At home, I could just go in the other rooms

Just wondering 

 my roommate and I are both 20. He knows everything about me. He used to be REALLY hostile at my boyfriend. I blew him on our couch and that made him weirdly upset. Last year his roommates had loud sex all the time. He didn't care. When I do, he teases me or gets annoyed. One time I accidentally flashed my boob in his direction. He basically looked at it and smirked at me and didn't say anything. I then yelled his name and said don't come in but he didn't hear that part and saw me completely naked. He teased me for that. He brings it up occasionally in like a weird complaint way but my friends said it seems like he actually enjoyed it bc they heard the conversation. But that's just what they said. Again he knows everything so he knows about my sex w my bf and I was like "I'm really not that freaky" and he said "I don't think you know how freaky you are" in a weird voice. Once he said "I feel like your father" because he had to get something for me. I told him he should get his haircut with my bf and he said "why? Do you want me to look like him?" He makes me tea when I'm sick and is overall just a good friend to me. I put on an interesting coat and he like giggled, readjusted my collar that was really close to my neck, and took some pics of me on his camera. He makes jokes about how my bf hooks up with him and likes sex better with him than w me. Idk we make jokes about weird things. I had a bunch of condoms I wasn't going to use so I gave him a few and was like here. He got rly offended and I'm not sure why. He goes on dating websites but puts in very little effort.  

My sister and my brother in law split up after 6 years. I get it, people split up, but this new girl Shay got hired where my brother in law works. One of my friends works with him, she said he and Shay would stop talking whenever someone else comes around, and she saw them hugging outside.  Then, within 3 weeks of splitting up with my sister, saying he wanted a divorce,   he and Shay started openly  dating. Isn't 3 weeks quick to move on if nothing was happening before? My sister believes that she's just the rebound, and that he'll want her back.  To me it sounds like something must have been going on before. 

As long as she was spending money all the time she was happy. Now for the last couple of weeks that I have put her on a no buy because she has a shopping problem she acts depressed . I'm not trying to be controlling but her shopping was out of hand and we were about to lose this apartment my dream is to own our home because I'm tired of apartment living but we haven't been able to get approved for any houses she maxed out so many credit cards no one will let us get a house.  I'm 38. She's 30.Neither of us are rich. I'm a pharmacist tech and shes a retail employee.This woman was spending $500 a WEEK. My wife only wants to sleep all day everyday she stopped pursuing her hobbies, her sex drive has gone down the toilet and she wears stain and odor filled clothes everywhere. She was abused when she was younger so I don't know if this contributes to her mabye having bipolar disorder. Part of why she said she had to get married to me fast was because she was trying to escape an abusive household. 

My 2 year old son doesn't enjoy much time with my wife. I have noticed that he is still calling out for her and still enjoys playing with her but is attached to me and to his grandpa a lot more. Sometimes when my wife kisses my son, he will get upset and started saying mum mum and then break out crying. When it's bed time, she turns off the light and brings him to the bed. He will start crying his head off and needs to be rescued to either myself or FIL. He enjoys playing and mucking around with my wife but I have noticed she tends to spend most of her time with her head buried in her phone responding to clients for her job. What could be causing him to become so distressed at her kissing him? Can kids pick up when their parent is "bad" or has an evil aura? I say that because my wife gets angry a lot at me and has been showing distaste for me for a while. Wondering what others think??

Me and my husband have been separated for about 4 years now and I've been procrastinating on divorce but am completely clueless on how to do it. We have no property, no children, and don't want to be together. I called a lawyer to discuss what to do but just to sit down and speak with her is $190 and I figured I would rather actually pay where I need to for fees and filing? And can someone give me a step by step what to do? I've been calling lawyers but I might not even need one? I heard I can get divorce papers from my county clerks office but also I should contact a lawyer? And then get an index number and pay filing fees and I'm confused as to who even to hand these papers to. And then I read he has to get a summons? And some extra papers? Anyway I'm completely lost on how to go about this and I feel this is what I've been avoiding for so long but it has to be done! Any and all detailed explanation are appreciated because like I said I have NO idea what I'm doing. I'm pretty sure it's going to be uncontested. I am in new york state we've both been residences of NY in the last year which I know is a requirement. I also don't want to put blame on him during this process. I'm sure he would have no problems signing the papers. I'm confused to why I can't just get the papers, sign them, have him sign them, and hand them in and boom divorce. If only it was that easy. Thanks in advance for any and all advice. 

