I was in a long distance relationship for almost 5 years. About a year and a half ago, things started to deteriorate, his feelings began to disappear and he broke up with me in October of 2015. Even though the relationship ended, we continued to stay in touch (even though we had extensively tried, without success, to stop talking to each other and move on). I traveled to Mexico in Dec. 2015, he traveled to where I was staying and we saw each other for what we considered to be the last time. We were together (you know what that means) and when it was time to part ways, he cried and told me that it was the hardest goodbye he had ever experienced, that he didn't want me to see him cry and that I needed to know he loved me and I was someone very very important in his life. We continued to talk throughout the year... and I was still deeply in love with him even though he had made it clear we were over. A couple of days ago, I received a message from a woman wanting to know who I was. It turns out she's the mother of his TWO MONTH old baby. She told me that they have been in a relationship for a year - he confirmed everything. I'm completely devastated, shocked - he began her relationship with her while he was still with me, got her pregnant while he was still with me. He saw me in December, we were together, while she was back at home and 4 months pregnant. He failed to mention for almost a year the fact that he was seeing someone and is now currently a father. I'm heartbroken...

My girlfriend and I are rather sexualy active and she is on the pill for a very long time now. A few days ago, the day she had to take her last pill for the stop week, she suddenly mentioned to me that when she went peeing and wiped she had a very small bit of vaginal discharge which looked brown. So far I recall she never had that before. So now 2 days further we are awaiting her period. Common 'symptoms' of periods are of course: stomache pains. Side and back pains. More hungry ETC. I had been googling about the discharge and it has numerous things to explain it. Pregnancy for instance is 1 of them. And Looking up pregnancy sympthomes show the EXACT same ones as periods. So yeah it is hard to think what it could be. Yesterday morning(the day AFTER her last pill) she said she had a sharp pain in her stomache that lasted short and dissapeared. This evening, all outta nowhere she keeps getting random hard nipples after we had sex (that was hours ago) while topless. She is not aroused. Maybe its a bit chilly in the room but i cant telll. So should i be worried?

So I was just wondering in a sister mother daughter of friend stop relationship. What does tough love mean

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I'm a 26 yo mother of 3. I had my first kid at 18 and I've not been happy with my body since then. I decided to eat healthy and get toned (I've always been naturally slim anyway, even now). So I did! And I am pretty damn toned..until you undress me. Childbirth has traumatized my body so badly and I'm really starting to hate my body. Its taken me so long to hate my body when I've literally been a mom for 9 years is because it's just hitting me how limited I've been over the years. I just grew into my adult body and ruined it...that quickly. I feel that my youth was taken from me, not by my children but by men who were much older. I never got to experience ANYTHING!I was 6 months pregnant during prom for goodness sakes. I know, "tough titty" right? WRONG! I'm getting a mommy makeover and I'm gonna live before I sink into a deeper depression. My friends are supportive but they're trying to convince me that my body isn't "that" bad and if I wanted to be a stripper there is totally a market for post baby bodies. Even if I believed that (I don't lol), I don't want to be lumped into a group of women who SOMEbody would smash...if they're drunk enough..don't get me wrong..I'm pretty...really pretty, but still feel restricted. Anyway back to my title, do you know strippers with post baby bodies? And I'm not talking about fat bodies that still have decent **** and an *** I'm talking saggy **** and loose skin around the mid section, "flaws" that are clear indication that you had a baby.

I signed up for a website that cost $1.00 to sign up and an annual $30 monthly fee, I gave them my gift card information, a bogus email and fake mailing address. Will they take me down and find my actual card and charge me? I wanted to cancel my membership but again everything I put was bogus and I didn't actually think I had to re login I thought I just had to click "cancel membership".

so I've know this guys for couple years we've met In person once, we like each other but it's difficult because he lives 3 hours away. Also he just finished bootcamp going into ITB tomorrow morning. Should I even try to be with him? I like him a lot and hes worth the wait no matter how long. Btw no I am not under age and he is not very old. I am 18 and he is turning 20 this November.

I am a 16 year old girl, my parents are still together but they hate each other. I have 2 younger siblings, one around 13 and the youngest is 5. So about a year ago a distance family friend moved into our house and he is still with us today. A few weeks ago I was really ill so I had to miss out on school. So the guy who is our family friend has a room downstairs and we have only one toilet which is upstairs and opposite my room. My door room is always closed. The day I was ill, the guy came upstairs and came into my room and just stands there and stares at me sleeping. He stares for a while and then comes closer and starts to stroke my hair and touches my face. I acted as I was sleeping and started saying stop it. Eventually he stopped and leaves my room. Once I was in my room and doing homework and my door was closed. He comes upstairs into my room and just stands there staring at me! he grabs my hand and tells me to hug him! I grab my hand back and refuse to do so and ask him to leave my room but before he leaves he reaches over and strokes my hair and kisses my forehead. I literally wanted to throw up. He has stopped his actions since I ignore him but he still gives me those creepy stares. My mum seems to really like his company and she know I do not like him but does not question it, instead she says I'm being disrespectful when I don't talk to him. I haven't shared this to anyone except here so I really want some advice. Thank you!

