Family: Question: When I was sick as a newborn baby my mother had two aunts that were intrusive, she hasn't forgiven them 30 years later, how do I avoid this?

Question: When I was sick as a newborn baby my mother had two aunts that were intrusive, she hasn't forgiven them 30 years later, how do I avoid this?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 02:19 PM PDT

How do I avoid making a mistake like this where it is well intended but a social error and 30 years later people are still mad at me. I just turned 30 and my grandmother has cancer. When one of these aunts came to see her yesterday my mother started off on how this women is doing exactly what she did when I was sick as a baby. I know my mother is being unreasonable and there are other issues behind this regarding money from before I was born but I fear someone holding a grudge against me forever over an innocent social error. This great-aunt actually is not even intrusive now though she might stay too long as she said she'd visit again in a few weeks. When I was sick it was daily apparently that the woman came and stayed for several hours with two of her kids. So how do I avoid making an innocent mistake that gets me chastised for life by a family member the way my mother has this grudge against her aunt (my great-aunt) who is actually a very nice lady. The money issues were from this woman's father (not her, herself) though she got more stuff then my mother's family when he died (all before I was born).

Question: Why these bad decisions?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 02:16 PM PDT

When I was 13, I wanted to grow up so badly. I was a religious girl. I wanted to be mature and kind. But then issues happen. 10th grade I had Cs and Ds and i tried to be nice but my mom lost her temper and she was being mean to my dad and. I just stopped being religious for a reason and I was mentally paralyzed and I DIDNT WANT TO GROW UP. I wished I would have tried to get 4.0 gpa for 11th grade and save up money and get DMV PERMIT so I and my sis and my mom can go to Busch Gardens. I wanted to make my mom happy by helping round house and buying gifts from my part time job. Religious activities But instead I moped and complained and threw tantrums. I see my mom is sad and growing old. I felt like a child . I cried on 1st day of school.

Question: Can someone please pray for my family? My dad recently applied for a job and we are very far in debt. And we are also having family issues.?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 02:15 PM PDT

Question: I jumped on my brothers back, and he body slammed me and almost punched me until he realized it was me. Why?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 02:07 PM PDT

Question: MY PARENTS ARE FIGHTING?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 02:05 PM PDT

Ok so my parents fight all the time in fact they are fighting as I type this! I'm really depressed and wanna run away but I can't do that. My parents are great but not when they fight. They are going too far and they blame it all on me. They throw things scream and yell. I'm scared that the neighbors are gonna report us! I've tried to get them to stop by talking to them but they just say to me that if I stopped behaving "bad" they wouldn't fight. My mom and dad don't want me to tell other friends they fight. I tried telling my grandma but she just end ups crying seeing her son fight so much so I don't talk to her. My sister is at college. What do I do?????

Question: How do I convince my mom to let me smoke weed occasionally ?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:49 PM PDT

My mom found my stash the other day and I am grounded and she says if she catches me again I'm getting sent away. BUT, I have found weed and a bong in my moms dresser and knows that she smokes weed also. She got angry because she realized I was smoking in her house. Weed does not effect my grades,ambition,or health at all, if anything it improves it all. She doesn't know I know that she smokes, so, how do I convince her to let me smoke occasionally? (Also she thinks I do other drugs, which I have never done)

Question: I'm losing my virginity tomorrow, any tips or advice?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:43 PM PDT

Question: I take pictures with my mum's friends son without anybody knowing...?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:31 PM PDT

It's nothing weird or pervy he just makes me smile so much, i see him as a little brother, i never take rude pictures or share them just when he does cute stuff when he is alone with me i snap a photo but i am too worried to tell my mum that i have taken pictures of him. I don't want people saying i am a pervert or anthing cause its not like that at all... I am 20 years old and a female :) I just think i am broody and really want a little baby to cuddle or something He is 2 years old BTW and really cute <3

Question: What should I do with my situation ?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:31 PM PDT

I live with my mom and dad My mom and myself work, I do the work around the house like repairs, loading in turf, and other jobs that need to be worked on. "I also am also a Piano teacher and I work in a general store." My dad however is an old age pensioner(72) , he has stated that he expects my mother at the age of (50) and me to do everything in the house while he does his "own thing" such as, go on the computer, and waste several amounts of money on shady car part dealers. He has been con'd twice and that has cost US thousands to get back. He has severe anger issues, and has on several accounts made a scene(I being shout and scream horrible words) at my sister brother and my mother including myself. I can't move out because I do not want my mother to be left with the man. And being a Piano teacher/player, it's hard and very expensive to move out of the house. He complains about anyone once they leave, even his own grandchildren. I inherit the house once he passes away and sometime I feel that that is the only way I can see it end. I work hard and so does my mother, we only make enough to get by. I do love my dad, however this can get very difficult for my mother and myself. Barley anyone visits anymore. I barely see my own brother because he hates him. It's hard to leave the house with-out a round of 20 questions. He literally gets jealous when I managed to save up for something and buy what I wanted. I have even had to see therapy because of this.

