Friends: Question: I hate my life. What can I do? |
- Question: I hate my life. What can I do?
- Question: I like to smoke weed by myself is that weird?
- Question: Constantly being left out. What to do?
- Question: What to do if your losing touch with your friend?
- Question: No friends in school?
- Question: I find it hard communicating/socialising with people I already know?
- Question: My friend told me that she cuts, what do I do?
- Question: Would it be wrong to break up an engagement for this reason?
- Question: How to get rid of people?
- Question: What's the point of life?
- Question: My friends make fun of me for going to bed early.?
- Question: I think my friend has a mental disorder?
- Question: I m going to a new school. How do I make friends?
- Question: I've been addicted to drugs and I honestly can't stop!?
- Question: Am I overreacting about my birthday?
- Question: Is it wrong that I like his hairy butt?
- Question: My life is at a really low point. how can i get through it?
- Question: A good site to meet friends with similar interests?
- Question: PRANKERS! LETS TALK!!!?
- Question: Why do guys bully people who they think is 'different' and girls snub people they think is that also.?
- Question: I'm a girl, can I hit a boy in school?
- Question: Mean Girl?
- Question: How do I make annoying kid stop annoying me and being so annoying he's so annoying?
- Question: If a girl is interested in you just by looks will she always be interested?
- Question: My friend is dumping me for other friends all of a sudden?
- Question: Is turquoise actually a color?
- Question: Wtf happened?
- Question: How can I stop being so shy?
- Question: Anyone want to be friends of sorts?
- Question: Is it normal to jack off at a sleepover?
- Question: What would you buy for a friend who lost a hand in an accident?
- Question: Excuses not to hang with someone?
- Question: Someone thinks I snitched on them?
- Question: Does it sound like this girl is being abused at home, or is she just getting into the wrong crowd? Should I report it?
- Question: How can I stop being boring?
- Question: Is it weird that I (a college-aged student) send photos of my study abroad experience to my parents?
- Question: Is it true that the "pretty popular" girls are the loneliest?
- Question: This girl wants to fight me?
- Question: My friend makes me feel like he doesn't care about me or see me for what I'm worth?
- Question: What should I do to stop thinking about the first girl I have ever loved?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: How should I deal with my toxic friends/roommates?
- Question: Anybody else feeling hopeless about life after high school?
- Question: I need help relating to people...?
- Question: Is it just all friends or many people disrespect the opinions of others?
- Question: Some people think that I am super pretty but anoying how do i solve my issue with being anoying?? Thank you for your time!?
- Question: What does she mean?
- Question: Help please?
- Question: I snitched on someone, but they have "dirt on me" and can get me in trouble as well.?
- Question: Do I look TRUSTworthy? In your Opinion?
- Question: Christmas card writing need some help best answer 10pt?
- Question: Is 23 years old too late to improve social skills?
- Question: Am i a bad person?
- Question: Is this a sign that he doesn't love me anymore?
- Question: I don't no what's going on?
- Question: I think my friends are ignoring me?
- Question: Friends, Smartphones and Conversations..?
- Question: Was I raped?
- Question: How do you make the first step in a friendship?
- Question: Do you think i should just end my life since i obviously living for nothing?
| Question: I hate my life. What can I do? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 05:12 PM PST Hi. I'm 14 years old. I'm a freshman. I try my very best at school. My parents hate me. Mostly my mom. I have a friend that is very good at Math but very bad at other subjects. I take her to school everyday and home. I'm very nice to her but I think she dislikes me a lot, by the way she treats me. But my mom loves her and treats her like her own daughter. My friend brags about herself a lot in the car about how smart she is, or how much achievements she has made. When my mom yells at me and say how smart my friend is, I go along with her and say my friend is very smart and deserves everything she wants. I often lock myself in my room trying to do all my homework with my mom yelling at me saying that "I'm not as smart as her." I beat my friend at a math project. I got a higher score than her and my mom said that "I WISHED" that I was beat her. My dad just agrees whatever she says and doesn't really care. I tell my mom countless times that I'm sorry for having a daughter like me and I wish she would just stop comparing me with my friend. My mom hates me and I know she hates having a dumb daughter and I'm sorry. I'll do anything just to "BE THE BEST" so my mom doesn't hate me... I have straight A's and one B. I do good on tests and everything. It's just that my friend is just better than me in math.. I don't understand why my mom hates me so much... |
| Question: I like to smoke weed by myself is that weird? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 05:11 PM PST Before you start lecturing me I am not a pothead by any means. I smoke pot about 3 - 6 times a year and I'm not exaggerating either. I'm 22 years old and when go to social events like parties I'm usually fine with just a few beers and always just let the stoners do their thing. I never got into the whole getting stoned with people and acting like idiots. Not that I think it's wrong it's just not me. But once in a while after work I like to smoke a joint or a bowl just to unwind and relax, and maybe throw on some music. My friends on the other hand that get high every other day think its weird. It's like they are almost offended that when I do get in the mode to smoke I'd rather do it alone than with them. |
| Question: Constantly being left out. What to do? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 05:06 PM PST I have 3 friends in my circle. Let's call them T, J, and B. J always calls T their best friend, and makes an insane amount of effort to leave me out of the loop. J is also super close to B. However, I have been best friends with T for 8 years while J has known T for half the time. Everytime T, J, and I are together, J makes sure to a)bring up topics I don't know about b)recognize T's presence & disregard mine c)talk about things i'm not invited to, etc. When B is around, its the same deal. I've explained this to T but bc T,J,B are all close, I understand that T cannot simply ditch them to be with me. But it hurts me a lot. I want to move on to a different group of friends, but T doesn't want me to leave and wants me to be around all the time. But B and J definitely make me feel the exact opposite. To them, it doesn't matter whether I'm there. I'm invisible and insignificant to them. How would you deal with this? |
