The relationship hasn't been good to me I just met a man he is a working-class but he is married and his wife is abroad but he lives with his daughter here. He always shows love and care and I told him I can't marry a married man but it seems I love him and am happy with him but I am scared...I don't want any problem..If her wife comes back what will be my gain...Am I confused I want the group to advise me please hide my identity? COMMENTS and ADVICE

Looks like thats a NO.  C'mon ladies what happen?  Has the lock down been bad on your figure?

I was talking on messenger to my husbands friend. About me being depressed bc of a certain behaviour that my husband does that makes me. sad. The friend pf my husbands just told me this in a message "well I am sorry he makes U feel that way. I hope his confession of him messing around on U finally brought U some relief." Yet, my husband never confesses **** 2 me. So what does this mean? Y did his friend say that my husband confessed 2 me he was cheating if he never did? Was he giving me a heads up?  I asked him if he knew he was cheating on me. The friensa response was," I never believed he was seeing anyone. I thought you were slipping. YOU told me he confessed." 

Changing people's minds in the politics section is impossible.  Maybe i make my way back here. What do you say frens?

Me and my husband just moved into our home and have been here for a little over two weeks. We have not had any issues and thinking we hit the jackpot on homes. This morning at around 9am while me and my husband were still asleep our neighbor beneath us starts banging on our door. My husband hears it and gets up and looks through the peep hole and sees a man banging on our door. So my husband says through the door "who is it?" the man then says "you know who it is" "open up the door" "open up the door" my husband says "I don't know you" so the man walks away. I start waking up and my husband explains what just happen and we both were puzzled and nervous/curious as to who this man is and why he was banging on our door in a threatening manner demanding my husband to open the door. My husband gets in the shower and the banging starts again but louder. So I go to the door and say "who is it?" and he says nothing. I open the door and said "why are you ******* banging on my door?" he says "where is the man that lives here?" I say "who my husband" my husband then comes out of the bathroom and the guys says to him "stop putting the radiation through the floor I can see it" and I start recording him because now I feel this may is crazy or something. I am calling the office on tomorrow because this is disturbing the peace and we just moved here. It is not like he said lower the music or stop making noises he said stop putting the radiation through the floor I can see it. Am I wrong?.

It was his ex and she says she's not giving me an answer. All I asked was have they been in contact. Weird because she started answering saying she left him 3 yrs ago and she checked on him once because he was so broken over me. She said she has a husband and I don't have nothing on her not a car or a ring. Come to find out in reality she doesn't even have a bf let alone a husband she is completely single on all social media and I know people that knows her and they said she's not married. So I'm kind of confused if there was something going on. Was she covering for him ?

We've been together for almost 2 years. I love her very much because she's an incredible and a very loving woman but there's something about her that throws me off.  She's had a difficult childhood. She doesn't talk to her parents at all and she's never talked to them in years. She doesn't seem like she cares about anything. She literally didn't care that she had cancer. She was actually excited about her cancer but when she found out it's easily curable, she stopped being excited. She always wants to be alone and I do know she cries every night because when she thinks I'm sleeping, she'll start her nightly routine of crying herself to sleep. She looks drained of life. There are times where she laughs and smiles but in the end, she does back to her usual self. She thinks I don't notice her but I do. What's wrong with her? It's starting to get to me. She does care about me and she treats me like a king but I'm scared for her. I've tried talking millions of times but she rejects me and keeps saying everything is just fine. I don't know what else to do.

Some people get furious, while some let it go and move on.

My mom has hurt me a lot in life. She's always said cruel things to me and kept making me feel bad about myself growing up. I still love her because she's always been there for me and always got me whatever I needed. I always had the newest phone and she even bought me a car. But I never actually felt her love me. I never wanted all these expensive things. Sometimes, I just wanted her love. In the end, she sold me off to a rich guy who asked my mom if he can marry me. I suffered 2 years in that relationship with a man I never loved. I got a divorce and decided to cut my mom out of my life. I got married to my new husband a few months ago and I told him my story. He keeps saying I should forgive forgive and forget and start talking to my mom. He's seen the messages she's been sending me telling me that she's sorry and she misses me. I did try to forgive her but once again she kept trying to control my life so I just stopped replying to her altogether. My husband keeps saying that I'm bad for not talking to my mom and that I don't know how much my mom had done for me and that I should forgive her no matter what she has done. He sits and makes me feel bad about disowning my mom. I feel depressed and alone. I feel like I'm the bad person for doing this to my mom. Is he right? I do love my mom, I just don't want to talk to her. 

