Hi! Im a 16 year old girl. I have maybe about 6-8 friends. But like, I get REALLY stressed even though I love them to death.  1) I get stressed if I go a day or two without talking to one of them. 2) I get stressed if they never start conversations.  3) I get stressed if they leave me on read.  4) My ex, one of my close guy friends has started leaving everyone on read and its given me a lot of anxiety. 5) One of my close friends and I ended the friendship two weeks ago and its been making it hard for me to trust since then.  How do I ease this?! Thank you:)

As immature and stupid as this will sound, it bothers me a lot that this is going on knowing we were so close. Even though I'm nervous, I wouldn't want something so close to end. To summarize what's been going on, something has happened to my best friend. I am not sure on what. It started when him, one of our close friends, and i were walking back to class from lunch. We were laughing, and joking around. Maybe I was laughing too loud? Because I wasn't saying much because I had food in my mouth, mostly laughing at the jokes she said. Besides that, all we heard after was "I'm tired of y'all". And he completely walked off, I tried checking on him after class, and after school. But he didn't want to speak to me. At lunch that day, he sat his bag on my seat so I wouldn't be able to sit with him. All of us were basically sitting in awkward silence, so to prevent it from happening again. Me and the rest of my friends moved to a different table, until he wanted to talk to us. A week later, he completely removed me from my social medias. I was devastated, because since we were so close, why was it so easy for him to leave? I have asked my friends for advice, and I've heard that we are dealing with miscommunication, and maybe I should have waited to move away from him before leaving so soon, and he probably assumes I'm the one who doesn't want to talk. It's been 2 weeks, I'm not sure if he's gonna care to forgive me or even want to talk to me. Should I approach him tomorrow? Or leave? And what makes me feel guilty is that I've been having a great time without him! I feel like he's saw me laughing, or smiling, or talking to other people. We were so close we even planned our friendship out in the future. I used to buy him everything he wanted but couldn't get. There's no way we would just stop talking out of nowhere like our friendship didn't mean anything ??  Even if I was having fun, deep down I was sad. I'd like to fix this asap, thanks for helping!

I feel envious when I see people with friends on the street and having fun, while I go alone 

My friend and I had a falling out and didn't talk for months straight. Now we are okay, but everytime we're at lunch she is always aggressive with her insults towards me one day, and then the next trying to cheer me up in her twisted way? We haven't had a talk about the whole thing, because talking to her in person is exhausted.. she is too hyper and rude in general. My friends is general kind of suck if I'm honest, she's just the bigger issue atm I meant petty in the question

Ok so heres what happened. My roommate's friend's suitemate died on the toilet, pooping, obviously. Anyhow no one knows what he ate. Obviously my roommate's friend should report it to the authorities or the coronary so that they can determine what killed him. But at this point I feel like he's getting too involved because he's trying to mask the fact that he died on the shittter to avoid the risk of humiliating his suitemate. They were very close and he doesn't want that to be the way he died. He's trying to stage it to make it seem like it was cardiac arrest. But I think he's making a huge mistake. Now he wants my advice on what I think of all of this, and obviously I don't agree with it, but I can see where he's coming from. Hes a good friend for preventing his friend's embarrassment post-mortem. But what would you do in this case? Nobody wants their friend's obituary to say he died on the can. Do you agree with masking his death or do you think its wrong? So gypsyfish you wouldn't mind if your local newspaper reported that you died on the shittter?

My girl best friend is very controlling sometimes. She knows I'm gay and Im not into girls, but she still proceeds to try to change my mind. Anyways, she says mean comments that put me down. She tells me who I can and can't talk to. I can't tell her anything or she thinks it's all about her. She loves me and I know she does, but if I don't do what she says or wants I have to hear about it for the rest of the week. Just I don't know what to do.

Say A loser feels suicidal and complains Normal people will call them selfish rude, doesn't know how much you're hurting others etc etc. It's like People with normal lives want to keep losers as their slaves it's like they want to keep them oppressed

My best friend is getting married in 3 months. They've only been dating since March 2019. She's always been very insecure. She thinks everyone is trying to steal her man (including me) at one point. She's gotten into fights with his best friend who's a female because she felt threatened. I  want to be there for her but all she does is CONSTANTLY complain about him. He doesn't do this, he doesn't do that. She HATES his mother and thinks his mother is trying to keep them apart it's insane. I love my best friend we've been friends for years but I REALLY don't know what to say/how to help her. I also found out she messaged one of my guy friends asking to hang out sometime which I found really odd. Any advice? Thoughts?

Hey, I'm a 16 year old girl and my best friend is a 16 year old boy. I ADORE him and his friendship, like i would do anything for him. I've been trying to bring it up saying things like "I really like someone but i know they don't like me back and its been hard for me to deal with" to see if he would pick up on it. He likes this girl he talks to online hes never even met.    He didn't. He asked me to spill the tea and asked me why I wouldn't tell him. Lol. His 14 year old brother is my other best friend. I only see them once a month because they live far away. They spend the night in my town once a month and we go to dinner when they do.  How do I tell him?

