Our son is now 2.5 We parted when I was 3mos pregnant and he was already with someone new. She accompanies him to support court dates and demands no contact between us after she found out we had been communicating & sending pics when our son was just months old. I honestly thought this person I had been in love with would eventually come to terms with everything and step up as a parent. So I m trying to understand how a person (late 30 s) could possibly sleep at night, let alone get on with life every day, not ever knowing his one and only son who lives just towns away. How?

You could tell the mom was angry over her gift. She was giving my friend snake eyes the rest of the day. was sunglasses really an inappropriate gift?

He seems like a nice guy but would it be wrong to ask him to dye his hair a darker color for me?

Me and my ex were together almost 6 years and lived together for 3. We separated 9 months ago, I took all my hinges and moved back home because things got really bad. However, we ve recently been seeing ea.other which consists of me going over, sex, him telling he loves and misses me and asking me to move back in. Here s the catch: he s been dating another woman whose he s had sex with and says she told him she s in love with him. He said he doesn t feel the same but he wants to remain friends with her. I was at his house last night and everything was going well until se texted him saying goodnight with stupid heart faced emojis. I told him to text her back that he s trying to work things out with me and to cut her off. Long story short we got into a huge argument and he said he is not choosing anybody over the other. That he wants to remain friends with her and mayb even still hang out with her. That they are just friends. He also proceeded to mention that our arguments are part of the reason he is single and brought up a mistake I made in our past. I left at 1 am and he didn t bother to text or call me to make sure I was okay or got home safely. He acted like I was wrong and didn t try to explain or make me feel better after telling me how much he loves me and needs me back home. Please men why would he say all these things I he still has something going on with this woman?! What should I do? Am I wrong?

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I'm moving to Greensboro with my boyfriend. He already lives there and I need a job there but I've never had to get a job in another city before moving there. I don't know how to go about doing that. I know how to look for jobs of course. But can someone help?

I have had an iPhone 5s for a bit over two years now. It lags sometimes and I always run out of memory (it's 16GB). I've been told to get a new one and someone even offered to get me the latest iPhone. I refused even though I'd could use one This phone has been through so many moments and experiences and traveled the world with me. Even though I don't use my phone like many people do (every 2 minutes checking phone) It has still been through many experiences when I was with my friends, old pals, family etc... And I can't let go of it. I feel it's a part of me and I'm gonna lose a friend of mine if I let it go and get a new one.. Is this weird? I know this sounds stupid.. but this is the way I feel..

Hi. I'm Fairly new to the sex life I'm 18 and I'm not too sure what I'm even doing honestly. I hate that every time I have sex with my partner he's always doing all the work. I'm just nervous that I doing something wrong. I don't know what's normal or what's not. Anybody got anything that could possibly help me out?

WHAT GOES ON IN MY SICK LIFE I love to be abused would like some details ? okay then i love being punched , kicked , slapped , bitten , spitted on , peeded on , pooped on, humilated , force to do degrading things, love when men make fun of my body , also i love to be called out of my name. to be honest i would if if a man renames me like called me a number or ***** all the time. i love being degraded so much that i even named my daughter a name i know she will be humilated about for the rest of her life and i cant wait. i named her FIRST NAME : Booty MIDDLE NAME: **** LAST NAME : *** . . . wonder why her last name is *** because that my last name and yes i was born with that as my name. my name is FIRST NAME : cherokee MIDDLE NAME: d LAST NAME: *** but i just go by Cherokee D'*** in stead. i only dream of having a man in my life that would treat me like **** day in and day out , all he would do is sit around at home and abusd me i would be the one working paying the bills and what ever is left goes all in his pocket. i dream of the humiltion that i have to ask my man for money to eat lunch everyday because i have nothing in my pocket. i would never hide the black and blues he gives me i would inbrace it and when peole ask if hes hitting me i would say no not because i am scared but because i dont want to go away i want a man who will make me beg for everything at every time of day who i have to ask to do everything to eat , pee ?

If girls aren't lesbian around here they're hanging with a long string of jerks and bullies or have bully guys in their family. Can't really have anything to do with them without those guys 'getting in my face' What should I honestly do?

Is there a specific amount to take? Brand? And what would the side effects be and chance of survival? I m curious that s all..

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and we've been getting into arguments everyday. We really love each other and we don't plan on ever leaving each other but I'd like to stop fighting so much. Also another queshion is how much sex should we be having? Ik this is kind of a strange queshion to ask but he wants to have sex everyday. It's once a day EVER day. I feel like we have to much sex. Should we slow down or is this normal? Any advice on either of these questions?

