So I'm friends with this girl (I'm a girl too). We became friends last year when we were in the same class with one of our mutual friends. We weren't exactly close; she could be kind of an asshole at times but we usually had fun together. Anyway, this year things really changed. She realized she was into girls, which is fine with me, but I'm straight. She's been super clingy lately- which is partly due to her having a complicated home situation and suffering depression. These days her clinginess makes me feel uncomfortable when I'm around her. Anyway, today she asked me to spend the night at her house, out of the blue. I don't want to; but how do I decline without hurting her feelings?

My worst family friend is coming over for new years(her family made that plan yesterday =.=)and she's ruining all the plans i had that day while my parents were going to be out partying that night.. Should i sneak out while theyre all getting ready or not? btw im planning to go to a friend's house for the time being. -and dont call me immature for not 'dealing with her', i've known this girl for 15 years and im tired of her but my family doesnt get it - my dad is pretty strict and overprotective whereas my mom is chill sooo.. give me advice if i should or not much love xx

I have found that when I am able to make a friend or acquaintance I get very attached to that person. I will do anything for them, even things that I don't particularly want to do or that are not particularly enjoyable. They ask, make a subtle hint, or just express frustration and I'm there. If they seem mad at me, I will do whatever I feel is necessary to make it better and apologize profusely, even if I don't think what I did was wrong. If they hurt me, I suck it up and quickly forgive even if I am very hurt. I become so worried about losing a potentially good friend that I devote everything to them and the feeling is typically not mutual. I feel like I devote so much to a person in an effort to be their friend and they just never care as much in return. It's like that quote, "Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option", I'm always making people who I regard as good friends as priorities while I am nothing more than their option, someone to hang out with when there is nothing or no one else. I'm not considered a close friend, even if I consider that person to be a close friend of mine. I just get so frustrated. I'm just hoping that someone else understands and has experienced something similar so I know I'm not the only one. I tell myself that if I don't expect anything from people I can't be let down, but I'm just so desperate for friends that I do trust and I do expect friendship and just feel constantly let down.

I had a bad mark on the assignment and then the prof gave me a pouting expression. I then gave him the same look. Was he disappointed? And how would he take my reaction? I had classes with him before and never had bad marks.

i just transferred to a new school three months ago and ive only made one friend I always get so much anxiety trying to talk to new people because i am boring and can never come up with anything to talk about someone please help!!!

NOTE: Please DO NOT mention "it's because of the boobs"! I don't have big boobs!

So I guess you can say that I am muchhh more of a listener than a talker - I'm very brief with what I say, but I can listen to anyone for hours. And the thing is, I would remember pretty much everything that they told me. It's not even that I rewind it in my head or anything, IDK I just remember the most random stuff. Is it weird?

i didn't wish them a merry chritas cuzi wanted to see if they were my real friend cuz im always wishing them stuffand giving them gifts. they didnt wish me a merry christnas or even give me a gift (idc about gifts but the thought would have been nice) but they gave their other friends gifts and stuff. i just want to cry. do you guys also been through this?

I'm 28 years old and I still live at home with my parents but I will be moving out once I finish school. I will be going back to college in February I do work. My parents keep getting on my case about me going on a trip. I'm planning to go and see my bestfriend in Mississippi. They keep saying I'm lying because I did last time. I told them I was meeting my bestfriend in LA but really I went to meet a guy that I met online. This time I really am going to see my bestfriend in Mississippi but I am also flying out to LA to see the guy again. How do I keep my parents from finding out I'm in LA? I wish they would just stop giving me a hard time. I am not lying about going to see my bestfriend in MS I am actually going. My mom is going to be calling me once a day I'll only be in LA for two or three days. Will my parents find out I am in LA if I don't tell them?