| Question: What to do if your losing touch with your friend? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 05:05 PM PST So I've known this person for 4 years, and we've been close friends all throughout high school. She's always been very sweet to me, giving me presents on Christmas and on my birthday, one of the very few of my friends who actually did, one of the few guys she would invite to her birthday, wrote me letters... Last senior year, we started becoming really close because she was in many of my classes. But by the end of the year, I felt that she was becoming distant. I hanged out with her and said goodbye before she left for college, and we seemed perfectly fine. She said she would skype to keep in touch. But we haven't been talking that much ever since she left for college. When I try to text her, she sounds busy and occupied. The last meaningful communication we had were birthday wishes (sadly). And when I texted her last time to ask her how she's been, she didn't even reply to me (yet). I see her, in college, with a guy in social media and they seem to be really close. Is it fair that I feel neglected and jealous, that she got rid of me so easily? She's still keeping in touch with her other high school friends, but seems to be singling me out. Am I overthinking this and just give her the benefit of the doubt? I don't want to lose her but I feel hurt about it. |
| Question: No friends in school? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 05:02 PM PST I've struggled with friends most of my life, I wouldn't classify myself as a weirdo or a mean person if you are getting this impression . I'm in my last 2 years of school before college and every day at lunch I just walk out of school and around the shops until it is over before returning to class . Every day is torture for me and I've missed a lot of school this year ! It's really putting me down that I have nobody in school . I don't hate anybody I just don't talk to anybody and it's not as easy as you think to make friends when I know them all the past 3 years and every body already has settled with friends . I have a really good friend outside of school who moved my school as she found it difficult as she was disliked for been overweight so she moved to a smaller school . I need ways to deal with this and be motivated to keep my head down and just stay there for the next 2 years because I really do care about my education but hate sitting alone is every class and not been able to talk to anyone at lunch , i did have a close friend for the past 6 years but only recently has she turned on me being very sly kissing boys I was seeing and being horrible like she owes me money and she said I wasn't getting it back , she has other immature mates in my year so it makes it hard every day feeling intimidated |
| Question: I find it hard communicating/socialising with people I already know? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:48 PM PST I'm 18 years old and when I was 2 and a half was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, though a lot of its symptoms don't affect me too much I know it's still there. I've always had an awkward time communicating and socialising with people, such as friends in my street and in class/school. Even in school I would find it uncomfortable and difficult to start conversations with my classmates (who some of which I've known for a few years). Today I was walking outside of school during lunch with a schoolmate and was walking across the road with him whenever two girls from my Art class were walking up the street (to my school) in our direction (they were on the side of the street we were originally on). Even though I knew they saw me, since I was crossing the street I found it really awkward to say hi and my friend (who has ADHD and blurts stuff out without thinking of what he's saying) said "You're not even going to say hi to your friends" out loud and they heard me so I kinda looked in their direction and looked back awkwardly without saying anything. I know from an outside perspective it would look like I was being rude and ignorant, but the reality was that I was feeling very awkward and didn't know what to do/say. It's things like that that have been bothering me - I can't even say hi to people I already know whenever I get along with them well and have never had any problems with them. Am I the only person with Asperger's who's like this? What can I do to help it? |
| Question: My friend told me that she cuts, what do I do? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:37 PM PST Last night my friend, who we'll call Sam, texted me that she had something to tell me on Tuesday since she didn't want to ruin my birthday and tell me today. During fourth period though Sam and I sit together, and I asked her what she was going to tell me, and she looked at me for second before she pulled up her sleeve and there were about four cuts lining her arm and after that we didn't talk, mainly because we both didn't know what to say after that. I always thought that if this were to happen I would know what to say, but in that moment a mixture of emotions was coursing through me. And after I got through all of that, I realized that I didn't know what to do. I couldn't stop imagining her cutting too deep and bleeding to death when I could easily tell her parents, or our guidance counselor, or her best friend who we'll call Lizzy who could help her. Or maybe I could tell my mom who I always confide in, or my sisters. But a part of me is terrified to because maybe it's not my secret to tell, or that if I do she'll hate me. So after fourth period I ran to find Lizzy, thinking that I could tell her everything but when I reached her all I could say was, "Don't you think Sam is acting a bit weird?" And all she did was shrug and say, "I don't know. Ask her about it." I honestly don't know what to do because either way I can't help but imagine myself standing over her coffin if I don't say anything. Please help. |
| Question: Would it be wrong to break up an engagement for this reason? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:30 PM PST I saw literally the hottest guy in my life at uni. I was trying to show body language in a way so that he could approach me because im a girl and we dont approach guys. But he never did it. So another guy i was talking to ask to marry me so we got engaged. All of a sudden (months later) this extremely hot guy approaches me out of no where at my college and ask for my number and of course i wasn't going to say know. I don't want to be shallow just based on looks but i am also a very attractive girl and for some reason i want to have kids with this guy he is so hot. On top of that he is like the only hot guy i know that doesn't have a bad boy personality. He's very nice. I just don't know what to do. Would it be wrong to break my engagement for this hot guy? |
