What age is too young to get engaged/ married

When having sex with my girlfriend, she would constantly scratch my rib and pinch my back. I did not know what it meant? Anyone who could have an idea to tell me what it meant and could it be related to sexual excitement or orgasm?

I'm getting a friend of mine a personalized item as a gift and the gift has an option of including "future Mrs__" however, I'm wondering if I can put Mrs. Her name- his name? Or if that is incorrect and should be written as Ms. If that is the case then maybe I should just chose to write Mrs. His name just for the sake of the gift?

Well currently I am 24 and I've been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for a few years. I want to compare a relationship with older people to mine to see if we have any similarities.

I bought my husband a set of operator keys for christmas, since he's a machine operator/construction worker, and I noticed when they came in the mail a dog tag with the company's logo, contact info, etc. was attached to the key ring. I thought it might add a personal touch to have a customized dog tag added onto the ring for my hubby, but I don't know exactly what to write on it, aside from his name. Any suggestions?

He left me and I have to get stoned all the time to stop thinking about everything that I lived next to him!

in November me and my husband decided to go back to Texas because things were not working out as far as to getting a job her in texas. As soon as his grandma heard she automatically started putting things into my husbands head labout schooling. My husband likes the idea and decided to tell me he was not going back to Texas with me. I tried talking him out of it but then she enrolled him into online classes My husband says he will stay and will send me money when he gets himself a job. I start hinting things about his grandma and she tunes me out as if I am not there. She starts calling him hun and spanks his butt. Tells him about her young friends who are single. All that while I'm right there sitting in front of the *****. now its December and I'm 5 months pregnant and will be going back to Texas. His grandma starts telling him that she doesn't understand why I am leaving and that I should stay because that's what a wife does. I just have a feeling she's getting somewhere to the point where me and my husband are going to have a fight and get divorced because of the **** shes putting in his head. I just feel like I'm losing him to her. My husband promised he will be there when the baby is born a few weeks ago and now hes telling me he probably wont get to go down to Texas to see his child because he doesn't know if he will have the day off and he doesn't want to leave his grandma alone. I dont know what do you all think. I. Need help I want my husband back.

Really, I would just like to hear some stories of hope. I ve lost so much of it, and I don t want to have this cynical idea of love and marriage.

Let's say one spouse makes a lot of money and is a good saver while the other has piles of credit card debt. Are married couples obligated to share money?

My husband saw an inappropriate message on my phone. He was mad, but not nearly as mad as I thought he would be. I knew he might catch me, but I didn't really care. We had been fighting and then not speaking. I was weak and looking for comfort and I found it. Still, I'm really surprised that he isn't more upset. Any ideas?

I have had my betta fish for about 2 and a half years. It just turned winter, so his tank was a little colder than it should have been for a couple of weeks. Then i got him another heater and it has been a good temperature for a few days. When he's cold he usually stays by his heater and doesnt really eat a lot. But that normally changes when the temp goes up. This time though, he is very inactive and lays on the bottom of the tank. I give him food and he'll eat one pellet and swim away. (I've been feeding him this food ever since i got him and he's never had a problem eating it) There appears to be nothing wrong with him physically. Also, i just cleaned his tank because i thought that maybe that was the reason he had been acting like that. He's still the same though. He lives in a 10 gallon tank, so it's not too small, and he's never been like this before. What could be wrong?

My husband and I have been married for 4 years together for 7. We're expecting our first child. He went out of for the weekend supposedly with his brother. I didn't think anything of it. He got extremely drunk this past weekend I was at home taking care of him and one of his friends called to check on him and as I got ready to answer his friend hung up and the recent calls were showing. This prompted me to go through his texts where I found him talking to multiple women from the plenty of fish website. I came across a number saved under initials and soon found out that he had been carrying on a 3 year relationship with a girl that I knew from our hometown. She kept telling him she was tired of being the side chick. He picked her up the weekend he went out of town and they stayed in the same hotel that we had stayed in a few weeks later. I noticed while he was out of town that he kept getting cash out for everything. There were a million atm transactions which was unusual for him. I never questioned it but now it all makes sense. I'm completely hurt and I can't stop crying about it. He was telling her he loves her and she's his "girlfriend" that he treats better than his "baby mama" (not wife). What hurts the most is that I feel it's something serious between them since it's been going on for 3 years. I feel like I should leave him but I have to consider my daughter in this. I find it hard to believe that he won't do it again and continue talking to her. What would you do?

