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- Question: Don't want to talk to former coworker what to do?
- Question: Should I replace my friend?
- Question: What are some questions to ask someone who you think you may already know?
- Question: Please, I need advice. I do not feel supported in my breakup and am now second guessing myself?
- Question: Help! Should I replace my friend?!?
- Question: My 14 year old friend wants me to take her to a nightclub - HELP!?
- Question: Do u think she would miss me when I die?
- Question: How can I make new friends and ditch my old ones?
- Question: How do I force my best friend to forgive me after I did something unforgivable to him?
- Question: Was he flirting?
- Question: Problems leaving my house?
- Question: I'm worried about my friendship?
- Question: How to cut your best friend out of your life?
- Question: What s a generic birthday gift idea besides cash/gift card?
- Question: Is it wrong for an 18 year old to hang out with a 22/23/24 year old?
- Question: How can I outsmart my friend?
- Question: Why is he so jealous?
- Question: Would you get angry with this friend of mine or not? It is her fault or mine?
- Question: If you had really boring friends who never wanted to do anything, would you suck it up and deal with it or would you ditch them?
- Question: How do you get over one of your best friends letting go of the friendship that you weren't ready to let go of? Was she even a true friend?
- Question: How do I get my mom to let me sleep over at my friends who I've known for almost 3 years?
- Question: Everyone keeps blaming me for something really big that I haven't done...?
- Question: I really like my best friend she s my life. But she does have friends that are closer to her than me.?
- Question: Should this be something to be mad about?
- Question: I have a friend who is very overweight-2 of our mutual friends have approached me about this--I keep saying,?
- Question: Do you think he'll want to see me again?
- Question: Any way to contact the police online to save my online friend from suicide?PLEASE HELP?
- Question: Help with a bully of a friend!?
- Question: Does it sound like my friend was telling the truth about the sexual abuse?
- Question: I used to be a copycat. Can you stop being a copycat? Or am I always going to be one?
- Question: What should I do about my friends and sorority "sisters" completely lying and tricking me about rooming with them next year?
- Question: What is wrong with me?
- Question: What is a friend?
- Question: Is it messed up to lie about this?
- Question: Should I throw an birthday/engagement party for my best friend and her fiance?
- Question: I need an objective perspective?
- Question: At what age is it ok to let go of your dreams?
- Question: Should I ask my internet friend to hang out?
- Question: Are they my friends or am I wrong? ):?
- Question: I miss my Uncle?
- Question: What would you do if you if you were me?
- Question: Does anyone know Collin Smith from 2nd grade in Longacre elementary school? he's a childhood friend of mine.?
- Question: Why wont my wife tell me why she hates my female friend who is like a sister to me?
- Question: OMFG 'best friend' keeps copying me!!?
- Question: Should I make more plans with them?
- Question: How would you feel, what should I do?
- Question: My friends don't respect me when my other friend is around?
- Question: Is This Guy Interested? I Can't Understand?
- Question: I've lost almost all of my friends due to mistakes I've made?
- Question: How can I stop being "rich" and "snobby".?
- Question: A guy said I'm intrugue; what does this mean?
- Question: Should I abandon my friend?
- Question: Im a 15 year old girl i have no friends and i want a friend?
- Question: Why do some people don't know how to joke?
- Question: How do Friendships and Communication work in the modern electronic age?
- Question: My friend beat me at school in the hallway and I started crying?
- Question: Is this a friendship worth keeping?
- Question: Cosa devo fare???
- Question: Bully denies everything she did wrong?
- Question: How can I fit in at this new school?
