My baby father ex just refuse to move on with her life. She thinks because they have a baby together that she have to call or ask for him to do things for her and their baby. I'm so sick of her to the point I really do want to fight her. Like why can't she just stop calling my man? Then had the nerve to say she's not going ANYWHERE because they have a child together. Smh  Is she using their baby as an excuse to stay in touch.? 

Currently my niece has been crying for 30 minutes straight. Every 2 minutes my mom tells her to go to her room and never follows up with it. She just ends up allowing her to cuddle with her after the 10th time. Like it's so annoying how bad behavior never gets punished and is left to be ignored. Everyday there is always a similar event that is treated the exact same. I can't just tell her how to raise a child, but these incessant fits make it hard for me to become well rested for my night shifts. I just can't wait for this pandemic to end so I can move out. Is it really hard to be consistent as a parent?

Four months ago, before the coronavirus thing happened, my Mom and I took a plane trip back to San Diego where we live. While on the airplane, the flight attendant asked me, "Would you like some nuts?" I was trying to be funny so I laughed and told her, "No thanks. Would you like mine?" I was JUST joking. Hell, even the flight attendant smiled and just went about her way. However, my Mom was super mad and she took away all of my video games and T.V out of my room. So my sisters get to play video games, but I'm still stuck with nothing. It's been 4 months and I told her how sorry I was, but she's still not budging. We're going through a coronavirus thing so I need something to do while I'm home.

She literally takes my stuff, mostly clothes that her 135 pound body tries to fit into my 0 size stuff and I'm 90 pounds. She stole the best fitting and looking pants i owned, several pairs of gym shorts, shirts, socks, food, make up, etc. she never cleans up, so everything is just piled up in heaps. I have to dig to find anything, hers or mine. I don't take her stuff except maybe wear a pair of her underwear. I'm 30, she's 27. I am jobless so I can't move out. Confronting her does no good, she blows up. I can't lock my door because she'll still try and pick the lock. My tiny clothes look ridiculous on her. I don't know what to do to get her to stop, mom is no help. She just keeps wondering why I wear the same things all the time, I tell her but she says separate laundry or wash separately. I do both, she doesn't, she just takes laundry out of washer, throws on her bed or floor. It pisses me off. I have stolen her clothes just to get back at her, but she still yells at me. But it's okay for her to go through my stuff. I just bought three pairs of gym shorts and some tanks, I only have one of both. I have no casual shorts to wear, no dress pants, hardly any food and I don't know what to do because I live off disability which isn't much. I can't afford new clothes every few weeks. 

Hello, So my neighbors next door has a bunch of people that live there. Two guys that stays there were selling drugs in front of my home. At all times of the night. Multiple times a day, I don't mind parking in front of my home but not drug deals when I have a daughter to think of. Their company was parking in my driveway and blocking my driveway. Kids banging on my garage door and in my driveway playing. I informed HOA and sent an anonymous tips to the police about the drugs. The other day my daughter and I was going for a walk and another neighbor and I were talking and I was venting my frustrations ( so were they) They told me to call the cops and how they have been a nuciance to the neighborhood and how they've reported them. On my way back home I saw one of the guys were outside and I think he overheard our conversation. Now he just gives dirty looks. I live alone with my daughter and not sure how far he'll take things. Was I wrong any advice?

I was on my Late 2009 27 inch iMac today and suddenly it EXPLODED on fire and i heard it pop loud and the screen fell off and there was a fire inside of it and i put it out but now it won't turn on, please help i have lots of data on it that i need to get out

So he is 20 tomorrow and i'm 17 and we were at my house laying on the couch watching a movie and he is really hot and athletic and i love him so much and he was eating popcorn while i laid on his chest during the movie then suddenly he burped really loud and it smelled horrible so i screamed and hit him hard across the face and hit him across the head (i couldn't control myself i get really angry from stuff like that) and he immediately was shocked and left my house and then he blocked me on everything so i'm worried, how do i get him back

Hello, so my dad is not actually my real dad. My mother told me this when I was a kid and I never had the heart to tell him. She said my real father is a washed up drunk who lives in the Bahamas. He is only known as "uncle jerry" and can be found at a tiki bar every night. I just feel horrible and want to tell me fake dad that he's not a real dad to me. How do I do this? She cheats on him all the time (which I actually find hilarious) but the fact that she got pregnant makes makes me sad. Someone please tell me what to say to my fake dad? Also, have any of you on here heard of Uncle Jerry? I'm trying to connect with my real dad. Thank you. 

