| Question: Property Bought before Divorce is a community property? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 09:11 PM PST We have been separated for more than 2 years. last years taxes and this year we file separately. Is property bought before divorce and at separation considered community property? Since many months can pass while a couple is separated. It's not unusual for one spouse to buy property during this time. But how will this property be handled during the divorce? Will it be considered marital property which will be divided in you divorce? Also I have a girlfriend, together for about 2.5 years. We are about to brake up now days. can she claim on the property? Thanks in advance. |
| Question: EX PARTE for child custody emergency!? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 08:12 PM PST So my daughter is two years old. Her father started overnights this year in Jan. He and his wife had a fight on their first overnight(wife called the cops) and my daughter's dad went to jail. They were fighting in front of our daughter. The cps contacted me and we had a case open for 31 days. Things progressively got worse, and I knew nothing about my daughter's dads behavior with our daughter and his wife UNTIL three days ago. She ended up leaving him and now telling me everything he did. I have the proof from her, that he would cuss, yell, lock our daughter in a closet while he slept, treat her harshly for playing with a toy "the wrong way", and even say things like, "she can sit in her own ****". He even told his wife he would shoot himself if she called the cops on him. I went today and got an ex parte filed with family law facilitators(waited outside the courthouse at 5 am for two hours and got seen at 8:30 am), and I had police reports, counseling papers, journal entries, testimonies, and more from his wife today that I included as exhibits for the Judge. I didn't ask for full custody, but I only asked that my daughter's dad get supervised visitation(out of his pocket), extensive DV classes because Marine Corps only made him take a ONE day class, and a parenting class. I wonder, can I still ask the judge at our court hearing on Tuesday if I can get full custody even though I didn't put that in when I was filing with the family law facilitator? I want to. I don't have a lawyer because I could not afford one. I also had to go to FAMILY LAW FACILITATOR as I stated int eh above details. I couldn't get advice, but I did get help with filing paperwork out to file for ex parte. I tried Legal Aid and they say the wait is 31 days, my court date is in 5 days. Also, My daughter cries to this day when going to her dad. I always thought it was because she just had a stronger bond with me and is clingy. She never wants to go to him and repeatedly says "no daddy no" I never assumed he was doing all this, but only what he has told me "I'm just more strict with her" |
| Question: Is it true that wives will at times pressure you into doing stuff you don't want? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:41 PM PST My bro use to be married and one of the no.1 reason he divorced his wife is the reason in the title. Also I have friend who got married and, he gave up his living where he wanted to and his favorite car for a van, all because his wanted to be that desperate housewives soccer mom type. There's even a commercial I've seen that promote a man doing what his wife wants. I plan on having a lavish lifestyle with an Art Deco home and beautiful car. One of the things I don't hope is that my wife (if I get one) for out of nowhere will try to make me give up all the stuff I worked for, and do what everything she wants just so she gets what she wants . I know you'll have to give up some stuff, but I'm not the type of guy who'll do your every bidding because i put a ring on your finger. So am I getting worried about nothing or do wives really do that |
| Question: Why does society think that all women should get married and have kids? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:33 PM PST Not all women desire that as the media or society puts out there, at least not me. I plan on working in the medical field and buying a house and just live in my own. No husband no kids, that's what I had said to my father then he said. Don't do that, what if you decide to get married and you and your husband want to buy a house. I thought to myself, I don't want to ever get married or have kids, why did he say this?? It's sad how society portray women as baby wanting desperate to get married type. And how something is wrong with us when when we are single or don't want to get in a relationship and have kids. Not all women want to do that, I know some that are like this. |