| Question: Don't want to talk to former coworker what to do? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 05:27 PM PDT I got a new job and there is a former coworker that I talked to a lot at that job and got to know well. as I got to know her better I didn't like what I saw as this person was often confrontational not real fights but just dumb bickering. I don't like talking to them because I feel i have to tip toe around what I say and it makes me uncomfortable. I try to keep my responses short and I knew at one poiht i would be called out and asked why. which actually happened today. basically said unfriend me if you want. I just response that I had a long day. |
| Question: Should I replace my friend? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:52 PM PDT I have a good friend that I went to high school with, but the thing is that he's moving into a college far from me. I can't take long distance relationships well. Should I replace him? I was thinking of replacing him with his sister who I am also good friends with him. What to you think I should do? |
| Question: What are some questions to ask someone who you think you may already know? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:51 PM PDT One of my best friends disappeared a couple years ago without a trace. I recently just got a friend request from someone who reminds me of them perfectly; the way they write, how they talk, their personality, the things they post, etc. I would typically just ask if I knew the person, but I don't really want to come off as weird if it's not my old friend. Does anyone have any suggestions on questions I can ask to see if I really know this person? |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:40 PM PDT I've attached a photo of the entirety of what I'm trying to say in a link below, because frankly, all that I needs to say surpasses the Yahoo Answers character limit. Please, I need all the advice I can get. Thank you so so SO much. https://www.flickr.com/photos/143337180@N07/shares/Pxz583 |
| Question: Help! Should I replace my friend?!? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:38 PM PDT I have a good friend that I went to high school with. Now that we graduated we're currently going to different colleges and he is far from me which is a problem. Should I replace him? I was thinking of replacing him with his sister since she isn't leaving and we're good friends too. What should I do?? |
| Question: My 14 year old friend wants me to take her to a nightclub - HELP!? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:37 PM PDT I'm a 19 year old girl and she asked me if I could take her. I said no but I don't know how to tell her parents. She asked me once and when I said no, I've heard her and her friends plan on going somewhere at night where girls at that age can't be at! Her parents don't speak English and I don't speak their language, also I don't know how to explain that she can't be in a club at 14 - I know that kids at her age are giving lap dances and partying and drinking already! I'm worried that some of her friends that are her age may be a bad influence on her and pressuring her to do some things that she shouldn't be doing. She still has four years left of high school (she started high school in 8th grade) and five years before she can go clubbing (19 is the legal age here in Canada). A lot can happen throughout these years, especially if she's hanging out with the wrong crowds. I would talk to her parents but they don't understand any English at all. My main concern isn't about the whole nightclub thing - I think that these teenagers have been manipulating her for about a year since she started high school. She never asked about adult entertainment stuff much before she hung out with them unless someone brought it up but it would only be a small conversation like asking what it's like and stuff but now that changed.. She was previously "dating" a guy but turned out to be a harmful relationship. That guy has abused her and taken advantage of her before. I don't think that she's bad, she's a great kid but it's those kids that are manipulating her. Everytime she asks a question related to adult things and I ask her why she asks, she says that it's because of her friends. (what she's heard, what they told her to ask, etc.) |
| Question: Do u think she would miss me when I die? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:26 PM PDT Let's say you meet this guy when he's 11 & you don't see him again until he's 17 & he says you're amazing & tells you that God has a plan for you & admired you for being so genuine to him. He thanks you for not treating him like everyone else does & than you find out one morning he's dead. How would you feel? |
| Question: How can I make new friends and ditch my old ones? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:17 PM PDT |
| Question: How do I force my best friend to forgive me after I did something unforgivable to him? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 04:11 PM PDT |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:56 PM PDT I was talking with this guy about food and I asked him if he likes Chinese food. He said he doesn't like the way it smells. I said 'not even Chinese American food?' and then he said, 'not even Chinese American food. But I might be willing to try it despite its smell under the right circumstances.' And I asked what the right circumstances were and he said "with you :)" Was he flirting? |
| Question: Problems leaving my house? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:56 PM PDT My dad wants me to go on this hike with his friend and her Spanish class (I'm a first year too) but I just can't. I'm not good with new people and I feel bad like I'm missing out on life but all I want to do is cry. What should I do? |
| Question: I'm worried about my friendship? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:51 PM PDT So basically me and my best friend got into a fight and it ended with her hating me. I've tried to apologize but she won't listen and I don't know what to do. She recently blocked me on skype and steam. That's the only way to communicate with her because she lived far away. Can someone help me? |
