If being friends with the exes is not a big deal then Can they also have friendly sex with their exes as its not a new thing for them

Are those memories, first time experiences, first love with true feelings, first time intimacy with the loved partners, etc so easily forgettable for these wives? What difference does they feel doing those same acts with their virgin husband that they already did many times with all their exes before, and as these acts are nothing new for her only the body(husband) is different but for the virgin husband everything is new and special for them

My husband & I, got married a couple months ago; we're still new to this marriage thing. Right, when we officially tied the knot, things changed. He's been more detached. He does have his moments where he's more lovey dovey, but in such a different way. I've tried to ignore it, & not think much of it, but it's reached to the point it hurts me. I know & understand that not everything's about me, so I shouldn't really assume it's something I did, but the way he acts makes me feel like it is. He's always wanting to be with his friends & helping them with my car, while I stay at home waiting for him, doing the house work & taking care of my son. He gets upset with me over everything, makes me feel stupid, seems to try to control what I do & even when I do things he says or do things to help him, he seems unhappy 

So, my husband for a while has been a bit colder towards me & seems to upset over everything. We're newly married with a 2month old son & stuck with this quarantine. I've been the only one working while pregnant. He's been getting fired & now we're stuck without anything. Lately, he's been making comments on how I can't keep the room clean (we currently live with his mom while we're trying to get a place), that I have only focus on our room & focusing on the baby. This was all over my sister wanting to help me get a job & is get a condo/trailer. I also had literally come back from picking up my store order (it was something to organize things in our room & socks, because we both needed them) I got upset for him to leave & come back saying sorry for snapping at me. Just today I went to pick up the rest the order & saw a coffee we both might like & a soup for both of us. I got home for him to get all upset because I didn't buy a specific soup for him, that if it were him he'd buy me something that he'd like. I just don't get it... any advice? I should probably add that I'm always just focused on my son & trying to get as much done while he's sleeping. My husband helps here & there, but I'm mostly stuck alone doing it. I will thank his mom is law for helping me with other things. I'd also add that we only have my car. He's been driving it to places, using up the gas & giving rides to people while I'm over here trying to get what we need or even drop packages off of things I sold, to have more money for our son.

Hello. I am a 38 year old lifelong bachelor and wonder what it would be like to be married to a woman at least a decade older than me. I've heard where a wife outlives her husband by more than twenty years when they were the same age. Thank you for your time.

My mother passed away a few days ago and I called my dad to check on how he was doing. He sounded better than he did yesterday, he was more upbeat. Right after the call, I updated my husband about how my dad was feeling. Right in the middle of my sentence, "My dad is feeling better today. He realized that ----" my husband interrupted and finished my sentence with the words, "she was a big burden to him". What I was about to say before he interrupted was "He realized that he did everything he could to give her the best care, that it's God's will and he has accepted it. My dad financed my mom's medical needs for four years since she fell at home. She was bedridden since 2016. Alzheimers set in almost instantly and it gradually went downhill from there. My dad had two caregivers at home round the clock. Was my husband insensitive to think that it was all about the money? I have osteopenia. It got me thinking he might look at me as a burden too when I am old and in need of assistance from him. What do you think? :(

My ex and i broke up 6 months in to my pregnancy with twins due to a 25 yr age gap. We have gotten along very well and I really want him to be a dad. I have been trying to get everything for them with out asking. But I'm realizing i need his help. I feel so embarrassed and wrong to have to ask him. Would i be wrong to ask him to purchase certain things that i want to get to be ready or should i just let him get what he can when he can? Im asking here because i want none bias opinions. Dont want him judge by family and friends. Hes a good man and has never said no or refused to buy anything. I haven't asked cause it feels wrong. He did offer to buy there cribs but I already had. But i really just dont know if its right to ask him fot certain things that i want to get and I think is needed.  Want him to be a dad as in a want to support his relationship with them in everyway that i can. I am worried that me asking for things i want to get them will make it seem like im more worried about that. 

are the 2 actors in  picture perfect mysteries married?

I love waking up in the morning on my days off and when my wife is working. I cook myself a good breakfast alone, I than get ready and take my dog for a beautiful walk alone, than I come home get ready and go to an event a networking event and absolutely love it I love drinking coffee and meeting new people. Some of my family members judge me. They say I don't invite them because I'm an evil person?

I'm 31 years old and my wife is turning 25 very soon. I am Caucasian. My mom hates my wife because she's different. I met my wife a while ago and she was the kindest and the most beautiful woman I laid eyes on. We dated for 2 years and got married soon after. We now have a 3 month old daughter together. My wife had always respected my mom, even though my mom was always disrespecting and hating on her. My mom only loves her cooking and tells me to make my wife cook her some middle eastern food. My wife literally does it for my mom even though she doesn't have to. When I visit my mom, she tells me to not bring my wife, yet she lets my older brother bring his wife and kids over. My wife's brother isn't even as kind as my wife is. She's never done what my wife has done for my mom. When my mom's knees were hurting, my wife use to come with me and take care of my mom and even take her out in her wheelchair on a walk. I've never seen my brothers wife do anything for our mom. My mom only likes her because she's white like us. I've tried talking to my mom hundreds of times but it just goes through one ear and out the other. What do I do? My wife thinks she's in the fault for hurting my mom. I don't know how to make this work. My brothers wife not my wife's brother. Sorry for the error 

As whenever he tries ro get intimate with  her those tattooes comes in the view and thus reminds him about her exes and their permanent mark that is still present in their body as reminder for him? What can the wife do as no husband woukd like to see other men's name and mark on their wife's private places that would always be reminder for her bout ir?

