Lately they had to close their family business and their mother was diagnosed with a illness. And lately we've been talking rarely. Not as we used to do. We've always been close and could talk for hours and tell each other our secrets. But nowadays when we talk it's very short and civil. I don't know how to talk to them as old times, I kind of feel awkward and they seem like they don't want to spend time with me anymore. I understand what they're going through, should I stop talking with my friend and give them time and space?They seem like they're not interested in me anymore. We used to talk for hours everyday. Now it's just 3-4 times a week through a couple one answered texts. We've been friends for 5+ years and I feel bummed on how our relationship is withering :/. Advice?

I feel like you have to go it everyday with friends or be productive in school or get a job to be considered productive. This summer I at least go out 5 times a week if it just means hanging with my family or friends. I go to he gym once a week but Inused to go like 3 times a week back in the day. I play basketball every week too since last April. Other than that I don't have a job or do anything else. I hang out with friends once a week as well. Indidnt don clubs at school or play sports other trying out for basketball. Am I just lazy like those who stay at the computer all day. I try to a least do stuff outside every week.

His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he's made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He's asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he's studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn't work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I've seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can't be interested in me and he said he said he wasn't and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym Update: gym advice and said "don't you have a bf to teach you all this?" and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What's his deal? People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don't htink the gf relationship is serious cause no photos together on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they've been together for 4 years already. He also doesn't go to his grandmas when my car isn't parked and i'm out of town(my roommate tells me)

My friend he bought a hotel night and hes over 21. He would show his id when checking in. But im under 18 so would i need id or not? Were just friends btw

I was talking with some friends about pets. One asked me where I put my pet when I was away. I said my neighbor takes care of them, but once I had to put my cat in the vet while I was away because he had a mental breakdown and needed lots of human attention. This seemed to kill the flow of the conversation and it got me thinking, should you avoid sad topics in conversations like the plague? If so, what do you think of this? Are we missing something if we try to stick to only uplifting topics?

Alright, so a few weeks ago I got pulled over with a couple of friends. We were drinking and we had beer with us. I was a passenger and there was an open container but it was not mine. Im sixteen and there was three other passengers, they were all 19. They all got illegal transportation and underage consumption of alcohol but all I got was an illegal transportation ticket not a consumption ticket. Today i got a letter in the mail from a probation officer about how they were going to prosecute me of illegal consumption if did not meet with him and i would have to go to court. In the letter it said i would have to take a class of some sort. But, on my ticket it said all I got was an illegal transportation ticket so I am confused also on the ticket it said i would not have to go to court. Also, the police officer did not make me blow, nor did he make any of the people. Basically my question is am I going to lose my lisence because in the state of illinois illegal transportation does not mean you will lose your lisence, you will only have to pay a fine. So, why are they trying to prosecute me of illegal consumption and can they prove that i was drinking since I didn't take a sobriety test or take a breathalyzer?

So I'll start this by saying I'm not any jealous of my cousins, neither do I dislike them, but I feel really low self esteem whenever I am in a family meeting with them or have no choice but to be with them. I hope you'd understand that I'm not being any offensive... I'm an 18 year old female, I have two cousins, Heb, a college freshmens and Dee, a high school junior. Wheneve my relatives make plans for family meeting itll be us three invited. But I, personally, have NEVER been any closer than a relative to my cousins. I don't hang out/talk to them as much as they be hanging out together. I find myself in a blank box lost and unable to understand them. And I honestly don't think that I'll ever understand them. We'd talk sometimes. It makes me feel better but I'd be annoyed and unwanting to see them next day. I've talked about it to my couselor and she told me to never get around with them cuz itll gives me anxiety. I don't share common interest as they both do. I somehow really don't even wanna be with them. This summer, a week from now, we'll be going on a vacation together as a family. And just like any vacation that we've got together, I won't be as close as they are to each other. They're chill but too chill for someone who's looking forward to have fun like me. I do have friends that are probably able to come, but I'm not sure if they can. I REALLY don't want to be surrounded with people who won't understand me but I really don't know what to do about it HELP!!

