My BF and I had sex last week. He said he has done it many times with his ex whereas Ive only done it about 3 times with my ex. Yesterday he sent me a humor picture which shows a groom and bride on wedding night. Groom was saying "please god give me power and experience today." Bride said "give him power, I have enough experience."

Thats hot im so beautifully furry for my future husband

Remember when you were young and single ladies!  Did you need a counselor or advisor in order to spread your legs for multiple lovers?  I doubt it.   How about honor?Was it honorable when you were sneaking out without your parents permission? Or dating and bedding multiple lovers at the same time?Why then does a married person need to jump all these hoops in order to get some strange?Married people aren't exactly the pillar of society they pretend to be with all that cheating and sneaking around they do anyway.So don't give me this lecture about honor or counseling or losing half your assets in order to satisfy an itch.  Totally ridiculous double standards the "happily married" folks have to deal with today.Can I color my hair purple and protest that I feel oppressed because of "muh marriage"Remember married lives matter too!Change my mind!

Save the judgement. I just need advice. Yes I've been cheating on my husband for the past couple of months with this man who I felt instant sparks with.the connection between is insane. And we have WAY more in common than my husband and I. I knew me and my husband have been incompatible for a while now but talking to this other man just showed me how much more incompatible we are. And we didn't start off by having sex. We started off by having amazing conversation and great vibes. We woke up on the phone and went to sleep on the phone. I mean we were up till 3 am -4am talking about everything under the sun and getting to know each other. I told him about my anxiety my fears everything and how eventually I wanna have kids but I don't wanna repeat history because my mom was abusive. He reassured me that I was going to be a great mom in the future. Anyways we had sex twice and the sex was ok but he didn't really want to kiss me. He said he doesn't want to catch anything and bring it back to his daughter his daughter is like 3 years old. He said he kissed his daughter on the cheek. He said I might not have anything but my husband might because my husband sleeps around a lot. Yeah my husband has cheated on me so many times even though he denies it I know this. I've only had two partners my entire life. And I'm 33. He also said that kissing brings a lot of emotion into sex and he said that he doesn't want to get all emotionally tied up and then end up getting hurt He was like "cause that'll make me real upset if I get too emotionally attached only for you to end up never leaving him" It's just weird and awkward to have sex without kissing I've never had sex like that and it's strange to me  I said I think we should stop having sex if it means nothing to him except getting off. I was thinking he would be more romantic" and he was like " what's the point of being romantic right now if you're still with him Then he said he didn't get to shoW off what he wanted to do for me for Valentine's Day." I'm so confused  I don't get it though how is he only interested in sex when he was texting me 24/7??? Like I get men who only text you once a week being only into sex but I seriously felt a bond with him and he said he felt the same bond  I used to talk to him 24/7 now he takes up to 6 hours sometimes  2 days to respond sometimes 

I have a fiery and super-short-tempered wife, who loses her cool the moment something doesn't work the way she wanted. Sometimes she blurts out really nasty things which I fear is beginning to push me away. I mean literally since the weeks she found out she was pregnant I've been dealing with. Its been 7 months of verbal and emotional abuse. Ive been called every name in the book and it seem like just being in the same room as her annoys her to her core. On top of that she has no desire for intimacy so it's also been 7 months since we made love. But I love her very much and I want to provide and give her a happy life because, when calm, she is an amazing person to be around and we are excited to be expecting a daughter in two month. I really don't know how to approach or calm her down without aggravating her, so I just find myself distancing away from her to give her space, which does work sometimes, but even that at times annoys her because she thinks I am sulking when I stay away and say nothing to her. She is a good person at heart. 