I have told Her numerous times to stop but she just smiles and keeps doing it...What can i do? She's led a pretty rough life so me being a nice guy might be giving her the wrong idea but that's just how i am with everyone...

I thought saying I love you would help but she just forgot about me. We used to tell each other how amazing we were but I think her man found out. I could never fall in love again i just get hurt falling T for the same person and that's her. Wish I could hold her again. We live far too difrently. She drinks socially and I don't. She's beautiful and I'm not. She loved me now she won't.

He broke things off earlier and decided that he wants to be friends. He has since contacted me every day and it's making me feel strange; mostly because I have no closure. He said that there wasn't a specific reason why he wanted a platonic relationship, but later said that it's because he wasn't completely ready for a committed relationship. Then he mentioned that his sex drive might feel different about that, even though he only wants to take sex off the table. He has been more than insistent that there isn't a current or potential female in his life. But I don't know what to do. I'm so confused. Is it even worth pursuing this friendship, if he can't be honest? Thanks in advance.

Known my boyfriend for 4 years only met him once he is in the usmc he just had 10 days boot leave he lives 3 hours away I drove up and saw him he just left today for ITB in NC. when I saw him we did not speak about anything we just sat at the lunch table across each other. I believe he is mad bc he sent me a letter at bootcamp and I sent him 2 back but they never got to him some trouble at the post office had happened without me knowing. he acted like he doesn't care but ?? I drove 3 hours for him to say nothing? I mean he knows about the letters but in person we did not talk about it. I miss him so much and I can't stop thinking about him , is this a break up what should I do? i care too much

I meet this girl online. This girl is young, 18, cute and like to have fun. She is a bit far away from me. After chatting a while, she wants my number so we can chat on text message application. She texts me after I give her my number. She usually text fast and curious about me. Is that a good sign she is interested? We can text everyday However, she is a bit hesitate when I ask if I can meet her. After 1 day, I ask her again, she says sorry because she is busy. We continue to contact frequently like before. Does she like me? What should I do? Any other signs I can notice? Does she like me? Any other signs I can notice?

My girlfriend begs me to hit her by spiked bat. Yes, it is extremely crazy and very dangerous but she tasted a lot when she was small and she loves it. I don't know how to make it and plan to buy it but don't have any idea how to buy it.

Well here's the deal I was close with my cousin when I was little we would always have sleep overs every weekend and sleep in the same bed. When we use to have sleepovers I didn't think any thing of it. As I got older I started to have these feelings for her I am attracted to everything about her from the way she talks to how she looks. After she graduated college she moved down south with her boyfriend. Now I see her 2 times a year if that :( she texted me for my 21st birthday and sent a kissy face that made my day I know that she most likely doesn't have these feelings for me but she knows I'm a lesbian and I just wish I could tell her but I can't due to how our family is and if I tell her I like her she would tell her mom and her mom would tell my parents that don't know I'm gay. See my problem? Has anyone else had feelings for someone you know you shouldn't? I really need some advice I'm just so heart broken and don't know what to do.

I met this guy at my job about 2 and a half years ago we talked for a while and started dating. We were dating about 2 years before I found out he was engaged to a girl that we work with and had been engaged to her about 3 years. In the 2 years I was dealing with him went went on several trips together, I use to stay at his house all the time, we would go to parties together. It was never any sign of a finance. But I found out he was cheating with another girl (not the finance) at work as well. After me and him got into it about the other girl (not the finance) co-workers starts telling me that he's engaged to this girl. I go to her and talk to her because I knew her and we did some work together, but she tells me that they are engaged but they don't put their business out for people to know. (They don't talk at all at work In front of other people) I told her that I had been dating him for almost 2 years and all the other stuff, she doesn't believe me. So when I confronts him about it he swears they are not engaged & says that she's jus jealous and being a bitter baby mama. I ended this with him but he comes back swearing to change and swearing their not engaged and tried to work things out but I told him no I didn't really trust him because I don't think someone would run around & lie about being engaged..Be continued to cal and beg and plead but then one day I saw her leaving his house in his car so at this point I call him and told him don't ever contact me again

I'm 16 and I was on the pill and my boyfriend said if I ever got pregnant he wanted nothing to do with me and it didn't even bother me because I didn't expect to get pregnant. But last week I missed my period and decided to take a pregnancy test and it turns out I am pregnant. Abortion isn't even an option for me but I'm afraid that when I tell my boyfriend he'll do what he said he would and leave me. I haven't told anyone yet but I need to tell him soon, what's the best way to do it?