| Question: How to cut your best friend out of your life? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:49 PM PDT i've been friends with her for almost 3 years. but yesterday, she said stuff about me to my other friend. my other friend told me and when confronted her about it, she changed the subject. then we got into a fight and i suggested we shouldn't be friends anymore and she said "wasn't planning to be". she also has left me in the dust. she has new friends and she can turn to them when she's down. i only have one trust worthy friend, but i'm glad that she isn't fake. i just need some advice on how forget her. and how to move on from our friendship. |
| Question: What s a generic birthday gift idea besides cash/gift card? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:44 PM PDT I want to make something instead of it being store-bought. I don t know this person well. |
| Question: Is it wrong for an 18 year old to hang out with a 22/23/24 year old? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:43 PM PDT Is it wrong for an 18 year old to hang out with a 22/23 year old? |
| Question: How can I outsmart my friend? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:42 PM PDT I am going to sound like a weird ten year old right now but my friend and I were joking around and we pretended to be married. I then wanted to "divorce" and she made me sign a paper saying divorce on it but there was tiny small print in the corner saying "you will be married forever and no contract can break that." I keep telling her that I want to break the contract but I can't. What do I do? |
| Question: Why is he so jealous? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:38 PM PDT This guy that is in my friend group likes me a lot, I use to chill with him and my other frinds but he recently told me he hates my bestfriend. She didn't do anything for him to hate her, but he has been talking crap about her and some things he has said are very rude. He just recently told me the reason he hates my bestfriend is because we are always together. All of my friends think he is crazy and obsessed with me. I don't know what to do because he is in my friend group so I will always see him and I don't want him to hurt my bestfriend if I stop communicating with him. Please help! |
| Question: Would you get angry with this friend of mine or not? It is her fault or mine? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:37 PM PDT So I was talking to Ashley,one of my girlfriends yesterday during lunch break. We were talking about what to do in the evening. I asked her if she wanted to go out (we live in a Kansas town that has like 2 bars). She agreed. About 1 hour before we were supposed to meet she canceled saying she was really tired. I was like "ok no worries". Then since I didn't know what to do I went with my sister in law at the bar I was originally supposed to go to with Ashley. After a couple of minutes there she was,laughing with a friend. She saw me,I didn't tell anything,I just looked at her and then left. What do you think about the whole thing? She texted me after a couple of hours if I had gone there to check if she was there or not but what the hell? Is it my fault now? |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:32 PM PDT I feel like ditching my friends because I'm tired of them. They're so negative, annoying and boring but I'm scared I'll regret it :/ I've always had really fun & outgoing friends and ever since I moved to this new school it's just.... |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:25 PM PDT So I texted my "best friend" because we used to be so close and she doesn't answer my texts until hours later or even the next day. My other best friend and I never had a fight but she decided to hang out with the other best friend because she drinks and smokes and hangs out with a lot of boys and does things with them. I don't do that, that's their life they can do whatever they want. So I was hurt I would text them and say "hey how you doing?" I would get "fine" I asked them about Hanging out" have to see what my schedules like" meanwhile they're both together almost everyday. I was hurt a lot. So just the other day my other best friend texted me I'm so sorry I've been such a shitty friend, you didn't do anything. But I texted the other one saying hey is everything ok? I noticed we haven't been talking like we used to always and we haven't hung out. She's like "things are just crazy" like um ok? How do I just move on? I've just been there for her through everything and she never once reciprocated. |
| Question: How do I get my mom to let me sleep over at my friends who I've known for almost 3 years? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:17 PM PDT Me and my friend, let's call her Judy, snuck out of my house one night last summer at 12 am and got caught. But we weren't doing anything bad just sitting outside on a street. From this month it was a year ago so it's been a while. I got in a lot of trouble and couldn't hang out with Judy for months. Soon my mom slowly let me start hanging out with her again. But My mom doesn't allow me to sleepover at her house and she's suspicious about everything we do. Me and Judy understand it was bad and we learned are lesson and don't plan on doing it ever again but I don't think my mom understand that. Every time I ask to sleepover at Judys she says no and we just get bored at my house Bc we are there every weekend and we want to have one at her house. It's been a year since we snuck out and we haven't done anything bad or wrong since. She still says no everytime I ask but I really want to. What do I do? |
