Marriage & Divorce: Question: My husband makes $33,000 a year. We only have one child, how much will child support take away from him? |
- Question: My husband makes $33,000 a year. We only have one child, how much will child support take away from him?
- Question: Does your sex life and going out slow down a lot after marriage?
- Question: Who did jason mraz marry?
- Question: Husband is whining about sex?!?
- Question: Suspecting child abuse...?
- Question: I have been dating this married man for 2 and a half years and for the past year have lived with him n his wife.?
- Question: What would be a good one year anniversary present for my husband?
- Question: Was this rude of my sister-in-law?
- Question: My wife told me she been wanting a big cock?
- Question: My wife ended our relationship, she wants to stay friends. We have a baby she facetimes me to see my daughter sometimes wat do I do?
- Question: I don't believe in marriage ?
- Question: I'm in a hard place between my husband and my parents?
- Question: How to get marriage license quickly?
- Question: Can x husband retract his parental right relenquishment papers?
- Question: Is it normal for a woman to spend hundreds per month on clothes/perfume/makeup? I'm having doubts about marrying her?
- Question: Is 20 too young to get engaged?
- Question: I been ******* my cousin for 5 years now, she is related by marriage do you think it is wrong?
- Question: Would you sign a prenup if the man you loved asked you to sign one in order to marry him ?
- Question: What all does a prenuptial agreement state?
- Question: Wife loves legal contracts?
- Question: Can a husband co sign loan for home for daughter without his wife s permission?
- Question: Is it ok for your wife to go to a strip club while you are deployed with another husband my friend and not his wife I've never gone with her?
- Question: Difference between certified marriage license VS. certified marriage certificate?
- Question: Is it ok for a 50 year old man who has been married for 25 years and is in the midst of a divorce to date another women in the midst of it?
- Question: My husband wants a divorce but I don't?
- Question: Why didn't my husband's female co-worker didn't say nice to meet you when we were introduced?
- Question: Should I tell my ex our childs thoughts on his new wife?
- Question: Parents kicking me out because Im pregnant?
- Question: Fiance never brings up plans?
- Question: We are going to marry but I started to doubt if he really loves me?
- Question: Would it be a good idea if my husband lived away from us while he works?
- Question: How to become a mail order bride.?
- Question: Poll: Did anyone actually wait to have sex before getting married?
- Question: I m not sure what to think of the words that came out of my husbands mouth. Any word of advice would help.?
- Question: If you are single and never married, is it a sin to have sex with married men?
- Question: My husband is an alcoholic what should I say to get him into rehab?
- Question: Is it really rude for me to burst out laughing if my husband tells me that I am insensitive and I never listen?
- Question: Don't want to fight anymore?
- Question: What do you think of a marriage where the husband or wife doesn't like the other spouse all that much?
- Question: My husband caught me peeing in a cup when the toilets in the house were occupied.?
- Question: How to get my ex-husband back?
- Question: Men would you marry a woman who has children with another guy?
- Question: What comes first in a Woman's life her Son, Father, Or Husband?
- Question: MARRIED FILLING TAXES?
- Question: My dad has never been proud of me and I don't know what to do about it.?
- Question: Sometimes I fake it to boost my husband's ego. Like when he makes lasagna or pizza. Should I just be truthful with him?
- Question: My husband accused me of cheating after catching me buying tampons.?
- Question: When a married man has an affair with another woman does that mean he is in love with his wife?
- Question: Child support laws in ohio. I have a question?
- Question: Is it ok for a 50 year old man who has mean married for 25 years and is in the midst of a divorce to date another women in the midst of it?
- Question: Is it OK to cook fattening food for my husband, so he gets fat and becomes unattractive to the shameless women he works with?
- Question: So me and this co worker have been dating for 4 to 5 months both married...?
- Question: I just found out my husband has a foot fetish?
- Question: Am I giving my husband what he is asking for?
- Question: Why would a guy do this to his wife?
- Question: What is the right thing to do here. Please help.?
- Question: I don t understand why married actors/actresses can still have sex scenes (not with their spouses) in their films.?
- Question: What should I do as the boy friend of a fatherless girl?
- Question: Please help me sort out my feelings about this.?
