I've been told by many women on this board that the only "honorable" path to excessive lovers is going wild before marriage. Somehow, modern women have convinced themselves that gorging yourself before you make this super promise of marriage is seen as honorable. Let me break it down in vulgar terms so its more clear why I have difficulties understanding women logic. 1) Consume an entire bag of dix to no end before marriage and call it "the past" 2) Super promise to some chump. 3) Proudly boast about how "the past" has made you a better woman and wife How is this honorable again?

Here: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20200217195040AAZArlj&guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly9sb2dpbi55YWhvby5jb20v&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAADTp840EYU_XPsqsHBfcp0KBQpLjv7ejr6Rn6XW6zpwgcm5eCKg3da4d5bE-isUYRExj39hAQl4-tCLjqOipXfQcG712oU7Gc_nKlbNN5GDZARUHY-WM8-YiMm7d2_KD19Mj1RLyfY_XJBWOpprFnmrTxwvrHxZOWxWLKDCt0Yhl The ladies are all:  You go tiger!  Come and get it! But Xavier ask and all I get are false statements about my mental health. Why? I'm not the one with excessive previous lovers. They be all:  NO, not for U my fren!

My friends told me I was a gold digger and materialistic because I want a certain wedding ring and  if my boyfriend can't afford that one or wants to get me one that he prefers, I don't want one. They said I should be grateful that I found a man who even wants to marry me that I should take any ring and that the ring is irrelevant and my focus on it shows I don't truly love him. So...people of Yahoo, who's wrong?  I knew yahoo was the wrong place to ask. Let me find some sensible people. 

I havent seen him in like eight hours and I am starting to miss him romantically. I really need him so much.

My daughter likes a guy from the U.K and wants to get married. She would be moving there but the wedding would take place in the U.S. Would they be able to obtain a marriage licence? Or would he need a certain type of visa? Also would she be able to get U.K citizenship easily? I want to avoid any complications and want them to be happy. Thank you!!!

For many years my relationship has been becoming a rollercoaster. He is very generous and caring on a general level but over the last couple of years I feel he his temper and ego have grown a lot, and I am always left hurt by his criticisms. Recently we got into an argument. I was trying to bring my needs to his attention. He did talk about meeting them but then we argued anyway and he eventually said "you know i think we are just two kids who have been through a lot of tough situations. You've made more blunders than most people. Any other guy would have left you." I was very upset but it wasn't registering with him." I had a rocky past during our relationship at university where I failed and went back and completed a degree. I am working now in finance/law. I said to him "I don't know why you have to bring up my past when I am moving on" and he tells me I have not moved on. Then he blocked the door so I couldn't leave the room. Last year I suggested moving for a new job I wanted to apply for and he told me no, I must know I am not smart enough and that I think I'm better than what I am. This went on for 5 hours. He apologised after and said he will be less harsh. But our recent argument (above) makes me think he has not changed. It's dragging down my self esteem and I am contemplating moving out. I am not sure how to go about this on case he blocks the door as we work the same hours. Any advice on this? 

I met a girl who lives with her husband but says she's separating from him. She says the husband is seeing someone else and that she has to keep living with him because they signed a lease together. She also told me they sleep in separate rooms and they are friends. However, Every time the husband is around her she can't seem to talk to me, but when he's away that's when she calls. I have delayed my day for her twice now and she says she got into a fight with her husband so she didn't feel like talking and hasn't responded to me. She told me she is not interested in getting serious right now which I get but it drives me nuts that she doesn't respond and delayes our plans. Only calls me when the husband is out of town or is not around it's weird. I'm trying to be understanding but I also don't want to be played.  She gets very flaky and it worries me that she could be lying and using the husband as an excuse. Should I end things with her?, I want something serious so I don't see the point of continuing to see her. Please I need some advice 

Nobody better say I m overreacting because this is WEIRD. It s a difference between loving your daughter in a fatherly way and loving her in a incest way. I notice he seems to be a bit jealous of her boyfriend and acts kind of weird when he s around. He s been around for 6 years. I noticed my daughter doesn t show affection to her boyfriend while he s around either. When I m around she will hold his hand but when my husband walks in the room her face turns pale and she immediately drops his hand. My husband told me " you know our daughter is a real special girl" and then he looked back at him and said " you know you are really special". I looked at her and She looked very uncomfortable. I notice a couple of times his hand would graze over here and I thought it was by accident but then I notice it kept happening. I also notice how my daughter used to visit us all the time now she hardly ever comes over and I asked her why and she sound like she was crying over the phone. She said " mom I just don t feel right". Couple of weeks ago the entire family was in the room and I said I want to go to one of those drive through Movie theatres and she said her and her boyfriend go a lot and that I can accompany them and my husband flipped out about a topic so old and irrelevant and ruined the good mood. He said " you better not ever accuse your mother of eating your food ever again." He was telling at her. Keep in mind she had already apologized to me and this was about a months ago.