| Question: Everyone keeps blaming me for something really big that I haven't done...? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:13 PM PDT There's this girl in my class (going to call her Anna) who has been bullying me since we were in kindergarten. Now we're in 8th grade. She has said some very mean things about me and alot of other people. Now her reputation is ruined and noone talks to her or hangs out with her. Some time later we all forgave her but then someone had cut holes in her gym clothes while they were in the locker. Now all of my classmates' parents (including Anna's and mine) think it was me who did it, since I was the first one to be 'in a fight' with her. My parents don't really trust me anymore and always ask about that incident. I really do understand where bullying like this could lead and that's the reason why I would never do it! I also understand that my parents are only trying to help Anna but at the same time they are making things so bad for me. I've been crying alot because I really want them to believe me. If someone could give me any advice I would really appreciate it! |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 03:01 PM PDT I ll start off by saying I m a girl and I m straight. But I need advice. I look up to my best friend. She s great at singing and I love every thing about her. I actually think I m fanatic about her. Maybe I look up to her a bit too much. Its summer vacation and I m in middle school and I miss her so much. Do you think there s a way I could just let this go and be myself? I always try and make her happy. Kind of like pearl did to rose on the show Steven universe on cartoon network. |
| Question: Should this be something to be mad about? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:56 PM PDT Okay, so I was talking to my friend two days ago and getting to know her, because we met each other last week. We both were teasing each other, but she was teasing me more. She said she knew more bad words than I did. She was trying to prove that she wasn't a goody tushu. She named five and then I named five. Then I said her name and smiled. She frowned and got up from her seat. I said I was kidding and she asked if I was being serious. She said I shouldn't kid like that and I said I was sorry. Later, I asked how I could make it up to her for doing what I did, which was label her name as a bad word. She said she doesn't know how I'll make it up and told me she was upset. This was two days ago and she's still upset about it. Should this be something to be really mad about? I just said her name was a bad word, but I was kidding and I meant to say she was bad and that it means a bad person, but I was only teasing. |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:53 PM PDT "I am really worried because she is DEPRESSED." but they don't respond to that but just keep harping on the weight. do they really not see that the depression is the real problem? do they just not care about her frame of mind--only her appearance? I don't know wth to say to them--it pisses me off-and I have no support for helping my friend get help. any ideas? tx |
| Question: Do you think he'll want to see me again? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:27 PM PDT I'm 29 and I met this older man online in 2014 he's 42 he and I met in person for the first time last year. He and I were intimate then. We both live in different states he lives in California and I live in Ohio last week I went back to see him. He and I were intimate again and we had fun together he took me McDonald's for breakfast and then to this nice park he wanted to buy me pizza but I told him I didn't want him to. Also he wanted to take me to the beach but it was way too hot outside. Then we went back to my hotel and we had Chinese food he spent the night with me for a couple of nights. He and I aren't in a long distance relationship I do enjoy going to see him. He said that he didn't want to be in a serious relationship and neither do I. I told him that I enjoyed spending time with him and he said he did too. And that I wanted to come back in November and he said ok. He asked me how much was I paying to take Uber to the airport I believe he wanted to drive me but I told him I didn't have to pay much. He and I are not in a long distance relationship. When I told him thanks for meeting me he said it was his pleasure. He said that he enjoyed it too and thanked me for not overwhelming him. At one point he said he didn't have anything to offer me. But I told him that I wasn't in a position to be in a serious relationship right now either. Do you think he will want to see me in November. |
| Question: Any way to contact the police online to save my online friend from suicide?PLEASE HELP? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:24 PM PDT Tomorrow my online best friend is planning to commit suicide and although i'm doing my best to talk her out of it i'm scared i won't be able to save her and I need to know if there is a way to contact the police from where she is (Stratford upon Avon i think) online (because i'm in France and my cell phone is broken) What do I do?? |
| Question: Help with a bully of a friend!? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:02 PM PDT So there's this friend named named, lets say Jean. Me and her have been friends since kindergarten, so we've known each other all our lives basically. But suddenly, two years ago, in 8th grade, she just ignores me. I tried to talk to her but she never responds, I texted her, she probably blocked me, I called her, hell I even tried sending letters to see what was wrong. So I asked around, and finally someone told me she told the school that I was a bully and I ignored her and called her bad names and she spread rumors about me. I was shocked, because I didn't do anything. So eventually, I told her I'm sorry for doing what she thought I did and she accepted it. So we were on good terms, but I still got glares from people. Then later in 9th grade, she did the same thing again. So I was sick of this and I told my dad. He told me to just end it. I said yeah, and I ended the friendship. But the thing is, the drama doesn't end there. She's still friends with my group, so every time they have a party, she's invited, and so am I. What she does is she steals everyone, makes then ignore me, even if I try to join the group, someone says, "Go away, we're not talking to you." It hurts my feelings and I usually leave early. She always tries to make my life a living hell. So a few weeks ago, she did the same thing except grabbed my arm, told me to join the group, and we had fun. Then she asked if I wanted to be friends. I'm afraid if I say no, she'd make my life even worse. Help!? |