If you take your wife out for an expensive meal, do you expect her to please you sexually when you get home? If she is currently boring in the bedroom, due to depression or maybe resentment, do you feel she isn't worth being taken out for an expensive meal?

When I say that I'm not very fond of marriage nor spouses and that I think being single is better? They do the same with anyone who feels the same way I do. Why can't people in this modern day and age accept that not everyone feels that marriage and husbands and wives will be the greatest things on earth? Especially with such high divorce rates? I don't even like having a boyfriend. Why can't people understand that e all can have different opinions and that romantic relationships are not for everyone?

Wife of three years left with our daughter two. She has been moving from place to place for about six months she was in NM for five months and has moved back to tx and been there about two weeks.

My husband has made it almost a ritual to play League of Legends every night for hours on end. He gets very upset when I ask to spend time with him. We even went out a few weeks ago and bought over $70 worth of games that we could play together. I have made my feeling well known that I would like it if he didn't play so much. We have a 18 month old and another on the way. He literally makes me feel like he has more of a relationship with the toxic League community that his own wife. I can speak for the League community because I use to play League with him. It was the only way I could ever get him to spend time with me. He is not young. He is almost 30 and it's frustrating to me because I would hope he would have his priorities more lined up.

My husband to be has been at boot camp for the Marines the last 3 months and Marriage Licenses only last 30 days before you have to reapply and I was supposed to apply for it myself but he and I didnt realize that I needed his drivers license or ID to apply and he has that with him so We wont be able to apply for the marriage license until the 14th of Decemeber and we are scheduled to get married the 18th of Decemeber and he leaves fr Infantry school for 2 months the 20th and we already had everything planned. Im just worried the marriage license wont get back to us in time. Should we be able to get it back in one dAy?

my parents are always fighting about money my aunts and their husbands are always fighting. one of my friends husband cheats on her with multiple women and he still says no matter what she will always be the love of his life like okay i don't get it . so that is why I'm saying are marriages really marriages are their guys out there that don't think about being with another women? i fell like after a certain amount of time one of the two get tired of each other but still wanna be married. someone explain

My ex and I were together 15years and got divorce 5 years ago after both hurting each other. He married the girl he cheated on me with I had a boyfriend for 4 years we broke up a 10months ago. My ex husband and I have a daughter and have recently started having family time together. His wife stays home (we live an hour apart ) and she doesn't realize I'm home while he visits w our daughter. My ex claims to be happy w his wife but not inlove w her and he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up. We have had sex a couple times and it always causes a fight after because it hurts me that he'll sleep w me but he doesn't want to hurt his wife by leaving her so we could try again. After we fight he does try to push away from me and avoids talking for a few days but once we end up alone if I put any moves on him he's all for it. I know what I'm doing is wrong. Had Anyone else been in a situation close to this? I don't understand that when I'm mean I'm real mean to him so why does he even both being alone with me.?

And why is the #2 Yahoo! Answers solution to marital unhappiness "counseling"? Look people, perpetual happiness is NOT achievable! Emotions are either stable or a rollercoaster of happiness and sadness. You aren't going to have a fleeting emotion stay every moment in your marriage. So why the BAD advice to divorce all the time? Happy does not mean complacent or pleasant. Happy is more relate to euphoria. You CANNOT be in a constant state of euphoria. But you can be content, complacent, and pleased with your life. I may not be euphoric in my marriage (by any stretch) but I am content and that's all that really matters isn't it?

I know it sounds dumb but my husband has been acting strange and secretive. Every time I ask him what is wrong he gets mad at me and people have been telling me he might be talking to other women... I just want to see if it is true so that I no longer have to live like this.