Question: Is my sister smoking in secret? How can I catch her?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:26 PM PDT

I used to smoke secretly so I'm aware of some of the signs, but I'm not entirely sure. All I know is, she spends ages in the bathroom and when she comes out, it reeks of mouthwash and air freshener. she's also in her room a lot of the time and rarely leaves her bag unattended. when she came home from college yesterday, she kept her bag in the sitting room with her while she watched tv and didn't bring it upstairs until she went up herself. i want to search her bag but she's only without it during meal times - other than that, she's in her room. Are there any other ways I can catch her out? Any other signs I should look for?

Question: How old is too old for a spanking??

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:23 PM PDT

I'm a girl and I just turned 16 but my "uncle" still treats me like a little kid? Uncle is in quotes because he's not my real uncle but more of a father-figure to me, anyway he's been in my life since I was born and is my moms best friend and my dad was never around, but yeah anyway so the reason I ask this question is because ok so my mom has been out on business for a couple weeks now and I've been staying with my "uncle"...I was hanging out with my friends the other day and long story short I got caught riding a motorbike that wasn't street legal (I also don't have a liscense) so the police took me to the precinct or whatever it's called and my "uncle" had to come pick me up and needless to say he was pissed. When he got home he gave me a lecture then told me to "come here" and he grabbed my arm and took me over to the couch and pulled me over his lap and well u kno the rest. Sorry for the long explanation but I want to make sure you know the full situation. Anyway after it happened he 'grounded' me and idk I just couldn't stop thinking about what happened and if it was right. He used to be fun but ever since the incident he got noticeably more strict. Btw I love him no matter what and he would never try to hurt me or anything but like I'm 16! A spanking? Really? He's not even that old-school and he's in his mid-30s but idk how he was raised. Anyway, thoughts? (Btw he didn't pull my pants down or anything but he did it hard enough to make me cry :\

Question: My aunt gets her feeling of importance by ignoring calls, texts and emails I send her. What should I do?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:22 PM PDT

I used to call and text my aunts, but never got any response from her. then I stopped, now my uncle(her husband) told me that she always complain that you don't check on her and that she is not happy with me. She has said the same thing to my sisters and brothers (we are 5). I wanted to ask for your opinions? Is this normal? how can we handle this issue? either way its hard to communicate and be normal with her.

Question: Do I sound spoiled? Im in 7th grade?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 01:15 PM PDT

These are the things I have that could make me sound spoiled Samsung Galaxy s5 Samsung tablet Old ipod (not and apple one) Expensive conditioner 6 year old ds A trampoline I don't really think I am, but sometimes I feel bad about having this stuff. I have a small room with a bathroom but it's the only one in the house. I also have a big desk, but the people that used to live her gave it to me. I get my clothes at kohl's, jcpenney, and sometimes aeropostle. But I do get straight A's and always have.I don't really get a lot of money except from my dad every once and awhile or when I mow the yard. Also I have really thick hair so it is much easier to deal with when I have my nice conditioner. My phone card is 50 dollars, but I usually pay about twenty. Thanks sorry if it was long.

Question: I hate my dad?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 12:59 PM PDT

My dad is such a ********. He has done so many mean things but this is the most recent. I was just daydreaming, and he said something but I couldn't tell he was talking to me. I said "Oh! I'm so sorry, I didn't catch that, I was daydreaming. Could you please repeat that?". He got so mad and was screaming at me about how I'm so rude and how I was ignoring him and he made me eat dinner away from the rest of the family. Does anyone have any similar experiences or advice?

Question: 7 year old Boy who won't stay still or listen. How to control his bad ways?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 12:56 PM PDT

I have a 7 year old cousin. Everybody the family is up to their necks on controlling this kid. Whenever he makes a mess and tell him to pick it up he won't do it. We tell him to take a shower he doesn't want to and crys. He has a dog and he treats her so bad he tries to treat her like a baby and won't let go of her. We tell him to let go but only squeezes her tighter. When he gets told to do somthing He rolls his eyes and scoffs and complains. Now I do get mad and punish him I'm not his parent so I won't hit him. Bitbi feel bad for my uncles because of the way he is. This kid doesn't care if he gets any punishment he still doesntbeven after they warn him. And I feel even worse for my grandparents because they babysit him. And now want to leave because they're stressed out. What motivation can I give this kid to do good. I was thinking about. Star chart. If he gets a star he's closer to hisbprize. Any ideas ppl. He's a good kid really he just doesn't listen and talks back. I know he's asking for attentionn but I want to help

Question: My mom makes me feel bad about myself?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 12:22 PM PDT

I don't know if My mom knows that she's making me feel this way, but she is. I feel like I can't do nothing right! When I do something wrong She will yell at me. When I say my opinion about something she yells at that too! She also makes me feel stupid. When wanna talk to her she ignores me Like I'm not even there. What do i do?

