It helps that my wife is better looking than most of these broads anyway.   But they always mean muggin me.  Whey I go shopping by myself I get nothing but goo goo eyes.  Even the lesbian cashier was giving me a look of envy.  What gives?

When she was living in our house my husband was buying her food now she's living with her boyfriend and he's buying her food clothes everything. I talked to him face to face but it seems like nothing is changing. She went from having one sugar daddy to another sugar daddy. She will never want to work with someone else providing. She said I'm jealous of her. I'm not jealous I just tbink she needs to be indoendent.

I'm 26, a female, my mind set might change one day. I enjoy one night stands & hooking up with men & women, I'm a lone wolf, I can't imagine myself being in a longterm relationship. I'm not sure if my up bringing had anything to do with it, I have 6 siblings in their mid-thirties & late-forties, only one of them has had 1 kid & my oldest who's 46 got married last year & hasn't planned on having kids.

I been wanting to get married to my girlfriend for a long time.Everytime I ask when is she going to propose she lies and says this year.We been together for 8 years.And I think it's time.After year 3 she kept on saying this year,this year,this year.A few years back she said i'm saving up for a ring I have like a separate account and everything.Get this I actually believed it(How stupid of me.)But it just came tonight that she's broke every month and even overdraws in her bank on purpose to buy cigs.She even goes as far as using pennies for a pack.And if she was saving she would of used the ring money.I know that bc she was 1 time saving money for her mom's bd gift atleast 80 and she said I need cigs F her gift.Smoking comes 1st in her life she has told me that.I ask tonight.I said hey your not saving ****.Bc you will go as far as using pennies for cigs plus you even overdrew this month by 80 for cigs.She said yeah I did lie.Should I be mad she says I shouldn't.

I feel like cheat on my husband since we don't have much sex anymore we lost the spark. I fantasize of me having sex with other guy. I masturbate and stuff like that. How do I stop these feelings I don't want to cheat on my husband.

My wife cries after we make love. Why does she do this ? 

I've been married for 5 years to a wonderful girl... I swear to myself, I will never cheat on her.. But there's this coworker at work who I called my work wife.. Long story short, we have been having sex for a year.. I admit, I have sex with my work wife more than my real wife at home.. I can't be the only married man who have sex with other women if given the opportunity. I believe God created a man to have sex and impregnant as many woman as possible.. If not, how come we have millions of sperm waiting to be release everyday and everytime we see women we get a hard on..  Also, I thought Kobe Bryant was perfect... (RIP).. Be was like Jesus to me.. But I've been doing alot of research and he also cheated on his wife.. Not once but multiple times with different women.. His teammates even told his wife etc.. I think all men cheat... That's what men do 

First kiss was at a park on the second date. I think she will think its romantic, but i'm not 100% on it, but also I don't know if having a fancy dinner is more romantic? Opinions or experiences anyone?

Spouses: do you kiss your partner afterwards if you go down on them? Do you kiss after sex at all?  My husband and I have been married for 8 months. We do kiss before and during sex, but not after I go down on him nor afterwards. Is this bad? 

When my sister got married she asked our pastor to take out "for worse" from the marriage vows and he oblidged.  I have been thinking of taking out obey or has that already been done away with from wedding vows...I think it was a shame to take for worse out but she is like that and the marriage didn't last as suspected.  Would you take the for better without the or for worse seems like she would have at least left out the for better also or written her own vows but she didn't.

I have been dealing with my ex-wife taking me back for more child support for more than 1/2 the year now and it's going to drag on longer as the final hearing is months away. Her lawyer wants $400 a month for her in child support. I am already paying close to $800 between child support and health insurance. I already struggle to survive as it is and struggle to keep a roof over my head and our kid's heads when they are with me. If she wins, she will leave me with $500 a month and she'll be getting about $1700 a month tax free between child support and her disability. How is someone supposed to live on $500 a month? I am also having to do this pro se as I don't have the money in order to pay a lawyer. How can I win this and not pay more? I am not trying to get out of what I am currently paying.