Recently, I've been constantly thinking of a friend that I used to have. Josh and I got along very well and though we are on good terms, we aren't friends. We used to talk everyday but sometime last year, he started liking this girl. She isn't mean but I feel like the friendship I had with Josh was replaced with his relationship with that girl. I have been thinking about him all the time so on Wednesday I sort of did something about it. Tuesday night, I had a dream that we were friends again and that we were talking again, then I saw him Wednesday morning. Josh rarely comes to school early and this was finally my chance. He talked with some other people and I before the bell rang to let everyone in. When the bell rings and it is time to go into the school, I usually go to drop off my flute to the band room but instead, I grabbed on to his sleeve. He asked me what I was doing because I completely held onto his arm the entire walk to his locker. He wasn't angry, his face seemed like a confused happy face. He asked me what I was doing again so I told him that I missed him. He didn't say anything, he just glanced down at me. He still wasn't angry, I don't know what he was thinking. All I know is that I miss him dearly. I didn't get to talk to him for the rest of the day. When Winter Break is over, should I try to continue the conversation or should I do something else? Your opinions are are highly appreciated.

My friend and I haven't been on good terms. She usually wishes me a merry christmas ad happy holidays first. We have a game sort of thing where whomever gives up during a conversation has to start the next one. (In simple terms kind of like text tag.) It's dinner time and she still hasn't wished me a merry christmas, talked to me, (even though she had time to post stuff on her instagram) and we USE to be close. I'm upset because I cared about her a lot but to be honest it doesn't seem like she cares about me or is maybe too busy to talk to me, but not too busy to talk to her other friends. My questions, should I give up on her? Am I overracting? What would YOU do? Have you been in this situation? Should I forget about her?

They knew where I go to school and my girlfriends name. They didn't sound aggressive just by the way they are talking. They were using a high pitched voice changer and They said "I have another present for Christmas for you because I'm your mommy" and they called back after I hung up and my mom answered and they said "Samantha?" ( my girlfriend) so I'm thinking it was a friend but I want to make sure. I don't know how you can call from someone else's number.

2 nights ago after work i met up with my buddy Charles cause he was gonna come over my house to chill. When we got to my house I caught my girlfriend screwing some other dude. I kept my cool and told the dude to just leave because he didn't know she wasn't single. Then I told her she's out at the crack of dawn because she had been drinking and I didn't want her to drive. Then she went off on me saying I have a little dick, I'm a fag, I'm not a real man and stuff. I let it go through one ear and out the other until she started talking about my family and then smashed a vase with my dad's ashes in it. I didn't touch her but I snapped out verbally. Charles then tried getting in my face because "it's not right to speak to a woman like that." I basically told him to back off before he gets hurt so he backed away. Then out of nowhere she started hitting me so I grabbed her and pushed her off me and Charles started swinging, I hit him once and threw him outside and he ran off. I don't feel wrong in anyway for what I've done but I'm kind of depressed because he was my buddy. Why do I feel so bad Charles always has been a mangina, even in high school. He thinks just by acting heroic he's gonna get laid. He's still a virgin and very awkward and nerdy not that their is anything wrong with that but he needs to mind his own business. Also he will act super overly nice to women, then if they don't put out to him he will call them a slut or a whore and pretty much snap on them

My whole life I never like arriving to a place when there are already people there. For example, if all my friends were hanging out at someones house, i hate being the last one there. I always feel so awkward, and never know how to greet everyone. Same thing when i'm leaving, I never know what to do when i'm leaving, and everyone is still there. It sucks!

Hi I am hosting a sleepover with either 2 or 3 friends and we are all really close so i'm just wondering what is really fun for not teen girls oh, also I have this spa kit thing I am using and i'm wondering if that should be a short thing or a long thing to do.

So I have 3 friends, we'll call them Amy, Hannah and Julie. Amy is having a new years party at her house. Julie invited me to her house for new years. Hannah is going to Amy's and Hannah calls it a "tradition" that we do new years together. I don't know what to do! Can someone please give me advice?

