'It's really bad of me but I only still have a lot of the 'friends' that I do on here as their retarded statuses makes me feel better about myself.' One of my friends posted this as their status on social media. What does 'bad of me' mean here?

So, I ve recently started a new school and this upperclassman watches me a lot. he was watching me and at one point in time... I was standing up and he came behind me and he kicked my shoe from behind and was calling someone else... I turned around and I saw him... my heart beat fast... another time before he was walking past me and looked at me and called someone else... and he was rell close eh... today he was close when he kicked my shoe... you telling me it have a whole corridor and you had to come behind me and kick my shoe... so after school now I was looking for a friend with another friend and so I saw him... I was talking to my other friend and he was talking to a girl and he was watching me and like he was kind of coming close to me a bit... like I was like 1 m off or so and he started closing in a bit And then recently, this morning we were in the chapel and I looked at the screen that was off and I saw him looking in my direction and I did look around and I saw him looking at me. Another time was when break has arrived and I went downstairs withmy friends and I didn t notice he was there sitting down with his female friend... so I had Physics and as class was about to over he passed by the Physics lab and watched me and raised his hand like "Ooo (dawg)" my friends saw as well... he legit was looking back and watching me

Recently, I have a friend in my new school who I text and call. We became friends quickly. A few days ago, a friend took my phone and contacted him. He was annoyed, since my friend was rude and told he didn't have a contact name, which wasn't true at all. Later, he contacted me as usual, & confronted me about it. I explained it to him exactly what the whole thing was about, getting scared he was mad at me for it, even though it wasn't a big deal. Anyway, I gave him an apology, and left him alone for a while. Soon, he contacted me again saying we're cool. I was really happy, since before that I was getting gasses for I was worried I might lose a friend. He called me, and we resumed as we were before all that happened. We had brief text conversations after that because we were both busy that day. I returned to school, I waved to him, and he waved back, so I thought we're still friends. I even asked him something he told me about over a phone call; he said it was a prank. He does that a lot, so I didn't think much of it. After that, I pretty much left him alone so he can continue his day & his works and once smiled at him. Then, as I usually do, I text him a hello and other things. Later, he texted me to leave him alone. I was worried he was still mad about me of something I did that I didn't know. I hope he is okay, and asked if I did anything. He still hasn't responded to my text. Maybe I'm being to clingy? Maybe I did something wrong? Can you tell me what might be going on? Also, I failed to mention this wasn't the first time something like this happened. Two weeks into school he asked for my number (twice under thirty minutes), but I kindly declined since I didn't know him that well. (I had four classes with him, and the reason why he wanted my number was because every time we look at each other we smiled, remembering something funny we both went through over the days because of a classmate.) Later, he ignored me, I thought it was because of me & I ignored him... ...as well. Later, when we made up and eventually exchanged numbers, I asked him about and he said it wasn't because of me, but of someone else who irritated him and didn't feel like talking that much. The reason why I'm telling you this is because this might not about me, and just doesn't feel in the mood to talk to me right now. Still, I can't help but think it was me, although I'm not sure. Could he be playing with my feelings so I want to be closer to him and be on his good side, because... ...that's what it's starting to look like to me. One day he'll feel flirtatious and tease me, another he feels he needs to comfort me, and the other, the next give me brief and vague answers to our conversations, and so on. It feels like a cycle, and with one month, it's starting to annoy me. Maybe it's just me, though, but I really need your advice. Sorry for all the updates, just thought it would help you answering me. Thanks, & I will award best answer.

I never had luck in finding a friend who could be loyal to me. They only come to me if they need something from me or needed my help with something. But when I need someone to lean on, they all disappear out of the blue. Because of them I have trust issues in trusting new people. Should I still invest in some new friendships or give up?

My friend and I are juniors in highschool. There is this black kid who is known for messing with people. Anyway, a lot of people pick on my friend. Hes different. I think he has autism. My friend and I were working on the computers, and this kid was sitting next to my friend. He kept pushing my friends chair with his foot, slowly pushing him into me. My friend kept moving back, but the kid kept pushing him. My friend lost his cool, and said stop now you stupid "N" word. The kid kicked my friends chair real hard, and said dont call me that! I dont know. I feel my friend was in the right. If you keep pushing someone like that, then they are gonna snap. He should just be thankful my friend didn't punch him

Hi Everyone, So me and an old friend of 14 years fell out last year. She is having her wedding this year in Oct. She reached out to me this July as it was our mutual friend's birthday and she invited me to her wedding. She said to me I'm not forced to come if I don't want to and that she will regret it if she didn't ask me. I said thanks for the invite but didn't give her a definite answer. She texted me last week asking me to confirm if I'm coming and I said I don't think so as we haven't been in touch and I feel awkward as we are not as close anymore and we haven't resolved our problems. She said to forget about the past and move on and that I should come to her wedding and that I'm one of the oldest friends and she would like me to be there on her most important day of her life. I feel I will regret not going but then again I'm not close to her as I used to be I feel we are almost like strangers and I would feel awkward. What shall I do?

