Friends: Question: Isn't it utterly retarded to murder yourself over bullying? |
- Question: Isn't it utterly retarded to murder yourself over bullying?
- Question: How to recconect with childhood best friend via social media? Is it weird to?
- Question: My friend/neighbor lost his son a few years ago and I have no clue how to handle it?
- Question: Is it okay to lend a friend that I like money every now and then when she needs it?
- Question: What can we do for a 15th birthday party.?
- Question: How am I supposed to accept being alone forever? Should I just die.?
- Question: How to be yourself?
- Question: Why did my "best friends" completely cut me off? Want nothing to do with me anymore? What is a real friend? How do I move on? Plz help!!!!?
- Question: I've noticed that my friend likes to go through my stuff?
- Question: Why is he doing this?
- Question: WHAT HAPPEND THERE?? WHAT DO IDO?? WILL I HAVE NO CHANCE NOW?? HELP ME NEED ADVICE!!? WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?
- Question: Do you care what age your friend is?
- Question: Why no reply when I offered him to stay w me a couple days?
- Question: Can you meet new people over yahoo answers?
- Question: I really need advice rn?
- Question: I beat my brother whenever he wants to do a problem im13 and he is 11 but everytime i beat him the most and get voctory but i feel so bad :(?
- Question: Would it sound bad/needy if I asked to hang out? What should I do?
- Question: Online School OR Public?
- Question: Facing a dilemma at my job. Any advice?
- Question: Why couldn't my friend accept the person I like?
- Question: How to leave my online life?
- Question: Can someone please help me?
- Question: Hi everyone, i'm italian, please click on the question?
- Question: I think my female "friend" is jealous of me?!?
- Question: 22 yr old and never had a girlfriend!?
- Question: My friend has no sense of humor?
- Question: This Guy Obsessed W/ ME? Stalking Me? What is his deal?
- Question: What to do about an ineffective leader?
- Question: People are saying stuff behind my back?
- Question: Friend hates me help!!?
- Question: How do I get rid of bitter emotions and let go?
- Question: My friend is suicidal, what should I do to help and encourage him? Any suggestions?
- Question: Is a used Land Rover too nice for a first car?
- Question: Last year I became good friends with a boy. This year we were still friends. School ended a long time ago. So, he stopped talking to me!?
- Question: My friend keeps bailing on me!!?
- Question: I dont want to be Friends with benefits anymore how do i tell him?
- Question: I want to cheer my best friend up, is this okay to do?
- Question: Need female advice?
- Question: Is it odd that an 18 year old is friends with a 23 year old?
- Question: How can I feel better about this?
- Question: How do I handle this annoying kid in my neighborhood? (I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE)?
- Question: How do I move on from the past?
- Question: Roommate threw a party and stuff was stolen?
- Question: Bros- can a girl be a bro?
- Question: I can t text my best friend because her mom constantly reads her texts.?
- Question: AM I THE ONLY ONE?!!?
- Question: Please be my friend im lonely?
- Question: Did God do this to spite me? So frustrated :( please read all?
- Question: Boyfriend said he wanted me dead and slapped me 15 times...? I use to hit him ... But stopped and now he hits me....?
- Question: This is absolutely insane..am I in a lifetime movie?
- Question: Should i tell her parents ?
- Question: How to tell my closest friend I don't want to hear about her relationship problems anymore?
- Question: Has anyone ever stolen your personality?
- Question: I'm hanging out with an old friend... What do I do?
- Question: If you have a friend who seemed completely healthy since you've met them, how would you react to finding out they have a disorder?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Im so lonely please be my friend?
- Question: I´ve got 22 days to go to Amsterdam,how can I make the waiting to go by fast?
- Question: Why did I get so ****** up and go to the hospital?
- Question: This Guy Is Stalking Me?! What Is His Deal?
