Marriage & Divorce: Question: Married men is sex as great as you expected it before you ever done it ? Is it really the best joy having sex with your wife ? |
- Question: Married men is sex as great as you expected it before you ever done it ? Is it really the best joy having sex with your wife ?
- Question: Married man ? Is or was sex as great as you imagined or it's better ?
- Question: Am I crazy or am I just insensitive my husband has been brushing off a lot of my health issues.?
- Question: Is it weird I don't use my own bank card?
- Question: What is a bigger betrayal among female best friends?
- Question: What goes in the mind of a wife when she sees her ex-bfs with his wife after marriage, with whom she explored and enjoyed everything? ?
- Question: MEN: Would you interfere if you knew your wife was abusing your child ?
- Question: My ex wife showed up to pick our children up while she was intoxicated.. is there anything legally I can do? ?
- Question: Anyone ever became a step parent to a kid that was a handful and since ur the new person, u cant really re-raise them?
- Question: Do guys care about being married before they have kids anymore or is being a "baby daddy" as they say, the standard?
- Question: Wife not interested in sex after sister died in car accident ?
- Question: Ladies, what aroma do you prefer?
- Question: Is a boob job really grounds for divorce? Or is my husband being dramatic ?
- Question: Is it common? ?
- Question: Do you make out with your spouse?
- Question: How much do you spend on groceries and for how many ? ?
- Question: My husband is annoying and can never do anything right, what do I do?
- Question: Ladies, what have you done to remain memorable to your previous lovers?
- Question: If my husband’s social security disability payment is due to deposit on the 3rd, will it show this weekend?
- Question: If a wife cheated on her husband and is pregnant with another man's child after marriage, then who would be considered as the father?
- Question: Ladies, are you still expecting your husband to take you somewhere nice for valentines?
- Question: My husband has two sides to him. Will we ever be able to make this marriage work. I feel miserable ?
- Question: My husband won’t stop gambling, what do I do?
- Question: Where should I take the wife on super sports ball weekend?
- Question: How can I help her?
- Question: Why did my parents get me a seperate room in the hotel?
- Question: Why do all women want to get married so badly?
- Question: An uncle of mine will be officially divorced at the end of today, should I send him and his ex congrats?
- Question: Will The Judge Just Award Her More Time?
- Question: Why do people like Gal Gadot? She has a husband and BLATANTLY cheats on him with women? Shouldn’t people be grossed out by her?
- Question: Am I a cuckold if I regularly top the man who’s having sex with my wife? ?
- Question: I'm so confused that I don't know what to do. Help please?
- Question: Is this an example of BPD or similar?
- Question: What other moves should I do for the wife?
- Question: Is it wrong for me to feel uncontrollably upset that my boyfriend wants to wait a while to be married or is this a normal feeling?
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:46 PM PST |
| Question: Married man ? Is or was sex as great as you imagined or it's better ? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:42 PM PST |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:03 PM PST I know that I have bad anxiety but I can't make this stuff up. And he makes me think I'm crazy. I've been having bladder problems for years about 5 years now. I've been to multiple hospitals and they all just tell me I'm "constipated". My friend told me " you need to keep digging deeper. A hospital told me I was constipated and ended up having serious health complications. My problem is that I have to pee every 5 minutes. Even if I don't drink anything I'll still have to pee constantly. It's affecting my life and I feel hopeless. I keep getting fired from jobs because I can never sit still without going to the bathroom. I can't travel because of this constant peeing. I can't sleep throughout the night because I'm constantly peeing. I try to go to my husband for some support and comfort and he goes " you've been to multiple hospitals. Nothing is wrong with you. Your anxiety is making you pee. Just don't think about it." My foot is also swollen pretty bad it started to get swollen out of nowhere. I was like " well Mabye I should go to actual urologist" and he was like " the urologist is going to tell you the same thing the nurse told you. Nothing is wrong. You are not smarter then their machines so cut it out." He was being insensitive about my itching neck too. He said it was because of dirty sheets and I finally found out I was having an alsrgetix reaction my neck was itching like crazy 24/7.. |
| Question: Is it weird I don't use my own bank card? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:03 PM PST I share a checking ccount with my husband and I don't really use my own card. We just use his for all things. Is that weird? Have other couples done this? |