| Question: Does it sound like my friend was telling the truth about the sexual abuse? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:01 PM PDT We're 17. My friend "Jenna" is nice and all but she's kind of. A lot. She has no boundaries. She has sex at school, made out with a dealer, sex at a party, friends w benefits.She'll get fingered by a guy 4 yrs older than her. She barely knows the guys she's had sex with. She said she drank so much vodka she couldn't walk or talk normally for hours. She threw up. She has done weed and hookah. Which I guess isn't bad, but I heard her say, "Cocaine isn't that bad." She told me once that when she was at a low point she almost killed herself. She has abandonment issues too. Anyway, she recently told me that she has been sexually abused. She didn't seem that emotional about it. Kind of like, "Indeed, I have been." Anyway, at first I wasn't sure if I believed her because. Idk. I acted like I did though. So, we have a mutual friend we'll call Mary. Mary sort of touched Jenna's shoulder, and Jenna literally did the biggest flinch I have ever seen. She flinched like a foot, and shook a little. |
| Question: I used to be a copycat. Can you stop being a copycat? Or am I always going to be one? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 02:00 PM PDT I can't even think about it without feeling stupid. In middle school, there was a girl on instagram, and I loved her instagram. She was a friend of my friend. I copied her instagram: the design, quote, and format. I changed like 5 words, but it was pretty much the same quote. I look back, and I was so stupid. In 9th grade, I started a tumblr and I saw a quote on my friend's bio, and it was from a book I really enjoyed. I put it as my bio. I feel really stupid. I am 10th grade rn. I didn't know what the meaning of copycat back then. Now, I do, and I feel stupid. Sorry, i meant I liked the girl's instagram bio I didn't know what I was doing was bad. I look back, and I just feel like an idiot |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:55 PM PDT So next year I'm supposed to move into my sorority house. I had planned to live with these 4 girls but then one of the girls backed out a few weeks before and decided she wanted to live with 2 other girls. No big deal right? After that happened it looked like it would be the three of us living together. The rooms in our house are 3 person and 4 person rooms. Well the three of us had talked about what room we wanted to pick and everything for a while. The girl who dropped rooming with us and one of the girls who was living with me are very very close friends. Anyways, when the day came around to picking rooms and all after I had picked our room and left to go back to my room, i got a text from one of the girls saying that she was gonna room with the girl who had dropped rooming with us earlier that, basically tricking me, i believe. It hurts me horribly that I had been played like that by people who were supposed to be my friends, let alone my SISTERS. I got a fishy feeling that day we picked like something bad was gonna happen, guess my intuitions were right. What should I do about this situation? It hurts me horribly so bad I went into a depression and still am in one, like I have to live in a sorority house with these people all next year with their tricks and bullying to me. What do I do/what do you think about this situation? |
| Question: What is wrong with me? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:46 PM PDT This is kinda a lot to write about so you'll have to go the link below and you'll have to translate the page into English too. http://ungdomar.se/forum/thread/vad-aer-det-jag-goer-fel |
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| Question: Is it messed up to lie about this? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:43 PM PDT Dark question. I'm 16 now. I have many friends, but probably 3 that I'm really close to. They all know my secret. So, I was raped when I was 13. This guy lured me on the internet basically and it was the back of his van. I kind of felt like he was sucking my soul out of me. I've literally only told my friends this specifically because they asked. I told them I was raped. But I totally changed the story of how it happened, and how old I was. I said I was 10, and that it was an old babysitter. That's not true. I just don't want to get **** for being a dumb ***, so I lied. |
| Question: Should I throw an birthday/engagement party for my best friend and her fiance? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:36 PM PDT I don't particularly like him but thought it be a nice idea to do for my friend. Should I? |
| Question: I need an objective perspective? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:33 PM PDT Back story my husband decided for us to separate this past feb. I have a friend who I was i did something with online but he and I were never in a relationship. I also informed my husband about it and told him this person lives in another country and I wouldnt leave him for this guy. My husband before we married spent yrs talking sexually with woman. also lied and lied and lied about many things including his career and attending college. My husband is now seeing someone has been for over a month. I want to take a trip to see my friend whom I have been speaking with but hes afraid if I do it will effect me in court when I go for sole custody. Im not sure how.. my husband moved on before me, he choose to leave me. Hes never home to spend time with his daughter and one night hurt me where I had to call police. I see everything in my favor..but is he right will it ruin my changes if I go see him? |
| Question: At what age is it ok to let go of your dreams? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:31 PM PDT I'm 26, I work as a waiter and I don't think that's going to change anytime soon |
| Question: Should I ask my internet friend to hang out? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 01:17 PM PDT So, I ll start with this. She s a real person, not catfishing me. My friend goes to school with her and talks to her alot. I won t get stabbed if I meet up with her. My friend introduced us online since we like Kpop and we were both at a convention a month ago (we didn t see each other). We ve been talking since then. We re still pretty casual with each other, but we re not strangers either. There s a mall that I want to go to on Monday, and she lives near that mall. Should I ask her if she wants to meet up, or would it be too awkward? I was just thinking, since we live somewhat near each other and like the same things, why not hang out for a few hours and see what happens? I asked my friend last night, and he said I should ask, but I m lowkey nervous to tbh. Should I wait or just go for it? |