I've only been married to this man in the Marine Corps for six months. He told me I didn't need to worry about getting a job as long as I got up there to be with him. Plus we only had my car so he can get to and from work. I told him I wanted to get a divorce this month and now hes saying that he doesn't think he has to pay for anything or any of my bills. I'm not sure what to do I'm not sure where to go to get everything started and I don't know how any of this works please help.

Every...day... Every...hour.. Every..time..I see her... She yells at me, bitches about something, I'm a pretty quiet and chill person but it's like she's testing me to see how much it takes for me to break. I think I now understand why people go on killing spree's or hit their wife. Why can't she just be happy, why be a *****? I don't want to argue with her, I just want to chill and enjoy life, what is her purpose for living..to ruin other peoples lives? Why can't she just wallow in her own misery don't bring it onto me.

Having two wives would be hard, but at least I'd double my odds of getting sex and increase my odds of motivating my wives to look their hottest for me and the world around them. No, I can't see how this would fail. 3 incomes, or 2 incomes and a domestic housewife! Honestly, this is a total fail safe plan, why can't we do this?

I wouldn't want my business ran that way, so why would I want my family or my marriage run that way? Explain why you think it's okay for an emotional woman to have a vote on anything in the relationship? It seems like to me this kind of woman is dangerous and selfish so she should NOT be trusted to make decisions for anyone other than herself since she will use the construct/community/collective to her benefit and NOT to the shared benefit of everyone involved... In other words, it's only power and nothing more. There's no true desire to lead, only to gain.

I just left my wife and I took out three kids and I am having so much trouble dealing with everything going on. I m in a motel and my kids are just miserable here and just want to go home, but I can t let them see there mom because she said nasty things to our oldest child. I just don t know what I m doing anymore and I just want to curl up into a ball and I don t even know what else

Ok well me and my husband got in a big fight the other night, I stayed at my moms for the night. I came back yesterday, and offered sexual favors but was declined, his reasoning being that he was ' to depressed to feel horny'. Well his search history begged to differ, because pornhub was on it. He claimed that he watched for a second but wound up turning it off. Well today I decided to look at his porn hub search history, which got him caught in 2 lies. One that what he had told me a day prior was a lie, because he had searched several category's that same day shortly before that. The other lie was that the kind of born he was watching was ebony ( big black women). He had told me several times before that he was not attracted to black women, yet here were all these searches for black BBw and black anal, etc... I am not making a raciest statement with this, I wouldn't care about him being attracted to black women, what I am mad about is that he felt the need to lie about it. I think the reason he always told me he found black women grouse sexually was because the 1st girl he slept with was black, he says it was groups and turned him off from black women, which was obviously not true. I do not understand what his point in lying about it was but I'm pissed just for the fact he lied. and now when I present my new found information to him, he Denys everything, saying he doesn't know how that got on there. I'm hurt from dishonesty,& feel rejected

My ex wife and I divorced 5 years ago and ever since she took our house which I dont care about but every since shes been putting yelp reviews on my jobs page saying she will never get stuff surveyed there because I am a bad person, etc. She has made a Wikipedia page about me with a bunch of private hurtful things about me. She tells our kids I hate them and thats why she wont let me see them. She threatens me all the time and tells other the reason we got divorced is because I cheated on her even though she had a 1 year affair with a man and when I found out she ran away with him to jersey for a week and spent all my money. I had to go live at her parents when she did this because she threatened to burn down the house if I was in it. She tells many of her friends that I used to know I keep asking her to get back together. She also tells me I have to pay her mortgage if I want to see our kids. She constantly sues me for stupid things and tells me I cant talk to her parents even though I am friendly with them. My Dad had a stroke and passed and she went to his funeral and spit on the casket. To be honest I dont know what to do, all I want to do is see our kids. Can someone help?

It's my birthday party, not my sons.

My husband has always been obsessed with his porn. We had a baby 3 weeks ago and i cant have sex for atleast 6 weeks. He has been getting very upset that he cant go in for 6 weeks then he starts being very hurtful and mean towards me. I have offered other favors for him but he says its not good enough... so porn and his hand is enough??? Plus i am very tired as i have been the only one changing a diaper feeding the baby or waking up with her throughout the night and it is very exhausting doing it myself. But he would rather watch his porn and get off than help me. Plus he keeps calling me worthless for that fact i am not healed yet and cant take care of his sexual needs... Am i worthless for this??? Should i be upset he chooses porn over helping with our newborn??? Could it be him falling out of love with me cause i cant have sex for 6 weeks? What should i do i hate feeling like im nothing but a baby momma and a nanny for him.

