I have had trouble with having obsessive thoughts for years and they have even been about people and I will even talk about these people too that I obsess over but not really in a bad way at all. It is just in my mind so is this really a big deal? I have had therapy for this but it didn't help 

You forget a thousand things every day, pal. Make sure this is one of 'em

I'm a 30 year old white male who works while living with his parents. I met this cool black woman on Facebook. Her and I talk and seemed to get along.So onetime I unliked one of her posts after liking it. She asked why and I said I have racist family members and I'm trying to keep my life closed off from them, which is true.So since then, she's picked on me in private Facebook groups. She's told me I need to stand up to my parents and their racism.I think she picks on me because she likes me.I'm thinking if she didn't care, she would have just blocked me by now. We're still Facebook friends and she talks to me a little. Although onetime she said she would tell my racist parents I have black friends if I kept reading her wall posts. She compared me to a cockroach onetime too because I won't go away.She's said she won't hangout with me if I'm keeping her as a secret from my parents which is only fair.

When I first moved to the big city I live in now I met a girl and we became friends. She's a bit innocent, naive and aloof, but overall I think she's a genuine person. We lost contact for about a year. Throughout the year I'd reach out to her about hanging out but she always told me she was busy and never offered any free time she had to hangout. Then she posted on facebook that she was engaged. I thought to myself, oh okay, that's why she's been so busy. She got swept up in a relationship and now she's moving across the county for her fiance. I thought it was fast as I didn't even know she was in a relationship but then again we hadn't seen each other in a year. Some time later I noticed that her engagement ended & that she got a new job in the city. I asked her if I could come visit her at her new job. It was nice to see her again. She wasn't able to tell me the full story because she was working but she mentioned that she dodged a bullet and I told her that although I don't know the situation I'm just proud that she got out when she did. She said she had to learn the hard way. She thanked me showing up and being there for her even though we haven't talked in a while.  We have a dinner planned soon so we can catch up.  My question is, could you stay friends with someone who got wrapped up in (what seems like a toxic relationship) didn't put in effort to see you in the past year and was ready to move across the county without keeping touch with you? 

gotta level with you here...it's not my friend. it's my friend's friend. but she's seen her mother attempt to kill herself and always blamed herself for it. now one of her jackass friends is cutting himself but says he'll kill himself if she tells. what should we do?

I been friends with someone awhile. I sent them a message and they responed. Then I sent another message which says it was delivered. I then check the chat and its says "Your Snaps and Chats are pending until __ adds you as a friend" I then check their profile and the Snapchat Score is still there. Usually you don't see it if your unfriened or blocked. Today the sign is grey and say pending I look at the profile again there Snapchat score. I can't find an answer to this scenario.

My bully got me fired from the company we both worked in and now he's gone and gotten all my Facebook friends to work there. He usually has all his coworkers indoctrinated for the company anmd worried my friends may no longer want to my friend on Facebook. He only bullied me because another employee used me as a scapegoat in reporting him to management. He is a line leader who has bullied me because he assumes I was the one who reported him, not the one who used me as a scapegoat.  Will my Facebook friends still see me as a respectful friend after their indoctrination? 

Ok so i am a 16 yo girl. my best friend is a 16 yo boy and his little brother is 14, and also one of my best friends.  My dad is convinced his brother likes me.  1) my dad says he is always engaged in a conversation when im around 2) the other day, i went to visit them at their hotel when they were staying in my town. (they live far away so i only see them once a month). i texted my best friend and said i was there, and when i got there, his brother came to the lobby to see me and we hung out for a few minutes before i saw my best friend. my dad says my best friend probably did this on purpose so his brother could get alone time with me.  3) we cant even look at each other without laughing 4) he hugs me tighter than my best friend does 5) i talk to him on the phone more than my best friend 6) when i left their hotel the other day, he was like "i wont see you for another month or two :(" what do you think? when i got to the hotel my best friend said "he wasnt dressed yet" and his brother came down while he was "getting dressed" when i was at the hotel their mom made a comment about me and the brother not being married yet idk if that helps

my best friend (m16) informed me last night he likes this girl hes been talking to online. Im madly in love with him and he legit has no clue. Ive tried dropping hints (for example, i did things like try to laugh around him or touch his back). I tried to tell him it was a mistake because he would push away girls who were interested in him, in real life. 1) should i tell him? 2) should i let it go?  3) should i end the friendship?

nothing or give him another gift? I gave him the envelope in a pinball museum, with many people at this time.

