So I have a friend,Nathan. Nathan and I met in 1999 at age 6. We're now 27. Over the years we've been friends,had fights but always remained close friends,in spite of girls,stuff.We both live in the same city and until december we used to see each other even 4 times a week. If I didn't call for few days he would. Let's go back to december: in december Nathan starts a relationship with a girl he had known for some time. For basically 5 months Nathan never calls me once,never texts me once,nothing,he's gone. For the first 2 months I thought to myself that it was normal as he was all about this girl. I got it ok? But then the months became 3-4-5. Towards the end of month 5 he seemed to reappear. We hanged out twice and things seemed got back to normal. Then he disappeared again for weeks and weeks,I'm not saying that we should've started going out again everyday but at least a text to know how I'm doing would've been appreciated.I got nothing. So last night I met him by chance at the grocery store. He was with his girlfriend. I was mad so I pretended not to see him,he looks at me and says ' Dude your hair looks terrible' (since my barbershop is closed now because of covid),I look at him and say he's a shitt* friend then I leave. I found out he unfriended me on facebook. I was wrong saying that? how I said it,yes,I was wrong to feel mad? Don't think so. What do you think? As long as you're not insulting you can say what you want,just be honest.

So my best friend has this thing where if I ask her to hang out and she already has plans she will only say "I already have plans tonight." She gets very offended if I ask what she's doing bc she thinks it's because I don't trust her or I'm calculating in my head if she's spending more time with other people than me(which I'm not!).  She's not lying about plans bc she doesn't want to hang out with me, she just won't tell me what they are. She says she doesn't feel the need to tell me what she's up to and doesn't expect the same from me. And I know she's not lying to me currently. She's always with her boyfriend, which I guess has been a problem in our friendship before too. On my end, a few years ago she was friends with benefits with my best guy friend and didn't tell me for weeks. She lied about hanging out with him for a few weeks until I asked her directly. I lost my friendship with him over their drama and that really hurt. I am still bitter about that. She says that bc we already talked it over and I forgave her that she doesn't think it should affect our friendship anymore, but for me it does. I still have problems trusting her. And whenever she tells me she has plans I instantly jump to the thought that she's lying to me about something or hiding something from me, although I know she's being honest now. This hurts and offends her that I can't trust her completely. How do we talk through this so we can remain friends and understand where each other are coming from? 

There's this guy who works at the docks, he is so gorgeous, everything about him is perfect, his face, hig height, his blue eyes and fair hair, like corn fields in summer. The way he sighs, complains, the way he breathes and waits. He is just perfection. But he can't stand me and my questions, me always trying to talk to him and get to know him. One day he realized I was just using excuses to talk to him and he said 'what do you want from me?' And sighed and looked worn out. I wanted to say 'you' and run to his neck and hug him tight and kiss his cheek endless time but he just looked so annoyed and worn out that I felt like crying. I love him so much and he can't stand him. Why do I have to do so he can love him? What if I become like one of those girls that flirt and sleep with guys... maybe will he accept me then? Maybe he should go with one of those girls who go with whoever, since he can't stand people like me

I know most people do it, but does it make you a better person if you don't? Also, is it bad to make fun of people in general?

Since I was 15 years old, I had great friends. At 16 years old, I slowly started becoming more rude which I regret today. I started looking down at people. My best friend stopped talking to me at 16 years old, my girlfriend left me due to changing. At 17 years old, I decided to start a new page, found new great friends. I had a great relationship with a female friend who loved me but instead I accused her of being a snake and again I lost a very good friend.  18 years old later, I had 16 female friends who saw me as their brother, i had a girlfriend who really loved me and 1 dude friend lol. So we been friends for a whole year until I started arguing with my girlfriend due having lots of female friends so she forced me to delete them which caused huge drama and it hurt them real bad that i betrayed them. Then my girlfriend left me.  Now exactly 1 year later, I have no one. Last year, I used to have 100-200 likes on my Facebook posts and pictures and 2 months ago I deactivated cause I had only 2 to none. I'm a good person now but no one wants to talk to me due to my past and can't make new friends since everyone knows who I was.

Hola, bueno escribo acá para buscar opiniones, estoy un poco confundida. Conocí un chico con el q me llevó bien, es tranquilo, es un buen chico hasta ahora, pero hay algo q me hace dudar sobre si tener una relación más formal con el, es que a sus 39 años trabaja pero en algo que no le da mucho dinero, no se.. Unos 650 dolares al mes, trabaja en el área de redes.. No es q quiera alguien q me mantenga pero si me da miedo el tema de la estabilidad económica.. El no tener dinero para nada y vivir a duras penas..valoro el q sea buen chico ya que mi relación pasada fue muy tóxica hasta el punto de q esa persona me echo a la calle un día de rabia. No se q hacer..si quedarme con el chico este o buscar alguien con más en la parte económica Que piensan ustedes? 