| Question: What is a bigger betrayal among female best friends? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 07:19 PM PST 1) If a woman owes her best friend $200,000 and keeps lying about paying her back? 2) If a woman has an affair with her best friends husband? |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 07:18 PM PST Does she get reminded of the special nights and acts that they did together ,but could'nt be together unfortunately even after having such deel feelings for each other? Are the husband's who married such wimen with high partner counts n with love history at risk for marrying them, whose feelings might get ignited at anytime in future if she recalls her past great times with her exes after meeting them after marriage? And also do they check out each others body secretly when they meet each other, and gets reminded of the intimacy they had? |
| Question: MEN: Would you interfere if you knew your wife was abusing your child ? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 06:19 PM PST Especially if the wife isn't the mother of said child? I understand that there are some men out there that let these things happen. |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 06:05 PM PST So me and my now ex wife (not legally divorced yet) separated less than two months ago because she wanted out of the marriage and claimed she "wanted the freedom to live how she wanted". I put up a fight to keep her because I truly did and still do love her, but I can't force someone to stay if they are miserable. The hard part is we have 3 very young children together. We have a set of twins age two and a 4 1/2 month old daughter. We decided that we were going to try to keep things discreet and settle the divorce without fighting over custody. However Wednesday night she came to pick the kids up and I smelt alcohol and when I asked her about it she was slurring her words. I told her that she couldn't take the kids and she made a scene over it that my poor daughters had to watch. I don't want to get the law involved but I might have to. Any recommendations? |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 05:22 PM PST How did u handle it? Not talking about basic kids who test boundaries by talking back, forget to take out the trash, boy crazy, etc. I mean true menace that the all the cops, neighboring mall security, neighbors, etc know by name and who everyone's surprised is still alive. |
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| Question: Wife not interested in sex after sister died in car accident ? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 04:44 PM PST My wife's youngest sister died Monday night in a car accident. She was 27. Since then my wife has had no interest in sex with me or even being near me. She's very depressed and has been crying a lot. The wake was last night and the funeral was today. We haven't had any sex since Sunday. Should I say something to her about it? Is it too soon to bring up the lack of sex for the past week? I've tried to make moves but she has been rejecting me all week. Any advice? How long should I wait to talk to get about the lack of intimacy? |
| Question: Ladies, what aroma do you prefer? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 04:08 PM PST No ladies, not the rancid stench of many lovers. I'm asking about cigars VS pipe tobacco. These aromas are among some of the sweetest scents I've ever encountered. What is your favorite aroma tobacco or otherwise? PS Not that awful hood rat cigaweed smell either. |
| Question: Is a boob job really grounds for divorce? Or is my husband being dramatic ? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 04:08 PM PST Ok so me and my hubby have been married for a year & a half. I'm 22 he's 27, we share a joint bank account because I don't work at the moment. Anyways long story short, I set up an appointment to get a breast augmentation, paid 650$ Non-refundable down payment for the date I'm getting it & I told my husband (thinking he would be happy and excited) and he's quite literally the opposite. I feel like he's taking things way too far and blowing them out of proportion. He's upset I get that but he's saying if I go through with it, he really has to "reevaluate our marriage".. I don't understand. I'm not turning back. I'm not a f*cking slave and I feel like he's trying to control me. Is he over reacting? |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 03:26 PM PST Is it common that when a friend gets married/engaged to not be able to hang out as much anymore? Like it's not personal? |
| Question: Do you make out with your spouse? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 03:01 PM PST I mean is kissing still part of affection in your marriage or has that flame died? |
| Question: How much do you spend on groceries and for how many ? ? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 01:51 PM PST I am trying to see if i spend too much ? I spend $130 every other week for me,husband and 1 year old |
| Question: My husband is annoying and can never do anything right, what do I do? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 01:43 PM PST I'm so tired of my husband, all he does is sits and never does anything. We have 3 kids and I'm 6 months pregnant and this pregnancy has been rough, my back is killing me and I'm a SAHM 31 years old and our youngest is 18 months old. We have a 9 and 6 year old as well and all he ever does is play with them and that makes me look like the mean parent when I tell them to do home work and pick up after they make a mess. I clean the house everyday and my husband messes it up, he leaves crumps and the doors open and when I tell him he just laughs. He's just so useless and can never do anything right and he's 33. I'm so tired, what do I do? |
