I find myself feeling the urge to look at porn on occasion, could get pretty frequently, to relieve bouts of sexual tension.. something that's been there for a long time now since that one spine shivering incident that started this sexual drive. A question that I am asking is will there be any detrimental side effect? I'm afraid my mind might become tainted and dirty.

I'm 17, and I LOVE bluegrass music!! I have a date with a guy (18) who is also a bluegrass fan, and we're just going to hang out at his house rather than going out and spending money. Here's what I had in mind: We could cuddle next to each other on his bed while listening to bluegrass music. When a part of a song with a lot of banjo picking comes on, I want him to hold me like a banjo, then "play" me by tickling my back with his right fingers and tickling the back of my neck (like the neck of a banjo) with his left fingers.

his guy that isn't even my boyfriend gets mad when I don't respond to his snapchats..why?

I send my ex a happy belated birthday text a month late and he didn't reply but read it within 20 minutes. He sometimes still views my snapchat stories mostly the ones in the dark. (You can see it in the circle before you click on it) what do you think he was thinking of when he read the belated b-day text? And why does he still view my snapchat stories?

One he has been with for almost 3 YEARS!!! He was my first sexual experience. Please don't judge. He gets off on the idea he was my first and even went on to point out that women become attached to their first and that their first is always special and he asked me if I am attached to him that way. I said yes. And he loves the fact I am. He loves the fact I was inexperienced and he is making me experienced. Loves the fact no other men have pleased me sexually. He seems very insecure. I am 30 and he is 45. He also likes when I am jealous. He says that way he does not have to be. Like him knowing I am jealous means I am into him!

Not necessarily marriage.

My sister in law's cousin in law and his now wife have created issues with my husband and me as well as other sister in law and her husband. They had a small wedding that we were not expecting to be invited to and completely understood and were not mad. Then closer to the wedding, the bride wanted our addresses to send invitations. We had already made plans, apologized and said we did b/c we were told we weren't going to be invited (someone must have canceled and gave room). Instead of saying "okay, I understand" she goes into this whole thing about how we were told we MIGHT be invited. F her! We're not going to hold off plans just in case they can find room for us! We're not that important, obviously! I swear they're like Kim & Kanye. Well now my sister in law plans to have them at her house for Xmas! Oh, this will be fun! They don't even celebrate, they're Jewish. Why would they come? Maybe if we made up before this day it could be okay, but I really don't see this couple apologizing for their actions. They have the brains that make them think they're always right and better than everyone. I may just be sick on Xmas =)

I'm visiting Georgia and wishing I wasn't. I want to go home. I have never met a stupider, more bigoted, ruder group of people and I live right next door to a country of gun happy bigots (come to think of it a lot of people from Ulster DID immigrate to the American South.)

2-3 months back I read my fiancee what's app conversation with her crush. Pls note she said crush and not boy friend. When I asked her she said he is just my crush and I promise this will never happen again. Few days back I again managed to sneak into her phone and discovered that she is still in touch with her so called crush. Text msgs that my fiancee send him were like I love you, miss me, my fantasy is to watch comedy movie sleeping on your arms, once she went to her home in vacation and they both met. The guy text her back in eve saying I would have kissed you but dint because I thought u will get angry on me. My fiancee replies no problem I will kiss you next time when we meet. Sometimes I feel she is more crazy for him. Once he recorded audio kisses and sent her on that she replied even if I die now I don't care. Dear friends I love her with all my might. Do you guys think this is correct? Should I marry her? Will she ever change? Pls reply me and give me a friendly advice. My marriage is next month I don't have much time. I love her a lot and she also cares a lot for me when we are together. This shows that she has some feelings for me. But why can't she just stop contacting her so called crush when I font like him. For sure she cares about me. I am totally confused. Pls help specially gals what do you think on the this? Thank you all.

I met this women when I was out with friends, we hit it off and we have a lot in common (like we both have a mental illness...I have ptsd and she has bi poler and we both have oral stds I have hpv and she has herpes) we are both new to the town we met in and we get along really well. We are now officially dating she asked me out because she likes me and I treat her right. The thing is I have not had a gf in two years and I'm not used to being in a relationship . I've just had flings and one night stands for the past to years which I feel kinda dirty about. I like her but it's weird because we have not had sex yet. We plan on doing it on my bday which is the 24th of this month. It's just that when we kiss and lay down together she always pushes me off or she says her lips hurt. But then she will send me nude pics telling me she wants me. I guess I'm not used to rejection that much in relationships. But I kinda feel unwanted a little bit. I'm I overthinking things or should I worry that ?