The family was at a wedding and coming back our father asked her to carry my toothpaste as I could not carry it as a carry on due to security rules. I hadn't flown in 5- 10 years so did not know that rule. My sister, aged 26, went ballistic like a three year old who does not get her way. Then we saw each other in August at the family beach house and she went nuts cause she had to share a bathroom with me there. So my father sent her home. We have not seen each other since other then a cold hello she gave when I saw her at a funeral in November. Thankfully she was not at Christmas. So how do I make up with her or since I am not at fault should I not bother? Our Mom continues to shelter and enable her, our Dad tells me not to worry about it and just avoid her. I am 16 and she is 10 years older.

Ps she is like 86 lol. I know right eww

He is a Dad so he is not supposed to lie but he does so often. Anonymous: Yeah my Dad is basically a politician that way. Lies and doesn't even realize it, he is a pathological liar (and arrogant puss). 

( 45 ) And you will see them being exposed to the Fire, humbled from humiliation, looking from [behind] a covert glance " / "with veiled eyes"

I recently visited my parents, who are aging and have some health issues.  They can't even go to the grocery store, and online ordering is not easy since there are few delivery slots and they don't like ordering online, so I go to the grocery store for them.   After I got back, my mother emailed:"We enjoyed your last visit as we always do and you're welcome to come anytime.  But I don't want to take advantage of your kindness.  We don't need anything and can order groceries online.  Why don't you take a break, save your money and enjoy your new house?" Is this basically saying "stay away"? Thanks.

I was about 11-12 and my sister 2 years older than me. We slept with my mom in her bed that night and the next morning we woke up and felt something in the bed. It was a dildo (her's for that matter) and we screamed and went ewww, my mom and brother came up and asked what's wrong? We said nothing cause it was awkward and they laughed and said "It was a joke".  Is this an appropriate joke?    

I couldn't finish my question up top, my parents don't seem to care about her personal hygiene. Whenever I look at her all I can see is all of the plaque on her teeth from not brushing. As well as a B.O smell. But when I agree with my parents that she should do it, my parents, yell at me, call me overprotective, and tell me to stop acting like her mom.  Please help this is my last hope I've tried everything. 

My fiancé and I have been together a total of 4 years. We just got engaged this year and we are very happy. I'm 27, my fiancé is 30. My fiancé's family is very different than mine. I come from a huge family on both sides. My parents talk to my husband like his own son, everyone hugs him when we visit and makes him feel like no outsider. On the flip side, even though it's been 4 years, his family is more cold and quiet. I have never even hugged my mother in law when seeing her.. and it just makes me feel like any other outsider. His baby sister had caused a lot of issues between me and his family for years by l spreading lies about me to make others think I'm a bad person, sending me horrible texts telling me I should just take my fiancé and go elsewhere. Even though his mother doesn't agree with daughters actions, it has caused me to not have a strong comfortable relationship with the mother. The only people in my fiancé's family includes his single mother, 24 yo brother and bratty sister. So these are the In-laws that will be my immediate family. Recently my fiancé was invited for dinner at his mom. I saw the text that read "I want you and the kids to come help me put up this table and I'll make dinner." So, my fiancé responded with "When do you want us to come?" His mother responded with "I just wanted the family over Dre if you don't mind." My fiancé knows this is incorrect and us being the only married couple in his family, I'm truly hurt. How should we go about this?

I'm a mom to a 5 year old boy and I've always been a metalhead. I dont go to concerts or anything like that. I just listen to it at home and my son really has turned out to be a metalhead as well. I just don't know if thats a bad thing or not for him to like metal at his age. He knows not to ever say bad words and he's not antisocial and doesn't like wearing black,  etc. He's a very bubbly, socially active, bright boy but he just also happens to love metal music and he break dances to it lol Idk if thats a bad thing to like for him though. I've gotten both reactions to the fact. I've gotten people that say it's bad and that it's "anger encouraging music" and ive gotten people that say its just too cute and doesn't really mean anything. So idk. 