Question: How should I deal with my annoying selfish sister who is a complete *****?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 12:09 PM PDT

She is only 11 years old and I would be happy if I could punch her in the face until I knock her out. Of course I wouldn't do that, I just want to show you how I really hate her. I have already been ******* realize she is a ***** since she was 8 years old. I'm 14 and this brother/sister relationship is certainly not enjoyable at all. Some might think I'm still immature or something because of my age. But no, my mind is clear. My sister disrespect me and I couldn't really describe it except the word *****. She is totally a selfish **** who is also cringy and I just felt like my life is not enjoyable with this *****. I'm need someone who had the same experience with me. Because I am sure we would feel the same way.

Question: What do you do when your parents give you no structured rules and then it leaves you irresponsible?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 12:08 PM PDT

I love my parents. They're really laid back. We never fight because I never do anything I'm not supposed to. Maybe dumb things, but it's never anything bad. We have an excellent relationship. I keep good grades (I managed to get a 4.0 all year, and a membership in the delta society). I'm not hanging around the wrong crowd. But here's the thing: they don't hand me any responsibility. My mom won't give me any chores (she's been a stay at home mom for all my older sister and i's life) and then gets mad at me when I don't help out. Well... She doesn't tell me to do anything! I mean, if she tells me to do something, I'll do it, but it's not really structured. Being that I'm 16, going to be an adult in 2 years, I recognize the problem here. I try helping around the house more. I ask,"what do you want me to do around here? Just tell me and I'll do it" And she'll say little things, and I'll press on asking more, but she won't give me anymore. Sshe doesn't want me to drive because she feels I'm not ready, but my dad thinks I'm a good driver. I won't even have my license until next spring; I'm taking things slow. Is it that they just don't want me to grow up? I mean, i know it sounds kinda odd of me, but I kinda want responsibility so I can handle the adult world better, but it's almost like they don't think I'd be able to handle it. I just feel like I'm immature. Perhaps I didn't give a good enough explanation, but I'd love to hear your take on it. Please no negativity.

Question: How can I become a more loyal person?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 12:08 PM PDT

I feel so awful.. I ve never really considered loyalty to be one of my strongest traits, but I didn t think that was a problem until recently.. My dad and his brother got into a fight, and after reviewing the details, I found that I agreed with my uncle more. So then I messaged him saying I was on his side and apologizing for my dad s behavior. I love my dad and he s the family member I m closest to out of anyone, yet I betrayed him. I feel like crap about this and can t believe I ve done it... What kind of person betrays their own loving father? What have I done? How can I fix it?

Question: How can I stop my father acting like an Inlaw?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 11:53 AM PDT

He calls me all sorts of things and I presume it makes him a psycho. We don't see his family luckily and my mum is used. Should I force him to leave me alone? How can I do this?

Question: Tired of my family being in my business?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 11:45 AM PDT

No matter what I'm doing, it's always somebody in my business! When I'm cooking, someone always interferes and tries telling me what I'm doing wrong (and there stupid things, like turn the heat on higher, don't spray the cooking spray around the stove, you're pancakes are too thin etc) when I'm just going down stairs at night to get a glass of water everyone's asking questions (oh why are you still awake? What are you doing up You should be in bed? She must still be hungry. Ect) when I walk outside, even just for a breath of fresh air I have everyone asking me where I'm doing, what I'm doing and who I'm gonna be with, how long I'm gonna be, how am I getting there. I can't even enjoy a walk around the block because if I take a walk, they all have a heart attack and say I'm gonna get kidnapped or shot or something! I LIKE walking I enjoy it it's peaceful, but if I attempt to go on one everyone jumps up and says they'll drive me where I need to go. And these are just examples this isn't even the half of it. No matter what, and I literally mean NO MATTER WHAT IM DOING, I get asked 20 ******* questions and I'm tired of it. Ive just recently turned 18 but this has been going on for years! What should I do? And when I ask people to mind their business they tell me that I am their business.