We do have a couple of friends, but we do not like to share with them our private affairs specially involving financial decisions. Yes, husband is very good to me. I meant we only have each other in this world. We have no parents no real friends only superficial.

So i feel like i have sleep apnea and it has alot to do with my nose...I sometimes cant breathe deeply like something is blocking my air ways... I have a really big nose too... So is this why???

I spent two years wallowing over someone that I barely knew. I decided that I was going to try and make something of myself. Fast forward a year later and the lights are shining so bright all around me. Everybody loves me. By the next spring she comes over and I lose myself again. I know her type. We know exactly what we're trying to do. She doesn't give the slightest **** to reply because she is me. We've both been hurt. I fell in love with somebody I barely knew. She gave her life to someone who doesn't deserve her. Why would I contact her? Why would she claim her love for me? She can try to catch up but it's too complicated for her. I'll never be able to live a normal life & I don't even want one. It's not that my family forgot about me it's that I outgrew them. My potential safe guards my fragility. If I love I get hurt. These and those days are forever gone. I weight 142lbs & I'm 6'2 I'm a dead man. I died by myself. Nobody at my side

Well I just wanna know some real good gore with a bit of good music in the background or it could be silly I guess also I could really like a lot of blood and pulp

Im so ashamed of the marriage, I don't talk about it to anyone. Im re married now for about 5yrs. I still talk to his 2 kids often, since I have known them since the youngest was in Kindergarten. Their mother just died and I went to her funeral and sent them both a card. I want to know if its acceptable for me to still be friends with his adult kids? If its not, I will cut it off..

I was in a long distance relationship for almost 5 years. About a year and a half ago, things started to deteriorate, his feelings began to disappear and he broke up with me in October of 2015. Even though the relationship ended, we continued to stay in touch (even though we had extensively tried, without success, to stop talking to each other and move on). I traveled to Mexico in Dec. 2015, he traveled to where I was staying and we saw each other for what we considered to be the last time. We were together (you know what that means) and when it was time to part ways, he cried and told me that it was the hardest goodbye he had ever experienced, that he didn't want me to see him cry and that I needed to know he loved me and I was someone very very important in his life. We continued to talk throughout the year... and I was still deeply in love with him even though he had made it clear we were over. A couple of days ago, I received a message from a woman wanting to know who I was. It turns out she's the mother of his TWO MONTH old baby. She told me that they have been in a relationship for a year - he confirmed everything. I'm completely devastated, shocked - he began her relationship with her while he was still with me, got her pregnant while he was still with me. He saw me in December, we were together, while she was back at home and 4 months pregnant. He failed to mention for almost a year the fact that he was seeing someone and is now currently a father. I'm heartbroken. And when I demanded an explanation, he said he didn't have the courage to tell me about it because he didn't want to hurt me. He said he was so ashamed of what he did that he couldn't look me in the face. He also said that I needed to let it go, that our relationship had ended a long time ago and that I was still hooked to what we used to have. I asked him how long he was going to let the lie continue growing and he said he was actually going to tell me everything that same day... right.

So... I have this issue usually when I'm talking to another person or a group of people in which i get lost mid-speech. Like i could be having a conversation with someone then i begin to think or rather overthink and I'm suddenly lost for words or can't seem to say something that was on my mind a second ago. I usually don't think while I'm speaking especially after something pops into my head i tend to start speaking impromptu HELP

Okay so today I finally accepted that I'm a girl in a guys body. I need to know how to come out to my parents. Also I'm a lesbian girl and I don't know how to make sure my girlfriend will accept me. I'm so scared, what do I do?

During summer I met this girl in my tour and we became really good friends. However she never really told me her real name and the only thing I have left about her is a photo. Does anyone here know how to find someone with a picture taken by yourself of the person you want to find and not a post from the person I m trying to find. If even better could you help me find this girl out. PLZ PLZ PLZ

I'm 20, and I live with my grandparents, so fortunately I'm not around them often. But I lived with them the first 18 years of my life. They are addicts who have alway used emotion to control me and make me feel like ****. Some therapists believe I have developed BPD because of this. I understand that the best option is for me to forget about it and move on, for my own emotional state. However, it's quite difficult to let it go, and so when they're yelling at me for the littlest thing, I respond with an automatic thought. This automatic thought is usually of the same caliber as the person interacting with me. So, I'm a dick to them just like they are to me. How can I be nice to them like I am around other people?

A mass majority of people assume I'm illegal even though I'm not just because of the color of my skin. I'm just going to start trolling them and saying that I am and say a bunch of stuff that will make them mad. I have a few things in mind but there are some pretty awesome people out there that are savage when it comes to messing with people.

