why are a large portion of unmarried men in their 30s good looking? I just find that theres a big sector of unmarried men in their 30s-40s who are good looking. While the less good looking men are always married by that age.

My boyfriend and I broke up today. We've been dating for 11 months. He says he still really likes me but doesn't know if he can get back with me because of the stress in his life and the stress I gave him. What do I do?

So I've been dating this guy for about 4 months and he sent me a video the other night talking about how "hard" he was. It was sideways and almost reached to his hip inside of his pants, but he never brags about it or or throws hints. And I'm a virgin so idk what I'm looking at here .

He broke up with me a couple weeks ago but we still talk and see each other. He said he loves me but when i asked if hes still in love with me he said "not at the moment." And said he wants to take things slow and one step at a time. Hes still upset with me for what i did though. Do i still have a chance?:/

My GF invited me to meet her dad last weekend. It seemed good to me. She called me Wednesday and canceled our date that was supposed to be today. She also hasn't texted me in 2 days. I know something is wrong, but she claims nothing is. What do I do?

I was dating this girl for about 2 years. We had broken up for reasons. But I still had loved her & she still loved me. For another couple of months we still continue talking and having sex. She moved on to another girl around March & I still stayed her friend. That girl then left her. During that time she started talking to ANOTHER girl & me. She told me that this girl was just a friend and to not worry about it. Me & her started talking more, cuddling, talking, sex, saying I love you... like if things were serious. One day I noticed she was messaging the girl and I saw that she was sending pics of herself to her. I asked why she would send pics to another woman if she is just a friend. She denied everything but I still doubted. Last week I told her to tell that girl that I exist, told her it wasnt fair to me or her. She was basically leading both of us on.. All of sudden she tells me she has feelings for this girl, cuts contact with me. Ignores me. Even though the day before she was telling me to move in with her and that she cared for me. I am very heart broken. Now they are together. I asked her for an explanation about 2 days ago and she was like "I know what I did and I know I am an asshole." There was no apology. I feel used. I was falling for her again the same time she was talking to that girl. I haven't been able to sleep or eat.I feel cheated and played. not good enough. Her new gf even messaged me and told me how happy they were. It just really hurts.

So we broke up for a stupid reason two days ago, and I texted him saying that I love him, and that I want to meet him, and he said ok, and he also said that he still likes me too, so does he want me back, I asked him and he said that he will tell me tomorrow?

I used to be with this guy for a short while, a couple of months. Feelings were never discussed. We were not official but we were very close and then things got bad and I left him, went no contact for months. He got in a new relationship almost immediately after, and we didn't speak to each other. Maybe 8 months later I hit him up innocently and we talked again, and he said that he had been in a lot of pain and that he had been absolutely broken when I left. He also said that I was a lot better than his previous ex (who cheated on him) and that I "won" over her. After this conversation (which happened a couple days ago) I texted him first two days later, and then it's been silent since. Today I learned from a friend that yesterday he added his previous ex (who he dated for 18 months and who cheated on him and broke his heart) on snapchat again. I feel kind of jealous because it's not like he's reached out to me during these couple of days past that conversation. Should I text him? Or should I wait for him to text me (If he even does that)

Today I went to go get ice and I was just walking around, searching for my change. He comes out of nowhere and asks me what I need. I say I was just looking for my change and kinda walk off to the side because I had nothing else to say. He walks near me and I was just standing awkwardly, kind of rambling because I'm shy and not good at talking to people. He just stood there and I kept on saying I was just looking for my change. He kept standing there. I was about to put the money in the machine but I asked him if he wanted to get it because he was standing there awkwardly. I tried to make small talk because I didn't know what to do. I got my ice and walked/skated home flustered and I don't know why. It was awkward and tense. I'm going to school with him next year. Am I thinking this way out of proportion? Thank you?

She acts like she s falling for me when we re together but she has a boyfriend. I can t tell if she s actually into him. He isn t actually my best friend but we are friends. I am falling for her. Advice?

