lately my friend has been acting very distant from me and today we got into a little bit of a fight and she told me that she feels left out. We have had the same friend group of 3 people for 4 years now. me and the other friend in our group have cheerleading together, lots of classes together, and we live really close so we see eachother a lot. Now my friend that is feeling left out doesn't have any classes with me, and lives a little farther away so we only hangout on the weekends. so i can understand why she is feeling left out, but the way she said it to me was in a super rude way and for almost a month now i have felt her feel almost jealous of me and my other friends friendship. she doesn't treat us the same she is cold and distant. i have been so busy with sports and school but i am never mean to her. i am the most loyal to my friends and i treat them with so much respect. for the 4 years that we have been friends, i have only gotten into at least like 2 fights with her and we made up very quickly after. i don't know why she all the sudden makes me seem like the bad person when she doesn't even put effort into our friendship. i get that she feels left out and i told her that i am sorry and that i won't let her feel like that but there is only so much that i can say or do. i love her but she is just being mean all of the sudden and i'm not sure what to do? we are in highschool (10th grade) 

We had plans on a holiday, then she called me day of to go to cancel plans to go to a notable's party. Latest, I reached out by phone & text. She did not respond. 4 months later she blows me up explaining her aunt who raised her had cancer & she shutdown during that time... she valued our friendship yata yata. Yet, her friend came to visit her during that time period she didnt call me back and they went to Miami to party for a week. I explained Im not going to chase her and we're either freinds or not. She apologized and explained it'd be diff going forward. I reach out to her last Thursday and she says she'd call to chat this past Saturday at 2p, yet never did. Stop playing this game and block her or keep her around?  She always wants to be friends,get her problems out, then disappears. In short, friend is inconsistent.

So my boyfriend owns a house and he let his childhoods friends family move in, (his 2 guy friends and their mom) I didn't care at first but the plan was for them to start saving money to find their own place and they just go out and blow money. They also don't pay rent or really help around the house except the dishes after they sit for a week. I'm about to move in and I feel they just take advantage of him and I'm not sure what to say. Others around us agree but he doesn't want to ruin a 10+ year friendship with them, which I completely understand. What should I do in this situation or what would you do?  how do you delete this? ive talked to him about it 

A few months ago, me and my best friend got into a semi argument and me being upset finding out he was breaking up with me since I used to date him, I was being toxic and said "fine then leave" I regret that I did everyday and I cant stop crying about it. I was such an idiot. And i recently sent him a long apology letter and he said "I used to consider you as my bff, even close family but now I dont know anymore"I havent stopped crying. Whats some good advice? We weren't as close as we used to be. Nothings going to be the same.

How would you react to friend who body shames you as a a joke (a male friend joking about a female friend) and you tell him it was rude but he diverts the topic and doesn't apologize but texts you later saying what's up...should you still talk to him and brush it off or ignore

Back then they were bigger than me and I was a scrawny nerd. But ever since I graduated high school I've been bulking up on steroids and now im twice those bullies size because they really let themselves go. Would I get arrested if I find them and beat them up for bullying me back then?  Plus they wouldn't be expecting it because they moved on with their lives while I held my grudges against them

We are both females She acts like crazy when she realized that i have confidence She acts like crazy everytime i am with her Maybe i should stop make company with her????

she is suppose to be my best friend but she hates very much when i feel confidence and she always tries to put me down and convince me that i am ugly also What is her problem?? i cant understand.... I am always nice to her

I'm 18 and my bff is 18. She's done sexual stuff since middle school but didn't start having sex until recently. She's had sex with 6 guys and 7 months. I've scolded her, givin my thoughts and advice but she doesn't listen. There was even one point where she thought she had a STD and multiple times where she thought she could be pregnant. Her past partners even got her into smoking and drinking. Should I just stay out of it and let her keep making these poor decisions? What should I do? 