I have this friend who has trouble saying what she wants and speaking up for herself. However, when she does speak up for herself or says what she wants, it comes out very snappy, bossy and/or rude. I don't think she realizes her tone when she's speaking to people, and I don't know how to tell her. For example, we had a meeting and the president of our group was talking and he made a joke, then my friend said, "can we not do this right now. Let's stick to what we need to discuss." I understand my friend's concern about going off topic, however, it's ok to make a joke once in a while. The above is just one example, but I don't know how to talk to her about this, but what I do know is that I NEED to talk to her, because I personally don't like her tone either when she talks to me.

I went out with some friends this weekend and then they ended up leaving me at the bar. I remember sitting with this group of guys who were visiting for a bachelor party. I then woke up naked in one of the guy's hotel rooms and I cannot remember anything besides making out with him on the way there. I'm also a virgin so if I had sex with him, would I have felt different?! I'm so freaked out by this!!! I completely blacked out. I have no idea if I had sex with this guy. If I did, I would've been able to tell right? I can't remember anything. Also, do I have a right to be kind of upset with my friends for leaving me in this situation? They didn't even tell me they were leaving, they just left me with these random guys and I'm not even a huge drinker to begin with but we were drinking all day long

My friend is being abused by her parents in every way possible. She has really bad bruises, but won t acknowledge the situation. CPS has been called on her parents before, but nothing has been done. The situation keeps getting worse. What can I do to help without endangering her more

No matter what I do people won't leave me alone. I'm sick of it. I'm always the one everybody picks on. It makes me think there's something wrong with me the reason everybody targets me and hates me. I don't know what to do. I'm thinking about killing myself in awhile. I can't take this anymore.

So they constantly talk **** about each other and then act like nothing happened when they see each other. I hate talking **** ab ppl bc I know how it feels like but today they told me all the "" horrible "" **** I apparently said ab them and I was asking them what it was and they were like oh like keep acting like you don't know or like stuff like that.... this happens so many times and they already snaked me and stabbed me in the back multiple times, I don't know what to do and I want new friends

What shape is his head?

My partner and I have all mutual friends. Whenever they invite us to their house, out somewhere, to a birthday party, bonfire, etc. we show up. We genuinely want to. Very rarely are we not able to make one of their get togethers. We enjoy our friend's company. And our friends always wind up with at least a dozen people at their events. But, whenever he or I come up with something, no one shows. I have tried to host parties for his birthday twice now. Both years pretty much everyone bailed. He tried to get people together to his place for a bonfire, no one showed. He even provided food and drinks. It's getting to where we don't want to try to host anything anymore. I just recently tried to host a party. A handful of friends said they were going, only to bail at that day. We try not to let it get to us. But of course it hurts our feelings. And, he especially, looks inward at himself to figure out why we can't get anyone to follow through with our invites. It legit hurts him. Does anyone else have this happen? Should we even bother to invite people anywhere anymore? We're getting married next year and I'm half tempted to not invite any of our friends, if they're just going to bail anyway. I mean it is that bad...

i talk to my two best friends every day and stuff but i can't help feeling sad, I know I'm probably going to be moving outside of the US (where we live) and I will never be able to visit them. I hate where I live right now and I can't live with this anymore. I'm 14 years old also so I don't have a choice :(

So my friend wants to go on a two week europe trip but she got mad at me because I do not fully support the trip due to her financial concerns. Situationally, she barely graduated from college with thousands of dollars in student loans, helps support her family financially, just started paying a car lease, and is not in the career of her choice, working minimum wage. Her trip is going to be next year and is going to cost around $3,000. Am I so wrong to not be supportive of her choices or should I just mind my own business?

That's another question is she even a good friend for doing that?

Back in middle school I made a friend we got really close and I think about him almost every day we lost contact many years ago I wish I knew how to get in touch with him again and see if he want to get together but sadly I don't remember his last name because it was so long ago dose anybody know how I could figure this out

This is the first time I've never spoken to a rape victim. My friend is an older lady in her mid 40's. The guy that raped her at a party after their HS graduation wasn't a stranger at all. He was her closest friend from their early childhood years. A month later or so, the guy couldn't handle what he did and hung himself. So when it comes to rape, how likely is it for the woman to have known and trusted her rapist?

My boss isn't putting me to work. My wife says we're over. I'm feeling like I must have earned all this somehow, but I haven't done anything bad. How do I feel better about myself? I have some friends but nobody is close.

She was too busy to see me and she only came in for a wedding. I know she's real because we have mutual friends and enough people know both of us to know she's real. Should I avoid her? Why did she claim to be too busy to see me?

i accidentally leaked my name and state in a photo and now i'm being stalked