It's his first time doing acid and he's freaking out,what can I do to help him?

I don't really know how to say this, so I'm just gonna say it. My best friend is suicidal and cuts themself. They told me this about a month ago, and ever since I've been very worried about them. When they eventually told me about their self-harm I was kind of devastated. As I said, they are my best friend and I never want them out of my life after everything we've done together (cheesy, I know). I can't honestly say I was surprised, though. I started suspecting things when the friend started making very self-deprecating jokes (I do too, it's just not very like them). I became even more suspicious when I saw scars on their arm, when I asked them about it they avoided the question (I know now that you shouldn't ask someone about their scars). Maybe a month after that they told me over Skype what they've been doing. While i was indeed scared and anxious, I definitely wasn't disgusted. I told them that they can always talk to me if they feel bad about something and I am sure that they believe me judging by what they've told me. I am glad they know I'm always here for them, but I don't know how much it helps. Some of the things they have told me are horrible and they have denied profesional help. I'm the only one who knows and if I screw up it might just be the end. They asked me to promise to not tell anyone and i want to respect their wish, but I really want them to get help. Might tell my shrink about this, but either way, I need advice. All answers are appreciated.

My bestfriend who just turned 18 told me she has a major crush on my God brother who is 21 and in college. I have known my best friend since the Kindergarten and we tell each other everything. But it took forever for my bestfriend to confess to me about her crush. Background info: My best friend is a really good girl who gets great grades, never gets into any trouble and is always trying to do the right thing. She is on her way to college as well. Although she is a good girl her parents kept her sheltered all her life and never allowed her to date or to talk with boys on the phone. But her brother is allowed to do anything he wants as long as he finished college. So I think she is native to the dating world. Recently I spoke with my God brother on the phone. I accidentally told him the reason why my best friend is always nervous when he is around is because she has a crush on him. Now he wants to talk with her on the phone. But there is two dilemmas my bestfriend brother is also best friends with my God brother and if he found out about them talking he would snap on both of them. Also my best friend never had a boyfriend she may be native to dating while my God brother is not and sexually active .....Should I tell my bestfriend the truth that I told her secect and then give her my god brother number?

I was putting my clothes away and after I was done I took a step backwards and I didnt realized that my hamper was right behind me. I tripped and my hamper was in the corner of my walk-in closet, so to my luck, my butt landed in the laundry basket, I sunk down into it pretty far, I tipped myself forward and stood up and tried to push it off, but it wouldn't work, I tried again and again but I can't seem to budge it. My hamper is a white circular one with rectanglar holes all around it with two handles on it. I noticed my skin is buldging out from the main handles but hardly anywhere else. Im home alone, what should I do? How can I get out?

I met a guy at art class (we're not friends though). I said: if you want to hang out, let me know. He said, absolutely. I've been waiting for weeks. I don't get it, he asked for my number and he 1st asked me out, he texts emojis if I use them, he's told me let's hang out, he'll often like my fb selfies, replies to my texts quickly, and sometimes texts 1st. He has the option to ghost me or be honest thru text, and he doesn't have to see me again. So why lie?

So this guy I know is having a block party right now and I was going to go with a friend and a couple of her friends. But now I really don't feel like going, and my mom is heading to NY soon, which I think I would prefer to do. My ex, who I haven't seen in YEARS, also offered to drive me home, which means I would have to see him. What should I do?? My friend is drunk right now lol but she's with people she knows. I'd feel bad to cancel out but idk maybe I'm not the party type anymore :/

My friend and I had plans today scheduled at 4. Around 2:30, she changed it to 4:30 and I was like okay that sounds good! I told my mom, she was upset because she couldn't drop me anymore, and I'd have to walk to the bus stop. My family just decided to go out together without me. Now I already showered, and got ready, and she asks if the time could change the time to 4. I hadn't seen this message since I was in the shower, and then she decides to cancel 3:45, when I'm just about to leave the house. Now I'm texting her, and ugh I just got in a lot of trouble because my family had plans and I feel I really changed them. She isn't replying, and I called her phone too.