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| Question: Does your sex life and going out slow down a lot after marriage? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:59 PM PST My boyfriend of 5years and I have sex AT LEAST twice a day and go out at least once a week but when we joke about how active our sex life is around our friends they say it isn't gonna be the same after we get married or after we have kids we wont have time it makes me scared to get married and start a family because I love our relationship as it is and I want to be young and have fun right now and wait until i'm like at least 30 and more financially stable to have kids or get married but him and his parents are like if she wont commit to you and start a family maybe she isn't serious about you... I had such a good relationship with his family a year ago and I feel like they just want whats best for them (grandchildren) and not whats best for us but he wants to get married and start a family too.. idk what to do it's kind of ruining my relationship |
| Question: Who did jason mraz marry? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:40 PM PST |
| Question: Husband is whining about sex?!? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:37 PM PST Husband wants sex. Ok fine. Let's! But he is whiny and annoying the s$it out of me. He carries on like a 2 year old if it isn't exactly where and when he wants it. For example tonight I told him I need to take a shower and finish the dishes then yes let's. I said give me 45 minutes then I'm good to go. No. Instead his *** falls asleep on the couch. I woke him up and he slapped my hand away and I said so are you ready? And he ignored me and ran off into the bedroom and I told him ok I guess that means I'm going to bed? He says yes get out of my face I need to sleep so I can hit the gym at 5am. So the freaking gym wins over sex because he couldn't wait 45 min for me to finish cleaning the kitchen and shower. Freaking whiner! Sounds like a brat right? |
| Question: Suspecting child abuse...? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:34 PM PST My husband and I suspect there is some chid abuse/neglect towards a family member we take care of sometimes she is a child and we have found multiple marks and bruises on her multiple times. I have taken pictures to document but haven't done anything cause I am not sure and I would feel absolutely awful if its nothing and I accused. But I feel awful if there is something going on and i haven't done anything. I am also afraid that the child will get placed somewhere else or in foster care. My husband and I feel the best place for her would be with us since she knows us and is comfortable with us this is practically her second home. We have been with her since she was born. We live in CA I have the number to CPS and plan on calling tomorrow. Just thought I'd get some peoples opinions. |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:31 PM PST Believe me it wasn't easy considering I left my 12 year marriage for him and built lots of feelings. So sneaking wasn't easy. His wife found out we he has been having an affair with me. Thank god I am no longer living there when she found this out. I still love him n he still talks to me nothing has changed. We have been long distance for a month now 16 hours away. What should I do. He says in a week he will be here with me. What should I do...serious opinions only I don't need the ignorance. |
| Question: What would be a good one year anniversary present for my husband? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:29 PM PST |
| Question: Was this rude of my sister-in-law? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:20 PM PST My engagement ring has a diamond in it that belonged to my husband's mother's mother's mother. It was passed from mother to daughter until my generation. It is of very high quality, and would be expensive to buy in a store. My mother in law graciously gave my husband the diamond for my engagement ring, as it hadn't been worn for a long time and would save us a lot of money. My husband's sister said it was fine if we used it and she would not feel overlooked. She has never been married. My sister in law has a 5 year old daughter. While we were over at "Julie's" house, she asked us if we were planning on having any children (we had been married less than a year). I told her I didn't plan to, but you never know how life will turn out. She said, with her daughter in the room, "Well, if you don't have kids, I want my daughter to have the diamond." I am hurt. I think this is incredibly rude and greedy. I realize it has traditionally gone from mother to daughter, but I feel it is my ring and she doesn't have the right to ask these personal questions, or make demands of something given to me. I also have witnessed her spoiled, entitled behavior in the past and am seeing signs of this in the 5 year old, "Aurora." I have told my husband if she grows up and makes poor decisions, I do not want to give her the diamond, and he agrees. Am I too sensitive? Or is she being presumptuous? |
| Question: My wife told me she been wanting a big cock? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 08:19 PM PST |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 07:28 PM PST She left me, Now she wants to stay friends I don't wanna just friends. |
| Question: I don't believe in marriage ? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:54 PM PST I don't want to get married , people say that wanting to get married means you love you're partner , it means you want to lock it down forever , so why do divorces happened then ? |
