It all started when I walked into school two weeks ago I just walked in and I undid my hair (previously in a bun) my friend started giggling and I asked her what was wrong as she had never seen my hair down not straightened my other friend let's call her Rachel told her not to say anything and she walked up to me patted me on the shoulder and said I looked like if beetlejuice and Lydia had a really ****** up baby I was like k your point is and like all day she was like ayyy BJ. Mildly annoying then my other friend made me watch the movie with them as I had never seen it and it evolved to the point where she brings em juice every day hey I'm not complaining but now my ex thinks my name is ******* and it's lowkey a problem (me to show them I don't look like that)

So I'm a high school student. I've been bullying this girl for the past three months.Her name is Ashley. I finally had an ephiphany and felt bad about it. I apologized to Ashley yesterday and she simply said, "Okay. That's fine." I was like that's it? You're not mad? I feel even worse now because she's such a nice person. Has Ashley truly forgiven me or is she simply hiding how she truly feels about me?

So I'm a teen and my friend wanted to give me a stick and poke she has plenty and her parents don't even know they trust her because she's also a honors student and stuff and I have plenty piercings and I have a mother as a nurse so I know that you don't use the same needles on anyone for anything. But I gave in after her asking multiple times and I'm scared that I'm gonna get hepatitis or something I got my flu shot not even two weeks ago so I don't know if that helps but what do I do? My brother went out after he picked me up and my mothers at work and I don't really want to tell her because she might find my friend as a bad influence but she's a really good friend.

Firstly. I don't have a drinking problem. I do however have a low tolerance of alcohol but decided to go over my limit in helping me not be so nervous around my partners friend whom I met a few times before briefly. Well, we had a meal, we had a drink, then another and another and another. The pours were strong and I should had said I was done. BUT I felt fine (sitting) Once I got up to excuse myself to the ladies room. That's when it all hit me and I was another person. In my mind. Now, I don't know if I had an in mind conversation with myself as this has happened once before 10 years ago. Since then I had a limit of 3 drinks as I can get very MEAN and wanting to fight. My partner said I was okay, just "very drunk". His friend did text me "G'Night" with a smile emoji. Next day I said that it was great seeing him with a response of "You as well!". I did text later to apologize for having too many drinks and apologized if I said or did anything to upset them. I owned up to it in hopes that I am able to recover from that night. I remember bits and pieces. But again. I don't know what is real and what isn't. I even said that my partner is a "Pedophile" which isn't even the right term it's Ephebophile, as I confessed that I had by mistake came across a gallery of "Liked" photographers taking photos of either young women or women of age dressing or looking younger than their age. I told this friend "How do you like being friends with a pedophile?" I am just so embarrassed. Advice?

I'm white and I'm dating a guy that's also white. We're in our late 20s. Before dating me he dated an asian girl for 5 years who's our age. He openly admits she was a gold digger and so were her friends. He would celebrate her birthday month for the entire month every year, not just 1 day. Each day he'd give her an expensive gift including a $1600 Louis Vuitton purse, diamond tiffanys necklace, diamond band, a deluxe designer dog bed for her small dog, $900 leather boots, A stay at the Ritz Carlton with a spa treatment and a trip to Mexico etc. He only makes 60k a year. She makes the same but insisted he buy her these gifts. He told me he did it because it made her happy and dating an asian was "exotic" and rare. I'm white and he said he loves me but asian women are harder to impress, which i find offensive. Anyway, he can't travel with me even with us splitting bills 50/50, he cant go out to eat even at a chain restaurant with me, or spend any money because he's still paying off his monthly credit card debt for all the gifts he bought her. It annoys me to no end that we've been dating for 6 months and he can't even afford to go out to eat (just paying his own share) because he's making monthly finance payments on his ex girlfriends designer handbag collection. It also annoys me that he would place asian women on a pedestal enough to be completely spineless and spend all that money. Yet he has no problem saying no to me and he does it often just because I'm white...

Hi who ever is reading this, I need some advice and positive opinions. Well.... A month or so ago my high school "Bffs" stopped talking to me because I still kept a friendship with one of her ex's....me and my Bffs lost touch after we graduated because I went to college and they didn't. I'm a guy who's gay and (not that it matters) went to a college that later I found out my friends Ex was also attending. Well since I didn't know anyone there because I was a freshman bumping into my friends ex was nice because I at least knew someone. So time passed and we became great friends. He's straight and I respected that. I never once made a move on him or try to hit on him. I like the friendship we made during college. I at this time of my life wasn't talking to my "Bffs" like how we used to back in college... Well to make a long story short. (we will call the guy Marcus) Marcus one night invited me to go to the mall because he needed to return a t shirt from hot topic, so I said yes because I saw him like a homie. When I posted a video of me and him goofing off, my "friends" saw it & my so call Bffs went off on me telling me why was I hanging out with him after Marcus broke up with (we will call her) Rita and everything Marcus put her through. What I said was that what ever happened between Rita and Marcus had nothing to do with me because I consider him as my pal, but they didn't see it that way so they deleted me from social media after talking **** about me.

she tends to copy my ideas... i don't want to give it to her but I feel like i might lose her as a friend if a dont? what should I do?