This girl seemed interested in me, she always stares, asks me weird and personal questions, very nervous when near me, blushes, acts odd near me, talks nonstop, overall just acts really weird, but recently she stopped talking to me. Whenever we talk, she either seems mad, annoyed, or to the point where she is so shy that I can barely hear what she says but she says it as if she is talking to me. Like today, we were having a conversation, and her mouth was moving and I heard a soft voice come out, but I could not hear anything. She seemed really nervous and could not speak at all. She did not seem mad, if anything, she seemed jittery but still could not muster up any words. She still stares at me, but recently, she just fails when talking to me.

This guy I work with walks to work and its a pretty long walk. Its like a 45min to an hour walk. I was talking to him today and he said he has to walk if he wants to get paid so I'm assuming he can't afford a car. He's a black guy in a upscale white area and he lives in the lower end apartments. I just feel bad that anyone should have to do that and I want to do something small to help someones life. Would it be ridiculous for me to have him call me when he needs rides to/from work? I'm assuming he's trying to make it in the upper scale areas and I feel like he could use some help. What do you think?

Do keep in mind that I don t normally tell my mother anything not even if there s a meeting at school because we re not that close..... If I have personal issues I would rather go to the guy

Alright so he's 15, i'm 14. So we work together & he works in the back and I work in the front. (So I barely see him) A few weeks ago, he came to get a drink and I rang him up and my co-worker was like ooohhh ya'll are only a year apart in age and winks and I just sat there and smiled. Little things like this have happened in the past few weeks. So I guess people are starting to notice the way I look at him because I have confessed to one of my co-workers that I like him. And she thinks its so funny because a few days ago she was in the back talking to him and while he was talking to her in her mind, she was thinking we'd be cute together. Anyways on the weekdays when he works, he works in another part of the building and theres this little window and all the time, I see him looking at me. One time he bumped into me and one of my co-workers was like what're ya'll doing? Making love? (very awkward) Anyways he broke his phone a while ago so he doesn't have any social media or I cant text him but he's finally getting a phone tomorrow. He only comes down in the summer to work with his uncles but other than that he lives 50 mins away. I just want some opinions on whats going on & what I should do before he moves back at the end of the summer. I went in the cooler and him and his little brother was in there and when they saw me walk in his little brother was like "oh there she is didn't you want to talk to her" And he just laughed and was like dude shut up. Another time I was carrying in groceries for work and my hands were full and he ran up to the door to open it for me but I don't think it was out of kindness cause its quite a walk to the door so I think he just went to the door to kind of like see me because after he turned around

My girl and I are long distance so we try to talk dirty a lot... thing is im really bad at it. She likes kinda rough sex. I talk about kissing her neck. What else can I talk about to be sexy?

Im 17 and my voice has been deep since like forever,I got teased in elementary for it but it eventually stop in highschool.My voice literally vibrates a chair and only male voices tend to do that right?I mean I talk low most of the time and yes I can talk high at times when I'm loud,I just think its a turnoff because I sound like a guy on the phone even my father mistaken me for a boy one time.What can I do?People say its not that bad even because they say even though my voice is deep,I still sound like a girl?? btw im not fat or anything im 5'3 and 112.8 pounds

I was falling for my therapist who I am pretty sure had some type of feelings for me and I discussed my feelings with her, but she let me go. In so many ways I know she felt the same, but it's taking a big risk. She let me go in May we haven't spoke since. I called her once & wrote her. She cried last time I seen her over the situation. Should I just move forward? I'm missing her a lot.

I am shy and IDK but probably just average to not good looking. I am not tall, don't have great body but I do work out at least once a week, and just low confidence. I guess my positives is hat I know I am nice and do t want to treat girls wrong. I know I do t want to spend my time in college just studying and I want to have fun and that is who I am in life. Just feel like Inhave to do too much to get girls and I get pissed that some guys like those gifted people with the looks and height get girls like its nothing.

