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- Question: Why is this bothering me?
- Question: I'm attracted to my friend??
- Question: I met some friends from a video game.?
- Question: Im having a sleepover birthday party tomorrow and one of my friend s mom invited herself for dinner.. how do i uninvite her?
- Question: My friends or my enemies? Should I move on or is all in love and war fair?
- Question: Marching band help?
- Question: How to convince my mom?
- Question: Ever since I graduated high school, I feel like the everyone is leaving me behind?
- Question: How do i save this friendship?
- Question: My best friend forgot my birthday?
- Question: House rules?
- Question: Whats the point of my phone?
- Question: My friend suddenly hates me?
- Question: Should I help my friend not suicide..?
- Question: Ok so I feel like my best friend replaced me. I ve literally known her since birth.she never wants to hang out or talk or tell me anything.?
- Question: Getting really annoyed of her?
- Question: Why do I feel so sad over this?
- Question: Did I do the right thing to stay out of this?
- Question: How to make new friends?
- Question: My mom doesn't like my boyfriend what do I do?
- Question: I'm upset about a lot of things... Advice?
- Question: Is my friend trying to embarass me or is she just oblivious?
- Question: What is my friend's bra size?
- Question: What does "werk it" mean? Is it slang for "work?" What does the phrase mean?
- Question: Why is nearly everyone fake?
- Question: Friends annoying me?
- Question: Would you help this kid or ignore him?
- Question: Sad and really stressed?
- Question: Worried that I'll be mistaken for who Im not?
- Question: My boyfriend doing drugs, behind my back?
- Question: Do you think it's funny that I made a 19 year old cry?
- Question: My best friend copies a ton of things I do??
- Question: Me and my friend got into a HUGE argument and things are extremely awkward,what do i do now?
- Question: What can I do? PLEASE ANSWER. Please��?
- Question: Really freaked out about going into 7th grade,advice?
- Question: What does this mean? is this a sign?
- Question: Do you think it's funny that I made a 19 year old cry?
- Question: Does this she that she doesn't like me or something?
- Question: Starting Eighth Grade?
- Question: Am I in the wrong?
- Question: HELP How do I stop putting up with my little brother?
- Question: How do I get my friend to stop sending nudes?!?! She doesn't take the dangers seriously..?
- Question: Today morning when I was going to work my friend got fight with a man and they called police ,I was also there but I don't want to be witnes?
- Question: How to deal with a toxic dad?
- Question: Is this relationship unhelthy?
- Question: Hello people! I was a terrible uncaring person and lost my friends..Where could i get new friends?
- Question: Its annoying when my friends talk about drinking?
- Question: Was I wrong in this situation?
- Question: What is the youngest that you think children should be allowed to spend the night at a friend's house and/or have a friend stay over?
- Question: How do I ask my friend to back off for a while? /: (NICELY)?
- Question: How do I get over feeling jealous?
- Question: Teenage problem?
- Question: Poll: SHOULD I END OUR FRIENDSHIP?
- Question: My friend doesn t care to be friends anymore?
- Question: Ughhhh why are some people cringy, they make me feel like punching someone?
- Question: Should I feel funny about not inviting a friend to upcoming concert?
- Question: How to cut ties with selfish friend that works with you?
- Question: How to react and what to say when your crush calls you ugly?
- Question: How to get over being ignored by a friend?
- Question: Will I be judged in a bad way if I hang out with the same friend all the time and only have one close friend?
| Question: Why is this bothering me? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:06 PM PDT Yesterday I had a challenge tennis match against one of my teammates. I brought my friend Natalie with me to watch (she was the assistant coach last year). My teammate brought her friend tina and her mom. I played against her and I lost because she cheated. How I found out is that my friend wacthed her and told me about it. Even though me and Natalie are friends she is unbias when it comes to games. Natalie heard that Tina and the Mom were making unnecessary comments about me (and i quote). "Julia is not good at tennis" and "Jess is a lot better than Julia" AND "How is this considered a match when Jess is better than Julia". Me and Natalie told our head coach about what happened. Even though we told her, this really bothers me and I feel like im not good at tennis. The coaches want me to be on varsity but i don't think ill make it |
| Question: I'm attracted to my friend?? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:04 PM PDT So I'm a straight guy and my friend who is also a guy has gotten really fat recently and whenever hang out his big boobs turn me on but I don't think he's hot or anything. HELP |
| Question: I met some friends from a video game.? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:02 PM PDT So I met this group of friends while playing overwatch and they're all really cool and nice, but by the sounds of their voices I could already tell they were older than me. They said they were around the ages of 21-40 something. I'm only 14 and I didn't want to scare them off so I told them im 17. Every night we hangout online and I get really nervous that one day they will find out my real age. Does anyone have any advice? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 06:01 PM PDT We all go to dance together and the girl s (used to come) mom was really annoying and none of my friends like her. she would always ruin our pre competition/recital and we really dont like her. when i invited my friend i said that i am having a sleepove and she is inviter (then she went on to be very bitchy towards me and hint that she doesnt wanna come and idgaf and now i suddenly have the feeling its because of her mom). The thing is i wouldnt mind if all the parents were coming but she is the only one and its kinda annoying. Last year i had a sleepover (not for my bday) and the day after she came into our house to pick up her daughter and (me and mu other friend has plans) she ended up inviting herself for tea (my mom was really tired and clearly wanted her to leave but she didnt take the hint). anyways she stayed for 2 hours and ruined our day. |