| Question: How should I deal with my parent? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:29 PM PST I am in my 20s, have seen my parents going through a divorce when I was 5, and am now dealing with my father and his wife going through a divorce now. Sadly, it is for the same reasons as the last divorce. I did not know until recently what my father did to both of these women until recently.To both women, my mother and step-mom, he has had multiple affairs on them , stole their money physically and through the divorce, lied to them on multiple accounts, has been physically and mentally abusive to them continuously, has tried to kill one of them. Overall he cheats, lies, and abuses. The sad thing is that he accuses both of them, even my mother, of doing the same things(minus the murder), even going so far to paint a bad picture of them in front of his family, their friends and even strangers. I saw some of this take place. He denies everything, and tells me all that both women say is lies. I am a bit lost and not sure who to believe. I assume he is pulling the wool over my and everyone's eyes. How do I deal with my father, who is incredibly eager to put forth his own story, when I can barely talk to him due to the fact he wants to get his side out and make me believe him, and the fact I do not want to deal with him currently? Also, can anyone be persecuted for this kind of thing, this "serial divorce" I guess you can call it? Overall, how can I cope, understand why my father does what he does, and how to get past him as he is now? |
| Question: How can I do volunteer work in my area without being accused of flirting with men? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:24 PM PST My therapist suggested that I could do volunteer work to ease some depression issues that I've been having (which I've hid from my husband since he's always expected to me to be silent due to my gender) but I told her that my husband won't approve of it because he'd think I was flirting with other men which she said was very limiting. How can I go around this without being accused of being flirtatious around men? |
| Question: I live in ga and my divorce papers say that the father must pay child support in the amount of $0.00..does that mean he doesn't have to pay? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:24 PM PST |
| Question: What If After Marriage, One Spouse Is Found To No Longer Acknowledge Christianity In Their Lives? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:14 PM PST What if the marriage becomes an unequal yoke after marriage? |
| Question: Why my ex girlfriend husband want me to fail? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:12 PM PST Why is my ex girlfriend husband don't want me to make it as for as my goal? I wrote a book and it getting publish. She proud of me , but he keep hating why is that |
| Question: Would you be part of a 3some with a married woman and man couple? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:11 PM PST |
| Question: Christians: Why Does God Allow A Spouse To Suffer With A Two-Faced Disloyal Spouse? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:09 PM PST Both say they are christian? Why Must A Spouse Endure an Untruthworthy Spouse? When And How Does God Deliver Someone From This Suffering? |
| Question: I hate my Walmart what would like for them to do to make it better?? Shelving, resisters, food?? Please do tell.? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 06:14 PM PST opps registers, bathrooms, ect... |
| Question: What would you do if you caught BC having sex with your wife? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:50 PM PST You come from work and go to your bedroom then you find BC having sex with your wife while she's unconscious, what do you do? |
| Question: Would you sleep with and cheat with your friend if he was 21, and you were 35? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:43 PM PST |
| Question: Do I have to disclose my financial statements to my fiancee when obtaining a prenuptial agreement? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:42 PM PST |
| Question: My father just joked around about my dead wife in new year's eve? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:34 PM PST I almost punched him in the face. What do I do? I am starting to think spending the day alone would be better than spending it with them. |
| Question: Would this look bad on me? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:25 PM PST So my ex husband after 6.5 years of divorce decides he wants custody of our son. So were in court for that. He's supposed to see him every other weekend and that's fine. Since last weekend was a holiday he took him then as well, so that would be 2 weekends in a row. He stated that he wanted him yet again this weekend. That would be 3 in a row. Our son does not wish to go again this weekend and frankly the weather is going to be nasty and its just ridiculous. My question is should I just grin and bear it and let him go or am i justified in not taking him? I just don't want to look bad, as he's already said such wonderful things about me in court. Any advice? |
| Question: Is there any way to prevent all of your assets and investment from being split in case of a divorce? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:25 PM PST Assuming you are not yet married. |
| Question: Are u happy where your marriage is with your spouse now? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:14 PM PST Hi, I'm 23 (just turn a few days ago) but my parents have been married 30 years now & they've have ups & downs but they're still happy. So, to ask everyone out there, are u happy where your marriage is with your spouse now? Or where u wanted it to be when u both got married?.... |
| Question: Will marriage with a non-biological father make the paternity petition difficult? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 04:57 PM PST |
