and with the way things are currently going, it's not good. Through his life, he's been in and out of so many relationships. There were a short few of his girlfriends I got to know and love, though, they didn't stay long. One reason is that my brother has a drinking problem and gets very angry at them. They said that's he's nice and friendly, but just don't like when gets into one of those moods. One of his GFs (an older woman) convinced him to steal for her and himself, which he did from the liquor store, my mom's apartment, and my coins I saved up stored in mom's closet. My brother recently got together with a friend of my girl cousin's who is a divorcee. They only dated for 3 - 5 months, and already wants to get married this year on August 20th. His fiance already had plans arranged before then and told EVERYBODY. They are not financially stable, and get upset with each other often. He just lost his job, his fiance is living off of monthly check from SS, and her sister is there for IDK even. He's the one doing all of the work around the house they now live in while she's lazing around with her teenager fussing at both of them with said fiance's sister manipulating him out of jealous and causing problems as well. I care for my brother, but I borderline like and dislike her. I know it shouldn't be any of my business, but I personally think they should wait a while longer or split up if nothing's resolved. |
Question: Am i in the wrong here (family problems)? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:59 AM PDT So i have this aunt who absolutely hates me for God knows what reason.. Anyway, she said something about me, and her son (my 6 year old cousin) came back to me and told me. She said that i needed to get a job! Keep in mind that she no longer lives (here) with her mom so we never see one another and she doesn't know what goes on in this house. Also, keep in mind that when she does come to visit she never says anything to me! She does not speak to me but i'm always the one who has to be the bigger person and speak to her! I have spoken to her but she didn't even look at me when she said hey. Back to the topic, after her son told me what she said, i immediately messaged her how i felt and told her that i'm tired of her treating me like this and that she is nothing to me now. She always makes rude comments towards me but i always get blamed when i defend myself. She told my grandma (her mom) about the message that i sent her and my grandma basically told me to "pack my sh*t and leave". I do have a job but i don't get paid a lot.. i'm a housekeeper but at least it's something. I wasn't working when my aunt made that comment, i was in between jobs (looking) so she didn't know what she was talking about... i just want to know if i'm in the wrong because everyone is taking her side here! My grandma still hasn't said anything to me. I wouldn't have been bothered by what she said but its the fact that she did not speak to me when she was here and yet she felt that she had a right to say that "i need to get a job". She was not coming from a good place when she said it.. i'm sick of her! Why do i always get blamed for defending myself. I promise you all this isn't the first time she has tried to get under my skin and then go play victim to my grandmother... |
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Question: My Brother Sexually Abused Me. My parents are making me hide it.? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:36 AM PDT My brother sexually abused me for a few years of my childhood. I am 13 now. The things he did are things that shouldn't be brushed off. My parents have forgiven him, and they're making me lie to the police and tell them nothing happened. This has greatly affected me. I believe they don't care about what he has done to me. Yesterday I told them I wanted to tell the truth. My mom is forcing me to read a book about healing and then make a decision. But I have made my decision. I don't care if he's my brother, what he did was NOT okay, and the fact that my parents are supporting him through all of this really shows where their priorities are at. What should I do? Is it okay for my parents to be doing this? Should I tell my councelor the truth? I've thought about this decision for months. |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:29 AM PDT ITS ODD, MANY PARENTS have nude photos of their kids on their phone. or only in underwear, bikini, or thongs. they keep it on their phone or on computer. THE PARENTS SAY, I AM THE PARENT AND can have such photos as long as no molestation or rape. THIS IS STRANGE. MANY PARENTS HAVE SEEN their kids nude besides diaper change. I mean, they watch their kids bathe and shower. wow |
Question: I have an internet addiction and my dad won't let me use the laptop? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:26 AM PDT so i have to live with my crazy mother andd it's weird in my head again |