3 years ago my daughter and I had a fuss over the phone. She is 55 and I'm 72. She called me crying one day about the way her grown son was treating her, so I got him on the other line to be a part of the conversation. That upset her and it didn't go well. After we were done my daughter got upset, told me I did it to cause trouble, called me senile... I hung up on her, text her and told her that if she ever contacts me again I'll call the police on her. She hasn't. She sends me gifts every holiday and that's it. She recently apologized via text on Mother's Day. It was very nice and moving and I accepted it and I apologized to her too, but I don't need her drama. She's always been sort opinionated and rebellious... She is now sending me videos of my son's little girl (her brother) She's still close with her brother and keeps his kids, but I just don't want to go there with her so I've stopped responding to her texts and videos. I have a niece that I'm close to that has filled that void where my daughter was and I'm happy with that. My niece is a wealthy woman that keeps her problems to herself and takes care of my needs. Should I block her or just ignore? I'm thinking, hoping if I just ignore her she'll go away. I love her but I just don't need her issues.  I asked a similar question a couple of weeks ago, but she has apologized so the dynamics of this issue has changed..  I have changed ages a little as to protect my anonymity  I'll admit. I have had my issues. I've been married many times all the men I was married to mistreated her. I was always driven to get my education and to work so a lot of the times I was there to protect her. My daughter's husband makes very good money. She's been married for 3 decades, stayed home, raised her children. I'm ashamed because she never wanted more from life. 

By his family I mean his wife and children, mainly his wife. The children she just ignores.  My sister's husband and children she loves and loves to be with.  His wife's etiquette is not the best and that is why my Mom hates on them. 

I have been waiting for even one family member to take a special interest in me, I would have left them my entire estate, but it never happened.  My money won't be there for them when I leave this earth, it's all going to charity to help sick people get well. This situation could be in any family, so there might be someone waiting for you to reach out, and you might even be rewarded someday.

As you know every school are closed(cause of the covid) and we are having online classes.Yesterday I was in english class and my teacher(he is really strict)was explaining something important.He asked me a question and as usual,I wasn't paying attention and I didn't know the answer,he got so mad,he told me that I didn't deserve to be his student(cause he is a good teacher)I felt humiliated,I told him to go f*** himself...he then told me that when we would go back to school again, he's gonna spank me (he had spank other students before)i got so scared that I told him that I was sorry but he said that I still needed to learn my lesson.

All my siblings are pretty sharp. I must admit they are all pretty independent. I would say I did pretty well for myself. I graduated college found a decent partner who is incredibly nice. My older sibling the one that is doing the worse from everyone is a very crazy individual. Ever since I graduated college I was disowned by her(she is older). She has a problem that no one is the family understands. When we have family dinners they are dinners they are calm dinners and everyone is happy but this particular sibling tends to run for me. Like literally run lol. When I walk in a party and say hi to people I see her children running away from me. Lol. Her children are very bitter and beat each other up. She hits her boyfriend and wishes death for his mother. The part that intrigues me the most is that the more calm I am the more furious she is around me. The more angry she is the more she stares at family parties. It seems like my calmness drives her crazy. She never wants to invite our pretty cousins my sibling is obese. She wants to keep our parties limited to people. Are these Characteristics normal?

My room is under my parent's room and I have heard them multiple time having sex, it makes me VERY very uncomfortable and mad at them. I don't know what to do or how to tell them but this is just negatively affecting our relationship because when that happens, like I said, I get mad and when I see them I act all rude to them and start arguing in with them.

My son's dad has helped pay his rent through college and he even sent $400 into his son's bank account each month. My son now lives in a townhouse with his girlfriend and he refuses to see any of the family or allow anyone else in his house. He won't go to his dad's wedding even when he got invited and he won't return any of our calls. I'm depressed I won't be able to see my son.

I have 3 older siblings all of them are awesome except 1 and that 1 that is not that cool suffers in multiple areas. The first is she talks smack about her boss and she's been at the same grocery store for 20 years of her life. She talks snacks about her boyfriends parents, which leads to us not inviting them. She fears us inviting any of our cousins especially the successful ones. What is the issues in people with this sibling? Why the fear?