Me and my Boyfriend are so lonely, we don t laugh anymore or have fun like we used to. We ve only been together a year but moved away from my family and his anyway they are abroad. He started a job and I m un employer. At first we were ok he told me all the time he loved me and was so excited to be here with me. However now he s all the time so down, low, doesnt act as he Used to, he told me its because he missed his family, friends, he goes to work then home work home work, he says maybe we are seeing too much of eachother Thats making him take me for granted. Could this be true? He tells me he doesnt know if its wrong or right that he feels like this, he says i should be enough to mAke him happy But he cant help But feel so low. Ive tried so much to mAke him happy again, But its so hard for us to Laugh together as we Used to. Is it getting bored of me? Sometimes i just dont know What to say to him or to talk to himabout anymore because Hes so low i feel Hes not interestedd in me anymore. Some of his friends arent too far But most of them are abroad as are his parents. Sometimes we just sit in scilence because i dont know How i can help him. Should i be enough? We Planned together to move away And Were so excited now Were here it seems all it has caused us is problems in our relationship. Please somebody Give me some advice

should i help my mom i live with my dad . . ? . .

Okay so today in class I was talking & smiling with my friends & then the girl I kinda like said to her friends jake has the nicest smile. When I looked at her from the corner of my eyes I saw her looking at me & smiling while she had her hands on her chin. Then when I look at her again she was still looking.

In my single college dorm on the desk next to my door I had a little Christmas tree thing with tape on the back. I wanted to tape it to my door but forgot so it was just lying there all night. This morning I went into the bathroom in the hallway and the tree was taped to the tub!! I thought I locked my door but how else could it have got there?! Was someone in my room?? HELP!!!

I know odd question. But anyways, I'm 20 and a sophomore in college and still a virgin. I've done everything but stick a penis in me. I've only kissed four guys in my whole entire life. And I feel like my whole good girl image is making a lot of guys not speak to me. I'm not ugly cause I get a lot of guys to stare at me but most don't approach and I hate being a little boy shy. Thought that would fade before I turned 20. Plus I'm joining a sorority next semester and I'm ready to let go of this good girl image. Being shy had done me no good. I'm also African American...not that race is an issue, but I'm tired of all my white friends "getting some" every day...while it'll take me a year or more to finally even kiss someone.

So basically my other half has zero family her dad died when she was 4 her brother died when she was 14 her olderbrother when she was 19 as well as her mom and no grandparents to speak of I know it's a hard time for her since she has no family but I need help

I have Family in TN and the other half in OK where I live, something happened so we had to move when I was a baby(according to my mother). I didn't see my family in TN for 12 years until my uncle passed. I meet new and seen old relatives. I didn't see most of them until my dad passed when they came for the funeral, then I went 5 years without seeing em again. Until my Grandma passed, and I have been trying to stay in contact with them alot lately and I feel like I meet be irritating some of them, but I think it might be because of the lack of family time with them.because of this I have been going through some minor stages of depression because of it, my plans were to go to see them early next year and I think it's just that I really wanna see them again or what. I just wanna know am I ok for feeling this way or what, because this is starting to effect my work lifeand I need to know what I can do.

so, I'm 17. And there is this guy I like who likes me as well. anyway we had sex in the back of his moms car, and I know he used a condom but I remember him taking it off real quick and putting another one on. That's all I really remember, because this happened like 4 in a half weeks ago. Well after we ******, I started my period like a week after. Well I'm not supposed to start until the 22 of this month, and I've been acting not myself at all. I've been having major mood swings, horrible acne that won't go away I never get acne ever. I have these fat kits on my checks for head, chin, and stress bumps I don't even like going out anymore . and I've been eating so much, I ate like 6 pieces of pizza 2 bread sticks a hole bag of Reece's I never eat a lot I'm always hungry. What's up with me??

don't like me or I no longer speak with them? I do not know why it brothers be so much but I get the sense that this is an act of being disloyal? Also throughout the years, this has happen several times with different people???? Meaning my family member continues to speak with ppl who I no longer talk too. TY!

After happened with my husband,now a months I always feel sad ,upset and annued for any reason.