| Question: Ladies, what have you done to remain memorable to your previous lovers? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 01:29 PM PST Ladies, you don't have to always give away your goods to a dude you only known for a minute! Let me tell you about a classy dame; Lt. Glass! Not many women could rock a BDU like she did. She projected absolute confidence and knew she had us at the palm of her hand. GOT DAAAAM! Anyhow? She had the nerve to take a slice... and walked away playfully as she looked back and took a bite! That's all I needed to never forget her! Lt. Glass, show these dumb broads the light! |
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| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 12:08 PM PST Considering she is very sorry and its a one time mistake from her side....n she claims to love her hudband more than anything now, then what should the husband do? |
| Question: Ladies, are you still expecting your husband to take you somewhere nice for valentines? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 10:31 AM PST Since you're already married...you already own not only the body, but the mind and soul. What else is there to give? Does your greed know no bounds? But of course I'm taking the wifey out to a fine dining establishment! Who do you think I am? I love nothing more than to appreciate the ladies!We both imprisoned ourselves with marriage but it doesn't mean we can't have fun! The only requirement I have is that she get dolled up and make the other guys drool. Make em wonder how I scored such a beautiful gal! Is that too much to ask? |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:59 AM PST For the majority of our marriage he's always had two sides to him and I've always wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt because I don't believe in divorce and because I love him and he said he loves me. But I have to be honest with myself. I've cried more than I've smiled in this marriage. One side of him is short tempted snappy controlling the other side is caring loyal. He will do anything for me. Like he helped me apply for 50 jobs to get the job I have now and he drive me everywhere I need to go until I learn how to drive. He said he doesn't want me to drive until I'm in therapy I have major anxiety and he's willing to take me to therapy. I've been having a lot of problems like peeing 24/7, constant itching, back hurting, every time my menustral cycle comes on I feel like I'm going to die. He said that a lot of my health problems are manifested from my anxiety and worrying. He said my nerves are so bad that I'm convincing myself I need to pee 24/7 even though there's really nothing wrong with my physical health. He took me to multiple hospitals and they said nothing is wrong so my husband said at that point it's just a mental thing. He seems to deal with my anxiety in a way no other man has dealt with it. Most men run because they think I'm mental. Anyways- onto his other side - he's very quick tempered. He's hot headed. The other night I left him a receipe to make with all of the ingredients on the counter. I left him a receipe and all the ingredients on the counter and he still refused to cook. He said cooking isn't his passion. He bought frozen spaghetti for us. He was so snappy and had an attitude when he said he will never cook anything except grits and eggs When we were just dating I know his mother would cook all his meals for him dsy in and day out even though he was 29 years old My husband was like " sometimes we will have to eat grits and eggs for dinner if you work long night shifts". Another instance I met a lady at the store and started chatting with her. We hit it off and I jokingly told my husband I had a new best friend and he was like " don't go around making new friends. People are dangerous. Stick with your old friends The other day I was confused about what he was saying about this paper and I was like what are you taking about and he snapped at me and said " don't ask me what I'm talking about like I'm dumb or something. Just say you're confused. This is irritating"... that just brought me to tears right then and there. I'm so tired of him being loving one day and snapping at me over nothing the next day |
| Question: My husband won’t stop gambling, what do I do? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:54 AM PST Long story short for the past 8 months my husband has been going to the casino at least 4x a week. He gambles his whole check away and has used money from our savings a few times. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and scared he will make us go broke. His family makes me feel guilty and they blame me for his problem and I'm just lost. I'm only 23 and I'm stressed to the max. I don't have a relationship with my family so I have no where to turn to. Forgot to mention that I have a job, I'm a nurse but that's beside the point! I can't work once I get to a certain point and 6 weeks after I have the baby. |
