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- Question: I have a male friend who is single and always giving abused women advice. He said they always fall in love with him. Is this normal?
- Question: Why does my BF want to skip engagement?
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- Question: Is it better to marry a prostitute rather than marrying a women whoslept around with many men in the name of love, freedom and fun? ?
- Question: My girlfriend friend stares too much?
- Question: Any thoughts?
- Question: Would this count as an abusive wife?
- Question: Why does my BF feel bad about this?
- Question: Do you think that children deserve to be put first?
- Question: Why was my flatmate so selfish?
- Question: How to always have my husband want me ? ?
- Question: Why does he want to skip engagement?
- Question: Explain to me why the coronavirus is such a big deal?
- Question: What goes in the mind of a wife when she meets some of her exes and FWB's with their beautiful wives after marriage, ?
- Question: What are the best years of married life ?
- Question: My wife took out her IUD while I was away on duty . . Now she’s pregnant. If you were in my shoes , What will you do ?
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- Question: How do I deal with my partner keeping their pace with the other person, rather than me, when it's three's company?
- Question: My husband doesn't care that I have a fractured foot. ?
- Question: Why does my BF want to skip engagement and just get married?
- Question: Am I married to my sister through parents marriage?
- Question: Omg he said he can't come in until CHRISTMAS! I am ending this engagement! I don't think he ever really wanted to marry me!?
- Question: Is it disrespectful for a married woman to keep in contact with her deceased husband’s relatives?
- Question: My wife disrespects me and afterwards expect sex after being hateful and disrespectful. What would make them think this is normal or ok?
- Question: Why do husbands always practically knock their wife over to get to another woman?
- Question: What kind of man dislikes when woman uses self deprecating humor?
- Question: Is it selfish that I want to end Poly relationship? ?
- Question: I have a male friend who is single and always giving abused women advice. He said they always fall in love with him. Is this normal?
- Question: Ladies, I thought you didn't openly discuss your previous seedy history?
- Question: Girls only!?
- Question: Why do husbands always leave their wife for somebody half her age?
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:57 PM PST Is it normal for them to fall in love and become obsessed. He's extremely attractive which is why I struggle to understand why he's still single also. He gives most amazing advice and makes everybody laugh until they cry. I told him he should be a therapist. He seems to be right about a lot of these men. He said he gave a lot of women who we're in abused relationships advice about the type of man he is and that they need to leave. He sent me screenshots of girls becoming obsessed and wanting to have sex. He was like " I don't know why they fall in love it or become obsessed. I just be looking out with them. I grew up with one of them in the church gave her advice about the father of her kids who used to hit her and weeks later she told me I was right about him and ended up falling for me and telling me I'm handsome. Women are too emotional. They think because a man give them Advice that means he's in love with them. I was like " You sure you never have sex with them to make them fall in love" he was like " never."the girl was looking for love and going from guy to guy then when she couldn't find a good man guess she fell in love with me as a last resort" Now there's like two he sent me screenshots of that's begging to have sex with him and he's rejected them. |
| Question: Why does my BF want to skip engagement? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:57 PM PST On Wednesday, my BF texted me a ring emoji. Then on Friday, he wants us to move in before getting married in the summer. He said he will buy a real ring too. I said my parents want us to be at least engaged before living together. He then said "Why engagement? Why not just marry?" I said sure we can get married but we can't move in before marriage. |
| Question: Do u think the coronavirus will become a US nightmare? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:53 PM PST |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:33 PM PST Both of my step kids are playing tball this year for the first time. All four of us: me, husband, bio mom, and her husband will be there. We are ordering shirts to match the kids and I thought about getting a pic with my husband and kids, but don't know if I should and just let the kids with her mom get a pic because I don't want to steal her moment because it's pretty big for a mom. I don't know if I should or shouldn't. Should I just skip the pics this year? I know I don't have to get a pic of every little thing we do, but why do I feel like I do? |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:06 PM PST Otherwise what is the difference between them? 1. Both has the risk of STD's. 2. For both of them sex is not a big deal and they can get naked or sleep with anyone or have multiple sex partners. 3. Both will be non virgin, and a will have high expectations in bed. 4. Both might have sex videos recorded and circulated and has been view by many people including school and college boys and got commented, etc. 5. For both of them, changing partners is not a big deal, and can jump from one partner to another for fun. 6. Both of Their husbands willhave to face their clients or sex partners and get commented or laughed at. 7. Both may refuse to have kinky sex with their husband claiming that they have changed now, even though they enyed with with others fully. The only difference that is seen was that one of them took "money " in return to sleep with men, n the other gave it free and for mutual enjoyment. |
