I know this is a stupid question to ask on here and would better be answered by a professional but I'm a 20 yr old college student with no money. According to my grandma I had a huge Electra complex but you know for a little girl that's pretty normal. My parents got divorced when I was 7 but my dad was always there for me so I'm not one of those cases where "seeking love I never got from my father" because he loves me a whole lot since I'm his only daughter. I think I was 11 when I 1st felt sexually attracted to him. By 13 I was actively seeking out relationships with men his age. I wasn't a bad kid I was on the honor roll and participated in school clubs I just happened to be attracted to men 2 or 3 times my age. I figured I'd grow out of it but even now its an issue. Any man I'm with I want them to call me by the pet names my dad calls me, wear the same cologne and basically just pretend they're him even if they're my age. Of course thats not right or fair to these men who want a genuine relationship with someone who they believe likes them for them. Most times its a FWB situation but on the rare occasion that it gets serious the second they meet my dad they kind of start drawing connections. I dont know what to do about any of this. And I dont even know why I feel this way. Most cases I read about people in love with their fathers either didnt meet them until they were adults or were beaten which neither are true for me. Can anyone give advice or options or a little help?

I think it would be fun to watch porn together and act out what the people are doing.Trying to come up with new things to keep us both happy. Because I am not currently happy. I am in no way sexually satisfied. I am not talking about that really hard core s**t and women screaming faking orgasms. But a mix of hetero, girl on girl, toy play, massage videos is what I like to watch. I really like girl on girl because women know how to get each other off well. Would suggesting that we have another woman join us for some fun be horrible of me? How would I even go about finding someone to join? We have been married for 11 years and I want to have fun and change things around. I'm so yearning for full body, mind numbing release. Porn led me to reading and watching videos on tantric sex and yoni and lingual massages. And that is Extremely appealing to me. I have showed him. And told him that I think we would both benefit from it. But he doesn't seem interested in the giving to me part. Although he loved the 2+hr long penis massage I gave him. I got him to c*m 4X this way and to have an amazingly long lasting orgasm without ejaculation. It was amazing! Apparently If it's done correctly it can completely change your entire view on what is pleasurable. Plus it totally dissolves ALL stress. Maybe I should just go get massaged by a professional? Maybe that will satisfy my urging, raging needs for now? Any professionals here? I'm just trying to keep things alive and satisfying. Help.

Judging superficially, only by their faces, who looks smarter and who dumb? First: https://instagram.com/p/BH-HObQh7IV/ Second: https://instagram.com/p/BH7LH0DBCYR/ (I know you can't Judge intelligence by apparence, it's just a bet)

Hace una semana tuve relaciones sexuales con mi novio y el dice que no se vino dentro de mi jajaja pero ahora tengo nauseas y tengo miedo

Long story short..I've had a crush on this guy for over a year. we have the same mutual friends and so when we are all together he never talks to me but ALWAYS stares and looks away when I look. We go to the same college but again he does the same thing. I didn't really care for him since he was just a measly crush but now I feel like I'm developing feelings. there was a party I was invited to but couldn't go because I had made other plans prior. my crush was going to be at the party and that day I just broke down crying that I couldn't go because I really wanted to see him. but I know even if I did go I wouldn't talk to him because of the shy person I am. My question is how do I stop these feeling because it's to the point I am crying over this guy. Any psychologists out there know the underlying reason why I am crying over this guy?

Long story short..I've had a crush on this guy for over a year. we have the same mutual friends and so when we are all together he never talks to me but ALWAYS stares and looks away when I look. We go to the same college but again he does the same thing. I didn't really care for him since he was just a measly crush but now I feel like I'm developing feelings. there was a party I was invited to but couldn't go because I had made other plans prior. my crush was going to be at the party and that day I just broke down crying that I couldn't go because I really wanted to see him. but I know even if I did go I wouldn't talk to him because of the shy person I am. My question is how do I stop these feeling because it's to the point I am crying over this guy. Any psychologists out there know the underlying reason why I am crying over this guy?

so i have borderline personality disorder, anxietyand major depression, i am taking zoloft but it only does so much, i get angry and frustrated easily and i try to hold it in as much as i can so i dont upset others, i dont hurt people and i.realy do feel bad about it.and i feel bad afterwards so i have am sympathetic..its nust very hard to deal with...i am working on being positive anyways , my friend and i had an argument, we were all drunk qnd i just think it.was miscommunication or something , i wasntthinking, she cut me.off and ccursed at mein a ttext, saying i am a very toxic person :( i was bawling my eyes out and aplogizing how horrible i.was but she never replied, what do i.do, i have no other friends ..i.feel terrible,

My friend is having a baby shower and I need to RSVP. I am planning on going. The invitation says to RSVP via her mom's phone number, but does this mean I have to call her mom? Can I just text her? Especially since I'm always horribly awkward over the phone, and it is her mom that I don't know too well so I don't want it to be even more awkward. So should I just send a text? What should I say?