Save the judgement. I just need advice. Yes I've been cheating on my husband for the past couple of months with this man who I felt instant sparks with.the connection between is insane. And we have WAY more in common than my husband and I. I knew me and my husband have been incompatible for a while now but talking to this other man just showed me how much more incompatible we are. And we didn't start off by having sex. We started off by having amazing conversation and great vibes. We woke up on the phone and went to sleep on the phone. I mean we were up till 3 am -4am talking about everything under the sun and getting to know each other. I told him about my anxiety my fears everything and how eventually I wanna have kids but I don't wanna repeat history because my mom was abusive. He reassured me that I was going to be a great mom in the future. Anyways we had sex twice and the sex was ok but he didn't really want to kiss me. He said he doesn't want to catch anything and bring it back to his daughter his daughter is like 3 years old. He said he kissed his daughter on the cheek. He said I might not have anything but my husband might because my husband sleeps around a lot. Yeah my husband has cheated on me so many times even though he denies it I know this. I've only had two partners my entire life. And I'm 33. He also said that kissing brings a lot of emotion into sex and he said that he doesn't want to get all emotionally tied up and then end up getting hurt He was like "cause that'll make me real upset if I get too emotionally attached only for you to end up never leaving him" But I thought he was already emotionally attached because he said he told his mother about me?  It's just weird and awkward to have sex without kissing I've never had sex like that and it's strange to me  I said I think we should stop having sex if it means nothing to him except getting off. I was thinking he would be more romantic" and he was like " what's the point of being romantic right now if you're still with him" He was like " I am romantic I can bring you flowers and everything but what's the point if you're gonna be with him for a while". Then he said he didn't get to shoW off what he wanted to do for me for Valentine's Day." I'm so confused  I don't get it though how is he only interested in sex when he was texting me 24/7??? Like I get men who only text you once a week being only into sex but I seriously felt a bond with him and he said he felt the same bond 

In my mind she's still my jailer although she gives me tremendous pleasure.  I'm working on that whole "jailer" title she's earned though.  Maybe I can find a better title with a positive sexy spin if you know what I mean! Tell me about your spouse, good and bad and how you deal with it please.

Ladies, dig deep and remember when you were on the hunt to cure your insatiable desire for many lovers.  Was it wrong then? I think for the most part here is how it breaks down 1. Single - eat your heart out until satisfied 2. Married - you are not allowed any strange 3. Divorced - See number 1 4. Widowed - See number 1 5. In a retirement home - See number 1 I mean, I read all about tnder granny and she's all the rage.  Nobody is judging her and in fact she gets more encouragement to proceed with her ways. My problem is this:  In my life, I haven't checked off my bucket list the "promiscuous requirement before marriage" item. Is it so bad if I want to do this item out of order so long as I manage to keep everyone involved safe and sane and NOT lose half my assets in a divorce?

She doesn't understand the concept of being frugral. Since she lost her job our relationship has been even more strained. We literally have been arguing nonstop for years. We already have so much we are opposite on but this money issue is a huge one. She lost her job and still wants fruits and vegetables. I told her she's going to have to learn how to survive on the $25-30 a week I give her on groceries. I can't give me then that. She can get her luxury food when she gets her job again. She said she needs fruits and vegetables for a healthy and balanced diet. I was like " you just gonna have to survive on some cheap rice some cheap beans and if you have enough you can get a pack of ground beef and make that into a meal. She can't get her expensive fruits vegetables and yogurt and all that. It's about survival now. If she had a job and money things would be different. I'm in school so I'm only working part time making $900 every two weeks now so things are tough

I have been living on my own since 20 years old. I live 12 hours from home.  When I was 23 I moved to a new city landed my dream job knew NOBODY there but I made it work.  In 2017 I got married and moved to a new town with my husband for his job. I landed a very good paying job but after 3 months my job went bankrupt. I was devastated. The only other job I could get was covering someone on maternity leave for 3 months. That same year we lost our home in a fire. I could not find any work for almost a year after all of this. Then, in August 2018 I found a full time job. THAT company also went bankrupt. I was unemployed again until May 2019 when I worked again for a temporary company part time for the summer. I FINALLY found a teaching job in August 2019. It is unfortunately only a 1 year contract and then I'll be unemployed again. The area where we live is TERRIBLE for jobs. The unemployment rate is our area is 13 percent. This past September I found out my husband was having an affair with 3 different women and we are now divorcing. I'm 31 years old I've always been independent and I've never felt the desire to move home with my parents. I can't take much more. I've become a complete hermit, I'm having a VERY hard time making friends. I know this is EXTREMELY unhealthy for me. The only friends I have are my 2 neighbors in their 80's. I'm 12 hour from any family. Should I just give up and move home? I'm miserable! 