I am so completely confused as to why this woman lies SO much. I will give a few examples... She said that she was born in Ireland and that her parents brought here her and she was adopted. (She left her BC at his house and we didn't know and when we saw it it said NY. We gave it to her I front of her mom, and he asked her about her being adopted and her mom was like "WTF? No you're not!") She told him that one can call and put a flag on a minor's passport so if someone tries to take them out of the country then the authorities will call the parent's number and verify. (I looked it up it's BS. She said her first ex tried to talk their child out of the country but she had a flag put on the passport and they called her. Whatever.) She told my fiancé that they could not name their daughter Alexandra and call her "Sasha." She stated that in NY it is a requirement that a child be called by their given name. (This is just stupid.) I know everyone will wonder why my fiancé believed her, but in his defense, he did not grow up in this country. He has no clue of the laws and regulations. Why the eff does this woman lie SO MUCH?

I am going to a concert with my dad and this kid I want to avoid coming up to me come up. I wouldn't personally mind but it's my dad I don't want to meet him. We are pretty much in the same area too. We both have lawn tickets. How do I get this kid to not come near me without hurting his feelings and not letting him and my dad meet?

For many reasons, such as grass is greener on the oher side, or there is new people or there is long distance, etc.

I remember I was in school & I heard one of my classmates tell this girl "you turn me on". And than he asked the teacher if there was a super senior that was like 21 & she was really fine would you pipe her down. That made me feel bad cause I've been talking to this woman who is 21 I'm 17. I'll tell her how she's an amazing person and I'm there for her if she ever needs me and she'll be like how sweet & it'll all generally be very sweet between us but what if she's annoyed by me telling her I love her and how she's special. Do women prefer to be told you turn me on cause the girl the boy said that to responded positively but I could never say that to her. Because she deserves to be respected. Am I a bad guy

My boyfriend got into a fight last Friday and i didn't know what to do so i called the police i thought i did the right thing but now his sister is mad at me because apparently i was suppose to jump in i never been in a situation like that before so i didn't know what to do he got a ticket and so did the other guy so hes mad at me he won't return any of my calls and his sister just called me 1 hour ago saying i allowed someone to hurt her brother and that i don't love him so she wants to beat me up i don't know what to do i don't wanna fight her i never been in a fight before im not used to this kind of stuff i didn't wanna jump into a mans fight to get myself hurt she called me selfish i just don't know what to do i do love my boyfriend and he knows im not a fighter i don't understand why hes mad at me i wish i never called the police what do i do? Can anyone please give me advise my boyfriend and i are 18 his sister is 25 if anyone is wondering

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I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we lived together for a little over a year with my daughter. My daughter loves him and i know he loves us both. Well, lately i just feel like i'm over it. We rented out his mother's home before coming into this apartment (his idea) and it made his family (mom and sister) dislike me even more, even though i paid rent every moth and on time. I honestly do not care for them either. So, i haven't seen either of them since last December i think. Not only is that an issue but when ever they used to say horrible things about me and make "shady" comments around me or to me...i don't think he would stick up for me the way he should have. It was one point where we were going through a lot and he went behind my back for the fourth time and told them our personal issues, we got back on good terms and his mother stopped talking to him for two weeks and his sister BLOCKED his number for over a month! I don't feel as though he really put his foot down before talking to them again so things never cleared up after that. Besides his family drama (their lies about me,etc.) i've never disrespected them or said anything mean to them. Well, here's the big issue!!! Since i've been with him, he has not been financially stable. He helps when he says he can but it's not enough! He had car issues before moving into our current apartment so he had to spend his savings. For the first three months i paid 3/4 or rent plus electric, food, deposits, etc. He makes a lot more than me! I paid our rent one moth ahead on accident and thought it was a good idea in case we couldn't pay on time one month. But i wasn't going to tell him because he would tell me he would pay me in segments if i told him i paid rent a month ahead. Well i told him anyway because i wanted to be honest and i needed the money back instead of letting him pay rent with his card. He got upset, punch a hole into our door and said " i lied". We made up after that. But i feel like i'm over it. He's a good guy that isn't a threat to me. I know he would never hit me but it's childish to hit things. He also gave me a panic attack when he asked to pay in segments because i need the money. He finally said he would pay me the full amount but i'm over this! Any advice?

We met online in Nyc and talked here and there for 7 months. We finally met up and had sex and had a great date. For the last 3 weeks we texted regularly discussing our next date, which was going to be this weekend, I was out of town for 2 weeks and we texted even when I was gone . He texted me Wed that he was still at work, at 10pm and that he was having a bad week bc of his work load., I replied "wow late night, hope you get out of there soon, goodnight". It s now Saturday and hasn t said a thing! So not like him especially when we had tentative plans to hang this weekend. What do I do? Will he eventually text me back?