My boyfriend's mother is having a triple bypass surgery tomorrow and im really worried shes like my other mom...known her for 7years...shes has renal failure and is dialysis dependent and pretty weak shes only 57.I know there is a higher risk after the surgery.What do you think the chances are honestly of her it making it through this?..and what can i do to be more supportive to my boyfriend who is freaking out ,understandably.im his punching bag at the moment and trying not to freak out myself....i dont want her to go yet & my bf to loose his mom.

my great uncle died today, I was wondering if he will let me know if he will give my family and I signs he's up in heaven. what signs will he give us? please let me know :)

what does the WSUV in the email title ch. 12 mean?

no se por que, no soy de las chicas que se desnudan en sus fotos de facebook, ni que echan relajo en la escuela, es mas, todos los mayores tienen un concepto bueno de mi. Pero con todos los enamorados/novios que he tenido es lo mismo, me buscan solo para tener relaciones sexuales o para pasar el rato, me ha pasado muuucho ultimamente, se podria decir que como 10 veces o mas(? ¡que hago? :(

I have an incredible mom who is always there re for me no matter what. I recently noticed since I m a new driver I am more secure driving when she isn t with me. When I drive with her in the car I always look to her for answers or to tell me what I m doing wrong and when I m alone I do what i feel is right and learn from it. I started to think that maybe this applies to the rest of my life. I m 26 and still don t know what I want in life and live and depend on her. I think I m going to move out with a roommate for the new year and figure myself out. I feel like with all the help I m not motivated to learn who I am. People say I m crazy to give up such a helping hand and that they wish they had a mom to help me the way she does. Could this help be the cause of my laziness? Can it be that because I have a security blanket I m not living to my fullest potential? Should I move out and learn the hard way what it is to be an adult? (I ve only ever learned in the past the hard way) would you give up your security blanket?

Genesis 2:18

So recently, my boyfriends grandfather passed away and he asked me to be there for him. I'm 17 and we've be togeather for almost a year. I asked my dad about and he said no because I'm missing school. The funeral is on a Friday from 10-2. I'm a senior and I have really easy classes and my grades are great. It's really important to me to be able to be there for him. I am already missing school for something on Thursday but this is very important to me. I'm not sure how my dad will let me go.

I have been with him for 7 years, in which he had broken up with me over 200 times. I've never left him but he says I push him to break up by fighting and nagging. I know I sometimes have an attitude when I feel I'm being talked down to but I love this guy to death and it drives me insane everytime he goes. He broke up with me yesterday, on my bday, and today he is already talking to other girls on social media. He missed my bday dinner and showed up the next day with flowers and a cake. I was upset so I told him I didn't want to accept anything from him since he missed my bday. He got mad and threw the cake all over my driveway. How is it that he can move on so fast after claiming to love me just a few days ago? He has talked about marrying me, even gave me a ring at one point.

I am currently 19 years old going to be 20 in three weeks.I have been helping my parents pay bills since I was 16 with my first job.I was able to use my own money for myself.Now over the years my parents take my whole check...Me and my mom only work and I recently got into an argument about going out to eat with coworkers when I just got paid but they said the money was for bills..It has got to the point where I am there financial crutch.. I hate to argue but I know that they are using me as a financial crutch.how do handle a situation like this.How should I put my foot down In my opinion there is nothing wrong with helping .I don't mind I just hate the fact that my parents take advantage of me to the point where I feel like...it will only stop or make them realize what they are doing until I get ready to move out because I feel like its the only option.

É o seguinte: Noite passada, sonhei com um ex meu (claro, todo mundo sonha com o ex), mas eu achei um pouco estranho, simplesmente porque estávamos em um sofá "confraternizando", enquanto a mãe do dito cujo andava de lá à cá, remetendo a uma quarta pessoa na qual não deu ao ar da graça a seguinte fala "porque fui espantar justo ela" (ela fez o inferno no relacionamento, de forma que eu cansada de namorar com um filhinho da mamãe, larguei ele sem pestanejar). O término ocorreu entre 2-3 anos, e por mais que seja do tipo cética, contei sobre o sonho para um conhecido e ele disse que poderia significar algo. Então, como última saída, resolvi lançar a questão aqui. Espero que possam dar ideias. Obrigado.

I feel like crap because I'm allowing my anxiety take over my life. I don't have a job and I've never really had one besides babysitting and dog walking. I don't have a permit/license/car. I don't really have any friends. I don't have any special talents or do any extracurricular activities. It's December and I'm procrastinating on applying to colleges. I don't know what major I want to study because I'm afraid I'll pick the wrong career. I don't have a boyfriend and it's not like guys look at me anyways. My life is complete garbage and I can't do anything myself. I can't even call to schedule a doctors appointment. I don't know anything about the "real world". I feel like I'm gonna fail at life next year once I graduate. Everyone around me at school had their life together and have everything going. They know what they want to do and they have everything organized. My life is such a mess. When I come home from school instead of focusing on the important things like applying to college or searching for a job or studying for a permit test i spend the night being lazy and watching tv. Just thinking about doing something gives me anxiety. What should I do?