I am going to a highschool and none of my friends are going to the same one as me . I don t know anyone in the school and I need advice on how to make friends , what kind of Natrual makeup should I do , boys , upperclassmen , teachers , homework , etc . Life expirences would help as well thanks

I don't. I don't want people to think I associate with trash. AND don't give me the "It depends on they crime they comm.... BS". If people can google your name and see your mugshot or your name under arrest records, THAN THAT MAKES YOU A FELON!

There is a kid in my grade that has been a pain since middle school. I really don't know why, but he thinks that we are friends. He lingers around me and my friends, a sits at out lunch table and everything, He follows us around, and tells terrible jokes and tries to be relevant in out conversations. All my friends think I'M the one who's inviting him to our table and stuff, and it's starting to get them pissed. The final straw was when he signed me up to room with him in an overnight field trip WITHOUT MY PERMISSION, even when I ALREADY HAD A GROUP. I just don't really get why, even though everyone says he's annoying while he's not around, they never have the courage tell him. I think this is because he is in a special ed class, or something, not to get too personal. I never tried to tell him either, and I'm so sick of it. I have gone to guidance counselors, but they just tell me to avoid him, which I really can't do. How can I get this kid out of my life? I don't want to leave any emotional scars, but I really can't stand this. Edit: I know this kid is having a hard time, and I realize that he has trouble making friends. I could handle him being annoying, If it wasn't going to have and an actual physical impact on my life. This kid is tearing me from my friends, and I think that warrants me asking for help online. I don't hate this kid, but he is definitely making things problematic. Sorry if I confused people with my username. The reason that I chose that is a completely different story.

The people in the school I attend seem to hate me. I am afraid to walk down a corridor, for the nasty and snide remarks they will make about me. They shout my name and laugh at me. I don't know what I have done to offend them. I am not hotheaded, so it is not difficult for me to ignore them, and still they continue. They are several years younger than me and I haven't got a clue who they are, yet they all know who I am. I have had "(name)! I know where you live! (name)" shouted after me on occasion in public. There are so many of them, it's not even like I can report all of them. As soon as I report one, he just gets his friend to start doing it so that it's impossible to stop. The teachers are sick of dealing with it since it is difficult to prove. My dad has suggested changing schools, yet I do not feel that I should move because of these imbeciles. I met one in the supermarket today, who shouted my name and laughed about me to his friend. I'm so sick of it all. What should I do?

So, all summer, I've sat at home watching other people have the time of their lives on social media. I wanted to invite some of my friends over because I kinda feel like my summer is awful. But something is holding me back. I wanted to invite some of my friends that I haven't hung out with in forever. I just kinda feel like I'm scared.

I have one friend, we use to tell each other everything. This past year she started dating. We are best friends but she is in to a horrible guy who started sending me her parents everyone hate mail based on what she told him or anything. He has anger issues and is paranoid. I did not want that drama so i gave her a lot of space. Do to her horrible attitude and all her lies she got into trouble at home because she was sending porn to random boys online. She was never that way around me so she moved in. She stayed for a month before spending the summer at her birth moms. After she left I found out she had a secret facebook and was logging in at midnight posting crap. She wasn't allowed to go on anything and now i am done. She lies so much. However she still considers me her best friend. She doesn't want me to know all the bad stuff she does so she lies. But i don't want the lies. I have been friends with her for 6 years, thats alot of history, mostly giving. Should I stop being her friend?

I dont have a phone, so I cant call friends, I'm 15 so I cant drive, I dont have any money so i cant really buy anything. What could I do here in my neighborhood? I'm a girl by the way. wow those are some really bad answers. thanks for the help guys :l

I am sick to the back teeth of trying to be nice and friendly to everyone only to have it thrown back in my face, even by own family never mind people outside my family. When I go to my grandparents house from time to time to visit I always say hello to them as soon as I enter the room they are in. My grandma says hello back most of the time but sometimes my grandpa wouldn't speak two words and I find it quite insulting as I'm his grandchild and I greeted him and he wouldn't even say hello. Another one is that my friend hasn't bothered contacting me in like 3 weeks. I'm so sick of these people walking over me so I want to become less friendly with them but not completely ignorant were I ignore them completely. How do I do this?

