My wife and I are in the process of starting separation. We have 4 kids, she doesn't work and has no income. She want the separation and has pushed for it for a long time. I thought I could make it work by going to counseling but to no avail. So while we are doing this she has mentioned taking the kids to Washington state for the summer. I do not agree to this. She then has told me I wouldn't be able to stop her if I wasn't here (referring me to being at work). If she did this, I don't know where her mom moved to in Washington. I know she'd block me on her phone. I've read that getting an attorney ASAP is key, but how would they serve her not knowing where she went for temporary child visitation? We currently live in Arizona. 

What should he do after knowing it now? He did'nt mind those relatives visiting him because he did'nt know till then, but now after knowing it how should he supposed to feel, and the awkwardness in the family that will be spread that his wife is not only physical with him, but tge others relarives bedded her for free as well....n she hid it too being selfish....n even talks openly with those relatives as if nothing has happened whereas they too would hug her , or spend time with her as if nothing happened. Now, who knows what those relatives might have said about this wife to their families n what impression the other family members n relatives might have for this husband. And what type of laugh they might have about this husband's situation in his absence.

I need to know for my ex wife. She does not want to learn how to drive.

My marriage was on the rocks and I fell in love with another man in the process. I guess I mistaked the comfort he gave me for love. This is the 2nd time I've cheated but the first Time was more emotionally cheating this time I actually had sex with the guy. My husband forgave me mostly because he doesn't have the best track record either and he knows he hasn't been really been there for me and been that caring loving husband I needed. He was very controlling also controlling every aspect of my life. A grown woman doesn't like to be controlled or scolded like a child. Then my husband has a short fuse we've recently been going through counseling and hopefully there will be a big change. I decided to delete all my male contacts and delete every male that's not family off my Facebook to resist temptation. I told the guy we could be friends but I want to do the right thing and end this affair and become a better woman. He went off on me talking about " should've known you're just like every hoe who just wanted love on the side cause your so called man treating you right. You want me to sit around and wait on you to be supposedly done with him. You're full of $hit. Don't call me when he's making you depressed again. You made your choice so stick to it." We had sex only two times and he's actin like he's obsessed with me. He also called me like 3 times after he left that message. Yes we had deep conversations but we only had sex twice. 

Married for 20 years, intimacy at all time low, says shes stressed, kids, money cause it. She is always to tired, but when it's time to go out w girlfriends she get all dressed sexy, eyes done, and drinks and I beg her to at least text me to let me know she's ok but she says she forgets. Then Calls me INsecure and I don't  trust her and gets so mad. What is it? She doesn't understand that if we were still intimate regularly i wouldn't feel jealous at all.

Me: Why aren't you ready yet? What are you waiting for? Him: I do not feel. I am not in rush. I am happy with present. But you want good future by screwing up everything in present. That would not work. Me: You don't feel any connection with me? Him: I never said like that. If it would be like that I would never wasted my time. Your expectations are so high. I am not saying is bad. But my expectations will take time to reach your level. Me: What do you mean expectations are high? Him: Like wedding and all that stuff soon. I am not saying it is bad. But it is early for me.

The sad thing is... I've known a lot of relationships like the one Harry has with Meghan. And it proves to me - once again - how very often it is that a MAN loves the woman in his life FAR more than that woman loves him. Harry is giving up all that he knows. SHE is giving up NOTHING. With Meghan - it's HER WAY or NO WAY.

I'm asian.... 5'10" with easy going personality and really like sports.   I have a full time job for 10 years.    I'm middle class and educated......  would a woman with strong physical attribute like me? my face is not like those Kpop male singers.....

My friend said she was having an online affair where she fell in love with the dude then she finally met him in person and was not impressed at all. She said he only lasted 10 seconds in bed, he wasn't as romantic as he emails made him out to be and he wasn't as physically attractive as his pictures made him out to be. She said she instantly stopped talking to him.

My wife and I been married for 3 years. She has has two kid by her ex husband. A 4 year old girl and a 8 year old boy. We have no children together and I have no kids at all. Anyhow, The 4 years girl lives with us 7 days a week. The boy lives with us to stay in the school hes in until he goes to middle school. He currently in the 2nd grade. He comes stays with us every weekend. Her ex is basically is kid free every weekend. Her ex husband works construction under the table and doesn't pay taxes. Each year she'll claim both the kids on her taxes and then she splits the money with him  right down the middle. I dont think its fair he gets half cause out of the two children he has he only takes care of one and for only 5 days out the week. I do think he should get something but not half.  I feel like if he wants if he wants more he should get job where he pays taxes and claim one if the kids. I haven't said anything to her about it I was just wondering an outside opinion the matter. 