Hi, in my "friend group" we are 10 people. Recently, a girl from the group chose to make plans with 8 of them, and left 2 of us out. This has never happened before, and my friend and I were quite suprised and taken back by this. I struggle with social anxiety, and this really shook me up. To give some context, I have always been "liked" and very "appreciated" in my friend group (they have even told me so a couple of times). Im just very confused by this suddenly happening, and it makes me question the girl who initiated the plans, as well as the 7 people who joined her without questioning this. Right now, I feel like I have lived in an "illusion" of a friendship I had with these people, and it breaks my heart tbh. On top of that, all 10 of us are hanging out next weekend for a couple of days, and it makes me cringe to my core, that I have to see/interact with these people, as if nothing happened. What would you do? Have you experienced this before?

To start I'm a single mom who lives alone. My neighbor beside me have parties at all hours, park in my driveway, the sons/grandsons sell drugs so I have bad traffic right in front of my home, just terrible looking people. They park in my driveway and mistake my home for the drug dealer home. A couple of neighbors noticed as well and told me they call the cops and complain to HOA. I complained to HOA and left a tip anonymously to crime stoppers about the drug dealing with tag numbers. Their kids are always in my yard and driveway especially when I'm not home. They hit my car with their toy. I have a camera so I can see it.  I'm just tired. I hate to report and wanted to talk to them first but they don't seem approachable . The other day I was backing into my garage and one of the guys was looking at me really evil. Idk if he overheard one of the other neighbors and I conversations. Did I do the right thing,

They first met when they were in their early 20s, three years prior when they both lived in the same hometown, until she and her family moved away.  At the time she came back on his birthday, he too was living with  with his parents.  So she was lucky that he was prepared with money for hotel which he paid for without asking, even though it was his birthday.  For all she knows, he might've been out of a job and couldn't afford the hotel.  If she asks him for gas money the following day, is she technically not in the wrong, since it was no longer his birthday?  Or, did she again not think about "preparing" like her boyfriend who didn't know she was coming?

I have a notoriously competitive friend. She wanted a prestigious position and I got the position over her. Ever since then she has been really distant with me and not really engaging with me. It's bee three months since that interview and she has been doing it since then. is this a bad friend?

I have a friend who's grandpa is a pastor. I had a question for his grandpa over the phone (we live in two different towns). Then the grandpa (pastor) asked if we can meet to talk. Well I needed some time to think 'cause I have anxiety and been battling depression which causes me to really be hard on myself and around others. Well me and my friend were talking over the phone and my friend told his grandpa my decision on what days would work to meet up but that I still needed time to overcome the being able to talk part. His grandpa said "I needed to grow some". Which hearing that did make me tear up. My guy friend said his grandpa didn't say it to me to be rude but that's how he grew up. I still feel he could have put it in other ways. I don't want to meet up anymore after that but my friend wants me to still meet. What do I do? P.s I'm a female.

Ok in like 2 months is my 21st birthday. The thing is I don't really have friends or a girlfriend or anything I have one friend who is dumb and stupid. I'm not being mean but it is true one girl asked me if I'm doing anything big and I said I have no clue. What if she comes and it's just me and this other weird guy oh man that will not go down well. I really want new friends, real friends who can be trusted and not losers who never shower and break my stuff. It's upsetting not having anyone to talk to and my parents get on my nerves. The thing is people will probably look at me and think I have hundreds of friends because I'm always happy and I'm clean and not scruffy. But they have no idea that I'm I'm just a loner. It just makes me feel hopeless. What girl will want to talk to someone like me? If I had real friends then problem solved. What can I do?

I am currently working on a fanfic for My hero Academia the description doesn't really matter for what I am going to ask.  But Izuku was kidnapped when he was fours year old, escaping at seven.  By the age of ten his life was back to 'normal' Katsuki was his Bodyguard, He had an older brother and even knew the Todoroki's. (Rei having share custody of shoto leaving near the Bakugou). My question is what kind of friendship would the group have in highschool. Like is it okay for the BakuSquad and Dekusquad, even TodoSquad to still exists.  Class IA will  be way closer, giving the backeround character  time to shine, but if they have separate friends would  It changes them.Should I make Katsuki and Izuku friendship slowly turn into a rivalry as Katsuki realized Izuku no longer needs protecting.  

I am just visiting my boyfriend and two of my close friends. We have been in our houses for the past two months but we decided it's Fine and to just see each other today. 

For example pushing door or blocking the door while the other person is opening the door from the other side opening the door

I want to chill at my friends house and bang him all night long but I don't know if it's a good idea.