| Question: I have a wife but another woman and I made out at a new years party at midnight. Help? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 04:57 PM PST |
| Question: Would a married guy reject a woman he was attracted to....? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 04:15 PM PST He tells her he likes her, messes with her head, then rejects her where it comes down to meeting, She is very pretty. |
| Question: I'm afraid for my husbands health. I can't convince him to change.? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 03:40 PM PST I have been with him for four years and married for several months. He has always been on the chubbier side, and I am perfectly okay with that. I don't find him any less attractive, but I have become concerned with his unhealthy habits. He is not very active and tends to eat a lot of junk food, expectally when I'm at work (I'll find the fast food wrappers when I clean the house). His weight has become noticeable and I've noticed he is starting to get winded very easiely. Diabetes runs in his family, and I've tried to tell him that he should see a doctor, but he refuses to listen and believes he is healthy. Even his father mentioned it, and he is not one to be taken lightly. My husband is now 265 pounds, and he is only 5 feet 3. I'm so afraid that he is going to develope a health problem, and I'm afraid of losing him. I love him and I can't stand to see him hurt himself! Please can anyone tell me how to help my husband before he does any permenant damage! |
| Question: If you caught your dad cheating on your mom, would you feel hurt or betrayed? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 03:19 PM PST |
| Question: I am a muslim. Muslims divorce just by saying. I said "I divorce you" to my wife but when she said give me in writing on a paper I refused..? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 03:00 PM PST I refused to do so. I said "whats the need" she said "to prove others that you divorced me" then I thought who will gonna believe me because I've been admitted to Mental Hospital once in my past and my Dad and Mom will gonna resolve this issue as it never happened at all. They did the same last time so I think they'll do it again this time. My question is how can I divorce my wife if noone believes me and they all think it is due to some mental illness. I think even if I give her in writing still noone will believe us. I am so confused. Why I want to divorce her is...... This time she was forcing me to do so. She is always like forcing me to do so. Although we have two daughters. The main reason is We both need space. I need my own place where I may do whatever I want. And maybe doing so will make me succeed in life. I want to do my Masters Level Degree study but in front of her I only play Xbox360 and Ipad because she stops me to do my studies or I dont trust her any more. I am now a days finding a place outside my home to go there stay there and study there. That can be a rented room. What should I do? What to do. I am not a success yet. I am 38 year old. My parents refused to establish my business. In fact main reason is my parents dont care about me. They left me on my own. And left only me like this but establish all my brothers well. What to do. She is gonna remember this event happened today forever but my parents..... they will not gonna believe any of this. 😞 |
| Question: Should I move back in with my mom or just wait and see? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 02:57 PM PST My family, my husband, 2 kids and I are about to lose our apartment at the end of next month since they gave us 30 days today and I asked my mom if we could move back with her and she said me and the girls could but my husband can't! But I don't understand that though since I think we should be together since we are married. He can move in with his brother but that will be 30 minutes away from us though. But we have 30 days so should I wait and see if a better offer comes around or just move in with her? We don't have the money right now. My husband got laid off and I don't make enough to get an apartment at the time. |
| Question: Normal to feel hopeless about relationships and believe you are “a waste”.? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 02:40 PM PST Normal to feel hopeless about relationships and believe you are "a waste".? |
| Question: How do i make my wife have an abortion? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 02:14 PM PST I live in a small apartment first of all, i cannot afford child support, as i barely am staying in my apartment, I have another GF that will break up with me and make my wife do so if she finds out im cheating, I also work long hours so i cant keep up with a kid, and my wife isnt fit to have a child either but she wants one. what do i do? Dont troll plz i need help |