| Question: How to get rid of people? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:27 PM PST Okay so basically this girl that idolizes me is so ugly and stupid and honestly shes making me look so unpopular so how do i get rid of her? She follows me around and copies everything i do. She shops at the same places at me, copies my makeup, and when i got purple highlights she got blonde highlights. Shes so annoying and i keep telling my friends that i dont want her around me but they dont believe me. Seriously Shes totally taking me down the popularity ladder! |
| Question: What's the point of life? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:25 PM PST I'm 14 live in a smallish town. 32,000 people. Probably gonna live here forever. Nothing really happens here. I sorta belive in God. Not really popular but not a loser. Life just so boring. We go to college get married have kids grow old and die. I'll probably never get married tho since I'm the only single one in my group of firends. They all have boyfriends and I'm just a loner. I wanna have fun in life but can't Cuz my parents are strict. I'm not deporessed just confused on why we're even here. Well peace and love grace✌️ |
| Question: My friends make fun of me for going to bed early.? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:24 PM PST I'm a freshman in high school, and usually go to bed around 9:30-10:00. my friends joke around with me and not really make fun of me but tease me that i go to bed so early and don't like to have fun. i just can't resist the urge to fall asleep, and i don't see much of a problem with getting a long night of sleep. the urge to sleep after a long day is just too hard, do you think this is embarrassing? |
| Question: I think my friend has a mental disorder? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:24 PM PST I really don't hang with him that much anymore because he kind of scares me to be honest. He seems normal but there is a side to him that's pretty psychotic. We are both 22 years old and I've been chilling with him since elementary. Even back then he was like this. He would think it was fun to kill small animals like frogs. Then one time he killed a stray cat with a baseball bat when we were about 9 and my parents stopped letting me hang with him for a few years. Then in high school when he did wrestling he would always get in trouble for fighting dirty. Even after he pinned someone and already won he wouldn't let go. Then when he finally did let go he would call his opponent a "f*cking pu*sy" or something along that lines. When we both turned 21 I used to go to the bar with him and he would always end up fighting someone (always smaller than him btw) for no reason. A few times after my friend knocked the other guy out cold he would still continue to punch the dude while he was unconscious. My friend is too big to be acting like this. He's 6 foot 5 inches and muscular. Do you think there is something wrong with him? |
| Question: I m going to a new school. How do I make friends? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:22 PM PST I ve always gone to a small private school all of my life until I transferred schools and it sucked the first year and I had no friends and no one even wanted to talk to me. It s my 9th grade year at my school and I have a lot of friends but I m leaving them to go to another high school in another city. How do I get friends fast and skip the lonely faze. |
| Question: I've been addicted to drugs and I honestly can't stop!? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:14 PM PST I never did drugs because of pressure, when I was 20 and left my parents house for good I got into them because I knew they'd slowly kill you and make you feel good for a certain amount of time. As of now I'm 29, I got married a year ago to a girl I knew since I was 24. She convinced me to stop for 10 months, but I had a mental breakdown (she doesn't know that ever happened) and I got back on them, this time I made an effort to keep it completely secret from everyone around me. She doesn't know I'm still on them and it makes me feel kind of sick knowing I'm lying out right! What do I do? I know some of you will suggest rehab, but I tried it when I was 22 and it didn't work. |
| Question: Am I overreacting about my birthday? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:12 PM PST So I find myself in the predicament of not knowing if whether or not I am overreacting or justified in feeling this down. I'm turning 21 this Saturday, which is supposed to be a big deal. But everything is going wrong. I plan on going to this music event, but my boyfriend ( who is also my best friend ) decided to blow all his cash two weeks before my birthday, this means that he cannot afford to go to this event. You probably think I should refund my ticket? But I can't, because my brother bought my ticket and the alternative is spending my birthday at home with my boyfriend like I do every weekend. Now I find myself in a delimma, because I actually have no close friends to celebrate with. It would just be my brother & sister in law and some other sort of friends who will probably just have fun with their closer friends. I dont know if I should just buy my boyfriend the ticket so I don't feel lonely, but the problem is tickets are basically sold out now or are going for way higher prices & his hardly making the effort to help me out because his folks can't borrow him the money. So do I just go to this event and make the most of it? Besides the fact that I might feel a bit lonely and miss my boyfriend? Or am I just freaking out and making a big deal out of nothing? Please no rude answers. |
| Question: Is it wrong that I like his hairy butt? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:11 PM PST My guy friend has the most sexiest booty ever. He's got a great body, but his butt is the sexiest. He has flashed me his booty naked, but told me that was just a peak to what was to come. I got really excited and he smiled and asked me to give it a little smack. He plays stripper very well, but he was heading back in the bathroom to get dressed, when he did it to me. But ever since he flashed me his butt, I can't get it out of my mind. Like I said he has a great body and his pecs are just awesome. He has a beautiful smile that radiates off his gorgeous face. But what attractive to me is his butt and just giving it a little smack, I fell in love with it even more. He's probably the most gorgeous friend that I have and we're not afraid to be a little provocative with one another, when we are alone with each other. We don't have sex, but we're very sexual around one another. I could just eat him up when he does these provocative things to me. |
