What should I do ? No friends, my family doesn't like me , my co workers pass me straight .. everyone says I'm dumb ... no one too vent too .. I'm fat with a body odor problem... bad things always happen to me ... I've move to Georgia and can't make one friend and I have been i here for 7 years ... it's really sad .. I don't want to live like this anymore... I hate going places alone ... I hate doing things alone :(

I have this one friend who's been kind of "off" if you know what I mean. We have our good days as friends, but sometimes she's just in a bad mood and I find myself not caring about our friendship. Before lockdown, she would come over to my house to hang out and whenever my parents greeted her, she would kind of act disgusted (might be too strong a word) around my dad. My dad was wearing a T-shirt and he has tattoos on his arms.  She also seems jealous of my parents, because hers are going through a divorce and she calls mine "young" and "happy" and "perfect." Idk, but it's weird. Is she trying to be nice? Is she taking her frustration out on me? Help! Also, we were once playing an assumption game with a few friends and she announces that she assumed my dad drives a motor cycle and is a reckless driver. Everyone laughed (in kind of a nice way bc it's such a weird thing to say), but I was kind of offended. Yes, my dad has a lot of tattoos, but he's actually super introverted(ish), patient, smart, athletic, so on. I can tell that my mom and him are very much in love, and she doesn't mind his tattoos.. she kind of likes them, though she has none herself and no interest in getting them.questions:1) Is it worth staying friends with her? We have't really texted and faceted during quarantine.2) If my Dad is 43 and Mom is 44, and I'm 14/15, are they young? My oldest sibling is 19.3) Why do ppl always (well sometimes) associate tattoos with bad things..? *facetimed* not faceted! 

A little background information on this girl: Going back to when I was younger, there was this girl who I use to hang out with when I was around 12 or 13 who both me and her got on. She is very outgoing and nice but about five years ago at my family's Easter Party, when she kept asking me how college was going (I was in my last year studying for photography), I completely froze. I was 21 at the time (it was 2015 and I was suffering from social anxiety). A few months later, while at an xmas party, she only gave me half a hug when saying 'goodbye' while giving everybody else full sized hugs. It had been a few years and I'm very worried that I came off as creepy to her. Is there anything I can do to make my situation better (p.s., she's friendlier around me now [and gives out full hugs (prior to the pandemic) but still prefers not to sit right next to me)?

Tons of people at my school think they're so cool because they just yell put "MY IQ IS 120 BEAT THAT" they just sound like idiots. 120 isn't that high and as a great man once said "people who brag about their iq are losers" my best friend for 15 years is a genius he's got a 161 iq I believe but he's only ever said it when I asked him and he said that there is no point in anyone knowing your iq because just cause its high doesn't mean you're smart. Basically saying that they are smart dumbasses. The thing is everyone thinks he's an idiot because he acts weird and talks about comics and **** all the time that's why I love him. I just don't understand while people think he's an idiot just cause he does impressions and is a nerd, should be the opposite. Usually when people get to know him they realize his genius. But seriously why do they brag. It's really just a shitty thing to do.

I had to cut off this group of friends because they kept talking about me behind my back and weren't treating me the way I think a friend should be treated. And I when I wanted to talk about the issue, I was lied to and got ganged up and everyone picked this girls side without hearing my side of the story. I felt very heartbroken knowing that people I thought would have my back were so quick to drop me. I had them off last year September and months later I decided to make a secret twitter  account with no followers to vent and I recently vented about how bad of a friends they were and I body shamed one of them and basically called them all out without even saying names. I just wanted to let me feelings out and I feel like I shouldn't be nice to anyone that disrespected me first. They found the account from stalking my boyfriend and now one of them is tweeting that I'm crazy and need help when I feel like I didn't do anything wrong except say the truth that they were all being fake to me. I know it sounds wrong but I don't think I should be nice to someone who didn't respect or care for especially at a time when I needed it most, a friend. I know my side of the story is correct cause I had to endure the disrespect from this girl but I know no one would believe me because they've know her longer. I just want to know your opinions? Am i wrong for being mean? Especially since it was on an account no one knows about and I didn't even mention names or @'s? Cutting them off happened last year and me talking my **** was last week? I know they have every right to be mad but I don't like saying that I'm a bad person for talking **** when I don't even like them. I don't feel like I should like them no matter what and if I wanna talk my **** I'm going to talk my ****. They made no effort to reconnect with me and think liking my Instagram pics counts as "I still think we're friends" ALSO, when we had the argument last year, I didn't make any harsh remarks and tried to be as civil as I can to try to fix the relationship but whenever I would try I kept getting lied to and kept being called on as a victim because I wanted to tell them they made me feel sad. :/