Why do I feel like this? Why don't I feel bad about it and instead feel a rush and an altogether happy feeling? What do I do? Okay I know it is wrong what I did but calling me a "hoe" doesn't help anything. Since I posted this question I finally got the nerve to tell him what happened. He got extremely mad, madder than I've ever seen him. He slapped me so hard that he knocked me to the ground and he's NEVER been violent with me.He then grabbed me and called me names and then he left...I don't know what to do. I told him the truth about everything, about his friend trying to get with me for the past year...Idk what 2do

I am a black woman and my boyfriend is a white male. I have been in a relationship with an amazing man for about 8 months now. Yesterday, we started talking about the upcoming election and who we are voting for. My boyfriend stated that he was voting for Donald Trump because he stated that he felt like he could be a good business leader and could help fix Americas financial issues. He said that he doesn t agree with his racist views towards Muslims and other minorities in America. I feel like it was inconsiderate tell me that he was supporting someone who is obviously against black people and other minorities and ask me if I was supporting him. Should I try tell him that it upset me that he said that he was voting for Trump? I also take into consideration that he will never be able to understand what it s like to be a minority in America, and that he didn t realize how ignorant it was to say something like that to me. What should I do?

I'm accused of talking to other women by my girlfriend a lot.

I recently said text my ex no hard feelings and i care about him, after he messaged me saying he hopes I'm well a few weeks before. Well he started sort of talking to me again & said it's kind of nice to chat. Last night he said he has an operation on his leg today to remove some aching veins. His works takes it out on him physically. Shall I send him a good luck text? I don't want to get back into gf bf talk everyday though . We broke up amicably. I told him he'll be fine, but maybe i should say something today.

I once came across a question like this on quota. I found many amusing answers in there, and for good reason. Let's say somebody treated you disrespectfully, ignored you rejected you, discriminated against you, thought you couldn't do or become something, etc. Do you think it is the best form of revenge to go on to be successful by being happy, achieving your goals, improving yourself, gaining approval from others, getting rid of weaknesses, etc.? As added spice to the question, do you like to shove your success in the faces of the people who discriminated against you? Let's say, for a hypothetical example, you post on Facebook that you got a cool job somewhere, got into a prestigious college program, or married a really well-rounded person, and then some greedy person likes that post after disappearing on you for years. They might even want to message you or become your "friend." Then you unfriend them or something. What do you think? Is success the sweetest revenge? Lol.

So there's this homeless guy that usually stands in front of a store nearby asking for money. I usually smile and give him money sometimes but I kept wondering why I saw him so often but was just like whatever. Although, I stayed getting tired of giving him money so often since I have only what my parents give me. I eventually realized why I kept running into him so often when he was just a few yards away from my home staring at me. I didn't even know he paid attention as I was walking back home. It was scary. I didn't see him at first bc the light from the sun blinded but then I saw the figure of the guy totally facing my direction. For a second, I was going to run but I didn't want to seem rude. WHAT DO I DO? *literally so scared to walk out of my home. *He knows where I love. Oh My God oh my God oh my God! I'm never giving money to a homeless guy again.

I can't control who i love, I'm only human I'm not perfect. When I met her I was depressed & she saved my life. I was 12 & she was 16. We've only met face to face 3 times. We hadn't spoken since 2012. We never grew up together. We've been talking lately over DM. Maybe I'm in the wrong but she's the reason I wake up in the morning. When I texted her she was amazing & I was there for her she said I'm amazing smart etc & I don't even see that in me. At a dinner we had she said I was sexy, she giggled because I didn't see her & I was like oh I'm sorry and we hugged and kissed (cheek not lips) but her smile was so beautiful. Her eyes are like God. Last time we were face to face was in May. She's been in a relationship with a guy for 6 years & I remember her saying all he cares about is sneakers. I posted a picture of us captioned keep the faith and she commented "Te Quiero mucho primo". Her mom is my dads sister but nobody in that family belives I'm related to them. Everybody hates me she makes me feel loved. When she's like I'm cute I'm handsome I'm sexy most people tell me to hang myself. I'm 17 she's 21 I know. We're Latino but we don't look a like she seems middle eastern I look white or Asian. Every sec w/o her is an eternity in hell. She's the only person who cares about me. Btw she has brown skin I got white skin her hair is black mine is brown she gets claimed middle eastern or Hawaiian I get claimed Asian or white

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like everyone else I know it's really looked down upon and my family hasn't talked to my cousins since we were super young and couldn't remember anything and I didn't even remember them and years later he comes to stay with us because his parents were going through a dicorce I had no idea who he was and my mom said he needed to sleep in my room and since he's stayed with our family we became really good friends and then one night being stupid we kissed. it was literally like meeting someone for the first time and it was scary but we told ourselves we'd never do it again and then it kept happening and my mom found out and was super mad at us and said we needed to end whatever it was. We honestly have better chemistry than anyone I've ever been with and we are so good for Each other and like the same things and have never had any problems and I know how terrible it sounds that we are cousins but it wasn't intentional and it just happened and my mom ended up making him go home and we have been doing a long distance thing which usually doesn't work out but it has been and things have been so great between us and I guess I need advice because I know a lot Of people our against it and especially my family but I love him and I'm so happy with him I haven't ever had a problem with him and I don't know what to do and I would really like someone's advice about what to do because it's scary and something I never thought would happen to me and it did.

I'm about to be 18 and a senior in high school. My boyfriend is a marine currently stationed at Camp Lejeune in North Carolina and I really want to visit him sometime. I live in Florida so it's about an 8 hour drive so I would have to either go on a long weekend or a break but I want to figure out how to convince my parents to let me go before I plan, though I want to start preparing to ask them and all soon that way in a couple months I might could ask. And please don't say when you're 18 just leave you're an adult because if I did that I'd never be ungrounded and I have to live with them until I go to college next year.