| Question: Having the same dream, what does it mean? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 01:14 PM PST I've been having the same dream. My wife decides to either kick me out, leave me, or break up with me. The latest version, we built a wonderful home together, but still no children. And other than the unified theme, and certain other obvious elements, the two element that are in every dream is one: me trying to give her everything isn't enough when I fail to do it right / to her standards ever time, and two: there is someone else, another guy. Her main life goal is to have children. I obviously want children as well, but she constantly points out that I have a child from a previous marriage. I want her to have my children. We have been trying for years without any luck. We both work so much that we barely have any time together. And she is so tired that I take care of everything. She is a wonderful woman, very beautiful and I see guys checking her out all the time. I used to love it when it happened. Now, not so much. Any other info that you think would help, let me know. Is there anything to this dream, other than my obvious fear? |
| Question: Military: I'm in the Army, what would happen if I marry this girl? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 01:01 PM PST I'm just curious. This girl I'm dating has not one, not two, but 3! 3! kids! but she's cool and pretty and we get along really good. I'm not saying I'm going to marry her but if I did what would happen as far as the kids? I ask because I heard rumors that if I divorce her somehow I will start having to pay child support for her kids? (even if they aren't mine) Is that true? And where do I go to find information like that? Thanks. |
| Question: My mom was granted SOC SEC and arrear child support, Once support ended, SSI was supposed to increase but didn t. Please advice. Thank You? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:50 AM PST |
| Question: Why isn't cheating while married against the law? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:49 AM PST |
| Question: I've fallen in love with somebody, but I'm married and don't know what to do? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:43 AM PST I feel so guilty about this, but I have fallen deep, deep in love with somebody who isn't my husband. It is a person I originally met through work whom I got to know quite well, and suddenly I've realized that I am head over heels for him. The worst part is that he feels the same way towards me. My husband knows him, but does not know the feelings I have for him. I don't know how to tell him; everything I think up makes me feel too guilty (which I am). This alternative guy is essentially everything I want that my husband is not, which I know is the cliche of the century. He's financially stable (husband is not), has his own house, loves reading (I'm an author, my husband has yet to read a single one of my books), and we just click so darn well and I HATE IT. With this new feeling of love towards another, I have lost the love I had for my husband, which makes me even more angry with myself. I was sure it was just lust and that it would pass, but a few months later have gone by and these feelings won't go away. I don't have any children with my husband, we've been married less than a year. All I have connected to him are a bank account and his last name, but that shouldn't be a reason to leave somebody. I don't want to leave my husband, but it is crazy how much desire and love I feel towards this other individual. what would you do in this situation? |
| Question: How are the parties in the divorce procedure called? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:41 AM PST Hi lawyer people, happy New Year. Please, tell me how are the parties called in a divorce procedure - plaintiff and defendant? I can't find it on-line, it gives me only link to divorce parties (like gatherings to celebrate). Also, if you know how the judge opens a divorce case, with what words (in the power vested in me, I start this court, or something), I will be grateful. Thanks. And how is the third party called? |
| Question: My husband has no sex drive. What to do? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:36 AM PST I am 22 and my husband is 23. My husband and I have been married almost 3 years now and about 2 years ago his sex drive started going down hill til there was eventually nothing.He has no sex drive at all I feel so unattractive to him. He is very sweet and tells me he loves me all the time. But there is no intimacy in our relationship. He has gone to a doctor and they told him his body isn't making testosterone at all. They re going to give him meds but it's driving me insane that it's taking so long. I have been so patient and trying to be understanding. But I still feel like its me that's the problem. But I have tried everything in the book to try and turn him on but nothing works. I mean I have never heard of this happening to anyone else. Any advice? |
| Question: Blackmailing calls and SMS keep coming from different countries and at late times with threats. someone please help. what is that? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:31 AM PST when I check the numbers on TrueCaller it says they came from the UK, Niger, Pakistan ETC... I am newly married after splitting with my ex wife and now I even get SMSs on my phone blackmailing me and threatening that he will publish my wife's photos and we get insults that really look like they are from my ex-wife. saying things like I will finish you both and even they got to her mobile and send SMSs to her and calls too. I was really shocked last month when we were on our honeymoon, I received calls in the hotel that I stayed in and into my room. my wife feels really angry and scared. who are those people and how could they get private information that I shared with my wife on What's App? what can I do please? |
