Situation: my roommate in college in kinda gross. She used to have a sponge to clean dishes with and always left it at the bottom of the sink, sopping wet, with food on it after washing her dishes. It actually had a few hairs on it too. Needless to say, I bought my own dish rag for dishes which I keep clean and wash to reuse. Eventually, she tossed out her sponge and began to use my dish rag. She would leave it in the sink, wet, with food all over after using it. Additionally, she does not clean dishes well so I it made me angry when she uses dishes that I clean. My issue: she never asked me if she could use my dish rag and did not treat it with the same respect that I did. My solution: I recently took a two bowls, one plate, two spoons and a knife from the set of eating ware we have (provided by our landlord) into my room. I also keep my dish rag in my room. I feel bad because she does not have a car and would have to walk or bus to a store to buy a sponge (for context it is two miles or less away but we has gas stations super close). Also, I am sure she knows that I have taken dishes and my rag into my room. I just could not deal with the anger I felt before. But now I feel guilty for this. Also, I am very introverted with social anxiety so having a roommate is hard enough and I do not think I could ever confront her. I do not mind keeping dishes and my rag in my room. Am I in the wrong? Should I be more willing to share? Am I petty? 

I still want to see this person but am nervous cause my mother poisoned my mind against her. This is my step-mother I'm seeing tomorrow.

What is your thought process? Weird question but please hear me out. My aunt passed away recently. We were close, she had no children of her own and told me I was the daughter she never had, I also called her my "second mom" We talked on the phone every day for an hour. She always complained about my brother and my mom but was nice to their face. I stayed neutral. But now I wonder if she complained about me too. I'm not upset that I was left nothing in her will, it upsets me to wonder if she ever really meant what she said to me. If she loved me. Or if she made fun of me like she did my brother and mom. I can't ever find out. But when you have made out your will and leave our family members you are in close contact with and care about, what is your thought process? She left everything to one of my cousins who is wealthy. I just wonder why. Did she care about me? She saw my brother once a week even though she made fun of him. Maybe she hated me too and it makes me feel so sad not knowing 

I'm seeing her tomorrow for something

My daughter is 11, and she lives with me. Her father and I broke up over two years ago. She sees her father on the weekends, but doesn't spend the night at his place. She always complains about visiting with him. She says he's annoying, and yells at her sometimes. She seems to be annoyed at the mere mention of his name. I don't want my daughter to grow up without a father. I make every effort possible to encourage the relationship between the two of them. I have her call him sometimes. I encourage her to invite him to her school concerts. But she is very resistant. I try to speak to him, but he doesn't want to listen. He never has any plans for her on the weekends. She can't go to his house because he's somewhat of a hoarder, and he has no car, so they spend the weekends wandering around town, looking for something to do. As her mother, what do I do? Do I stay out of it? Do I allow her to stay home on the weekends? We don't have an official visitation court order.

For example, I was always told if I worked hard I can get just about anything and be just about anything I wanted. And I do work hard and I do get what I want...but my sister who is drop dead gorgeous did not place nearly enough effort into her education or work ethic... Yet she just got a whole house given to her. To be fair, her husband got the house from his parents and now it is their house. And even though she does have an education... I just don't find it fair that she has a whole family and a home and is far more financially secure than even our parents...she picked the right guy.

I'm so tired of my baby's father other baby's mom she's been making fake pages telling me she hopes my child dies or be born dead. All because our baby's father beat her up. I wasn't even there and now she's TALKING about I was messing with her first, she didn't ask me to ever send her no money for HER child. I was ONLY trying to be nice to her plus she needed it. My baby's father already gave me her whole name and my mom HER ADDRESS so we and my friend's can easily jump her. She just mad because she got beat up and HE barely see their kid. She wished death on my unborn daughter so we're thinking about beating her ***. Should we?

Hello there, shes one yr younger to us and hes not the type of guy I would trust. Jock, good looks tall, and is a skirt chaser and has had lots of affairs. So, he knows her since, me and him are besties and they start to get friendly. What do i tell her?.Me and her dont discus topics like this. PS: We both are guys in senior high and she as well, but I never imagined that theyd be friendly. PS: I do feel jealous..

she seen him beat me up when I was pregnant and threaten to kill me as a joke . I just had a baby and he wants nothing to do with us thank god and he also did weird **** like walk by my food and fake gag and spit into it and then say I lied and it never happened. I told her if she keeps it up me and the baby will not be visiting anymore. Am I wrong?

One of my relatives didn't she want me to walk near a specific location because she told me that she did not want construction workers bothering me. No, they are not. She said that she didn't want to me to be catcalled. Because I wasn't sure, and I never had issues with anyone before.