I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school, so when I joined high school last fall I decided to do something about it. There was a new boy in our neighborhood that had autism, he was homeschooled because his parents knew if he attended public school he would get bullied incessantly. He was the perfect bullied victim, so I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him and convinced his mom to cancel his homeschooling. As he entered school, he indirectly shifted the target off of my back and plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the homeschooling program he was in, Thus, now he is forced to live a miserable high school life, and I am now spared from the abuse. I quickly bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" and a "little prick" for what I did and told me to defend that kid the first thing the next day or I would get grounded. I didn't do it, and I began to panic on my way home. But in the end I escaped punishment from my actions through a stroke of pure luck due to that boy telling my parents that I defended him, in desperation of hopes that I would be his friend again. Everything ended so perfectly for me, but now it's been four years and I am in college doing well. I googled the autistic boy and found out he turned into a loser, he is now a criminal and blames it all on the bullies. I feel a BIT bad for what I did, not enough to regret it either tho

So I found this nude online as I was scrolling through tumblr, and I came across this nude photo of someone I come to think of as an online friend but I am not 100% sure it is them but it really looks like them. Here is where I am puzzled, should I tell them about it (I do not know its origin). Like I do not even know how to ask them if they have ever taken a nude photo and to tell them I have seen it. I also saved it on my computer to show them if they ask to verify it. Any advice?

So my parents are very over protective, and when they drop me off to the mall, they have to see the friend I m going with and then leave, and it s super embarrassing to tell you the truth, because I m also 16 years old, and having your mum come meet your friends at the mall is ridiculous. Well, I m planning to go out with a friend and after she leaves meeting up with the guy, but my parents might decide to stay at the mall and see us together.. How can I prevent them from catching us?

I had really bad anxiety from problems I was having. Those problems were over, but I was still a bit anxious. My anxiety had led me to be antisocial this past year. I can't keep a straight face and I feel like every person I meet, I ruin a chance of making a friend and make an enemy instead. I move my face a lot and I look like a snob. Like I do that nose twitch that looks snobby. I have a supportive family, but not any close friends. my brother got a new roommate who he will be living with for a year. His friend came over and I was not able to look friendly due to my anxiety. I talked nice to him but I felt wierd due to my anxiety. Did I create another problem now, or should I just be like whatever because its my brother's life not mine. I would not have acted this way if I was not anxious. I realized I was having PTSD. but now is this a problem because it is making me feel anxious again? Should I be worried or is it just PTSD?

Hi i'm a 16 year old guy who just can't get close to people. I've been like that since little. i could talk only to people and friends with interests like mine(gaming,parkour,etc.) and the closest i get is touch. i never hug or stay close to friends (unless forced) especially girls. i'm a bit socially awkward also i have a little amount of friends and i'm also more of a loner.

Could you all help me guess my girlfriend's bra size? Her sister says she's 34DD but I'm not sure. https://postimg.org/image/71kkjqlmp/

No mean answers please

Im hanging out with a lot of older kids now and she isnt very "teen-like" and shes very inncocent. I want to hang with them but im afraid they wont want me too. I am more like them than I am her now.

It's my friends birthday party tonight and it's a club, and he's sharing the party with another person who's birthday is around the same time. I don't know the friend he's sharing the party with. Besides my friend I'll only know a handful of people (maybe 3 or 4) and I know they'll know nearly everyone else and be talking away to them. Of course there'll be drinking at this party. I got extreme social anxiety coming up to the party because I'll know so little people there and I find it pretty hard to socialise, especially at events like parties where everyone's meant to be having fun. I was going to go if another friend was going, but he couldn't go at last minute. I told the friend who's holding the party that I got called into work last minute and couldn't make it. It's not like I wanted to not go, it's that I couldn't bring myself to doing it. Should I explain to my friend the real reason why I'm not going?