And your siblings command you to do this for the whole time? But given that they also do their fair share of taking care of our sick father.

Now that we have that out there...thank you for the answers... Norie, I do believe you put it out there...what most of us feel... just the special people. :)

Someone at work has a crush on you and you don't feel the same towards them. You are polite don't engage in their flirtations. It seems the more you don't, the harder they try. They try to 'force rapport' more than what's there by putting their fist up for you to "fist bump" (and you awkwardly do it so as not to make them feel stupid), calling you a nickname you don't go by (and you correct them), followed by some other little things. I feel the best thing to do at this point is to continue not engaging in flirtations. What would you do?

Sali con alguien solo una vez cuando me vio por primera vez se quedo sorprendido y anonadado y quedamos de salir mas veces pero derrepente se consiguio a otra y me dejo de hablar de la nada y lo que me saca de onda esque a mi me dicen que parezco de las que salen en la television aunque soy muy sencilla y porque ahora sale con alguien no tan agraciada? La verdad me bajo mucho el autoestima yo siempre he sido muy insegura ya que sufri de bullying no se si fue porque le dije que me iria a vivir por 6 meses a dallas y no se quizo ilusionar ? o que seria lo que paso que no lo entiendo porque se le iria tan rapido el interes en mi ? siempre me pregunto que hize mal, me fije en sus exnovias y todas se parecen no son muy agraciadas me dicen que yo fui la mejor con la que ha salido :(

I'm 20 years old, my dad lost a job in december was on unemployment, they recently cut him off and now we have to move, I have been looking for jobs with the very little experience I have (Grocery store Bagger, lot more to the job than just bagging, but local employers brush it off as if it's nothing). I've given up on Job searching, it's gotten me no where and dad n I only have 2 weeks left, (It'd take a miracle to get a job by then). I feel almost angry towards him, he's been packing stuff up and saying we're gonna put it in storage, but I always ask him, "Where are we gonna stay?" and he says Idk, I HATE that he doesn't know, how could he not know? He has family just 2 hours away and he doesn't know? I'm pissed at him and myself because we couldn't find jobs, but for some reason I'm more pissed at him because he's turned down jobs because they weren't able to pay enough ($14/hr). I don't want to be in this position, I've been wanting nothing more than to become independent and self-sufficient but for some reason I can never get a job and run with it and I'm always being dragged everywhere by everyone else' failures.

I meet old fashion girl online but she said she does not want to give phone number so fast. How can I date or meet her? She seems genuine

I love Muslims and all people. I have many Muslims friends, but I just can't understand how Muslims can look up to a man who had sex with a 9 year old and waged war all over. He is the opposite of Jesus who never harmed anyone and told us to turn the other cheek instead of spreading more hate and violence. Anyway, as Christians it is still our duty to help Muslim refugees and show love to all Muslims.

I've been dating this lovely man for a little over 3 months now. It may seem like a short time, but he is my soulmate. However, he lives in Canada, and I live in Italy. He's working on coming down to Italy to see my family, and ask for my hand in marriage. We have discussed the future, and are planning our Wedding. But, he has not officially proposed. I don't want to ask him for a ring, cos that sounds lame. Should I get a cheap one I can wear on my engagement finger, till he comes to Italy to make things official? Or do I wait?

I was getting frustrated with him, and then he said he needs to sort his life out, so we broke up. Also he's the kind of guy that likes to do his own thing when he wants, but have someone that loves him, which doesn't work. This was over whatsapp. He couldn't even meet in person, because he says he would hate to see me upset.He doesn't talk on the phone except when it's something like "when are we meeting?", so couldn't even break up properly. He is 32. Not some teenager. He just runs away from his problems and gives up. After 2 months no contact he messaged "Hope you're well :)". Why? I thought wether to reply, and decide the next day just to say I'm good and hope things are good with him too. He didn't even reply, so what was the point of messaging me? He's never online, it was like he was using whastapp just to talk to me. My friend said I should have told him where to go. Is he trying to get me thinking about him again?