| Question: My friends or my enemies? Should I move on or is all in love and war fair? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:56 PM PDT I've always felt like I wasn't part of the group. I should have listened to my gut but I had a crush on of the girls whom I've been rejected by 3 times already. And everytime she shares it with the group. Apparently our group had nothing interesting to talk about so all they talked about was me and my crush. Then started being really weird. They said they don't like me. And my crush doesn't too. It stung. I asked them all to confirm and they all did. Except my crush. It'd be the end of me if she told me she didn't like me. They were asking her and making her uncomfortable so I told her to say nothing. I walked away and they came after me. Taunting me, making fun of me. I guess friends can break your heart too since the people I thought liked me were being absolutely disgusting. When I came home I asked them if they had anything to say before I left the group for good. They apologised and said they'd miss me. I said no amount of apologies could excuse this nastiness. One had the nerve to rub salt in the wound and tell me no one likes me. I blocked them all. I liked them though. Until today. Now I'm feeling all lonely and miss them. What do I do? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:47 PM PDT Okay so. I am a junior and I am in marching band. I am in the color guard squad. There are about 8 of us. So this girl, we are gonna call her "J" well, she and a couple of other girls have been talking and kind of acting weird. This one girl (lets call her Y) "was" my friend I don't know if we are though :/. She is like "We are gonna stand here and y'all can squeeze in other there in the corner and just stand." They yell at us. Well "Y" and "J" had me and the other two(rookies) in and it was one's first season and "Y's" second season. And it was this other girls second season. Well, this is my fourth season and they got "Y" (only second season) to critique me on my work. I did it all right. They treat me like I am nothing, like I am not there. And they treat me like a "rookie" and not a "vet" It pisses me off. And "J" also asks me for food all the time and acts nice. But then goes back to the cold stuff. Pleas help me and my friends. I seriously need advice!? |
| Question: How to convince my mom? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:46 PM PDT To let me go out. I'm almost 16. I know this is classic whiny teenager-esque sounding already, but please hear me out. From 12, I've had to take care of my siblings, and I really do take joy in it, but I don't have any friends. Mom is verbally abusive, but pays rent and feeds us well. I dropped out of middle school because of being so busy. I have one person who has stayed in contact with me, but I'm not allowed to hang out with anyone. How can I make friends if I'm not even allowed to go outside or talk to neighbors. I feel lonely |
| Question: Ever since I graduated high school, I feel like the everyone is leaving me behind? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:42 PM PDT I'm going to be going to be going to community college soon, but for the past few months, I've been all alone. All of my friends found new friends. My once depressed sister found a group of friends to hang out with and I'm happy for her but envious of her. A girl I once liked started to bang all of my old friends. Now I'm all alone and I really want to meet new friends, but I don't know how to anymore and I really don't think it will ever happen. I have money but I don't have a car so I don't even know how I will ever hang out with friends anyways so sitting at home seems to be my only option. I haven't been happy in so long. |
| Question: How do i save this friendship? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:37 PM PDT So i went on this teen global service project and i made the most amazing friend. He and i were literally inseperable. We were almost TOO close because when we started making different friends, everything changed. We were still friends but it felt as if there had been a fight - something wasnt the same. I actually think he doesnt like me anymore but i love him and miss him so so very much. He said he misses me too but he leaves me snapchats on opened like he dorsnt want to speak to me! What should i do? |
| Question: My best friend forgot my birthday? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:35 PM PDT I am a girl who just turned 17 and my best friend of almost 11 years forgot my birthday. I ve never forgotten hers. What should I do? Do I confront her? She s hurt me in the past and I really want to scream at her but what do I do? Should I confront her or let the days pass until she realizes? Thanks. |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:31 PM PDT so the other day i went to my friend's house after school , aaaaand guess what! "can you take your shoes off please" , like what the hell?? why do you have this rule in your house? that rule should only apply to the people living in the house cz they keep going in and out of the house , but you shouldn't force guests to do that! are you that lazy that you cant clean up after people?? its not like you get guests every single day , why cant u just move ur *** and clean? by the way i almost always take my shoes off at friends houses , like u'de never find me wearing shoes , but dont FORCE me to do it like WTF! can u tell me why someone would have this stupid rule!??? |
| Question: Whats the point of my phone? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:22 PM PDT Im not popular my friends are leaving me. It seems like everything and everyone is drifting away since i moved schools again for the 10th time. Not really 10th but since last year. I dont have anyone making my iphone bling |
