Friends: Question: How do I change my reputation? |
- Question: How do I change my reputation?
- Question: Why do people get scared when you confront them when you hear they talk crap behind your back?
- Question: Why were they so quick to snitch on me?
- Question: What kind of message should I send to a friend after a long time of silence?
- Question: Why are some people so quick to snitch on other people?
- Question: How to deal with losing your friends? Some advice please?
- Question: I feel so weak compared to my friend?
- Question: 12 and want to throw co-ed party, explanation in details.?
- Question: My roommate stole from me and left. What can I do??!!?
- Question: I saw scars on my friend's wrists, now I'm worried?
- Question: Does this count as a "date"? And if so, what do I do?
- Question: Why is Obama a liar?
- Question: Well I'm 16 I live in Houston and I currently have no friends I was wondering how I could possible make new friends and where can I start?
- Question: I m going to be a sophomore in high school in a few weeks and i don t have a friend group yet.?
- Question: Lacking self-worth?
- Question: Should we really be friends?
- Question: Is this other girl just interested in hooking up with me or being friends? Also, any chance at all she'd want more?
- Question: My bf had dessert with a girl?
- Question: Was my friend wrong?
- Question: I need advice for a friend, can somebody please help?
- Question: What the five reasons that people don't want be someone friends with you anymore?
- Question: When a guy is positive towards a girl and supports her what does he think about her as a person?
- Question: Is there a Facebook page for causby sherry?
- Question: How to make a great first impression on a new friend?
- Question: My friend is becoming incredibly sensitive? Or am I being too brash?
- Question: Am I right to be upset with my friend?
- Question: Do you have to be pretty to make friends?
- Question: Who gets the Master bedroom in this situation ?
- Question: Don't have friends after high school ?
- Question: Is there anyone that I can talk in USA for to make friends and try practice my english? I dont find anyone to talk in the weekends a little?
- Question: Why do I have anxiety when I think about my best friend?
- Question: Why do people spam emojis?
- Question: Problems finding friendships with women?
- Question: I'm stuck in a very sticky situation! Please help me!!!?
- Question: Am i annoying?
- Question: I got expelled from my school for some stupid stuff. i am extremely upset about losing all my freinds tht ive known since i was 3. whatdoido?
- Question: When "friends" don't believe in your dreams?
- Question: My friend is rude?
- Question: No friends and I dont want any for now?
- Question: How do you forget about someone?
- Question: Why did my friend's friend ask to add me on facebook to remove me?
- Question: Does asking out a friend and getting rejected mess up you're friendship at all?
- Question: Is the ability of many heterosexual men to get involved in intimate relationships rapidly on the decline, or is it just me?
- Question: Does this mean anything?
- Question: Feeling horrible and embarrassed for doing something good for someone?
- Question: Am I one sick guy for doing this?
- Question: What Does He Want? Confusing?
- Question: Should I switch classes to be with my best friend?
- Question: I dreamed of my friend then my friend text me moments later?
- Question: How to meet people in college if you're shy?
- Question: Hi I am 14 my parents tell me to leave the house and go to the park alone but these crazy gang of kids from school will hurt me and beat me?
- Question: Why do my friends always leave me out?
- Question: What do I do about my friend?
- Question: I feels bad about my friend turning against me do i need to change or my behavior is bad ?
- Question: I miss my friends?
- Question: Poll: what would you do if your best friend just claimed to you that you aren't their best friend?
- Question: Advice please. I lost contact with my friend?
- Question: Why do people expect me to be nice to them?
- Question: What should I do about my extreme awkwardness?
- Question: Hey, i'm wanting to have gay sex with my best friends who is a boy like me.?
