How should she introduce them to her husband if she happen to meet them with her husband in party or functions ?

I went to bed and could hear him talking on the phone... I didn't realize who he was talking to until he came upstairs and I asked him... i could hear what they were talking about and it wasn't inappropriate but I feel like an hour is a long conversation especially this late at night and with a female single woman? Am I wrong to think this way? Should I be worried?

In relationships, the honeymoon phase only lasts about a month for me. I'm a guy btw.

based on the many questions and responses and Religion, faith, god set aside in the question after that is accepted or dismissed.  and considering all parties are healthy... I have seen so many reference to people injured.. I wonder how the world functions with so many people in extreme bad health  and after having children is accepted or dismissed.  already have them or chosen not to have them. and everyone accept basic needs of children taken care of.  Is sex the most important part of being married? If not what is more important?  Is marriage all about financial needs of one person from the other?  IF companionship; why is not a friend roommate adequate if Sex is dismissed as not important?  make a 1 to 5 list of what is important and a list 1 to 5 that are not important to you at all 

I have no one to talk to so I'll vent here. Do you know how hard it is being a 30 year old married male. Working 12 hours days. Only getting sex twice a month for last 8 mon6cause your wife is always tired from her job. It's taking everything inside of me not to have an affair

I ran into my former mother in law at a mall and she told me her daughter, my ex, was getting married again. She told me who she was marrying and he was a casual acquaintance. I thought it was appropriate to send her a nice wedding gift and wish her and her new husband a long and happy married life. She thanked me for the gift but said not to contact her again as her husband did not want her in contact with other men especially me. I emailed her back and said I understood and I would not contact her again as I did not want to cause any problem with her marriage. About 4 months later I got a call from my ex's new husband wanting my help to get his computer back up running. He said "I know this is unusual but will you help me". Unusual, I thought it was weird. However I thought why make a enemy when you can make a friend so I agreed to help him and I told him how to fix his computer. He seemed happy. The last thing he said was "Please don't tell my wife I called you" and I said OK. He has called me a few more times asking for help with his computer and each time I helped him and each time he ask me not to tell his wife he had called. I am not sure how I should feel about this. He doesn't want his wife to talk to me but it is OK if he talks to me. Should I stop helping him with his problems until his wife knows about this. Advice please on what I should do.

There is a guy I really like in my class. I accidentally went to juvy for a week and I was so surprised that he came to the same JDC while I was there. I was so embarrassed when he saw me in that orange outfit (orange one-piece jumpsuit, orange shoes, orange undershirt). We had to stand at attention with eyes forward too and I got so embarrassed when he saw me doing all those standing at attention movements and shouting "ma'am yes ma'am" very loudly like a juvenile inmate and I blushed like crazy and I started shaking because I couldnt believe that he actually saw me doing that in that JDC uniform. But he was also wearing that same uniform and he looked very cute in it but I'm the one who likes him and Idk what he will think about me now. Do you think it is over now?

I hate to sound rude, but I can't stand when certain family members come over unannounced. I have a brother who is currently homeless due to alcoholism. He asked to live with me and I told him no. I'm 27 and married and he is 36. Me and my husband are going through infertility treatments and times we just need to be alone and talk and be intimate as our doctor instructed. However my brother comes over randomly at all different times a day be it late-night or early morning. He will sit in the living-room for hours using our internet, eating and laying on the couch. I just don't want to be screaming my husbands name in the bedroom and have him in the next room listening. So lately when he has been coming over I have not been opening the door that was a week straight. He stopped coming (only for a little while). Now he is back at it. I set up countless meetings for him to meet with counselors for alcoholic meetings he declined. They would set him up with housing, insurance, and food resources. Yet, he chooses not to go. My husband and I work full-time and go to school full-time and we just want privacy. I don't mind a visit or two a week if it's announced but everyday for hours is becoming imposing at this point. I feel bad for feeling like this but gosh, enough is enough.

