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- Question: My husband had an emotional affair and is still friends with the woman on FB?!?
- Question: Why does my husband feel the need to dismiss my needs?
- Question: Are those with chronic illness less likely to marry?
- Question: How did you spend your free time?Do you read books?
- Question: What makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing?
- Question: I’ve got an alcoholic uncle. Does this mean I should judge his wife for being married to him?
- Question: Husband riding with his ex wife?
- Question: Why is my husband always tired?
- Question: I am a married woman who realized i am in love with another man, I am devastated.?
- Question: Is it a man's job . . . . . .?
- Question: Question about husband riding with ex wife?
- Question: What are the prime ages for wives to cheat?
- Question: Tired of using a rolled up newspaper to discipline my wife. What do other husbands suggest?
- Question: I learned this week the dirty secrets of my uncle’s marriage. Should I keep them a secret even though he’s died?
- Question: At what age is a man "too old" to marry and have kids?
- Question: How should I deal with these unnatural feelings about my ex-wife? I am going insane.?
- Question: Why do husbands always join dating websites?
- Question: Why do husbands always destroy the marriage by cheating and then say they don't think this is working out and then ask for a divorce?
- Question: What do used-up old thots do after they age out of the marriage market, and no man wants them any more?
- Question: My husband is cheating on me?
- Question: I’m having problems with my wife’s friend.?
- Question: My little sister is bothering me. Ruined my marriage,goes after my kids found her in my house. throwing out my furniture on purpose.mental?
- Question: Is it a good thing for someone to have more experience than his ( or her ) romantic partner ?
- Question: Can a woman be held liable to pay alimony in Colorado if she openly commits adultery before the divorce?
- Question: Married to a man but I want a girlfriend?
| Question: My husband had an emotional affair and is still friends with the woman on FB?!? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 09:19 PM PDT I found a letter that my husband wrote to remind him to what to say to our marriage counselor. He said he had an emotional affair and couldn't meet up with her because he'd cheat. I approached him about it and he said they only talked for 2 days and ended it. He didn't want the temptation. He and his cousin went to help her move furniture and lied straight to my face about who he was helping. He promised me they hadn't talked since July. So today, he posted something on FB about needing help with something. She wrote "I never thought you'd ask!" I couldn't believe my eyes. He was still friends with this woman after everything. We've only been married 6 months and I feel so much hatred towards him right now. I don't know what to do. He since settled his FB page and said there are obviously still insecurities.. I'm not insacure!! It's about respect. Am I won't for feeling this way? I feel he brushed it off |
| Question: Why does my husband feel the need to dismiss my needs? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 09:06 PM PDT After being married for 5 years, my husband still believes his needs are of utmost importance. Just a while ago I sat down to watch a movie. He walks in, takes the remote and changes it. I tell him calmly I was in the middle of watching a movie and he says, "Well I'm watching this now." His reasoning (I've asked him before) is that he paid for the TV, not me, so he had rights over the TV that I don't have. He gets upset and questions me when I buy one or two grocery items he doesn't like but I do. He rants and raves that he's never heard of the item and doesn't want to try it. He wants me to make his food EXACTLY like his mom and grandma made it. I can understand keeping a few traditions alive and I'm more than happy to do that, but he doesn't want me to start any of my own. My stomach tightens into a knot when he walks through the door because I know it's time for the dictatorship to commence. Is this a hopeless situation? |
| Question: Are those with chronic illness less likely to marry? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 07:47 PM PDT I would say that most of my friends are married, engaged or in serious relationships. I did not date until after college because of a traumatic brain injury during surgery on a brain cyst. My first serious relationship was with a narcissist so obviously that didn't go well and I blocked him after learning about narcissistic abuse. I feel like if I had not had the TBI, things would be different. I actually had someone ask me on a date if my medical history was related to genetics. It was very off-putting. My career on the other hand is rock solid because I have had lots of time to study and work on myself. I have a bachelors from UNC and masters from NYU and am a medical social worker. At the same time I'm 28 and not close to marriage. |
| Question: How did you spend your free time?Do you read books? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 06:03 PM PDT |
| Question: What makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 04:49 PM PDT |
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| Question: Husband riding with his ex wife? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 03:06 PM PDT I'm married to my husband who cannot drive because he is legally blind. He has 2 children. Him and his ex wife keep in contact about the kids. In a few weeks, one of them has to have surgery. I have to work on that day so he may have to ride with his ex wife (she's married also). I'm not so sure how to feel about this. It makes me nervous. We are all civil and get along, but her husband may have to work as well so it would just be them two riding together. How would you feel in this situation? He said it wouldn't be weird because he's over it. |