I feel left out, unwanted and like a bad sister. I have tried everything I could think of to get their attention, but they just give me the cold shoulder. It makes me so sad seeing them super close and sleeping together everyday. I'm not saying, we all have to be bff's. I just want them to love me and include me. I am 18 years old and they are 16 and 14. I'm also moving out soon and I'm affraid that we then will drift more apart. Is there anything I can do to either make them show interest in me, to get over it or just make sure we still will see eachothers as adults? Any advices are welcome. Ps I know that it happens to most siblings, it just hurts so much because I feel so lonely when I'm at family trips etc + I'm not as popular among my friends as they are (they both have many close friends, I have like 3) Pps we do have many of the same interests, so that is not a problem.

I'm 29 and I met this older man online in 2014 he's 42 he and I met in person for the first time last year. He and I were intimate then. We both live in different states he lives in California and I live in Ohio last week I went back to see him. He and I were intimate again and we had fun together he took me McDonald's for breakfast and then to this nice park he wanted to buy me pizza but I told him I didn't want him to. Also he wanted to take me to the beach but it was way too hot outside. Then we went back to my hotel and we had Chinese food he spent the night with me for a couple of nights. He and I aren't in a long distance relationship I do enjoy going to see him. He said that he didn't want to be in a serious relationship and neither do I. I told him that I enjoyed spending time with him and he said he did too. And that I wanted to come back in December and he said ok. He asked me how much was I paying to take Uber to the airport I believe he wanted to drive me but I told him I didn't have to pay much. He and I are not in a long distance relationship. When I told him thanks for meeting me he said it was his pleasure. He said that he enjoyed it too and thanked me for not overwhelming him. At one point he said he didn't have anything to offer me. But I told him that I wasn't in a position to be in a serious relationship right now either.

People have been hating on me ever since I have shifted. I have only around 10 girls who genuinely like me and are not fake like others. I have many guy friends, but some of them have started hating me too. Just because I am a tomboy? What the **** is wrong in being a tomboy? Everyone's talking behind my back and spreading rumours about me. Hate this. Many of my guy friends started hating me because I stood up for myself. There's guy in our building who says inappropriate things to all the girls. Obviously I am going to get pissed off, especially when he hit me out of nowhere. I hit him back and he started crying, so everyone's like how can you be so heartless, you are a girl!!! So if I am a girl, I should just stand there and let him do whatever the **** he wants? Everyone's like you should stop wearing all these boyish clothes and wear dresses you will look so pretty. I don't want to??? What the **** is the problem? I'll do whatever the **** I want. Everyone's pissing me off so much right now. Everyone's hating on me just cause I am different.

I am 18, and me and 5 friends went on holiday in uk. We were staying at this house... Anyway my friends know that i have a fear of getting buried alive. When i went asleep they picked me up and put me on a table, they got this wooden box thing and put it over my head and held it down... Then they started hammering it, like they were putting in nails. I woke up and screamed, they held it down for like 30 seconds, and i couldn't see nothing and i was sh*t scared. When i finally find out its a prank i was so pissed of, My friends were laughing except the one girl who was with us as she tried to help me.(i dont think she was in on it)... at this point i was on the floor lying breathing heavily cause i was scared af, and actuallly thought i was buried alive. i was so pissed of, my friend who said it was his idea was still laughing and i got up and punched him so hard in his jawside, he was just dazed. He was just seeing stars,and he slumped to the floor. i left and its been a few hours since.... did i over react. Iv gotten texts from the guy saying he doesnt hate me and that he deserved the punch. Idk what to do, im just pretty angry they would use my greatest fear as a prank on me.

They spread dirty rumors, create drama. They say 'I can be bad when I want to be' and do something pointless and callously mean such as getting guys to bully or beat up a certain guy, or get guys trapped in a manipulative tactic. They try to steal boyfriends (hear their extreme never ending gossip) and they post a whole lot of annoying 'I'm a beotch' memes on Facebook.

