Marriage & Divorce: Question: For all the guys who vent and try to commiserate about their wife not providing sexual opportunities, the answer from women? |
- Question: For all the guys who vent and try to commiserate about their wife not providing sexual opportunities, the answer from women?
- Question: If a co worker tells you that you will make a great spouse?
- Question: Parents Fighting.... any advice ?
- Question: At what point do you stop reconciling with wife and move on because she wanted a divorce. This is the problem I'm facing?
- Question: What are my rights as an adult child of divorce? (18 years old)?
- Question: My husband gave me a pair of house shoes and a housecoat for our 16th anniversary....?
- Question: What to do if daughter walked in on my wife and I having intercourse?
- Question: What age is best age to get married?
- Question: My husband has been trying to build a buisness for 3 years and is always broke and gets so angry when i ask him to find a stable job .?
- Question: How do you really know when you've found the right one to marry?
- Question: My mother's cousin left her husband and was dating another fellow before the divorce was final, does this count as adultery?
- Question: For those of you who are married, how did you wind up not being forever alone? Were you ever afraid of being forever alone?
- Question: Why many wives complain about their husbands' "skills" in bed? do these women think that they are super "skilled" in bed?
- Question: How do I get over my wife's affair?
- Question: How to write out my new married name?
- Question: CUSTODY QUESTION. IF NO ONE HAS YET BEEN TO COURT?
- Question: Will a judge sign off on the mother having full physical and legal custody?
- Question: Is marriage exhausting work?
- Question: Is it wrong to give your ex wife a gift if you have hope for reconciliation?
- Question: Am I emotionally abusive?
- Question: Is my husband not attracted to me?
- Question: I am feeling depressed?
- Question: I hurted my wife badly and I regret and things don't seem to be fixing at all she forgave me alot but I still hurted her I want to suicide?
- Question: Wife with self esteem issues. Help Please.?
- Question: When you see a childless man marry a woman who already has children, do you consider him a sucker?
- Question: I am really embarrassed with myself. Last night my wife and I got into a shouting match with cursing, etc. I spit in her face.?
- Question: If men are so visual why are so many ugly, gross body women married lol?
- Question: Why do you think Women File 80 Percent of Divorces?
- Question: My ex doesn't realize it's over, help!!?
- Question: My wife bled first time but she was not tight down there. Was she virgin or not?
- Question: What to do with the idiot husband?
- Question: How does a married man get rid of lust for other women from his mind?
- Question: Ever married someone you didnt love but ended up falling in love with them? And this going both ways?
- Question: Needing honest opinions?
- Question: Is he fair?
- Question: What are actual realities and downfalls, the over expectations of marriage? From people who are or who have been there.?
- Question: My husband and I live in South Africa and we want to move away to a simpler life. Bare in mind our currency isn't great. Any suggestions?
- Question: My husband's friend keeps trying to get him to cheat...?
- Question: Wife yelled at mom? What now?
- Question: Need to divorce but leaving option for moving in the future?
- Question: Why does husband cheat on their wives ? It really tears the family apart why do men do that ?
- Question: Would daily visitation with prior notification be reasonable?
- Question: Why don't women modern want to be a wife?