Question: This all to the haters out there? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:20 AM PDT Play the The Lonely Island Quiz "**** Off" Hey Yo! This one is dedicated to all the little kids out there Who's parents are always riding them Telling them to 'do your homework' Never letting you eat desert Making you go to bed before you're ready Well listen The next time they are acting bogus I want you to try this out Stand up on your tippy toes Look them dead in the eye And say "Mom, Dad, you can both... **** off, I don't want your life I don't owe you **** And I hate your rules **** off, so get out of my room You can suck my dick ************* ****-head ***** You can **** oh-oh oh-oh I'm gonna live forever Oh-oh oh-oh I hope you get butt ****** in prison" And that's what you should say But what about at school How many kids out there have a teacher That's always ridding them? Saying "don't eat paste, don't talk during nap time" Well the next time your teacher is being a grumpasaurus Stand tall, look them dead in the eye And say "teacher, could you help me out and just... **** off, you can't teach me **** And if I was you, I'd slit my wrist **** off, cause I might be young But I'll dig your grave, 'til the job is done You can **** oh-oh oh-oh I'm gonna live forever Oh-oh oh-oh I hope you get butt ****** in prison" Because we are the kids in the USA We think for ourselves, so get the **** out our way And all you adults can choke on **** We hope you suffocate on a dog's dick think I'm a troll and stuff well this is for you stupid *** people https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MyXNIQg1t-o |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:15 AM PDT This morning my family got up so we can go to ocean city and my sister got her phone taken away from her (she's 13 and I'm 14) for the day because she was being distracted. I had my phone, ipad, and laptop with me for the trip because we were staying there for 2 weeks. My sister asked could she use one of them and I said no, politely. She asked why and I had told her these multiple reasons. 1. She already got her phone taken and I didn't want her to be on any of my devices because of this 2. She has had 5 phones and all of them broke because of her lack of responsibility 3. I paid for these devices with my own summer job money She then got mad at me but while we were driving she kept on asking and annoying me about it. When we arrived at the hotel To all honesty she acted like a *****, and a brat. When we were told to bring the bags to the room we got in and she started cussing at me while I started laughing bcuz she doesn't know how to cuss phrases properly and then she got my laptop and pretty much smashed it. I got furious punched her in the nose and she got a nose bleed, then she ran and told my dad that I punched her. He got mad at me I told him he broke my laptop and he said he didn't care and slapped me. I honestly didn't care and I just walked off to the gym to blow off some steam. I must admit the only reason why my dad got mad at me was bcuz I work out but I'm not even masculine enough to the point where I could seriously hurt her! What do you parents think? |
Question: I spent 480$ on games without my parents knowing what do I do? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:14 AM PDT |
Question: Need advice for family situation? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 11:13 AM PDT Hi so my mom has been wanting to divorce my dad for over 11 years but they're paying off an apartment together and my mom won't be able to pay the monthly payments by her self and also my dad probably won't agree for a divorce. My mom hasn't told him that she wants a divorce yet in order to keep the peace. He doesn't drink or cheat or anything like that and he's not physically abusive. But the problem is that he's not open to anyone's opinion but his and everything has to be his way, if it's not he gets verbally abusive and it's really difficult to live with him. Me and my mom are always on edge and have to be careful of what we say because he'll get really upset in an instant. Talking to him won't help and will probably make it worse. Any advice would be very helpful! Thank you |
Question: Haven't Seen or Spoke to my Father in 5 years!? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 10:56 AM PDT I am a 22 year old female my father has been in and out of prison my whole life for the first 10 years of my life he was incarcerated so my mother was a single mom. When he had gotten out of prison he was basically what you call a "seasonal dad" meaning he only did things for me on special occasions like Christmas my birthday back to school things like that I would go months without seeing him and when I called him or he called me our phone calls lasted about 2 or 3 minutes total. My senior year in high school I had a lot of things coming up prom graduation college so I needed him to help me and my mom out that year he didn't want to do I cut all ties with him and it's been 5 years he hasn't tried to contact me in any way no graduation congrats no happy birthday no ARE YOU ALIVE? no nothing . Should I reach out or just continue to live my life? |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 10:40 AM PDT She has schizophrenia. I have to be THE PARENT. 4 younger siblings. I want to kill myself so dad would HAVE to get someone more capable to help the children. |