I dated someone for a while, off and on. I kept ending things with him but we'd get back together. I had mixed feelings about him from the beginning. Some days I liked him, some days I didn't. Some days I was attracted to him, other days I felt like I wasn't at all. When we were alone in private, I liked him and was comfortable but I never wanted my family or friends to meet him. In public, if he kissed me I would be uncomfortable. I just felt like I didn't like him enough so I finally ended it for the last time. I remember on our last date when I saw him I felt a little sick inside, I just didn't want to be dating him anymore. I felt like I wasn't being fair to him and knew he deserved more. I also wanted to find someone who I liked all of the time and was proud to be dating. He eventually accepted it and we went our separate ways but I'm still struggling. I miss him and I'm sad about it. I think he's moving on and will be fine but I'm the sad one... Do you think this is normal for me to feel this way? Or did I like him more than I would admit? So confused :(

What does it mean when a guy keeps telling you that you are pretty and also says 'my friend also thinks your pretty' ?

I'm black myself but some black people bullied me for speaking proper my mom from the north and dad from the south. And everytime I talk they look at me funny and this adult who work at the daycare they said I talk funny I really wanted to cry and punch her in the face . Sorry if my grammar is all wrong I'm so upset. Just so you know I have black friends who accepts me

Hi, So I ve noticed my best friend starts to laugh and told me it s "satisfying" when people cry. I noticed this when I was really upset and felt really bad for something (not gonna go into details) and I was in a call with 2 of my best friends (including her) and even though she kinda just said "it s okay" sometimes she would say "shut up" or just start laughing at me. i kinda felt a bit off when she did this, because my other friend just tried to calm me down and ask what happened, but she did the exact opposite. This morning she told me she was babysitting her nephew, and when he started crying she texted me that it sounded satisfying to her? She s seriously one of my best friends, but I don t know why she would do this?

I had just gotten an ice cream cone from the dining hall. I tell her, a kind of close friend of mine, to hold this ice cream cone for me so that I could retrieve something from my backpack. Once I have gotten the thing I needed from my backpack, I ask for the ice cream back. She proceeded to threaten the licking of my ice cream cone. I asked her to give it back to me. When she didn't give it back, I just walked away, I was about to go into my dorm, the one across the breezeway from her and she tries to follow me. I am bout to get on the elevator and she tries to stop me. Anyways, after telling her to leave me alone she left, but now she called my phone twice. I have not answered.... I am not being childish, we are both mature 17 year olds. I asked her for a favor, we are friends. She was the one being childish. Who licks someone else's ice cream?

i don t know what to do right now... my father left me when i was 3. i failed on my school. i have no friend. no one care about me anymore. i have no one to share with... i want to end my life here but... i do care about my mom. arrrgh!!! what should i do...? i can t handle it by myself... lease i need help...

I am not jealous of her but she was a b*itch so i want prove her that i am way better than her Well i am already way smarter than her

My friend is very healthy with no family history of anything. My friend is 30 years old. She has anxiety. She doesn't get out much. She reads the news alot when it comes to health and she thinks she has it. Just like yesterday, she thought she was having a heart attack but her mom told her she has no heart problems but someone told her people can still have them anyway. She's taking wellbutrin for her anxiety and stuff. I just wish I could help her to make her feel comfortable or maybe there is a website that is helpful

I have severe anxiety issues and a lot of insecurities. I'm in therapy and working on all my issues. A few days ago, a coworker was telling me about a get together and I blurted out "am I invited?". She said no, and I immediately apologized for being rude. I apologized about 100 times but I don't know what else I can do. I know I can be very awakened, very annoying and stress people out. Is there anything else I can do to apologize for this incident?