| Question: Are they my friends or am I wrong? ):? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 12:50 PM PDT Lately I've been so confused... we've stuck together for 2 years in highschool but it just doesn't feel right...although they've helped me they never realize that they're hurting my feelings...I'm the person to always cheer them up and do whatever it takes to make them happy... I never forget their birthdays or presents but they have never given me a present only when I propsed that we should gift each other at Christmas...they also keep ignoring my messages...and they don't care that talking to my bullies is actually hurting me...I mean I don't talk to the people that have hurt them because I know the pain they have endured... but it seems like they'll just never understand... making new friends is not an option for me because I'm a foreigner and people have already judged my country based on the acts of a single individual...so are these people my friends or have I mistaken it? |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 12:39 PM PDT *IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO READ THE QUESTION, PLEASE READ THE INFORMATION AT THE BOTTOM FOR WHAT I NEED ADVICE ON* _______________________________________... My Family is apart of a cultural club. Most of our friends are from this club. My parents are always organizing the events. My sisters are quite a bit older than me, so they are usually helping out. When I was younger, one of our family friends would play "tag" or "hide and seek" etc. While my parents were busy. I considered him as my "Best Friend". I grew up having him as my best friend and my favorite person. He was just like a Uncle to me. And I loved him like family. But as I grew older, my parents had lots of friends. And we didn't spend as much time with them as we did before. There family has become such a big part in my life and I miss when we use to be together all the time. We went on family vacations with their family and we did everything together. Now they aren't always here. I miss them. And I don't know what to do. _______________________________________... How do I miss them a little less until I get to see them again? Please don't say to "call, facetime, Skype, email, or write a letter" because I've already considered those. I would like advice on how to feel better and instead of being sad, be excited about the next time I'll see them. Thank you ♡ |
| Question: What would you do if you if you were me? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 12:32 PM PDT So Sunday was my birthday and I wanted to spend the day with my best friend. She came to my party but was basically on the phone the entire time. She left early because she said had to do laundry. However, it turned out to be an excuse just to ditch me to see her boyfriend. Now I'm a little mad at her. When I'm at her house, she usually is in her room on the phone with her bf. I'm thinking about ending our friendship, but she stood up for me when her friend called me a retard. I'll never forget that. So what should I do? |
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| Question: Why wont my wife tell me why she hates my female friend who is like a sister to me? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 12:23 PM PDT I have a very good female friend who I have known for the last 3 years. She has been a mentor to me and over the last 4 months we have really gotten to know each other. I have no choice but to see her at least once a week which is why we have become close. She really is like a sister to me and she sees me like a brother. We have even called each other brother/sister. There are no feelings on either side except friendship. I value her opinion and she has great incite about life. She has helped improve the relationship I have with my wife and I am a better man knowing her. Recently my wife told me to minimize contact with her and ultimately stay away from her. When I asked why she said "you don't need to understand it, you just have to respect it!" We had a big fight over it because i really want to know why. I want to honor her wishes but she is essentially asking me to give up a good friend. I am not going to further push the issue but I feel I deserve an answer. Why wont she help me understand the reason? |
| Question: OMFG 'best friend' keeps copying me!!? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 12:02 PM PDT I've asked about this before and I still haven't done anything about it. It's now the summer and I've not got to see my 'friend' for 6 weeks unless I choose too but she STILL ******* COPIES ME! she copies what I wear, the way I take pics, my insta bio, my nails, my hair! ******* EVERYTHING. I know it's a first world problem and it sounds petty but it's pissing me off and I have no idea what to do or how to deal with this situation. Please help thanks for all answers x |
| Question: Should I make more plans with them? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 11:37 AM PDT Okay so I had made friends with a bunch of friends but only 2 from our group chat came and 1 brought a friend that we invited later on and we were all friends with her. So we ended up spending three hours at the coffee shop and then going back to my house after. The whole time everyone was excited and talking about how we should make more plans just us and how we should be a squad (we're in high school btw).They also made a new group chat just for us. They all really liked my house and we alos started planning parties and different things together as well. That was on Wednesday do you think it would be too soon to ask them to hang out this weekend? |