| Question: My friend suddenly hates me? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:21 PM PDT This is an old problem that I don't have to worry about anymore, but I still wonder why. Anyways, one year ago me and this kid got along very well, had similar interests, played the same card games, and we hung out in school. We left the year off on a good note and didn't see each other all summer. However, this year, when we came back into school, this kid acted very cold towards me, barely talked to me. The only time we exchanged words was lunchtime when we played our favorite card game. Then, he started becoming very mean and critical off me! It was like he was always trying to prove he was better than me, everywhere! For no reason he called me gross, said I can't do anything right, and said bad stuff behind my back. He wasn't afraid to verbally attack me in front of our friends. This never changed the, whole year, and he just kept acting like a jerk. Surprisingly, none of our friends butt in or even recognized the problem (or more likely, they didn't want to). I have no reason why he would become such a sh*thead, but here are a few ideas: 1) We have the same crush on the same girl, though he doesn't know I do(I haven't told anyone) 2) I changed over the summer from being passive to being able to stand up for myself 3) I might have done something to tick him off without my knowing 4) I always make fun of social media |
| Question: Should I help my friend not suicide..? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 05:13 PM PDT My friend wants to kill himself (he's not my stalker person, if you've seen my other question) and I've been trying to stop him.. I won't give up..but the more I try to help and give hope, the more it seems to hurt him..like I'm pushing the idea on him and life is a horrible choice.. I want to help, more than anything.. I've even offered to help him move to my town when I go to college, and help him get on his feet..even help him obtain an apartment.. I just..I've been friends with him for four years and I think he's a wonderful person..He just can't see that..I really do care..and he's been trying to obtain a gun.. He promised that if before I move, if we get to hang out.. we can have a long talk and he'll postpone making a decision until then.. I'm just so scared..what if I make things worse..? What if I accidentally make him think suicide is the best option.. He had a crush on me..and now it's like..the more I talk to him the more I seem to hurt him by wanting to help.. I feel like I'm doing everything wrong. He made me promise not to tell anyone..but I care for him so much..i .. I don't want him to be right..his ideals that he isn't important..that everyone will forget about him.. I don't want to forget..but sometimes I'm afraid that even when I'm busy and we don't talk, I start to not worry about the matter.. What if he's right..? What if I do forget.. Please..just any advice will be nice.. What would you guys do..? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:45 PM PDT I m continuing that^. All she does is hang out with one of my other really close Friends. So I basically lost both of them. like idk this is probably stupid but It makes me so upset. Like I cry over it and ugh. Like if go on vacation on with her every year. And she took her this year. She s supposed to be my best friend. I have no one to tell anything too and I need someone. She was supposed to be the person I talk to when I m sad or whatever. Idk what to do:( it's kinda dumb sorry. |
| Question: Getting really annoyed of her? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:41 PM PDT We used to be able to have a conversation about many things, but now she only seems to be able to hold a conversation about herself. She will message me several times about things like: I just bought this new mascara. I love it. *sends several pictures* Ugh I am hungry. She also complains about her friends and then calls them best friends on social media. All she ever talks about are the really LITTLE things that I don't think I can do anything about? She also just got talking to this guy (whom I told her that, I think he is taking her for granted, but she should use her own discretion to make decisions) then she got a bit upset and ended the convo. Sometimes when she realizes that she talks about herself a lot, she will ask me how everything is going, but would not respond for several minutes , with only a 3-4 word sentence. If I see her in person she will talk on and on about something that is going on and I find myself drifting away with my thoughts & not paying attention. Should I just sledomly reply to her messages? |
| Question: Why do I feel so sad over this? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:41 PM PDT Today me and my friends were out side in our other friends estate. There was a big group of us out, including a boy I like, but no body knows this. Then later today my friend text me saying I know you like ____ (that boy) . I kept telling her I didn't but she won't believe me because I don't want anyone to know because I really wouldnt want anything to happen between us anyway. I also keep denying it to my friend because I KNOW she can't keep secrets and would tell everyone. I once told her a very personal family issue and a few months later we were out with other people and she said 'I don't remember who told me this but... And went on and tell everyone. I feel really down and sad ever since she text me saying she knows, ugh am I over reacting and what do I do!! |
| Question: Did I do the right thing to stay out of this? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:39 PM PDT I have a good friend Wanda who is a single mom who has a 15 year old daughter Jo. She told me Jo was failing math in school and needed a tutor and that she could not afford a tutor. She asked if I would tutor Jo and she would pay me when she got some money. I told her I would tutor Jo for free and I did. The tutoring must have helped because Jo's grade went from an F to a B+. Wanda and Jo were both happy with the results of the tutoring and wanted to take me to dinner to just to say thanks. At the dinner Wanda excused herself to take a cell phone call. When her mom was gone Jo asked me it I thought she was old enough to be allowed to date. I told her that was between her and her mom and I did not have an opinion on that. She then asked me what age I started dating and I told her 15 or 16 years old. Jo asked if I would talk to her mom about her dating. She said her mom greatly respected my opinion and she would listen to me. I don't think I should get into this discussion with Wanda about Jo dating do you? Moms and teen age girls, please let me know what the right thing to do in this situation is. |