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 10:07 PM PDT is usually something revolving around "she doesn't feel like having sex with you anymore, you must be doing everything wrong". If that's the case, and it might be, why doesn't the wife say it out loud, and leave, instead of continually scarring her husband by rejecting him. That kind of psychotic, not? Why would a woman stay with a husband who she doesn't love anymore? Is it because she feels as though she can outdo Guantanamo, with the torture of a sexless hell? |
| Question: If a co worker tells you that you will make a great spouse? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 09:46 PM PDT A co worker of mine told me that I'm going to be a great spouse. Brought it up out of nowhere too. Thought it was kinda strange, but also really nice. Why do you think they said that? |
| Question: Parents Fighting.... any advice ? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 08:53 PM PDT So my mom broke her elbow the other day and she has a cast on it so she's out of work and really can't do anything. so she's been getting frustated lately because it's her right arm and she has to do everything lefty. my dad has been working long hours so he's really tired when he gets home. my mom asked him to do something for her and he said no right now and she went ballistic. saying that he hates him and stuff. I think it's cause she's just frustrated that she can't do anything to keep her busy. then she left and now she came back but she's sleeping downstairs and not talking to him any advice ?? she's talking about divorce and I really don't want them to get divorced I've been crying so much |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 08:48 PM PDT I don't want to move on I deeply love my wife but she doesn't show me any interest |
| Question: What are my rights as an adult child of divorce? (18 years old)? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 08:46 PM PDT Will I be entitled to my laptop for college, phone, and car (that is in his name). |
| Question: My husband gave me a pair of house shoes and a housecoat for our 16th anniversary....? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 08:34 PM PDT WTf...are we the old married couple already? How do I tell him this was a crappy gift with out sounding ungrateful.....last year he brought me lingerie and chocolates...;( |
| Question: What to do if daughter walked in on my wife and I having intercourse? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 08:18 PM PDT |
| Question: What age is best age to get married? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 08:11 PM PDT |
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| Question: How do you really know when you've found the right one to marry? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 07:33 PM PDT I've been in a relationship with my SO for over 5 years. We met when I was 19, live together, and are about to move into our first house—under his name, not shared. Both because we aren't married, and because my credit is still a bit lacking anyway as I'm still finishing up my degree. We, overall, have a pretty good relationship. I do worry, though, that maybe meeting him so young is working against me. There are moments I think "Is he everything I want and need?" and there's a twisting in my gut that tells me I'm not sure. But then, I don't have any healthy, long lasting marriages in my life to look at for guidance. Do even lovingly married partners have moments of feeling completely unsatisfied? Is it normal to feel in love some days, and just like "friends who happen to be together" the next? Would even a married couple think every now and then of what some *other*, fabricated relationship would be like? I just don't know. Some days I anxiously wait for when we'll get engaged, others I think "please don't. I don't know how to answer." But after 5 years, SHOULDN'T I know? Has anyone else gone through this? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 07:10 PM PDT She did not divorce her husband for this other fellow she says though people are suspicious. It is a cousin of my mother's I don't know very well so I don't know any of the details but I wondered if this counts as adultery. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:53 PM PDT What advice would you give to a 23 year old who hasn't been in a relationship before? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:40 PM PDT Should a husband be responsible if his wife lacks imagination ? is he responsible if she doesn't turn on when he gets naked? I don't think women are "super skilled" in bed, however you don't hear men complaining about their wives' "skills" in bed because men have a great imagination! furthermore, men get turned on when they see their wives naked. So instead of complaining about their husbands, shouldn't these women learn to be more imaginative? shouldn't they learn to appreciate their husbands' bodies? Your thoughts? |
| Question: How do I get over my wife's affair? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:07 PM PDT The guy was supposed to be my "best friend". For five or six years they had an affair (even in my own bed and my son's bed). I never caught them, she finally told me about it and said she loved me and would never do it again and will never see or talk to this man again, should I forgive her, and how can I ever get my trust back, and get this knife I feel is sticking in my back out??? how long before the pain goes away, because I don't even want to live anymore, it hurts so bad. The guy's got an a** kicking when I see him, but should I trust her again? |
| Question: How to write out my new married name? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:54 PM PDT I recently got married and am in the process of a name change. I d like my name to be First, maiden, new last name- so moving my maiden to middle. I d also like to be called by this full name not just first and new last. Ive noticed on some documents it only asks for my first and last name, how do I add my middle name in? Do I add it in the "first name" section? Or last name section? |