Sorry if this is formatted weird... Anyways my new step father and mother got married without telling me for a month. Trust me, there is much more to this so lets get into it. For starters he was married when he and my mom met. Yep that's right. He dipped his unhappy marriage when he realized how much better my mom was both financially and maybe that she treated him better. (My mom is a radiologist which definitely caught his attention). Any-who I feel as though he has sincerely put a lot of burden on me. He left his marriage and kids so that he could marry my mom and we all just move to a different state and live happily ever after. Issue is, they said it was for financial benefit but I beg to differ. There is no reason to abandon all your birth children just for a slight economic difference that's 500 miles away. We moved the summer before my senior year which means I had to ditch all my friends (and my birth dad) and try to make new ones. Well this would seem easy but the school I went to I really had to put myself out there to win friends which was annoying because I had no energy the entire year. All this is just the tip of the iceberg. I have my own full time job and school. Yet he's a stay at home dad. My mom told me he'd work and support us. It's been months all he does is constant home improvement on OUR house to pass time as if that makes any logical sense to "provide for our family." I just don't know many families who's homes require constant development. 

This question is geared towards people who didnt fall in love with someone and get married in 6 months but people who maybe after even 3 years or so still didnt know if they wanted to marry that person but still loved them deeply enough to stay with them. How did it go? Are you still together? Im young I still feel like i have alot to learn and experience but i dont want to lose this person out of my life. Im searching for people who wernt able to make a decision super quickly weather or not they wanted to spend the rest of there life with someone.

And she knows what to expect in such situation? Compared to virgin wife wherethe husband would have to be carefull and take care for her and love her while having sex so as to not hurt her or not cause her much pain? Otherwise whst benefit does the husband has if he marries a non virgin wife? Expect the fears of comparisons, STD's, getting dumped like the exes,and not being to to the mark as pet her expectations.

I was on a work trip and had drinks at the hotel bar with a co worker in Chicago. Needless to say we had sex. Even in the morning we did it again. Afterwards it was awkward. We got dressed before the meeting and we went our separate ways. I feel terrible now. My wife and 3 kids. I feel I betrayed them. Do I just bury this under the rug? 

My father always looks depressed.  I think my mothers been flaunting her promiscuous past pretty much throwing it in his face at times. I mean she's al used up and got him into the marriage trap. Everyone got a piece of her for free.  Meanwhile my father is paying the high price. Which begs the question, am I even his child?

really regret having an affair with him.. I realized the grass isn't greener on the other side. I want to get into couples counseling and go into therapy to restore our marriage. Me and my husband have had a lot of problems but one thing is for sure - he's the one person that's always had my back no matter what. He's always been there for me. I would be suicidal right now if I didn't have him. I was an orphan child and didn't have anyone... my entire life it was one mental illness after another. I've Ben diagnosed with depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, OCD. For the majority of my life I've been a mess. I had an affair with a man that made me feel good about myself but I don't wanna do it anymore. I want to turn my life around. Problem is this other man is forcing me to break up with my husband. He said he's giving me until Saturday. He said " Saturday you better show me proof that you and him are over so me and you can be in a relationship. I'm not feeling me a side piece anymore." I don't have any plans to tell my husband this. Do you think he will tell my husband. He didn't say he would tell my husband but I've been nervous and having horrible anxiety because I still feel like he will. My husband can be the best caring person ever but he has two sides to him and he has an angry shift tempered side and I honestly think he would kill me if he find out. I'm so serious.  When he is angry he is a very scary person and I told my other dude that he might kill me if he found out so Mabye he won't tel him if he knows my life is in danger? 

Someone's response to a previous question prompted me to ask. I agree most people go into marriage expecting to uphold the promise.  But this is assuming either person never changes.  At the time you make a decision like this, you're really not thinking 20 years ahead. Change is normal. Life events happen.  Sometimes marriage is not the ideal arrangement. It's like buying a house in San Fran 20 years ago.  You don't think you'd change your mind with the streets covered in feces and infested with the living dead?  Or would you stubbornly hold on to that dream? So how did you deal with it when you  opened your eyes to the marriage institution?

He wasn't like this before because they weren't married but now he is an asshole.