| Question: Where should I take the wife on super sports ball weekend? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:36 AM PST I have zero interest in watching a bunch of dudes toss a ball around and dog pile on each other....zero. Instead, I'd like to take the wife somewhere nice. I want to take advantage of less people out and about due to the masses being obsessed over sports ball. My only obsession are the ladies and their mating habits! Does this make me less of a man or less American if I don't care about super sports ball? I find it absolutely fascinating the freebies and wild time of single women. The caged and ridiculous almost hypocritical expectation of the married times. Then after marriage repeat the cycle! How is this not the main pastime!? |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 08:15 AM PST I am divorced buy my ex wife and I are still on friendly terms. My ex wife Rita has remarried. With her marriage she became a step mother to a teenage girl, Megan. Megan was behind in her classes and she needed some tutoring help. Rita called me and told me about Megan's need and that Rita and her husband did not have the money for a tutor. Rita asked me if I would tutor Megan on credit. I like to help people when I can so I told her I would tutor Megan for free. Megan came to my house after school 2 times a week and I tutored her until dinner time then we went to a restaurant and back to my house for more tutoring. I took her home after tutoring. After several tutoring sessions she told me she did not want to go home as her mom and dad were always fighting. At the last tutoring session she told me I would make a great dad and she wanted to move in with me as she could not stand the constant fighting her dad and Rita were doing. Not knowing what to say I told her parents would never agree to that. Megan clearly needs help but I am at a loss as how she can get help. If anyone has any ideas how I can get her help, please share them with me? THANKS |
| Question: Why did my parents get me a seperate room in the hotel? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 07:26 AM PST I'm 13 and my parents are getting married tomorrow. They are having a big party and they rented a nice suite for themselves with a tub and all. I was really excited but they told me that I have my seperate room to sleep in. I asked why but they just told me that it I just can't be in there. |
| Question: Why do all women want to get married so badly? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 06:33 AM PST They want to get married in their early 20s while I have no interest. |
| Posted: 31 Jan 2020 04:40 AM PST The family has been praying they would divorce. They are like gas and a match when together. My side of the family blames the wife of course since the husband is our relative but I can't help but be neutral. I do think the uncle was working on his problems and the wife just blames him for everything but that is all based on 3rd hand stories. Both are good people that are toxic together. Married 24 years. Yes, 24 years. They even have a granddaughter. Now they finally are no more. She officially ceases to be related to us. I sent her a Christmas card but it was returned so I guess she wants no contact. They split 4 years ago and she blocked me on Facebook so obviously does not want to be in the family. They did get back together for a time but split officially one year ago. So anyway, long story I know, but do I send out my congrats now that they are hereby divorced forever or is that tacky? All bad things that can happen in a marriage have to them except the police were never called. Also, while the wife uses the kids some, she has never committed parental alienation against anyone. My mother did that in her divorce but uncle's ex never did. She and my mother are very similar otherwise. |
| Question: Will The Judge Just Award Her More Time? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 04:18 AM PST I have a question here regarding child support: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20200129213040AA578BC Last night, she messaged me and said that her lawyer and her have decided that they are going to ask for the kids every other weekend, which is a change from the every weekend that I give them now. Her reasoning is that she can get a break, but she also wants to be able to do something fun with them. I get that, I do. I offered months ago that she can have them one weekend a month. She didn't want to do that. I wanted her to be able to do something fun with them and not have them only for school. She said no. Now, all of a sudden she wants them more when she wants more money from me. Can a judge just award her more time? Can I bring up that this is just another effort at grabbing more money off of me and using the kids to do so? |
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| Question: Am I a cuckold if I regularly top the man who’s having sex with my wife? ? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 03:28 AM PST |