Hi, so after dinner I wanted something sweet. I asked my husband if we could go to Wendy's and get a frosty but he was like no.  So I decided to make some pumpkin spiced cookies a flavor my husband expresses his dislike for quite often. I decide to make some icing for them so maybe they'll be more to his liking.  About 30 minutes in he asked what was I making. I tell him and he makes a look of disgust. I ask if he wants to try just the cookie, I'm still cooking the icing? He goes sure. He likes it and says he wants one when their done. I finish baking the rest of the batter iced them and gon them on a plate to cool . I bring him one and he goes off. He says he doesnt want any icing. I told him I iced then all. Why didnt he ask for an un iced one he was like you should have asked me what my preference was. I apologized and now hes mad at me . He says I'm selfish and only think about myself. Am I in the wrong? I literally made the icing because he complains about pumpkin spice. I didnt even want cookies I wanted a frosty. 

My mom just got married to a man named Daniel Thomason. He's really nice to me and my siblings, as well as his two young children. What should my siblings and I get the happy couple for a wedding gift?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and really wanna get married. I'm a freshman in college this year, and he isn't in school, but doing a residency in the same city as my school. We want to get married and live together while I'm in school and he is working, but my parents don't think it's a good idea. Does anyone have any advice on getting married before finishing school?

im asking because most of the time I see when married man cheats he cheats with a whore and prostitutes while he married to decent classy wife. why this happening I know man can be deceived by satan like a whore. this girls also sleep around and can give you hiv or std 

What do they want for me.i mean in order to receive divorce from Court if i am separated of 10 years ? Shouldn t i receive an identiti card bew with my own name as divorced ?what more do or must i do ?

My husband and I generally have a very good sex life. Yesterday, I was diagnosed with the flu for the first time in my life. (Yes, we both had the flu shot.) It's been AWFUL. I can barely hold my phone up to type this. My husband has been wonderful but every few hours he's been pestering me for sex or some form of foreplay. I've been sweating non stop, I have absolutely NO interest in sex or anything romantic right now. He slept in the guest room last night and was not happy about it. I can't help but feel guilty that I'm not up for pleasing my man. Any advice? My head is throbbing, arms and legs hurt, I keep coughing. I'm so miserable! I've never in my life had the flu.

My uncle is an alcoholic and apparently his wife is blaming him for all the problems in their family and he is taking the wrath despite his only flaw being the drinking. He does not drink as much as he used to and is trying to recover. He has even apologized for his alcoholism and the impact on the family. Yet my aunt apparently blames him for everything and still does and is now divorcing him. Luckily I'm not their kid and I just see them a few times a year but I'm curious if this is normal in an alcoholic family.

My daughter is 23 living with us while she attends college. This morning I saw her about to leave without saying anything and I was like " where you going" and she was like " got to give my boyfriend his birthday gift" and I was like " you saw him yesterday why didn't you give it to him yesterday." And she was like " I forgot. I'll be back" and then I look out the window and I see her walking towards a car I never saw before. It was not her boyfriends car. She got in the car and the car was there for about an hour because I was looking at the window watching her. Why did she lie that was definitely not her boyfriends car. When she got back in the house I was like " why were waking towards that car and why you were sitting in the car for an hour. I thought you just had to give your boyfriend his gift. And why did he park all the way at the end of the street" and she was like " we wanted to talk in private. I cannot believe you're sitting here stalking me."

When a man marry in the states, does professor or doctor or lawyer man wants a very rich woman? Does lawyer or doctor asks a woman to buy a nice home, expensive car, good furnitures and ask woman to pay wedding ceremony? Does doctor or lawyer care woman's education level? Occupation? Income?   Face?

My husband and I keep fighting recently. We wont fight during the day but however its at night time we started to fight. My husband has seizures and he snores really bad (he is getting one of those cpap machines soon ) so he chooses to sleep in the living room leaving me alone in the bedroom. His reasoning is that he doesn't want his snoring to bother me. Well last night I was feeling lonely so I asked him to come in the bedroom. Instead of wanting to be with me in the bedroom he started complaining and repeated things his doctor was telling him to better himself and that I dont care about his health yadda yadda. He realized he was wrong for yelling at me because i wanted him to be with me but then when he called me during his work break today he started this arguement again and i told him not to repeat himself (he keeps repeating everything his doctor tells him). He is claming i dont care about him or his health and he doesnt want to be near me until his snoring stops. I get it but i miss having him in the bedroom with me. Husband and Wife shouldnt sleep alone. He chooses to sleep in the living room. I told him if he wants to come back in the bedroom then come back or call your doctors, find out when that machine is coming to help with the snoring, go lose weight. But he doesnt seem to go do these things to better himself either.  I dont know what to say anymore to him because he always takes it the wrong way (like getting mad, throwing his phone, & acting like a 2 yr old) How can we stop arguring over this? I love him and care about him and yet he takes everything the wrong way :/

I have a coworker who is very social with everyone but she has taken a peculiar liking to another male coworker. She will stand there and talk to him as much as she can and she goes over to help him just to be around him. They tease each other like they're flirting but she's married with a baby. She also goes out of her way to tease men to get their attention, old or young it doesn't matter. Why does she crave so much attention?