I have no idea. And why is my other friend eating a pb&j with a finger covered in face mask stuff?

Seriously, it's a pet peeve of mine.  I just hate it when you send a message on fb or Instagram and it gets seen, but not replied to when it's loke a question or message you clearly want a response too.  I mean I get people might be busy or in the middle of something but can't they at least say something like "we can talk later" or something like that?  After all they did obviously have time to go to the message despite being "busy"..,

At my work i was friends with this girl, and she had an amazing personality. I had the biggest crush on her, and she was cool about it. She was married but i respected her. She would stare at me, and flirt with me. She would blush alot and talk to me all the time. One day she admitted to one of my besfriends that she has been falling for me, and cares for me. She begged my friend to never tell me the truth. Months later everyone began judging our friendship, everyone thought we had an affair and there was drama. We were asked by management to stop talking at work. She would still talk to me behind everyones back and missed talking to me. All the sudden i noticed her personality change. She didn't talk much to anyone and she would give me the cold shoulder. But i gave her a gift card for her birthday since i trusted her. But she told HR About the card and i was removed from her floor She later took time off for 1 year and blocked me from everything. She returned early this year but doesn't look at me. A few days ago her and my friend were talking and apperantly this all started because of the card. Apperantly HR "Already knew about the card." My friend asked her about me and told her i still miss her, but she didn't say much about me. She didn't wanna say anuthing Why did she become soo cold with me ???? My friend told me she used to find her really sweet but now she seems so angry all the time

Is it ok for couples to banter and play fight ? As a joke he lightly whacked me on the head and I did it back. He squeezed my wrist as a joke, and he said I wanna hit ya or f* hit you and he never would we've been together 5 years. I said back that I want to hit his egg head (kidding). I think he thought I don't mind it. And I know he was joking although he wasn't laughing at al, I know he would never and was just bantering. We are just kidding but he can be really immature as we are still young but. He would never touch me ever. I sat him down and explained that can't happen again, is this okay as long as he doesn't say that again as I said I'm fine with banter but that made me uncomfortable? Is this bad? As i know couples do banter and it can get out of hand.

I have been in a new relationship with my boyfriend and we have been dating for 8 months, and we had a lot of fun together. We are very a like but different. We are in our early 30's and for the past 2 months I have been with my parents because I lived in a hot zone alone. My boyfriend and I both lived separately. Although my parents make me depressed and they are not the best environment for me, I have the ability to bike whenever, go outside, workout, play my instrument. I am very independent. Currently I am working and I have a stressful job I do at home. I am worried about  losing my 'habits' and routines and just freedom. He's a great guy and yes I want to be intimate, I'm just concerned how can I adjust. Is this a terrible sign I'm not thrilled about this? He's such a  great guy and we not issues or haven't had any issues during this whole situation. 