| Question: My girlfriend friend stares too much? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 07:04 PM PST My girlfriend had made some new friends and I got to meet some of them. One, in particular gives me an intense vibe where I catch her staring sometimes from the corner. My girlfriend also told me she asks about me while they watch movies together. The times I see her I feel awkward and the time I have tried talking to my girlfriend about it she gives me a hard time. What could be a solution for this? Maybe I have done something wrong to this girl? |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 06:24 PM PST This may seem silly, but I don't know what to do. Both of my step kids are going to be playing ball this year for the first time. We are all getting shirts, but don't know if I should get a pic of all of us because Bio mom will be there as well and this is a big thing for her. Should I let her have the moment and just back away? I don't want to steal her moment by wanting a pic of us and posting it. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Would this count as an abusive wife? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 06:04 PM PST So tonight my 2.5 yo son pulled my 2.5 mo old daughter out of her swing to a ceramic floor she fell maybe 1.5 foot I went to pee for 1 min she cried but stopped once I pick her up I told my wife who was at the store she rushed home hit me threw my phone and threw something at me and said I wish you would of gotten hurt in the crash that day would that count as abusive? Or would you react the same way |
| Question: Why does my BF feel bad about this? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 05:01 PM PST I gave my BF a little financial help last month and bought him something he liked. He has said he can't return the same, which I said no problem. Then this week, he said I'm the first person he has ever taken money from. He was also asking me if I want a ring (because we had been discussing marriage) and I was like "yes I want a ring." Somehow he is thinking that I want a ring in return of what I've given him. I told him I am helping him because I love him. It was all very confusing....why was my BF feeling like I was buying his love??? He said he's not with me for money, or property, etc. (My family is more rich). |
| Question: Do you think that children deserve to be put first? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 01:45 PM PST My personal opinion is that you brought them into the world, they did not ask to be born, therefore you have a responsibility to put them first and make sacrifices to give them the best life possible. I'm from a family that puts their children first, but my husband's parents were the exact opposite. They did the absolute bare minimum that the law requires them to do and my husband is suffering now for it. |
| Question: Why was my flatmate so selfish? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 01:26 PM PST I cleaned at weekends and asked her to join me cleaning. Instead she cleaned through the week and when I asked her to clean at weekends instead she told me she worked and to reshuffle the schedule so her tasks were through the week. I asked her to leave and she left without paying the rent! she's not on a contract so idk what to do |
| Question: How to always have my husband want me ? ? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 12:19 PM PST |
| Question: Why does he want to skip engagement? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 12:10 PM PST He wants us to move in and then get married in summer. I said my parents want us to at least be engaged and then move in. He said why have engagement? Why not just get married? I said sure we can get married but not move in before that. He said he will buy a ring though. But why skip engagement? |
| Question: Explain to me why the coronavirus is such a big deal? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 10:58 AM PST |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 10:48 AM PST Whereas she got dumped by them as she was found unsuitable for marriage according to them and thus they left her after enjoying with her and selected a better life partner for them for marriage? Does she gets reminded of the good times they had together for many years, staying like husband-wife, sleeping together, having varoius kinds of sex in various times and the tours they had together? So, sll the things that she might be sharing with her husband may not be anything new for her. Another thing is, does she feel jeolous of her exes after watching thrm with their beautiful wives whom they selected as life partner after dumping her? And how she too dreamt of being their wife before, but could'nt become as her dream got broken? |
