literally slipped and fell on my ***. i'm so embarrassed. any advice for getting over this embarrassment, i feel so stupid

I've been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months now. But I had a crush on him for the past year and I loved him since then. I feel like I should elope with him to be with him forever. But I don't know if I'm doing the right thing or if I'm making a huge mistake. I want to marry him but it's not fair to have to wait so many years. I'm just confused.

Hello im 21 years old and i like this guy alot I posted a question for this guy earlier he was in another country,but today i opened his Insta and saw that he came back for a couple of days and my heart just dropped i was almoste over him and boom i found out he's here and feel like im gonna go crazy again we are not in contact i have him unfriended on fb im not even following him on insta and i also know he doesn't give a **** i don't know what the problem is i met this other guy but i just can't seem to like him as much as this guy i have been having feelings for this guy for over a year now and i haven' seen him in months... i really don't know what to do for real.

I texted one of my friends that I had free tickets and asked if she wanted to go. She never responded. She came thru my line at work (I'm a cashier) and I asked if she got my message and she said she didn't. I told her about the concert and she said she wanted to go and to text her again about. So I did. I never heard back. I texted her to remind her and she still has not responded. She is always doing this. One say she told me she texted me and she thought I was mad at her because I never responded. I told her I never got the message and she looked at me like she didn't believe me. After texting her about 3 times asking if she still wanted to go to the concert, I gave up. I wrote down her number just incase I ever need it and I deleted it from my phone. I figure if she wants to try to make our friendship work, then she can do the texting to check up on me, like I always did when I had her number in my phone and she never replied. Am I wrong for deleting her number? Should I just move on and hope one day she will want to make the friend ship work?

How can someone love someone who used be someone's girlfriend? They had sex, spent time together, really programmed to each other. So the next guy comes and expect love, isn't it stupid ??

there's this guy that sits next to me who constantly flexes his arm and shows off his muscle.

My boyfriend knows basically everything about me we have been together 2 months now and I have a therapist because of things that happened to me in the past I'm not completely ready to open up about things I struggle even opening up to my therapist about and now he's acting like he has a big problem that he can't tell me about and says he can't tell me because he knows nothing about me and it's so frustrating because my therapist appointments are mine for a reason and I don't know what to do because me not telling him about them upsets him so much and it's creating a wedge in our relationship and I really would like our relationship to last

I'm in junior high im an 8th grader and I have a major crush on this kid. He was talking to a girl and the minute I found out that night he cute things off. His friends act like he likes me because every time we are ever by eachother it's always ooooo look at you guys. And I'm not sure if he likes me or not. But I really do like him and I'm scared to say so. But he's in my class and I always catch him looking at me so I'm not sure and I'm scared to get blown off what do I do?

Has anyone ever been in a relationship where you struggle to communicate? My partner and I have been together almost 5 years. Anytime anything important comes up it's swept under the rug. He always sees it as an "argument". I don't feel like I'm arguing, I would just like to know. I say this, but it never changes anything.

My new coworker wants me to add his girlfriend on facebook. Apparently she doesnt have that many friends and thinks we have a lot in common. However, i knew this girl in elementry/middle school. I dont think she remembers me because shes special needs (i remember her heing in special education) and when I saw her waiting for her boyfriend (my new coworker) she only said "hi" and thats it. She signed my yearbook I still have it. Thats not the bad part. The bad part is i found out a few years ago my mom is her therapist (moms a social worker) and I noticed her name on a piece of paper when I met my mom at her job. Should I still add my coworkers girlfriend? I dont know if its appropriate to have my mothers client added on facebook I dont want anything bad happening or my mom sayin anything. Clearly i knew her longer than my mom but my mom knows her personal issues at home and stuff:/

I broke up with my ex a year ago. He was contacting me for a year straight asking to see me, saying we're meant to be together, I miss you, and etc. I wouldn't agree to see him because I felt nothing between us changed (relating to communication). I REALLY missed him and decided to answer him back. He was my FIRST LOVE. We went out to play pool and I noticed how rude and mean he was being. I told him off and said I never wanted to see him again. Why would he spend a year contacting me just to act the way he did?

One of my friends came thru my line at work and I told her I had free concert tickets. She was excited about it. I texted her 3 times about it and never got a response. She has claimed in the past that she has texted me and asked how I was, but I never got the text. Then she tells me she thought I was mad at her because I never responded. She doesn t realize she does the same to me. I wrote down her phone number just incase I ever need it, but I deleted it from my phone because I figure if she wants to make the friendship work, she needs to text first. Am I wrong by always texting first? I feel like I m wasting my time and if she wants to continue being friends, she should check up on me more often.