My fiancé insists on getting drunk every night of our vacation simply because we are on vacation. He gets super drunk and passes out and then that's the end of our night. Last night we went to dinner and he drank an entire bottle of wine and was passed out by 9pm. He had promised me that we would go out dancing. He says I shouldn't be mad because he's on vacation. He also gets loud and hostile when he's drunk. Do I have a right to be mad about this? He embarrasses me when he's drunk and then our night is over

I moved in with my boyfriend a month ago, but neither of us feel like anything has changed - it is difficult to explain, but it just feels exactly the same as before we moved in together. Before moving in, we only saw each other 3 times a week, but not we see each other every day, so it is kind of weird that it doesn't feel different. I don't know if it is a good or bad sign? What do you think?

when my husband came home yesterday from work he was very upset i asked from him how was your day then he start crying i hold him and ask from him what happened he told me that his boss today insult him in front of all his colleagues and he also hit in his head with file. I know last month two employees left the job so their work was given to my husband and he did extra work plus his work as well, last week one employee was sick and his work was given to him. My husband now days coming late from work he reach home at 11 30 pm because they take extra work from him. Yesterday whole night my hubby work and for last 3 weeks my husband is having pain in his head and his bloody boss hit in his head they take extra work from him and insult him as well, I told my hubby to leave the job as now i am earning i use to work at polar and i earn much so i told him to leave the job, Now my husband Blood Pressure is low and he is sleeping. I will slap in the face of his boss. So please advice me, can i go tomorrow and slap in his boss face i don t care if they fired my husband i am earning and i can support my husband. I cannot tolerate abuse and injustice against my hubby because i love him so much. Can i go and kick his boss *** He earn good money from this job but this job is giving him a lot of depression and also he cannot able to give me a time

Okay so to keep it short i'll do a readers digest version of what happened to night. So basically I tried to help my friend out who is the owner of a place I frequent. Well in trying to help him out I made things harder for him and I ended up with my foot firmly put into my mouth and egg on my face. He ended up pulling me to the side and telling me that I need to let him handle things and while he knows it comes from my heart I actually make things worse when I try to help. Well to put it in a Firefly reference I tend to be like Malcolm Reynolds in the Alliance bar in the Train Job episode. I say something to a guy thinking he's the only one I need to fight and then 30 other dudes come up and throw me out a bar window. I've learned tonight that I need to keep my mouth shut and I was wondering if anyone has any tips?????

hace unos días estaba hablando con el chico que me gusta y empezó a escribirme con corazones y ser muy lindo, entonces pensé "igual y le gusto" y me anime a decirle que me gusta pero, el respondió con un "gracias" y corazones y cada vez que hablamos me pone corazones. El me contó acababa de salir de una relación, no me dijo que no quisiera nada por el momento, o que no estaba listo pero, me confunde ¿le gusto o no? >.<

Are kids who are in movies, TV, famous for being a YouTube, in TV shows, in magazines more vulnerable because anyone in the public can see them? Like they have social media accounts that are public and thousands or more people are on them and is it more worry some for parents of famous kids that there might be perverts out there? (Say, their teenage daughter is in a magazine and they expect her to pose a certain way) and do they worry that people might not give their kids privacy? (Total strangers coming up to them at the grocery store when they're shopping for food and recognizing them).

Be honest...

Ok so in march 2013 i met this amazing man ...hewas married tho. It went on till September 2013...we stayed the night together....always on the phone. .even if his wife was home..he says he loves me he even told his wife he loved me ...we broke it off so hecould try to fix it between his wife and him! I havenit seen or spoken to him since...he called me the other day..needed to see me....i agreed. .he is still with his wife. He has come to see me everyday at my work....he even packed me a lunch...what do i do...i know many if you are frowning on me and i understand!

Este chico tiene tres años mas que yo, y es super guapo, era muy raro que empieze a seguir en las paginas webs como instagram o snap a chicas como yo, aparte de tener 15 años, me empezo a mirar muchisimo ya era muy exagerado... y yo decidi empezar a probar a ver que onda, nos empezamos a mirar, decidi hablarle con la mejor pero a cambio no recibi nada, luego de dos meses de mirarnos y hacernos caritas tan lindas de un dia para el otro se termino todo. Soy chica pero no soy tonta y me doy cuenta de las cosas, no me va a llamar la atencion una persona que no me da bola pero con el no era asi, se nota que esta interesado en mi y por ahi los amigos le dicen que no me de bola porq soy chica, y eso me da bronca se deja influir por los amigos y hoy en dia perdimos el contacto, pero las veces que nos vemos por casualidad son hermosas! No lo quiero perder ni olvidar, pero tiene que ser asi, CHICOS NO SEAN COBARDES Y TENGAN HUEVOS PARA ENCARARNOS. Me duele mucho esto♥

Like at 21 going on 22 what are your fears, thoughts, troubles & desires? Does your man satisfy you, is he the one you see yourself marrying? What do you wish he told you but doesn't what do you wish he did? How would you feel if you developed a relationship with another guy behind his back? What do you need?