My best friend currently hates my GF and the feeling is mutual. He thinks that she's cheating on me. She can't stand him and has theorized that he has a personality disorder. All of this started last week when my GF's best friend came over to me during lunch while I was sitting next to my best friend and then proceeded to whisper into my ear that "nobody likes [DEADNAME]". my best friend (let's call him A) asked me what she said, I told him, and he then proceeded to walk over to my GF (let's call her C) and her best friend at lunch to tell them to stop deadnaming him. (Which happens way too often and frankly, it disgusts me.) Now, after lunch, I heard from a friend that A had actually yelled at them instead of just telling them to stop and that C had suffered a panic attack in the restroom because of it. I was like "dear god" and then C was pretty distant for the rest of the day. C and her best friend then decided that they were going to talk about A behind his back and try to "turn people against him", I assume. I've managed to (mostly) stay out of the "trash-talking" and try my best to shut my friends down before they can get started. On Friday, though, in a desperate attempt to move past all of this ridiculous conflict, I managed to bring together everyone at one table during lunch. It did... not go as I had planned, to say the least. I've managed to make everyone even MORE upset and my friends managed to drag more people into it. Help?  TL;DR: I probably need new friends

The last time I went to a sleep over at my friend's house he pranked me by making me spread whipped cream all over my face and sent the video to my other friends (and the girl I like amongst them). I wanted to prank him back tonight by making him wet the bed with the hand in water prank but I don't know if it was supposed to be warm or cold. Could you give me some advice even on how to put it into action please? If any of you have done it before better still. Thanks!

I am the only girl in my AP Calculus class. My classmates are all my friends and are great guys. We have a lot of home work so we sometimes gather at someone's house and do our homework together. This time it was my house. After we completed the homework, my mom served all the guys fresh homemade apple pie and ice cream. They loved it. We usually rotate whose house we go to for doing the homework. However the guys ask me if we could go to my house again for the homework. That is OK with me. I just thought they liked the pie and ice cream my mom made for them. Then one of the guys told me the real reason they wanted to come to my house. When mom served them pie and ice cream she wore her Daisy Dukes. Are all high school guys like this about someone twice their age?

I heard some of the girls at school talk about their boyfriends being hung. I did not want to appear stupid and ask them what that meant so I asked the guys in my next class if they were hung. I was hoping they would tell me what that meant. They all said they were. Then my friend told me what I had really asked he guys in the class. OH MY GOD. I was VERY EMBARRASSED. Should I apologize to all the guys for being so stupid?

Please I could use someone's outside perspective because I'm feeling too hurt to make a rational decision. So where to begin. There was a girl who pretended to be my friend, but thats the extent of our falsified friendship. She was never a real friend because friends don't treat people the way she treated me. I caught feelings for her and paid her genuine compliments. But she fell for another guy and they trash talked my name. They said how desperate I was and how thirsty I was. And then made a mockery of me, and she laughed so hard. Genuine laugh, not even a petty laugh. She never once showed signs that she didn't enjoy the attention that I gave her. And I'm not trying to make it seem like I was a blessing to her life or anything, but for as supportive as I was to her, you wouldn't think she would have been as ungrateful as she was. And it hurt so much that she didn't even defend me. It felt like everything we'd gone through together was dragged through the mud in just that one instance. And deep down it really hurt my spirit. I hate being melodramatic, but I respected their relationship. I just don't think I deserved being dragged down like that. But I could definitely use other people's opinions. I was never mean to them. It really came out of nowhere. And it made me feel like maybe they've always had these closeted conversations because of how comfortable they were saying that. They didn't even remotely take into consideration how it made me feel. I really don't feel I deserve that. But of course I would feel that way. Because it relates to me. But I don't think anyone deserves to be treated like that. But please tell me what you think. Even if its just to tell me to grow up. Please I need to hear it.