Question: Might be kicked out? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 10:40 AM PDT So, some **** went down and I think I may be kicked out To summarize, my brother figured out on his own that he is not my fathers child. It was causing him a lot of turmoil and grief that he was being lied to about it so I confirmed it for him and told him that our parents love him very much and that my mom told the other guy to not bother them so we could be a family. He felt a lot better once I was honest with him about it. My mom and sister however are furious that I told him. My dad doesn t know (parents are now divorced.) my sister has already told me off about it as well as attack me on other aspects of my life (mainly my boyfriend) and told me not to speak to her again. My mom flatly told me i was wrong to do that and is now ignoring me. I think I ll be kicked out but even if I m not, I should probably go. I ve felt like I should go for a while but this really confirms it for me. I m 18 and starting a new job tomorrow. I have no savings, and $40 to my name currently. The quickest solution would be going to my dads but he lives across the country so it would mean giving up this new job and leaving my friends and boyfriend here. How can I get the **** out of things get ugly? |
Question: Does it count as lncest if my cousin used their hand on my? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 10:36 AM PDT |
Question: I made out with my brother's girlfriend. How can he forgive me? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 10:20 AM PDT My brother was dating this girl, I know her for a long time, we used to be friends, that's how she met my brother (we are 17, he is 2 years older than us). Once they began dating, she was around all the time, and I started to have feelings for her. I think I always did, but it got worse. The other night, she was here, my brother was asleep, she came to watch TV with me, we talked for a while and were drinking some wine (I know it's no excuse). Then we started making out and were about to have sex when she stopped everything. She was right, I wasn't thinking, I was doing the worst thing possible to my own brother. Anyway, she couldn't keep it in so she told him everything. He broke up with her and gave me a black eye (I didn't fight back, our mother got in the way). He is moving out and he says the only reason he doesn't kill me is because of our parents, but I'm dead to him. I'm feeling awful, my whole family is broken because I did a stupid thing. Is there anyway he can forgive me for this? Can I convince him to stay and not move out? |
Question: Question about my impending insanity (mental health question)? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:55 AM PDT I am asking this as I hope for honest, all joking and cruelty aside answers to a serious issues in my life . My mother is 64 and a complete wreck. My dad passed away in 14 from cirrhosis. My mother is also an alcoholic. I have had to move back to my very childhood home to pay her bills (my husband, daughter and I ) because she couldn t take care of herself. Now it has been a year, we are having to buy and pay for everything EXCEPT. her beer, she drinks 10 a night starting at 5 till usually 12am I have to go out and buy it because she won t leave the house I just had surgery and am not supposed to life anything hysterectomy. But still she expects me to go every four to five days andbuy 4 twelve packs of beer, put them in the car and then unload them too. She literally does nothing. I feel so helpless ,I have asked her to go get it herself and she turns into a child pouting and whining until finally I just do it myself. Her lifestyle is very unhealthy she has caused my husband, and daughter to lose all respect for her. But she sees nothing wrong with her behavior? I cook, clean, work, I have to take care of her as well and she is like an ungrateful teenager who utilizes every manipulative tactic she knows to get us to do everything for her. From I don t know how to im not able because I can t breathe as she has emphysema I am just about to go nuts she has acted this way my entire life. How do I handle this? I feel so alone! |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:50 AM PDT She is known to do weird things. I don't want to embarrass her. She is laughing and not in any pain or anything. She is only 61. |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:36 AM PDT So we are both mixed I came out darker and she came out lighter and she always thinks she is better than others because she is lighter. She will say a person of a darker complexion oh dark skin or ape if they get on her nerves under her breath. She is 21 and I'm 24 and she is constantly singing the same old tune. She has chrons disease so I called her out on that because I snapped. How do I deal with this constant ignorance from