| Question: How to make new friends? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:16 PM PDT So Its summer break and I live in a small town and I have a few friends but there kinda unreliable so I want to make new friends but it s difficult so any tips would be appreciated |
| Question: My mom doesn't like my boyfriend what do I do? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:09 PM PDT My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all because of his looks but he looks good to me. I told her if she would rather have me date a super handsome man that cheats on me and her response was "all men cheat" "I don't like this guy for you" "he's too fat for you" but he treats me like a queen and makes me forget about my depression.. I told her about how me and my boyfriend got into a fight and made up with eachother and she was like "oh my god you just ruined my day I was hoping you guys were broken up" she won't leave me alone about him it's causing arguments every single day I feel happy with my boyfriend and she's just making me feel miserable again |
| Question: I'm upset about a lot of things... Advice? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:07 PM PDT So I am starting highschool in four days.. And I already miss middle school. I had classes with all of my friends. Now I have no one. I had orientation today, and my best friend and I had the same classes, but none together. I could cry right now, I'm so upset about everything it's just too much for me to handle. I need help. |
| Question: Is my friend trying to embarass me or is she just oblivious? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 04:01 PM PDT ok so my friend is a popular girl who gone through drama and sh!t at school and blah blah blah. anyway, I'm overweight and sometimes she would ask me to go swimming with her like wtf? Does she not understand that I would be embarassed over having to wear swimming suit? |
| Question: What is my friend's bra size? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:47 PM PDT Hi all. I have this really cute friend. I'm kind of curious what her bra size is. My sister said she is a DD cup. What do you think? https://postimg.org/image/tmubw0e2v/ https://postimg.org/image/p6g7m70g7/ https://postimg.org/image/xj5ctcwc7/ |
| Question: What does "werk it" mean? Is it slang for "work?" What does the phrase mean? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:46 PM PDT |
| Question: Why is nearly everyone fake? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:44 PM PDT Recently I have lost count of how many times I've been stabbed in the back. Here's some shining examples: A "friend" I've known since early primary school, over a decade, has been telling people that he's not my friend at all and that he only sees me because of his parents, which I know is bullshit. Another person, my former best friend has left me in the dust and has spread word about my troubles with cutting in a derogatory This "best friend" was bullied frequently and I always stood up and theatrened them to back off along with being the only person willing to be friends with him. I have been on his side since the beginning of secondary school and have never done anything against him. Those are just a couple of examples, but I'm not exaggerating when I say nearly everyone has stabbed me in the back. I can't cope with this **** and I feel like I'm going to relapse real damn soon. |
| Question: Friends annoying me? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:36 PM PDT I have friends that I just don't feel understand me, they take me as some tough girl who's not very emotional and when I hear them describe what I'm like... I know that's not me, I know who I am, what I feel and value in life and I don't like to be branded and labelled from the one side they see of me. I also don't feel a strong connection anymore; while yes I do still feel a connection that is worth holding onto, I dislike how now that we are all in late high school they seem to be more boy crazy and rather pretentious. I have one friend who is quite self centred too. I also feel put down sometimes by a friend for choosing to value my education over boys, and whenever I want to talk about something I feel truly passionate about I don't feel the same level as enthusiasm if anything at all, it seems like it's brushed under the rug. Is there a possibility I'm just changing? I've had a recent urge to find new friends, but I'm too young to travel and I also am not the kind of person to talk to a stranger. I'm not too much of a high school person although I value my education, so I'd want to make friends outside of high school. I don't know what to do at this point. I do love my friends... And I wasn't to stay friends but I feel as though I need a change in my life. |
| Question: Would you help this kid or ignore him? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:29 PM PDT Let's say you meet a tall handsome dark skinned man and a 15 year old named Nelson. The man tells Nelson to go to school, Nelson says he doesn't have school today and the man grins and puts his hand in his pocket. Nelson drops to the ground and says. Yes, father! Then runs away. At school, If the man walks towards him Nelson cringes. If the man ever places his hands in his pocket, backpack or anything Nelson will shake in fear, he drops to his knees and apologize for everything and beg for forgiveness. The man yells at Nelson in the hallway and Nelson looks like he's about to cry. The man forces Nelson to call him father, or master. No one at school seems to care or notice. So, would you get involved or not? |
| Question: Sad and really stressed? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:22 PM PDT Everyone's just getting on my nerves so easily I guess it cause I'm moving away from somewhere I've lived for 9 years and my best friend came down to stay for a month and she just left today and I miss her like crazy we only see eachother once a year and it's just not the same texting her and everything is stressing me out because I'm really shy and it took me forever to make the friends I made down here and I know it's going to take me forever to make friends down at where I'm moving and just how can I get rid of this feeling sad and stressed and not being annoyed so easily? |