My husband isn't romantic at all in fact he never does anything special for me ever. I had this entire night that I was going to cater to him and make him feel so special but after him going off on me about basically nothing I'm turned off from him and the romantic night I had planned. He tends to argue me down about everything and nothing. For example I can say the sky is blue and he can say no it's red!! He has to be right about everything or else he loses his mind and in sick of it. In sick of always being told my opinion is wrong. I'm working on a buisness and I told him that my friends say I'll become a millionaire and he argued me down about that saying I'm not and getting mad at me because of that. We argue all the time at the grocery store about food because he wants to live off just rice and beans and I said we need feuirs and vegetables as well. I'm going through depression right now and have been taking medicine for it and he said depression isn't a real mental illness. He said I can stop myself from being depressed. He said anxiety and depression aren't mental illnesses. He said only bipolar and stuff like that is. It's crazy that when I pulled away because I'm tired of trying to make this marriage work he all of a sudden acts like he cares. I was on the phone with a male friend who I confide in now since my husband refused to listen to me now all of a sudden my husband wants to buy flowers. Why does my husband not care unless he sees another man has my attten Just the other day he was trying to break up with me because I told him don't get comfortable and stop putting in effort. Now he's all like " i want us to work I don't want us to drift away I don't know what the hell is wrong with him but I'm sick of these on again off again feelings 

My husband' daughter is 18 years old and she lives in different city which is like an hour away from my house with her boyfriend. She didn't graduate high school and she doesn't have work. She doesn't do anything and what she does do is comes over to our house once in a week or something and get money from my husband. She doesn't have any respect to me and she does do what ever she wants. I love my husband but I don't know what to do with this situation.  Please help!!

Guys: If you were to take photos of your wife in pantyhose, would you start by taking one of the pantyhose that are in her top, un-opened drawer; and...  Would it be in Black/white? Guys: If you were to take photos of your wife in pantyhose, would you start with one of the pantyhose that are in her top drawer?

I've been having an affair with this man for a couple months and he's been making me feel good about myself. Honestly he's the reason why I haven't committed suicide. I have all these thoughts in my head about how I don't want to live anymore.I've been having the worst depression of my life and hes the only thing keeping me sane. My family is abusive, my husband is abusive, I don't have any friends. I used to cry myself to sleep every single night before I met him. Then he brought life back into me. He gave me hope and happiness and a purpose. My husband is a cold manipulative controlling and abusive man . He chooses when to love me and I just can't take it anywhere. He threatens to leave me every time he doesn't get his way. I know affairs are wrong but talking to him I feel like Is the only thing keeping me alive. I'm so unhappy with my life. I told him to promise not to tell my husband or anyone of this affair and he made me promise one last sex round. He said he's a loyal person until people break promises. I don't want to cheat again but I don't want him to stop talking to me. I need him Before him it was hard for me to even get out my bed my days just blended into one another 

So, I'll start by saying, I have a small penis. I'm about 3.25 inches hard on a good day, and 1 inch, maybe, soft. I've always been small. Now, I am married to a loving woman who has never expressed any issue with my shortcomings....and that leads to my issue. I have always been turned on by small penis humiliation. It is my ultimate turn-on. When I found out as a teen that my little brother had a much bigger penis, I was thrilled. When a girl once told me I was the smallest she had seen, I went wild.  But I have never been able to admit this kink to my wife. She is so sweet and innocent, and I am the only man she has ever been with. I don't want to disturb her. I have hinted at it. Once, when she was drunk, she admitted she had seen a picture of her sister's husband's penis, and he was bigger than me. I have brought it up many times, trying to make her notice I am aroused and even during sex, but she just tells me to forget it and that I am big.  Do I admit my kink? Will it freak her out? Is ther any shot we could work it in? Or is it best to stay quiet? Thoughts?

My wife is always being hostile over the last few months. She says and does things to indicate she is done with the marriage and wants to be left alone but then will act nice when she needs something. She is angry a lot. E.g. a basic communication today about her buying some jewellery started out ok with her asking if I would buy it for her. I said I would and she snapped and started saying she wants nothing from me and to shut up and leave her alone. Giving me the feeling that she is either emotionally abusing me or trying to constantly indicate she wants divorce. Yet if she wants divorce, she isn't actively asking me to leave the home or presenting me with papers, asking for mediation or anything else of that nature. I'm just confused at this point. All communication quickly turns hostile with her. And she won't tell what's on her mind. Certainly appears like she has some grudges and she won't go to counselling unless it's to go to mediation etc. I don't think she would do either. Chinese culture usually don't accept outside help anyway. What to do??

I mean marriage is all responsiblity and sacrifice. Isnt being single better? 

Are we required to?

We have 3 kids, 2 boys and one girl. She takes birth control and won't allow herself to become pregnant. I want at least 2 more kids and she won't give me that. We have good income and I make a lot of money. I've been treating her like crap lately since she doesn't want anymore children. She literally has an easy job as a stay at home mom and I work all day and we make good money and we can afford another kid. I told her I'm gonna cheat on her as a joke and she broke down crying but she still wasn't convinced to stop taking birth control and get pregnant. Do I have the right to divorce her and find a woman who can give me more kids?

It's your own fault you're single and bitter, so why are you mad at complete strangers?

My father is getting divorced from a gold digger. They have been together about 8 years. She has been married numerous times and we believe she has done this many times before. She falsely accused him of violence to keep him out of their house. While he was kept from entering she and her attorney broke into his safe and stole 250k of his assets (pre marital).  Including money and jewelry that belonged to my grandmother.  I have no clue what to do. And I'm afraid he his going to lose his property as well as jewelry that has been in my family for generations.  Please help!!