He doesnt work, he wants to control the house. Everyone in my family has income but him. Everytime someone comes to fix the house he tries to tell them what to do its not like he paid for it. He actually waiting for my mother to die so he can take her pension he got caught saying it. He doesnt take baths or brushes his teeth. He is verbally abusive. He watches porn on his computer he didnt pay for.  Im starting to really hate him. Im a christian he makes fun of my beliefs in god that he watches video about bashng christianity he raise volume loud so i can hear it. There other worst things he did in the past. He tells me i need to get a life and im ugly even though i look like him. What is wrong with him? Sorry for my grammar

So im letting my mother claim my son this year . i heard it depends on how much the person makes depends on how much you get back . mom is a personal care aide makes atleast 11/12hr and she keeps him for like 3 /4 days out of the week .and includes overtime & weekends . her checks weekly are atleast 800$ -900$ on a good day and shes been working this job for 4 years now . how much do you guys think she may get back for him ? im worried shes going to try and take advantage of my money but i need her for it because i wasnt able to keep a job and i guess its only right because me and my bd stay with her and she does buy diapers and wipes only those no clothes no shoes and she barely watches him and barely wants to help . & if it depends on how much u make i want her to so i can survive on what we get back please help she still hasnt filed and i just need to know the ropes so i wont get dicked ps son just turned a year january

I'm 20, almost 21. I have a job, I'm saving my money for a place but parents said it's okay for me to stay with them.  Women really like me and my job. At my age is it a big deal if I have women sleep over in my room

My sister gets naked in front of me all the time like it's nothing. I think she does it on purpose. Her excuse is "we're both girls." It doesn't matter. I still don't want to see her naked. Who wants to see their sister naked? And how does she know I'm not a pervert? Girls can be perverts too. When I tell her to stop being naked in front of me she gets mad. She thinks I'm jealous of her body. No, I just don't want to see it. I think she's trying to gross me out. She also rubs her naked butt on my bed sheets. I have to keep changing my bed sheets. I barely have any bed sheets left. When I tell her not to rub her naked butt on my bed she gets mad and says she can rub her naked butt all over my bed if she wants to. I'm tired of this. This has to stop.

My sister is a terrible person. My parents taught me it is okay to hate my sister since they hate my Mom's brother. 

what happened, tell the full story? I'm doing a poll for my class

I was doing a take home math test for my precalculus class (i'm in high school) and the test was assigned last class and due today and I was posting the questions on here on yahoo answers asking for help for a lot of the questions and today my teacher came up to me and said he was on yahoo answers and saw my questions and my name on them and knew it was me and he was writing me up for cheating and gave me a 0... is this fair?!! yahoo answers is my own business he shouldn't be looking

so I have an iPhone XR and I bought an iphone 11 back film which covers the back to make it look like an 11 and i put an iphone 11 case on and it looks so real it's almost impossible to see its fake because the fake second camera looks 100% real and you honesty can't tell it's fake at all, i wanted to make it look like i have an iphone 11 so people think i'm wealthy and like me and so i look cool  i want my crush to like me back if i look wealthy 

My daughter is going to see another guy in another city and state for spring break. She's 19. He's flying her out to see him.  I can't stop her. I just know he hits on her a lot over the phone

I am not very good at lying. I need help. I got a 40% on my English test. The best lie I can think of is we had a substitute from Canada and they give your grade by telling how much you got wrong so I really got a 60%. 60 is still a pass in my school. 

My mom came to me crying saying when she had me she was in her 20s I was 10 she was in her 30s especially when she had my sisters now she's in her 40s, my two sisters are getting so big she even said for my youngest sister the baby is already started to develop their growing so fast time is passing by too fast. I ask her if she was crying because she's in her 40s (45) and she said no then she just said we don't do anything (like meaning in enjoying life). Besides this we're getting a 4th dog and she said after this conversation how maybe the dog will bring us out more in some way. She is nervous about getting this dog and she mostly got it for my sister. She said it's like gonna have a baby she doesn't even have time got herself. I'm just wondering does it seem she wants more kids or no? I know my parents use no protection which doesn't make any sense, but they want to sell baby stuff they have and my mom complains how it's to much for her to do in the household and 

So about 2 weeks ago, my cousin was in the house by himself and his two sisters (No parents), and he boiled water and poured it on the arm of one of the sisters. This really shocked me because he's always been a really bad kid, since we were like 9 and 6, Im 15 and he 12 now and it seems to have gotten worse because before he wouldn't harm people, he would just spend a money card without permission and steal and lock his sister in the closet or something like that. But now it's different because he's harming them. Most of my cousins don't really like him because of his ADHD and how hyper he can get. Last year for the first time I seen conflict between him and my 10 year old cousin(girl) and she told me that he was grabbing her butt and asking for kisses, so I asked the other girls if he does it to them too and they all said yes. It just scares me that I'm watching my best cousin do stuff like this. I just don't know what to think right now.

How should I deal about my situation? Both my parents got a divorce a couple years back. My mom went to school while she still was with my dad and used his credit card for loans because she didn't have good credit. after they got a divorce her name was still under his credit. Skip to now, the bank comes and garnish my dads money from his check about a good quarter of it every time he gets paid. Idk why but every time my dad asks for her for money she says she doesn't have any. Mind you my mom has a bachelors in nursing and says she has no money?! this doesn't make sense. I wouldn't mind helping my dad but my mom acts like she doesn't owe the bank money. She has a really bad gambling problem which is why I think she is broke. I don't mind killing myself (my life's shi**y btw) if it helps my dads situation. Maybe I should help my dad but my mom leaves a huge burden and doesn't live with us. Thoughts?!