| Question: I'm in a hard place between my husband and my parents? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:38 PM PST I'm only 19 and I got married behind my parents back! They don't even know I'm married. My husband and I are deciding to move in together. So, I told my parents I would be moving in with my "boyfriend". My mom freaked out and is very disappointed and sad. I'm definitely an appeaser. Unfortunately, my husband wants me to be in his life so badly that he gets very depressed that we're not living together! I'm such an appeaser that I don't even know what I want anymore! I don't know what my hearts telling me and I don't know where to turn to! I'm so lost, scared, and sad. I even thought about killing myself so I don't have to deal with hurting and disappointing someone and not dealing with the pain! With whatever decision I make, someone is going to be very upset. |
| Question: How to get marriage license quickly? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:26 PM PST my air force boyfriend and i decided to get married the prob is that he only can take out a certain number of day to come see me he is stationed in Alaska and i am in Massachusetts is there a way where we could just get all the paper work set and he can take it back? if so how? we dont want a ceremony or anything. And i cant seem to find a straight answer online... i just need help with the steps on what to do first and how to get it down quickly...thank you |
| Question: Can x husband retract his parental right relenquishment papers? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 06:11 PM PST My X husband has signed paperwork with his lawyer to relinquish his rights to our 9 yr old daughter. My husband ( of 7 yrs) has agreed to adopt her. We have already submitted paperwork with the courts here in sc to proceed with the adoption process. Can my X husband change his mind and retract his statement? I only ask bc my X father in law is very unhappy about this and I m afraid he ll convince my X husband to change his mind even though this is a good thing for our daughter. |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:40 PM PST We've been together for 2 years. I want to marry her. However I'm having doubts since looking at her bank statements online. I could see back into past months on her laptop. She spends hundreds every month in beauty stores & clothes stores. In November she spent €243 in a makeup store, then in December she spent another €89 in the same store. In various clothes stores she spent a total of €480 in November alone. But that wasn't as bad as the €625 she spent in clothes stores in September. She has a spending problem. I confronted her about it and she said its normal, its her money, and made the whole argument about how I shouldn't have been snooping. You need to know these things before marriage! Imagine I married her and she was spending hundreds of my money. She should be saving her money while she has no responsibilites, not spending it on Chanel lipstick, which by the way rubs off as soon as we eat dinner. What is the point? Does this seem normal to you? Am I right here to have my doubts about her? I want her to be a housewife but that would be impossible on my salary if she's spending hundreds on clothes which ALL LOOK THE SAME. OH ANOTHER BLACK PAIR OF JEANS! SO DIFFERENT BECAUSE THEY HAVE 4 RIPS INSTEAD OF 2! |
| Question: Is 20 too young to get engaged? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:34 PM PST I recently found out that my 20 year old cousins boy friend who is 22 is planning on proposing to my cousin. They have been together a few years now, he has a 5 year old son, which he has ful custody of and my cousin is great with, and he's a great father too. They are great together and are really cute. I am really excited to find out if she says yes and they get engaged, and want I want them to get married. I do. But is 20 years old too young? Or is it okay? |
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| Question: Would you sign a prenup if the man you loved asked you to sign one in order to marry him ? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:21 PM PST |
| Question: What all does a prenuptial agreement state? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:20 PM PST What does it say exactly about child support if the couple has a child together? Also what does it say about getting loans etc. together after the prenup? |
| Question: Wife loves legal contracts? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 05:12 PM PST I'm not a guy who doesn't keep promises, but sometimes whenever I pass by some place interesting I'll say, "That looks cool, we should go there someday." And my wife tries to give me a contract that says we'll go there on a specific day... one that she plans on taking a legal action on. Is this normal? She also was upset when my project failed, because I had told her it might make us rich. It was a project I had been working on and had spent 25$ on (before I met her), but I did dedicate some amount of time to it (outside of work), in place of tv or whatever. And I had truly believed in my project and it has opened up some opportunities for me. Does that make me a liar? |
| Question: Can a husband co sign loan for home for daughter without his wife s permission? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:32 PM PST |
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| Question: Difference between certified marriage license VS. certified marriage certificate? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:14 PM PST |
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| Question: My husband wants a divorce but I don't? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 04:01 PM PST My husband wants to end our marriage of four yeats but I don't. I still love him. He says he doesn't want to work things out. The reason why he wants a divorce because the spark in our marriage is gone. We're settled. We've drifted apart over the last few years. We want different things. Should I let him have the divorce that he wants? I want what's best for him. I want him to be happy. Or should we try to work things out? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:31 PM PST Why didn't my husband's female co-worker say nice to meet you when we were introduced? |