My ex started talking to his other ex again and so he decided to block me on fb even though I had already unfriended him. He would block me on instagram on and off for a few hours multiple times a week (I had already unfollowed him). Now he has unblocked me on fb after blocking me for 2 weeks and has made his location on snap available. (we are friends on snap and he never blocked me there). Why would my ex unblock me on fb if he talking to someone?

My **** only allows me to finish inside her. She hates when she is covered in it all over her body especially her face cause it's too messy. I don't know if only pornstars like that stuff or maybe cause they get paid to enjoy it. Just want to hear more from many women how they feel about this. Is it normal for most women?

My ex was my first boyfriend but he treated me really badly in the end, when he broke it off. He told me never cared about me and never liked me. He blocked me everywhere. I called him from a blocked number to ask him why and he said that he did it to his friend before for 3 months. Well it's now been 3 months since he blocked me and I doubt I'll hear from him again. I just can't get over him, I really truly cared about him. I know logically everything you're going to jump to tell me. I know. I just have this innocent childlike glimmer of hope that he'd call unexpected and apologize at least. I feel still attached to him by some frayed string that just won't snap. I've deleted everything on my phone of him. Gotten rid of everything that reminds me of him. Made it a rule not to talk about him with friends ever again but it won't go away. It kills me to know he hates me. I really don't know why. I wish it'd all make sense but I guess it won't ever. Do I block him after all this time? Even though he has me blocked? Do I kill that glimmer of hope? This kills me. I've never had any other romantic interest. It's so hard for me to connect yet I instantly clicked with him. I've handled everything correctly, I pursue my own hobbies, focus on my studies, hang with friends, and nothing is working! I don't stalk or harass him or even talk about him anymore but I still feel so wrong thinking about him after all this time.

He was handsome and fit businessman. But he put others (groups of people for example) down so much for no apparent reason. So strange that i was so into him emotionally. He also admitted to me he was a sociopath. 

I just turn 30, met the man that I want to marry an have children with. He has a good job an he owns his own house too. The problem is he only wants to marry a virgin. I have had a healthy sex life since 17 years old with many romantic experiences but none of them were the "one" . Now I met the "one" but he is a virgin an only wants to marry a virgin, so I told him that I am, but hes acting suspicious like he dosn't believe me. How do i make him think I'm a virgin? Would he even know the difference sence he never had sex before?

Hi guys :) Since everyone's incompetent and incapable of answering a simple question, maybe I'll give you guys guidance on what I don't want :) 1) Criticism of my sexual choices. Yes. I was a sex addict. Yes, I went to sex addiction rehab. But what does that have to do with the question: "Was I assaulted?" Oh. Right. Nothing! :) Anyway, here we go! Incident 1 I was 10. I had a cousin who was 12. They slept with me and started showing me porn and encouraging me to do things with them. One time they started fingering me when I didn't want them to and kept saying stop. It was really confusing. I guess it felt good but I hated it. Incident 2 I went on a date with a guy when I was 15. It was my first date ever. I gave him a bj then said I had to leave. I kept trying to leave but he physically restrained me and forced me to blow him, got on top of me and kept fondling me. Incident 3 I had just had sex with this guy. I told him to stop because it was bad. Then he kept trying to push his dick back in. he kept saying, "please, just hold still" and kept trying to put it in as I was moving away. I eventually just made him leave. Incident 4 I was pretty high. I was having sex with this guy with a condom on. He then took off the condom. I kept saying no but he held me down and put it in anyway. I enjoyed kinky sex and he knew that but I didn't want that. Idk. It felt good at least Incident 5 I met up with a guy. He was much uglier in person. He guided me over to his bed and kept being really pushy and I was very obviously not into it. I ended up blowing him but I was too afraid to tell him I didn't want to do it because I didnt want him to hurt me Incident 6 This was with my ex bf who was really awful. The first time we had sex I was v high, he gave me a ton of different drugs. I got really horny, so we went upstairs. I was so high I could barely speak but he was aggressive. I didn't remember my own name or who he was at the time. He had sex with me w/0 a condom and came in me. I wouldn't have had sex with him sober to be honest. Once I let him put it in my butt and he shoved it in as hard as he possibly could because he was mad at me. Incident 7 A dude just put it in without the condom many times when I didn't know Incident 8 I was really drunk and tired. This guy asked me 15 times for sex. I was in a ton of pain and didn't want to do it but he wouldn't stop asking and pressuring me to touch him for pretty much hours. I'm also 20 btw

