So I I'm 25. And moved back in a few months ago due to my living situation not working out. I'm currently saving up for another place to live. Anyway, I realized after I moved in, that there are a lot of things wrong with her house. There is a small leak in the roof that is slowly rotting the plywood holding up the shingles. The siding is rotting, and now there is a pipe leaking from the cieling. I'm not at all a handy man. So I would have no idea were to start. Anyway, when i bring these problems to her attention she just gets mad, and days "then call a contractor, and pay him to fix it" I'm sorry, but it's her house. I would think it's her responsibility. I already have a dog with health problems I need to worry about. I cant afford to fix all of this. She says she cant iether, but then she went to l.a. twice in the past 4 months, and now shes going to vegas next month. I've been worried about these problems with her housez but should I? Or should I just let the damn house fall apart?

My sister was watching the show I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant she said there was a women on there who had the 5 year birth control but had a baby anyway. She said her boyfriend is a sex addict she and him do it every time he comes over or she's at his house. She's also on the 5 year IUD plan she's really worried and freaking out. She said they don't use any protection except her IUD she's worried it might not work. How can I calm her down ?

I have just found out my boyfriend's ancestors killed some of my people (well my grandparents survived but others were cruelly killed). My boyfriend's family surname figures among one of the killers. They were basically of our same nationality but different religion, same language same race. It's just awful. When I confronted my boyfriend he denied at first, then he asked his family and they say it's true. He said he was sorry and that we should not let these things get into our relationship. Now I see him not as the love of my life but as my enemy, I hate him, I cursed him and his family, who has never liked me by the way, maybe already knowing about it all, that I would have found out thr truth. It just feels like the rightest thing to do is breaking up, but deep down I had developed feelings for him, and I really loved him, but knowing about his family, and the fact that they knew it from the start and hated me since the first time they found out I was of a different religion... he even cried and told me not to leave him for these 'stupid things' as if the killing of innocent could be a stupid reason. I hate him so much, because he was my first love and it's all so messed up. It was all perfect until these things came up. Everytime I looked at him, instead of seeing the perfect boy I fell in love with at first sight, I see the product of some criminals, and graveyard on the hills, stones instead of a proper grave. I could still love him, but with this, no.

Bf and I broke up, he's been going through a really bad time and depression and the break up was out of no where, we have a child, and love each other dearly, the break up was hard and the reason was because of our arguments that we have too often, we argue maybe once a week over the slightest things. I believe he has anger issues but won't get any help, not for his anger and refuses depression treatment. He gets frustrated and angry over things that wouldn't normally frustrate him, and ever since his depression he hasn't been the same, he isolated himself for days, won't talk to me one day and the next acts all loving and caring, it was frustrating for me and hard not knowing how to handle this depression, anyways so now he tells me that he doesn't think things will ever change argument wise, that he just wants me to be happy and will give me space if I need it before we communicate again. He also said it's not what he wants but he doesn't like arguing and doesn't like making me feel "sad" but he never realized that my intentions are never to argue or hurt him, I am calm when he gets upset and correct anything that bothers him, he just gets mad for a lot of little things and it makes him something he's not, along with his depression which I'm sure doesn't help. But how can I fix this situation to make my family complete again and to help him over come his depression or encourage help for his anger issues?

I've asked this already, but a new occurrence happened, and I'm not really annoyed but rather, I'm wondering - how can I be nice to this individual after she did this? ..... so four months ago, this lady aka my boss within/upon my job called me physically challenged, not appreciating what she did, I Immediately stopped speaking to her, and questioned her authority ( upon realizing her rank like it had being demoted by feeling leas of a boss ), I got to hear that she reported me to the supervisor saying, I've being a problem on the job ( I'll admit to that - yes I was by asking, why should I do this and that, apparently I was too much of a woman for her, anyway so the boss asked me what caused this, I said, " it's because she called me physically challenged, in return he said to me, no she didn't, to which she said the same, long story short, I left there with an advice from the superior to forgive her, and forget that this ever happened, and to obey her every orders to which I'm now gonna do, but how can an individual look past this hurt and embarrassing ordeal. P.S. I'm proud though because previously I would of end up in a state of depression for not standing up for myself, but now it looks like my defense is too much to handle, and as a result I now have a strike against my name seeking employment to which I didn't deserve willfully. Thanks for your feedback and comments. Blessings all.

When we first got together his fiancial situation was not the best, it got worse within time. I ignored it because i loved him, he would always compare my situation to his. Making me feel guilty for purchasing stuff or spending money on a certain item. I helped him in the past with bills and even paid his apartment to stop the eviction process. I purchased items for his apartment to show him that i cared and was there. I started noticing little things about him how he s always on fb and I m not knowing what s going on with him. I could see that he was active on fb and it would take him a while to respond to me, my husband and i were not into fb at all. His words were I m getting tired of all of this if you can t take it just be done. I ended it with my ex because i started to have a gut feeling of something not being right. Am i wrong?