| Question: How do I change my reputation? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 05:46 PM PDT So, my reputation in school (or at least in my grade) is being kinda mean. I am a freshman going into sophomore year now. Back in elementary school and in middle school I didn't have a lot of friends. Yeah I had this little "group" of mine but none of them were really my "friends" exept for one. I still talk to him today. But I didn't really know why I didn't have any friends, I wasn't mean to anyone and I wasn't that shy either. So when I started freshmen year I thought that I was going to be a total loser and not have any friends. Well I was wrong, I had gained a couple of friends that were nice and everything I could ask for. Around toward the end of freshman year I'd began to lose my friends because some of them were getting kicked out of my school. Two of my friends got kicked out because of their bad grades. Now I just found out that one of my closest friend is not coming back to our school next year. So this was just a little background story. Anyways back when I first stared school I felt that everything was right, they was a boy that was interested in me and I liked him back, and my friends were closer to me back. Now they've kinda drifted apart. I have the reputation of being mean because the truth is I am. I'll get mad sometimes about nothing and take it out on my friends or my classmates. I want to change the way I am it's just that some people really get on my nerve and I start to get mad. If anybody can give me some advice I'd appreciate it. |
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| Question: Why were they so quick to snitch on me? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 05:35 PM PDT I started a new work on the first day of work I wasn't very good at first and my co workers snitch on me they very next day to the boss about how I wasn't good at working. Why were they so quick to snitch one me why didn't they give me a chance |
| Question: What kind of message should I send to a friend after a long time of silence? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 05:21 PM PDT |
| Question: Why are some people so quick to snitch on other people? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 05:17 PM PDT |
| Question: How to deal with losing your friends? Some advice please? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 05:02 PM PDT I have these 2 best friends one for 13 years and one for 2 years. We did everything together all 3 of us but this rumor started that changed everything. The one I was best friend for 2 years has been with her bf for 7 years and he is also my ex back in high school but we only dated for a month and she knew that before me and her became friends. My best friend of 13 years is my ex's sister and she is the one who introduced me to her sister in law. Everything has been I even babysit my friend of 2 years her twins. A rumor started that me and my ex were messing around and I thought she would believe me, her sister in law and her bf over some rumors but she didn't so I decided to leave her alone and give her some space before I go talk to her. After 5 days past we talk and she told me she was sorry and that she didn't believe in the rumors and that she has gotten so close to me after these past 2 years and that she didn't want this to ruin our friendship and I told her that I love her as a sister and I love her daughters and I would never do anything to hurt her or her family so we made up. A couple of weeks has past and I still haven't heard from either one of my friends I dont expect everything to go back to normal but it hurts seeing them all go out like all 3 of us used to and not get one phone call or even a text. Even my best friend of 13 years said nothing will change between me and her but since that rumor started I haven't heard one word from her. |
| Question: I feel so weak compared to my friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 04:59 PM PDT My friend and I are both recovering male anorexics, and have incredibly different paths in recovery. He was 230 lbs. and went down to 150 lbs., but has very much overcome his eating disorder. He has received no professional help, but overcame it by comparing the pros and cons of anorexia and began his recovery. He now eats whatever he likes and can even safely diet without relapsing. I went from 165 lbs. to 115 lbs. I have received a lot of professional help, but can't overcome this in spite of knowing how unhealthy it is. It's ruining me, but I can't stop. I'm still scared of a lot of food, and often have one pretty good week followed by two difficult ones. I feel so weak compared to my friend...is there any way to feel better about this? |
| Question: 12 and want to throw co-ed party, explanation in details.? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 04:24 PM PDT I m turning 13 in October, and I wanna have a cool b-day party with both boys and girls. I m going to invite my crush, and lots of my friends from the last school year (all female.) I m decent friends with most of the people in my old class. Probably going to invite a few popular guys, to even the boy:girl ratio out. Should I ask for the boys to bring friends? I m aiming to have a blacklight party with 8-15 people. I might add something like "the more the merrier!" in the invitation, to even out the ratio. I m going to have the party at my house, but it s a townhouse apartment and not that big. (I m not poor, I live in California and house prices are through the roof.) I can buy the food and accommodate everyone, but I m just worried if I can pull it off. Any advice? |
| Question: My roommate stole from me and left. What can I do??!!? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 04:02 PM PDT My roommate and I are moving to different states, our lease is up in a week. I havent seen or spoken to her in a week and I came home today to see all of her stuff and my money (in a chest) gone. Like $400. Should I call the police? What should I do???!! |