her? |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:24 AM PDT My husband and I were in a road trip. I stopped by at a coffee place and I saw my daughter trying to hide from me. I spoke to the man she's with if he knows she's married and it seems he's clueless about her having a husband. He confirmed they've been seeing each other. When I caught up with her, all she said was to butt out and that she's very unhappy. Her boyfriend stayed with her the whole time as we questioned her. My husband called her a liar (she's suppose to be on a business trip). We ended up cancelling our road trip, told her boyfriend to go home but she left with him. We tried contacting her for the past three days but she refused to go back. She's due to return to her husband but he hasn't heard from her either. Should we tell him? How do we get her to speak to us? |
Question: How to make my daughter feel accepted? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:23 AM PDT My family is an italian family.. i have a daughter who is half black and italian, and she looks hispanic... sometimes i think she feels left out or not accepted because she is the only one of color in the family since my other kids are from another women that is also white. I feel for her... can someone please help?! i love my daughter... shes also 13. I am her father. |
Question: Was my mom flirting with my husband? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:23 AM PDT My plan was for me and my husband to take my single mother to dinner for her birthday. I had to work late so I called my husband to pick up my mother and bring her to the restaurant and I would meet them later and that is what he did. My mother ALWAYS has a great sense of humor. At dinner she said "I am disappointed". When I asked her why she said "My first date in 10 years and he did not try to get into my pants". I told her that if he did try, he could say goodbye to his balls and I don't mean his golf balls. We all had a good laugh. My husband said "Ouch, that even hurts to think about it. He told my mom "Just like your daughter, you are beautiful and you will not have any trouble finding guys that would want to date you". "Even guys my age will want to". Mom said "None of them will be as good looking as my daughter's husband". OH MY GOD. Is my mother flirting with my husband OR are we just having a fun conversation? |
Question: Why my parents are doing this? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:14 AM PDT My parents are giving Iphone 5s to my Brother-in-Law which costs around 22,000. But when I ask them for money, they don't give me. A year back my speakers went kaput, so when I asked them for new speaker, they said that budget is too expensive for Rs 2,500 and I ended p with a low-quality Rs 1000 speakers. I don't think they love me at all. |
Question: Is my brother really alot better like my mother says, read below? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 09:05 AM PDT So my brother is 23. He has had a long history of behavioral problems. He no longer lives at home so he is not raging at my mother anymore (since he is not living there). He was doing drugs and he has successfully gone sober and I applaud him for that (1 year sober). He also is working. However, he still has sex with lots of girls. Not like his girlfriend has sex before marriage but having lots of sex with lots of girls. He also has a totally unrealistic view of the world though that might pass with maturity. So I feel he is a little better but not much (the sex offends me as a girl). Am I right or am I being too judgemental? |
Question: Why does my mother do this? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:57 AM PDT My mother has always mocked every friend I've had from grade school on. She will think it is funny to tell me she thinks they are fat, funny looking, wear weird clothes, have a strange accent etc. In fact my mother mocks everyone behind their backs and she thinks it's funny, even her close friends. Why does she do this? |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:51 AM PDT My cousin on my father's side of the family is having a party and I am going to go to that instead of my great-uncle's 80th with my mother. My mother was a little offended since she is divorced from my Dad and I'll be going with my Dad and step-mother but she doesn't mind me seeing my cousins (just that I'm seeing my Dad and step-mother). Since it is my cousins and my age I want to go to that party and not the great-uncle (age 80) though I do like the great-uncle. So should I feel guilty or is it nothing to feel guilty over? The parties are the last weekend in August. |
Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:48 AM PDT She doesn't do it to us kids but like she is still mad at her sister for a personality conflict from 2007-2008. She makes jabs about some stuff this sister did in the 1980's during their last clash. I have seen her (my mother) do this to other people also. So is this a a flaw of hers and how do I point it out respectfully since it is my mother I am referring to not like if I had a kid or something. Also I like this aunt my mother does this to. |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:32 AM PDT I also have 2 other children who live at the house. A 14 year old son and a 17 year old daughter who sleeps two doors down the hall. I just moved into a new house too. I don't want him here, and I absolutely did not give her permission to let him sleep the night. She came home late, and I guess let him upstairs to stay the night. |