G.f. And I have been dating for 9 months and have met her family once and I will spend xmas with her mom . The moms husband, her brother and sister her husband and their 3 kids. G.f already bought gifts for them, should I buy them something as well, ask her to split the cost of her gifts. What should I do? Any gift suggestions if I should buy her mom and husband something or the rest of her family?

I am a heterosexual. I know this because I've had many opportunities to be homosexual and it just didn't appeal to me. I have a STRONG attraction towards women who look feminine. Yes, I understand that a lot of femininity is just corporatism and capitalism prying into our day to day lives; but I do have a strong preference for women that LOOK LIKE WOMEN and don't remind me of MEN. Does this make me "wrong" to want my wife to look like a woman and not like a man? Take for example the photoshopped photo attached. On the left side, you have a woman with thin high arch eyebrows, her lips are small, and her head is small/round. On the right, you have a woman(?) with thick bushy eyebrows, a long face, thick lips, and a strong jawline. In the middle, you have a balance of both which doesn't look too extreme either way. I am totally attracted to the one on the left, the one on the right looks like someone I'd high five and talk about video games with (a boy), and the middle one gives me an awkward ***** (middle is real girl). When I first met my wife, she was on the left. I didn't know she looked this way because of her friends (wanting to fit in with them and doing what her Mom said to do), because soon after we had our first kid she was looking more and more like the middle... There are even times I had to remind myself she's REALLY a woman so I stopped treating her like a man. So is it wrong to want my wife to groom/dress herself like a woman? If that question is too difficult for you then try this question: If women are CHOOSING to look less and less feminine, should men be allowed to treat them like "one of the guys" and expect them to act accordingly? After all, I don't see any women around her; so why should I have to adjust my behavior to fit my "gentleman" role when they aren't fitting their "lady" role? Everyone has a role. A role though isn't assigned by the entity (unless it is a business). The role is always self assigned. If I *only* want to act like a gentleman when around women who act like ladies, then it is my CHOICE to act like a gentleman only when around a woman who looks like a woman. But my role as a gentleman is a persona I put on because I enjoy acting this way around that persona type. This does not make it fake, it's genuine, but it is conditional; such as life.

We've been married for almost 4 years and we dated 2 years but she looks completely different now. I work out a lot so I still look young and fit . A lot of girls hit on me and to be honest I've been cheating on her for a while now. I just want to come clean and tell her that I'm no longer attracted to her.

My son has his 13th birthday coming up. We have a blended family. My husband brought 2 girls age 12 and 11 (who live with their mom and visit every other weekend) and I have a boy and girl, 12 and 9 who live with me full time. My son feels surrounded by girls. He's always doing what the girls want to do because he's outnumbered. He wants this party to be about him and his friends. He was happy to know that the party will be on a weekend that we dont have the other 2 girls/stepsisters with us. My husband on the other hand feels that his girls will enjoy the party and he wants to pick them up from their mom's house for the party. It will be a sleepover at a hotel. How should I handle this? I want my son to enjoy his day but I can see my husband's point as well

My marriage is not in a great place, nor is the relationship in general. My husband is very unmotivated, he doesn t work, nor does he do anything around the house or take proper care of the kids. He is neglectful, and expects me to go work my 10 hour shifts and then come home and take care of the kids, clean house and cook dinner. This is not even mentioning that the entire day while I m at work all he does is sit around and play video games while allowing my 2 year old to trash the house essentially unsupervised, and my 8 month old pees through her diaper and gets no stimulation as far as being able to play, being talked to, held or anything. He demands all of my free time, takes every dime that I make, and forces me to make several nightly trips to the store to buy him candy or ice cream or whatever he is in the mood for. He has completely ruined my credit by making me take out loans or cell phone and cable accounts in my name and then never allowing me the money to make the payments. My credit score is currently at a 410 from the last 5 years I ve spent with him. We are definitely on shaky ground. He has a mental diagnosis of ADHD, Insomnia and Bipolar Schizophrenia. He refuses to go to the Dr or to take his medication for these conditions. He has an innate inability to keep a job, he quits every job he obtains consistently within a month or 2 with no thoughts of the future or providing for our family.