| Question: Why is my husband always tired? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 01:58 PM PDT He sleep so much. I'm wondering if I'm tiring him out. I'm energetic, ambitious and always up when ever we're together. He always fall asleep on me. He's so boring and always have problems with his leg or back. It's a never ending thing and he's super slow like when he do things. I'm fast as a lighting bolt and need someone who can keep up with me. I have no more patience for him. He procrastinate too much. I feel like I always have to give him something to do to keep him going or else he'll just sit and waits. It's so annoying. I'm the one who have to bring in the fun, dates etc and he's just going along. When I ask if there's something he want us to do together, he doesn't answer. He's very quiet and keep to himself. I'm out of ideas to help keep our marriage fresh and fun. I don't want to do this anymore. I'm so bored of him. I feel held back by being married to him. Once the fun is over, the relationship is over right? I never said I was going to cheat or there's another man. |
| Question: I am a married woman who realized i am in love with another man, I am devastated.? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 01:13 PM PDT The man i am in love with is also married. We have not had ANYTHING, but i am also sure he is into me, and on top of that we work together. In conclusion our situation is complicated, and i feel so depressed. First, i could not believe that i have feelings for another man that is not my husband, second, feeling guilty for feeling like this and also sad because the other relationship is also no possible. |
| Question: Is it a man's job . . . . . .? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 12:48 PM PDT My female coworkers are having a comical conversation right now. They feel that it's the man's job to coddle a wife and support her no matter what. I made the comment that my wife is 48, I'm 50, and I do not agree with everything she says or she'll come home and stare at me with a death look. I typically don't want the headache so I won't say anything. Then she'll look at me and say something to the affect of, "aren't you going to ask me what's wrong?" My reply to her is usually, "nope, you're 48 years old. If you want to tell me what's wrong you will. You shouldn't wait for me to ask you." If I have a bad day and want to talk I'll start the conversation, "guess what happened today." Nope, my wife likes to be asked. I'm the type to where after I've driven almost an hour to get home I like the first 30 minutes to just sit down, maybe go through the mail, or just watch a little but of TV before a heave conversation. My wife knows this but the minute I walk in the house she'll give me a stern look followed by, "well, since I can't talk to you for 30 minutes I guess I'll have to wait!" First of all that killed my mood and secondly, what she usually wants to talk about isn't that important anyway, but because she wants to talk about it, it's important. Usually it's something a co-worker said or some new policy she doesn't like on her job. Or, her sister got on her nerves. Is it a man's job to coddle his wife and baby her? Do women coddle men like this? According to the girls I work with the man is suppose to always be there to listen to his wife and do whatever it takes to make her life easier and better. That means if she wants to complain about what a co-worker did or said. Or if she is upset that her sister didn't do what she thought she should do. The man is suppose to listen with an attentive ear and support her no matter what. However, if a man has in issue people usually say, just suck it up and act like an adult." |
| Question: Question about husband riding with ex wife? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 12:36 PM PDT I'm married to my husband who cannot drive because he is legally blind. He has 2 children. Him and his ex wife keep in contact about the kids. In a few weeks, one of them has to have surgery. I have to work on that day so he may have to ride with his ex wife (she's married also). I'm not so sure how to feel about this. It makes me nervous. We are all civil and get along, but her husband may have to work as well so it would just be them two riding together. How would you feel in this situation? |
| Question: What are the prime ages for wives to cheat? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 12:23 PM PDT I've found women very open to having affairs/cheating at the 8 year & 18 year anniversary of their wedding. This is regardless of the type of husband. It doesn't matter if they are attentive (too clingy) or hard working (neglectful). It seems to also coincide with ages of mid 30s to late 40s. Anyone else notice this? |
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| Posted: 30 Sep 2019 11:23 AM PDT His widow got loaded at a wedding this weekend and told me. For example all but 1 of their kids was made to save the marriage and not anything else. Uncle and Aunt were separated at the time of his death last April. She still goes by widow since they never divorced. |
| Question: At what age is a man "too old" to marry and have kids? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 10:53 AM PDT I'm a 24 year old male (almost 25) and I really want to become a parent. I want to start dating, but I'm wondering what age is considered "too old" for a man to get married and become a first time father. Yes, I know a man can bear children as old as 50. But how many women would actually marry a man in his 50s and have kids with him? At what age would a woman consider a man "too old" to want to marry and have children with him? |