yesterday our school had a little feild trip. My brother is a senior and I am a sophomore. So the trip was for both of us. So the thing is, im not proud of it but I honestly had no other choice. I ditched school (so basically the trip) to go out with my boyfriend. If I had asked my mum she wouldve said no. They thought that I was in my trip when I really wasn't. I thought that Id arrive before my brother did but I couldnt and he waited for me. He didnt even see me in the trip so he asked my friends where I was and they said I didnt come at all! : when I came I went from the other door and acted as if I was coming out from the school. We were going to go home but then he decided to crash in his friends house, all he said me to was: u go straight home now and that he is crashing in his friends house so I said okay then he said: when I come back were gonna have a little chat. Oh gosh! He's so on to me. I was thinking of telling him I went with my friends but then again he wouldnt believe that. I mean why would I ditch shcool to do so I couldve just asked my mum if I could go out with my friends. he wouldnt tell mum before knowing why I ditched just in case it wasnt a bug deal ( he knows mum is very strict with me and helps me at times) but he will tots be pissed because I lied and especially if he knows who my boyfriend is. Shitt!Any advice?

My friend has been with me from the start of first grade. She's been loyal and helpful. But, she went to the States and she changed. She said that she had something to tell me, yet when I ask her the first time, she said that I had to wait a week. During the second time that I asked her, she said to give it a few more days. On the third try, she said no, she couldn't. I was infuriated. She promised me. She said so. Then she said that because of an incident that happened the moment right after she told me that, she couldn't. I video called her to figure things out. I told her that because she is in the states and with one of my classmates (frenemies) I was worried that there is a wall between us. She answered with a closed mouth (murmuring out) that no, the friends in the states are nice. I don't know what to do. Please help me.

So my friend met this person a long time ago, and she REALLY liked him, then he moved and she wanted to be like him... So that's what she did. This guy was very well known (popular basically), and knew the whole school. So she tried so hard to be like that and she was successful. She talked to everyone and ditched me half the time, you could tell that's not who she was, and now she's just in it to win or something, and know people and be popular. Her changing like that so fast actually caused fights, we don't fight anymore because I bite my tounge. It's really annoying how much she cares about it and being "tumblr". She also talks to people a few years older who she shouldn't know. I feel bad because she's nice but she's not acting anything like she was 4-5 months ago, I understand people need to change but she's completely different. What should I do?

A really sweet friend of mine is moving far away in a couple of days. They're starting their new life in a different place and they get to be with their family and they're going to have so many amazing opportunities and live in such a beautiful area and I'm really happy for them because of that. It's just that... I can't see them. I don't know if I'll get to see them again before they move. This person reached out to me first and they're just so wonderful and I am so grateful I got to meet them. I've been crying and been really down for the past few days and I really don't know why. I might get to see them one last time but I never really felt like I said a proper goodbye and I feel so selfish because I miss them terribly already and they haven't even moved yet. I have so many things I want to say but I feel so selfish about them because they consist of how much I'll miss them and how happy they made me and how grateful I am to have met them. I just want to see them one last time but I know they're really busy and I feel selfish because they said they'll see if we could hang out one last time and that's the only bit of hope I'm clinging too and I'm just really sad and feel terrible. I would love advice from anyone, I feel terrible because I feel like I'm being selfish and because I'll miss them... Any advice you have means the world to me.