Some people say yes bring someone else in to join so won't be anymore conflicts. But others say no don't do that. Here is examples, 1. Let say there is group of football players walked into restaurant and they all sit together at far end of room. I started to sit close to them so I can see what they are doing. They telling me to go away. Now I go to restaurant manager to bring him with me so football won't tell me to go away anymore. Now those examples about bring third party in even if it's nothing to do with them which now I make it happen.

My frind is 15 and im 19 We met 2 years ago and became best friends, we were hanging out alot, but recently his dad said to him that he didn t want him to hang out with me(because im a ""bad exsample for him""), but we still hang out secretly. And every time he found s out about it he calls me and yells at me and yell at him too. And this time, we hang out and he called me and told me that he knows that he is with me and that is the last straw. He said:" the next time you will hang out with him i will call the police on you." What can I do in this situation? I can t just leave my best friend because of his dad....

I think I am being "ghosted" by someone and it is really upsetting. Just wondering if others on here have ever been "ghosted"? and if so, how did you get over it? How long did it take? Do you have any pointers on how to deal with it? I cant stand this feeling of rejection all the time. Is there a good way to deal with it? Also please reveal your gender since I am curious to know who is responding. will choose a best answer Any advice would be appreciated. Will choose a best answer

I'm a guy and this girl, just good friends, not dating. We hang out and talk/text often. I texted her earlier today asking her how something went and she responded. I texted her a follow up question immediately after and she has not replied. This was literally about 13 hours ago, and since then she's made a few Facebook uploads/statuses so I know she's got her phone.  So I just feel a little hurt/disappointed on the fact that she doesn't seem to care enough about getting back with me. 

I grew up with a mom with an indulgent style of parenting. I got anything I wanted whenever I wanted and there were no boundaries. It seemed like she was scared of disciplining me for fear of losing the relationship we had. My one and only best friend growing up was my mother. We became very close but I could not step outside of my house. I was extremely shy at school and had no friends growing up. I always feel like everyone is ignoring me or just not treating me well enough. It seemed like she cared about my grade but not enough to actually do anything about it. She got me a tutor but just never actually sat me down and tried to teach me anything useful. I'm not saying she doesn't care but it seems like she cares about the wrong things. She is an extremely efficient cook and housewife but sometimes it seems like she cares more about whether I wash the dishes than about my homework. Of course I don't expect her to care about my grades in college but she never tried to discipline me in high school either. As a person with social anxiety, I never get along well with any of my tutors and she is college educated and my only friend. How she expects me to suddenly become disciplined in college is beyond me when I have spent pretty much my whole life without any discipline.

He thinks making me the butt of the jokes is just a banter but other friends of mine are already thinking that it's almost excessive. Also, I have difficulties in opening up with the friends I'm close with who are also friends with this person because this guy keeps on approaching them most of the time. As if he is preventing me to be friends with them or that he acts as a substitute to me with these close friends of mine. I don't know what my close friends think about him but I don't want to be clingy to them in the situation I'm in and that I don't want them to see me more like a weirdo (it may be reinforced to other people's mind because that is what this 'friend' of mine probably want me to be seen as towards other people).

So imagine these people: Brittany, William, and Mary (all 3 are sophomores in high school, Brittany and Mary are good friends)... William has had a crush on Brittany since kindergarten, his freshman year they go to homecoming dance together, the year passes. Brittany shows minimal interest in him. So he turns to Mary because he knows she's nice. She helps him through getting over Brittany. Soon, William and Mary start talking, and a month later they start dating. Mary's friends start to treat her differently cause of how William and Brittany were "a thing" to most people. Will and Mary are a perfect couple (both of them think so). They go on two dates within the first two weeks. However now Mary starts losing interest and becomes distant (she is involved in many school things) and she realizes she isn't as close with her friends anymore. One night, the two break up. Mary chose this and will find it easier to go on with her life without as much stress. William however rlly cared for her and experiences much depression internally. What should William do now? Neither Brittany or Mary like him and he has done nothing wrong. Pls help! 

Ok, compared to other messages it's not completely terrible but I had a few drinks and one of my friend's told me to message my other friend(because we were waiting for her to pick us up) Well my friend and my manager have the same name, although my manager is a guy and my friend is a girl. Anyways, not really paying attention to which one I'm texting I write, " Where the hell are you whore? Hurry up before I take shot #5 and we all know what happens after shot #5." My manager never responded, but I see him tomorrow. What should I say? How should I act?