| Question: Worried that I'll be mistaken for who Im not? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:17 PM PDT So last school year I hung out with these two girls that arnt all that liked because they're sorta...rude. But I just couldn't see anything but the good in them. But just as the school year ended they did a bunch of things that I just couldn't forgive. So I decided to distance myself from them. But with the new school year starting soon I'm afraid that my other friends won't want to hang out with me because they'll think that I'm just like my ex friends, two faced, backstabbing, and mean. And my ex friends like to spread rumors and lies about me. I feel so scared. Please help! Thanks! |
| Question: My boyfriend doing drugs, behind my back? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:15 PM PDT We've been together a year and a half. I love him so much, he says he loves me. He's done drugs (for all I know, mostly just marijuana, and drinking). I hate it so much. I hate drugs. I've talked to him multiple times and he said he would stop or at least do it less. I think he's been doing it behind my back. I was on his phone cause I was bored. He got a text from his friend and I looked at it and they are planning on doing wax and marijuana brownies. I don't want to be with someone who does drugs but I love him so much. I don't know what to do? |
| Question: Do you think it's funny that I made a 19 year old cry? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:13 PM PDT I'm only 14 and I said mean stuff to her and called her ugly because she's Filipino. She was bullied a lot in school and if you look closely at her wrists, you'll see tons of marks from cutting herself. She even cut her neck once and started crying a lot. Students bullied her because she wasn't born here in Canada and no one wants to be friends with that kid who was born in another country. Her parents were overprotective of her, and her ex boyfriends hurt and abused her. She still lives at home because her parents are probably too ashamed of giving birth to her so they decided to lock her up. All she ever had was fake friends and none real. (Her real friends didnt drift apart or pass away, she just happens to have no real friends) and they take advantage of her kindness. She's probably so desperate for a friend and me and my friend tried to ruin her debut thing when she was 18 (some kind of ceremony 18 year old girls that are Filipino have). She's a worthless piece of sh*t and I bet that everyone who knows her agrees. She has no friends at her college and she's unnoticed. One time I went there and I saw the proof: a girl tripped her and all her books and herself fell down, and the girl didnt even care nor apologize leaving her all alone with people staring at her picking her stuff up. Then I just walked over where she was and kicked her hard at the back. We were there because my cousin who's a guy goes there and my family was seeing him for a visit. I've been mean to her for a long time. Ever since she was in grade 12. Good thing there's thousands of people in college, so that means that people don't have to see her ugly self every day. (Hey, but its fun to push her or at least give her a nasty comment in the hallways! But people don't get much of a chance since its hard to find one person out of thousands in a college or university). No it's real and no one cares about her. I'm surprised her parents would even care enough to pay for her college stuff. I thought they would've abandoned her by now. This anonymous said go die to her and that no one would care and no one would come to her funeral and I added oh no one would even hold a funeral for her. That's not what I meant and I meant that some anonymous on Tumblr wrote the death comment. |
| Question: My best friend copies a ton of things I do?? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 03:08 PM PDT my best friend copies tons of things that I do. I hear stories like this all the time but we re only 14 and I know "copying is the most sincere form of flattery" but it just annoys me all the time. it s not big things that she copies but it gets on my nerves. for example: -told her I was learning guitar so she went out and bought a guitar -I cut my hair so she cut her hair -copies my style/the clothes I wear -copies all my hobbies/interests (ex. lush, makeup, sports) -when texting I say things such as "lol" "nicee" "h8" and she copies those -copied my social media username (same style but with her name) -copied Instagram feed -I know this sounds rly stupid but I told her I started filling in my eyebrows and the next day she told me she fills in her eyebrows -leggings were my like "statement piece" and I own tons of different pairs that i wear all the time and she went out and bought one pair that she wears everyday -she copies the things I say/ the way I talk -tried to copy my classes I m taking next year but wasn t able to cause mine are advanced classes I know this seems really stupid but it pisses me off. she s my best friend and I don t want to not be friends with her. she was never like this in the beginning but I m friends with some popular people and she s told me she thinks I m popular so maybe that s why?? I don t know.... it just bothers me so much. how can I deal with it without being a b*tch? |
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| Question: What can I do? PLEASE ANSWER. Please��? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:51 PM PDT I really really like this friend of mine and they as far as I know they like me back. I've been trying to get them to like me back for about 4 months. We are good friends. We talk and text everyday. The sad thing is we're going in to high school my mom won't let me go to the same school. In case you're wondering I my middle school leads of to that high school. I've known my friend for about 4 months. And so recently I asked my friend would you go out with me if I went to the same school. They replied with "if you do go to the same school probably". Probably means most likely. The reason my mom won't let me go is because she doesn't make a lot and I live 20-30 minutes away from the school I wanna go to. And you know gas cost money. Yet I said I'd take the bus. But oh well she's unreasonable. But like my friend said they would probably go out with me. But only if I go to that school. Because otherwise we would like never see each other. So basically do you guys know what I can do to help? I still have hope though. |