So I'm super shy. I do have a group of good friends, and when they're around me, I have a much easier time talking to people. When I'm alone, however, I never know what to say to people, especially when I'm meeting new people. They issue's particularly bad with boys (I'm a teenage girl). For example, today I was at a sporting tournament and ran into this guy who I have a bit of a crush on. Our moms are friends, so they were talking, which meant that he and I were next to each other for a solid fifteen minutes and...I totally freaked out! I just couldn't come up with anything to say to him. I knew the whole time that it was the perfect opportunity to get to know him and talk to him, but I found myself resorting to silence. I find myself in situations like this a lot. I know I should be talking to people and getting to know them and making friends, but I just don't know what to say (and on the rare occasions that I do say something, it comes out awkwardly). Any tips on overcoming this shyness (especially in the presence of guys)?

I've known a girl for about 6 months...and we have probably hugged about 300 times. Seems like all the time. Is that too clingy and touchy considering we are not official together? Btw, she is married. And I'm not

Mi novia y yo ya llevamos 7 meses (cada 7) pero en junio 7 decidimos tener relaciones por primera vez entonces blablabla todo paso y cuando ya paramos su mama estaba abriendo la puerta de su casa y por muy rapido que nos poniamos nuestra ropa ella entro y nos vio cambiados pero por el hecho que nosotros no abrieramos la puerta cuando ella toco ya supo en ese momento entonces me corrio de la casa. (Todo eso paso el 7 de junio) 2 dias despues le llame a su celular de su mama (porque no tienen telefono de casa y le habian decomisado su celular a mi novia) para pedirle perdon y otra oportunidad pero en cuanto escucho mi voz me colgo. La ultima vez que fui a su casa a escondidas fue el 7 de julio, mi novia no presento ninguna senial de que ya no me queria o que me quisiera dejar, mejor me abrazo y medio lloro xd Que deberia hacer? Creen que su mama me de otra oportunidad? Me quiera ver la cara? Si es que hablo con ella seria por telefono o en persona? Si es en persona la busco en su casa? De VERDAD que NO la quiero perder por nada de nada, poravor ayudenme. :( (Por cierto ella tiene 15 y yo 16)

So I was on the phone with my boyfriend and his 8 year old brother came and asked me to ask my brother if I would invite him to his birthday party. I was like okay sure what is the theme, he said Finding Dory. And I laughed thinking it was a joke.. I thought it was funny and my boyfriend got mad and won't talk to me now. His brother isn't the sweetest thing either.. He says curse words, plays GTA V and orders strippers and prostitues all that stuff an 8 year old shouldn't do (personal opinion) But I apologized to my boyfriend for laughing and he still won't talk to me.. Am I messed up for laughing at him?:/

I'm a 47 year old bisexual (now) single mom who has been divorced for about a year. Right now I don't want a relationship, but I do want some kind of sexual outlet with someone. I'm also a high school teacher. One of my female students who recently graduated (and is now 18) recently moved next door to my apartment. To make a long story short we've begun having a noncommittal sexual relationship. There's something incredible flattering about having someone so much younger be so sexually interested in you. I love how she gets so excited whenever I'm naked or almost naked. it makes me feel sexy. I think she is incredibly sexy as well. The sex is incredible. I haven't had sex this good for a long time (last few years of my marriage was sexless and before that the sex was just OK). I also love that i have this outlet and no commitment right now. However, i am worried about how this could turn out. We've been doing this for about a month and there are no feelings. We did have a talk soon after we started that we wouldn't be in a real relationship and if either of us gained feelings we would stop. So far it hasn't happened, but I do worry. I also feel a bit bad that I'm sleeping with one of my former students. I know she's legal and I'm not her teacher, but it seems wrong. I won't deny that it does make it all the more exciting, but it also makes me feel guilty. I also don't want my kids finding out about this. I don't know what they'd think if they found out. KEEP READING So here's the question: Is it a good idea for me to keep this kind of relationship going for my sexual fulfillment? Could I do this without getting feelings (have for a month), Is it bad that it's with a female former student who is young enough to be my daughter? Is it bad that i'm keeping these secrets from my kids?

Why is it that people realize what they had when its gone?