Question: Please help! Why is he being this way? Will this EVER stop?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 11:37 AM PDT

Ever since my brother was 14 his behavior began to chaange . I'm keeping this anonymous, becuase what I'm about to explain to you is something very personal and deep. He started off shoving my mother against one of our bookcases. At the time I was only seven and didn't know what was going on. Later that night my father drove him over to my grandfather's,becuase we didn't want to see his presence for a couple of days. A few after that my brother is home, and as normal. That night my brother got mad,because my father accidentally closed tab on the family computer that had my brothers essay on it. The essay was deleted, and my brother started acting up again. He started throwing my dad against the wall and pushed him over a chair. I was so suprised, becuase after that my dad stood up and typed his essay. Whenever relitives were over he acted like the kindest person on the universe helping my elders (grandparents) talking to them, and even helping them walk down the stairs. I don't like my brother much for all the misery he has put the family through. He would swear to my mother calling her a *****, and calling her an *** hole when she didn't do something for him. For me he told me to hang myself. I had no friends,becuase they were scared of my brother. He would always tell me that knowbody wants to call me. I'm ******* done. I have lost interest in him, and keep my distance.

Question: How can i buy drugs if my parents ask where im at at all times???

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 11:18 AM PDT

Im 19 years old and my mom still asks where i am every dam second

Question: Am I being mean to my mom or just realistic?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 11:15 AM PDT

So to make this long story short my mom is very CLINGY. She has always tried to control every aspect of me, especially way I see my dad's family. She has attempted several times to manipulate me into believing that I am more like her and that I shouldn't think so positively about my dad's family. And what's even worse is that she says this in front of my dad. We both know that I am nothing like my mom, point blank. She constantly asks me what I'm doing, and if I show the slightest body language that something is wrong, she pries for information, asks a million questions, until I finally tell her what it is. When other people (including my friends) say negative things about her or try to point out the obvious, she expects me to defend her and gets VERY angry if I don't. She always wants to know what I'm doing, and gets mad if I don't tell her. When I was a tween, she would never let me bike around the neighborhood alone, and if we were in public and I walked just 5 feet away from her, she would get frantic. She still to this day doesn't let me walk far from her, and I am in my late teens, practically an adult. She's always asking for a hug and when I told her she's too clingy, she started crying and said she doesn't have anyone else, even though she has my brother, our dog, and my dad especially. I told her that I have a job now and I'm independent, have plans to move away, and I need to put some distance between us. So was I too harsh for this or am I just being real here?

Question: Parents divorce?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 11:12 AM PDT

So last night my mom came up to me and asked "can you live without me?". From there she explained herself. She has been saying that for the 28 years of marriage never once has my dad ever stopped drinking and smoking for her. She also says I don't listen to her, and my brother doesn't do anything for her after he moved out. This morning, my mom had told me she had made plans to divorce, and then move to Korea on the 23rd of august. The problem is I live in the U.S.. Usually kids have a divorce schedule or at least see one parent every once in a while but I'm not going to see my mom until I make enough money by myself to afford the flight, which isn't cheap. I honestly don't think I can live without her, and have realized if she moves I will be living a completely different life. My parents both make a minimal amount of money, and so we will have to move to an even smaller house than the tiny apartment we already live in, switch schools churches, etc. My mom has to move to Korea because she doesn't make enough money to live by herself, and is too sick to work in general, so she could just move in with her family in korea. And even if she had the money, she would be way too foreign even after the almost 30 years she has spent in the U.S. to live by herself. I'm sure I have left out a few parts without realizing, but i am devastated right now, and need advice on how i can talk to my dad, and convince my mom not to leave. (This isn't 100 percent official) P.s i am only 13

Question: Cancelling vacation?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:56 AM PDT

My mom planned and booked a vacation to Virginia beach for a week last month, but right now we're encountering some family problems so she wants my dad and I to go instead since my sister has been pretty abusive lately. Can you change the amount of people going and get some money back or do you just have to go? Or should I cancel and book again and is there a fee? (We're staying at doubletree by Hilton)

Question: I avoid debating with someone because usually results into someone getting upset?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:54 AM PDT

Question: How can I beat up my brother?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:43 AM PDT

So my brother is 20, turning 21 in a couple of days. I'm 13. My brother always takes my stuff. My socks, my charger, my headphones, and some of my hats. He even took my iPhone last year and kept it for himself. And he still needs to pay me back for it. He punches me sometimes like in the hip and in the arm. It actually kind of hurts. I'm tired of all this trash he's giving me, so how can I make him stop. He needs a good beating. I have parents, every time my moms sees my brother giving me a little punch, she tries to slap him but he laughs. He's not abusive, he just gets mad real easy. Any other ways to get his life to be a living hell?