How can the wife console her virgin husband who feels like a fool after finding out and is upset with himself and his luck? And now has fear of getting compared with others and not being adequate for his wife as she is well experienced and may have high expectation and may find his virgin acts boring? So what can the wife do to assure him that she will not lie anything in future as the husband is a caring and decent person with no past complications like her and also treats her very well even though suffering himself lonely about it

I'm getting married in two months, my fiancé lives in another country but we've been together for 3 years. We recently started planning our wedding and now she doesn't approve of our relationship and doesn't want to go anymore. Because my fiancé and I had a huge argument and he  told me hurtful words and he's not respectful towards me. I understand she's mad but it hurts me that after I paid for her ticket and all the plans are ready she decides to tell me she's not going. Idk what to think. I'm trying to be in her shoes as a mom and I totally understand it just hurts me to know that she doesn't approve. 

 So my fiancé who I've been engaged to for 7 months (we are set to get married in October).. also have been dating for 4 years, decided to post pretty much naked photos of herself on Instagram. Honestly I wouldn't have cared if it was a bikini pic but the fact it's her in underwear and bra that were see-thru is really ridiculous to me. I feel hurt & honestly embarrassed & my friends are the one who sent it to me before I even saw it because I was at work.    When I got home & confronted her about it she tried to downplay it and said "it's not even that bad but if you want me to delete it I will" also went on to blame me & say that I was being controlling.   I honesty don't know what to think. I'm not controlling at all but correct me if I'm wrong An engaged woman shouldn't be posting things like that? I'm honestly about to break our engagement over this... any advice would help. 

I recently found out my husband of 13 years had been paying for Snapchat premium and called a hotline to have phone sex more than once. I'm not sure I can get past this. He said he was stupid, made a mistake & is begging me to stay with him. I don't feel like he will change. Our sex life has always been amazing & up until now, I honestly thought we had the perfect marriage. Should I move past this??

     My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for a year and a half and have a son aged 7. I was sent away for deployment for 10 months and all seem well whilst I was gone. When I came back however, I noticed a change and my gut told me something was amiss.      She would go on trips to the store that would take countless hours, take showers before going on walks, and be all around dismissive towards any small action I did. On Mother's Day she had mentioned going fishing, to which I told her I wasn't able to (in an attempt to bring her a bouquet at our fishing spot). Upon pulling up to the fishing spot, I saw her with my son and another man. The second I got out, the man darted to a spot on the other side of the lake.       We ended up having arguments about this to which she revealed she had "only been hanging out as friends" 3 months before I got back. Any attempt at accusation was simply deflected back at me for "not caring for me while you were deployed" and "how lonely she had gotten". I explained my problem with the situation, as obviously I had to surprise her in order to find out about this man. She promised things weren't what they seemed and life went back to normal for a few days.      Turns out, our son let me know that they had devised a game to where they were keeping secrets from me. Some walks I was told she went on were a facade to go see him. I mean all the evidence is there for me, I just don't see how I went wrong in this scenario. 

I don't think she will but the family hates her so much they think she might.

And those bullies still make fun of him saying how they all enjoyed with his wife and exolored everything freely leaving nothing for him to explore with her, and she only went to him because they all dumped her finding her unsuitable for marriage and so she will always miss them?

log into my Instagram account everyday? We have not been talking for 2 weeks and live apart. I blocked him, then unblocked after few days, he tried sendin message to see if I blocked him still but then he deleted message straightaway. He doesn't call so what does he want?

My husband was married before and they had 2 children. Unfortunately he has not been able to see them for many years. Zero contact. His ex moves quite often. He has always paid child support which is very high I think especially with no contact with the children. My question is are there any secrets or ideas anyone has for surviving financially?  We have a child between us and I work full time but by the time court ordered health insurance and child support are deducted from my husband's check there is barely anything left.  We struggle so much.

Should she show her sex videos with her exes to her virgin husband who does'nt know anything about her past as she hid it and fooled him before

My husband and I have been married for one year and we just had our first real 'fight' on Monday. Of course we've had disagreements and serious talks before this, but we've always communicated so well that it never turned into a fight. We were able to resolve conflict between us with a calm conversation every time. But this past Monday was a build up of several heated conversations throughout the week before that came to a head on Monday. We both were right in some ways and we both were wrong. I can see that clearly now. He took the fight very hard though. Things I brought up made him feel like I don't appreciate all the other ways he shows me he loves me (our fight was about having different love languages and I felt like he wasn't fulfilling mine). I felt terrible that I made him feel that way because that's not true- I do appreciate him in every way, but I just wanted him to show me more love through intimacy and closeness. Things between us were a little off the next couple days but now we seem 'back to normal.' Except I have it looming in my head now that I want to be a better partner and make him feel appreciated in every way that I can. How can I be a great partner, especially now as we move on from a fight?

I'm newly divorced with a 14 year old daughter and a 16 year old son. They don't want to stay with me because I only have 2 bedrooms, they refuse to share. Neither one of them wants to sleep on the couch. I miss them terribly and it's not the same if they take turns visiting because we can't do things as a family. I'm their dad To the person who called me an idiot, I failed to mention I'm living with my fiance. And I left my wife because she chose a life of alcohol, drugs and sex over me.