My ex is 2 weeks past his 20 time frame to respond to my request for divorce so my lawyer is going to proceed with a default divorce. My question is does he receive notification that hes in default and that.im requesting a default divorce or does he get notified once the default divorce is granted. Im asking because i was told under certain circumstances the default divorce could be over turned if he decided to respond late. Past his 20 day time frame to respond*

Andif the husband complains, then can she say its her life n her friends, so she can talk anything with them, as its her personal life....n if the husband has problems than he will be called insecured

They are 22 and 23 years old both in college but staying at home while they attend college. My daughter has a boyfriend and my son has a girlfriend. I've been putting a vacation on hold until they move out because I don't trust them in the house by themselves. They'll probably be having sex all in my house. I told my daughter if I ever found out she allowed her boyfriend to stay at my house for a week I would kick her out no questions same with our son and his girlfriend. My wife has been badgering me about going on a romantic vacation just us too for a while. She wants to go to Bali for a week but I'm paranoid about leaving those two at our home by themselves for the reasons listed above. My wife was like " stop worrying about them and let's just go.theyre going to have sex anyways and it would be best if they had sex while we weren't there to hear or witness it."... my wife is weirdly easy going and laid back about this but there's no way I want them having sex in my home. Any advice.  They can have sex in the car but not in my home it's disrespectful. I would've never had sex in my parents home when I was their age. 

I've read some articles that this will help marriage out of a rut. What are some good ways to proceed but keep it on the low.  Both wife and I want to do this to spice up forever till death marriage. PS don't want to be swingers. Also, I've come to the realization that each adult needs to partake in multiple lovers throughout life regardless of marriage status and without people casting judgement.

I'm pretty ugly. But I can cook, clean, I work. Trying to get in better shape. But unfortunately I feel like I will die alone. Especially since I have a face that not even Jason Voorhees' Mom could love. I make Rocky Dennis look normal. 

If a girl who was in many relationship and the last relationship was very serious and both loved each other and wanted to marry each other very much but could not marry due to some unfavaourable situation, and she marries another man of her choice ? So will she ever be able to forget her exes whom she loved truly? And will she ever be able to treat her present husband with as much love? Or will the husband never get full live from her like the exes got? Or how long will he have to suffer for her , and approx how long will she take to forget them?

Is it because of their habits of wanting multiple partners  or as their body is used to different partners n they cant stop comparing and them thinkingbare are still many better men out there?

I work so much I've just lost control of keeping the house clean. By the time I get home the last thing I want to is start yelling and screaming at the kids about getting it done. I'm tired! My husband is a total waste, he's lazy and can't be bothered so it's like yelling at 5 lazy kids. I've taken all of their electronics away and it doesn't help. I leave the house at 6:45am and I work 2 jobs getting home between 7/8pm. I also work Saturday's & Sunday's. How else can I get this cleaning done? Life has just walked into my house and dropped its sh!t everywhere 

They'll be happier and so will I 😂😂😂

Married sex mostly sucks cuz routine.   But man does it get so much better when she's working hard to convince me to stay. BTW my wife not a pig or obese like most of the married broads in the suburbs. But yeah, she coming down in a few hours to get some (sleeping on couch cuz I been a bad boy)

talking about a marriage partner where they are loyal and treat the marriage like it is something other than a ___ what? what is the word? like a business or sexual agreement ? when, how this happened in Western countries and did it USE to be like it is now still in places like Iran, or India or China too? I mean do people in Iran and other muslim countries, for example get divorces? how compared to in Western countries? why, how has changed?