Question: Can my baby s mom take my daughter to live in another state with out my permission ?? She is 2 months and says I won t see her anymore?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:38 AM PDT

Question: I have no friends?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:36 AM PDT

Hello, I am 14, male I am going to high school next week. In 6th grade I had 3 friends who were all smart and good kids. When I was in the 6th grade I was known as the "bad kid" because I would yell at the teachers , try to be funny in class, I put a lizard in my teachers coffee, I flipped teachers off, never did work or homework, I was crazy. I stopped all of that in the 8th grade . When 8th grade started my friends came up to me and said "we don't want to be friends with you anymore" they said because i was a trouble maker. So then I changed and they still didn't like me. They said how I ruined their learning for all those years. Then I started being know as the "loner" I cried everyday at school I was always alone. I used to have fun and hangout with my friends after school and now I just sit in my room all day. And then at the end of 8th grade I started to be the "bad kid again" i ordered 20 pizzas to the school under my teachers name one time and the teacher found out it was me because some idiot told him. I got suspended after that and then I came back and didn't care anymore. I did it again . I got expelled. Now when I go to high school they are sending me to some school for "troubled youth" it's an all boys school. I am so scared. Do you think I did the right thing? Who's right me or my friends?? I hate my life now!

Question: My friend feeds his 4 years old childrens only with mcdonald's butgers and coca cola..is it normal?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:34 AM PDT

she has got 2 4 old and 2 3 old childs.is it normal feed them with burgers and cola only??she used to be chef before she got kids(good one).she has has no boyfriend and her parents are both rich+money.mcdonalds is like 400m away from his living place.she visits it 3 times in single day..is this normal??? location usa

Question: My parents are forcing me to go on vacation with them to turkey what could I do about it?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:16 AM PDT

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Question: Asking parents a tough question.. Need advice. (URGENT)?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:12 AM PDT

It's my boyfriends 21's birthday (I'm 20) and he just wanted to do something SUPER small with his family and me and he asked if I could stay the night.. We have been dating 9 months he sleeps over at me a lot and in another room of course as its at my parents house. I want to ask my parents if I could go especially because its his birthday, but they are so strict. I don't want to cause a fight as I really respect their wishes etc.. But its at his dads home and I'd be sleeping in a spare room. They're lovely people and they just want me to be safe and not to have to drive at awkward hours as they know how my parents feel and also care for me. How can I ask to go in a way that doesn't cause any conflict, but also will get me to go.. He stays about 45 minutes away and its a dangerous drive home especially in the dark.. He just wants a care free evening with family and me. Please can someone help me...

Question: My Cousin had a baby With the Same Man Three Times And Me And My Family Never Seen Their Father Before What s Up with That?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 10:04 AM PDT

Question: My mom thinks I'm lying when I'm not?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:55 AM PDT

Ok long story short, I was watching a movie last night then I went straight to bed. When I wake up there junk food all over the floor and I have no idea where it came from. I never touched it. My mom came in and punished me. I told her I didn't touch it and she was even more mad. I Tryed sitting down with her and that didn't work. Any help where I can convince her I'm not lying? I'll admit I have told small lies here and there that were not worth it. (I have not had history with sleep walking)

Question: How to deal with my dad leaving us?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:47 AM PDT

I m 17 and have lived with my family for my entire life, everything seemed okay until a couple years ago my dad started working abroad but he was still part of the family and visited us very often. But in these past couple months he came and told us that he found another woman and would be marrying her, this came as a shock to my mother of course and they are divorcing. My mother is always crying and what he has done has hurt us a lot. When I was young my dad did not spend too much time with me but on occasion he took me out with him and I enjoyed it, I loved my father very much. I looked up to him for the majority of my life and even though he used to beat me and my sisters as children I forgave him because he did not know any better. After leaving us he has left me in agony, I remember all of the times we spent together, both the big and little things like when he took me to his work with him and little things like stopping by our favourite pizza joint on the way home. I don t have too many friends and have depression, I had depression even before he left us. But I used to tell myself that at least I will always have my family, now I don t even have that. No one seems to notice my pain. Recently I heard news that he is having another child with this woman, so it seems we were replaced easily.

Question: I can't change who I am!?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:40 AM PDT

My mom is always calling me stubborn and lazy. They always try to tell how to do things when I already know but they keep telling me! My mom complains about how stubborn I am. It's not my fault I can't change who I am. And my parents always talk bad about me right in front of me. Its like they want to change who I am, but I can't. I not perfect, I'm stubborn and they don't like it. What do I do?

Question: Is it best to wait for the type of woman I want to be with or go for what the type of woman I know I can get?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:37 AM PDT

If I wait it might never happen. So is it better for me to go for what I can?