| Question: How would you feel, what should I do? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 11:23 AM PDT My female friend had texted me asking for help on what to get her BF for his Birthday, and if I could help. So, I did, and I helped her out, even helped order gifts for her to give to him. She then said "Don't worry, I didn't forget about your birthday, 17th of July right?" I was in joy she remembered and said yes it is. Well, I asked her to hangout, and come get the ordered items. She came over the next day and spent the whole day at my house, and repaid me for the items. She joked and laughed with me, but It just felt...fake though, if that makes sense. We talk and text a little, and then she just stops texting me as much. My birthday rolls around, and nothing, don't hear from her at all. Few days more and still nothing from her, she only messages me to keep our snapstreak alive. Now, I don't mean to sound entitled or anything, but I have done a lot for this girl, I have stood by her with everything, I order things for her, help her, a LOT. Now, I just feel hurt, because I feel used, like she just brought up my B-day in order to make me do something. I never wanted a gift from her, or anything like that, I just wanted her to remember and say Happy B-Day, but instead she just stopped talking to me and forgot/didn't care and now I'm hurt, what should I do? |
| Question: My friends don't respect me when my other friend is around? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 11:17 AM PDT My best friend came over yesterday and two of my other friends always act different around her. One of them kept making me move from the couch so she could sit next to her. Which was annoying because I kept having to get up. But my other friend kept insulting me to try to make her laugh. I spoke to my friend about it and she thinks it's cute that they are trying to impress her. I just don't like how it's at my expense. She says they're joking but I can only take so much. What should I say to them? I'm also upset that she doesn't have my back on this but she swears they're only doing it for fun. Do I have a right to be upset? |
| Question: Is This Guy Interested? I Can't Understand? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 11:12 AM PDT His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he's made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He's asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he's studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn't work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I've seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can't be interested in me and he said he said he wasn't and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym advice and said "don't you have a bf to teach you all this?" and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What's his deal? His parents also look and smile and fidget when they see me.People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don't think the gf relationship is serious cause no photos together on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they've been together for 4 years already. He also doesn't go to his grandmas when my car isn't parked and i'm out of town(my roommate tells me) grandma isn't sick or anything. He comes 3x a week to the apts |
| Question: I've lost almost all of my friends due to mistakes I've made? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 11:09 AM PDT I used to have many friends but now they all hate me and I only have one friend, but she's embarrassed to be my friend because of what other people think. I've struggled with being happy with my body and used to edit my pictures to make me look skinner and my butt to look bigger... I also sent nude pics to a guy at my school... These were both stupid mistakes that occurred due to me feeling pressured to have the ideal body and wanting reassurance from guys. But I got caught with both of these incidents and my friends judged me so hard for it. They don't like me anymore. I'm going into my first year of high school in a month and I'm so scared because of this. What do I do ugh |
| Question: How can I stop being "rich" and "snobby".? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:59 AM PDT Hi, I am a middle school student that is the president of National Junior Honor Society and I have a 4.0 gpa. I have a great group of friends that I support, but sometimes they don't support me. My family is well off... Definitely not rich. I do wear name brands (Pink, Hollister, etc.) but there are many people at my school that wear some bigger name brands that I don't own. But I am "rich" and "snobby"? Is it because I get good grades? School is all I have though. I play sports but I'm not the best on the teams but I can always go back to school and get good grades. Some of my friends could go to school wearing the exact same things that I wear and talk to people exactly how I do but they wouldn't be called "snobby" and "rich". I want to stop being called these names. Please help! |
| Question: A guy said I'm intrugue; what does this mean? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:46 AM PDT I think He could see my bra; he didn't say anything though |
| Question: Should I abandon my friend? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:44 AM PDT I have a friend named Freddy. Me and him have been best friends since Pre-K. We almost had no problems. We always had fun, would laugh, and it was just amazing. We've had our moments, but I knew he would always be there. We used to have a lot of fun...until this summer. So basically, one day we were texting over the Georgia Milestones. He said he had to go somewhere with his family, so we said peace. He texted me later that day, saying "Hey!" and with a sad emoji. I couldn't respond because I was at somewhere with my family. After that day, I texted hey, but he never responded. He took a break from Skype for days without even telling me. He didn't even bother to respond. By the time he came back, he changed. He looked bored and acted like he didn't want to talk. We talked for a few more days, but then he texted me saying that he was going to take another break, and acted all happy. I was fine with it, but then he never texted me again. I understand it was a break, but he never left me a message for like 4 weeks. I got very worried, because he would usually respond after 3/2 weeks, but apparently he's too busy. His friend named Nureen even told me that he has better things to do than talk to me. He doesn't even text me anymore. We were playing Phantom Forces, and he even critizied me without even metioning my name just to make it seem I wasn't the one. Calling me "stupid noob" and that "i should go back to my gnome village. Am not sure if I should be friends with him. Should I end my friendship with my best friend? Here's the continued part. I understand that Freddy is a graphics designer and more, but still back in the old days, he would still text me and we would have fun. Nureen even told me he talks to his other friends, and also told me that Freddy doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I didn't even do anything. Freddy said he was taking a break, but I knew this was an excuse. If he's busy and has better things to do, then am not sure if we should be friends. What should I do..? |
