Marriage & Divorce: Question: How to trust again? |
- Question: How to trust again?
- Question: I am a soon to be divorced woman dating a recently divorced man who I am falling for. How to pursue this relationship?
- Question: Ongoing intimacy problem with husband, what to do?
- Question: How can I get over being choked nearly to death by my husband in front of my babies?
- Question: Do married men realize they are never really going to enjoy their retirement money?
- Question: Sibling always wants to be with me?
- Question: Is it ok for married couples that used to not live together have a girl-friend from a different country stay in his apartment for a month?
- Question: Why do some women want to date married men and break up marriages? Do you think they just want what they can't or don't have?
- Question: My husband is addicted to porn, escorts and abusive. How do I get the strength to leave? ?
- Question: Can you get copy of marriage license by fax?
- Question: Any ideas how to celebrate our first wedding anniversary at home?
- Question: What is the traditional status of a virgin /young woman /not married /married at native american born people regarding working in society ?
- Question: Does it still seem like my husband is being rude and mean towards me ?
- Question: What did he mean by "that's why I am asking you"?
- Question: Which of these four groups are generally the most gentle and polite, the whites, Latinos, blacks or Asians?
- Question: Do you find these kind of pics too revealing? ?
- Question: Is gender equality applicable in everything including marriage and sex?
- Question: My wife is very happy with me but others are not?
- Question: Cleveland show?
- Question: My husband is forcing me out of home. what should I do?
| Posted: 31 May 2020 09:33 PM PDT My husband of 9 years cheated on me. Our daughter saw the whole thing as well shes only 4. We went to surprise my husband at the hotel he was staying at he was out of town on a business trip for work(well I thought he was). I'm also pregnant. Anyway I don't know what to do I don't know how to explain this to our daughter. He wants to wok things out buy honestly right now I'm not ready. I can't trust him right now. I do still love him and care about him but I can't trust him again well not right now. We've been sleeping in separate rooms, hes been coming to my job everyday bringing me flowers, chocolate, etc lunch. I plan on moving out too. I told him that and hes been trying to stop me. I don't know what to do. Hes been crying and begging me not to leave. The only time I've seen my husband cry was the day we got married and the day our daughter was born. I just don't know what to do. How to trust him again. |
| Posted: 31 May 2020 07:49 PM PDT I have been separated for 4 years and was just holding on to the marriage to keep my last name for my kids and health benefits. But now I am ready to finally pull the plug because of my new friend. We have been dating for about a year and things have been great. He is very helpful to me and we both have kids from our marriages so we are not looking to have kids with that aspect. We are very much in love and he shows me all the time by cooking for me and doing all of the things I need him to do. He showers me with gifts all the time and we are even set to take our first relationship. However he is still reeling the divorce as he has supervise visitation with his kids after an altercation with his ex-wife. How to pursue this relationship and help him find hope in marriage again |
| Question: Ongoing intimacy problem with husband, what to do? Posted: 31 May 2020 06:08 PM PDT My husband and I are in our mid to late 20s. We've been married for less than a year. I'm a very affectionate person and love touching on my husband. He can act the same at times, but I feel that he's a bit more reserve than me. However, this doesn't stop us from engaging in intimacy. Recently, my husband has been talking about his weight and how friends have spoken about his recent weight gain. Nevertheless, my affection towards him hasn't changed. Unfortunately, when I try touching him throughout the day or when we sleep at night, he pushes me away or takes my hands off of him. I tell him that I would like more intimacy from him since we will have it a few times a month at best. For him, I think he could probably go without it. For me, I'm really into intimacy. I don't know what to do. He knows how I feel and I've vocalized it today but still nothing. I need help. I dress up for him and wear lingerie. We even went to get me lingerie last night, but nothing. |
| Question: How can I get over being choked nearly to death by my husband in front of my babies? Posted: 31 May 2020 04:11 PM PDT I am dealing with PTSD from this. I want to forgive him but cannot get that image out of my mind. I really felt like ti was gonna die that day. I know he is sorry , he said he has changed, I'm not sure if I believe him. I don't want my babies to grow up without their dad |