I have a friend that believes her phone is bugged by her current husband. She has proof that he is apparently hacking all her apps and watching her every move. She says every time she gets closer, he is one step ahead of her. When she would confront him about it, he would get very defensive and extremely agitated by it. She called the police on him last week, and he pulled an officer to the side and pretty much made her look like a crazy lady. She is clueless of what to do. She has been contacted by bots perhaps and she tried calling customer service for Sprint from my phone and it was a weird lady that changed her accent in the middle of the conversation and was clueless of how to provide the information she needed. Sprint has caller ID and this person was clueless of what that was. Now, I can see this as she is just psyching herself out, but it all seems far too suspicious to me. I dont know how to help but she is absolutely terrified. And her husband is not being supportive and helping her at all, which is even more weird. Also she got a new phone, but it seems that he has bugged the new one too. What should she do?

I pay for everything. The rent, all of the bills and for the food. The only thing she pays for is her clothes and makeup. Sometimes, she offers to pay for dinner. Like she just made everything great!! Does this seem fair to you? I suspected I will pay for most of the stuff because I earn more, but this is getting ridiculous. I don't even know what she does with her money.

My wife and I have been faking our marriage for about 13 years. We gave the kids happy memories and we faked smiles in front of the camera. The truth is though, my wife and I are incompatible. I want a social life and a marriage based on sex/romance, she wants a career life and a marriage based on survival. What does that mean exactly? I want to have sex with her and she wants me to get a 2nd job so she can retire sooner (everything is about her and her needs - always). To keep my mind off of my failed marriage I started focusing on my autistic son and his social deficiencies. At first I was just forcing him to talk to people who messaged him online instead of playing video games but then he said these people had complex (age appropriate) problems and he didn't want to do it. At some point I helped him type messages to reply, but then it eventually evolved to me just acting as him online trying to get him friends by me being his social crutch. Yes, I know this is creepy, no it isn't pedophilic because I had NO intentions on getting with them I was just trying to help my son. Today I'm being forced to stop using my son as a distraction for my failed marriage with my wife. Now I have to return to a problem that CANNOT be solved. She aims to change me and NOT compromise. That's always been the plan for her: no social life, no sex, no romance, no intimacy at all; just work, work, work, work and then finally binge watch TV with her without talking.... I am miserable. What do?

Where I work is being taken over by another company and they are eliminating the department I work in. This will be a disaster as jobs are very hard to find in this area. The new company told us they have openings in other departments but you have to have some very special training to get these jobs. I checked and this training is very expensive. Losing my job would be a disaster. I tried to borrow the money for the training from everyone I knew but no one would loan me money. I was down to the last name in my phone book, my ex husband. I finally got up the courage to call him. We had a friendly divorce but I had never asked him for money before. He said I will get back with you tomorrow. MUCH to my surprise he called back and said his current wife Joan would give me the training for FREE. I was in shock. Could this really be happenings? Joan did give me the training free and I got one of the new jobs that paid more than my last job and I had a great new boss. Joan was the nicest person EVER. I can not say enough good things about her. All my friends that I told about this said I was the luckiest person alive because usually the new wife wants nothing to do with the previous wife. She must be a saint to do what she did for me. I know I owe Joan big time. Please give me some thoughts on how I can repay her for the kindness she gave to me. Kind words are just not enough for this EXTREMELY NICE PERSON.

Now why would my ex-wife's sister want to be my FB friend? I have been divorced 20 years or more and she got divorced too and remarried like me ( I think her is more recent and she doesn't ook that happy). So Why? Trouble maker? To be a mole for the ex? Almost everything posted I post of me and my family is public. I don't understand...whatever.