Question: Name this family!?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:36 AM PDT

Choose a first name, one middle name, and surname from the list. Surname: Borowiak, Kirsten, Zielinski, Bukowski, Bednarczyk Father: Reginald, Rodger, Karl, John, Paolo, Eric Mother: Cynthia, Geraldine, Josephine, Paula, Annemarie Son 1: Anthony, Andrew, Patrick, Joseph, Rio, Steven Son 2: Nicholas, Randy, Henry, Joe, Billy, Alfred Daughter 1: Marie, Stella, Eleanor, Chardenee, Tina, Juliana Daughter 2: Valerie, Edwina, Persephone, Ann, Claire, Donna Son 3: Scott, Logan, Giovanni, Ryan, Leonard, Blake, Rulon Daughter 3: Athena, Maria, Rozane, Vivian, Haley, Mary Add ages for better chances of getting Best Answer! Name pronunciation: Chardenee (CHAR-den-ay) Persephone (PUR-sef-uh-nie)

Question: Does my mom not realize how she treats me sometimes?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:32 AM PDT

One day she said she was tired of hearing me complaining it was last year when I was venting but she was telling me how I don't complain often I told her she did that she said she didn't either she doesn't realize how she treats me or she is just fake because I don't think she realizes how much she ignores me often either

Question: What should I do... I love my parents and it's tearing me apart but I'm tired of my Mom acting crazy?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:23 AM PDT

Me and my fiance have a trailer temporarily at my Mom and Dads. Well, everytime anything goes good for us she has to ruin it, my fiance gets a day off she trips out and says he doesn't have a job anymore, he got fired, he cant support me, he needs to move back to his Moms. Every time I tell her he hasn't gotten fired somehow I'm a liar and all I do is lie. Oh, and I'm their daughter yet we have to pay $50 a week to live in the yard! Lol this is ridiculous. We have the option to move our trailer to his dads until we get the money for our house but it's 2 hours away and he lives in the country so theres no stores or anything near his house BUT he's never started any drama with us what so ever! What should I do? I love my parents but I'm seriously fed up. And my Dad is no help he just tells her everytime i text him about it. Thanks in advance you guys..

Question: I caught my girlfriend pouring bleach in her anus a few minutes ago? Help? Be serious please!?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:06 AM PDT

WTF Jackie, if you're going to comment why make yourself Anonymous!!

Question: Thinking bout breaking up with my fiance?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 09:05 AM PDT

Yes she is my fiance and we have 2 year old daughter. I can't no more deal with her. She got mighty comfortable. She dropps off baby at her moms house because she says it's too loud she 20. So am I. She quit her job and sits at house all day doing nothing. Dishes still not wash so I wash them. She wearing same clothes from since when I got out bed at 1 am to go to work . I always got pick up my daughter from her mom house and then prepare dinner. So now I'm thinking bout seeing someone new. I do not owe her a payout .

Question: Why do they not love me anymore?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 08:48 AM PDT

Hello I have had depression when i was 14 yo, because my parents are violent about me I live alone since I was 17yo. In high school i met a friend and she has like my bbf. Her father is divorced since 13 yo and they did not have contact with her wife she fed up them. Her daughter and me are 22 yo and she has another sis (15 yo) and her father is 56 yo. Last year, he helped me I was in diagnostic several depression, he is a lawyer and he has been an own practice so It was the only person to talk positively and made smile. But one day he kissed me i was shocked after that i was go to holiday with her daughter. In september after the begin school i decided to talk to father because i was shocked and he was troubled me. He said he doesn't think to have that and i m thinking that and explain me he wanted to stay with me and beginning something (i never had a bf of my life so i was a little afraid). We are decided before to begin something to ask at her daughters they were say yes so, I m dating with a wonderful men since 10 months ago. But my friend go to study abroad in january and since march she doesn't approve our relationship, the same with the another i dont know why now her father is current with her for 3 weeks she will come back here. My bf is near to his parent's and his parents to dis understand why now or before it was ok we have even go to holiday together (daughters, him and his parents). My former friends did not talk to me because this is a weird relation

Question: My son is a slut?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 08:11 AM PDT

He keeps sleeping around. I bet he got at least 5 girls pregnant. He'll stick in penis in any hole he see's. I don;'t want him to end up like this as a parent I feel like he's even seducing me! What if he get's a disease and dies?

Question: My parents are fostering a boy who was sexually abused, and now he feels like he needs to "do stuff" for me?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 08:00 AM PDT

So my parents are now fostering a 9 year old boy, and since it's the summer, I spend all day with him (I'm 16). It was great at first, we bonded, but then this morning he was sitting on my lap eating his poptart and when he was done eating he starting rubbing himself. I kind of moved in my seat so maybe he would stop but he didn't. Then I told him that what he was doing was not something we do while sitting in people's laps and that he could go to his room or sit next to me if he wanted to do that. He then gave me a puzzled look and told me that his real parents like it when he did that.....so what do I do?