| Question: Has the fact that divorce is much more common now than it was fifty years ago made divorce easier for adults or children to deal with? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 11:26 AM PST |
| Question: Am I right? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 10:47 AM PST I respect my dad so much I love him so much but he married on my mom and I never thinker about it because he he disliked it and ihe can marry another it's okay I can accept it even now I thinker he didn't do it I don't want talk to like before it's okay |
| Question: Stepdad problems? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 10:13 AM PST So my mom and my stepdad have been with each other for 9 years. I m 18m and have a different dad and I have a sister who is 15f and also has a different dad. I have a brother who is 7 and he is the son of my current stepfather. So my mom got a 2 year plan and the whole family got new phones last month. Last year my mom found out that he was cheating on her with a younger lady and my mom was really hurt. She told me to make him and email so she could spy on him. He obliviously uses his google account and has no idea he is spied on. So today I went on his search history and saw that he looks up young girl sleeping getting raped often. I was in shock and don t know what to do. This is not a joke. I am sincerely scared for my sister and don t know if I should tell my mom. What do I do? |
| Question: IUD poking boyfriend during intercourse? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 09:45 AM PST |
| Question: Is she still in love with me ? she is married now? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 09:16 AM PST i had an online relationship with a woman since we were 20 till 32. We broke up at times but we always came back to one another. We were very much in love. She is now married and we still talk, text one another about everyday as friends. Occasionally she will bring up our past. I do as well. I am still in love wiht her, is she still in love with me ? |
| Question: I'm an unhappy married woman in love with someone who I cant be together with.? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 09:10 AM PST I come from a South Asian Muslim country..I got married a year ago.He then left me to take care of his sick mom and went to work in Gulf promising me to bring me there after she gets well..Her mom is a typical Muslim Mother-in-law..She dominates me,berates me,she puts false complaints to his son and he then scolds me as he think his mom is a saint..I beg him to come back but he says he needs to earn for his mom's medical expenses and our future..He also doesnt want to hire a nurse and bring him there..I'm stuck..I cant leave due to my society and religious situation where I will be looked as an ungrateful woman who left a sick woman and divorcees here only get remarried to old men looking for young girls..Also I have not gone to college and my country isnt that women friendly in non technical jobs.. This person is a widower living alone..He is always there for me..He keeps me sane when my MIL tortures me..He didnt try to take advantage of me using my vulnerable situation.. I've fallen in love with him and he too knows it but doesnt stop me which means he too likes me.. But I cant be with him..He's more than double my age and our lives are in danger if anyone learns about it..thats how things are in my country.. Leaving my husband is a appalling but for an old man will create so many problems and this will also make me look like a woman who had sexual affair when her man is not around... I feel so depressed when I think of future at times.. There are many ways to express love other than just getting naked and exchanging body fluids |
| Question: Advice please? My husband was killed 4 years ago? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 08:51 AM PST He was a police officer in Houston,TX. To make a long story short a drunk driver (and illegal alien) ran him over while he was on the highway investigating an accident. EVERY time I see a Houston Police car, an ambulance with its siren on or an accident with a lot of vehicles I freak out. My shrink is not helping much. I cannot move away OK? I just bought a house. |
| Question: Who do you think will stay married on love at first sight and why? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 08:45 AM PST |
| Question: Prediction on who stays married on love at first sight? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 08:43 AM PST |
| Question: Why do Cops have the highest likelihood of cheating on a spouse? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 08:36 AM PST |
| Question: Is this normal,? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:58 AM PST My wife keeps a whole bag of condoms under the bathroom sink that hee mother gave her before we got married and didn't use then and now when I tell her that I am going to get rid of them she getsaid mad |