| Question: Should I tell my ex our childs thoughts on his new wife? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:03 PM PST We have been divorced since she was 3 years old. She doesn't even remember it. However, he has re-married and the new wife has rules in the house. Which I am fine with. Our child told me today she makes her set the table and that she is "torturing" her. I listened and did not give any advice as she said the new wife has an attitude with her and she is going to give her a "piece of her mind" and "put her in her place" next time she makes her set the table. Our daughter is only 10 and is already so angry. I do not want anything to do with their new family life but should I be concerned? This is not my house, this is my exes house. Don't worry, I run her into the ground here with laundry, dishes, and scrubbing the floor. There are no chores there. |
| Question: Parents kicking me out because Im pregnant? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:01 PM PST Parents dont like boyfriend because he makes 8.50/hr, 30, still living at home, and likes to smoke weed. I'm 25, still liviing at home, also making minimum wage. Anyways, my parents found out Im pregnant, and even though his parents were supportive, my parents were angry and threatned to kick me out if I dont abort it. This is causing me major stress because for one thing, I dont want to abort it just to make my parents happy. Im going to look like a wuss if I give in to them. Yeah, they say they have legimate reasons, like, they think I have no future with that guy. But I dont see what the big deal is? If this is so horrible then why are his parents supportive? They told me I can move in which sounds pretty good idea except Im going to miss my room and how clean my parents house are compared to his parents. My Mom just thinks I can do better and money is real tight right now so bringing a baby into this world I dont know. Not to mention living with boyfriends parents ain't the same as living with yours because you have to be on your best behavior because practically its not your house. I don't know how do I choose between my parents OR my Boyfriend? I was starting school on January but with the baby plans have changed but Im scared if I abort, ill regret the decision later down the road and resent my parents?!! How do I choose the CORRECT CHOICE?! My boyfriend doesn't cheat but he likes to spend a alot of times with his friends, and leave me home. He comes home late from drinking and smoking on the weekends. Hes always broke, so whoever buys stuff for the baby would be his parents who are soooo supportive. They're dying for a baby from him. I wish my parents were happy for me too. But theyre not and its scary to come home from sleeping over his house. But Im so comfortable in my house because my moms house is super clean and more comfort My boyfriend only has a room and bathroom. So it would be a real crammed space. Sometimes I get sick of being there so I go home and rest in my room but now since my Mom wants to kick me out if I dont abort I have to choose where to live? |
| Question: Fiance never brings up plans? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:01 PM PST he only talks about marriage when I bring it up, only talks about the honeymoon when I bring it up, only talks about the date we're getting married when I bring it up.. If I stopped bringing it up I'd doubt we'd get married at all!!! What to do :( |
| Question: We are going to marry but I started to doubt if he really loves me? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 03:00 PM PST We haven't set the date or prepare for anything but his dad has met my parents and talked a bit about it. His dad faces some illness and his mom has passed away and since he is the only child, his dad really want us to settle down soon. A few days ago he seemed so depressed and he kept saying that he would like to talk to his therapist. When I asked him, he told me that it's about his job but somehow I feel like it's something else. Then yesterday, he suddenly said to me"you know, I came to conclusion that I'd better choose the one that God sent to me than the one that I really want". I asked him why he talked like that out of a sudden but he refused to explain any further. He had a rough break up with his ex a couple years ago and it sounds really rough to me that he underwent therapies for several months. I wonder if he still loves her. The truth is our relationship is not a passionate one but we respect each other and we are like best friends but the fact that he feels like he needs to seek therapist because we are going to marry really hurts me. |
| Question: Would it be a good idea if my husband lived away from us while he works? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:40 PM PST I'm mixed and my husband is a typical white man, I'm tired of him. We have four young kids. He's so annoying all the time. He leaves the cabinets open and leaves the milk out and when I point it out he just laughs it off. I'm 27 and he's 29 and very immature. I'm pregnant again and we are both quite happy because we wanted a big family. The baby wasn't planned and I don't like being pregnant. I usually feel ill and I gain so much weight and feel so unattractive. I feel tired of my husband always telling his silly jokes. He works long hours and now he's been offered a promotion in another city four hours away. He says it's more money and less hours but more responsibility. He really wants to move but we bought this house just 2 years ago and our kids are settled and I have already chosen a school. My friends and family live close by but he really wants to take the job. The position would start in the summer when I'm due and thinking about moving and everything stresses me out. I have been thinking if he rented an apartment in that city and then he comes home every two weeks or so because I have settled well here. I'm just worried the kids would miss their father and my husband has a high sex drive so I don't know if he would like it but I don't want to move with a new baby or when I'm heavily pregnant. What do I do? |
