My husband had 2 heart stents, which was his first time having heart issues. Two weeks later, he goes missing for a day, won't answer my calls, and takes $500 out of our bank account. He says that it is because he is depressed and emotional since his surgery. He claims that when he went missing, he went 2 hours to his home town down by the waterfront, got drunk, then stayed at a hotel. It took me forever to get these details out of him. We try and work things out. Two and a half weeks later I call the hotel where he supposedly stayed that night and they did not have a guest stay there by his name. When I confronted him, he got very angry and left me. I am still in shock and just don't understand.

We have sex about once a month. I try to have sex with him and make him happy since he has a high sex drive. But everytime he touches me im not interested. I feel like i would enjoy sex with somone else other than him. Maybe because i got married so young. I dont want to have am affair. So what should i do?

I know of a guy who is 33 and is now starting medical school. He is married with 3 kids. He doesn't work because he is going to medical school full time and his wife works a home job (part time) with teaching Chinese kids how to speak English in an online class. Also, both him and his wife are anti vaxxers. I find it odd that an anti vaxxer wants to become a doctor. They have it pretty hard financially and they struggle. They are both traditional Catholics and therefore don't believe in practicing birth control (not even the natural form of birth control). My wife is friends with the wife of this family. My wife tells me that her friend is really beginning to get very stressed out because she feels like she is a single mother with her husband studying all the time. He's never really around to help with the kids or clean up the house. She's also stressed out because of the financial struggle. With the above being said, what is the likelihood of this guy finishing medical school?

We married less than 2 months ago. I was terrified before getting married, but just pushed it away as being "normal pre-wedding jitters" I even moved my original wedding date up 6 months because "it would've been torture waiting for it to come" and I repeatedly referred to it as something I needed to "get over with". When I met him, I was so happy, I fell hard and fast, we moved to a different state together and enjoyed living together for 2 years (together a total of 4.5). I felt mature after getting out of my first serious relationship which was 6 years (because it was long distance in the end) and I had met the man I am with now. With my ex (my first true love) I never felt this empty, or depressed, or emotionless. I would'nt even feel slightly jealous if my husband were to kiss someone else, but I would've been very jealous with my ex. Now, I dont love my ex, and I dont want him back, I'm just trying to compare the passion that I had for him, and the passion that I dont for my husband. I dream about other men constantly and I dont want to. We put so much into the wedding (even draining retirement accounts) to have the wedding our families dreamed of for us. He is perfect, motivated, business minded, successful, so loving and caring and understanding, but I find myself wanting his affection less. It makes me feel guilty when I cant show the same. I am also changing jobs. I'm confused, depressed, ashamed, guilty and upset. I dont even want to wake up anymore. Trapped.

I'm panicking some. I love her very much and she says she loves me very much but that things aren't working. She gets very angry. Anyway. What can I do I do now while I'm hyperventilating and feel completely lost. Nothing feels right. I'm very upset. Do I get served? Does the atty call me to tell me what she expects? Do I wait for the court to take action? Etc?

Call me crazy but I think couples should stay in contact with each other. Last week one of my husband's childhood friends passed away and he was asked to speak at the funeral. It was this past Sat. He asked me to go and I said yes. By Friday I decided not to go and told him. He didn't seem to care. Sat came and he went on to the funeral. He was meeting up with his mom and sisters who were also going to the funeral. I decided to go shopping. The funeral was at 12 so several hours later I hadn't heard from him so I sent him a text. "I'm in Concord". That's the next city over from where we live. His reply was "Why?" I then tell him I was looking at laptops. He then stops replying. I didn't hear from him again until I got home and he was already there. He tells me that there was no need for me to text him just to tell him where I was. He said he asked me to go to the funeral and I originally said yes then changed my mind. He seems to be upset that I was texting him while he was at the funeral just to tell me I was at the store. He said he didn't care where I was because he was busy himself. I just think that couples need to communicate things like this. His thought was he would see me at home once the funeral was over. However, my husband is the type of guy who will get home and I won't be there but he won't even text me to ask where I am. Do you check in with your spouse during the day to let them know your whereabouts? My husband things that's stupid.