Question: My brother is in the sixth grade, but he acts like he's in second. Why? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:23 AM PDT I'm in the ninth grade. My brother, as mentioned above, is in sixth. Whenever I talk to him alone, he's nice and we make a bit of conversation. When my mom enters the room, he hollers, "SHE HIT ME!" and I try to defend myself by saying I didn't, but my mother never believes me. One time, I was super stressed for an exam, and I asked my mom for a glass of water, since her arm was near the pitcher on the table. My brother snapped, "Can't you do it yourself?" I was shocked; I just asked for a glass of water, but there he was, getting FED BY HAND, and he's implying that I'm lazy. So, as I said, I was stressed, so I snapped back, "Why can't you just shut up?" That was it - no swearing or name calling. He got so angry, got up, walked around the table, and punched me, hard, in the arm, and my mother had nothing to say, except, "Don't hit your sister." Why did that happen? |
Question: Me and my brother were fighting? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:21 AM PDT i say yes, do you need to say thank you to your family for anything |
Question: Is my mom lying to me when she says that she would love me no matter what? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 08:12 AM PDT |
Question: Should I let my friend breastfeed in the car or should I unlatch her? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 07:56 AM PDT |
Question: I feel very trapped by my family obligations. What do I do? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 07:52 AM PDT I'm 22, female, recent college graduate. I live with my mother and brother (28). I'm close to my mother but my brother and I don't have much of a bond because he's always at work and is not much of a talker. We get along and talk about trivial things maybe once a week but we're not close. My mother isn't close to him either, but they get along. Anyway, I'm like the common denominator that keeps communication flowing. None of us have social lives and I'm sick of it. Whenever I talk about moving away my mother says how awkward it will be without me in the house and how my brother will be lonely. He doesn't have conversations with me anyway. Nobody cares about my feelings. I have depression and anxiety and they don't think mental illness exists. I really want to move away, live my life, have excitement and just enjoy my youth. But I feel so trapped. I don't want to hurt their feelings but I don't want to live in misery either. What do I do? I'm afraid they'll be lonely without me, especially my Mom because we talk all the time. She said phonecalls aren't the same. |
Question: "Brother-In-Laws" Kid and Girlfriend? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 07:50 AM PDT My fiance and I recently got engaged, and I'm dealing with a lot of stress regarding his brother's kid and girlfriend. I had been trying to get along with her lately. We had a rough past. Then I heard from another family member that the girlfriend said that the kid was ruining their lives and that she would give anything to get rid of her every chance she gets. When I asked the niece about it she didn't want to talk about it. I'm nervous to say anything to the brother cause the daughter didn't directly tell me what happened and I don't want to spread lies. I'm also afraid it will stir up family drama. How should I handle this? Is it easiest to mind my own business? How can I stop it from eating me up? I've known the kids since she was three too. So she's very much a niece to me, and it's hard to see her get emotionally abused. |
Question: Am I overreacting about this and is there anything I can do? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 07:46 AM PDT My little sister (who is 6 years old) attends an Elementary School in our area. I know for a fact that she is not happy there, because she tells me that she has no friends. To be honest, her approach is a little bit awkward as she would preposition the others by asking them "would you like to play with me" only to be rebuffed. She has not made a friend since she started (they are now on break). She is noted by her teachers to be top of the class but to always be in a world of her own so this may be why. Recently she has been a target of bullying by some girls and a lot of boys (especially the boys). One boy in particular has told her that "God does not like her" and has attacked her twice (he was trying to get her to do it, but she refused and he attacked her first) then accused her of attacking him. She told me that on both occasions she