| Question: I saw scars on my friend's wrists, now I'm worried? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:54 PM PDT So I have this guy friend who've I've been friends with for about 2 months. I know I am his only friend, and he hasn't had friends since at least middle school (We're going into senior year) And I know he has mean parents (Not abusive though, already tried to report them but they were not bad enough) Anyway, he always wears a jacket, and earlier today we were hanging out and he adjusted it slightly and saw some scars, he didn't see me see them Now I'm really worried, and I want to ask him if he ever tried to kill himself, but I'm afraid he'll freak out if I ask the wrong way, suggestions on how to do it? |
| Question: Does this count as a "date"? And if so, what do I do? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:25 PM PDT So me and this girl have been really close. I noticed on her twitter she talks more "ratchety" with people when she posts her screenshots of her texts, but when she talks to me she is really nice and proper and she uses tons of emojis. Recently we have been talking about hanging out for the first time in years, and she said we could see a movie together. Keep in mind, she never said anything about me paying for anything. Although I probably can't since I just turned 16. Anyway, I asked her if she still wanted to hang out and she said "Of course:)", but I don't know what to really do or ask, because I really really like this girl but I don't know if I should try with her? I asked her out two times in the past and she said no so I've been moving on, but either she really likes me or I'm just really deep in the friendzone. Help?? |
| Question: Why is Obama a liar? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:18 PM PDT Today he said that homicides have lowered since he has been in office. Looked it up it hasn't gone up or down since bush. Why did he lie |
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| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:13 PM PDT i have individual best friends but they all have their own friend groups and i always feel like an outsider going from group to group. i don t feel like i belong. any advice? |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:13 PM PDT I don't really consider myself to be a good person. My friends and family always tell me I am, but I never feel good enough. Sometimes I try to remind myself of my good traits, but I always find a way to invalidate them or overshadow them with the negative ones. By no means do I hate myself. I just don't think I'm really worth anyone's time. I don't know how to describe it. Any advice? |
| Question: Should we really be friends? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:03 PM PDT I am an "old soul." Assuming you know what that means, I have been friends with a girl who is something more of a "baby soul" for a couple years now. Over these years she has been kind and funny, but also clinging and especially immature. She always tries to be the mother of the group, but one way or another I end up the most mature and reasonable. She starts fights over stupid things and always tries to find a way to blame me. When I admitted to her that I was diagnosed with depression, she shouted at me for supposedly "dropping a bomb on her" and "trying to make her the bad guy." I forgave her. Keeping a grudge would be stupid. But I still look back at it and get a little sour... I cut her off for a while after that. Time passed and I don't consider us to be friends anymore, but I found out that apparently she still does. But she's volatile and needy. And I'm phlegmatic and solitary. Until she matures, I'm not sure I want to be her friend, if you could call that a friendship. Does anyone have any advice? Should I change to suit her needs or...? |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 03:01 PM PDT She's sexually attracted to women. She says she has made out with girls and has sucked on their nipples. She hasn't had sex with a girl. She said that she just wants a girl she can hook up with. She definitely seems sexually driven. She has a bit of a dirty mouth, but when talking about penis, she often says "ew". She does talk about guys and has had sex with guys. Romantically she seems to be into guys. She has called herself lesbian, however, and has said she only messes with women (confusing...huge contradiction). She says this loudly-not sure if only to draw attention. She once said she wanted to see me in a sports bra. She's said she likes my a**. When I said I go both ways the last time I saw her, she didn't seem surprised or ask any questions. Tonight, though, I peripherally noticed her looking over at me a couple times as I stood nearby - which I'd never previously noticed. When I was standing nearby a couple times she'd say something sexual to a particular girl and I had the feeling it was to get some reaction from me. It was randomly and loudly thrown into the convo as I came around and the other girl never really reacted. I was asked to go out to the bar with her and a couple guys. She asked me to go. Later when she asked if I was going, and I said I didn't think I would, she looked disappointed. I asked someone where a particular girl was (that I'm attracted to) and she looked straight down/looked sad. She did later say she felt tired/sick though so... I'm female |
| Question: My bf had dessert with a girl? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 02:41 PM PDT He had dessert with a girl and she posted a pic of his dessert on facebook and he posted a pic of her dessert. Is our relationship over? |
| Question: Was my friend wrong? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 02:40 PM PDT My friend messaged me today to tell me that she hopes I'm not gonna be super pissed, but that she couldn't do today (hang out). I said we didn't have plans today and she said oh that's right, we had nothing set in stone, so youre not mad and I said no. Never gave me a reason as to why she was trying to cancel plans she thought we had, but turns out when I looked at Facebook that the reason was was that she was at a pool with another friend of ours, hanging out and drinking alcohol. I didn't say anything but it really hurt me. One because I wasn't invited by either of them and since we don't have cars maybe that's why I wasn't invited, but I'm sure they could have found a way for me to be there if they wanted me to be. But that's not what really bothers me the most, it's the fact that it seems like she was trying to hide the real reason for trying to cancel plans we didn't have. Almost like she didn't want me to know I wasn't invited. That she thought i wasnt exciting enough to hang out with. Which makes me think that what if we had plans for real, would she still have acted this way? And she's almost always upset if I do something with my family and she's not invited. But then tries to act like she's not upset. Its not like I do it purposely. My mom doesn't like her. |