| Question: How to become a mail order bride.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:25 PM PST I am a young African American woman with cooking and cleaning skills. I hate working and I rather sit in the house. I want to become a mail order bride. Can someone please help me find a husband. |
| Question: Poll: Did anyone actually wait to have sex before getting married? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:24 PM PST just curious |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:24 PM PST Yesterday my husband and I were running late to an event and he almost crashed into a car. I immediately flipped out because he always manages to almost hit a car on every car ride. I threw my purse in front of me and he looked at me and said what the f is your problem you are fing crazy I can't take this anymore any man would have laid a hand on you by now and now I know why your ex boyfriend cheated on you. We get along great and have a healthy relationship but he really blew up yesterday. |
| Question: If you are single and never married, is it a sin to have sex with married men? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 02:04 PM PST If you are single and never married, is it a sin to have sex with a married man? If yes, why? If you are single and made no vows, then it is not you breaking the marriage vow? But that is down to interpretation? Like 'belonging' that sounds almost abusive, like possession/ownership of another human being, comparing a human to an oxen or donkey ownership. What if his wife rarely has sex with him(or he tells you this) but he loves her, wants to live with her and has her children etc and you do not want to marry him or live with him. Maybe you are just more compatible sexually? What should he do? Try to repress his sexual desire with drugs? is that fair of his wife? I agree Enguerarrard but surely the relationship will eventually break down anyway if one partner is always looking to cheat/cheating and does not rectify anything with their partner ie. marriage councelling, or if one person refuses to change and just believes the other should change for them. Some people with long marriages say it got better for them after an affair or because of an affair OR what if you believed he was single and then he told you he was married after you had been together a while? is that still a sin? How was you suppose to know if he lied to you? |
| Question: My husband is an alcoholic what should I say to get him into rehab? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:48 PM PST So he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his father and I don't know how to help him. He has nervous shakes, night terrors, and he barely ever has time to work on his job. His boss is a good friend from church and he is trying to work with him but I fear that he will lose his job soon. I was forced to explain to his boss when he fell and hit his head and got a severe concussion. He then had to go to the hospital because he was mixing pain pills with alcohol and its just been a roller coaster. He is 23 and I am 21 we've been married for two years but I just don't know what to do. I love him but he has really pushed me I've already talked to the Bishop at our ward as well as his family about it but I just can't come up with what to say to the man I married for all the pain he has caused me... He just drinks and drinks and I need to know what to tell him so that I can have the man I fell in love with back. |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:17 PM PST It was funny, I didn't intend to be mean, but he's pissed off now. |
| Question: Don't want to fight anymore? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 01:00 PM PST My husband can be a tad abusive in our relationship. He's been more abusive in the past but he's made some improvements but last night he went off the rail and took the laptop out of my hands it pinched my fingers. It was completely childish and uncalled for. I also know the way he acted is still tell signs of abuse. I haven't said so much as a sentence to him last night. We slept in separate rooms and I have stayed inside my bedroom all day avoiding him. Of course I love him so every ounce of me wants to go out and talk to him and stop the fight but I know if I do that he learns nothing. He hasn't been effected by us not talking. He's just sat in the living room playing on his phone all day. So really I don't think any of this matters to him. What are you opinions should I just end the issue or not let him get away with it again? I'm torn. He is very rude, he's been physically violent towards me and called me many unspeakable names but he promised improvement but it seems like a continuous trait that anytime he gets mad or feels entitled he derails and acts like a teenager. Separation has crossed my mind. The issue is I love him that's the hard part. Knowing when to give up on someone because they refuse to see your worth to them. |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:58 PM PST Meaning that they don't seem as interested in their spouse as they are with other people. Is this how it is sometimes? |
| Question: My husband caught me peeing in a cup when the toilets in the house were occupied.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:38 PM PST |
| Question: How to get my ex-husband back? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:37 PM PST He still is my husband, but we took a break 3 years ago. After he cheated on me. Then after 1 year of break up i dated a guy and we had sex. Now that i left the guy i was dating. My husband wants to get back with me. But after finding out i had slept with him he doesn't want me back. I feel terrible, but he also did the same while we were together he slept with three women. What can i do to get my husband back ? And yes we do have a child she is 16 years old |