| Question: What are the best years of married life ? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 10:40 AM PST |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 10:24 AM PST So long story short , i came back from active duty army and my wife of 2 years basically took out her IUD while I was away . I had told her a billion times that I was not ready for a child and even lost count of how many times I drove that home . When I came back , I asked her if she still has her IUD on she said yes and now you know the rest of the story . So basically she lied and I had told her that I wasn't ready yet . I was thinking to myself to wait till I at least get halfway into getting my PhD so I don't lose any financially stability because kids are pretty much expensive. Now , I'm kinda stuck . I'm not the guy to seek an abortion for a child neither is she but I felt very devastated because I just wasn't ready and was planning on kids sometime down the road . We had a big argument during this time and she finally basically confessed that she wanted a child and was going to have it on her own terms , not mine . She says that she's sorry that she lied and hopes I forgive her for it , which I did but it's kinda hard to forget. While I was also away , she bought fertility pills with our joint card and I saw the order on the statement, called her and cautioned her to refund it as I wasn't ready for a child. She never returned it and just brushed it to the side . I can go on and on , on a rant about this but I just wanted to keep it short and ask your opinions about this even though I already know what I will do for the sake of my family. What will you do? |
| Question: Do you think the coronavirus will get us into a recession? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:44 AM PST how it got placed in this section I will never know. |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:34 AM PST I've brought it up to them several times, but it keeps happening, and it's like, whatever, you prefer walking with other people rather than me, then clearly you subconsciously don't give a crap to walk with me, and to keep complaining is to be controlling. But the fact is, they aren't walking with me -they aren't choosing me- so how am I supposed to deal with that? "walk faster and match the pace" Yeah, no. I'm not going to be the tagalong in this group when 2/3rds is the couple and I'm part of that 2/3rds 😡 |
| Question: My husband doesn't care that I have a fractured foot. ? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:13 AM PST So, I broke my foot last week. I'm on crutches. He works mon thru fri. 6am to 3pm. We have 2 children. 3yrs and 1yrs. So I'm home alone with them all day, of course. But he wont help me? I've always made sure our house is clean. Always had his dinner made. You know, "normal" house wife duties. Which I never have ANY problem doing those things. But like I said, my foot is broken. He doesn't help with the mess. He wont even offer to get me anything to eat. Not even the kids. And then he talks crap to me about how messy the house is. Like why aren't I cleaning? And every morning when he is getting ready for work he blows up. Yelling harsh names, throwing things around the house, yelling at our children curse words. & I'm getting depressed. I have expressed how I'm feeling towards him & he says sorry but does the exact same thing the next morning. I'm not sure how else to deal with it. I already feel like I'm falling back into depression having to just sit here all day not being able to do much and it's not helping. How do I combat his words? .. hes always had a history of bad temper and rage. |
| Question: Why does my BF want to skip engagement and just get married? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 09:08 AM PST He wants us to move in and then get married in summer. I said my parents want us to at least be engaged and then move in. He said why have engagement? Why not just get married? I said sure we can get married but not move in before that. |
| Question: Am I married to my sister through parents marriage? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 08:38 AM PST So me and my wife have been married for 3 years now. My father and her mother fell in love about a year about and are now married. Does that mean I'm married to my sister now? |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 08:21 AM PST My fiance, Olowende, is minister of finance with the bank of Nigeria. We met in 2015 when he sent me a email to Yahoo Mail by mistake, we ended up talking all night an fell in love an the next day he asked me to marry him. I said yes. I have almost ended are relationship several times. We have never talked on the phone or in person or even Skype, we don't even text. Just email. Even though he is a million air, he said he doesn't have a phone. He has sent me picts over the years (including nudes hehehe) an I have entertained him on webcam, showing him my breasts, vag an butthole an masterbaiting for him. He was suppose to come for Xmas in 2015, I bought $1000 worth of gifts for him an his daughter Elsbeth (I love buying gifts for his daughter) but he found out his mother had cancer. Then in 2016 she had a stroke an he had to provide 24/7 care. In 2017 he slammed his pecker in a car door an was in the hospital for months. In 2018 he was about to get on the plane an saw an Islam man an he an Elsbeth didn't get on an the man turned out to be a terrorist. In 2019 he said he needed $8000 for his BTA (that's basic travel allowence) before he could leave an I couldn't afford it! So every year it's been SOMETHING! I told him if he wasn't here the first 3 months of 2020 we was DONE but he said their is a financial crisis in Uganda an Nigeria an he can't make it till Xmas! I screamed an throwed my tablet acrossed the room an it cracked the screen an I pulled a bunch of my hair out... ... an just screamed an squalled! I know he is my soulmate, we have had such a intents relationship. He has been abusive at times an even called me a fat terd once an I nearly committed suicide! He promised to put me up in a penthouse apartment in Morgantown after my asshole ex husbend takes full custody of are son (Max would be an embarrassment to Olowende because he is weak an stupid) an get me a Caddilac Escalade!... Also, Olowende is the sexiest man I have ever saw. 6 foot 1, 190 pounds, blond