I started a new job a month ago for a family. I was told in the interview that they worked outside of the home. well each time now, the dad has stayed home. It's a small house-the family room the main place the children and I are supposed to be in-all their toys, etc is the same place that dad sits all day. I try going outside but I have a two month old to care along with two other kids. I can't avoid him. He hasn't done anything creepy but he interacts with us and I don't feel comfortable with it. I was reading a book to their little girl today and he started laughing so hard at something the child said-which I didn't see the humor in. He talks to me, talks to the kids, he does some work of course but it just feels weird. Recently he said "my wife said you worked for a stay at home family before, that's great so you'll be used to me being around then." That wasn't the deal in the beginning. I feel like if I say I don't want the dad home then it could make it weirder. I have worked as a nanny for 13 years, I'm 32. I have had to quit jobs before because of too friendly/inappropriate husbands. Only 2 but still...Men I would never have suspected. It has put me on edge. I've thought about quitting but they still haven't paid me. They were supposed to pay me today but now just pushed it off for another week so I have to go back. :( any advice? I know I posted this yesterday but I've added more information. I'm afraid if I tell them I quit before they've paid me that I could risk them not paying me. So I'm stuck in what to do because of the pay. I'd like to get paid first but they're pushing off my payday again...

O.K. So there is this kid in my Spanish class. Let's call him Dylan. My Spanish class has in-class activities almost every single day. I try very hard to focus on my work without any distractions and somehow Dylan will figure out a way to come over and talk to me. He asks me the same questions again and again. I didn't mind it at first and I tried to be nice to him, but he continued to do it. When ever I ignore or dismiss his questions, he'll pretend like I hate him and won't get off my case about it. The worst part about this attention hog is that when we play a game in class that involves a bit of competition, he gets very competitive. He tries to beat me in anyway possible, and blatantly states that that is what he wants to do. He'll kind of mess with me and say I forgot to do something or accuse me of cheating off of him. Anything really. He once called me silly which I find very condescending and a bit sexist as well. This has been happening for about three months and I'm determined to stop it or at the very least make it happen less often. I want to make it clear that I am in no way upset or overreacting too much over this. I am not embarrassed by what he has done and I am not going to stoop down to his level. I just want to understand why certain guys act like this, and any tips you might have on getting these guys to stop. I forgot to mention that I would like advice on what to do with this particular case.

I keep reading articles complaining about how the holiday cards/letters they receive are boring, bragging, obnoxious, etc. My hubby and I are older and don't have kids. Some friends have mentioned they like seeing a photo and any interesting things we've done. Our hobbies are acting and traveling when we can, but some people think that's bragging if they don't have the opportunity to do so yet. What kinds of things do your favorite cards include?

Two weeks ago, a family moved in the next door. They seem so nice when I spoke with them. They were the perfect family. Last night, their 20 year old daughter forgot to close the window blinds. She is so hot, so I turned the lights off and watched her after she came out the bathroom. She was totally naked. I was enjoying the view until her father (who now I know is her stepfather) walked in. Then he closed the window blinds and I couldn't see what happened next. Today, I saw her playing in the front yard. I approached and talked to her. She acted like nothing happened. She even told me that she and her stepfather get along. Like a father and daughter. I didn't mention anything about what I saw because I don't know the whole story. I don't know what to do. What if she voluntarily allows her father in her bedroom? What if they come up with a story and I get in trouble?. How do I know if she needs help?

My husband and I dated for two years before we got married. We have been married for 7 months now. I love him more than anything/anyone but I feel like some things aren't quite right... but idk if maybe this is normal? Today at the grocery store I got upset and lost my temper and told him to shut up. We were planning on going out to a museum later but he said because of what I did we were no longer going out. He then said that I couldn't watch TV/use my phone for the rest of the day. He said he thought that was a good discipline for what I had done. When he gets really upset he will do things like twist my wrist, shake me, or throw me to the ground. He has never hit me and I know he never will. I'm just confused. I'm starting to think this is all normal and how it's supposed to be but idk. Advise or thoughts? P.S. When he's not upset we are best friends. We really do get along. When you put all of your issues into one paragraph of course it is going to sound awful. We have our strengths, i'm just mentioning our weaknesses. He's not like this all the time, only when he is upset. Which is at the MOST once a week.