| Question: I need advice for a friend, can somebody please help? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 02:38 PM PDT So I've been friends with this girl online for a while now, we're really good friends and pretty close actually. So recently I found out that she was friends with this guy in the past, they were friends for a year or so and they were pretty close, but then at the end, it seemed that the guy was cheating on her and lying to her. My friend is still hurt and sad because she trusted him a lot, and the guy didn't care at all, he is having fun while my friend is a sad person inside. Because of him, she drinks alcohol and gets drunk just to forget about her past, she's almost sad all the time. When I try to help her forget about her past she never wants to talk about it and tells me that lots of people tried to cheer her up but everyone failed. She's a really good friend and my best friend honestly, I'd like to ask for advice please on how I could help her. |
| Question: What the five reasons that people don't want be someone friends with you anymore? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 02:14 PM PDT if you are very kind person |
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| Question: Is there a Facebook page for causby sherry? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 02:00 PM PDT |
| Question: How to make a great first impression on a new friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:56 PM PDT Hey everyone, I need some help. I m new to the area and I m in the process of making new friends. But anyway I met somebody new and I want to make a great impression. How do I do it? And is texting too much bad early on? Thanks |
| Question: My friend is becoming incredibly sensitive? Or am I being too brash? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:24 PM PDT I don't know why, but recently my friend seems to be unable to sense I'm being sarcastic? She condescendingly tells me how I should be acting after I say something sarcastic and it's really getting on my nerves. Or she is unable to comprehend people might have a different opinion, and gets mad due to that. Or I'm trying to help and she gets angry. At least, I'm pretty sure she gets mad. She ignores my messages - leaves them on read or replies in really short answers. Examples: 1) All the Pokemon Go gyms nearby were ran by team Mystic and I sarcastically said: "Oh my god, I hateeee team Mystic." (I dragged the word out to make it seem more obvious I was joking.) Her: "You shouldn't be hating people just because they're on another team. That's so stupid." 2) A small dog was barking/biting the air as I walked past and I said: "I really dislike small dogs, they just seem so much more aggressive than the larger ones." Her: "Don't f***ing generalize, small dogs are so much cuter." 3) In Chemistry, a subject she has been recently complaining about. Me: "Why do you never share your scores? Are they low? Because I can help." Her: "Because it's no one else's business, especially yours. I don't need anyone's help." All this petty stuff has been happening only recently, like the past 3 months or so. We've gotten along great since we met 5 years ago. I don't really want to lose her as a friend, but all the snippy responses are p*ssing me off. I don't have a great temper either. |
| Question: Am I right to be upset with my friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:20 PM PDT My friend messaged me today to tell me that she hopes I'm not gonna be super pissed, but that she couldn't do today (hang out). I said we didn't have plans today and she said oh that's right, we had nothing set in stone, so youre not mad and I said no. Never gave me a reason as to why she was trying to cancel plans she thought we had, but turns out when I looked at Facebook that the reason was was that she was at a pool with another friend of ours, hanging out and drinking alcohol. I didn't say anything but it really hurt me. One because I wasn't invited by either of them and since we don't have cars maybe that's why I wasn't invited, but I'm sure they could have found a way for me to be there if they wanted me to be. But that's not what really bothers me the most, it's the fact that it seems like she was trying to hide the real reason for trying to cancel plans we didn't have. Almost like she didn't want me to know I wasn't invited. Which makes me think that what if we had plans for real, would she still have acted this way? And she's almost always upset if I do something with my family and she's not invited. But then tries to act like she's not upset. Its not like I do it purposely. My mom doesn't like her. |
| Question: Do you have to be pretty to make friends? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:18 PM PDT I'm not all that pretty and school starts in 2 months and I REALLY want to make friends. I'm also a really shy person. If you have to be pretty to make friends, how do I get become pretty? |
| Question: Who gets the Master bedroom in this situation ? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:18 PM PDT I am in my last year of college and living off campus. We got a 3 bedroom house for my 2 roommates and I. However recently one of my roommates informed us that his girlfriend was going to be living with us and that she will be paying another share of rent splitting it 4 ways now. Only me and the couple want the master. I think there is going to be a problem with that so I was wondering how we can choose who gets it the fairest. I know whoever gets it pays more. but they could both pay half of what i would have to pay. Its not like they need much more space she is not bringing anything really other than clothes. I just wanna enjoy our senior year. PLEASE HELPPPPPP |