He doesn't show me the affection that he used to. I've tried talking to him about it but, he just tells me that he's tired and that he'll spice things up for us in the future. That was 5 months ago and nothing has changed yet. I feel like I'm at the prime of sexuality. I'm 37 but I feel more ready than ever. That being stated, I also work alongside a much younger man, who I think wants to **** me. He hasn't really said it yet; but there is definitely some sexual tension there. I'm tempted to explore with this younger man. He's very fit, manly, and he's also a different race (AA). I never been with an (AA) before, so this is new I also know nothing will come of this, it's just sex. I really don't want to cheat on my husband though....

I've been dating my Jewish boyfriend (I'm atheist) for 9 months now. He's actually atheist too but his family is super religious (father is rabbi) and he respects his family's religion. He just moved back in with his parents for financial reasons, and so I asked him if he'd invite me over one day because I'd like to meet his family. He told me that he can't have me over because his parents are very religious and the only time he'd ever bring a girlfriend over is for the purpose of marriage. However, he wants to come over my place soon to hang out. I don't really feel comfortable with him meeting my family if I'm not going to meet his any time soon. He has expressed that he loves me though and that he told his mom that he is dating me and she doesn't have a problem with it. How can I trust that he's taking this relationship seriously? What should I do? He told me that he is serious with me and that his mom knows we are seriously dating (not just casually)

Me and my girlfriend are playing a weekly game called "Rate Me Baby!" On a scale of one to ten we ask each other how the other was as a boyfriend or girlfriend in the past week. What criteria should I judge my girlfriend by on our weekly game of "Rate Me Baby!"?

So this has been going going on since April. My wife was going through some mental things and of course I was there for her. May she was always tired and I cared for her. June we moved she was once again tired and I was there for her. July went to my home town for the 4th weekend for her to meet my family Shortly after we found out she was pregnant and she acted like life was over, acted Like it was the worst thing ever. Walking around mad and crying and all depressed. she was set to begin school in August so she would be working part time and going to school for time while pregnant. The baby has her sick all the time so shes feeling physically down as well. She calling me now saying all the running from school, to work, and.m being sick is too much and shes on the edge of having a mental break down. I dont know what to do.

I love a girl who was my neighbor since 13 years ago , she was my neighbor for 4 years but she passed to another city after this 4 years . 7 years ago i met her again for 2 days and it was last time since 7 years. Now all this years i love her but i dont see her , i just chat with her on facebook weekly in public subjects and in our education as we study same field so my dream is to marry her, but some problems stop me which i need a solution to them 1 - she lives in a city which much fine and farther than my city 2 - we both will graduate at the same time, so she may not wait me until i be capable to marry her and marry another one. After that i need some ideas and advice about what i can do to make sure that i marry her. thanks

They divorced about 15 years ago. I don't think my mom has ever had a boyfriend after the divorce. Also, my mom has probably said 100 times "I would get a long and talk to your dad, but he doesn't want to get along with me". Its just pretty annoying.

he was just let go last week and hasn't started looking yet. i work too but i'm not going to carry his dead weight with my paycheck. that's not what i signed up for when i married him.

same thing except marriage puts men at risk of losing it all in a divorce, and divorces are mostly initiated by women. SO why would any man be foolish enough to get that piece of paper just so a narcissistic woman can throw a big party for herself ( wedding), and risk losing it all? I would like to hear the female perspective here.

Do non-virgin wives who slept with tons of men before marriage forget their exes completely after marriage, or do they remember them & keep on comparing their virgin husband (who didn't sleep around) in their minds forever as the husband is a novice?

I mean the simple fact that they had intercourse and kids before marriage baffles me! Now we are living within society that if u tell a older adult you had kids before you got married they will look at like you crazy. I just don't understand

We were good friends through middle school and high school. He moved to FL with his wife, baby and his parents to Florida. His father had a heart attack in 00. His mother, wife and child (4 yrs old t the time) moved back to the city that they lived in. He called me up and we made arrangement to meet at his place. It was nice to see him again. But he seemed different. He divorced his wife (She was cheating on him) He s lived with four or five ladies since 2001. Something happens and they end up breaking up. He ended up getting a lAdy knocked up. He has custody of the boy. He has not had job in yrs, claims he has back problem. Addicted to pain pills. Was trying to get on disabilty for his back. Keeps getting denied every time. He currently still lived at home (he is 47) With wife # 4 (She is on social security) for some reson. He s been married to wife #4. They met in Oct. of 2015 Married in Feb . of 2016. I ve met her a few times. Don t care or want to know her. She is 14 younger then he is. So at that age we do not have things in comnon.