Like if you meet some random stranger and you're trying to make friends the only way I know how (and in reverse, the only ways others who have approached me know how) is to be inquiring... Do you go to school?/What did you study?/Where do you work?/What do you do?/Are you married?/... Is there a way to make friends with stranger and avoid this awkward interview process?

I'm 14. I've been feeling kind of misanthropic lately; I can't stand my friends, family, etc. I used to get good grades, now I'm nearly failing. All I do is watch movies and play games on my computer. I never talk to my family, even when they strike up a conversation, I tend to keep the conversation to a minimum. I have smoked weed for three years of high school, now I've tried LSD blotters, a tad of columbian flake. I've had dreams of shooting up my school, murdering my teachers close up and personal, leaving the country to live on an island all alone. I'm not a nihilist, goth or emo, or any of that. I have no set philosophical view of the world, I just kind of despise it all. See no purpose of living. Why not just leave and never come back? If someone could give a definitive and genuine reason to live, maybe I'd try again. Or maybe I'm just a pussy who needs to grow up, and maybe it's just a phase I'm going through, that everybody is secretly goes through. Should I really bother going to a therapist? Am I really a young Ted Bundy, or am I just like anyone else?

this boy named eddie. so hes freaking annoying anf clingy and hes a liar he uses ppl to get his way. He wants people to like him but he doesn't understand that the impression he leaves is the impression he gets. He doesn't know wen the limit is and hes disgusting. Wen I was his friend, wenever I wouldn't do somethin for him, he would blackmail me and tell everyone I am a bad friend. I bought in on that and I always did wat he asked me to do. I was his slave. He is gay, he has a crush on his boy and the boy is straight so he doesn't like him bak. eddie always complains and tries to make the guy he likes like him bak. He has quotes which are depressing about the boy not liking him bak. Bc of the guy not liking him bak, and him not having any friends, he actually has the nerve to feel sorry for himself and wants to suicide. Oh, he told me to go kill myself once cuz he was mad at me. Hypocrite.even tho we aren't friends I'm nice to him. I tell him theres people starving, people who hav cancer etc, and he actually has the nerve to feel sorry for himself? wat a *****. anyways he always complains about his problems, wants sympathy and hes an attention whore, hes not going through anything significant wat s over. U know how people cut? Wen people cut they are ashamed so they hide it. But just for sympathy, eddie tried to cut in class in front of everyone with a pair of scissors. CLearly he was doing it for sympathy. He needs a therapist but hes too pussy and hes scared he wants to suicide but hes scared and he doesn't want any help from proffessionals oh I forgot to include me and my friend told the counseler but idk if shes sed anything to him

I ask cause everytime I think about Toronto I don't think of them of having handsome black guys like you would find here in the USA so what's your opinions on this or comments please let me know thanks

2 of my friend girls that I've ve done minor sexual things with tell me that they love me. Do they like me more than a friend or is it just friendship

She used to be my colleague. She and I developed friendship 6 years ago when I went through hardship in my life. She was really nice. She treated me with nice acts/things, we hang out and she included me with some of her good friends (my acquaintances) in events. I felt cared for and included. Don't know why, as my situation got better a year or two later, she became distant. Slowly it got to the point that I was obviously excluded while I was trying to be part of them. I wanted to be part of them especially when the event was about her, then I wanted to contribute just to show my appreciation. But I felt I forced into her circle. She and a close friend of hers (and a friend of mine because of her) took me out for my b-day 3 years ago constantly talked to themselves to the point I couldn't get in the convers. The next year, I tried to refused the invite, but she somehow got me together. But then the same thing repeated. This year she was leaving job and she didn't even say happy b-day to me anymore. Thinking of her on Christmas, I texted her Merry Xmas in the morning, but never heard from her. She makes me feel awful and betrayed. I'm a private person and don't talk around about my problems. She is the one I opened my heart and I feel hurt with what it turned out.