| Question: Don't have friends after high school ? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:17 PM PDT What should I do ? |
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| Question: Why do I have anxiety when I think about my best friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 01:09 PM PDT We ve known each other for more than 10 years and have been like sisters for each other.There were times when I was annoyed with her character(she probably felt the same as well) but somehow we always sticked together. Recently though I ve started feeling anxious just thinking about her.Its like I don t live my own life when she is around or when we talk on phone. It s hard to admit but I don t want to have any connection with her anymore.I m starting to seriously dislike her. I get anxious when I see her number on my phone. What can be the reason? I don t want to hurt her feelings but I really don t know what to do. Thanks beforehand |
| Question: Why do people spam emojis? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:59 PM PDT I see these people that make a post somewhere and they say something isn't funny, but then puts a laughing emoji?? What?? Or when i'm messaging someone and they just spam emojis with every single thing they say. It's so annoying! Me, "Hey" Friend, "Hey :) :D :D :)" "What's up?" "Nothing really :D:D:D :)" That was a simple example, normally there are other ones they use. Do they think it's funny? Do they think it makes the conversation cooler? It's really dumb and it's so annoying. So many people do this and i hate it. One person told me, "Well it's because we're on a phone and we can". You can on the computer too, so why don't you there?? Is it just that tempting?? |
| Question: Problems finding friendships with women? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:43 PM PDT I'm a dude and always had problems finding friendships with girls. I have had a few "acquaintances" with friend's girlfriends and whatnot, but never anything true, meaningful, or even memorable. I feel like in general men and woman have too many differences right off the bat and it's hard for me finding a woman that I can connect with and have a comfortable, easy-going friendship with. I just feel like there are too many boundaries in place and I just can't have a normal, platonic friendship with a girl. Even with really nice girls who are very calm and easy-going and I would never consider dating, it always seems like there is a piece missing from the puzzle in terms of the friendship. With a relationship partner, there are almost no boundaries existent, but a friendship with someone of the opposite sex there are sky-high boundaries..at least it seems like that from my POV. There are always exceptions of course, some guys are able to strike very comfortable, platonic friendships with girls but that just seems very unlikely in my case. A friendship with someone with the same sex has significantly less boundaries involved and just makes for a more comfortable friendship, but a friendship with someone of the opposite gender is just uncomfortable and edgy.. anybody else struggle with these issues? |
| Question: I'm stuck in a very sticky situation! Please help me!!!? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:37 PM PDT Okay, so I want to be a famous singer/entertainer as my future career. I want to be just like Madonna. I know I can't exactly be like her and I don't want to, but I do wish to be as big as her one day. I know I can do it! That's where I can see myself 10 years from now. Right now, I just started working cause I've been struggling getting a job. My goal is to make a CD/Demo CD of all the songs ive written at a recording studio I've researched online, but of course, I'm gonna have to pay for it. According to the website, a full CD would cost $80 and just making a song would cost $90. I don't have a credit card or debit or anything, so I'm going to have to pay in cash. I'm telling you this because I'm stuck on this position. I don't want to just blow off my money for recoedibt sessiobs every time I get paid. People always say it's important to save your money, but I want to record my music as soon as possible! So I don't know what to do?? |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:33 PM PDT I have a planned camping trip next weekend with my friend Katie. My family is taking her and for the past two weeks ive called her to talk about it, get more information and make sure that she is still able to go. I would call her once for two days and give her a break and repeat. I called her thursday and didnt contact her until this morning to express my excitement. she was in a bad mood and i could tell from her voice and i asked what was wrong, she said i was over doing the whole trip thing and i was ruining the excitement. The only reason why i called so much was to make sure she was okay and would still be able to come. i told her for the past two weeks she wont need money unless she wants to buy a t-shirt. I've explained that so much, and she told me she had bad news and said she had no money and she didn't want to piss me off. I had told her at least 5 times she wouldn't need money at all and my parents would pay for it. She told me not to call her at all this week, i can text her but she doesn't want to hear my voice so i told her i can do that but i don't think she is annoyed at me, she is annoyed that her mom won't take her to get her nose pierced like she had promised and she is annoyed at everyone else. she didn't say anything which is a common thing for her when she gets proved wrong and we talked about her moms job and then we hung up. i want to know your opinion about this. i know it's petty but i don't truly see what i did , maybe i am annoying |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:24 PM PDT i got expelled. im very very depressed about possibly losing all of my freinds that ive known since i was 3. and i feel like dropping out or running away. what should i do? i go to therapy but he doesnt really do much and i meditate. I NEED HELP |