hair, blue eyes, six pack and, 10 inch rock hard cock an a million air. He said he is so attracted to full figured women with short brown hair when we first met I almost peed cause that is ME! But as much as we love each other, I can't just keep on waiting for him, it's been almost 5 years an we are no closer to being married then we was 5 years ago! This is tareing my heart out! Omg your so right! I have been blinded by my love for him, he has just been using me! |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 07:07 AM PST Let's say she's married for the third time, as her first husband (whom she has a daughter with) and second husband both have passed away. Her deceased husband's nephew died, so she goes to the funeral. Is she betraying her current husband for doing that, as well as if she attends "in-law" family functions with him? Deep down inside, is he not comfortable with this, therefore attending the functions with her while hiding his true feelings? Or is he being selfish, since she was a widow, not a divorcee, thus the "competition" being deceased. |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 06:09 AM PST For some reason she doesnt understand that i wont even nearly have or want an erection or be aroused after the disrespect. It turns me off bad and she thinks im supposed to put out even when im disgusted at her behavior. I cant cut off my feelings and self respect to have sex with a narcissistic person but for some reason they think im supposed to accept the abuse like it never happened. Any solutions other tnan leaving her |
| Question: Why do husbands always practically knock their wife over to get to another woman? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 06:01 AM PST |
| Question: What kind of man dislikes when woman uses self deprecating humor? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 04:31 AM PST One time i liked a douchbag and was being funny myself and he said 'self deprication isnt funny. Don't do it. Try other jokes'... But the thing is he also told me he was a sociopath. |
| Question: Is it selfish that I want to end Poly relationship? ? Posted: 29 Feb 2020 04:15 AM PST OK, so my fiance mentioned awhile back that he wanted a poly relationship. I didn't want that because I was perfectly happy with what we are. He kept asking and asking until I cave in and complied to make him happy. So we tried it out and it was the worse experience ever. Everyday I would cry and was sad. At some point I felt like I wasn't enough for him since he wanted someone else involved. We set boundaries of course; one of them being do not have sex with her because he can be careless and not wear protection (another boundary was she wasn't allowed to get regnant by him since he will be my husband and his and my relationship was the main relationship). He crossed that boundary and I caught them having sex which broke my heart so I request we end it since he couldn't keep his part of the deal. A few months later he wanted to get back into it so, my dumbass, agreed again. And so close to our wedding too. So now we are in it and I am currently unhappy again. Keep in mind I make sacrifices left and right to make him happy, even if I have to be unhappy about it. They both say they understand how I feel but they don't because they have never been through this before like I am now. So, I guess the question is; is it selfish of me to want my future husband to myself? To end the poly relationship because I am tired of making one sided sacrifices with nothing to gain? |
| Posted: 29 Feb 2020 01:24 AM PST Is it normal for them to fall in love and become obsessed. He seems to be an amazing guy. I told him he should be a therapist. He seems to be right about a lot of these men. He said he gave a lot of women who we're in abused relationships advice about the type of man he is and that they need to leave. He sent me screenshots of girls becoming obsessed and wanting to have sex. He was like " I don't know why they fall in love it or become obsessed. I just be looking out with them. I grew up with one of them in the church gave her advice about the father of her kids who used to hit her and weeks later she told me I was right about him and ended up falling for me and telling me I'm handsome. Women are too emotional. They think because a man give them Advice that means he's in love with them. I was like " You sure you never have sex with them to make them fall in love" he was like " never."the girl was looking for love and going from guy to guy then when she couldn't find a good man guess she fell in love with me as a last resort" He was like " I'm not a last resort type of man anyways... a woman hopping from man to man in an effort to try To find love is not attractive to a man." Now there's like two girls he sent me screenshots of that's begging to have sex with him and he's rejected them. |
| Question: Ladies, I thought you didn't openly discuss your previous seedy history? Posted: 28 Feb 2020 10:59 PM PST But I just saw a question just about the same subject. See ladies, is it too much to ask to for you to fess up about the previous sordid history? It doesn't have to be raunchy or distasteful. Use your imagination a little to describe it in rated G format. If you can't at least do this much, you have no business being married. |
| Posted: 28 Feb 2020 10:57 PM PST Would you rather have a husband who loves and respects you, treats like a queen but I'd really bad in the looks department and in bed or, a very attractive man who is everything you want in bed but doesn't treat you great? |
| Question: Why do husbands always leave their wife for somebody half her age? Posted: 28 Feb 2020 07:48 AM PST |
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