| Question: Im a 15 year old girl i have no friends and i want a friend? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:43 AM PDT |
| Question: Why do some people don't know how to joke? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:40 AM PDT People often say that i'm smart at cracking hilarious jokes that make every single person laughs a lot and make a lot of friends very easily. But I never think so because it's all natural inside out. I don't get it when they say i'm smart and they can't do it like me. Are they just lazy to crack jokes, or just shy, and so call me smart, or being sarcastic, or are they being serious of what they say? |
| Question: How do Friendships and Communication work in the modern electronic age? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:36 AM PDT So, I don't get this. Perhaps because I'm Fifty-Four. But it seems that modern electronic communication is more of an excuse to ignore people, how does someone have such a busy schedule they can't take a moment to message someone back over Facebook? I shouldn't get a message claiming that someone, who is considered a friend will get in contact with me soon yet not hear for them for Three+ years in the excuse that they are 'Extremely Busy'. But I'm 'The Bad Guy' for bringing this situation to a head, when these people are blatantly ignoring their phones. I work, my wife works. Yet, we've never dropped off the face of the planet in an excuse that we are 'Too Busy'. It is called common Courtesy. |
| Question: My friend beat me at school in the hallway and I started crying? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:35 AM PDT So we are both males in high school. And he's always depressed. He says he's upset because he's still single and wants a pretty girl to date but they all reject him. A girl told me I was cute and smart and he started to beat me. I put my hands up and started crying, sobbing I didn't fight back because I was too scared too. He's bigger then me.. I don't understand why he did this to me... Now I'm afraid to go to school because he glares at me- and a few guys tease me about the fight... Why would he do this to me? |
| Question: Is this a friendship worth keeping? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:32 AM PDT I have been friends with this woman for a year. We were close and always made time to hang out. She is 24 and I am 22. We are bothe own a business and I attend school full time. Whenever we make plans she feels the need to invite a whole possee full of people. I am very introverted and I told her that I prefer one on one interactions. She told me to "grow up." I was so mad. She told me she is so busy she has to hang out with everyone at once. I am must as busy as she is and I make no excuses. I just feel like she doesn t respect my wishes. I have a mental disorder that makes groups very uncomfortable for me. Sometimes I will get so overwhelmed I will cry. I make time for her.... It makes me very sad she can t do the same. I almost want to walk away... But everytime i start to she pulls me back in and makes me feel like I am special to her. Although she makes me feel like crap half the time. She has a big ego and and nothing she does is ever wrong in her eyes. She even tricked me into going on her dates with her as a third wheel. I love her and hate her so much. Idk what to do? |
| Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:25 AM PDT Un ragazzo mi ha corteggiata dicendo che per lui l'età non era importante. Io ho ceduto e ci siamo baciati perché mi piace molto. Io 31 lui 21. Lo vedevo preoccupato e perciò per fargli capire che poteva fidarsi di me ho messo "impegnata"su Facebook. Pensavo reagisse felicemente invece mi ha scritto "non sono sicuro di tutto ciò,voglio prima pensarci bene". Io allora ho continuato a assicurarlo sull'età e su quello che provavo sempre con sms. Ma lui mi ha scritto "incominciamo 50 mila messaggi?Cristo lasciami in pace. Per me l'età è un problema, ci ho pensato.RIspetta la mia scelta ". Io gli ho chiesto di essere amici e percio lui quando mi ha vista ha ricominciato a salutarmi,ma io non ho risposto al suo saluto e gli ho scritto che non voglio essere sua amica e non voglio averci nulla a che fare piu con lui per il modo superficiale in cui si è comportato(illudermi e baciarmi!) che per me è chiuso e che deve evitare di infastidirmi ! Lui ha risposto "ahahah sei tu che mi cerchi. Ok ora basta cmq!". Ieri l ho visto mano a mano con una ragazza...lo fa per ingelosirmi? (Gli dicevo sempre che sono gelosissma di lui) o non gliene importa piu nulla di me? |
| Question: Bully denies everything she did wrong? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 10:13 AM PDT This girl has been bullying me for quite some time. One day I confronted her about it and why she did so, and she claimed that I bullied herfirst. That is guarantee not true at ALL. I immediately then told her that she bullied ME first, and I can remember a lot of incidents about her bullying me, especially one that she did with her friend in front of the teacher, which didn't care at ALL. But she said loudly " I didn't do anything wrong!" That hit me so hard. So all those tears I shed every night because of her bullying, was wasted? So I was the one wrong all along? Thanks for all the answers! |
| Question: How can I fit in at this new school? Posted: 21 Jul 2016 09:48 AM PDT So I'm going into highschool and I guess we are moving and so ill be going to a new school. I'm really worried on making new friends cuz I've never been really good at making friends. And I know u guys will say to just be myself and stuff but that's not really advise I need. If there's anyone who moved to a new school and knows how to make new friends and not be the loner please tell me cuz I can't stop stressing out about this. Thank you. |
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