Question: I m 17 years old and have a 1yr old my mother of my child stays with me n we live with my parents I make about 400-500 bi weekly my parents?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 07:52 AM PDT

Make me pay the light bill my dad works as a pizza delivery guy and my mom will sometimes make 400-1000 bi weekly they don t buy us food or at least me food I have a Honda Civic 94 that needs to be fixed cause every time you stop it cuts off the stove doesn t work and my mom told me yesterday to have the light money and rent money now early August and my 18th birthday is August 7th and I was gonna get me a tv and dvd player cause there s nothing to do here I just wanted opionions on the situation

Question: Is it wrong to hate where you're from?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 07:13 AM PDT

I'm from Killeen Texas but since my family is military we have moved around a lot. Out of all the states that I've moved to Nevada feels like home to me. I love Las Vegas and I want to settle down there. My dad is from Fort Worth and he gets angry when i say I absolutely hate Texas. Is it a rule that you have to love the state that you're from or is he just overreacting. I know this is a dumb question I just want to know what someone else thinks.

Question: How is it possible that I am nothing like my parents?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 06:43 AM PDT

So I have been living with both of my parents for all of my life mostly. I am 18 years old. However, my parents are very quiet, respectable people - which is great, but, I am the exact opposite i feel. I am very outgoing, talkative and have no fear of being social with everyone. My parents however don't talk much with other people unless they know them or are confronted, and seem to be kind of self concious about a lot of things. Even people I know say I'm pretty opposite of my family members. So how is it possible that I grew up very close to them but never really inherited their social styles?

Question: How can I contact my father, I know his name, the town he lives in, and that's about it. Appreciate help id like to speak to him.?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 06:43 AM PDT

Question: Come può una nipote essere sia fisicamente che caratterialmente la sosia di sua nonna paterna in ogni cosa?(Pure stessi nei o preferenze)?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 06:40 AM PDT

Esperienza personale.

Question: Through observations on his character and behavior, I've grown to 'dislike' my step-father. I've called him Dad but now I want to stop.?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 06:06 AM PDT

How do I stop calling him Dad. It's been me and mom since I was born because my father died when I was just 4-6 months old. My mother remarried a new man about 5 years ago and I started calling him dad about a year later. Recently, his character and demeanor has changed. Maybe it's because I'm older that I've noticed this (16 yrs old) but I don't like it. He has a son who he adores despite him treating him like utter **** yet he praises him more than he praises me and I'm a very good student and helper. it frustrates me and it hurts me. Also, he treats my mom like a maid. He takes credit for things she did (my mom paid for my $800 tennis camp and he claims he did to all his friends especially since after I came back, I became exceptional) and I am fed up. In my culture, divorce is frowned upon and also my mother can't support two kids with her income despite working two jobs so basically she can't divorce him until my 5 year old sister goes to college. I just want to stop calling him Dad. How do I ease into it?

Question: My mom and grandmother hate me now bc I have a sister?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 06:00 AM PDT

I'm at my dads house for a month and my mom and grandmother hate my dad I'm 15 and they normally text me everyday except I found out I have a 12 year old sister my dad had with another lady and I met my half sister I told my mom and she started screaming at me and she told my grandmother and she screamed at me they stopped responding to my messages and they refuse to text or call me now I'm not sure what I did and why they hate me now the last thing they said to me was your REAL sisters in tears hope you happy now! What do I do???

Question: My mum isn't being fair, what do I do?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 05:50 AM PDT

Okay, I'm really sorry but I'm just going to vent this out and ask for your advice. My mother is a very dramatic person, and thoughI love her to death there's no denying that. There's a series of events leading up to this, but I'm really angry right now. Story time; Just then I heard her on the phone talking to my nana, her mum. She's saying about how jealous she is of all the t.l.c her sister, Michelle, is getting from them and how she never got that. Not so bad, right? Wrong. My aunt is going through a tough divorce right now with a bastard husband, who I'm pretty sure was abusive. And to top it off, he took the house that they shared because he had built it with his ex wife, giving Michelle no where to go. My Nana is very kind and offered to let her live with her for a while so she can bounce back. And Michelle insists on paying rent out of pride, too. And here is my mother saying that she's jealous? My mum never went through a divorce, she's been married for 17 years and I'm happy for them, you know? But My mum drinks wine every night to the point where she's tipsy and sometimes borderline drunk. She's forgotten to put out one of her ciggies twice in the last week, one time she knows about, (it almost caused a fire) and the second was today while I was baking after school. I didn't tell her though, because I didn't want to upset her. So I poured a cup of water over the ash tray and that was that. I'm twelve years old and confused. am I overreacting? what do I do? Please don't answer this question anymore,