Few of us were at this guy's house having fun doing something we all have in common. We're all friends and married. His wife did come to greet me but then went upstairs and eventually went to sleep. I came last and when I came, he took my jacket, brought me chair. When it was time to go home, others had their jackets on their chair's back and started to leave. I wanted to move my chair since it was blocking the door. He said:" No, don't you do that, I will". He brought my jacket when all the rest were already out and hold it for me and help me to put it on. He asked if I want something more to drink or eat. I didn't want to since it was past midnight and we would stay alone, he walked me out of the house and we kept talking for few more minutes after others were gone.

I was thinking of going back to Atlantic City NJ for a two night trip (plus I have a gaming voucher that has $15 on it that will expire one year from our wedding honeymoon trip when we went) just to get away for a while. I dont want to book the trip yet but does that sound like a good idea? Any other ideas? We dont drive but we take the Greyhound bus which works for us! Or any ideas we can do at home? We live in NYC

I want to care about my marriage again. I want to unlearn  "feelings" so that I will feel less numb and be able to appreciate all types of feelings. I see the future with him and I love him. Simultaneously, I find myself dwelling in bitter past - recalling moments and remarks of him mistreating me. (he verbally abuses me)  I mention of things that he did/said, and he just tells me I victimize myself and does not apologize. 

So I am at this department store wandering through the ladies section.  I notice a whole lot of "body positive" imagery on the posters.  I mean they putting up the enormous posters full of women with very unflattering angles and looks.  Even the mannequins are heavy set.  This isn't even mentioning all the forced diversity. What kind of message does this send to you ladies? I finally make it to the dudes section and there aren't any fat guys on the walls or fatty mannequins to display the clothes. I demand equality!  I feel oppressed.  Who do I complain to?

Hey atleast we arnt cheating 

Ladies, I'm thinking of turning over a new leaf.  However, all I have are negative thoughts. I mean, I go out to try and have a good time and a lot of you....got dam my eyes.  What happened?  I know you could not have been this wrecked from the beginning.Take a look at the mirror before you go out.  If you don't like what you see, please work on it (the gym, the style, the face, etc) and I can work on my attitude.Try to look your best at all times.  Remember, the first impressions matter.  This for your own good. You are welcome. Remember the saying "it's what's on the inside that counts" is no excuse to be a slob.

me and my husband separated about 8 months ago. I filed for divorce and he moved out. My husband's brothers wife (my sister in law) and I was very close. we spoke everyday. I leaned on her during this time for support. She told me all the time that what we spoke about stayed between us and whatever was to happen with us and our husbands, that we would always be "sisters".  As i moved forward with my life after filing for divorce, i reconnected with an old male friend. He confessed he liked me. I confided in my sister in law as i always did. We met for dinner and i told her about this new guy. a week later my husband throws all this new information about the guy in my face in which i told him to mind his business (i filed for divorce because he cheated). The only person that knew about this guy was my sister in law so i confronted her. She says that her husband and her were arguing and that in the midst of their arguing he snatched her phone and went through our messages and thats how he found out about the guy.What are the chances that could be true or is she trying to fool me? i have since reconciled with my husband but refuse to talk to her. am i wrong?

When did it occur to the writers that he needed a wife and how did this even come up?

considering the fact that they did'nt discuss about past sex lives among them? Will that make her laugh from inside?

They want their wives to nurture them.

See ladies, I'm not all negative. I'm only blunt when I need to be. This past Valentine's, my woman won my heart all over again. You should have seen her with her heels, black dress and impressive physique of wonder woman. Ladies, I've been married a long time and regretting it. She turned it around for me. If you cannot do this much, you have no business being married. So my question to you: How you stay married so long and not expect your dude to not get bored with those stale looks?. At least you should be using all that excessive disreputable history to your advantage....

He gets really chapped lips that start bleeding. Is that normal?

I was invited to my wife's daughters Quincenera. Then my mother in law had talked to the mother of the ex husband which passed away a couple years ago. Saying that if I go they will all leave the party?!? I have never met them, So for me to know this hurts. I've been with her and around them for 3 years. I need advice thank you