I am a 27 year old female. Recently, I got to thinking about the future. The reason I thought about this is because I had a dream about this guy I used to go to high school with, he is single. I just decided to look him up and some other friends from high school and a huge majority of my friends are married or in serious relationships. I am single at the moment and nowhere near marriage or a long term relationship. Even my mom thought I would be married by now too. Although I have no real desire to have children, I would like to get some type of relationship going. Sometimes when I see my friends are married, I feel like left out or I feel like I am going to be lonely forever. I am very attractive but it's a matter of where to find "the one" guy that I can see myself with. Some days it doesn't bother me at all to be independent, other days I think about it more and feel so weird. I don't know what to feel. Should I feel bad about this?

We have been together for a couple of years but during our time together we've broken up a couple of times. our most recent breakup was two months ago, we got back together he called my phone 12 times saying how he couldn't live without me and how he believes we are soulmates. he said we are meant to be and he doesn't want to lose me. he seemed sincere and he promised he would work on his anger issues. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt because i love him and i believe people can change for the better This is the first LONG TERM relationship i've been in meaning i've been with other men but i've only been with them for 3-6 months. I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 35. he has two kids by two other women that he was with before he met me. I've been cheated on in every relationship except this one. he's been fiercely loyal which is one thing i admire about him. our relationship issues stem from us having polar opposite opinions about things and his control/anger issues. The first year we were together we didn't have problems. the second year things got shaky and then the third year was when things started spiraling out of control with his massive control issues. although he was never physically abusive and i know without a doubt he wouldn't lay a hand on me, I found myself crying myself to sleep a lot because of the way he would try to control me. he got mad at me because i didn't rush into the house fast enough time and he didn't want his 18 yr old nieghbor looking at me : We argue almost everyday and I'm not exaggerating. and it be about the most ridiculous things. We were two minutes later for the movie because i had to pee and i said we can still enjoy the movie and he was like " i would've enjoyed it more if we could've watched the beginning." I was like " I'm sorry.. We were having a discussion about actresses and actors and have they go from either making thousands of dollars to millions.and I was like " My goal is to eventually be a millionaire. I know its a stretch but anything is possible, you never know. rich for the stars right." and he was like " I just don't want you to be disapointed cause the chances of that happening are slim to none. just be happy if you get thousands." and i was like " yeah that'll be alright. and he was like " NO THAT'LL BE GREAT. ITLL BE MORE THAN ALRIGHT. STOP UNDERMINING MONEY LIKE A THOUSAND DOLLARS IS LITTLE MONEY. YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL FOR MAKING THOUSANDS. YOUR MINDSET IS STUPID AND IT P*** ME OFF." I was like " what is wrong with you. why are you being so aggressive with me. it's a crazy a couple of hours later he was like a completely different person and trying to kiss on me, feel me up and down, and cuddle me. this is why this black and white behavior is so confusing. He says he wants to marry me this year and he wants to propose and get married all in the same day. he doesn't want to go through an engagement process. he wants to get married in a court house and then we have a big ceremony later on when we can afford it. he said that he wants to get married ASAP because we haven't been having sex for a couple of months and he is sexually frustrated but doesn't want to have sex while unmarried and live in sin anymore. He didn't seem to care about being romantic about any of this and said he will just propose in a normal way that he feels is best. I'm not really excited about any of this for some reason.. its supposed to be the happiest day of my life. ast year he had a problem with the way i pronounced my words. he was like can you please not put an emphasis on that letter and can you please open your mouth. I'm not sure if it's an OCD or anger issues. I've been trying to work with him and I suggested we go to therapy before any kind of marriage occurs. I just don't believe in divorce.. and i want to make sure we have a stable marriage. Im currently writing a book. my passion is writing and i wanna be an author. have my degree in journalism. I told my boyfriend that a lot of my friends are putting it out in the universe that I'm going to be a best selling author. My boyfriend was like " I'm not your friends. your book is good but i'm not going to give you false hope." I was like " I'm not saying i will be a best selling author . it just felt good that they believed in me that much.."

Is it ok? Even if one of them is female? What about if he's your husband? Is it still okay then?