Question: Should I pull my bra up after breastfeeding or should my daughter play with my boobs?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 05:48 AM PDT

Question: Fatherhood and being pushed away. I would hate to give up on my twins but enough is enough? the mental fatigue is overwhelming.?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 05:08 AM PDT

I write this because i am concerned for my position in my children lives. The mother of my kids is a lost cause. she dumps my kids on her mom and barely is attentive when she has them(more into her phone and her new boyfriend who lives with her for free and contributes nothing) i even spoke to her mom who agrees she needs to grow up. I do not have feelings for her i have moved on i just want a situation where i am not only called on for money but updates about our twins lives. I feel like she is so caught up in this no good man and her family is enabling her behavior. she claims she loves this man but is still being messy asking me about my love life and pretending to be jealous. the big issue is i live in new york she lives in Conn. it is to a point where i am asking myself if the mental stress and verbal abuse from this woman is worth it. It is pushing me away. i want to stop being around just to show her how much i am needed to raise these kids. i respect soooo many mothers but i think this a rare case where the kids are not with the better parent. i just dont want to go through the courts to not get custody of our children that may hurt more than just taking a giant step back. before you judge me please try to understand the day to day stress this is having on my young 24 year old soul. thanks for reading

Question: Sister is moving to another country.. How do I cope?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 05:01 AM PDT

My sister is taking the opportunity I was offered at her age to live permentantly in England with my Dad, I declined for various reasons but I wish I hadn't. Now my sister is going to live there and I will NEVER see her. Flights are too expensive. What am I supposed to do?

Question: Do you think kids should cook and handle knives?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 04:59 AM PDT

I'm 14 years old and my parents, especially my dad, has been teaching me and my brother to cook for a long time. A few months ago I had a friend over and my dad thought it would be fun if we helped him in the kitchen. We just chopped onions, carrots, vegetables and things like that. Easy stuff. My friend went home to his parents, told what he did and the mom was furious. Next thing I know the school is calling in all the teachers, parents, students to discuss proper etiquette and when it's appropriate for kids to cook and use knives. My dad was not happy. He said: "First off none of you have any business in telling me how to raise my kids. Second, when I was a kid and when all of you were kids we did far worse things. I used to help my dad hunt, I gutted fish, deer, handled rifles and we used to be outside playing all day, every day. And I think I turned out fine. You people are ridiculous. In fact you people are what is wrong with this generation. All this fuss over that small of a thing. Give me a break". Then we went home. I love my dad. I think he is great. He is teaching us great stuff. I can cook, hunt, fight, I know my way around an engine, I can fix almost anything around the house. Yeah, sometimes he can be very direct and he lacks silk gloves but I think he is a great father. Unlike most 14 year old's I don't "hate" my dad. I just don't understand all the fuss about my friend chopping an onion?

Question: What should i do to make my parents proud?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 04:13 AM PDT

im 14 yo girl and its been 2 years since i go to school. my parents doesn't want to pay for my school fees anymore because last time i go to school, i quit because i was bullied and everyone was againts me. i guess i was young and stupid. im mostly at home, i don't have any friends. i used to be an extrovert with a lot of friends but now im an introvert. my parents are divorced since i was 5 because my mom cheated on him. now my mom has been married to that guy and my dad has been married to another woman with kids. i live alone with my sister. i have been through depression, anxiety and low self esteem but then i found God that really changed my life and make me see things differently. my family is going through serious financial problems. my dad has to take care of 8 person and i can't imagine the stress he's going through right now. i really want to make him proud. i want him to be happy. i really don't want to pressure him to pay for my school fees right now. what should i do?

Question: I have never met my dad....How can I find him?

Posted: 20 Jul 2016 04:11 AM PDT

to make a long story short: my dad came to Michigan from Florida on a business trip and met my mom, and she got pregnant. Then my mom found out my dad was still married, and made him leave. I Never met him, he paid child support on and off, no bday cards or calls ever...then when I was 13 we got a letter from the "court" saying he died in a car accident and we wouldn t be receiving anything from him or hearing about him. this crushed my hopes of ever meeting him but I could never find his obituary.....then we got ANOTHER letter from the ACTUAL Florida State Revenue asking about my dads address or something...I was too young to understand completely, BUT I m sure Florida would know if he was DEAD, right?! So we assumed the first letter was a fake possibly from his wife....Flash forward to 18 and I ve found his "intellus" profile where I could pay to get his phone and address but idk if it s legit. My mom also had two old addresses of his so I decided to send him a graduation announcement, to which I ve gotten 0 response. But I do believe I ve found his wife/ex wife and their kids on Facebook, but he is nowhere to be found on any of their profiles.....I don t think he even wants anything to do with me but I need something...someone please help