My husband didn't like a picture I posted of me on Facebook, but liked a memory of his kids posted by ex wife. I saw him scroll past my picture. Should I be upset?

I don't have a car so it's not like I can go drive to his place and make up some story about how I'm visiting a friend. He is forced to drive over here. I've been having him park at the neighbors house for fear of my family seeing him. My parents don't mind if I date but I don't want the evil eyes and judgement of dating someone so close after the divorce. I don't have time for a million questions. Plus I don't wanna introduce a new guy into our life until we've been together for a full year. I don't want it getting back to him I just know he's going to spread rumors about me being the biggest ho in town. Having sex in the car is getting old. Not being able to go out on public dates because you don't wanna be seen is getting Olof.

What can smb do if i cannot have the money i mean the money is in the mqriage and all the acvounts are at ex husband i do not have money to pay and is required at courrt ..the husband left and went to his misteess having a baby soon and i was let without money .all the fortune is at him.i had previously a divorce and i got ill while the Court meet for Husband Apeal .. Here none of the Courts is natiomal anylonger is either german british or american in some procedures because previous  Because previous goverments . We had a german king and english queen actually it was the last german king who came here i don t know exactely how but actually the king had to fight even against hitler who was one of his country Germain. Then after war it was comunism.the king left with a mistress probably it was a spy . Then the comunism led everything and i was raped by a double etnicity without knowing it existed although everything made by masons not by my family ...it results from .what i heard we just had to work  Then after war comunism.actualy was introduced by masons and this was caused by usa also because the masons are also from.usa anf they intriduced a laicist maroage and i didn t know and i was raped ..here we do not know other way of marriage ..the laicist mariage .. And i was raped although this rapist was from.counteyside where should have been more faith.this wasn t virgin he was a spy and a impostor also i was from a family with a member in comunist assembly in the last 9 years  Who has been an actor and now i suspect he was also killed because other family members died without explanation and never heard sich a thing and i myself have found some evil things in food bought from.provate shops as after the revolution there is n state shops .

He said it's too foggy to drive and he's going to get a hotel room to stay in for the night. Problem is that my parents are going to flip out when they realize I'm spending the night with him. They are Christians and they don't believe in that. Last time I spent the night with him I was almost homeless. I'm 26 but cannot afford my own place right now. Idk what to do boyfriend refuses to drive me back home he said he's not putting his life and my life in danger to please my parents. And I can't lie to them either and say I'm with a friend because they alresdy know I'm with him. They saw him pick me up. 

We've been dating for 2 months. He is not ready for a relationship yet but says he is dating only me. He wants to "go with flow" and is afraid to talk about the future. He says sometimes I piss him off but he won't leave for the little things. I've asked again if marriage is one of his goals and he said yes but needs time. He has told his parents we are dating but has not yet tell them more. He says "when I feel I will do."

I'm NOT saying I don't love my children. I am incredibly blessed and wouldn't trade my 2 children for anything. However, I'm 31 years old, married, I have 2 beautiful children a 9 month old and a 3 year old.  Sometimes I look on social media at my friends in their late 20's and early 30's that are childless and at times I get jealous. They have all this freedom to go out at night and do all of these things. Financially they seem much better off then my husband and I as well. Babies are quite expensive. Again not saying I'm unhappy or don't love my kids. Is this a normal feeling to have every once in awhile?

I am a widowed female, 74 yrs. of age and live in Illinois. A widowed, retired Air Force man from Kentucky, has asked me to marry him. Same age as me. If I marry him, will I lose my widow's pension, which is my only income? And would he lose his? 

and for women to wear theirs on the right one?

I've been in a relationship for 3 years we have a daughter together she's 1 were not married anyway it's been terrible she cheated on me with my best friend a year ago threatened to take our child she's constantly abusive physical and mentally I know I should leave but I don't want to risk losing my daughter or her maybe I'm afraid of being alone at this point? Also it should be noted she has some mental health problems any advice?

why loneliness is worstest then being married