| Question: I'm so confused that I don't know what to do. Help please? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 03:25 AM PST I've been with my SO for a little over a year now. A couple of weeks ago, he told me that he was sick and did not go to work. On the other hand, I wasn't feeling so good myself but went to office. Out of the blue, he messages me and says that he isn't seeking attention, but as my partner, it's my duty to visit him and attend to him. I had planned to do so but after work and for an hour, since I had another important commitment to fulfill. He complained that an hour was too less, so I left my work, got him food, and visited. Turns out that his entire family was ill and I caught the virus too. I even had to put in overtime for the work I missed. My question: was he being childish, or am I overthinking? How could I have approached this differently? Also, he borrowed 2000 grand from me on the grounds that he would pay it back, although I did not have any expectations for repayment. I told him to keep the money, and it seems that he convinced. Though, he asked for it at a time when I was vulnerable, as I was the first to like him and it took him time to open up to me. Then, he pops the question, and I don't know what to do because I don't want to rush things. He says his family is pressurizing him to marry soon, and he religious/social conditions that I need to fulfill for us to become man and wife. How do I deal with this situation? |
| Question: Is this an example of BPD or similar? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 01:18 AM PST So about 3 days ago I posted how my wife turned on me in the last or week or so by getting increasingly hostile and saying how much she hates me and doesn't want me in her life, hitting me, cursing me out, asking for divorce and making my life hell. Well yesterday I messaged her from my work and told her I'm not going to divorce her as this is not what I want. That it doesn't work like in her country where you can just unregister your marriage for a measly fee. That you have to go to counselling and mediation before living apart for at least 366 days, having the application assessed in the court etc. Well my wife hasn't made any attempts to move out and today she was actually acting more pleasant. No swearing or hitting. No biting my arm or telling me to f...off. And I feel calm and like everything is back to normal. Like I just went through extreme emotions and now everything is back to normal. I'm not feeling any anxiety anymore either. I think I've adjusted to large swings in emotions? I don't get it anymore... I spoke to a counselling line and they said go to counselling and the experienced staff will pick up on any underlying problems with my wife. Two days ago I wanted to but if I was to go today, I would feel weird and not know what to really address. I keep searching for answers... It should be said again that we both work outside of the home for long hours and her parents come from China to help us look after our son. She works really hard and she just keeps being frustrated at my lack of wage growth. |
| Question: What other moves should I do for the wife? Posted: 31 Jan 2020 12:05 AM PST Sexing the wife as I write this. Goddam intense! Cmon on marrieds! Don't let me down! That is correct! I'm working late and she working me! #1 She reverse cowgirl on office chair. #2 laid her at edge of bed standing missionary Hope my work don't suffer over this. Need more ideas! Multitasking! Can I put this on my resume? TIME!!!!! Let the record show it was under 1 hour duration. 1 frequency. I'm not counting the tine I spent passed out! See you bunch of marrieds, that's how it's done! |
| Posted: 30 Jan 2020 11:31 PM PST I've always known I wanted to get married fast and young and have always dreamed of the perfect man. Since day one my boyfriend has always been amazing to me and to top it off he told me a few month in that he wanted to get married after being together 2-3 years which fit what I wanted so felt confident that things would work out. Now we've just passed our two years and he tells me he doesn't want to marry me until he finishes college which will be another 2 and a half years and I feel totally blindsided. I feel trapped because he's the only man I want and he's the one preventing me from living my life the way I wanted to. Him pushing back getting married also pushes back when I want to have kids since I've always believed it's smart to not have kids right after marriage. I feel like how I want to live my life has to be on hold while I wait for him to be ready and it hurts because it's my life and I have to sacrifice that for him but he doesn't have to sacrifice anything since I don't believe it's right to push him into what I want if it's too fast. So I feel lost because all I can do is hurt and I can't talk to home about it without feeling like I'm pushing him. And it's make me distance myself so I am scared this will hurt the healthy relationship we've worked so hard for because I don't know how to cope with the pain and putting aside my own dream for him and I feel so guilty for it. Have any other girls felt this way or been in this situation before? Just to clarify I don't want kids before college, we are finically equal, it wouldn't be a finical burden on us, and we've already lived together 1 1/2 years and know how to compromise. This is the only subject I struggle to talk to him about since I don't want him to feel pressured in any way. |
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