I'm married, happy two years, but my wife found out i had been taking a female friend out to lunch a few months ago. Not a co-worker or long time friend, just someone i met at a friend's party and we hung out on weekends or whenever we could tbh. Now my wife decided to check our bank account and saw my spending. Being the way i am, I told her a have a friend that's female, but we're just friends who hang out on weekends. Now she's upset thinking i cheated on her. Now who's in the wrong; me being married and having a girl- friend, or is she overreacting?

I am married for 10 Years.the first three years of our life was beautiful and he respect me a lot .after that his parents cane to live with us.his mom used to support in front of me but she back bite about me to my husband then our fighting start he insults me and I cry down and get depressed then after some time she died the situations get better but my husband always says u r arrogant and not know how to talk to someone..I started worked on it...when he is  angry and insults me I didn't say a word ..he always said our marriage is a mistake ur my big mistake but I don't do any thing now I have to live with u because we have 4 children. I feel very bad ..he sometimes so much angry I tried to talk to him he always said don't talk to me.he insults Me in front of his family too.yesterday everything was good going my older son which is 1 year old he was playing with his nightsuit which I gave it to him and I was aww he is cute my husband said u r giving him households chore .if u did this I will become angry and u know what I can do..I said what again insults me in front of ur family.he said yes..and now he said sorry .what to do with him as he already take medicine for stress too.plz help me.

I've been with my SO for a year and a half with almost no issues. We love one another and *I thought* this would set to last because of consistent marriage talk and a stated plan for getting to the goal. We get along very well and when we disagree he's very good at listening to me and deescalating. I also felt he was the one, and I don't remember getting along with anyone so well. Anyway, I should mention this was a long distance relationship and our plans were squashed with COVID-19 grounding everyone. And yes I had a lot of hesitation because I feel a relationship must be face to face to truly know someone, which was part of our goal. One recent day we were talking about just that - how are we going to plan the uncertain future and what steps should we take to get to our goal of being together and married.  Old topics came to the surface and a few things he wants are not within my purview to give, and that we have to find a middle ground, to which I suggested a few options.  Welp, he wouldn't agree on any, told me it was a deal breaker, and said there's no point in getting married. Just. Like. That. I was floored. We wrapped that up and a few tense hours and tears later we agreed to stay in contact. He's calling daily, calling me "baby," and not acting like we're done. He even called himself my husband again and I had to remind him he's not. He said he still loves me. I love him too, but I don't feel the same after what happened. Should I take him back?

I see him in the gym each week. I train with my elderly father and he always comes over to chat before he leaves.   Then I go for coffee with my parents in a local café and he always passes while were there and comes over for a chat

I confronted him but he insists that he's in the right, even when I explained the horrible history of that word and said that I was just trying to fight. I under stand that some people might answer that saying that we have free speech but as well as just how racist and downright awful it is to say that word, I'm afraid that he'll say 5he wrong thing to the wrong person and get hurt... how do I convince him to stop saying it?

I crave this fantasy. I want a woman my husband have sex. It is the most submissive feeling. I do have a breast fetish only but this fantasy is like a really great appetisers but I can't live on appetisers alone. I know I could never alone. I know I could never be in love with a woman and have no romantic fantasy.

I moved out due to various reasons concerning where we currently live and him not willing to compromise. He wants to stay living where we live. Prior to marriage and after finding out I was pregnant with twins he was fine with moving. In fact, he was more dedicated to looking at listings more than me. A lot had changed. I never wanted to be a stay at home mom, but with twins there's no way my job will pay for daycare so now I have to. I feel like if I have to be the one at home most of the time, we should at least move somewhere where I'll be okay with it. In the beginning, he agreed fully. Now, he doesn't care because we live by all of his family and he wants to stay by them. I want to move half way between all of our family (a measly 20-25 minutes away.)  We tried therapy, to no avail because he refused to say what was on his mind in front of the therapist. As soon as we'd leave, he'd send me paragraphs via text talking about why he doesn't want to move. He's now not speaking to me. Not even to ask about my pregnancy because he "is doing a lot of thinking and making up his mind." I've been gone a month! I think that's plenty enough time to decide if you want to compromise or divorce. I expressed this to him, and silence was all I got in return. Should I just go ahead and file for divorce and see what his response is? Or continue on in this state of uncertainty and stress while he strings me along for the ride?

 as there in many cases its seen that such wife leave tgeir husband or has secret sex with their exes

1) Can All of the wives lives in a same house. They all have their own bedroom & bathrooms. Rest of the rooms are shared? 2) Can Husband & All of the wives sleep together on a same bed. No sex, no nudity. Just sleeping like Friends/sisters? 3) Can Husband kiss/hug his wife in front of other wives. No nudity, Just normal kiss/hugs? 4) Can Husband & all of his wives play together, Watch tv together, eat together, seat together in public places?  5) Can Wives give kiss/hugs to her husband in front other wives. Also Can wives seat on husband lap in front of other wives? Suppose, All of the wives are super friendly to each others and they all are willingly doing this. A friend of mine asked me these weird questions, I don't know what should I say. Can anyone please enlightened me. Also ignore my bad English 

My husband ex wife's just had a baby with her husband. We are going over to their house for the kids to visit their new baby. I have to drive because my husband is disabled. We all get along and I have no problem going over there, but I'm afraid they're going to want my husband to told the baby and it would make me feel weird. Should it? 