Last night I went to bed before my husband. An hour later, he came in the bed and pulled me towards him, kissed my forehead and started cuddling me. Then I began to give him head while he was touching me down there. Afterwards, we had intercourse and that was it. He said, "sorry I woke you up." Is it bad that he didn't kiss me after sex? 

My husband and I have been married for 8 months. Sometimes when I come home from work, my husband doesn't greet me because he has his 3 year old during the day. Is it bad that he doesn't? Sometimes I don't when I come home, because the 3 year old wants me to play with him right away lol. 

Hygiene is a social construct. Why should I follow that bullshit?

I've been with him for 2 years, it'll be 3 years in May if I continue. I really love him but I lost that after I saw how he treated his sister when she arrived at our place. His sister came to visit him all the way from another country. Her husband died last year and since then, she's been having issues with overeating and the constant stress has affected her overall health. She even miscarried after her husband died and it was a devastating time for her. Upon her arrival, my husband seemed nice to her on the first day. On the second day, he started making fun of her and calling her fat and telling her she has no brain. He constantly bugs her by pinching her really hard and leaving bruises while laughing. When he gets up in the morning, he drags her out so she can come make breakfast for us. I feel bad because I don't want him treating her like that and I can tell she's not happy but there's still 2 weeks left for her to leave. She would leave right now if she could.  Is this how siblings treat each other? Is it normal? He's 24, and she's 35. I'm scared I might be treated that way once I marry him. We have been discussing marriage a lot. But that scared me. He seemed very heartless towards her. I'm not sure if it's  normal between siblings or not. I was raised as an only child. 

My wife and I are married but planning to seperate, we have a child together and dont return to the states until june. She says she needs to stay and save money to get a place for once we get back, so until then we will be coparenting under the same roof, I have made several attempt to resolve our issues but she seems set on separating, so im over it and have accepted that, but living under the same roof has become depressing and awkward, I dont think I can do this for 5 more months, and honestly I'm thinking seeing other people what do you think 

It was not like this before we got married so I was not expecting this.  When we were dating and through the engagement process we would always come together to his mothers house and eat, celebrate holidays etc) My husbands family is very very small. It only includes his mother, younger brother, and 18 year old sister. My husband is the oldest, Father was nonexistent. No grandparents, uncles aunts. So they are all I know from his side. I get hurt and confused when my husband gets calls from his mom and sister and it's all about what they want from him or when they want to see him.  It's never "hows your wife" Or "you guys should come" nothing. I know this isn't my blood family but I married into his? I feel more like a new girlfriend then me considered his wife. When I mention this to my husband he tells me I'm taking it the wrong way, and I should assume I'm invited because I'm forever family now. But that's not the case. I've never once seen a text with my name in it, never once have they reached out and invited me anywhere, not even a phone call asking how I'm doing. My family doesn't do this to my husband that's why it hurts me. His families always said they liked me and that's what I thought, but should I rethink my marriage? 

My husband and I recently made friends with another husband and wife couple and we've been friends with them for a little over a year now. Ever since the beginning though she seems to always try to be the center of attention and even though she is his wife shes very controlling over her husband. My husband and I are not the jealous type so this behavior is strange to us. My friend has my husband on all her social media but when her husband tried to add me, she made him block me later. I've tried discussing this with her but it seems to go right over her head. What the hell should we do because this behavior makes my husband and I very uncomfortable. As far as I know the wife told me her husband has never cheated on her. We've even tried to end the friendship with them but us being nice people we never have the nerve to tell them to get lost. The wife has apologized but nothing seems to change. Shes gotten mad at my husband and I for accepting help that was offered by her husband pertaining to car trouble and other instances. She has no issue with them 2 and my husband hanging out together while I'm at work but when shes at work her husband is not allowed to hang out with my husband. But yet she calls us (especially me) her best friends. Just small instances like that, and she makes everyone in the room shut up if she gets a phone call instead of being polite and taking the call to the other room.

We were supposed to hang out when I got off work at 8:30. She got out around 6. Why did she stay in her car for 30 minutes at her work? Does that make any sense?

Wife who demands too much money for her and her parents.....  kinda too much provider for the woman....

For instance they are 5-10 years apart in age, and neither of them want children? Would it be worse of a decision than a man marrying someone several years younger?