I'm 28 years old and I still live at home with my parents but I will be moving out once I finish school. I will be going back to college in February I do work. My parents keep getting on my case about me going on a trip. I'm planning to go and see my bestfriend in Mississippi. They keep saying I'm lying because I did last time. I told them I was meeting my bestfriend in LA but really I went to meet a guy that I met online. This time I really am going to see my bestfriend in Mississippi but I am also flying out to LA to see the guy again. How do I keep my parents from finding out I'm in LA? I wish they would just stop giving me a hard time. My mom is going to be calling me once a day I'll only be in LA for two or three days. Is there any way I can keep them from finding out? Should I just go?

So, I go to church almost every week and we have a youth group that has gotten incredibly smaller over the years. As a kid youth group was incredibly fun, and I had a bunch of friends, but around the age of 13 things started to change. I became more isolated there, and I was extremely awkard. I would overthink all my actions, and felt judged by my peers. Now some of you might say its because of hormones or just being a teen, but my social skills were fine at other places. it was just unbearably awkward at church. So back to the present, im 15 years old and don't go to that church that often because of how awkward I feel when I am there. Any tips as to how I can reconnect with these people, or how I can overcome this awkwardness would help??

so i was at my friends and he has a glass shower door and thought i would leave a suprise for his mom and i ejaculated all of the glass door now i regret it

My bestfrriend works at this job, but only over the vacation. There is a possibility that she can work after the holidays if the boss likes her enough. She told me that this girl walked to her store and applied to the job. She gave her CV and said give it to the boss. My friend said that she wanted to throw her application and CV away. She did not want competition i dont want to have a bestfriend like that. What do you think? She is arab and a muslim.. This is not the Islamic way to act. If she treats others like that, then she will probably see me as an threat too. I dont want mean friends I WANT SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY I said to her: Why do want to throw it away? Why didnt you give it to the boss? She said that she gave her CV\Application to the boss.. but I doubt it

Am a shy girl and guys in college always stares at me and stand waiting for me to talk to them. And if I didnot they assume I dont wanna talk to them. What should I do? How do my make guy friends. I don't wanna talk first

I'm male of 19. i have never s** and hand p****** in my life. But now a days whenever i talk to my Friend which is a girl, i feel wetty. Even sometimes i feel nothing and i have drops coming out from ****. Please! tell me what is this happening to me? how to stop it? I just want to be her friend. how to control all this stuff??? In a day if i talk to her on sms 2 times in morning and in evening i feel wetty both times. Please! help...

We've been friends since kindergarten and always have been the most sweetest innocent person I've ever known but middle school had an effect on her. She's 12 and I'm turning 13 on New Years.We're in 7th grade.She has told me that she was jealous of me because of me being outgoing and my looks so I helped her get a little bit more social and I told her I wish I was her at times. 7th grade started and this new girl came and she's just..oh my goodness. She's like Regina George and Sadie Saxton from Awkward. But a new person when she's by my best friend. They started hanging out more because they're in most of their classes I only have 2 classes with my bestie and 0 with that girl. And I get so jealous when I see them together in lunch taking selfies,laughing,and what not and they sit in front of me most of the time.My boyfriend tries to distract me and I told him about her and he said nobody stays the same and told me to find a new best friend there's so many people out there like her in the past.But that's hard and nobody's like that. Over time she started dressing like her with these tight jeans,crop tops,SO MUCH MAKEUP, and SO MUCH BOY DRAMA, even she gets in trouble. We don't talk anymore but if we do its short sentences. She's changed so much and she doesn't even realize it. We walk right past each other without saying anything,like total strangers.I also over heard that she had sex with this really bad kid and I don't even know anymore.I know this isn't her,what do I do?

Ever since we were little, "Bob" and I have been very close friends. We're both seniors in high school now and and lately I've been drifting away from him. Our friendship was basically on video games, but now they just bore me and I've stopped playing them. And now that I don't play games, I'm starting to see how Bob really is. The way he treats things, the way he treated his ex gf, and he does so much other stuff that, since we don't hang out anymore, I just feel like I don't want to be such good friends with him anymore.