| Question: Why is my ex treating his New girlfriend WAYYY BETTER THAN ME?? even when i gave him my virginity and my iPad? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:46 AM PST my ex gave his new girlfriend this for christmas mind he you took my virginity and we were on and off for a year and a half and he NEVER GAVE ME SH!T no birthday gift or christmas gift but him and this ***** have only been dating since august and he gets her expensive gifts all of a sudden wtf mind you she has 4 kids and is 30 while I'm a young hot 21 year old with NO KIDS and he's only 24 wtf but isn't this UGLY AF anyway?? i even gave this motherf**ker my old iPad for his birthday back in may he seriously treated me like i was just a piece of a$$ and thats what hurts cause he was my first love HOW IS SHE MORE MATURE WHEN THE B**CH HAS 4 KIDS??? SHE SOUNDS LIKE A WHORE THAT COULDNT KEEP HER BABY DADDY AND TRYING TO TRAP A YOUNG GUY IM NOT THE WHORE IN THIS SITIUATION SHE IS SHOULD I CURSE HIM OUT FOR NOT GETTING ME SH!T OUR WHOLE RELATIONSHIP?? OR CURSE HER OUT FOR RUINING MY SELF ESTEEM AND MY MENTAL HEALTH??? |
| Question: Should a 12 year old have privacy? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:31 AM PST I'm male and I'm wondering if I should get any privacy. My parents are divorced and according to the divorce papers I have to have a phone so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. I'm wondering if I should have any more privacy. Here are things that I can do -nevermind I don't really have anything that I can do. Here are things I can't do (P.S. We live In a small town with around 10 thousand people) -go anywhere outside of the house without one of my parents watching me (like even the backyard) -close the bathroom door at any time -close the bedroom door -be in my room without someone in there with me -stay home alone when she/he are at the grocery store or when they're at their restaurant. (The supermarket is 2 mins away) As you see I'm not naming anything else because I can only stay in the house... |
| Question: Should I get a divorce? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:25 AM PST I have no proof that my husband is cheating, but I sure do think he is. He leaves the house without telling me where he is going a couple of times a week and stays gone like 2-3 hours...I sense he's on booty calls. I checked his phone but found nothing...but he could have a separate phone hidden. He doesn't want sex like he used to. I am going crazy with the idea that he is cheating on me and I can't take it anymore! I'm not sure I want to stay married! We have no kids...it would be so easy for me to walk out and find another man! |
| Question: WHY DO WOMEN THINK THEY CAN CONTROL THEIR HUSBANDS BY WITHHOLDING SEX ? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 07:04 AM PST ITS BASICALLY AN AMERICAN THING,ASIAN WOMEN GENERALLY WOULD NEVER DO SUCH A THING,AND aFRICAN WOMEN LAUGH OUT LOUD WHEN THEY HEAR THE TERM "MARITAL RAPE" When my wife says "I'm cutting you off because...." I say "I'm divorcing you because you know that is a stupid idea..BYE" Don't give me any stupid excuses.She cut me off because she wants another new car and hers is "old now" (3 years) and we can't afford one.She wants one anyway.She IS trying to control me and IT AIN'T HAPPENIN. and for your information,I have N E V E R refused her sex,not once since we got married 8 years ago.And 2 months without sex is reasonable only if there is some medical condition that warrants it. I HAVE BEEN to Africa and Asia ...I KNOW what I am talking about.in their culture your body belongs to your spouse,not you.In Africa if my wife went to a policeman and said I raped her he would assume she was too drunk to know what she was saying and send her home.Unless there is physical violence there can be no rape of a spouse.African women have personally told me " Deny my husband sex ? Why would anyone do that ? It can NEVER happen here !) |
| Question: Does my ex-wife have any claim against inheritance received by my current wife? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 06:48 AM PST |
| Question: Can my marriage survive? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 06:00 AM PST My husband and I got into a huge argument. He can be very controlling and I hate it. He doesn t want me to have any friends or talk to anyone, the only person he doesn t mind me talking to is my kids. He went out all day yesterday and had drinks with friends. I was upset because he doesn t allow me to do those things but he does those things. I wanted to go out and shoot some pool and have a few drinks at a pool hall very close to home, het told me I couldn t go unless he came so he did. He had an attitude much of the night and then we went to one more place and went home. I had to much to drink. when we got home we had another argument. He snatched off my hair piece in front of our neighbors. I was very upset. Then he locked me in the house and wouldn t let me leave. I fell down and hurt myself pretty bad. He didn t hit me or push me or touch me. I was feeling threatened though and I called the police. The police came, but he left. For some stupid reason he came back knowing the police where here. They wanted to take him to jail for domestic violence but I didn t let them because he didn t physically hit me and I thought that would be wrong of me. He had some warrants so they took him to jail for that. Now I feel awful. I know he is extremely controlling but I love my husband and I want to make things work. I feel like part of this is my fault because I drank to much and maybe I over did it with the arguments. I don t know. Do you think our relationship can recover? Thanks Ryde but you really don't know my situation and it really isn't fair to judge. BTW he has a warrant for buying prostitutes so I guess I am not the only walking disaster. ;) I am trying to get real caring answers not ridicule and hate but thanks for your answer. |