| Question: When "friends" don't believe in your dreams? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:15 PM PDT I'm curious what other people would do in my situation: I've always been a writer, since I was a kid. In fact, I've kept a journal since I was 11—daily, since I was 13. English teachers have always pulled me aside and told me I have talent. Look, I know being a professional writer is almost as impossible as being a successful actor, artist, or musician—it's a tough field. But as you might guess: I can't NOT pursue my dreams, right? Here's the thing: I've noticed that some "Friends" don't even care about this writing dream of mine. When I told them, they just gave me blank stares and no response. SOME friends ARE supportive, btw. But those people who aren't, bother me because: they're supposed to be my friends, you know. I don't care if strangers don't believe in my dreams. -'Cause it's not their obligation! But friends... you know? Even if it doesn't come true, you should support your friends' dreams, right? Please help. Thanks. |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 12:12 PM PDT I have a friend that I talk to every morning before school starts for the day. We're both 14 and girls, we do have the same interests such as kpop. But we don't talk that much about it. (hardly actually) She's kind of rude towards me but not others. I once asked her whether she listened to this kpop group called 'BTS' which I do listen to. She looked at me with a 'isn't it obvious face' and replied 'duhh'. I don't get why she did that when I was just asking her a simple question...in which I didn't know the answer. There are other times where she starts talking to me about stuff that has happened in her life. And me being me, I just sit there and listen to her and follow along because I don't want to be rude and tell her I don't want to listen, no matter how much I don't want to. But whereas when I want to share something funny or anything else really which I thought she would be interested in, she just cuts me off and says 'Na ah ah I don't want to hear about it'. And she's always the one telling me about her life. I feel as if I can never have a real conversation with her. And yet I'm the only one she treats this way. What should I do? |
| Question: No friends and I dont want any for now? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 11:33 AM PDT I dont have any friends and I don't really want any because I really want to focus on school, I really enjoy being alone and I am extremely shy but my parents get very mad at me and want me to have friends. How can I tell them I am not interested in having friends? |
| Question: How do you forget about someone? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 11:24 AM PDT I had someone for whom for 4 yrs would bully me threw text recently they stopped I keep thinking they'll do it again it's been a month how do you forget about someone and has my torturer moved on? |
| Question: Why did my friend's friend ask to add me on facebook to remove me? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 11:12 AM PDT The first few moments of meeting her she was a cling on, she talked about getting a flat between her and my friend, then asked if I wanted to get one with them. After that she talks about going on holiday and starts showing me photos of the hotel she wanted us to stay at and then she asks to add me on Facebook. She said she had links to send me and then sent the request. When I had to go she seemed offended as if I were making up an excuse to leave. And then I saw not long after I accept her request she deletes me. I take it as a blessing since she didn't seem normal, but why would you add someone to remove them? |
| Question: Does asking out a friend and getting rejected mess up you're friendship at all? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 10:49 AM PDT I asked out my friend a little while ago, she rejected me saying she was asexual in a kind way. We've been talking normally, but we haven't done anything together since then. What are the odds I messed up our friendship? |
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| Question: Does this mean anything? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 10:19 AM PDT What does it mean when your friends sister says bye ugly when shes leaving? I said it back too, she has a bf though |
| Question: Feeling horrible and embarrassed for doing something good for someone? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 10:11 AM PDT My co worker was my Bestfriend. Recently she passed away... I've gotten real close with her sister through Facebook, although we've never met in person. We've communicated slot for the past month, supporting each other, eking stories of her sister, grieving.. Very loving supportive in the loss I'm having to endure too. We are both religious, she said she wanted to send me her sisters only bible, which is an honor to me!... So I sent her a long sweet letter in the mail and a "sweet jar" a jar full of 101 notes, each has an inspiring quote to help you when you are not feeling well. hoping it can make the day better. The letter and the jar notes were all very sentimental and (I didn't want to make her cry) but I'm sure she did. I was so excited to send it, I'm not saying I expected an extravagant response I WASNT but she said "Thank you so much for my jar, it's wonderful......." I don't know why but I feel like she didn't like it and I feel lame and embarrassed for sending it now. Why'd she put so many periods, I feel like she's saying "it's wonderful (but-)......." Anyway what do y'all think? I didn't do this for attention or anything, |
| Question: Am I one sick guy for doing this? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 10:05 AM PDT My high school buddy Jimmy invited me to come to house and hang out. At his house he introduced me to his mom. WOW, was she beautiful. The fact the she was showing a lot and I mean a LOT of cleavage probably had an influence on my thinking. As she was serving me food for dinner, her boobs were 6 inches away from my face. I got a b0ner and almost come in my pants. I finally got control of my feelings and thought what a pervert I was for thinking of Jimmy's mom as sex object instead of Jimmy's mother. She was a very nice person. After we had talked for a while, I ask her if she had been a model. She said she was a lingerie model until she got pregnant with Jimmy. That was the end of her modeling career. She ask if I would like to see some of her pictures when she was a model. I told her YES. Some of her pictures were her in a VERY skimpy lingerie. I almost got a b0ner again. I am ashamed of myself for the way I reacted but my weenee must have a mind of it's own. Did I have an normal reaction for a teenage guy? It was really embarrassing. |