| Question: CUSTODY QUESTION. IF NO ONE HAS YET BEEN TO COURT? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:35 PM PDT My husband and I have had my step-son (my husband's son) for 2 years now. All of a sudden the mother wants to come back and threaten us with taking him bc we have not went to court EVER. If she was to come to my home without my husband here, can she take him? And what could I do??? my husband and I are legally married. Do i have a say-so? |
| Question: Will a judge sign off on the mother having full physical and legal custody? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:47 PM PDT My husband and I are filing our joint petition. We put in it that we want me to have sole legal and physical custody. He would have liberal visitation. He isn't an unfit father however we both feel that this is what's best for our daughter. Will a judge sign off on that? |
| Question: Is marriage exhausting work? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:27 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it wrong to give your ex wife a gift if you have hope for reconciliation? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:10 PM PDT |
| Question: Am I emotionally abusive? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:56 PM PDT My husband who calls me vicious names such as the "c" word and tells me that I deserve to be beat and that he would break my foot if I didn't stop tapping it, told me yesterday that I was emotionally abusive to him because I don't talk to him. I've told him it's because of the way he acts towards me, his name calling, harassing and threatening but he tells me that is just an excuse. I should not be ignoring him and that I should be supportive of him and his right to express himself. He tells me I am hurtful and emotionally abusive because I "ignore" him. He says being emotionally abusive to him is worse than his verbal assaults on me and that I need to stop abusing him. Am I being emotionally abusive? And is that worse than verbal abuse? I simply cannot take it anymore and need some space. Currently have no where else to go. So I try to stay clam by staying away. Is this wrong of me? Is it abusive behavior? |
| Question: Is my husband not attracted to me? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:26 PM PDT So ive been married to an absolutely amazing guy for the past 6 years and have 2 beautiful kids. My husband is the leading professor of a pharmaceutical development research lab and is obsessed with his work, and very good at it as well. I am a house wife (DO NOT JUDGE) and our sex life has been fine until last year, he finally came up with some sort of breakthrough research and became extremely successful and prominent in the field. He works normal 8 hour days but comes home and continues his work in his study till well after midnight. He has dinner with the family and says hello to me and what not, but is ALWAYS too tired or busy for sex. We sill have sex but only when I initiate in a very obvious (almost desperate way). Its funny; I met him way back in high school but we weren't sweet hearts. He was a super nerd that always got picked on and I was super popular and dated the quarterback and was prom queen ect.... How do I get him into me again???? |
| Question: I am feeling depressed? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:42 PM PDT My husband just told me he would've divorced me had I not been pregnant. He is not doing well since the past few days. Even resigned from the job and getting panic attacks. I don't know how to handle the situation. What can I do? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:07 PM PDT We are not divorced yet but I feel she will ask for it soon well I am living everyday with regret for my actions that did hurt her and her always reminding me of them and I really want to erase the past and start a new page but that's not possible I can't erase the past and she can't forget it and also she won't give me another chance I can't take it anymore I am living in hell I want to die. |
| Question: Wife with self esteem issues. Help Please.? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:44 PM PDT So I got married 2 years ago to the love of my life and everything has been awesome. We had a beautiful baby girl last year and she has been having some difficulty dropping the post pregnancy fat. The problem is that I have never mentioned a thing about her weight or figure ever (because I genuinely don t care!!!!!!!), and she is still for some reason paranoid and crazy about her appearance. It is to the point where she wont change in front of me and cries almost every night because she felt she ate too much that day. I HATE seeing her sad and tell her on the daily how beautiful she is, and she doesn t budge :( I work out a lot and figured if being gentle with her doesn t work then maybe I should push her to go to the gym with me but she said it makes her feel tooo self conscious standing next to me because apparently im too muscular and look to good for her, or something along those lines. WHAT DO I DO? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 11:54 AM PDT when a childless man marries a woman who already has children (who are young), do you look at him and consider him to be a sucker? do you think he is being used by this woman because she is bad at picking out men? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 11:39 AM PDT I can't believe that I did it. I am still in shock. I feel like a monster. I justify it after the fact by recalling some monstrous things that she has done in the past. Doesn't really help me mentally. We love each other dearly, but we can also really drive each other to bad places. I guess this is sort of a confessional more than a question... :-( |
| Question: If men are so visual why are so many ugly, gross body women married lol? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 10:35 AM PDT And don't spread that lie that they didn't always look like that! I've seen hideous women who look like men in he face (have nothing to do with aging)... Married! Sloppy bodies (before having kids) why do men act like women have to be perfect tens to get men (especially when most of you aren't 10s yourself) lmfaooooo why are men such liars and delusional! |