I don't know where to start! All I feel is a strong sadness that could just lead to me to commit suicide! I don't know what I am going to do guys.. help me! I'm a 14 year old girl which feel my life ended.. My boy friend died in a cross road accident and ... I don't know what I am typing I am crying right know! I have been his friend from 5 years till know. We where young, he came in my neighbour hood and we had SO Many memories and selfies.. we were like best friends and everything was comfortable for us to say to each other and STUPID CAR I HATE MY LIFE STUPID POKEMON GO HE PLAYS WHY GOD I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! He was not the only boy best friend I knew, but he was part of me, someone special, a best friend who always does thing that make me mad example: throw water on me, push me in the street, takes photos of me and show them to his whole friends and edit me in an ugly way and saying mean but JUST AS JOKING! He would then say- Of coarse its not true my midget! (he calls me a midget cos I am much shorter than him) And he gives hugs and always ready to carry me on his back or lift me up so I could see views which I couldn't see. Beach, Cinemas, Shopping and so many memories us together with our friends and too many other things that will reach my word limit in Yahoo. He was cute .. the one I always rest my shoulder on, sleep on him, take selfies, say things I trust no one with but him. Smart, doing well in school, great style, Awesome 15 year old.! Someone that melts your heart being with kids and MUCH MORE You cannot live without him Guys I just CANNOT BELIEVE THIS RIGHT KNOW! I used to talk to him every second on fb, whenever I have the chanse! We have a million Group Chats together and We always spend our free time talking talking and having fun, joking but know tell me guys JUST TELL ME TO SUICIDE FOR GOD SAKE YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND ME GUYS! I AM SURE YOU WILL! What am I going to do know?!?!!?!? I DON'T HAVE ONE CLUE MAYBE I'LL GO DOWNSTAIRS AND OPEN THE UTENSIL COUPBOARD ?!?!? GET A KNIFE OR WHAT??? Think for some minutes people, your best ever friend that you loved as your brother every second of your life depending on him and his amazing everything that makes your days smiling and happier than they can ever be. huh? WHAT??? WHAT THEN? Left Alone like this, without him SUCKS ! I have his number, his phone was the love of his life, always with him fb with me and calling me and I called him so much for no reason at all to see if he is Okay because of this new game he is playing.. POKE MON GO I HATE YOU SO MUCH YOU KILLED MY BABY WHY DID YOU HAVE TO ******* DIE BECAUSE OF A STUPID GAME SWEET?!??!? I am sorry guys for doing this I am thinking and crying and qhh I HATE THIS HELP ME GUYS! He Once had told me when we were walking to mc donalds (close to today like 3 days ago) If I am going to end up crashing in something tell me before. I was shocked he didn't look at me once. To all people heard of Pokemon go please guys BE CAREFUL! Look what happens! How many people suffering because of his game^!!! One of them, me, another my best friend, his girlfriend! She is away in America at the moment. She is JUST SHOCKED! She doesn't wanna do anything with her life, i feel her

So... I had some kind of a best friend, I m 16. We ve known each other for 4 years, after the first one we had to start texting because her family decided to move to a different city. I was going through a hard time before the fight and she said that she thought that she made my life worse; it seemed like every time that she wanted to talk to me something happenned and life slapped me on the face . She said that if that would make my world better, she would leave me and let me be. I thought that was really hurtful and I decided to stop talking to her. I didn t even send her a text on her birthday... that was really stupid of me. 3 months have passed, we still haven t talked, she sent me a text on her birthday that she had seen how much I loved her and cared about her. I didn t reply. I think about her a lot these days and I really want to get in touch with her again but I think that she would just block me or something... what do I do?

So I went to visit my friend last weekend at his school since he's staying over the summer and his roommate said that me and my friend had sexual tension, me and this guy liked each other a little in high school so what does that mean??

Last year she started liking a guy who was already in a 3-yr. relationship. As much as I and all our other friends suggested to her to leave him alone and honor that, and she swore up and down that she would, she'd turn around and go down to his dorm and end up drinking with him, kissing, touching, and eventually having sex (she ended up giving him her virginity) anyway. Long story short, they're together now, for going on 6 months (his gf is the one who ended this b/c of the cheating.) It's negatively changed the way I see her b/c it caused an entire semester's worth of drama, and to this day she doesn't see anything at all wrong with her actions. I know it's her life and she can do what she wants but I'm getting tired of her self proclaimed "living in a pink bubble" mentality; as of now she's had 3 pregnancy scares in the past 4 months because they keep taking the condoms off during sex because "it feels so much better w/o it". This might make me sound cold but I can't bring myself to feel bad for her anymore. I just feel like at 24 she should know better.... I'm 4 yrs younger and I often feel like I'm the mature one. I'm tired of the drama she creates around herself and inevitably sucks me and all the rest of us into.