I found this at work today and I'm sure this is from a TV show or a video game, but I haven't figured it out who it is. Who is this??

so I was seeing this girl who I have been friends with forever for about a month and a half and things were going great. then labor day weekend we didn't get to hang out (legit reasons, things she had going on with her kids nothing shady about the weekend) but she was texting me all day (she acutally texted first both days) both sat and sunday everything was fine we were making future plans it was all cool. then on actual labor day we didn't talk so I messaged her that evening and she doesn't answer so I just wait until the next day and then ask if shes ok and she gives me this half *** answer about she was busy with school work but then she actually seemed ok the rest of that day. then that night I catch her close to her at her ex's house I asked her about it she denied it and i can clearly see now they are hanging out again. they have dated for about 2 years but probably broke up 6 times. now heres my problem and not to offend any girls but i don't want anything serious but i would like her to come back so i can get a piece, we made out but thats all we could do because of a medical problem she had down there, trust me it was legit she wasn't just making that up i know so i will just leave it at that, but that time frame is up now she should be good to go. should i just totally leave her alone until they break up? because it will happen trust me lol, should i still act interested and message her here and there even though her and her ex are back together? fyi we left on good terms i told her i believed her about not being at her ex's and then she said she was just to busy with school and kids right now to have a relationship which was a total lie but i just rolled with it and acted like i believed her no since in fighting since we been friends forever. i wanted to keep a friends with benefits option or maybe future relationship possibility open, but its clear she is seeing her ex

We usually makeout but this is new.

She sits close to me, talks to me a lot, mimics my behavior, tells me her business, told me where she lived ( and I didn't even ask!!) makes eye contact a lot yet I gave her my number and she never called...seems strange she would go to all this trouble and not call....

So there is a girl who I kind of knew in HS, but not really... I've seen her on dating websites, but not sure how to ask her out...

Don't just assume I'm ugly or fat because of this. I know I'm not ugly or fat and that's a fact. I'm just shy and kind of have trouble being myself around other people. I don't have any mental illnesses as far as I know.

Let's say her boyfriend lives with her, and she goes on a one-week trip overseas with a few members from her church group.  While there, she keeps affectionately touching a man whose mother is also in the trip with them.  In addition, one of the elderly ladies on the trip told the flirtatious 50-year-old and the 38-year-old guy to stand next to each other so she can take a picture of them.  So they put their one arm around each other — typical innocent pose, like two good friends.  Later that day, the 50-year-old texts the 38-year-old the pic.  And the next day, she texts him "Want to take a walk?"  But then during the trip, she says [within ear shot] of 38-year-old "Do you think John will like this?" while souvenir-shopping for her boyfriend (John).  In addition, he gradually started holding her hand later during the trip, but she let go after 30 seconds or so.  Was she just teasing him, or is she just very affectionate in an "auntie" sort of way, due to him being much younger than her?  It's confusing, considering the pic she texted him.

I have a friend that I have known since I was born practically, a week ago we were both alone at Cedar Point and the whole day went great, we both had fun, but at 10 pm we got on the Millennium Force, finishing, she kissed me the mouth and told me I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you after that I was paralyzed and I didn't know what to say, now she attracts me and I don't know how to break up with my girlfriend without hurting her

Not older as in old enough to be your parents. Older as in 5-10 years older. My two cents. Pros: Dresses appropriately (would a 30 year old go out wearing clothes that expose cleavage?), are responsible with things like timekeeping, drinking limits etc., will have finished college and moved out of the house, has a well-stable job, people in general take them more seriously so a good reputation for both them and you Cons: May very well likely be married and/or with kids

This includes females, I want your opinions, aside from a smart-@ss answer like, "to be born with a penis"

I just got out of a year long relationship about 2 months ago and one of my best friends throughout that really likes me. I also think I like him because when he asked me out I couldn't wait it was like the best day ever but I broke up with him a week later because I didn't think I was ready for another relationship. But now that I'm not with him I'm liking him more and more but I don't wanna say anything to him if I'm just gonna hurt him again so I don't know if I should go for it or just stay friends.

I feel like they didn't really care about me at all, they are mad at me now but it's okay.