I really f***ed things up this time. I hooked up with her three times on the same day and she said "I'm sorry that shouldn't happened" and I said" it's fine" because truthfully who wouldn't enjoy making out with a girl anyways we have hooked up before and gone back to being friends but this time she just won't talk to me at all and it sucks because she lives in my neighborhood and we've have been best friends since we're in third grade and now we're going into junior year of high school and she acts like she doesn't even know me. I've apologized and said I just want things to go back to normal and she said ok but nothing changed. Can someone help me with my situation and/or help me make it better it really upsets me. Btw I would like to be friends with her but I also wouldn't mind dating her. But friends first. (P.s. sorry for this being so long. Advice please best answer gets +5 poin

RDA would be nice. I think if Aldo loses to McGregor and goes to 155 then Aldo vs Barboza would be awesome, I think Aldo could probably knock him out. I like Barboza he's exciting af.

My daughter is 17 her boyfriend is almost 20. He recently moved out of his parents house and got his own place living alone. She used to go over to his house with his parents home and I trust her enough to know when she said they were home they were. He's a very sweet guy very respectful to us and my daughter, he has a good job. He's in college and overall he's a great guy and I'm very happy they're together. They get along fantastically and I know he loves her and she seems to love him just as much. I think it's easy to tell when a couple has been intimate and I don't believe they have. I have 3 daughters older than her and I noticed all 3 of their attitudes change in their relationships when the it happened one even asked to go on birth control about a week after I noticed they were much closer. They've been together about a year but I still don't want them to have the chance for anything to happen. Thankfully none of my daughters got pregnant without it being planned and I'm not letting that start now. She's the only one whose had a boyfriend who had his own place while she still lived at home so I've never done this before. Her boyfriend has been here a few times but he's allergic to our cats and I've seen it affect it him he takes allergy medicine and it helps but he's still sneezing and coughing and his eyes water. Now that he lives alone would it be irresponsible to let her go hang out with him the same way she did when he lived with his parents?

Before we even became anything we were making out at my place, now we barely see each other because her parents won't let her out too often (we are both in hs BTW) we talk on the phone and fb like everyday making plans and what we are gonna do when we meet up and all. But when we do meet up I try to kiss her and she like pulls away or would say not now so I wait and try again and the same thing happens. After I walk her home she always says I missed my chance for a kiss she says. How did I miss if I was trying the whole time. she says loves me and cares about me Alot I feel the same way but am I missing something? Did I do something wrong? Because if you don't see someone you love in a long time why can't we kiss after finally meeting.

Long story short we had a really bad broke up in January. I was online stalking him, logging into his things only cause I missed him, I know it was wrong but I was seriously hurt... anyways he has a "girlfriend" now and told me he doesnt need to talk to me anymore so on the 3rd of July I blocked/unfriended/unfollowed him from everything, making sure we never talked again. Now, since then, he has added me back on facebook and snapchat. He, then, unfriended me AGAIN from Facebook which I was really confused about but fortunately wasn't upset just confused. And also added me back on snapchat and actually watching my snaps. I ask him, why did you add me back on here? You can unfriend me now. To which he responds "Fck off, you did it to me. I can do whatever I want, if you don't like it Oh well." To which I respond with "You'll just be blocked from everything then..." then he says "Idgaf, go work of something. Bye. Have a good night, Adios." Now I know him, I've know him for more than 3 years now so I also know his father and that his father has mental issues... idk if he is started to get these issues as well from it being hereditary, but he's sure showing it... but besides that what could be the reason he did that? I'm just so fcking confused that I actually laughed but then felt really bad cause I feel like something is wrong with him.

So this girl commented that she was feeling nauseous and he liked her status and commented "You gotta do better buddy". And that same girl posted a status about diabetes and sharing the status and he commented "i got you" and he shared her post. But i shared the same post but he didn't comment nor share it... am i overreacting?