| Question: What Does He Want? Confusing? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 10:02 AM PDT His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he's made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He's asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he's studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn't work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I've seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can't be interested in me and he said he said he wasn't and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym advice and said "don't you have a bf to teach you all this?" and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What's his deal? His parents also look and smile and fidget when they see me.People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don't think the gf relationship is serious cause no photos together on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they've been together for 4 years already. He also doesn't go to his grandmas when my car isn't parked and i'm out of town(my roommate tells me) grandma isn't sick or anything. He comes 3x a week to the apts. Can it still happen between us? when we got into the fight I said don't message me again and i told him he's the one chasing me. After the fight a year has passed and he saw me outside and looked and smiled at me. We're both 26 btw Rosalie- he asked to send ME study/prep materials and sent A LOT on multiple occasions being really nice, like 65 attachments. |
| Question: Should I switch classes to be with my best friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 09:53 AM PDT My friend wants me to switch out classes so me and him have the same classes. I want to do that badly, but the classes I have are 2 Honor classes, and I'm also doubling up on math. Should I drop one class or just leave him? He's a real close friend to me, like a brother, what should I do? |
| Question: I dreamed of my friend then my friend text me moments later? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 09:40 AM PDT This happend two times when same friend contacts me after I dreamed of him? I am a guy too and we use to chill a lot until he got a girlfriend. Now we spend less time together. How so, is this happening to me with my friend? Seems like dreams sometimes wants to tell me something? |
| Question: How to meet people in college if you're shy? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 09:34 AM PDT So here's the situation. I'm about to start college (in two months). It's an English and literature and Philosophy college, just FYI. So basically, ever since i was 6 years old I've had trouble meeting new people and talking to people. In kindergarten I literally talked to no one the whole year and sat in a corner where the teacher couldn't see me until we had to do activities together. One boy even beat me up with an elephant toy one day but that's a whole other story. In elementary school it took me 4 years to really start making friends. The first two years I mostly just thought about stuff and said a few words here and there. In high school it took me about a year and a half to start making friends. The first year and a half I was also thinking about things, but this time I was more psychologically developed which i assume is the reason that I've been deeply depressed for the past 4-5 years. So now I'm afraid of starting college since I think that I won't be able to make friends again. I've been fooling myself into believing that I don't need any, but the truth is that I'm afraid of talking to people. Moreover, I have literally NO idea how to talk to anyone. I honestly don't know how to 'just strike up a conversation with somebody', especially if that someone is a stranger. What I'm asking here is for you to give me some advice as to how to start a conversation, what to talk about, and essentially how socializing works altogether since I have never really done it.^^ |
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| Question: Why do my friends always leave me out? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 08:59 AM PDT So its summer and most people in the summer hang out with there friends every day, well not me and my friend. I havnt seen them for a month! and apperently theyve seen eachother. There always posting on instagram or snapchat that there hanging out hanging out together while me and my friend wernt invited! im starting to get mad at them for doing this! What does this mean!? |
| Question: What do I do about my friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 08:56 AM PDT For the first half of last school year, we were best friends. However, during the spring, we kinda drifted away, and she started hanging out and telling everything to one of our friend group's other friends. At one point, right before summer vacation started, there was a point when she just ignored me and barely talked to me for a week. I asked her why she was ignoring me, and she told me that she didn't mean it. So I know that she doesn't hate me, but it really hurts that she just drifted away and doesn't care, especially since I've been wanting to be her friend for years, and I still really care about her. Now that it's summer vacation, we barely talk at all. I know that I need to talk to her and ask what's going on, but I'm afraid that it's completely ruin any bit of our friendship left, and that she'll have nothing to say in response. I really don't know what to do. |