I am moving to Arizona from NC to work over the Summer and I plan to work and go to the gym. I plan to wear a mask and keep my distance from people but I have to work to survive. Is this irresponsible of me? 

Andrew Smith: I am on the side of "she did wrong but who am I to judge" but everyone else wants me to cast stones with them. I love your answer, thank you. I will use it when someone gets mad at me next for not sharing grudges. 

The other night my husband left to be with his family since we found out that my niece committed suicide. In the middle of the night while I was asleep my phone is ringing like  crazy. Well my husband and my sister in law are calling me like crazy. I didn't answer right away because I was half asleep once I pick up the phone I saw a text from my sister in law that said is Porfirio home(that's my husband). I don't know if I answer or called back but when I spoke to her she told me if he was home I told her he left to be with the family. She was supposed be with him and she said I'm on way just now.(which was a lie) then my husband calls and he tells me that he saw someone in our backyard. He saw video clips on our cámara and I told him that was me it was the reflection on the window because my cámara is inside the window not outside and I had the flashlight from my phone so every time I pass thru the window my cámara would catch the motion sensor. A hour later they show up. my husband my sister in law keeps telling me stuff that who was it and I couldn't even explain anything because they talked over me. They poison my husband I just need to guidance to deal with this sorry for the grammar 

Would it be wrong to ask my wife if she could start working full time so I can go back to school and learn a trade , I started working at the age of 16 and I'm not tryna ask for people to feel sorry but I was put in a hard situation where I left high school and had to start working to help with bills. I'm currently 23yrs old , with very good customer service and warehouse skills. I really wanna learn to weld but I feel it's not right for me to go to school while my wife works. Please help I'd like to here honest answers from everyone especially if you have been in my situation.

Hes got cancer. My son, who comes over on wednesday, thursday and fridays has asthma. Ive asked my husband not to smoke in the house but he doesn't respect this. Is this wrong?

He criticizes her harshly. But, the girl isn't smart and they work in a group together. He offers to help her do her work and volunteers to be the one to explain concepts to her in the group even when others are ready to. He's also offered to share food with her when he was eating and she wasn't and always says hi to her when he first sees her. He also always looks at her for a while if she seems displeased by something he's said or done to anyone else. He asked her if she knew how to use the printer when she needed to print something so he could help

That's what I did to my ex, I cut off contact and changed my number. But before I changed my number I told him to stop reaching out to my mom. He called me and said he's trying to help me, also was upset I didn't pick up the phone or replied to his abusive texts. Then he attacked my parenting skills and said he'd try to get full custody of our daughter that he has done nothing for. Is this normal for a narcissist?

I am writing a book and want to know if the divorce situation my main character is in could be realistic. She is married to a wealthy man who has his own company but it also involved in illegal activity. He has become controlling and abusive. She runs away and files for divorce in a different city. I would like her lawyer to keep as much information about her current residency private to protect her safety. She has no documentation of his abuse or police filings against him. She is scared for her life of him and just wants her marriage over. 

Found email that it was one room with a king size bed only

ever since my ex husband married his new wife his wife has done everything she can do to prevent me from having a relationship with my daughter whenever I tried to call her she would answer and when she knows it's me she just closes the phone she refuses to let my daughter move in with me my daughter has tried to contact me on many occasions but her stepmother just blocks my number from her phone and forced my daughter to block me on Facebook and she also ruined my relationship with my daughter What can I do to see my daughter? 

Imagine having a huge wedding planned and having your heart broken that it couldn't happen. Or imagine having to tell your kids and grand kids and friends that you got married in the worst, most despicable, disastrous year in human history. Who would want to remember that. Well Thankfully I'm single and don't have these problems, I love this new normal that allows minimal socializing and not having to see weddings on Facebook and instagram for the foreseeable future. But really this is by far the worst year in world history 

We are getting married only by civil first I'm very religious and I've been waiting for marriage to have sex. Under my religion I have to wait till I marry in church to have sex. He wants to have sex as soon as we have our civil wedding but I say no and he says yes. Shouldn't he respect that ? We are marrying separate like this because we don't have enough money yet to marry into a church. 

we have two now. My husband wants to add a third. Tasteful decal, but is 3 too many? What about after that?

My husband and I filed taxes jointly in 2019. They sent us a physical check for the $2400. We would both need to sign to deposit it in our bank account. My husband refuses to sign as he thinks he "doesn't need that extra money". Is there any way I can recieve my own payment because we could financially use it, especially for our child going through college.