somewhere else? I don't think there's anyway I can get back my son's love or respect at this point. His mother married a guy who abused him and he blames me for marrying her/bringing him into the world with her. I feel like I should just go away but I still want to try to take care of him. I'm worried he's not gonna be able to take care of himself. His mother told him I didn't want to be a father and his birth was an accident. I told  him it isn't true but I don't think he believes me. I want to keep trying to help him out financially as much as I can even though I'm on Social Security disability and I can't work anymore. I went to a psychiatrist after the divorce and they destroyed me with psych drugs which I stopped taking years ago. I have neurological and other problems now and I can't function very well. I think I'm starting to get dementia type symptoms. I drive a really old beat up car and I can't keep my place neat and my son's embarrassed by me. I just get judged and criticized constantly and put down, humiliated, taken advantage of financially, etc. I don't want to be treated like a child as people seem to be doing, including my son. He told me u was immature.  I don't want to be put away in some home somewhere. I'm leaving whatever I'll have left to my son. Probably won't be much. What would you do?  Try to escape? Move?  So you don't constantly feel the humiliation and they can't lock you up somewhere? I'm in my 60s and probably won't be around much longer anyway "Anonymous"...fu ck you.. Don't need any further damage/feedback from psychopaths with their trademark incapacity for human empathy.  Wouldn't be surprised if you were "Judy and Charlie" or "Sparrow" posting  anonymously.. Or perhaps just another criminally insane   psychopath in the mental health/ psychiatry or associated fields. You ARE truly evil, criminally insane miscreants aren't you? The world would be much much better off without you believe me. Only a psychiatrist Would recommend that somebody who has had their life destroyed by psychiatric drugs go back for more. Go fu cking kill yourself motherfu cker. So you can't destroy any other peoples lives. Do us a favor.

So my aunts husband texted me and I thought it was innocent since I seen him as my uncle since I was little. Everything was going fine- talking about school and then he started talking about wanting to be a pornstar on a social media site. I felt weird about it but I tried to change the subject and he told me to delete the chats cause my aunt would see and get jealous about it. I told him I would not delete the chats since hiding stuff only makes things worse and I tried to contact her where he wouldn't be able to see so I could tell her but I haven't got a response. I just need advice on what to do and say to her. Is it innocent or is it not? I really don't want to have her mad at me. I'm 18 by the way. I don't know what to do about it.  My aunt broke up with him because of me :( I feel so bad and guilty even though I didn't say anything bad out of respect for her and my own boyfriend. I'm just afraid because he is now mad at me for telling her. I just couldn't keep it a secret and needed a push. I won't be able to show up over there again like I always do because of the awkwardness. She is kicking him out and I can't help but feel like a failure for always messing things up with adults  There are many things I left out which I am sorry because i know my description did not say all the details but if you look at the "anonymous" person's comment and read the response you can understand it more 

Our neighbours are hanging out and drinking (in large outdoor groups with minimal social distancing). One of our neighbours has daily contact with their workman whose girlfriend works in a care home where there have been 30 cases of COVID-19. My husband thinks it's fine as they're not sitting right next to each other, but I think it's stupid. I have low immunity, and my mum, who I shop for is at risk. I don't want to unnecessarily put myself or her at risk just to have a drink. I don't stop him going, but he gets really annoyed and angry that I won't go, and am unfair and unsociable. Am I being unreasonable? Edit: I'm in the UK

Why did she have to exist why did my son have to get married I never wanted him to ever get married I wanted to be the only woman in his life do it he is a kind man why did my son have to marry her? I just want my son all for myself:( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and moist like her families I tell my son to leave her so I can keep my son all to myself but he won't what do I do if you think that this is a troll it is not I am being serious I want to make my daughter in laws life a living hell so that she can divorce my son and I can have my son all for myself

My wife and I have two kids, a 7 year old and a 4 year old. Now that both of our kids are no longer babies/toddlers, she really wants another baby. I asked her why does she want another baby and her response was, "because it's a wonderful feeling being pregnant with having a baby grow inside you." She also said that also babies are so cute and adorable. From what I'm gathering from my wife, she doesn't want another child, she wants a baby. With her answer being entirely based on emotions rather than rational thinking, she would want another baby once our 3rd baby got older (if we had a 3rd). Also, I'm the only one working. My wife is a stay at home mom. It would be really hard financially to have another child. We might not be able to save money if we had a 3rd. I want to be able to retire when I get into my 60's. I've told my wife all of this, but yet she still wants a third no matter what. My friend is advising me to go get a vasectomy and to not mention it to my wife at all. This sounds very tempting, but it sounds very wrong. I would appreciate some advice on this.

my husband and I live in apartment for 4 years! My neighbors who lives diangled below me. The girl is white and the guy is black. They move in last year! So one day they invited my husband and I and our 1 year old son to their family cookout one afternoon knocking on our door. My husband and I didn't stay long because our son needed to eat supper and so did we so we left the party to go eat. Every since then, they have been calling my husband and I racist. I had let the girl daughter borrow some disney movies and when I text the girl phone nicely to return the moview back to me. She said I wasn't trying to be nice about it, and that I was a horrible person and calling us racist again. Well I haven't talked to them since then, except for hey and bye. Yesterday as my husband and I was pulling in to park, getting out of the car, unloading the car with groceries and up until we went inside our house until we gotten out out their sight. They were both sitting on the porch staring the whole time at both at us. What can I do about this situation? What can the police do?