| Question: Why do you think Women File 80 Percent of Divorces? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 10:24 AM PDT Is it because men are terrible husbands? is it because divorce laws are very generous towards women? is it because for women is very easy to find a "replacement" for their husbands? What are your thoughts? |
| Question: My ex doesn't realize it's over, help!!? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 09:12 AM PDT 16 years relationship/6 years marriage is nothing to throw away but I tried and tried to make it work. I left 4 times before over a drug addiction and emotional/verbal a use. Then I left this time and I've been on my own 6 mos. When I left I didn't feel safe. He locked the doors on me, drained finances and blocked my number. So me and 2 kids slept on an air mattress in my brother's living room for 2 months and I got my own place. He kept everything. I had to call the cops to get what little I got. Family helped. I'm done! At one point I gave him 1/2 a chance to spend 4th of July with us and I caught him with cocaine... At my house! I keep getting tears and I'm sorry. I forgive him but I won't forget. No matter how "rehabilitated" he gets. My credit was ruined. I'm in a serious relationship with myself right now. I buy flowers for the house everytime I go to the grocery store. The house stays clean. I got myself one of those portable hot tubs... I never realized being single could be so peaceful. I am enrolling back into college- today actually. I have a business degree and now I want to pursue teaching. Every day I get 100 texts of I'm sorry and he'll come by the house to try to talk to me. I don't wanna. Yesterday he came by and saw my 1/2 way filled out divorce papers on my desk. He was a bucket of tears and I'm sorry but my now hardened heart won't let me feel sorry for him. I can't have him out my life completely but how do I make him stop trying to get me back? |
| Question: My wife bled first time but she was not tight down there. Was she virgin or not? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 07:59 AM PDT |
| Question: What to do with the idiot husband? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 07:45 AM PDT |
| Question: How does a married man get rid of lust for other women from his mind? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:53 AM PDT I'm a very happily married man with a happy wife. We have deep true love for each other, our relationship is just great and stable, our sex life is awesome. She's more than I could ever ask for and we love each other and won't betray one another till the end of time. However, I have recently watched an anime, and I can't get this one particularly overly-sexualised character out of my mind. I remind myself that my wife is the love of my life and she can never be replaced, and I don't want to cause her any grief, but I can't get the unsettling allure of this sex-object from popping back into my head. My wife says it's only a natural human instinct to be attracted to more than one person and trusts that I'm a faithful husband, but she is a little disappointed. How do I ignore the arousal of this character and block her from returning to my mind? I am an incredibly devoted husband and do not want thoughts of any other women in my mind. My wife is the best thing that's happened to me and I've given my life to her; I can't jeopardise that. Please help! Thank you. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:28 AM PDT As in your partner married you even though they didnt love you but ended up falling for you. So basically you married as friends or two people on okay terms with each other but became lovers. Ever know of such a thing in real life? |
| Question: Needing honest opinions? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:00 AM PDT Currently I m engaged to be married this coming week to a lady I don t think I truly desire to spend the rest of my life with .Yes I understand that all relationships have trials ,but the problem we encounter seem to be a reoccuance. First the postive ,she a caring sweet God fearing woman ,who who do anything for anyone .The negative side is ,she has a 23 year daughter who has a boyfriend that is living with her who doesn t work because he has lupus. Her daughter does work but is constantly asking for money from me or my son .She doesn t call me until she needs money or my son .When I try and discuss this with my fiancé it turns into a debate .My fiancé complains about everything, she has a bad attitude, and I sometimes question her hygiene for instance she would rather take a bird bath out the sink then take a actual bath or shower .She does cook and do the laundry the other household chores I take care of .I have a contracting business so most days I get home late .We don t have joint account so if I need to purchase something when she gets paid ,I have to ask for her card ,which she always ask what I need to do .Then she snores badly ,I have to wake her up each night to go sleep in the living room. She has had surgery on her nose but it didn t help .She thinks it her thyroid but I think it s due to her weight .I ve asked her to work out with me but that hasn t happened. She living with me so if I break up with her she has no where to live . |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:50 AM PDT My DH is 12 years younger than myself. When we met 3 years ago he wasnt ready for a family n baby yet but i was. I told him i will take on more responsibility in raising the baby because i like where im at in my career and i will focus on baby more so he can focus on starting his career. Little did i know that a few months after we got married he decided he wants to be an over the road truck driver. He is home 4 days a month, leaving me to deal with baby (doct apts, sickness, etc) by myself, as well as triving at my job. I ve been doing that for all 11 months since baby came. This month i got promoted (im in the military) and they told me i might have to move soon. We moved to this town 8 months ago. Instead of supporting me, he kinda got pissed off of hearing about it and he threw in my face that all i care is my career and that he doesnt want to move again and look for a new job (i make twice as much as him and we pay the bills proportionate to our salaries). I started telling him that i dont feel like he is being fair and that he should support me, especially since i carry most of the load in this marriage with the baby and money, and he also benefits from all the military perks. Then he told me that i promised him i will take care of the baby and i will let him build his career. I didnt think building his career meant being a part time father amd husband. Especially now since i will be in a higher position at work and will have longer hours and bigger responsibilities... |