Why did she have to exist? My son is a kind and compassionate man. Why did my precious son have to get married? I never wanted my son to ever get married. Why do I have to share my son with her? I just want my son all to myself:( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families I tell my son to leave her just so I can have my son all for myself but he won't and he cut all contact with me and move a cross the country with his new wife what do I do? If you think that this is a troll this is not no ride comments

just because he is male does not make him superior. Relationships are equal, right? he is not my parent, but my fiance

Don't get me wrong.  I loving the ladies! It's all the hiding and misdirection of previous lovers history that really irks me. Ladies, if the past wasn't so seedy, you wouldn't have to go through all these extra steps of totally avoiding the subject. These really should be fond memories you should openly share! Here's an idea:  we can put together a book, like a compilation of seedy stories.  We can title it "Women's compilation of seedy stories before marriage".  Author Xavier S. T. P. Just imagine the catharsis you'll fell by spilling your guts in this book! Follow up book "A woman's proper marriage rules after seeing and doing it all" What do you think? P.S. I mean my upmost respect to women with this question. Corrections for the sticklers: feel not fell Utmost not Upmost

My 50 year old brother is currently going through his 2nd divorce because he has a major problem with paying escorts for sex. Well, this morning he starts sending pictures in our family group chat of him and some VERY young looking girl all hugged up. He says she's a 21 year old college student studying to be a teacher. My siblings are like WTF!!!!! He's a deacon in his church but this is who he chooses to date and be seen with. I can't wait till he brings her around our parents and just wait for that warm reception from our mom. I really think he's going through some mid life crisis. What is he thinking? At 50 years old and a deacon in your church how do you have the balls to walk in with a 21 year old college student on your arm passing her off as your girlfriend? He must want people to talk about him. Is he losing his mind?

Helooo and good morning my married frens! Xavier is urging you.  GO Now! Because of your decadence and excessive lovers history, you have earned the wrath of Garth! I promise you Xavier will survive.  And you to!

My wife has declared that she is the matriarch of the family (basically she wears the pants in the family not me) because she feels that my decisions have been too liberal and amoral so she took away my rights as an equal partner over a decade ago. Her puritan beliefs have done an "okay" job with our family (not our marriage, I've been on here complaining for years about it), but now that the kids are teens and having impure thoughts and impure interactions my wife is buckling down on them instead of letting them go to make decisions that aren't in line with her puritan/episcopal/catholic beliefs. For an example, our 18 year old recently adopted daughter wants to have a 22 year old boyfriend (very common in today's culture) and she wants to do sleep overs with them since she is a legal adult now (and on birth control). My wife isn't okay with that and has forbid it but as far as modern society says, a woman is in charge of her body at 18 and she can do whatever she wants. So her puritan beliefs are in the way of today's culture and I don't know what to do. Before you tell me to let the two of them sort it out, her puritan beliefs really hurts our marriage too. I am an agnostic modern man; I believe in frequent fellatio and kinky stuff like anal sex. Since my wife is a puritan, she believes the only "right" way to have sex is vaginal and it should only be done to make babies. If I complain enough she'll do the impure act of oral sex but I shouldn't have to beg.

have you prepared your self encase the coronavirus hits US in worse case scenario? and how.

i saw messages between my husband and one of his male staff. The message was about them talking about a "hot" female and regular customer. My husband made it clear he thought she was hot too, and that he is all over that and has "dibs" on her. The coworker, agreed and said the "hot" female was all over it with my husband too.   This not only surprised me, but made me so insecure about him our relationship and myself. I was truly heartbroken as I didnt think my husband was like.  I feel so disrespected, and so hurt. I did confront him and he said i was guy talk and thats all. I told him that he should respect me at all times and even when its guy talk. That a professional like himself and managing staff should not encourage or act this way. Its disrespectful to me and unprofessional.  He recently hired this guy as its his friend too, but I always known him to be a douche and my husband is chiming in and its making me feel so insecure. 

My daughters father lived an hour away and saw his daughter twice a week. He then moved three hours away to "live the way he wants to live". He pays $100 a week...sometimes. He gets behind because he spends his money in Nike clothes or for example, to go to Mardi Gras. He is constantly shorting me. I would like to file for support but I'm afraid I may get less than what I get now. I work full time and pay for daycare and everything she needs. He works and barely makes it. He has another child and he only pays 150 a month for him. This is in the state of Iowa. I'm also afraid that if I file, he could be able to take her with him for visitation and I'd have to meet him halfway. I don't want to disrupt her life like that. 

What am I entitled to after 8 years of marriage and 2 kids? I was a stay at home mom but but my soon to be ex set up a hair salon for me 2 years ago.... it's not making much profit...

My daughters father lived an hour away and saw his daughter twice a week. He then moved three hours away to "live the way he wants to live". He pays $100 a week...sometimes. He gets behind because he spends his money in Nike clothes or for example, to go to Mardi Gras. He is constantly shorting me. I would like to file for support but I'm afraid I may get less than what I get now. I work full time and pay for daycare and everything she needs. He works and barely makes it. Suggestions?