My guy friend and I got into the worst argument we ever had. We just started kissing and it was good for a little while, but every time we were around one another, all we wanted to do was kiss one another and that was it. Our argument was a lot of back and forth and he said, You hurt me when you said it would never go past friends when I want so much more with you than just friends. I came back with because I'm not just wanting a kissing relationship and more with you at the moment. He's really good looking and I just don't want to move further past friends because I don't want to ruin my friendship with him, if we were to ever get into a relationship with each other. He doesn't seem to understand that and asked me to leave. When I got home, my phone was blowing up in text and voicemail messages from him. One was I can't believe that I'm calling you after you hurt me in the long run. All I want is a dating relationship with you. If you ever get the nerve to call me, let it ring because that's my heart hurting because I desperately want to be with you. Then he hung up. Another one was If you think you would lose your virginity to me, I respect you enough to wait for you to be ready and if its not with me than I pray that you find a guy that respects you like I do. I'm not wanting sex from you. I'm just wanting to be with you and to show you what real love is. Real love? Come on he wouldn't have left me a voicemail like the one he did before this one if it was real love that... he was after. I respect that he cares about me enough, but I'm a virgin because I value myself and not going to give it to someone who I'm only dating because he wants to take me to bed and go onto the next girl. I want a man that is the one and will be with me forever not just a one night thing and that be it. I don't want to come to conclusions but I think he is just saying it just to say it and he doesn't really know what he wants from me. I texted: Can we meet up tomorrow and just talk about this. He respond: Its you're world, I just live in it. I said: Fine be a stubborn ***. I've taken this far enough as it is not my fault. If you know what real love is then you'd be meeting up with me and not giving me an attitude job. He texts back: Fine meet me at the pier tonight at 6 and we can talk

I am 16 an a freshmen cause I failed my skool 2 years in a row so now my friends don't even want to hang out with me any more. I didn't get nothing for Xmas cause my dad won't buy me any thing until I am passing my skool but I failed all 7 of my classes this term. I don't want to be a freshmen any more I want to be a junior like all my friends! An I want to have passing grades an have a girl friend an stuff but it nevar works out! I am so tired an exausted, my dad works me like a n*ggar slave, I have to keep my room clean take out the garbage an in the summer I have to mow the lawn! Then I have so much personel stuff going on, like this girl on the internet that is from Russia an wants to be my girl friend, an cause she is in Russia I have to talk to her at like 2 o clock in the moarning! An even though I am a virgin their is this weird smelly chunky stuff coming out of my ding dong! An mom tries to make me bath EVER DAY an I just don't have time for that kind of stuff! Why can't they just put me in junior class an people LEAVE ME A LONE? They could give me like passing grades on stuff cause their idiots, they don't realize that the more the make me fail the longer I'll be their! Stupid idiots! Now I have diarea! So not only is my Xmas ruined an my skool ruined an my life ruined but now I may just crap my pants!

My friend always gets so angry for no reason, and she takes it out on me. She ll call me an idiot, tell me that she understands why I only had a few friends before she introduced me to my other current friends, tell me that she knows that she can insult me, and that she s going to continue hurting my feelings with rude comments no matter how many times I tell her to stop. She always complains about how everyone always upsets her, and how everyone doesn t care about her, when she s the one not caring and upsetting me! She says that I m never there for her when she s upset, but I don t know how to be. I m afraid she ll get angry and call me names again. She knows that things upset me easily, yet she still does it. But on the other side, she s really nice sometimes, and a funny person to be around. What do I do?