Me dijo que yo soy el y que el entrare en su casa como su amiga. que siempre vamos a estar juntos, su vos tenia una alteración y que Dios propicio todo y que quiza el esta ahi por mi para que el este conmigo.

I'm 17 but i'll be 18 in december and he's a big man in his 30s with glasses and short brown hair. he recently emailed me asking how i've been doing since schools been closed and we talked a bit and then he asked if i wanted to come over and have a camping trip with just him and maybe do a camp out in his back yard with a tent and campfire and stuff and it honestly sounded fun because i've barely left my house and all my friends can't hang out cause of the virus, so i told him yes and i'm going in a few days, but my parents are mad at me and told me i can't go because it's apparently inappropriate but it's really not he never mentioned anything inappropriate it's obviously just a fun thing so how do i convince them to let me go this is a serious question i need advice

My current subsidy is $804 for a two bedroom townhome (30% of my income). I'm moving out of state (fresh start) to a one bedroom (luxury apartment). The rent to the new apartment is $1087. My new apartment is in Arizona and it is really nice, it has a washer and dryer inside the apartment, has four pools, a gym, and a business center etc. I was excited until a relative told me I'm not making a smart move. They said $1087 is too much for a one bedroom. It's just me and my daughter, the new apartment is only fifteen minutes away from my sister house otherwise I would of moved to Phoenix (cheaper) but it's an hour drive from my sister's house. I'll have a job when I get there and I can get another one. The apartment is also around a lot of things I can literally walk to everything. Now I'm in my feelings second guessing if I should go. 

My dad died 2 nights ago. I'm 27 and me and him were always together, he was my best friend. I always went to him for everything, I mean everything..now I feel alone and a huge part of me is gone. Will it get easier? It's so unreal.i feel like it's a bad dream that I've yet to wake from.. what do I do to not feel this way..I'm trying so much and it's so hard

Hello,  I need opinions on what to do... I'm 24 and I currently live with my fiancé and his mother, sis(19) & bro(13) in a town home. We have 2 years left. My family is moving here to the state next week from Hawaii. While we were visiting my parents my dad told my fiancé that we could move in with them rent free with one condition and that's for one of us to go to school and the other work and then vise versa. My mom will watch my son while I'm at school or work so it will help so much. We're living paycheck by paycheck staying with his mother, literally no money saved up. We've been living with her for 3 years total since I moved in with them and we now have a 10 month old. It's really taken a toll on me and I've been bottling it all up, I'm stressed & depressed at times but just don't show it. Everyone of our friends that I've told they all agree that we need to better our family and to get an opportunity like the one my parents offered is amazing. My fiancé is just worried about his mother since he's taken care of her and his siblings since he was 13, but he has a family now and needs to think about my son and I. My friend told me that I should just tell him that I'll be moving in with my parents and see what he says and have a serious talk about it with him because every time I bring it up it's always another excuse. He thinks it's the cowardly way out if we move in with my parents and said that without us they wouldn't be able to pay the bills and everything. 

I am 23 year old guy and so far I have been screwed over by every female in my life. My mother- a heroin addict who abandoned me as a child. In and out of prison and moved to another country with her drug dealer bf. My dad raised me alone. I talked to her for the last time I spoke to her which was 3 years ago she told me that she never wanted to be a mother and told me to blame my dad for tricking her into it. My ex-best friend- this really needs a post of it's own which I did years ago but I lost that account. Short version- she is autistic and always used it as an excuse to get me to do what she wanted. She wanted me all to herself and isolated me from others. I even had too quit the football team to spend more time with her because she said that she would kill herself if I didn't. She f*cked me up mentally but I eventually found the courage to cut her out of my life thanks to all my guy friends and my dad. 1st gf- I 18 inexperienced and naive and she was just using me to make her ex jealous despite repeated assurances that she was over him and that she wanted to be with me. She dumped me and got back with him, I later found out they were at it weeks before she broke up with me. 2nd gf- she was a girl with mental health issues. She had no friends and was so happy that I was with her. But because of this she was super clingy, I couldn't get a break she wanted to be together 24/7 and eventually I demanded space. Well it turns out she couldn't handle that and tried it. on with one of my friends because she needed attention so badly. 3rd gf- I was head-over heals with this girl. She shared all my geeky interests and such. But she is a bit of a party girl and I don't like parties so she goes without me. And a few days ago one of my friends who was at the same party she was sent me a photo of her making out with another guy. I sent a message ending our relationship.  I know there are good women out there but I can't deny whenever I see a women now there is an anger that flares up inside me. And I keep having bad thoughts about all women in general. How do I drown out these feelings and voices? Posted earlier but I got barley any answers.