was called up to the front of the class and asked in front of everyone if she attacked him, but even though she said no the teacher would not believe her so she eventually admitted to doing it (even though she got in to trouble). The second occasion the whole class backed the boy up so there was nothing she could do. She even told me that one of the other teachers (who had always been very nice to her up until that point) told her (admittedly after she asked for help) that she was not speaking to her because she "lied" and more or less told her to go away (i doubt it was in those words exactly but I'm guessing that is what she meant) cont. (cont) this boy also allegedly followed her into the girls bathrooms and attacked her (although the witnesses backed him up again and the teacher did not believe her). I have also heard some horror stories about another student "touching her" inappropriately in the bathrooms too (this was a girl however and she seemed to view it as them "just playing", but I was worried) as well as her being ignored and called a "liar by teachers many times. Our parents have been told about this, and the (cont) (cont) inappropriate bathroom behaviour has been sorted out, however in regards to the bullying they have told her that she needs to "toughen up". However, I think that the school is doing a very poor job in regards to her well being. Is there anything I can do as I am a soon to be Freshman in College? |
Question: What is a "brother in law?"? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 07:24 AM PDT Okay I know what it is, but I'm just trying to be specific. So would your sister's husband be considered your brother in law? What about your sister's husband's brother? |
Question: Problem with my mom's friends who are Jesus freaks? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 07:19 AM PDT So to make this make sense,I've been diagnosed with depression & anxiety and haven't really been able to function(aka get out of the house)so it's affected my mother which I don't get along with at all and now she's depressed. Being vulnerable, it's normal for people to result to things like religion as a way to find hope. This is a woman who was doing witchcraft months ago with her friends but now has suddenly "repented to God" now that she's sick as well. So she invited these Hispanic Jesus freaks and they called basically barged into my room without asking and told me their "story" of how they found God when they were depressed and basically didn't take no for an answer when I told them I didn't want to participate in prayer. I let them pray for me because I'm not a confrontational person and didn't want to be rude. Fast forward to this morning and I had gotten no sleep last night and I felt awful and all my mom would do was ignore me and say I was being a pain in the butt and saying she would kick me out tomorrow on my 18th b-day so I started crying and ended up throwing my phone across the room and it broke. Then she went nuts and went all CNN on me telling everyone on her phone contacts what a disgraceful, undeserving daughter I am . I quietly left to go to my room and the Jesus freak lady who I only had met once came into my room and told me that if I didn't change my ways I was going to hell and that she saw bad things in my future and forced me to pray. What do I do? She made me apologize to my mom for hating her and I told her up front it wouldn't be genuine if I did and she said I better do it because she didn't come all the way here for me not to accept her help(I never called her! my mom did)so I falsely apologized and now, even though I don't believe in those things(I'm agnostic)I'm worried about what she said that I have horrible things coming to me in my future but that she couldn't tell me what.That's not something you say to someone that has anxiety |
Question: How to get rid of someone? Posted: 02 Aug 2016 06:54 AM PDT My mother left some time ago and now it's simply me and my father in our current home. My father has seemingly allowed some woman to stay with us. I haven't seen her actually sleeping here, but she's here everyday. The other day however I'm pretty sure she was laying in my father's bed talking with him. I do not like this woman... I silently loathe her very presence, which has lead me to trying a number of ways to try and dissuade her from lingering. Namely being creepy and overall weird to the point that I seem like I could appear to be possessed. I've also taken to spreading tale of spirits in my home, and creatures outside at night. Though I can't really tell if it's having a noticeable effect in scaring her or making her think twice. I know very well this woman is likely sapping away at my money in the bank due to my father having access. I'm quite sure he has been buying her things and giving her money... MY money. I also know there is a likely growing relationship between her and my father that will no doubt not go well. I need to get rid of her and stop the two from talking and overall any form of contact. |
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