| Question: My life is at a really low point. how can i get through it? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:07 PM PST |
| Question: A good site to meet friends with similar interests? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:06 PM PST So essentially I really want some close friends I can chat with a bunch online, and hopefully skype too, cause it's lonely at night and I miss talking to people verbally. I tried finding chat sites and all I found was a bunch of dudes asking ASL and if I was single or not :/ I love anime, Youtube (dan and phil, markiplier, emma blackery, luke cutforth) and tv shows like doctor who and sherlock, and books, and I just want some friends I can skype and stuff, but I don't want to use omegle because I'm not comfortable skyping until I'm sure the person is safe to talk to. (That's my main issue is safety is a must.) |
| Question: PRANKERS! LETS TALK!!!? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 04:00 PM PST Hi! Where should I start? OK! So, me and my twin sister are just bffs. I'm the oldest twin. So when we were little I used to prank her with silly string, popping a balloon, putting glitter in a balloon and pop it on her. So, well first I'm angry in a nice way. So yesterday me and my sister went to a little place it had like little activities. So we were walking town the mini trail, and her friend had somehow got up on a pole and she blew in a loud horn and sprayed silly string on me. grrrrr. Lol. Now the question. How should I prank her??? No, not like silly string, balloon pop putting glitter in a balloon. Something that will make her made. Bye, be creative. |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:59 PM PST I hopped several jobs and abandoned several clubs over being snubbed and being bullied (peer to peer and covertly) I was being bullied because they said that i was different or stupid. I honestly act civilized and i dont know what they mean? |
| Question: I'm a girl, can I hit a boy in school? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:58 PM PST I'm in high school and this one idiotic kid will not stop harassing me, I've never lost my temper so fast with someone and I've asked him to stop so many times and I'll walk away and he will follow me. Bothering me, harassing me and I have to restrain myself from punching/ hitting him. My mom always said if I ever need to use self defense I can because this boy tests me, and he puts his hand on me. I don't know how long I can go without hitting him honestly, but my older brother who graduated, his friend saw him bothering me today and I got really upset cussing the boy who won't leave me alone, so my brothers friend texted my brother offering to teach the kid a lesson.. Should I just wait and let that happen? |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:56 PM PST There is this girl at my school, sometimes she is nice sometimes she is not. I would stop being friends with her but, I pity her. She has been thrown out of every other friend group and she'd end up alone. Also she is clingy and hard to get rid of. Even after other people straight out told her they didn't like her she didn't leave at first. Also I'm afraid if I stopped being friends with her she would turn it on me and get ME in trouble. She has called me ugly on multiple occasions and she makes fun of me. Sometimes she makes fun of me for clothes I wear or sports I play. She also brags and puts me down. I once told her (not in a bragging way) that my soccer team might be in first place in our division. She then told me that her soccer team was way better then mine. Saying she was in a higher division and that her team was the best in her division. She also lies to me. Sometimes I believe her and she laughs at me. She says (laughing) "I can't believe you fell for that".She is very clingy. She will wrap her arm tight around your neck and drag you around. She also always follows me and my friends around school. One day she wasn't at school, one of my friends was literally jumping up and down ecstatic. That day I had a really good day at school. I wish everyday was like that. I have always considered my self to have many friends and I have never felt as if I have been bullied. She is the closet thing I have ever had to a bully. Any advice? |
| Question: How do I make annoying kid stop annoying me and being so annoying he's so annoying? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:55 PM PST |
| Question: If a girl is interested in you just by looks will she always be interested? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:46 PM PST So for example if a girl thinks you are one of the hottest guys she has seen and shows body language because she wants you to approach her. I think this girl is very attractive but unfortunately i can't approach her because i have no confidence. So if i was to practice socializing for about 3 months until i have full confidence, then get lucky enough to see her walking on my college campus again, would she still be interested or would i still have a chance or not? |
| Question: My friend is dumping me for other friends all of a sudden? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:40 PM PST So I've been friends with this guy (I'm a girl by the way) for a long time. He knows a lot of my secrets and I know his, but something is really bugging me lately. Since we moved up a grade, we moved up a school too and we're not in that many of the same classes. Both of us have made new friends but I feel like he's dumping me for his new friends. We both made popular friends but the ones I made are the nice kind, but his are the mean kind of popular. They're snobby and selfish and I think he's changing just so that he can fit in with them more. He texted me today and I was just doing what he and I usually do when we text and then he said something really mean and I said, "Since when did you become so mean?" and then he said I was annoying even though I don't really talk to him as much. He keeps talking about how much better his new friends are compared to me. He's being really rude and I don't want to lose our friendship, but he's breaking us apart. So how do I fix this? |
