What are your opinions on people who feel no shame about the bad things they've done to others yet they feel like they're the victim when the person they've wronged is confronting them about their behavior, they also don't want to admit what they did was wrong and gets upset with their friends/acquaintances when they see things from another perspective?

Do that mean i am scared of them! Because i do have anxiety and i overthink. I think being bullied in my childhood still haunts me everyday now that i'm older.

Today at school, I decided to break out of my quiet shell and talk to my classmates siting next to me. The guy next to me was like "do you have a boyfriend because If you did he would be one lucky guy" and the girls siting in my class winked at me. And I felt good about myself. The girl next to him was like "my name is amazing" and my twin sister is so wise. I ended up telling her what they said and she told me "how dumb are you? Don't you know, can't you see they were making fun of you" "the dude literally was laughing at you" and the girl tried to throw something at me but I dodged it. How come you didn't see the signs" . She told me " the dude who told you that has a big crush on me". I thought people could like me as a friend. Now, I feel very sad for being naive. Since those girls always make fun of my sister. How do I even know it's true?? I just want to self harm again tonight.

I go to my friends house a lot. I usually remember to bring my pajamas this time I didnt. His mom wanted me to wear some her shorts. They are her cheerleading shorts from when she was at school. They are very small on me. I said that, and she said it doenst matter cuz I'm just sleeping I them. She said if i dont like it then i have to go home so I wore the. I don't get why I cant just sleep in my pants. I'm mad and dont want to go over again 

I recently moved schools and I think I have some amazing friends but at my old school I had some pretty toxic friendships. I genuinely thought they were good people to start with but now I realise they were abusive and manipulative. I keep finding similarities between my new and old friends and that worries me. My current friends are actually nice to me unlike my previous ones. If they to turn out to be like my last ones I really can't walk away, I barely know anyone I'd just like to be prepared if they do. How can I stop feeling this way and learn to trust them.

I know I just asked this question but I wanted to go into more detail with it ok what does it mean when someone says you're a mess after you say something and you know the person likes you and thinks you're nice. Are they meaning it in a nice way? 

I am the only guy in my high school AP physics class. My classmates are all good friends of mine. Most days a few of them ask me for help with their homework so I help them in the library after school. They really appreciate the help and on Fridays they bring treats that we share. They call this is a mini thank you party for my help. We all have a lot of fun doing this. Some times they give me a hug and say thank you and sometimes they give me a kiss on the cheek and say thank you. The problem is these girl's boyfriends are mad a me for being so close to their girlfriends. They tell me to stay away from their girlfriends. I don't think they have any reason to be mad at me. The girls ask for my help. If they don't want me helping their girlfriends, they should take this up with their girlfriends shouldn't they? Am I doing something wrong here by helping these girls?

What does it mean to call someone a mess? And is that a good thing or a bad thing? 

There's this girl I befriended because we hadn't talked since middle school, and I remembered her being a great friend. So I started talking to her again, and at first it was great and it felt like I had a friend again, but as time went on, she's just become so annoying. I'm not good with things like this, but I just can't stand her anymore. I've tried distancing myself from her, but when I move away she moves with me. I don't enjoy being mean or hurting feelings, but I think I have to, I just don't know how to tell her. 

If she was your roommate? Shes anti-social in the morning. Very smart, artist, gamer. going to school for graphic design. keeps the house clean and prepares health conscious meals for everyone. Very inspirational and always brings fun to even the dullest situations. She has btch face, and is anti-social... but not in a "awww shes shy" way....more in a "I have more important things to do than deal with you" way. But ultimately shes not really bitchy and expects others to treat her the same way... strict family I assume. ( you learn shes actually a great person behind the mask) She pays her fair share, and treats everyone like they are family... she expects them to be on time for her dinners and not in their rooms. She also cleans a lot...and btches a lot when others leave messes. She always has a lot of money and social influence... she is not social but her small group of friends and associates are typically in influential positions. Also... when parties are being planned... people make it a point to get her to come. Because if she comes...more people come and more interesting people. Especially women. On the flip side she can be passive aggressive... not cleaning up after you and then getting the whole house to side against you, an example. Also, she pays for the internet, cable, disney, hulu, netflix etc. And she is not afraid to use them as leverage in getting her way Could you do it? Could you have this roommate and be at peace?

I am a 28 year old woman from India who has lived in the country for 3 years. I have 4 close friends(22-25) who were my house mates and since ive been in the country they have truly supported me. I am the odd one out of my friends, they are 5'2-5'4 petite white women, yet I am 6'7 300 pound dark skinned brown woman. This has been an ongoing insecurity since they would continuously date many attractive guys, yet I would be getting rejected.  Now they all have boyfriends who are all 6'0-6'3 muscular white men, around their age. They have all been in relationships from 10-16 months. My friends still treat me the same, and still truly care for me like a friend. On top of that,  I get along well with their boyfriends and they seem to respect me. Our friendship has grown stronger if anything. But even though I should feel happy for having such supportive friends I still feel insecurity around them. I have gotten more self conscious about by height and weight, being both taller and heavier than everyone in the group including their bfs. Ironically I am more self conscious about my race and cultural differences even though I am more assimilated.  I spend alot of time around them so I want them to understand my insecurities, inorder to strengthen our friendship.  I mean "lived in the US for 3 years" 

my best friend lives an hour away, and i only see him and his brother who is my other best friend once a month.We are all teenagers. Since we can only hang out a few hours a month, i spend every second i dont see him missing him.how do i cope

My best friend and her gf have an apartment together. They fight a lot and my friend always has bruises. Whenever they break up they cry a lot, then try to work things out, but it keeps getting worse. Today her gf kicked their apartment door and broke the door frame. Their neighbors then called the cops. They physically fight all the time but feel like they can't live without each other, but they can never seem to have a civilized disagreement. I step in to protect my friend. Her gf thinks I like her because how protective I am of her and I always show up for her. I'm worried because my friend is becoming mentally damaged, but won't let go of the relationship. It's. Becoming too much but neither one of them will block the other person. So my friends gf is now threatening to come to my friends job and do crazy ****. What should I do because I truly love my friend, but she always runs back because her gf mentally broke her down, now my friend depends on her gf for everything. I had to pull my friend out of the apartment the cops left and told them go separate ways. But they both fake left and came back, and wanted to talk, but things escalated. Now her gf thinks I'm dating her. And my bet friend is telling me I should have left the situation a lone, because her ex now feels that we have something going on secretly. I'm honestly torn to see my friend put up with this, and be dependent on her gf. What y'all think