For example my sister is an accomplished lawyer who hangs out with unemployed pot heads, alcoholics, wife beaters, and poor welfare people that live in lower class neighborhoods. While she lives in a million dollar house by herself. She has never dated and is single. She is 35

There's this girl that i liked,    we knew eachother for almost 2 years.  she had such an amazing personality and super beautiful.  i liked her so much but she had a husband.  We were friends but she pushed me away,  later i found out she was also falling for me. I havent seen her in 1 whole year,   but i still like her and miss her.   this is making crazy and depressed,   ive gone out with alot of girls but i cant seem to forget her.   What is wrong with me????? I doo respect her marriage, and i would never doo anything to ruin that.  But why cant i move on from her :(

Hey, I'm a 16 year old girl and my best friend is a 16 year old boy. I ADORE him and his friendship, like i would do anything for him. I've been trying to bring it up saying things like "I really like someone but i know they don't like me back and its been hard for me to deal with" to see if he would pick up on it. He likes this girl he talks to online hes never even met.    He didn't. He asked me to spill the tea and asked me why I wouldn't tell him. Lol. His 14 year old brother is my other best friend. I only see them once a month because they live far away. They spend the night in my town once a month and we go to dinner when they do.  How do I tell him?

   I was born at the same time as two of my sisters...we are triplets.   But even though we are all 3 different in style and interest...my sisters are mean girls.    One is a literally like the blond from mean girls, she is at the top of food chain at our school...and the other is more on the rougher side and has rougher friends...she is the type to beat other girls up... they are a combo from hell if you are the target of their wrath. I am not a mean girl at all, infact me and my sister did not hang out in school. My friends were the nerds, gay people, and other odd people that did not fit in much with other groups. But it was pretty fun, all of my friends were and still are genuine friends.  I used to be bullied but in high school things changed.  Actually they changed the year before high school because for some reason I just had enough of it and started to stand my ground. Nobody actually knew they were my sisters because we all had different groups. But when they found out...I found myself constantly confronted with bullied kids asking me to stop me sisters.  There was a girl that ran through the school because my sister was after her to beat her up..she ran into me and begged me to stop my sister...I did get her to stop. And my other sister was bullying my friends and I did not know about it.  Until they asked me why she did not like them.   I have it sorta easy because I am a nerd related to the bullies. But why did I not end up this way? 

Its good to let go of the toxic ones, when people show you their true colors,you need to stop trying to repaint them.

Before, I used to be fun to be around and I think people liked me. I could always think of something to say when people were talking to me and it used to be a lot of fun to be around my friends, and I think they thought it was fun to be around me too. Now anytime I talk to people I'm just really annoying. Everyone I talk to thinks I'm either boring or weird. Anytime I try to joke, they just start acting uncomfortable or say something sarcastic like "well you're fun to be around, aren't you". I really miss how I used to be. How do I go back to not being awkward and annoying all the time? I've tried exercising as much as I used to, drinking as much caffeine as I used to, listening to my old music, and I've tried getting back into my old hobbies. So far none of them have worked. What else can I do?

I  was a popular member of a forum I frequent a lot for almost 7 years. I had two freaks stalking me on the site who framed me and I reported them, in revenge they set me up then spread on a well known social media page relating to the forum that I am a stalker, harasser and a mentally unstable liar. Now every single one of my online friends (10+) has blocked me - some of them I've been friends with for years. I've been banned from the forum and everybody believes them and hates me now. The two people running the page have made up a bunch of lies and set me up. I'm feeling really sad and felt so low all week :( 

What do you call someone that thinks everyone they meet are going to be rude to them? And hurt them? And especially if this person has been hurt a lot in the past 

first of all.. i hate my life and i hate myself. my confidence atm just sucks. and no i don't expect anyone's pity as it's pretty pathetic. and i have a friend who (although she too goes through her own struggles too) has this really cool and fun life. she has tons of friends, gorgeous, goes out and has fun.. and i'm super happy for her and love that she's enjoying life. i just get so sad because i look at her on social media (we live far from each other) & her life just seems so fun. and i'm always sitting in my room, doing nothing, feeling like the ugliest person ever. and where i know thats all on me... i don't know what to do with myself. i wish i could live like her. just have a stupid and fun teenager life... but i can't get myself to. i'm a loser who has no friends and no motivation to do anything and all i do is sit around putting myself down like crazy. i feel worthless. and i have no talents so it's hard to find a hobby to get me busy doing. i have nothing going for me in life and i guess i just obsess over how my friends life is so much that it makes me sad that i can't have a life like that too. what do i do and how do i stop feeling this way. i feel so horribly disgusted by myself that i feel this way towards my friend. it's like jealousy has taken over me. but i refuse to let the jealousy get to the point where i get in the way of her life in a negative way. i always try to be the most supportive i can be as a friend. my emotions just get in the way of myself. 

A girl says she's straight and isn't into girls at all and WOULD NEVER date one. But they tell another girl "youre hot,pretty cute" "you're the hottest and cutest person ever" "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" (they don't wanna say why) and they say they love them more then they've ever loved anyone. They say they're their world. Etc. Is it a crush?