| Question: Is turquoise actually a color? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:32 PM PST My friend keeps telling me it is but he's know for coming up with hilarious words and telling lies |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:28 PM PST So last week or so, one of my classmates (let's call her Jennifer) was talking to me about another classmate (Sally) and her head shape (wasn't listening). I casually replied "She's still hot, though". Just as a compliment, statement, and for the sake of stating the truth. So, Jennifer said "Oooh, I'm going to tell her", while I simply replied with a nonchalant "I don't give a f*ck". Jennifer texted Sally over the weekend, and told her that I said she was hot. And according to Jennifer, Sally said "thanks" or something. Simple right? No. Sally was acting awful hostile towards me in class today. She was inching closer and closer to my group of friends, being passive aggressive, and relatively indecent. What the hell. All I said is that she was hot. I didn't mean for it to evolve into an awkward situation. I was actually trying to avoid her to keep this from happening. I never wanted to ask her out or anything, as I'd just made a mere statement. During a convo with my friends, I brought up Rain Flourince and her eccentric, quasi-tree hugger videos as a joke (she does coffee enemas and breastfeeds her 5 yr old son btw). She attacked me with a "Well. Some guys just like certain things", and stormed off. I could properly season a batch of fries with her salty demeanor at that moment. And I have a feeling that there's more to come. |
| Question: How can I stop being so shy? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:15 PM PST Ever since 6th grade I've been reallyyyy shy. I used to get bullied & beat up a lot, & I started to lose confidence. I'm a freshman in high school & I have barely changed. I've become so shy to the point where I have trouble asking questions in class, talking to friends around a bunch of people, and even talking to boys. (I never really talked to boys that much bc most always tend to hurt me) Girls in my school have such nasty attitudes and they act dumb on purpose. Since they are like that, I'm most of the time quiet throughout the day, and I even get picked on for that. People always give me weird looks and I can't stand it. Even though they don't even know who I even am, I feel that I'm being hated on. I've tried so many ways to gain back my confidence, nothing works. I'm tired of hearing people say "don't let them bring you down". I NEED MORE WORDS. I was once satisfied when people told me that, but I need a better explanation on how I can be more confident. I've asked my parents for help, but i really shouldn't have because they're no help. They like to scare me with things they've seen on the news and all that bull.Little about me, I wear glasses (and boyy do I hate them with a passion), I have a lot that goes on in my life, (my dad has had cancer for 3 years) and I never really hang out with any of my friends. (Scared to call them to hang out) Could someone please tell me on how I can get my confidence back, without causing trouble? How can I stop being so shy? |
| Question: Anyone want to be friends of sorts? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:15 PM PST I'm lonely, and would like some online friends. I'm 16, so feel free to add me on Kik. My kik is Zrayduh. I have social anxiety, so making friends is hard for me. That's why I like online friends, but I lost all of mine recently. I'd really like to talk to some people again. :^] |
| Question: Is it normal to jack off at a sleepover? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:05 PM PST me and my bestfriend are having another sleepover, last time we watched porn and jacked off in the bathroom ( separately ) is it ok if we both just do it while watching the porn?? or is that wierd |
| Question: What would you buy for a friend who lost a hand in an accident? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 03:05 PM PST Let's assume that they generally have a good sense of humor, but I don't want to go "Full Gag". Something funny and at least a little useful or practical. |
| Question: Excuses not to hang with someone? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 02:56 PM PST My friend wants to hang out, but I'm feeling kinda sick. I get sick a lot, but I've used this excuse truthfully too many times and I'm pretty sure my friend doesn't believe me anymore. I dont want to offend her, But I also am not feeling well enough to go out today... Can anyone give me some believable excuses? My friend knows my parents personally, and knows they dont ground me often, So saying "My parents wont let me go" wont work with her. She's also my coworker, so I cant use the "I cant go because my boss called me into work." excuse. I dont have any pets so I cant blame them for not going. I babysit my niece sometimes, but My friend knows my niece is out of town... so I cant use "I cant go, I have to baby sit.".... Any suggestions? |
| Question: Someone thinks I snitched on them? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 02:36 PM PST So I'm a 15 year old high schooler, and this senior who sits at my table in art got caught with weed for whats got to be the 5th time. He was talking with his friends about who could've snitched, even though the kid has openly discussed smoking and selling weed and taking xanex to the point that his parents kicked him out of his house. The guy's done countless other things (smashed someone's phone, spat in someone's shoe) and has even told teachers he smokes weed. The guy continues going on about who it could've been, and I glance up from my work and he's looking right at me. I glance down quickly, and I hear him say in a hushed voice: "I think I know who snitched." his friends ask who and he responds "I'll text it to you." he texts his friend and his friend reads it and says "Possible.... but i would say highly unlikely. I don't really know." At this point I'm kind of nervous, and I get up to turn in my assignment and he's looking right at me again. My mom works at the school and later on I told her of my suspicions and she told me that the person who sold him out was the art teacher! The kid thinks it's me even though I've never even spoken to him. What do I do if he confronts me or goes around talking crap? Any advice is much appreciated, thank you!! |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 02:32 PM PST We're both 16. I'll give some background. She's an interesting character. She's ridiculously smart, and attractive. She's pretty much set to go to Yale. She's the head of 5 clubs, and got a perfect on the ACT. But, there's some other aspects to her that don't make sense. She lives in a really poor area. Her mom is in rehab, and her dad is in prison for something like 30 years. She lives with her aunt and a few other relatives. Two years ago she ran away for pretty much the whole summer. Everyone thought she was dead. She bragged about how high she got and how many drugs she did. In middle school, she went to juvie multiple times for battery. I think she mainly cleaned up her act in high school but there's rumours that she sells drugs, and is in a gang. Anyway. A month ago, she walked in with a black eye. I asked what happened, she said "swimming." I asked my friend from swimming, she said she never got her at practice. Pretty recently I saw these rings of bruises around both of her wrists. She seemed normal. Pretty recently she came to class umable to walk, and I saw that her back was pretty much covered in bruises. What should I do? |