Well you ain't getting ma azz biitch You're killing me Carolyn lol And yes they're all thirsty deprived mitherfuckers with ex and mommy issues. The fact that one needs to go through the trash like that to find a treasure is just something I refuse to do

Before I begin, I just want to say that I'm not going to acknowledge any comment that goes along the lines of "grow a pair" and so on about my discomfort with being physical currently. I've asked on ends about dating sites that I've tried. I've heard from many that Tinder is becoming the only active spot for anything. However, I'm not ashamed to admit that I am Not only a 20 year old sex virgin, but a relationship virgin as well. Call me a loser, I've just had a lot of emotional issues and social disconnection over the years I've my life. It was only 2 weeks ago that I was able to feel a tinge of that "loving" feeling people talk about (I'm autistic, and have had trouble accessing it prior) with a girl I came back into touch with. I didn't act on it (let's just say I know that one couldn't work), but I felt something, and I decided to try dating websites. I have written off Tinder as a place that connects first through physicality, then through the other. I can't do that. I am insecure, scared and internally frightened by the mention of physicality. Not to say that I never want it, but I want to pace things slow. I'm not a physical guy. Before I do Anything I need to write out things on paper. Please, people who aren't jerks, help me.

Even next to a fat and short girl, I am considered less attractive to men. I was wondering if other skinny and young women have experienced this

My boyfriend and I are living together. We're both in our late twenties. Recently, I've been having some communication issues with my boyfriend. We've talked about it, but I just feel I want to spend a night away from home at a nearby hotel. On top of that, I have a deadline to meet before tomorrow.  Is there anything wrong with this? I will let him know where I'm at, but I just need some space to be alone. 

My ex boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for a year. We've seen each other in person & he's met my family & I've met his. We were both serious about each other but his parents weren't accepting of us because 1) he just graduated college in June,2019 and hasn't gotten a job yet, which means he isn't financially stable. 2) the distance didn't make sense to his parents, and 3) our religion and culture does not allow us to date unless we're engaged, which can't happen because his parents don't think he's ready yet. So even if we were to get back together without his parents knowing, there would be no point cuz we know we're gonna want to see each other at some point but we wont be able to. He told me he wants his parent's blessing but wants to take it slow with them and doesn't want me to be in this mess with him so we broke up in June, 2019. We ended it on good terms and are still in contact. In 2 months, my mom and I will be traveling so I jokingly asked if he wanted to join for my bday and surprisingly he said " I would love to" so I guess he's actually planning on being there. Given our situation, he's definitely not going to be telling his parents about it. I obviously wanna see him but I don't want to get my heart broken again after seeing each other. Surprisingly he's been texting me alot lately and our convos have been lasting days but hasn't mentioned anything about getting back together with me. Why does he care to travel & want to celebrate with me?

Cause shes so weak. Not ashamed to say it

We have been together 2 years and it's both our first serious relationship. We are both 21 years old and I need some advice. I have never been overly attracted to him and I do feel as though chemistry is missing. Don't get me wrong though, he is an amazing guy, treats me like a queen and I do love him very much. Though I've never felt sparks or butterflies with him. We have the same views on marriage, kids and we're saving for a home. However, my mind sometimes wonders, and is happening even more as of lately. It's my first serious relationship and I'm scared. Scared that I'm settling to young, or the lack of chemistry and attraction will bite me, or even ... if I leave, I will be making the wrong mistake and will live in regret + never finding someone who cares about me the way he does.

how long are the days in the winter solstic?

One of my best friends has been dating this guy for about six months now. They seemed really happy together and he seemed to be treating her really well, which was really nice for me to see because she hasn't had the best luck with guys in the past. However, last weekend I went to a house party and he was there (my friend didn't go because she was sick), and he was hardcore flirting with this girl. Then later on in the night I saw them making out in the kitchen. He didn't see me and it was clear that he thought they were alone. So I really want to tell my friend what happened. She needs to know the truth and I feel like it's my duty as her friend to not let her get played again. But here's the catch... I'm friends with her boyfriend too. I actually met him before I met her (we all went to the same university) and although I'm closer to her I feel like I'd be betraying him if I told her. Plus there's a chance that it was just a one off drunken mistake and he won't do it again (unlikely but hey you never know) and if that is the case shouldn't I spare my friend the pain and heartbreak? So yeah, what should I do?

A girl I met in college used to make fun of me when I didn't understand stuff. She's so shallow too. If I get a good job she automatically likes me more. That's so dumb. Why would a woman view men that way? "Oh if I guy has a job that I respect then I automatically like him a lot more". Blah... *throws chair across the room*

I'm interested to know....