I went out with guy a twice and the last time we went out we held hands. Then last night he called and told me that we should go out again so we could talk. He told me that he really enjoyed spending time with me and that he liked me but he was not ready to enter a relationship and thought that we just stay friends for now. He said he was still in love with his ex. She broke his heart and he still not over. They were dating for 3 years and he was going to ask her to marry him but she broke up with him before he could do it. They broke up like 6 months ago. He said it was not fair for him to date me when he was still getting over her. He said he wanted to continued to get to know each other and if in the future it went somewhere then he would be happy about it. He is very straight forward guy that tells it how it is so I believe what he says. I just do not know how to handle this type of situations. I mean I like him I would like to be more than friends but what happens if I get stronger feelings for him and he still not over her. I mean I have no idea long it would take him to get over her I do not want just sit around waiting for him but I also feel like really good connection with him. I just do not want to get hurt myself When we held hands he said for some reason it hurt him. He thought that he was ready to move on but it turns out he was wrong.

He eats his own poop and the poop of strangers from public toilets. I just learned this recently by catching him in the act. Now he tells me he wants to get me in on it by pooping in my mouth and making out with the poop still in my mouth, basically snowballing it back and forth. He wants me to swallow the poop as well. He also wants to smear poop all over his wiener and make love to me with it covered in it and he also wants me to lick the poop off of it. He told me about all this very recently after no word of it in the previous three years we've been dating. It sounds pretty nasty to me but he assured me I'd love it. What should I do? Should I give it a try? Do you think poo might taste good?

me and my girl get down and dirty and she would suck me uo and an hour would pass and i wouldn't come i dont know why it happened like five times already and now today we had sex and i still didnt come, i waited 3 days of not jerk ing off cause i usually do that every morning and evening then when i go to bed. what do i do???? im even starting working out going out for a run and stuff even swimming..

I'm looking for a softer, more lovey dovey kinda deal with sex.

I am a male but not gay . I want a girl who wears strapon and drills my anus. How can I find a girl like that?

Alright I m going to try to make this as brief as possible. There s this guy that I know through instagram (never met in person) that I saw a picture of which I commented something flirty. He then proceeds to follow me on insta, I follow him, and he then DM s me that he thinks I m beautiful and he loves my photos (I m a model and so is he at the same modeling agency and we live pretty close). We ve talked a little and he seems like a really interesting person and we do have things in common. I m a pretty forward person and I d like to know if people think it d be appropriate to ask him out over DM? It s only been like 2 days since we started talking but I hate playing games and I d like to see if this is going anywhere. I know it s incredibly forward but people have gone out with people they met online all the time. If I get rejected, that s fine. I just don t want to waste my time/energy if this isn t going to go anywhere. Should I wait longer to ask him out? Is it attractive for a girl to ask a guy out? I just need some advice on this.

I don't think it's possible because my mom says I look just like Johnny Depp.

Is there any apps to find parties and hookup with girls that's legit? Me and my friend are bored and don't want the night to be a bust, hopefully someone can help

So about 3 years ago when I was going through puberty. I had a pic of my aunts feet (I have a foot fetish) and started to masturbate to it along with normal stuff, idk if i finished to it or not, it was a really long time ago and it was weird to me, it was a one time thing, and I haven't even been close to tempted to do it again. I Know it's creepy and weird but I Havent been tempted since. Even 3 years later. I honestly didn't even think about it until now, should I tell my uncle? I feel like it's a terrible thing. I mean I can't, but this random guilt, 3 years later, is killing me. They are really close too and blood relatives, I love them a lot. Like a second parents or grandparents.

EVERY BOY IN HER SCHOOL LIKES HER. Her crush is OBSESSED with her and she plays hard to get so that makes him want her EVEN MORE. Her hotline ALWAYS be blinging and her friends ALWAYS snapchat her. She also ALWAYS gets complimented by little things (her eyebrows, her hair, her outfit, things like that) for example, we were in Starbucks today and the cashier said that she liked her eyebrows. We also have the EXACT SAME STYLE AND SHOE GAME and I get my eyebrows done. I just don't get why I don't have that luck, can someone answer this, PLEASEEEEE!!!!!