| Question: How should I deal with these unnatural feelings about my ex-wife? I am going insane.? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 09:24 AM PDT So my wife cheated me, she was having an emotional affair I forgave her. Later I discovered she was in hotel room with her BF several times, when confronted she accepted it. Few days later I suffered heart attack, BTW I was 34 then. That day I realized how much i loved her. I still did not wanted to divorce. I tried counseling did not work. So eventually we divorced, it was hard decision for me. She took away my son and would not allow me to meet him or talk to him. And I had to fight custody battle. Those 2 years and few months after getting he custody I hated her form the core, I did not want to talk to her or see her, although she tried to get back and remarry me. My psychologists advised me against marrying her, she would not mend her ways he said and probably cause another stress induced heart attack or stroke. Since, last few month I've been missing her a lot and waning to get back together I have been having visions and dreams about me wanting her badly and having sex with her very occasionally, those thoughts have consumed me. For last 2 days I have been having thoughts of having her back in my life and having her cuckold me, and I would allow that to happen. This is very insane and crazy I spent all last night consumed in thoughts of sharing her with other men... and all day today ....it all got out of hands when I got her pic with her BF and started masturbating to them together..... What is happening, looking for some serious advise. |
| Question: Why do husbands always join dating websites? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 08:45 AM PDT |
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| Question: My husband is cheating on me? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 03:50 AM PDT Hi all, please I need advice I recently got married and I'm pregnant for himI found out that my husband is cheating on me with another woman I don't how to confront him. Any advice. Thanks. |
| Question: I’m having problems with my wife’s friend.? Posted: 30 Sep 2019 03:47 AM PDT I got drunk one night and I threatened her stupidly. Well now she's mad and threatening me, and my wife is on her side. My daughter is having a birthday party next month and I don't want her at my house but she keeps persisting that she is going to, I'm not scared of her, but however, I'm out on bail for reckless conduct. Will I get in trouble for defending my property even though I'm out on bail and how can I keep her out my house, even if my wife wants her there. |
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| Posted: 30 Sep 2019 01:44 AM PDT I read an article that mentioned a woman who was worried about getting serious about a divorced man . One person in that article compared a relationship to two people getting stranded in the jungle somewhere . You hope one of them has been in the jungle before and knows which fruits are okay to eat and which snakes are poisonous . This article said there are "been there, done that" benefits of meeting someone who's gone through a divorce and who has the experience of knowing where that marriage went wrong . It said "If you meet someone who's been divorced, there's a lot to learn from that . You can learn from them what works and doesn't work in a relationship and they'll know what they're prepared to commit to or not commit to . That person might say "I was married and I was miserable because I couldn't go out on the weekends and hang out with my pals and watch sports all day Saturday and Sunday .", so you'll know what that person will need in his next relationship . A lot of people who have the same level of experience get married, and they do all right . I've never been married. and I want a romantic partner who has no more experience than I've had . If I married a woman who's had a lot more experience than I have, I might resent being "led around by the hand" . Is it really that important to have a romantic partner who's had that much experience ? Nobody ever tells their teenagers or somebody in their twenties "You should marry somebody twenty years older than you are, because they can guide you !" . Here's a link to that article ( https://mandyhale.com/2014/01/17/he-said... ) . Why can't two people with the exact same level of experience get married and learn what they need to know together ? Is it a good thing for someone to have more experience than his ( or her ) romantic partner ? Thank you in advance for your answers . |
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| Question: Married to a man but I want a girlfriend? Posted: 29 Sep 2019 10:02 PM PDT Hi, to whomever is reading this. I am a 20 year old bisexual female who is married to a man. We eloped and got married earlier this year after being together for 2 years and I am the happiest I have ever been in any relationship. My husband does everything for me, supports all my decisions and is truly my rock, my very bestfriend. We are very in love and get along great. With all that being said, I still miss being with a woman and I feel extremely guilty about this. The same situation happened to me when I was in a serious relationship with a female, I would crave male attention. I have spoken with my husband about how I feel because we are very open and tell each other everything. He is willing to let me "explore" but I still feel stuck because I know if I do, there is a possibility I will fall in love with a woman and I never, ever, want to hurt my husband as at the end of the day, his feelings are my priority. At the same time this is eating at me more and more as the time passes, I just really miss the affections of a woman. The idea of an open relationship has crossed my mind a million times but I am too much of a jealous person to allow my husband to explore as well. Which is really selfish of me, and another reason why I have not pursued this whole exploring thing. I don't really have friends so I can't discuss this with anyone, so any advice would be great. |
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