He is always bossing me around and when I dont do something the way he wants me to, he snaps at me and treats me like I'm ignorant. We have a 3 month old baby, our first and only child, whom I take care of all day and all night. It frustrates me how I wake up with baby every time and do everything by myself. When I talked to him about it, he was rude and told me that I have no right to be frustrated because he works and I stay home all day. But being a first time mom is hard work. He expects a clean house and lunch/dinner on the table. I'm not one known for always complaining but this is one thing that's really been hurting me.i just wish he could understand..I am a Christian woman, and I know it says I the bible to be submissive to your husbands but I dont feel like I'm getting fair treatment here. Advice? No cruel comments please..im stressed enough as it is.

He's missing atleast four days a month while I've missed two in the last six months, his excuse is he sick but when I come home most the time he's perfectly fine. Then he gets mad if my son misses even an hour of work within a two month period which isn't acceptable with how often he's doing it. He's already lost one job because of this. Please help?

I never understood this. People that value their children more then their spouse. People that think the most important thing that ever happened to them is the birth of their child. I think it's a magical moment but so is being married! What people do not realize is your kids are important but they won't be around forever and once they leave your house your stuck with the person your married to! This seems to be a bigger issue with men. You should respect and love your wife more then your kid or kids!

I was 44 at the time, guys were in late twenties. One of them is still friends with my son and I see him occasionally. He has been around my husband also.

Hello I don't live in the U.S. But I used to live in CA before and I have one question. I know that the gun laws in ca are extremely strict. So, is open carry prohibited in there? I think yes? While I was staying there, I saw one guy in a store with a gun(sig p226 I think)open carrying in a holster. I was somewhat surprised because that was the first time I actually saw a real handgun that close. Handguns are totally and completely banned in my country. He didn't look like a police officer. Or was he. He was just not wearing uniforms? Or open carry wasn't ban back then? It was in 2008-09 I think. I'm just curious. Thanks.

I'm going to openly admit, for the first time ever, I'm very resentful of my wife. In our younger years, she allowed me to take the lead and we were great lovers. But after our 2nd child was born in 2005, my wife (24 at the time) decided to go the "feminist" route by completely changed the dynamic of our relationship; she stopped following my lead, and she made it so we weren't having sex unless it was "normal" (missionary - no more kink). At first I was fine with it because she would be on top and let me watch her jiggle and her expressions; but then she got lazy and would just lay on her back, open her legs, expecting me to do all the work... No game, no play, no tease, no build up, nothing... Just a "men are always horny so just do it"... But here's the truth -- Men are NOT always horny. At least not without the effort of you women exploiting our senses through sexy attire and/or sexy body language. It's not even a testosterone issue, men's libidos are almost entirely driven by our visual senses and what "looks" appealing to have sex WITH. So today, I told her about how the reason we haven't had regular sex in a while is because I'm tired of her just laying there like a rag doll, expecting me to "ravish" her like her stupid romance novels, especially while she looks like she just had a sleepover with high schoolers (frumpy)... But instead of being receptive, my wife avoided it and just called me "being rude"... The resentment builds higher. She's so stubborn... A few errors in the details above (sorry, skipped coffee today) - 2005 was before our 2nd child, which also was BEFORE my single day of emotionally cheating on her. In other words, this is what happened PRIOR to me talking to my ex in 2006. Also, we have sex occasionally (my birthday and father's day) but it's more of a celebration thing now since I *still* don't like her just laying there... An actual "intimate encounter" hasn't happened since before 2005... 10 years of stubborn frumpiness. And this "feminist" mentality goes against everything she stands for.... Let me explain: She told me that she's angry that I don't show her off as "my wife", but yet, feminists are supposed to be an individual and want to be addressed by their identity since they aren't possessions... She also told me that she wants to be my equal, but then she expects me to take the lead on things that she doesn't want to deal with... Basically, she's trying to avoid the stick and eat all the carrots. By frumpy I just mean that she doesn't do anything with he hair (leaves it down), she doesn't style it (just grows it out), she doesn't wear makeup or keep her face with good complexion, she wears pajamas most of the time or just shirts she bought 10 years ago (refuses to go shopping and doesn't like what I buy her when I get tired of her wearing the same crap), and she does NOTHING to instigate or stimulate sexual interest. It's like being married to a boring nun or an asexual.... As far as MY efforts (since I know the best way to make an egotistical man feel bad is to attack his character and make him feel like it is HIS fault) are the following: Dates, chocolates, flowers, I lost a lot of weight, I body built, I wrote her romantic poems, I gave her time alone, I paid for her to go to the spa, I did all of the house chores for a month (alone), I massaged her sensually, I made her breakfast in bed, I treated her like a princess, and I ravished her. Nothing "works". I mean, I can get my jolly, but it has to be missionary style, with her on the bottom, doing no work but just laying there. She doesn't breathe heavy, she doesn't moan, she doesn't fake an orgasm, she doesn't like to kiss, she doesn't look in my eyes, she does NOTHING. She just, lays there. And when I'm done, she rushes to go use the bathroom and gets on with her day. So it honestly is nothing more than a "release" for her too. She's not doing it for connection like I am. As a "my turn to receive - you took too much" consequence, I do not make efforts to stimulate/instigate sex any more. I have accepted this part of our "marriage" dead for a long time. She refuses to back down from her "having sex with a dead corpse" laziness, and I refuse to give her sex to reward her for being lazy/frumpy. I do kind gestures still, but I don't do it for sex; I do it because I am a good person. But she is NOT good to me back so it's pointless.