So, I'm a 22 yr old gay male and about two months ago, I was hanging out with a straight couple who I'm friends with. And the guy was tickling his girlfriend. She was laughing. And I said something like "Oh, I wish he'd tickle me like that!" So, at the urging of his girlfriend, he started and tickling me and, of course, I'm super ticklish all over my body. And so I laughed like crazy and he wouldn't stop for like 10 minutes. I wasn't complaining. I actually LOVED it! And he said "hey, you're even more ticklish than my girlfriend! Cool". I didn't think too much of it afterwards, but now whenever he sees me (and this is like 9 or 10 times already), he'll launch into a tickle-attack that will have me on the floor laughing hysterically. He's bigger than I am, so it's no very hard. As I say, I don't mind it. But it seems weird that a straight dude would enjoy doing that to me (at least as much as he does). And he does it in front of people. I wonder if he has another motive. Is he bi? Or does he just get off on the power? Thoughts?

A guy I used to be friends with came banging on my door. My whole family was home and I was in my room. So my father chased him and I went out after. After my father had him held down, I noticed it was someone I knew. He was intoxicated and it seemed like he got beat up because his eyebrow was bleeding. Anyways, my mother panicked and called the police. Before the police arrived, he started telling my father and I that he looked up to me. That I was like the brother he never had. And that only I understood him.  He would tell me his problems and I would give him advice but then we stopped talking out of nowhere. I'm the type of person who doesn't mind being alone so I left it as is. We hadn't spoken in like almost half a year. And now this. The police arrived, handcuffed him and started questioning him. Since he is 19 and was drunk, I don't know what happened to him. But my parents told the police they just wanted him out. So they took him. Where? I wouldn't know.  But anyways, if they didn't take him into jail, should I speak to him when he is sober? Or should I just leave it as is? It seemed like he considered me a close friend. And frankly, I consider no one a close friend or sometimes even hardly a friend. Why? Because some people are just full of lies and disappointment.

I am a 15 year old guy who dose not like being disrespected , so if i get disrespected or provoted i will fight but im skinny. I hate but im not strong as many other people so they think imma chump or something. What can i do to get stronger enough to stand up to bullies?

My dad has moved to Spain so he is out there this year for Christmas so he sent out my presents. I opened them and everything was fine but I later checked my social media and seen that my dad had brought my step sister a £900 computer and then the most expensive thing I got was my £70 trainers. I'm not fussed that she got that as I have one myself that my mum brought me for Christmas last year but I annoyed at that he spent about £200 worth of presents I do admit her family chipped in to help but still he spent way more on her then on me. His reason is that she moved out to Spain and lost all her friends but I can see via social media that she has made loads of new friends whereas I have lost my dad and now only see him once or twice a year. Am I wrong to feel this way or is it ok??

So I made a stupid tweet that said "ready to off myself after work! Holidays are killing me lol!" and my supposed friend (who had been ignoring me for 3 days, mind you) called the police. I got put in a hospital ward for 72 hours and almost didn t make it home for Christmas despite not actually meaning what I had written. What do I do? I thought this person was my ~best~ friend. Should I be mad?

I am very boring and feel like I don't have many friends. I want to have a funner personality instead of being so shy and boring. Help...? All I do is overwork myself and I don't focus on having fun. I am very shy and awkward and don't go out much, I'm still in high school, by the way. Since I'm so shy, I'm known as the "weird kid" at school and the few friends I do have tend to talk behind my back about how much of a bore I can be. I'm just tired of being a dry person, my shyness and pessimistic thoughts being the main reason. I want to not think about the "what ifs" if I talk and just do it.

They always make jokes and I play around but sometimes I feel sad because most of the stuff they say is true they say "since you don't have any friends maybe you can come with us" or "since you don't have a life what do u do" it just make me feel bad? And I have to go see them today because it's sad Christmas so and advise would be so nice thanks and happy sad holidays!