| Question: Do married men realize they are never really going to enjoy their retirement money? Posted: 31 May 2020 04:01 PM PDT Men die before women so you cant blow your 401ks etc and take a lower pension so that your wife has the money once you die and goes to your kids too. Is it worth breaking your back 40 years just so your wife can **** a new guy after you die and get more manicures and your son can get more blow? |
| Question: Sibling always wants to be with me? Posted: 31 May 2020 03:45 PM PDT I have so many siblings they are all very cool and fun they are married and have kids. One of my siblings is not very cool ever since we were small she was kinda a bully towards me. I let it go and allowed her to live her life. I never bullied anyone in return or anything. I live a great life. But this sibling of mine always wants to be with me and my wife. For example, if me and my wife wants to go to the beach she wants to tag along. Which I find not normal I never wanted to tag along with her and her boyfriend when I was single. We gave her a great birthday present for her birthday and show respect and she on purpose forgets our birthdays etc. A lot of people are starting to have problems with her including other siblings and her co workers at work. Should I keep ignoring her and make it a Hi and Bye? In the family parties ? |
| Posted: 31 May 2020 03:29 PM PDT My husband has been living with this girl-friend for a month now without telling me. He has cheated many times in the past. When I found out that he's lied to me, I decided to end our marriage. To save our marriage, he agreed to move in with me. We have been living together beginning of March before the Stay-At-Home restrictions, Covid 19. His girl-friend has been staying in his apartment for months now since February and has been helping with the rent (her name is not on lease). His girl-friend will be leaving back to her country on June 15. Since my husbands lease ends on June 30, we both decided to put in a 30 day notice to terminate the lease on May 21. Due to changes with his girl-friends flight schedule, she won't be able to go back till end of June. Long story short, is it ok that he extends the contract till June 30 when we have already notified the leasing office June 21st? I do not agree that we break the agreement and that he has to pay the pro-rated rent for the 7 days just to make it convenient for her. I felt like he is siding with her instead of me as his wife. I told him in the beginning that I felt uncomfortable that she stays in his apartment while he is living there, and he disrespected me by breaking my trust and lying to me about her. I told my husband to have her find an Airbnb for that remaining last week and my husband does not agree even though my name is on the lease. Is that ok, or am I being insecure? P.s: I never lived in his Apartment. Husband does not agree for us to terminate till June 21 because he wants to make sure she has somewhere to stay since her flight has been extended. Since she does not know anyone, I advised Airbnb and he does not agree because he does not trust anyone. |
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| Question: My husband is addicted to porn, escorts and abusive. How do I get the strength to leave? ? Posted: 31 May 2020 01:29 PM PDT I have found so much evidence of him entertaining and meeting up with escorts , he even went to Dominican republic many times to see an escort that he screws every year on his getaways. He has left our bed to go F*** when I was pregnant and unable to do it because of complications. He has hurt me so many times I busted him but I always took him back because of our children. As of recently he became abusive, he kicked me in my stomach during an argument and even choked me in front of the kids. I currently got him out of the house with a restraining order but how do I get the courage to leave once and for all. I'm afraid if I filed divorce , he will do something crazy. |
| Question: Can you get copy of marriage license by fax? Posted: 31 May 2020 11:59 AM PDT |
| Question: Any ideas how to celebrate our first wedding anniversary at home? Posted: 31 May 2020 10:41 AM PDT My husband and I love doing weekend getaways together but because of the pandemic, we haven't traveled or done much of anything really since February. We haven't even been out to a restaurant since then! Our 1st year of marriage is coming up in 3 weeks and we really wanted to be able to do something special. Any suggestions for 'at home' or low-key ways to celebrate our first year of marriage together under the current circumstances? We live in northeast Pennsylvania. We've been doing at home 'date nights' by cooking together, lighting candles and having a soak in the bath followed by a movie in bed and these nights are always fun but I really had hoped to do something more special for our anniversary. Neither of us are used to being so cooped up, we're both very adventurous people! We're 30 and 31. |