| Question: Really freaked out about going into 7th grade,advice? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:48 PM PDT I wasn't popular in 6th and i only have two friends? |
| Question: What does this mean? is this a sign? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:45 PM PDT A while ago I said sorry to my friend because I wasn't there for him. He didn't accept my apology. to this day I live with the hope that one day we will talk. I asked the universe for sign if I should continue to remain hopeful. my radio was on and the song that came out was " you know you're right" by Nirvana. Pretty much this is the first lyrics I would never bother you I would never promise to I will never follow you I will never bother you Never say a word again I will crawl away for good |
| Question: Do you think it's funny that I made a 19 year old cry? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:40 PM PDT I'm only 14 and I said mean stuff to her and called her ugly because shes Filipino (I'm Chinese btw) she has long black hair and tan skin so therefore I said shes ugly and that she'll never find a boyfriend. She used to have boyfriends but they all hurt her badly and kids bullied her in high school, telling her that she should kill herself and that she isn't worth anything at all. I did it out of boredom and before you know it she cried. If you look at her wrists closely you can see marks on her because she cut herself a lot in high school (one time even cut her neck on the side lol). Her parents were controlling and overprotective of her and she felt like no one understood her. Did you laugh when you read this paragraph? And I'm laughing right now, I plan to do it again. Also, what would you do if you saw me making her cry? Literally every time someone befriends her theyre either fake friends or taking advantage of her kindness. She's too desperate for friends I bet, smh. She hasn't even moved out yet because in her culture most young adults don't move out (mine doesnt either) and because her parents are protective (I think it's not that they're protective parents, more like they don't want to feel shame when she moves out in society so they lock their ugly daughter up) Some guys are like stalking her JUST for sex and she already said no many times yet shes still stalked :) and that's why some people call her slut. She was that loser who sat alone at lunch in high school dealing with lots of hatred and cyberbullying and racism. Even though there's many other Filipinos here (our city has lots here in Canada) they bullied her as well because at least they were born here and she was born in Asia. |
| Question: Does this she that she doesn't like me or something? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:39 PM PDT was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her teacher & I was looking at her but she was looking straight ahead & then I stopped looking. Then later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early? |
| Question: Starting Eighth Grade? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:37 PM PDT Hi, so I start school August 9th and I need advice on everything! I moved in March and started at this school, but I never made friends. I did have a table to sit at during lunch, though, which my crush sat at. I think he might like me but I'm not sure, so maybe you could tell me what some signs of him liking me might be? Also, how to make friends when it seems like everyone has their group already? I would also appreciate it if you could help me with hair + makeup. Last year, everyday was a bad hair day for me. I have thick, wavy, damaged hair that is about boob length. I have big ears, so I'd prefer not to wear it up. For makeup, I have normal skin and I'm allowed to wear as much makeup as I want, as long as it isn't too harsh. I also need to lose a bit of weight. I'm 4'11 and 115-120 pounds. My goal weight is about 100 pounds, which I know I won't reach before school starts, but any tips on healthy eating and workouts would be helpful. Oh, and I have access to a gym. If you have any other advice, I'd love to hear it. Thanks :) |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:26 PM PDT So i am riding with my (guy) friend s dad to cheer and another one of my (girl) friends needs a ride Is to wrong to ask my friends dad to get a friend of mine? Note: These two friends of mine arent good friend they just know each other. |
| Question: HELP How do I stop putting up with my little brother? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:23 PM PDT I am 15 he is 12 and is super rude, and really mean all the time. I usually just put up with it. He always lies to his and my friends and tells them things that aren't true and now they hate me. I told my mom that he keeps saying terrible things about me that aren't true to his and my friends and then he told them I said that and now his and my friends said that I don't have a d*** for telling my mom. He constantly cyber bullies me. I don't know what to do. If I teach him a lesson by hitting him he will go back and continue anyway, my parents finally are realizing it, but even if they take away his phone or ground him he keeps doing it. It never ends. I cannot let him push me around any longer I need as much advice as possible. I've become depressed & please don't tell me to do anything with my parents, they've done as much as they can, I need to be the one to stop him now, I've tried everything: Family meetings, being super nice, fighting fire with fire, fighting fire with water. I think I need to beat him psychologically, like maybe somehow turn him into the one that looks bad when he says something about me, advice? Please I still love him, but am not going to be able to continue to if I can't get him to stop. |
| Question: How do I get my friend to stop sending nudes?!?! She doesn't take the dangers seriously..? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:22 PM PDT My friend is only 14 unfortunately, and she had at least 2 online boyfriends she sent nudes to. She tried to get me to send my crush one "because he was just horny" but I said no. She is way too trusting, and one of these days her pics are going to end up somewhere. Who knows if her ex deleted her pic? Her boyfriend got in trouble after him and his family have a synced account and my friend sent him a pic. shes not even allowed to have a boyfriend, and I feel like she's going way too fast with him. I'm worried about her, because she's never even met her boyfriends. I'm trying to look out for her, but I don't know how to tell her she should stop... she also isn't that loyal to her boyfriend. I really want her to change her outlook on the dangers of this, how can I? |