My boyfriend and I know this guy and while he's a good person and has good intentions, he strikes me as the type that tries a little too hard when it comes to friendships. He's the type of person who LOVES to talk about almost anything and everything for hours on end, will like and comment on almost anything and everything we post on Facebook, and gives random gifts maybe as a means to buy and solidify the friendship. It almost seems a little clingy and codependent on his behalf. We recognize his gestures and think he's a good enough person. It's just unclear to me personally as to why someone would feel like they have to try so hard to keep friends, make them, and maintain a friendship?

no one cares about me, and I only have one friend who moved away a while ago. I've tried to make friends but everyone at my new school already has friends and no one seems interested at all in my trying. everyday all I do is go to school, go home, go on my phone or watch tv, then go to bed. I'm so bored and all I want is some excitement and a good group of friends that care. I've had it before once, so I know it can happen, but it just feels like no one is ever interested in me. I try so hard to be the kind of person that people like but everyone just brushes me off, and so whenever I back off people ask me if I'm alright and if I say yes they leave me alone. if I say no they make fake promises about always being there and if I ever want to hang out just to tell them, but whenever I try to take up on their offer all of a sudden they can't. no boys like me and I'm friendless. what a great life I'm living.

So I don't get it ? I'm a girl and when I make a new guy friend its cool at first ( I like hanging around boys, less drama ) they all end up telling me they like me , what's going on ? I just wanna be friends :/ so I end up having to cut them off . is there a way to tell them I just wanna be friends without them getting hurt and not making it awkward ?

I was texting my childhood best friend. We haven't met each other since 3 years..so we talk a lot. We use swear words a lot and once she wasn't coming online so I was like"mothereffing hoe..where are you?" And her mom saw it. I mean Ik her her mum since I was a kid and even she knows me. she's like"don't talk to her now and all" I fee so damn guilty.... I didn't know that her mum would check her messages. I feel so bad now. She's also friends with my mum ...So I'm screwed I guess. I mean she's my bff so I can talk to her anyway I want. How will I know that her mom will check her phone.?!

In 2010 I met someone on a dating website and after months of emailing and online chatting I was inspired to meet her, she lived in Brussels, Belguim which is only a two hour train ride from London. We did meet and it was nice and we did keep in touch afterwards. A year later I had planned to visit her again but my emails got ignored. I once got a reply " I know your upset, I didn't mean to hurt you or treat you bad". The way she treated me was cruel and hurtfull. We still keep in touch but haven't seen her since 2010. I'd still like to visit her but I believe this will never happen. Today she revealed on FB that she's in a relationship and now I want to end the friendship. Since 2011 I have pondered ending the friendship because of the way see treated me but couldn't because it was her but I deserve better.

Hi, I have this girl in the office who I like and has expressed her interest in me on Facebook through pictures. Everyone in my friend list now knows about this and supports it, by posting pics, posts, messages, etc. (she is still not my friend on fb) She has previously indicated that she wants me to have a better job, (we are working in a startup, which i joined through my friend) but I haven t clearly spoken anything to her, although I asked her out for a coffee and she refused it at the time. All friends on facebook are expecting some progress including me, I just need to know how to proceed, coz its definitely going to take a long time to get a new job. how should I handle this situation

I find that a lot of people at school seem to be intimidated by me. I ve mentioned this to one of my friends who, agrees that everyone finds me scary but isn t sure why, either. I m fairly intelligent, and top a few classes (honestly, not just an attempt to brag, sorry) and am in performing arts (dance, drama, music) but am not great at sport or am overly popular. I do use sarcasm for jokes quite a lot, but never maliciously or against anyone, and I don t think I m that rude to anyone, either. This makes things difficult in new classes, most people (especially boys!) don t want to approach me. This became really obvious this year when I had been helping a fairly *popular* girl with maths, and she told me that she d always thought I was intimidating, because I was so smart. I don t try to rub anything in people s faces, but I don t hide that I m good at schoolwork either. What can I do to appear more approachable to my school mates?