I came home from work today and walk in on my 16 year old son smoking weed with his 17 year old friend, what should I do?

I'm a senior in high school. In October, I went to this party and there was all these popular people. We drank a **** ton, smoked a bunch of weed and even had this nice Cuban cigar that tasted like heaven on a stick.  I had a blast and was looking forward to being invited to another party. Since then, there's been 3 parties (that I know of) that have happened and it kills me to watch their stories on snap and not be involved. I love partying and interacting with "cool and popular" people because it really boosts my self esteem. I do consider myself popular but at the lower end of the meter. Everyone seemed to love me at the last party I went to. When they have a party, it makes me feel unwanted and I question why no one wants to invite me. I just want to invited again but I don't want to be way to pushy and rude. Any thoughts? (Sorry if I seem like a loser, I'm very likable and there could be a reason I'm not invited like no more room in the house, but it's very unlikely...)

It used to be on Android. I would use it to find people in my area who wanted to fight. Now I can't find the app. What happened to Rumblr?

Well I've known this girl and her husband for 5yrs now we meet at a social group this year will be 6yrs we've known each other. The thing is when we talk to someone new there at the group, she would say I've known her as in me for 5yrs, and I didn't like her at first, and she also even said this to me directly that she didn't like me? Is this something weird for a friend to say at all after all that time I just pretty much ignore it cause I would end up saying something smart that she wouldn't like, and then her and her husband can be very annoying sometimes when I'm around they would pick on me but they say it's in the friend way but even though nothing wrong with it but friend shouldn't do that right even being sarcastic?

My best friend goes to a different high school and he is such a great person. He is such a patient guy and really funny and is just a soft giant. We hang out with each other at least once a week. He told me that he was kind of getting bullied in PE but it didn't really bother him so I didn't really push him on that. Ever since it has been getting a lot worse. He's constantly being harassed every day and at one point someone sexually harassed him which is where it crossed the line. I demanded that he told the gym teacher about the sexual assault and he told him, but all the teacher said was "tell me if it happens again." It didn't happen again but they are still constantly harassing him. Today I saw him with cuts on his arm and I just froze. I didn't want to bring it up because he has been through cutting before and I didn't want to put him in an uncomfortable situation but I wish I did. He's seeing a therapist but I feel like it won't be enough. I want to bash the heads of those bullies into a wall but I don't know who it is and I would be easily overpowered anyway. I told him that he should switch schools (students are allowed to do that in my district) and he is thinking about it. I just want to protect him but I don't know how. Sorry if I made any grammar mistakes it's like 1 AM where I am. Thank you. P.S. I did end up talking to him about the cuts and he said he won't ever do it again but I'm still worried.

I took pictures of my best friend in lingerie for her for Valentine's Day. I had some pictures on my phone I'm the messaged between me and her because that's how I sent them to her.  These photos are very sexy as they were meant for her and her boyfriend. I discovered that my boyfriend had taken a few and sent them to himself. I discovered this because my computer gets all the same messages as my phone. And while he deleted the proof that he sent them to himself on my phone when I was asleep, I saw it when I logged into my computer the next morning. I feel sad, and angry and I don't know exactly what I should do. I did confront him and of course it caused a fight. Typically I would talk with my friend, but I'm this unique situation I can't.  So my question is: am I in the right or wrong for being sad/mad with him? What should I do about the situation ?

Like guys who are 27 and already millionaires, or are in medical school and law school at Ivy League schools, come from money, are extremely good looking and also models, and also are extremely nice and caring, tons of charisma, basically an all american stud, was the star QB in college or high school, and is basically in the top .00001 percent of men while also being humble and loyal to his wife/girlfriend and romantic and loving Basically a guy who is a real life romance novel character or a romantic movie character like Ryan Gosling in real life

I find them annoying honestly. They're all the same. Sorry if you have it but I just can't handle the intrusion sometimes. I seem to attack them to want to be friends with me. Their social cues and social skills in general make it hard for me to keep communication stable. Also the biggest one is they're extremely needy. They don't seem to know limits of texting and calling boundaries, person space in general. I get they can't read folk but common. If someone is telling you it's too much. You must realize. Anyone feel the same.