| Question: How can I stop being boring? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 02:20 PM PST I have always been an outcast at school and very awkward. I look like I don't want to talk to people even I do, but whenever I do have a conversation with anyone, it's dry and boring as heck. I just get so awkward and make everything boring. The few friends I have have even talked about me behind my back, saying how boring I am. I hate this about myself. I want to be more exciting. Everyone I talk to seems bored out of their mind, even if I'm talking about something they like! How can I stop? I want to show more personality and be less awkward and boring... omg... Rude! |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 02:00 PM PST I've been taking a lot of photos of myself at the sites I've been seeing during my study abroad. My parents always ask about what I'm doing, so I send them photos. My friend thinks it's really weird that I do this, and when I asked her to send me a photo that we took together she got really touchy about it and asked me "what do your parents even do with all these photos?" I'm kind of offended that she thinks this is a weird practice. Is this in fact weird or is she overreacting? i |
| Question: Is it true that the "pretty popular" girls are the loneliest? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:58 PM PST So ig you could say I'm a "popular" girl at school. I'm smaller, a cheerleader, dating the football captain, have a lot of friends, wealthy parents. Everyone thinks I have this "picture perfect life" when really I don't. I don't have a best friend, I have multiple girl friends but it's not that same. My bf and I are on and off all the time but it's not like he's "bad" for me, my parents always fight, and I'm failing my senior year. Why does everyone think I'm so "perfect?" when I'm most definitely NOT, nobody's perfect. Why do I feel so lonely when I have so many people that like "lookup" to me? Ive read that the most "pretty popular" girls are the loneliest, why is that? I'm not trying to sound like I'm bragging or anything but idk how else to put it. |
| Question: This girl wants to fight me? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:55 PM PST So I need help...... Today on the bus this girl was calling me names and I had enough so I threatened to slap her and throw my book at her. And then she got all up in my face and said tomarrow she s gonna grab my hair and drop me and by the time she s done I ll be unconscious and she ll need a mop to clean up the blood. I don t want to fight but this girl never backs down from a fight and if she says she s going to fight you she will. So thanks and plz don t say to tell a teacher because I ve tried and it gets me in trouble thanks |
| Question: My friend makes me feel like he doesn't care about me or see me for what I'm worth? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:54 PM PST I have been great friends with this guy for over 5 years, but lately he's been making me fee like I'm just a second choice. Ever since last year, he's been becoming more and more obsessed with his popularity and strive for social perfection. We have a lot in common and we have a lot of fun together but I know that I'm not the most popular friend he has. It seems that he'll ignore me for other people if they're more popular or fit his desired image, even if they aren't as close as we are to each other. It just makes me feel like there is something I should be ashamed of when he chooses other people who he barely knows over me. I've tried confronting him about this and he apologizes and claims that he cares about me, but it doesn't feel genuine and it continually happens. I don't want to lose him as a friend, but I hate feeling like there's something shameful about me. |
| Question: What should I do to stop thinking about the first girl I have ever loved? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:47 PM PST My best friend and the first girl I have ever loved has stoped talking to me and her outher friend because she started streaming daily and made new friends. She ignores me and her outher friends and I have taken her of everything exept skype. She dosent know I love her and im trying to stop thinking about her but I cant. What should I do to stop thinking about her and stop loving her? |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:13 PM PST okay so my friends were talking about someone I am friends with but they don t like that much and I couldn t quite hear what they were saying exactly but I told my friend ( the one they were talking about) what they were saying about her and I kinda over exaggerated/ got some thing they were saying wrong now my friends found out I told her and are mad what should I do I don t wanna lose my friends? |
| Question: How should I deal with my toxic friends/roommates? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:09 PM PST I have know both of these people for about a year and a half before moving in with them, but now I feel like I am at a loss. The one roommate always blames me for things that go wrong when I am the last person to cause any trouble. He also accuses my family of things they did not do (ex. throwing important mail away), even thought they also did nothing. The second roommate is just as worse in my opinion. She is one of the most wasteful people I have ever seen. Uses too much electricity, bandwidth, and will rewash dishes that I have already washed. She also complained that the ac should be on when it was 70 out, but it was not humid at all. Because of her excess electricity usage we had a huge electric bill for the first 6 months. She was dating one of my best friends and ever since they broke up I have had to deal with her criticizing him around friends in my presence, which made me angry that she would do that. Since then I have not talked to her much, but every time I do it is about not being around much. When I decide to be around then she complains that I am. I have 4 and a half to 5 more months of living with them, even though my lease goes for another 5 and a half to 6, but I am sick of being the punching bag, and if I said something it would cause thing to only get worse. Any suggestions on solving this problem? |