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| Question: How to deal with a toxic dad? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:11 PM PDT Let me start off by saying I love my dad very much and I don't want to cut him completely out of my life and I know my dad loves me but majority of the time he can be completely toxic. He has always been like that with me and he is overly critical and he never approves of anything that I do. Well right now I am in the enlistment process to join the army and I will be leaving for boot camp in a few months and my dad says " I hope you don't talk back to them like you to me cuz they will kick your *** if you do" and my dad thinks that pointing out his faults is talking back to him and when I do the same things he does he finds it very annoying and he plays the victim when I get mad at him and he says that I hate him when I don't. He wasn't like this with me when I was younger and in fact I remember him being very sweet and always taking care of me. I tried talking to him to find out what's wrong but every time I tried to we just end up fighting. M y dad is 70 and I am 22. Why is he like this? |
| Question: Is this relationship unhelthy? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:10 PM PDT so i have this friend, lets call her stacey. me and stacey met 7 years ago and are practically sisters. 4 years into our relation ship this other girls comes along and lets call her rebecca. rebecca said that she hated me a year before she met stacey. one day i saw them both playing card games and i didnt like rebecca so my recation was not good but i didnt tell stacy how i felt. they got into a big fight a couple month later but they made up and didnt tell me. fast forward to now were me and rebecca go to the same university but stacey went to a difrent one. me and rebecca are friends but we are not friends the way she and stacey are. a couple days ago we all met at the pool and it was fun but i felt really left out. rebecca and stacy made me take pictures of them when they hugged in the pool and they made go pro videos of each other jumping in and stuff. the only things that i was in was group selfies, videos and one picture with just me and rebecca. i dont know if im jelous of rebecca and staceys relation ship or if its an unhelthy one. stacy wanted me to take a picture of her sitting on the beach chair and i was cool with that,but rebecca pulled a chair over and looked at her and i just wanted to cry and say that i want A picture like that but i didnt will myself up to it because i didnt want to be braty. and after the pool when we were showering they went in the same shower and when i went to join them they said no. please help me i dont want our freindships to end |
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| Question: Its annoying when my friends talk about drinking? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 02:10 PM PDT ok idk if its just me but anyone else like get annoyed when people talk about how wasted/ how much they drank last night? I have this close friend who's 15 and she always talks about how she gets wasted with her older friends, and she influenced my other friend who im close with to start drinking. Like yes, i get it, all high school kids drink, but honestly they're talking about how they take like tequila shots and drink rosé by the glasses. I wish they knew how ******* stupid they sounded and knew how bad drinking a lot is for you. what should I do? |
| Question: Was I wrong in this situation? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:52 PM PDT I live in a house where I share a parking space. With two other people. One roommate keeps taking my parking space when it is my week to park there. I talked to the roommate twice about the parking rules and she ignored it. I even had the other roommate talk to this roommate about it. I came home one Friday night to find that this roommate had taken my spot and did not move it the whole weekend. When my week was over, I took the other roommates parking space that week, and the offending roommate got angry at me. Was I wrong for taking back the parking space? I never had any parking problems with this roommate again. |
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| Question: How do I ask my friend to back off for a while? /: (NICELY)? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:50 PM PDT Okay so me and my friend have been talking all summer. Every single day, she texts me or calls me literally all day to ask for something, or tell me stuff i dont need to know, and will not leave me alone. (She even texted me every single day after i told her i was on vaca) She will text me until 1 in the morning, and I try to hint that its getting a little irritating, but she won't get it. /: she's always telling me about her problems but says I can't help her. she also has a short temper. The biggest reason is, that she won't stop bothering me to come to my house. She keeps begging me to do her hair before school, and will not drop it. My mom has work Friday-Sunday, and I tried to tell her no, but she won't stop. We have to pick her up since her dad works, and my mom can only do it certain days. She came over last week, and we had fun but its getting obtuse now. I feel like she's using me /: how do I ask for space? |
| Question: How do I get over feeling jealous? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:31 PM PDT Every now and then, my two best friends hang out without me.. I have no clue why I feel this way when they do and I hate it. I understand that I don't have to be invited every time. The feeling gets worse when I see pictures of them together and whenever they talk about it in front of me. How can I get over this feeling? |
| Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:28 PM PDT well here is a brief self explanation...Im a 17year old girl (good looking). I came to iran with my mom for my 10th grade ,everything was new and more sadly i never got any friends , my class is filled with bunch of bitches and ill mannered people , there are good people also but they already have friends idk , i became friend with two people but they end up being bad to me and backbiting about me , they didnt want anyone else other than they both to be together , I used to hear them backbiting about me and it really hurt me (Im super sensitive) and now after 1month im going to grade 11 and still those two are there and it bothers me , i know its non of my business but its really hurtful when people are like that :((( i swear right now that im typing im crying because my life has always been like that , i only have 2,3 friends that are abroad. And our school requires us to make physics and these shitty projects and everyone in the class are in groups and they have friends but not me :( but i did make a project and gave but it makes me sad that im alone , or when there is a prensentation i cry at home because im too shy to present and there is no one to be with to present atleast :( and im soo sad and cant enjoy my summer holiday from now on that i know that the girl is staying it makes me soo sad , im so nervous about my 11th grade from now. any help,tips and advice please? |
| Question: Poll: SHOULD I END OUR FRIENDSHIP? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:23 PM PDT Me and this girl has been friends for 15 years. We have a blast when we hangout but we often keep having stupid arguments and stop talking to each other for a month at a time. I love her to death but I don't think she feels the same about our friendship. She's always with her boyfriend (which I can understand because they've been together for a few months now) but she never really makes time for me. She works a lot and when she's not working she's with her boyfriend going to the movies. We text each other sometimes but mostly if she wants to brag about her boyfriend and her sex life which I do not want to know about. We just haven't hung out in about a month because she's either busy with her boyfriend or her job. She even invited one of her other friends to go camping with her which her other friend hasn't been friends with her for longer than we have been friends for. We only really hangout if her boyfriend is at work or whatever.. Should I end our friendship? |
| Question: My friend doesn t care to be friends anymore? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:22 PM PDT My best friend told me he didn t want to be friends anymore about three months ago with no explanation. It was really hard. About one month ago, he apologized for doing it. That helped, and then he said he wanted to be friends again. So I was trying but he was really distant and then he finally said the other day that he only talks to me for my sake and doesn t really want to. I don t know why I care so much and he doesn t. We were really good friends. But idk how to stop feeling bad about it. |
| Question: Ughhhh why are some people cringy, they make me feel like punching someone? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:14 PM PDT i am 13 and some kid on the internet called me cancerous, he said that he likes to troll "cowardly *******" like me, just because he didn't like my youtube video, i called him a homophobe for calling me a ***** when i am not,he said he isn't and he said that he is 11 and i am 13 and he acts more mature then me, i told him if hes more mature then me hte wouldn't call me names, this kid, is obsessed with memes and trolling, his jokes are very cringy, he bothers a lot of people, he said m video contains autistic and cringeworthy content! why is he so mean?! were are he stupid laid back parents? I wish i could bomb his house! sorry if i had a little bad grammar, i'm really tired |
| Question: Should I feel funny about not inviting a friend to upcoming concert? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 01:06 PM PDT I have this friend that I go out with every couple weeks or so. We are going to a concert together Saturday night and I know they're going to advertise another upcoming artist that we both like. I was thinking of getting my ticket after work today and going to the other upcoming show alone. I enjoy being by myself and I'm just in a space where I feel like I need to embrace more alone time. Plus when I go to concerts at the venue that we're going, I like to sit in particular sections (up close), whereas she wants to get the cheapest tickets possible. So I guess I'm just concerned about telling her I want to go to the upcoming concert alone, should it come up in conversation on Saturday night. |
| Question: How to cut ties with selfish friend that works with you? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:46 PM PDT I helped my friend that I know for twenty years to come and work in my department. I cut the ties long time ago with her because she was being seflish selfcentered and evil.I always knew that but by destiny she has been there all of my life and it seems I am like magnet for that kind of people because I am always good tolerant and have no limits. That is why I helped her come and work with me practically sharing my work.I have no problem with that but having to talk to her private is so ehausting again the same story.She is being so selfish and mean she talks with me only when is convinient for her.She is showing total disrespect towards me.Invites me only when its convinient for her etc.I want just like before to gain my peace of mind again but its impossible when she is sitting next to me eight hours a day.How to cut ties of this selfcentered selfish user friend? |
| Question: How to react and what to say when your crush calls you ugly? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:42 PM PDT First and foremost I know that he, as my friend, was only teasing me and told me I wasn t good looking in a roundabout way. Needless to say I was speechless that my crush of all people would say that to me. I don t take it to heart, but what would ve been some friendly comebacks? Thanks! Somehow all the apostrophes disappeared in the details above (at least on my screen) so please don't mind it. |
| Question: How to get over being ignored by a friend? Posted: 28 Jul 2016 12:24 PM PDT I don't know this person. This is just a friend on social media. I think this person is ignoring me. I'm not sure. How do I get over the possibility that I might be getting ignored? |
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