So my ex partner/girlfriend and I lived together for 5yrs we had a child.we were young she was 18 and I was 19/20yrs old when we had our child . After around 3yrs together we started having problems disagreements , lack of communication and so on trying to balance things between my work and she going to school and our son was bit of a challenge but we got thru.. Thing weren't as the beginning , one thing afte the other , people getting in between our relationship dint help us . So after 2 years of struggles we separated we went our ways ..I tried my best to make us worked just that it takes two to keep the relationship together.(it hurt !!! Can't imagine !!but I learned from it) so she kept custody of our child well most of it .. Am still in my son's life , physically, emotionally and financially. Now here is the kick I want another child one more that's it.The thing is I want my children's to have one Mother..and that's were I see my self failed to do to keep the family together..I lost my mother at the age of 5yrs old I have no memory of her..my father never met him. I know I have like 3 step brother/sisters..I want my children to have the same Mother idk if am wrong for thinking this way ???what can someone do in this situation??my son is 10yrs old now. he is a happy boy :)

My husband has a great twin brother but he has a strange wife. Me and her dont get along in some things. She is (they are) underestimating their childrens illnesses, fevers, infectious diseases, no problem, they will put them between other children and they will say they are healthy. Im really over sensitive when we got to meet them. Me and my husband want to buy a house with an indoor pool and im really happy and excited but when i think they will want to use our pool it makes me feel sick. What can i do?! Im sure my husband will be wanting to let them use the pool but i just want people i can trust swimming in there. I feel really selfish but also im really mad at them they keep putting me in this position. My 3 years old daughter will be using the pool and i want to protect her! Im sure it will cause huge drama. Between me and my husband and between them, too, if we want to stop them from using it. The only thing i can think of is to keep saying the pool is being treated with chemicals and noone can swim there atm. But i cant keep on saying this all the time. Please, which other excuses can i use or how to deal with this so i dont have to shiver they might ask. Im so mad i have to feel like i have to protect my daughter from them all the time. Yesterday we met and their son was touching my daugther all the time and then i noticed he had wards on his fingertips. Im fuming. Help. Sometimes i even get a thought id rather give up on the house :( but its our dream house. 

Which role do wives play in businessmen's lives?

Right now, i am in an unhealthy relationship. My husband has cancer and uses this as a free ticket to do whatever he wants (play video games all day and not pay any attention to me what so ever) which is fine he has that right since he is dying. But due to this i have developed an extreme insecurity about myself, my looks and just who i am in general. I exercise & try to eat right, i won't leave my husband because i'm the omly one supporting him and i wouldn't want someone to leave me if i was about to die, but aside from this is there anything i can do to manage my insecurities, and become the woman i want to be? Thank you!

Ok so here's the deal, i feel like i don't know/ am not as smart and as ahead with others in my age group. I'm 24, some women already have a house of their own, have a super nice car, have things they want, they are pure ADULTS and i still feel like i child. I have my own place and am married,  but never have i owned my own car, i'm super goofy and dumb acting. All i do is sit at home and take care of my husband who has cancer (which is what im suppose to do) but idk. I just feel like i'm not as "together" as others my age. And am quite dumb in comparison to others. Idk what to do 😔 being ugly doesnt help either lol

Is it because that as they slept with them(exes) and explored everything with them before creating permanent memories with them and thus they have high expectations from their next partners, and if the next partner or the husband is not as better in bed like her exes, she will immediately miss her exes and might show interest towards them even after marriage only to give them free sex and also satisfy themselves? And in some cases of the exes tries to return to her life for free sex after marriage like before by emotionally blackmailing her then they gets reminded of the past good experiences with them and their urges comes again and they starts to sleep with them thinking that they are not cheating their husband as they are only having sex with her exes but did'nt marry them or will not give them her love again which will be for the husband, and the exes will only get her body now. Do they think that physical cheating is not cheating unless emotions are involved? Therefore, is it a risk to marry such women with many past sex partners who would bring many complications for the present inexperienced husband who will now have to be very carefull and have to work hard to reach to the height of her exes in all acts