I don't want attention, I'm just...I just need advice someone to talk to. everybody I know I have come to hate, nobody cares I could say 'I'm going to kill myself' and they wouldn't do anything, no REALLY. People seem to say that you just got to tell someone and everything will be fine. But it's not that easy-not where I live. I was a good person when I was young, so kind but lots of stuff happened it's like a long story and I don't even know anything anymore (I'm not just saying that for attention) I'm stuck in this stupid country I got passport problems. I hate my family I hate everybody. I want to die. I'm sick of all of this. I've had so much pain for years and I'm done.

Me and my friend want to run away from home and go to a random country in europe. We have the money and everything. But how do we travel without our parents knowing? We just want them to think were missing/kidnapped

I am really confused by this. There is this female friend I have that seems to act jealous when I'm talking to other girls. The thing is she friend zoned me. I used to wanna date her but she wanted to be just friends. That's understandable but what confuses me is the fact that even though she doesn't wanna hook up she still tries to push other women away from me. It doesn't make any sense. For example at a party or something and I'm flirting with another girl she will go out of her way to interrupt us. One time I was "in the act" at a party upstairs and she barged right in the room. What is her problem?

I need a friend who can be my ally to have my back when no one does

It maybe long story...  So I met this girl on social networking site..and we become best of friends.. We use to talk everyday.. She use use to say I'm the nicest,kindest and sweetest guy Eva...one day i said to her do my everyday message disturb you..she said "no not at all they are necessary and beside I only like to talk to 3 people everyday including you"then recently everybody started making band college's and dedicated them to there friends including her...and it made me jealous that I as friend never did it...then she was going through hard time and I decided to make Collage's for her to make her happy...she use to say" I love it..it was heartfelt and your the most thoughtful individual"then one day she said "look I know you mean well.but these posts are getting me unwanted attention" then I said I'm sorry for that..then her last reply was"I hope best for you.I don't have time for drama. I hope you will find happiness one day.but I need to say goodbye and then she blocked me"then I tried to move on until yesterday she like my post and my comment...and she never use to make post for anybody but she did for her friend who BTW was a girl..I don't get it she didn't wanted to talk to me why did she liked my post and comment or was it by mistake..  And one more thing she is not my age she married and has a kid.  And one more thing she is not my age she married and has a kid.I have to nothing with that she was my first best friend..yeah I don't have friends... and get this there was this guy who use to follow me I also followed him blocked me the same day she did..I don't know what I did wrong or somebody said anything to her that made her do that..  and I'm sure I was not being clingy cuz she by her self said all the messages were necessary.. Does she want to be friends again or she by mistakenly liked my post and comment...and also what made the friendship came to an end at the first place...I don't understand that...plz help. She also one said I was important to her..and said to me that don't ever leave me..she care about me lot..was that all fake...and we live in different countries... She recently like my other comments too..

My cousin and I don't look alike yet everyone keeps telling us that we do. Why can't I see it? I mean we're literally the opposite.

I'm not usually bullied or anything but there is a group of cool kids in my school that make fun of everyone and yesterday they were bullying a shy girl and making fun of her hair and I went up to them and told them to stop and get out. Then they started calling me a fat pig and told me i was blind because of my glasses. I have low self esteem so I get hurt easily. I just ran home crying :( I don't know how to get more strong because every little insult i get hurts me, even If someone says "shut up" I feel embarassed all day..

I got my iPad 2 on the summer of 2011, I ve had it since then and it has been my most prized possession. A day or two ago, I talked my father into buying me the new iPad Air 2 and he got it for me. As soon as I get home I start feeling incredibly guilty...Not only did I spend so much money on something I didn t need, but it felt like betraying my best friend. Which is silly because iPads are inanimate objects...Just still...This iPad 2 that I m using to write this is question is probably my pillar of strength, it doesn t give me the human to human experience but...I don t know...Something about moving on to a newer iPad nakes me feel incredibly sad somehow. Can anyone help? Explain what I am feeling? Will I get over it?