So I'm 16 and I've only ever been in 1 relationship but it only lasted 1 month and I had the exact same feeling throughout the whole relationship as I do when I start talking to a girl about getting into one. My mind starts getting drowned by the thought of commitment, I didn't think I was scared of commitment but the more I think about it I realize that I'm going to have to devote most of my time to this girl, that I'm going to have to text/call her everyday and always hang around with her and buy her things. But there are like 1 or 2 girls that when I think about having a relationship like this with, I don't get scared. So what is wrong with me, why am I so scared to have a relationship with any girl???

I asked a girl out, but she said she was kinda taking a break from dating, but agreed to meet up. I picked her up at her house and we went out for tea and then to a book cafe. During this, she playfully flirted with me by nudging me and playfully kicking my feet. However, when I dropped her off at her house, I asked her if it was a date, and she kinda dodged the question and said it was nice seeing me and she really wants to hang out again. What does it mean?

Im at that legal age group(18) that I think it is appropriate to have sex . My boyfriend and I dated for awhile now and we both feel ready . but since I'm still with my mom she constantly tell me all the bad things she going do when she finds out I'm having sex , which makes me sick to my stomach , some people in my family like my step dad and god mother know I'm at that age so they don't care , do you have any advice ? ( and I know I am doing this out of love and I know it should be something between us but words spread fast )

I was one of the people who initially helped train her. I've been there for a year, she's been there for probably 9 months or less. We worked next to one another for a while, then the nature of the machine rotation process split us up for a while and we were next to other people. The supervisors changed things again, so we're working next to each other again for a long time. She's from another country (Ethiopia), but speaks amazing English, has become a US citizen a while back and is pursuing a degree with intent to improve her career and life. The environment is mostly H-1 visa foreigners that the company hires (probably for a tax break or something). Due to the work environment, I pick up phrases in various languages in order to say basic greetings and phrases to coworkers. I have a high interest and curiosity about other cultures in general. Various groups are from the same countries and sit together during lunch, self-segregating with their own people. I've had people try to teach me stuff in their languages. This lady started teaching me some of her Amharic language about a couple of months ago, while working. She was really happy and shocked that she could tell me a word and that I could repeat it back and memorize it pretty quickly. We used to joke around a lot. This is a production warehouse and our job is such that as long as we are doing our job, checking quality, etc., the managers don't mind if we talk and goof off a little with coworkers. She's more talkative with a few certain foreign coworkers from other countries (not hers), for some reason. Maybe she feels more comfortable talking with them, I guess? Anyway, she has told me about her mother coming to visit her, has shown me a photo of her mom on her phone and has talked about how her mom presses her to have a boyfriend, how hard life is, etc. When she learned that my most recent girlfriend moved away a while ago, it seemed like she changed. She heard it when other coworkers asked me how my girlfriend was doing. She used to laugh and talk with me a lot, then has suddenly stopped for some reason. I have looked up randomly when she was on a machine across from me and she was "staring" at me for some reason. As soon as I looked up, she looked concerned and darted her eyes elsewhere. She seems to "look" at me a lot for some reason. Now she plays around a lot with my coworkers, but acts more silent and "serious" with me for some reason. She only talks to me and jokes around when we're in a group chatting at the end of the night. She seems to limit direct talk with me except here and there, even if we're next to one another. A new coworker from another department is temporarily taking the place of a coworker, and she has been working with him. He's apparently from her country and speaks her language. They talk and joke all day. She's a different person with me particularly when he's around. I used to be able to say something and she'd laugh and talk. If I say something similar now, especially when she's around, she gives me this serious look like I've lost my mind or that I'm being immature or something. It seems like she has an attitude, won't talk to me much, etc. When he's not around, she's more talkative, yet reserved. They talk together. Sometimes I feel like they make fun of me. It seems like she's "bragging" to him that I know pieces of their language sometimes. That has prompted him to "question" me what I know and such. She seems to ask him stuff that prompts him to ask me stuff. Then she'll go back to joking with him like she's making fun of me or something. I don't get it. I asked her, "Where's your helper?" the other day, after noticing that he went somewhere else and was helping another coworker. She snapped back, "He's not my helper..." as if offended. She told the guy she's training, "Don't worry about that stuff, he takes care of all of that..." when he said to her that they should clean their work area and such. I take care of my work area and have been known to help a little by giving people what they need to straighten their area, but I don't do it for them. When she started working with him, she kept looking at me behind her out of the corner of her eye with this serious look for some reason. What is she doing? I'm looking for another job and she has made comments like, "Well, when you find something else, I'll get your number and..." as if she would tag along and try to get hired at whatever better paying place I find. I probably should note that my family is highly against dating other races. I personally don't have an issue with it. I've dated a few American ladies and didn't really have good experiences in general. Her people are very accepting of me and teaching me their language, too. I'm pretty much just trying to get to the bottom of: Does she like me? Is she just trying to use me for something? Is she trying to use this guy to see if I'll be "jealous" or something? What would you think?