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i broke up with my girlfriend about a year ago. i didnt regret it until a moth later and tried reconecting a few times after. we only dated for a month but i had feelings for her for 3 years before we started dating. i cant stop thinking about her and what could have been between us, i dream about her still and i still look at all her social media every other day. its ruining my life and i dont know how to stop it. she has already moved on and has been in 2 relationships since then but i have not. i loved her. how do i get over this? Am I obsessed with her? (Btw im a lesbian)

Is this a smart thing to do? I want to give my daughter the closest thing to normal of an upbringing as possible. Her mom and I were never married and she wasnt exactly planned, we split up but have been good with each other throughout. She turns 6 in late August and I want to take her on vacation somewhere to celebrate. Id like to do it as a "family". Her mom and I are still friends and if we can make something like this a regular thing I'dike that. Is it a good idea?

My boyfriend is in his early twenties and his dad s release date is a year from now. However in the short time that he s been gone he has burdened them in so many ways. He s left his wife to pay for everything and his sons have had to leave college in order to assist with the finances. I just cannot watch their heart break anymore. I STRONGLY dislike their dad for what he s left behind; they continue to love & support him which is understandable. I know that it is my duty to support my boyfriend but I just need advice on what to do & how I should feel. I can forgive him but I don t want to resent him.

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Ok this is complicated, I apologize. I'm a bisexual female, been with this guy for 2 years. I really love him but he's got so many problems sometimes I feel like I'm babysitting? It can kinda kill the romance. He's bipolar and either goes off his meds or the meds don't work properly. When he's manic he's erratic and tends to cheat on me and or go off on a drug binge for a few days. He's genuinely sick, he always feels awful about what he does and once he hits a depressive cycle he's in bed forever. It's hard and his mom knows him best so she's the first one I go to. Btw this doesn't happen ALL the time, a bad one comes around maybe every 5 months. But his mom and I have gotten to the point where we really hit it off. We get along great as friends, text, go shopping, etc. What made me realize I think I'm interested in her is, recently she was talking about how she grew up, in east Germany. She got bad pneumonia and couldn't get meds for it, she was always alone as a kid because her parents were always working or standing in line for something because there was such a long line for everything. And while she's telling me about this all I wanna do is grab her and kiss her for being such a bad@ss and getting through it and becoming as fantastic as she is today..and im thinking oh god I've done it, I've fallen for her :( I realized I think of her more as a partner than I do my boyfriend because I worry about him too much, I know that's unfair. What do I do?

no, i'm not referring to myself, you see, I attended the wedding of my mother's grandmothers daughter. I don't know what it's called?

Hey, so I'm 17, currently in high school. I am depressed out of my mind and I need a break. I feel like I'm living my life the way others want me to live it and HATE it. My family COMMANDS how I should live my life and I feel like that's just not me. This is not my life's purpose and I feel like life should be a fun journey. I want to live life. I've thought about buying a one-way ticket far away from my country and just see what happens. Should I do it?

She bites it a lot, sometimes not that hard, but a lot of times it's so hard it hurts. She says she doesn't mean to bite it so hard. She just grabs my hand and bites my finger.

So I've been talking to my bfs sister over social media and just yesterday we were talking about people. Just in general I suppose. She's grown up with just girls and me with just boys. Which we say we would have preferred to be the opposite. She did at some point grow up with my bf until he moved away to his mom's (same dad, dif mom). My bf doesn't like me talking to her. Says she likes gossip and that she's a brat. But he once told me that when they were younger that she kissed him. And the way he said it to me made it seem like it was something that made him feel uncomfortable. All in all we were talking about attention. From male relatives. She said that she grew to hate her sister because she took her dad's attention from her. And I said that I couldn't relate because when my sibling after me came along I was so happy because I'd actually asked my parents for him. That now the only person I wasn't too willing to share (attentionwise) was my bf but that I know I have no choice. And she began to argue with me . . jokingly. But it all felt too real. And then said that she would share him with me. And I started to think back to when my bf last visited. He also told me that she'd be all over him when he was over there. I'm starting to get this weird vibe about how she feels about him because its so weird the way that she talks about him. Should I think any of it?

Okay so I'm 15, and for roughly the past year things with my mom haven't been so good. She's constantly putting me down, and saying things like "no one will ever love you, especially not me" and "I knew I should have stopped at two kids" (I'm the third), and today things got pretty bad. We were sitting down at dinner (her, my brother, and I) and my brother went to take food off my plate. I jokingly hit his hand and told him no, and she just lost it. She immediately got angry and started going on about how "Rude and disrespectful" I am and how "With my attitude no one will ever like me" and when I told her to calm down and that I was joking, she picked up the glass salt shaker and threw it at me, missing by just a bit. TL;DR: My mom and I don't get along, she threw a salt shaker at me, don't know what to do. Just thought I'd put this out there: I don't know if this seems important, but for about the same amount of time she's had a really bad drinking problem, getting drunk 4/7 nights a week Also, this isn't the first time this has happened, happens at least every other week now