| Question: I feels bad about my friend turning against me do i need to change or my behavior is bad ? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 08:11 AM PDT So my and me group of friends were together before and i was the one who doesn't know any much about math, physic and stuff, and they helps me lot and very kind to me then after while we split up because of the school and the chance we meeting each other is less and i decided to study and research myself, after a year later and the national exam is near, during one year i got my teacher approval and I'm very good at physic and even qualify to compete with other school in my country, and my math and other subject is average. After that i met my friend recently and they seem little bit change, there's a time when i ask them to copy lesson for me because i was busy that day but they seem doesn't want to help me at all and they sometime even say things like i'm not good enough to bring me down, thou i don't really have much reaction about it but it feels something. Is me good at study now makes my friend hates me, sometime i do like bragging myself little bit because we're friend and cause afford the joke but do i really seem bad and they just hate me ? Im 20 years old Mr. Jony |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 08:03 AM PDT I just went on vacation with several of family friends who all live in different countries and I am really missing all of them!! The chances that I will see one of the girls again is really rare because our parents are not as close with each other. Also, I probably will not see the others until 5-6 years. I really need help on how to stop missing all of them so PLEASE give me advice. Thank you! |
| Posted: 24 Jul 2016 07:40 AM PDT All because they have a boyfriend or a girlfriend now? My best friend, well one of them, just told me that I am not his best friend, just a friend. However I did nothing to him at all. This only happened because he now has a girlfriend who gets jealous when he talks to other females. I know this for a fact because our mutual friend told me he was like this when they were in high school (did not know them then) and also because he called me his best friend to me before and also told me he thought of me like a sister before. The mutual friend is also telling me he is only saying that because of his current girlfriend. What should I do? I feel like ignoring him because when I do he always comes back apologizing to me and this has been one bad week for me because he keeps making me feel bad and upset 24/7. Its been affecting my sleep and eating too. The minute i start to feel better he decides to call and start sh*t again. |
| Question: Advice please. I lost contact with my friend? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 07:35 AM PDT I lost all contact with my longtime friend. We haven't spoken in 2 years and haven't seen each other in 3. He deleted all of his social media accounts, moved even farther away and doesn't have the same phone number. A few of his family members have social media accounts and I considered reaching out to them but they don't know who I am and I thought that would be kind of weird. I'm not really sure what to do. I really miss being friends with him and I want to talk to him again. What should or what can I do? |
| Question: Why do people expect me to be nice to them? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 07:12 AM PDT I was the type of kid that got picked on by the other kids. It did not matter whether it was in school, kids in the neighborhood or kids in my family. Genrally, children didn't like me because of my quiet, introverted character. Anyways, now that I am 19 years old and makes over $600k a year, drives a really nice car, has a nice place and nice clothes, these same people wants to be nice. Isn't that just hilarious? Due to the mistreatment I have always gotten from people for being different, it caused me to be mean, arrogant and selfish. I do not care about anyone else, only myself. Just like they felt that I wasn't good enough because I wasn't apart of their group, they aren't good enough for not being apart of my group. Back then people had no reason to dislike me, now they do. I couldn't care less about how these people feel about me, today. Why do these people want me to be nice to them now, but they were not nice to me? I just do not understand. Why don't they just continue hating me? |
| Question: What should I do about my extreme awkwardness? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 06:50 AM PDT Well it's like I can't make friends only acquaintances because of how alway of a person I am. I can't go beyond joking around or else it'll be a cringe fest. Anyway my awkwardness scares me because I never want to invite people over for the fear of being awkward. Not that I stop talking once I'm in that state (which I know will happen, it already happens to EVERYONE I try to hang out with.) it's just when I get uncomfortable I get very bland and everything seems dry and pain staking. Like when I'm not being myself I hate it and it's automatically a terrible time. Not to mention I have no idea what to do with my body. I don't know how to be natural with my body and talking I guess especially when I'm uncomfortable. Anyway I'm trapped in a dead end because my mom won't help, she already confirmed one of my worst fears: she sees me as a person with no friends. Probably because I never hang our with them. I do have friends, very few though and they're still just strictly joking around. I never tell them my personal life or anything, I find it cringy and every time I try to talk about gayass feelings I feel gross and embarrassed. Especially with this topic about being a loser. Well i guess I'll go complain elsewhere on the internet since that's no help for me in in real life. |
| Question: Hey, i'm wanting to have gay sex with my best friends who is a boy like me.? Posted: 24 Jul 2016 06:47 AM PDT I'm wanting to have sex with my best friend who is a boy like me. I like him and in my opinion he's canny hot. He acts a bit flirtatious with me, sometimes touches my hand or touch me. I've seen his penis 2-3 times now and he had a ***** the 2 times i've seen it and he didn't the 3rd. I was at the GYM with him and we were both in the toilets, me filling my bottle up with water and him taking a piss. I look at him in the mirror and see his penis and me wanna **** him. I don't know how to tell him that i like him and want to have sex with him. I'm 14 he is too. I'll obviously use a condom if i get to have sex with him. I don't know how to tell him i like him and i want to **** him. Can anyone help? |
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