Family is supposed to be our friends. They are my enemies. It hurts so much. Note, I am an adult so this is adult stuff, not a kid temper tantrum. 

The brief run-down on why I avoid and hate my mother: She separated me from my loving grandparents from when I was 8 years old (I have reconnected with them as an adult). She emotionally abused me as a child. She knew her fiance had sexually abused me, yet denied it for years. She even said to me that it didn't happen, but that if it did, I deserved it (this was shortly before I moved out at 18 years old in 2016).  I moved out, avoided her, and lived my own life happily. I got married, took my husband to meet my grandparents. We hit it off like we had never been separated.  Now for the problem. I now live on my grandparents land in a separate home. Mother was going to be homeless. They moved her up here in a camper. I now visit my grandparents less at their home because she is over there often to do laundry, eat all their food, have them babysit her dog, etc.  I am going to start trying to have a family of my own soon and I am tired of hiding from my mother, I want to be able to visit my grandparents with my children in tow without constantly worrying about having to face my abuser. What can I do in this situation? I need guidance. Is there even anything I can do? Boundaries I can set? Help

It shocks me for her to dislike being around her own son's family. She does not dislike her son personally but dislikes his family. She loves them but dislikes being around them (thus I assume dislikes them). It shocks me. Is it normal for a mother to dislike her sons family? Is it normal for a mother to complain CONSTANTLY about her daughter in law?

Why is it that people start to seem somewhat 'annoying' if you spend EVERY WAKING MOMENT with them? I'm not talking about doing your own thing, then being with them for a few hours a day. I mean if you're with someone every waking moment for DAYS on end, except when using the washroom. This means from waking up to sleeping, you're together, eating, in the kitchen, in the living room watching TV, in any room, indoors, outdoors, constantly together. Why does the other person start seeming annoying then? Think about when you were with a sibling or friend THE WHOLE TIME for at least 5 or more days. Even if you love them dearly, why does the human mind need its own space and need to take a 'break' from the same person?

So im a 18 year old twin with a sister and nothing in my life ever seemed to be mine. I don't have my own birthday I don't have my own school events I don't even have my own friend group. Everything in my life was shared. Every photo every memory was never just mine. My sister always was along for the ride. Life seems more like a chore instead of a wonder experience. Graduation came up and I was out with my sister. So graduation wasn't even my own. 

What would you do if you were me: 1. Stay home, or 2. Stay with aging parents? I am a single, middle-aged guy.  I live in a city on lockdown due to Covid-19.  It's fine; I just bought a new home that I love, and I work ALL THE TIME in a white collar professional services job (including nights and weekend).  I don't ever know my schedule in advance (it depends on the client's needs) and I need a large computer monitor and a business printer.  And I need peace and quiet.  So in this situation, I've been working a lot and it's been ideal for work. My parents live 600 miles away.  They're starting to have health issues.  I've spent alternate weeks with with for the last month and just spent a few days with them.  If I said "I want to move in with you" they would say yes and they would probably ask me to if they knew I would. However, at their house I can't get work done, due to a blaring TV, interruptions and no desk or office set-up.   So I prefer to stay on my own home.   But would you make more of an effort to spend time with them and go down there, perhaps on weekends?  Or would you alternate weeks, It seems weird for me to stay in my own home all alone.  But I can't get work done at my parents' house.

so ever since my mother broke up with her girlfriend she me a new person!  hes not bad but hes kinda disgusting sometimes... I dont like him and neither my sisters and now my mother is pregnant with a new sibling and I dont want it and they are already trying to get a house together! Im never gonna feel good about it and It wont feel like home. I tried to force myself to be happy but its not working out :( Everything was ok until he came along I wish they had broken up and she is always defending him and talking about how the baby is gonna be the favorite and how beautiful she is and all that its so annoying what do I do??