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| Question: My husband's friend keeps trying to get him to cheat...? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:53 AM PDT I saw some text messages in the past between my husband and his single friend. I was somewhat okay with my husband commenting on women he noticed throughout the day. But, I was pissed that his friend encouraged my husband to approach the women. I have been knowing his friend for as long as my husband has and feel disrespected. My husband never responded when his friend told him to approach the women. We talked about it. He admitted it was disrespectful for him and his friend to talk like that and said he wouldn't do it again. Well, tonight, I see a message in which the same friend asks my husband if he wants to go on a double date with him, his roomate, and her friend. My husband said he should pass the friend off to another person. My husband has not agreed to cheating, but should I be upset that he continues to talk with this friend who clearly has no respect for our marriage? His friend knows that we are happily married with our 4th kid on the way. I think he jealous because he is going through a breakup and a custody battle. I don't understand why my husband can't find another friend. How should I handle this? |
| Question: Wife yelled at mom? What now? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:43 AM PDT OK so my dad recently became a amputee because dealing with type 2 diabetes for 30 yrs caught up with him. So my wife and I stepped up to help my parents it been that way all year so far. Tonight we were moving around some of his meds and trying to put them In a new medical tote we bought him but then my mom said no leave certain meds out and I was like oh OK and went about my business and proceeded but my wife on the other hand went off on my mom she exploded with all kinds of verbal nasty hate! I was jaw droppingly shocked and so was my dad he hopped in his wheel chair and rolled to a safe distance from the verbal brawl I proceeded to follow him it was f.u.c.k.i.n.g scared it was like spit flying in each others faces yelling ! And now I'm lost cause she said I'm done I can't do this anymore take me home so I took her to our house and came back to be with my dad, before I took her home I said no a few times, she was begging me to take her home as if she was imbarresed that she she blew up In that manor IDK what happened but I'm lost now it feels like going off on my parent like that is something I can't get over it's on The same level as cheating I feel betrayed to a small extent its mixed up and confused because this happened with the 2 women that mean the most to me In my life? This just feels like a total scar something between us il never get over like something that will always be in the back of my mind from this day till I die....... what do I do? |
| Question: Need to divorce but leaving option for moving in the future? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:21 AM PDT I currently live in California, but don't plan to be here forever. However due to the child care situation I happened across, and the fact that my youngest is under school age (3) it will be more affordable for me to stay where I am right now. If I move (AZ) my child care bill will increase by $700 a month. I spoke with a lawyer and found out that if I move and live elsewhere for 6 months and THEN file for divorce that new state will be the children's home state and we will be able to stay there. But if I file now, we will be stuck in CA. My problem is I dont want to move until my son is school age but I dont want to wait 2 years to divorce. What should I do? I should also mention that the father does not see the children or help pay for any bills to support them or anything. However I suspect he will use whatever legal power he has to make things harder for me out of spite, if given the opportunity, thats why I want to be in the other state for 6 months before filing. My relationship with the children's father is basically over and he doesn't spend any time with his kids either. Just so theres no confusion. I have spoken with him before and he says he doesn't care if I move, but I am afraid his tune will change if he knows he has the power to dictate where I am allowed to go with the kids. |
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| Question: Would daily visitation with prior notification be reasonable? Posted: 27 Jul 2016 10:58 PM PDT My husband and I are going through our joint petition for divorce (I am going to a lawyer in a couple weeks so he can review our divorce forms) and I have full joint and physical custody. But because we are willing to do what's best for our 2 year old we put down that he could have daily visitation with prior notification. Do you think our lawyer will see that reasonable enough have in our papers when filing or will we likely have to set up a particular time? I know for many parents they'd WANT a set time, but both our schedules make it nearly impossible. Thanks for you input. |
| Question: Why don't women modern want to be a wife? Posted: 27 Jul 2016 05:15 PM PDT I want a woman who will cook, clean, fulfill my physical needs, and someone I can talk to about my day. I make more than most families with 2 people working make so I fulfill the traditional male role. Why don't women want this kind of arrangement? Why don't they want to be a wife type anymore they want to bang the bad boys with drugs and drinking problem who will end up dead in a few years? |
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