This question is a bit juvenile, but I haven't asked one in a while so here goes: My husband's main Christmas gift came in the mail yesterday. I left work early so I could beat him home because he opens any box that comes to the house. It's a zipper hoodie and it has his favorite football team on it. I know he's going to love it. Well, the temp dropped today, and he could really use it to wear to work now. Plus I can't stand the anticipation. I'm ready to see his face when he sees it! So, husbands, would you rather your wife wait and give you a gift on Christmas Day, or do you not care what day it's given on? Would you rather have something now if you could use it now? Am I the only wife who has a hard time waiting to give her husband his gifts? It's not as difficult waiting to give my daughter her gifts, but I still feel antsy about it.

Yesterday I posed this question about my step-son and him not taking responsibility for the car he was driving. https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20151207064149AAod8XR&sort=O Here's the follow up. Last night I got home before my wife and within about 15 mins she's walking in the door. I go outside to get the mail and she seemed upset that I went and got it. I noticed that her son's paycheck had come so when I put the mail on the bed I also noticed that my wife had stopped by the auto parts store and bought the headlights for her son's car. I asked her why she bought the headlight bulbs knowing that he was about to be paid. She said that she did it because she wanted to. That's what mother's do. I asked her if she was going to make him pay her back and she made the point to remind me that I had just bought my daughter some rubber rain boots that all the kids are wearing right now, and was I going to make her pay me back for them. At that point I walked out of the room cause she likes to put one child up against the next. My daughter is in her first year of college and she wanted the boots. I told her that as long as she's doing what she's suppose to do I didn't mind helping her out or buying her things. My step-son went away last year for his first year of college and got into the party life and failed out. Now, he's back home with us taking graphic designs classes thinking he's going to start his own business soon after only taking one or two classes. He also made the announcement that he and his 19 year old gf were pregnant because they felt they were ready for a baby. Ok, so on one hand I'm being chastised because I bought my daughter some rubber rain boots as a reward for doing good in college but my step son gets everything paid for in life because he failed out of college and now has gotten his gf pregnant and didn't want to spend his own money to replace the headlights on the car that someone else was allowing him to drive. Where's the irony here? Mark my word, my wife is going to now get on my case because I won't show my step son how to put the headlights into the car. Since I can't say anything to him about the situation why should I help him out with the situation?