| Question: Anybody else feeling hopeless about life after high school? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:09 PM PST i don't know what i'm going to do. it's so hard for me to put things into perspective right now. when i try to step back and rationalize things, my mind just goes blank. i even have a limit to how much i can write about this. nothing makes sense right now and i can only feel things. i just know what i am upset about. i don't know how to deal with these issues. i don't know where to go. unlike a lot of people, i have no clue what i could have possibly learned from all these years i've spent in misery due to my depression. i feel like everyone who is supposed to be helping me isn't. my therapist, my parents, i don't have friends since i moved to another town and decided to start doing online school. i'm trying to do everything on my own but it's hard. i'm going to return to public next year (my last year of hs). my main concern is my mental/physical health and my future. oh and i'm failing every class. i have 320 something overdue assignments.i have nearly failed each year of high school so far. im pretty much fu cked and clueless. |
| Question: I need help relating to people...? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:07 PM PST I noticed that people relate best to each other with similar stories in their lives... I have a hard time thinking up stories in my own life to relate to the person, and I usually do, I just don t remember in the moment. Can someone give any tips? |
| Question: Is it just all friends or many people disrespect the opinions of others? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 01:04 PM PST It is very annoying sometimes. My friends are a little bit arrogant, and always seem to be biased .(Because cause when they say an argument they are right, when i present, an argument similar, from observers view "its wrong", for no explained reason) When they tell an opinion be in on a fact or a subjective thing, they are always so absolute it is very hard to make a conversation. Example we disagree, about a movie. I think its good, they think not. Its natural to have different thoughts. What is unnatural is what i heard "In your opinion it is good, but objectively its bad"... Like, really? from when your opinion is objective and mine is subjective... Everyone's opinion is subjective. Thing is, i dont think they troll, they truly believe their opinion is right everytime. Do you see it often? |
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| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 12:46 PM PST Ok so I have a friend who's a girl,and I'm a boy. So we were texting at night, and the she suddenly asks me "Who do you like?" And I texted back saying "I beg your pardon?You mean what girl do I like?"And she texts back yes. And I said "Uh a girl who goes to our school." And that girl is her I really like her. And she texts back"Oh, no one really likes me.😰😰😰with crying face emojis. And i texted back "Oh uh well I'm so sorry and sad to hear that. Nobody really likes me either." And she texts back"Somebody likes you." I was like confised and said "Who is it?" , "Is it you or some one else?" "u like me don't you?" Hopon shed says yes and she texted back "Ok then I do like you, I just think that you're kinda cute." I said thanks your cute too and I admit it The girl I like is you! Blah blah blah blah sorry this is long. Please excuse any bad grammar im typing from an iphone. What does "kinda cute," mean? "Dpes she actually like me?" Please no rude answers. Please say your opinion. Thanks all answers appreciated:) |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 12:43 PM PST I left my old school last week because these girls from my school keeps starting problems with me, and won't leave me alone. talking about me, spreading rumors. and a lot more. one of the girls kept texting me and calling me, dm'ing me on Instagram and just wouldn't leave me alone. basically harassing me. I DELTED my Instagram account because she wouldn't leave me alone, and blocked her number and the kids number from my school. my friend just told me that everyone was talking about me at my old school, saying they knew exactly where I went , and was just talking **** about me. also saying that I made rumors about them in like fourth grade or something. what should I do? do you think it will all stop in a couple of months? |
| Question: I snitched on someone, but they have "dirt on me" and can get me in trouble as well.? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 12:26 PM PST Hi, I am really in a predicament. In school I emailed my headmaster talking about the one classmate who was technically bullying me. Now a while back at the beginning of the school year, I made a photoshop of my friend in class that was pretty inappropriate, and this student took a picture of it. He reminded me of it, so he never forgot, and I already told my headmaster his wrong doings. Right now my parents are kind of upset with me, I am addicted to video games and that makes them mad. If he gets called in, and shows the headmaster the photo, what do I do? He deserves the detention for his behavior, my friend agreed the picture I made was funny, so I don't know what to do! Should I lie saying I never made the picture because there is no solid evidence of who made it, or take the blame? I really don't want to ruin my relationship with my parents and perfect school record with one petty detention. I'm so stressed from this! I snitched on someone, but they have "dirt on me" and can get me in trouble, what do I do? |
| Question: Do I look TRUSTworthy? In your Opinion? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 11:46 AM PST http://i.imgur.com/tRjcv90.png |
| Question: Christmas card writing need some help best answer 10pt? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 11:16 AM PST i need some help putting word into the card need some help. it's for female friend. me and her don't really txt a lot but we txt time to time. i am not sure what to write need he;p |
| Question: Is 23 years old too late to improve social skills? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 11:14 AM PST Particularly conversation skills. I have wasted all my life playing video games. But now I stopped and now I notice I can't talk or relate to anyone. Is it too late to get conversation skills? How long will it take to get good? How do I go about getting better? |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 11:14 AM PST My friend and i are both 21 he has a 10 year old brother and every time i go to my friends house his brother jumps on me and I try not to hit him but sometimes i cant stop myself. Anyway when my friend wasnt home and I was watching his brother. He jumped on my and I punched him right in his mouth. He started to bleed and I told him to stop crying and he wouldnt so I swung again... am I a bad person? |
| Question: Is this a sign that he doesn't love me anymore? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:47 AM PST We are together for almost two months He was always kind and nice, but a few nights ago he came home so drunk and tried to approach me. When I prevented he beat me. I'm physically much smaller and thinner than him and couldn't defend myself. So I gave up and let him have sex with me After that he apologized several times and promised that it will never be repeated. From that night on I haven't seen him violent behavior , but I'm still worry. I don't know if I should leave or forgive him and give him another chance? I love him truely from bottom of my heart and don't wanna lose him but can it be happen again? What if he doesn't love me anymore? P.s: we're gay |