| Posted: 31 May 2020 09:31 AM PDT Regarding working outside of house . What kind of jobs are allowed to do or if there are political marxist harassment regarding women -to work .Since what age . |
| Question: Does it still seem like my husband is being rude and mean towards me ? Posted: 31 May 2020 08:42 AM PDT I'm not going to write a whole essay but my husband recognizes that he's emotionally abused me for years and said he's going to do better and that if he loves me he will do better. He used to be extremely controlling hot tempered and emotionally abusive. We were in the car watching a movie and he started to talk during the movie about something and I asked him if he wanted me to pause the movie he got mad and said " don't ask me if I want to pause the movie. "... I was like " sorry... I just didn't want you to miss what was happening.." and he was like " who cares about that movie right now I'm talking about future goals.."" I just said " you're right.. I'm sorry"" as to not upset him. |
| Question: What did he mean by "that's why I am asking you"? Posted: 31 May 2020 07:31 AM PDT My BF and I had been discussing about marriage but now he is delaying because of virus and because he has some personal stuff to do. He said something like, "if you don't want to wait, you can leave and find someone esle or you can stay". I asked "do you want me to stay?" and he then said "that's why I am asking you" What did he mean? Later in the convo, he says everything is good between us and that he doesn't see troubles in the future. |
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| Question: Do you find these kind of pics too revealing? ? Posted: 31 May 2020 05:01 AM PDT This is my friend and she thinks its normal. Isn't it too weird to post photos like these at the beach? |
| Question: Is gender equality applicable in everything including marriage and sex? Posted: 31 May 2020 02:01 AM PDT If yes, then what should a couple do if the wife is not a virgin and slept with many men and explored everything with them such that nothing is new for her but the husband is a virgin who did'nt sleep around around with anyone and everything is new and special for him? As here the husband and wife will not be equal, as the wife will get to compare her husband with multiple men with multiple skills and performance as she had sex with them in reality and thus creating a fear for the virgin husband, while the husband has nothing to compare his wife with and will be on the losing side and inferior to her and she will be having high expectations after sleeping with multiple men with multiple standards, and thus there will be no gender equality, and one has kissed, loved, dated, toured, cuddled, had sex in all positions, many places, many sex acts, gift exchances, proposing, saying "I love You" to many people, sleeping and roaming together for many times,etc and so nothing is new for them and everything is just a repeatation of same acts they already did with many men, while for the husband each act will be new and exciting and unique as he will be having and sharing such things with only one special partner and not others? |
| Question: My wife is very happy with me but others are not? Posted: 31 May 2020 01:07 AM PDT My partner is very happy with me. She says I make her very happy because I take her out to dates and cruise in my car lol. The problem is so many people want to take her place like my father or siblings even though I do hang out with them I cannot as much as with my wife especially with a baby on the way. What to do about others? |
| Posted: 31 May 2020 12:50 AM PDT how do i file my divorce papers whoops meant to send that message to carole |
| Question: My husband is forcing me out of home. what should I do? Posted: 30 May 2020 10:46 PM PDT I married in december 2019 (six months). I live in Iowa. Now, suddenly, my husband is forcing me to go out from home (he bought it), he doesn't want me there and he is pushing me so hard. He is keen to pay for a rent appartment for me and my expenses if I disappear from his life. I don't have family or any place to go, more difficult during this pandemic and I am scared. He wants me out soon, he has been sending me threatening emails. Because I told him I would not leave he is giving me 2 alternatives: 1. divorce with legal fight (I know he doesn't want it). 2. Divorce without legal fight with a settlement giving to me a certain amount of money (he wants me to take this option). He says alternative 2 would give me more money than 1 and better for me. He supported me economically since we moved together because I earn less money I am a student. He has been emotionally and psychologically abusing me in the last weeks. He is on visa H1b (highly qualified workers) and I am on F1 (student visa). We are in process of permanent residency (we haven't done the interview). what should I do? |
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