A co worker who I thought we could be good friends, who I have known about to 6 months. Asked me one day where did my work flashlight. I let him know it came from wish. He asked me how much it cost I said altogether about $15 . He asked me to order him one and gave me the $15.00. I ordered it, two weeks later I gave him the flashlight. I seen him the following week went to ask him about the flashlight he said I gave him a used scratched up flashlight. He said he didn't have time for that $H!T. I offered to order him a new one again but before I could continue or offer him back his $15.00. he told me he did not want to speak to me and leave him alone. Out of the kindness of my heart I was going to let him keep the old one, order him a new one from someone else and give him $20.00 for the trouble. Just the way he spoke to me, I feel I understand he is upset. I feel his approach or the method he went about speaking to me is wrong. Should I still try to speak to him again give him the new flashlight I ordered which arrived today in a sealed box, let him open it's self and give him the $20.00. what would you do in this situation.

If I do anything which doesn't add to her enjoyment, she'll easily get upset. Example, I bought a gaming PC to play a game occasionally, but she tries to stop me from it. Meanwhile she uses it to watch Netflix and usually teenage girl shows. We had to carry 6 bags into a hotel. 2 had wheels, and One of the wheeled bags was akward. I had to carry the 4 hand bags on top of the akward wheeled bag while she took the easy one. She complains about anything I do for myself which isn't focused on her. Sure everything she does is with me, but that's because she doesn't have the means to do anything for herself, and shows no desire to gain any such skill. She has plenty of wants, but giving isn't one of them.

Went to a friend's church.For the most part everything went well,except at the end I asked if I promise not to bother/bug her about it this week if I can have 1 more hug.I guess my brain thought that was a good idea,incase she decided she doesnt want to give hugs where I usually see her. But I kinda wish I wouldnt have so I could see how things go this week&see if they would have been different/better than last week.Especially since its the last week I have her as being the first patient of the day.Which is when she's usually more chipper&clear headed¬ tired&wanting to go home.Infact it was 2 8:30 appointments ago when she started the hugs after every session thing.I didnt know she was going to start giving hugs every time til my next appointment,at that particular time I thought it was just because I gave her a bunch of energy drinks that day.But if it's different this week,I have to accept it¬ say anything about it cause I said I wouldn't. Sometimes I need to think more before I talk. Heck most of the time. I guess theres positives and negatives to both ways. At least if she wasnt going to give me hugs where I usually see her at least I got a few today. But if I hadn't said that at the end, this upcoming week may be different than it was going to be. I wonder if by doing/saying that I ruined my chance of getting hugs this week?Like maybe she was going to but since I said what I said@church,now she's not? Or will she still give hugs this week despite what I said?

A friend cancelled plans with me last minute yesterday. He claims he felt unwell and therefore he could not attend an event that we had plans for for about 3 weeks in advance. This is actually the 2nd time in a row that he has done this to me. I never had this issue with him prior to these 2 times but these last 2 times have really caused me to feel fed up with him. To his credit both times he bailed on me he did try to come up with an alternative plan but the problem is that I work alot of hours so I usually cant afford to take another day off from work to make an alternate plan with him like he is hoping. Also, in both these cases I not only scheduled my time off from work but I paid $50 to get my hair cut and styled and since he bailed on me last minute in both cases I could not find someone else to hang out with so to take his place ..so in both cases I was stuck doing practically nothing after taking off from work and spending all the money on my hair cut...so now I am fed up with him. I know he cant help being sick but I feel like I cant afford to put myself through this with him anymore. It too draining for me to go to all the trouble to make plans with him, take off from work and spend $50 both times to get my hair done and all this to just spend an evening alone! So I did tell him I understood yesterday but I have been dodging his calls and emails today and I feel like I just don't want to bother with him anymore. ...but I know he cant help feeling sick. So the question I have is...am I justified to not deal with him anymore? Or am I being unfair since he was sick and made alternate plans? Will choose best answer