| Question: I still want to sleep with many women despite being married? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:55 AM PST Is this wrong? Should I break up with my wife, to find somebody i only want to have sex with many times, or is this just a normal situation. Is this just a normal thing, or do most couples just want to have sex with each other only. |
| Question: If ex didn't stop cheating on me even after I gave him a baby and wanted another will he change for his new whore who he cheated on me with? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:44 AM PST Cause she swears he loves her , and he said he'll change and she'll change as well cause she' cheated on her husband with 2 guys in less than a month, one being my ex . He kept begging for me back and his life isn't nothing without me. But can't seem to cut her off or stop sleeping with her. I told him we can work things out but cut her off he said I can't it'll make things awkward at work. So I dumped his *** and now taking him to court. Like she's ok being the side ho . After I dumped him and put child support on him, he changed he started calling me names and being hostile towards me and our baby. He doesn't even come to see her on his days off , instead he's with his whore ,since both have the same day off. Going out to eat and all. He called her so many bad names , made her cry , but yet she's still after him . Now she wants his baby. I'm just wondering will he change for her ? They both cheaters and they stayed faithful to each other ,by not sleeping or talking to me and her husband. But she still slept with husband a few times before cutting him off to start a relationship and family with my ex. Like she thinks he'll change for her. I would have him 3 cooked meals every day. From what I heard she rarely cooked for husband.Like I told her he's not gonna change for you if he didn't with me. Plus am way more prettier than her. She not even pretty at all and that's what's sad. I just wanna know if he'll truly stay faithful to her.if this relationship started as cheaters |
| Question: Wife turned me down again last night. What should I do? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:35 AM PST Let me preface this question this way. My wife is always complaining that we're not having enough sex but she doesn't like to make any of the first moves. We've only had sex once in the past 2 or 3 months. When I get home at night my wife loves to make me sit on the bed with her so she can lay her head on my shoulder. That gets annoying after a while cause when you're trying to clean up the kitchen, work on your laptop or just play on your tablet she's there like a wet sponge. You can't move cause she gets annoyed when she can't lay on you in some way. Well, when she lays on my shoulder she likes to try and touch my penis. Not that it's a problem but I know that's as far as it's going. No need in just touching it if you're not going to put it to work. Well, all night she kept trying and trying until I started to grab her breasts. She'd push me away. After we went to bed and the lights were off I tried to snuggle up to her and caress her breasts. She was ok with me just putting my hand on it but when I tried to go under her shirt I got shut down. This is what she told me. "I haven't showered yet." Ok, this woman has taken a shower religiously every morning for the past 12 years since I've known her. What did you do at your desk at work to make you so dirty to where you can't have sex unless you're squeaky clean? And why not go freshen up a little? When she shut me down I rolled over and was about to go to sleep and then she gets upset that I no longer wanted to cuddle with her anymore. Yes, we've talked about it to no end. She doesn't like making the first move but when I do I constantly get shut down. Then a few days later when I haven't tried in a while she'll start complaining that we're not having enough sex. |
| Question: Can a man cheat on his wife multiple times, but still be a good person? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:19 AM PST |
| Question: My husband acted disappointed that we're having a boy? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:16 AM PST I told my husband yesterday that we are having a boy. I texted him because we are separated. He texted that's OK. Then came back and said he's happy. But I know he really wanted a girl. It's weird though |
| Question: How do I find out if my wife has remarried? I know the state and county she lives in. I need an online link for Orange County Florida? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 05:06 AM PST How do I find out if my wife has remarried? I know the state and county she lives in. I need an online link for Orange County Florida. |
| Question: I would like to know what it means when the marital status on the vMPF is blank. Thanks for your help!? Posted: 31 Dec 2015 03:24 AM PST |