| Question: I don't no what's going on? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:44 AM PST Me and my best friend have been friends for 3 years now and he's liked me from the begging! He told me a few weeks ago that he liked me and he was going to ask me go but he didn't because he didn't no how I felt... Like if I only see him as a friend. At first I did see him as a friend but I started thinking about it and I really like him . He noes I like him but yet idk what to do because he doesn't talk to me much and doesn't won't to spend that much time with me! He's my best friend an it's like he isn't there. He tells me that he has other friends to attend to other than me. I get that but we use to be together all the time . |
| Question: I think my friends are ignoring me? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:42 AM PST So I'm currently in my first semester of high school. I have social anxiety and although I've made 3-4 "school friends", I haven't been able to ask them out for coffee or anything because I'm too scared they'll judge me or something. But I think that they are avoiding me. They went out this weekend for the first time and they didn't invite me. After that, they were all much closer and had gone from school friends/acquaintances and today at lunch, they said "goodbye" to me and left the lunch table without me and they mostly talk to each other. I managed to talk to them about doing something on Saturday, and they said that "I don't know if I'll have plans, maybe" but I'm not sure if they're just saying that to not disappoint me or to turn me down gently or something and I think that they don't like me. What would you do in this situation? Is it too late to join their clique? Is it too late to become friends with them? |
| Question: Friends, Smartphones and Conversations..? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:38 AM PST Is it a 'normal' thing NOW to be with a friend at their house and you're on your smartphones while talking to the friend that you invited over? Isn't it a bit rude to be with a friend, and answering all your texts and Facebook notifications? OR is it just me? I have a smartphone, but I'm not always on it. If I'm at a friends house, I listen to them talk about whatever is on their minds. People agree with the quote below, but they still do it! They don't think its being disrespectful, even if you're talking to them about something serious and they are their phones (because they have kids, bullshit excuse, imho). BUT if they want to talk, then its a completely different subject.. no it's not! Is this normal now? What do you do if your friend is so wrapped up with their phone and you need to talk, do you ask them to get off their phone for a few seconds so you can get your point across and advice from them? OR do you talk while they are texting away, maybe not paying too much attention to you or at all so you have to repeat your question.... |
| Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:33 AM PST My main group of friends is guys, but I make it a point not to date or sleep with any of them because I don t want to mess up the friendship. We were all in my car on the way to get pizza and I had a Would You Rather sort of game in my car from a girl friends bachelorette party the weekend before. They started being silly asking if I d ever sleep with any of them and I made it clear my answer was no and I even told them why. Later that same night we were all drinking and two of them slept with me. I don t remember any of it. I only what they and other people who were there tell me. I didn t really say no, but once it was happening I said I wanted to stop and they pushed me to keep going. Both of the guys remember it all clearly, were I can t at all. Does that count as rape? I hate myself, but I don t want to do anything about it and lose my best friends, but I also know best friends wouldn t do that. |
| Question: How do you make the first step in a friendship? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:24 AM PST I've been in my choir for seven years. I've had a couple close acquaintances that I hung out with for tours and stuff, and last year I got pretty close to two people, but they left this year. There was a group that I sort of hung out with and were nice to me, but because my anxiety and depression got really bad this year, I didn't try hard enough to stay friends with them and I got kind of edged out and we don't talk anymore. Basically at choir, I'm pretty much alone. There's an older girl that my mom talked to and told her that it's hard for me to make friends because of my anxiety and depression, so she often comes and talks to me at break, but I feel that I'm the "pity friend" in that situation. So I'm pretty much completely miserable at choir. Everyone is really kind and there are some cool people I would love to be friends with, but I just don't know how to approach them or what to say and I feel like I would be awkward around them. This is a really hard situation for me. Any advice? |
| Question: Do you think i should just end my life since i obviously living for nothing? Posted: 07 Dec 2015 10:19 AM PST long story short, i used to be a video game nerd and i have played video games in my moms basement EVERY single day for several hours straight, LITERALLY nothing else. All i do is study for college and play video games. Playing these video games from when i was around age 12 all the way until 23 years old has made me the most awkward guy ever. Like i know nothing about life, at all. I don't even know my own interest besides video games (which i know play in moderation because i was trying to get conversation skills which was a FAIL). Unfortunately, i cant even make friends because i can't introduce myself without being awkward. Like i will freeze up just after saying "Hi" or "Hi, whats your name" when trying to talk to women. And it's even worse because i know that i am an attractive guy because i can tell that these girls are showing body language for me to approach them, and then i approach them, and turn them off by the awkward silence. So since this keeps happening i might as well just commit suicide because OBVIOUSLY there is no way to help me get better conversation skills since i am already 23 years old adult. Unless there is a way to get better? I don't even want to image how long it would take to get better. Since i wasted 23 years of my life, it would take another 23 years to get good conversation skills right? How can i get better at conversation and what to talk about? |
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