| Question: Men would you marry a woman who has children with another guy? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:34 PM PST Question for men under 40. Would you marry a woman who is divorced with two young children? What if she had a lot of debt too? |
| Question: What comes first in a Woman's life her Son, Father, Or Husband? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:26 PM PST |
| Question: MARRIED FILLING TAXES? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:09 PM PST So as of 4.3.15 i became a newlywed :] I seemed to have been so consumed with work and school [ law school ] I haven't had time to go to the SSA, and change my social. My question here is because I hyphenated my name, do I need to go to the SSA prior to filling taxes ? We are planning on doing married but filling separate. I still use my maiden name, Most of my personal business and accounts are in my maiden name. So must i change those as well ? |
| Question: My dad has never been proud of me and I don't know what to do about it.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 12:07 PM PST I am a 17 year old girl and I will be graduating High school in 3 weeks. The entire time I've been in high school I've had straight A's but when I tell him that he acts like he is expecting more. Me and my dad got along really well until he got remarried when I was 11, ever since then he is just different. Before he got remarried he always wanted me to go to college, but after he got remarried he really changed his mind. His wife has always suggested that I was not smart enough for college like her kids were, and he's always agreed. He has never once said he was proud of me, and it makes me feel awful. I don't know what I can do to make him proud of me because he thinks everything I do is wrong. Also, I used to to see him every other weekend now I only see him once a month, with his wife. I'm not allowed over at their house anymore because his wife says I am very disrespectful. I don't understand this because she is the only person who has ever told me that. Most people say I am very respectful and teachers always tell me I am their favorite student, I don't get how their opinions could be so different. I'm sorry I know this went a little off topic their, but how can I make him finally be proud of me? Nothing I ever do is good enough for him, and his wife. |
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| Question: My husband accused me of cheating after catching me buying tampons.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:53 AM PST |
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| Question: Child support laws in ohio. I have a question? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:46 AM PST My husband and I are separated and will be divorced soon. We have a 2 year son. My son and I get medical cards and foodstamps through the welfare dept. Will my husband be obligated to pay child support back to the state because of this? The reason I am asking is because we have a custody agreement without going thru the court's and I really just don't want to get tied up in child support and all that. And before you judge me for getting assistance I work full time. We just need the help. Thanks. |
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| Question: So me and this co worker have been dating for 4 to 5 months both married...? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 11:12 AM PST So me and this co worker have been dating for 4 to 5 months both married...she was also seeing this other coworker who is also married. recently she dumped me, by saying her husband found our text. However I caught her still seeing the other guy. I tried to confront her about it and she got scared and told my boss to keep me away from her. I haven't been to work and won't be going back for another 4 wks because I broke a few bones when I punched the wall after seeing them together. So the question is should I tell her husband that she is sleeping around at work? Does she even care about me at all? |
| Question: I just found out my husband has a foot fetish? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:44 AM PST I found out my hubby has been watching foot fetish porn on our I pad. He doesn't know that I know about this. I never suspected that he had an affection for feet because he hardly ever shows it. I think he once commented on my pedicure and that was it but I think this confirms it. I feel quite offended because I feel like I'm not good enough and or he doesn't trust me. :( Should I do say something to him? |
| Question: Am I giving my husband what he is asking for? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:41 AM PST Two weeks ago my husband and I got into and argument that still hadn't resolved. He said he is over-stressed and doesn't have any emotions right now. He was attending nursing school as well as working two jobs and preparing for a full-time job and college in the spring. He told me that he does all that and then comes home and I don't help him around the house. We have been together 10 years, married four, and this has always been an issue. I don't like cleaning and he has always known this about me and we will have an argument every fe ew months about it, but for some reason, I never keep up my end of the deal. Now he is saying he needs space and that terrifies me. I do love him, I just didn't realize how much the housework meant to him. Other than that we have had a solid relationship. I have been trying very hard to prove to him that I can and want to change, but he says that it won't last. I'm worried for my marriage. When he said he needed space, that made me want to be clingy, pushing him farther and farther away. I had a mental breakdown and ended up going to my best friends house. Her husband talked to mine and said that he told him he doesn't want a divorce, but that he needs time and space to figure out what he wants to do. He said is isn't mad at me for just cleaning, but he needs me to listen go what he is sayin. I hear, but I don't always listen. This week I have been giving him space and keeping up my end of the housework and he seems to come around. I miss him. |