My male friend who I have feelings for and I think he has them for me. Offered to help me with something serious that was really bothering me. I told him to not tell anyone & that he's the only one I trust. I came to him to just vent but then he had all these ideas on ways to help and he seemed really into it & really interested in fixing this for me and everytime I started to cry he did everything he could to make me laugh. He then offered to do this one thing for me, I said I'll think about it & we leave it at that. Then he texts me later after we left eachother trying to make me laugh and feel better and really trying to cheer me up. Then the next night When I knew he was out with the guys I get a text Him: "Hey we need to talk tomorrow about that thing" Me: "ok call me tomorrow. You're a lifesaver John, thanks!" It's now 10:30 and he hasn't called or texted. I'm not mad bc it wasn't my idea he randomly decided we needed to talk lol but I just find it odd. Why say we need to but then not?

I am a guy, and my eventual step-cousin (my aunt and his dad are in a serious relationship) is in 8th grade and i'm a freshman. His cousin is a freshman in high school, as am I and i was wondering if it is acceptable/legal to date her.

I want to see what girls think :3

I've been talking to this girl. She's from a different life style than me and she completely different from any girl I've ever met. She's got beautiful brown hair, BIG deep brown eyes, her eyelashes along with her legs are a mile long, and she has an amazing bod. When you look at her you would thinks she has nothing but confidence, right? Wrong. I invited her to hangout and she was so nervous she was shaking a little. I thought it was adorable. She asked me why I wanted to join the marines, about my family, and things about me. I started kissing her and grabbing her chest and she pulled away. By this time she was on top of me and I looked at her giant brown eyes & little grin and I asked if she was okay. She nodded and said she was super in experienced that she has only kissed two guys. We kept going and I took my shirt off and talked her into talking hers off. I could tell she was hesitant but one she is amazing. I asked to go further and she just told me she couldn't and won't. Finally she put a stop to everything and got dressed. I finally said I couldn't believe she's only kissed two guys because she beautiful. She went on to say it doesn't matter how beautiful a girl is or not she should still respect her self to find someone that by only cares for her but she cares for too. She was awkward, funny, and really down to earth but idk if she's worth it. I guess I'm the that farthest she ever gone with anybody so should I get to know her more or should I just drop her

We were talking , she mentioned her Pinterest talking about how cool a tree house thing for a house and asked my opinion on it , and was talking about how she had a lot of things on her pintrest. And I asked her what's her favorite things/cool things she said everything was her favorite and wouldn't show me anything . then when I said to show something don't be shy she said she would show me in the morning and said goodnight . she never messaged me today, should I message her or leave her alone ?

Can you truly love two people at the same time?