I have autism or ADD (which my mom diagnosed me with) so my value on ppl didnt matter, i was always popular because i was cool. One day many MONTHS after graduation, i was on my phone deleting files. I deleted a tape that was collecting dust and taking up my storage, then i said "....Wait a minute" and saved it from my Deleted folder. I could profit from this. I put it on Phub to test it out, no editing. I blew up the next few days, my views reaching in the thousands. I was 18 years old so???? I posted it on my snapchat story that Wow im amazing i didnt even try (I was literally expecting for it to be months before i see these types of views because i was literally a ghost yesterday). People from my old school, asked for the link so i sold it to many of them. Later I ended up getting messages from people i tried to sell it to that they had found it, after hours of digging, which stunned me. Creepy... The following year, my best friend who was still in Highschool, told me that the whole school had seen it. And when i told my current guy friend, he said "Yeah that's embarrassing". And im like "How? If i was a random girl on the street doing this NOBODY would care. They felt like this somehow related to them because we went to the same school." Like you know those people from your 5th grade class (10 years ago) who say "Oh yeah we go way back" but all you did was borrow their eraser? THAT sense of entitlement. And there was no insults, just people complaining that it was short. Part2: I didn't receive 1 negative comment in my messages so if anyone had the guts to be talking trash, they should've made sure to say it. I told my current guy friend that I received absolutely no backlash and he said "Oh then what the heck that's a good thing". People only told me i was brave and that they've always wanted to do that. Everyone else's probably shy to tell me but bold enough to mention they searched. Im currently profiting off of DREAMS in ways that they couldnt imagine. So??

To summarize ; Not a emotional person pretty dull and numb and emotions are intense and brief. So somehow there was a person that I had gotten fond of or just friends with over a while, somehow we'd talk so much. I'm not the person to hurt after losing every and anyone or a friend, I'll be sad but I never ever been one to suffer a heartbreak or a heartache. But in the sequence, this person we had a misunderstanding and I thought they were going to leave and end of friendship or whatever. So then I started feeling this intense pain in my chest and emotionally which can be described as a heartache, deep.  Overwhelmed I started feeling really sad. Which is so unlike myself I was in utter shock. Why would this happen? I've been in relationships(friends) and seen my fairshare of goodbyes they never hurt and I never cared much after it was over. And then everything was resolved gratefully but why did I have a heartache why would losing this person matter to me? Why is this happening? How do you deal with that, Many users complain about the person leaving them which caused them pain but never if they thought they were leaving but found out it was a misunderstanding and they aren't going. Why would it hurt so much?what does that say about that person.

I'm a 22 year old guy. I'm online friends with a 17 year old girl. She lives in my city, and I added her online because we had friends in common on Snapchat. Anyhow, I've never met her in person. We've been online friends since January. We kinda casually go back and fourth on Snapchat, mostly replying to each other's post. I'm not quite ready to ask her if she wants to meet in person, I'd like to get there, but right now I really enjoy talking to her. I would like to nurture this friendship and maybe meet her in person one day. Any advice for the situation as a whole? We like to send each other selfies and posts about our day.

So about a year ago, my former step son was being harassed and bullied by a couple other people in his school. They did it repeatedly.  Last time they did it, my son took pepper spray and sprayed them all in the face). He got expelled from school. The one year anniversary is just around the corner. My ex wife (step son's mom) and my step son's REAL dad have mixed feelings about it. These jerks were harassing and bullying him and should have stopped.  My son wanted them to stop.  He was thinking about suicide.  That's why he peppersprayed them all (as they were all there at the same time).  These jerks were taught to never harass or bully him again.  But my step son got expelled for it.   How would you react if your suicidal son/daughter was being bullied/harassed and decided to take a weapon (like a baseball bat or a hammer or a book or a chair or pepper spray) and HURT (not KILL) those bullying/harassing them?

Long story short the pastor's family literally cut contact, avoided, ignored me, and blocked me without ever talking to me about what was bothering them; save for a verbal insult; needless to say it was painful. Still, for some weird reason I still love them though I know I shouldn't. I guess I just want to have hope that maybe one day they'll reach out to me to discuss things. i can only live my life in the meantime.