| Question: Why would a guy do this to his wife? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:21 AM PST I teach a computer class. One of my students Betty ask me if I could drive her home after class. I said sure. As I drove up to her house. You could not call it a house. Mansion was a better description. I remarked "What a beautiful home you have". She said "I got it in my divorce when I caught my husband screwing his secretary". I like a woman that tells it like it is don't you? She insisted I come in for a cup of coffee and cake as her way of saying thank you. While talking and drinking the coffee I saw a picture of her on the wall being crowned Miss (our state). I told her what a beautiful picture and a well deserved honor. Then she showed me some pictures of other beauty contest she had won. I would sure like to see the secretary he lost a trophy wife for. She must be something else. Why would a guy with a wife that is this great looking and is such a nice person be caught screwing his secretary. He was not thinking with his head was he? He was probably thinking with another part of his body wasn't he? |
| Question: What is the right thing to do here. Please help.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:18 AM PST I got a call from my ex wife asking for my help. I had not talked to her for over a year. She has remarried and I tried to stay out of her life. We had a friendly divorce. She told me her doctor's office had called and changed the date for her minor medical procedure to one day earlier and she would not be able to drive home after the procedure. He husband was out of town and would not return until the day her procedure was originally scheduled. She asked me to drive her to the doctor's office and take her home after her procedure. I agreed to do so. The nurse at the doctor's office told me someone needed to be with her for 2 hours after the procedure so she would not fall and hurt herself. I stayed 3 hours just to be sure she was OK and then I went home. She thanked me for helping her in her time of need. About a week later I got an email from her husband telling me he did not appreciate me having a date with his wife. I thought this guy is nuts. I didn't have a date with his wife. I need advice on how to respond to his email. Should I forward it to his wife and say please tell your husband what really happened and that we did not have a date. Or should I confront him directly and tell him I DID NOT HAVE A DATE WITH YOUR WIFE. She asked for my help in her time of need and I helped her. I don't want to do ANYTHING to cause her a problem with her marriage. What is the right thing to do? |
| Posted: 03 Jan 2016 10:14 AM PST It seems absurd that people who are married have sex with someone else in movies. To me, if my wife kisses someone else sexually I would be jealous. Does anyone know how actors spouses feel about this? |
| Question: What should I do as the boy friend of a fatherless girl? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:46 AM PST My girl friend is a child of divorce, she's 20 and her parents got divorced when she was 9 and ever since she was with her mother and her contact with father is too min you can count it as zero. I love her more than anything in my life and I loved no one this much but recently I've read some stuff about the high risk of divorce and also many things that is my job to be for her. Things that I've read about are: - I have to also be a father figure - She may have reached the puberty in young age - She has low self-confidence and I have to help her with that She literally is everything I have and well these things concerns me so much. For the ones I know and I've listed I really seek your advice and experience. And if there are things I don't know I really need you to let me know and also instruct me a bit. I really want to put as much as I can to help her with this and protect her through the hard times so I would do anything that is needed and I would really really be happy for your answers. Thanks a lot for your awesome help. |
| Question: Please help me sort out my feelings about this.? Posted: 03 Jan 2016 09:46 AM PST Many years ago my mom was in a car accident. When she got out of the hospital the doctors told her she had to have some one with her to take care of her for 5 days until she was able to take care of herself. It would have been very hard for me to get off work so my husband Jason took care of mom for the 5 days. Mom fully recovered thanks in part to the great care Jason gave her. Mom is going to have surgery soon and she wants Jason to take care of her again for a few days when she gets out of the hospital. The problem is Jason is now my ex husband and I have remarried. I told mom that even though we had a friendly divorce I didn't think I could ask Jason to do what she wants. She said I will ask him myself and she did and he readily agree to take care of her. I really have mixed feelings about this. I know Jason will give mom great care. It is almost impossible for me to take the time off to care for her and hiring a private nurse would cost way more money than I have. My current husband is upset that mom is asking my ex to help her but at the same time he does not want to do it. Should I just be grateful that mom will great care after her surgery and that Jason will do if for free because he really likes mom and she likes him and that is what really matters? |
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