My daughter and my husband, her father, had a huge falling out almost two years ago and they have refused to see or speak to each other since. II completely disagree with the way they are handling the situation. My husband says if I see her when he's not invited it's a betrayal him. Our kids are all grown and moved out and he says it's just us now and we have to stick together. My daughter had a baby girl about a year and a half ago and I have seen her only 1 itme, just after she was born. I miss my daughter so much it physically hurts. I have dreamed of the day I could be grandma and I'm missing it. He is adamant about this and has made me choose between them, as has she. He feels so strongly about this and has been so hurt that I believe it would destroy our almost 30 year marriage if I were to see her. I think it's cruel to put me in this position. No mother should ever be iin this position. What can I do?

My daughter and my husband, her father, had a huge falling out almost two years ago and they have refused to see or speak to each other since. II completely disagree with the way they are handling the situation. My husband says if I see her when he's not invited it's a betrayal him. Our kids are all grown and moved out and he says it's just us now and we have to stick together. My daughter had a baby girl about a year and a half ago and I have seen her only 1 itme, just after she was born. I miss my daughter so much it physically hurts. I have dreamed of the day I could be grandma and I'm missing it. He is adamant about this and has made me choose between them, as has she. He feels so strongly about this and has been so hurt that I believe it would destroy our almost 30 year marriage if I were to see her. I think it's cruel to put me in this position. No mother should ever be iin this position. What can I do?

So my sister is with this guy of about 6-7 years. She always had the position that she did not want to get married. Just was not her thing. However, he does. He is older by about 4-5 years. He consistently proposed and she said no multiple times but reluctantly said yes due to fear of losing him bc I'd assume that's all she knows and is afraid. She since has been dragging her feet planning the wedding. They do not own a house together yet. Will not take his last name. Not on the same page w family planning. And as recently as 2 months ago she still said she does not want to get married, I believe in general. She then told me she has strong feelings for someone else she had met. She describes it as an instant connection and that it "was super easy to get along and talk". She said they talk daily and or often about everything. I since then had told her to re-evaluate her situation. That she may be w the wrong guy or what she wants is not w her current SO. If she feels this strongly about someone else and still has a belief of not wanting to wed, it will likely end in a failure of a marriage unfortunately. Does this make me look like a bad person? I feel terrible but I think it's the dead truth. And I hope she realizes it soon bc the wedding is in 8 months and I'd hate to see her marry some out of feeling obligated and let someone that may see eye to eye with her get away. Any thoughts?

your father,your mother,husband,wife,anyone else? maybe you? Are you working on your chosen field? How many hours a week do you work

what month did you get married? what age did you get married?

So husband makes good money. Biweekly he makes 1.5k. He makes 22 per hour. Now he goes and cashes his paycheck, and then 3 days later he has not 1 single dollar. He ain't buying me ****! Not a penny. Nothing. He isnt buying himself things either. He isnt buying new clothes or nice things or anything materialistic. So no spending on him that i can see. So if not spent on me than who? I do kno that a co worker girl he cheated on me w a few years ago and she stil been at same company. Had my suspicions that they never ended it. I asked him were his money was he lied saying "it all went to our daughters toys dont u remember?" Yeah okay!

I am a single man in my 40's and she is in her 30's, she is married since 4 years with no kids. She is my boss, and I started to work for her as self employed since 3 years. As days passed, I fell in love with this woman, and I knew it was wrong since I am older than her and she is a married woman. I also know for sure that she loves me. I have never told her that I love her or showed any signs, and she did the same thing, we never had sex. I have lot of respect for her husband. I tried to raise my hourly rate many time in an effort to stay away from her, but she won't say anything, she will agree about any raise I ask for. So I found that this didn't work, so I quit working many times, but she will text me again and ask me to come back. I felt I have no choices, I love this woman but I don't want to destroy her family, at the same time I don't want to be so rude and quit working for her. She is very shy person and I am too, I feel she is having some kind of problems with her husband but she doesn't show it. I am very depressed, I have started smoking heavily and I don't know what to do. I am so hurt…

men, please be honest..would u have sex with her? how would u rate her attractiveness for a hook up from what u can see from 1-10? please be honest for best answer