| Question: Isn't it utterly retarded to murder yourself over bullying? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:52 PM PDT It's so childish..fight back,call the bullies names,give them a good punch when they're not looking and scream you're awesome in the middle of the hallway..I see so many suicides over bullies..they're just insecure so they're taking it out on u...wow..the parents should have been more attentive and went to the school and cursed the bullies out and grabbed their hand REAL hard and looked them deep in their eye all while your kid stands besides u..that's what I'd do as a father and then I'd tell the principal to ENSURE he keeps an eye on my kid and I'd let him have no friends until it blows over in case they're trying to trick him into thinking they're his friend...sad as ****,yo..seeing mothers cry endlessly on TV over this. |
| Question: How to recconect with childhood best friend via social media? Is it weird to? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:34 PM PDT My childhood best friend and I lived on the same street as eachother for 10 years, from kindergarten and pre-k thru middle school. She moved to a different state, and we fell out of touch. Recently, I ran into her at a thrift shop where she works at, and we chatted for a while as best as we could (since she had other customers and was very busy). I did a quick insta search and found her profile....I would really like to keep in touch with her, but I'm not sure how to approach her. What's the best thing to do? Will I seem like a stalker? Is it a bad idea? Thank you!! |
| Question: My friend/neighbor lost his son a few years ago and I have no clue how to handle it? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:22 PM PDT My dentist and neighbor lost his son in Iraq in 2009. Today he put a picture on facebook captioning with "Happy birthday buddy". I never lost a child so I have no clue what'its like. Since our kids were the same age I used to babysit his son too when the kids were young. His wife and my wife became friends,you know how it goes. We moved into their block in 1995 when the kids were 4,5 yo. Initially I was gonna comment on facebook saying something like "never forgotten". Then I thought about giving a picture my daughter and his son took when he graduated from Marine boot camp but my wife suggested it would cause more pain so it would be better not saying anything at all. We're going at their place tomorrow night .Any suggestions? I never lost a child so I do not know what it's like since he wrote that on facebook I'm assuming he wants to share with the world his son otherwise he wouldnt have posted it in the first place,right? |
| Question: Is it okay to lend a friend that I like money every now and then when she needs it? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:22 PM PDT |
| Question: What can we do for a 15th birthday party.? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:17 PM PDT Me and one of my best friends are tryin to find something to do for our other best friend's birthday. Her birthday is in early November, and we want to do something that is not at one of our houses. We thought maybe we could go to a cupcake place, but we don't have any around us. We don't really have much money to rent out a place, so we nee some ideas of what to do. Any ideas? |
| Question: How am I supposed to accept being alone forever? Should I just die.? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:14 PM PDT Seriously. I have no friends or family. I don't do anything but work and at my job I take care of people who can't move or talk, so I don't see anyone at work really and I'm shy and insecure but I have no one, no relationships and have never had a boyfriend. I'm 22, haven't had friends since middle school and my family is just gone. I have an iPhone with no contacts and a Facebook account with no friends. Not kidding. I feel like there's no point because it's just me by myself, it's boring and lonely. What's the point of living when you have no one, how do you accept it and be happy? I don't even have pets, I can't in my apartment. |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:08 PM PDT hye everyone i need help and advice let me tell you guys my situation , okay im at new place on my first day my first impression wennt well just get to know each other and smiling and fake that im a good boy at the first day but the day after i just cant show my true form! just smiling and talk nice evry fking day and i felt so uncomfortable seriously i felt like im making a sin, and i get jealous with people that show their true color and get along with other people how can i be like that. i just cantt. im shy :( how can i be myself ? |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:04 PM PDT So I used to be best friends with these two girls Allie and Brittany and we were all close, Allie and I were closer to our guy friends more than Brittany was even though she was acquainted with them. Allie and Brittany have completely changed, shut me out, barely answers my texts, I ask them how they're doing "fine" "I'm good" ask them to hang out and all the time "have to see what my schedules like" but they're always together now. Nothing happened, we never fought, never had an argument. I was there for them, I would do anything for them because they were my best friends, why wouldn't you be there for your friends? Allie changed a lot, she was drinking and smoking, changed around boys. Brittany would come to me and complain she didn't like that, but now she completely is with Allie and drinks and smokes and talks to boy to boy. Both my "friends" are hanging out w my ex boyfriend and I guess my "ex guy best friend" when Allie was originally friends with them but Brittany was just like friendly. Brittany not talking to her in weeks sends a picture of them all together and said sorry she meant to send it to someone else. |
| Question: I've noticed that my friend likes to go through my stuff? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:01 PM PDT I've been friends with this person for years, both girls btw. I'm allergic to cats so I can't go over to her house, meaning all sleepovers or hangouts are at my house. We hang out a bit, but only have sleepovers every few months or so. I've noticed that the past few times she kind of goes through my stuff. Don't get me wrong, I don't have anything to hide, but that still doesn't mean that I want somebody going through my stuff. This past time it was going through my bathroom while I was getting ready. It's happend before with my closet too. And it's not just like wanting to look at my clothes or something. She goes through everything so throughly where she's looking and it's getting a bit weird. I've brought it up that I don't want her going through my stuff and she'll say that she's sorry and it won't happen again...but it still does. And I'm not just going to drop her as a friend for being nosy. Any advice? |
| Question: Why is he doing this? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 05:00 PM PDT My friend told me to leave him alone but he views all my snapchat stories. Like all of them literally. Why is he doing this? |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 04:59 PM PDT Friday A waiter at my restraunt that I work at asked this girl I liked to give me her number she wrote it down on a piece of paper and had him run it to me. I never told him to ask her to give me her number but he did. IDK what else he may have said to her cause I wasn't there when he did it I was in the kitchen. She works at the coffeplace. Will that hurt me?He ran the paper with her number on it back to me. I do talk to her b4 and sometimes after work. This wasnt planned by me. Usually at least an hour b4 or after depending. Ever since that day 2 days ago she has been a b i t c h to me she hasnt been friendly like b4. I didn't say anything to her or do anything so idk. he told me not to text her right away wait til monday |
| Question: Do you care what age your friend is? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 04:33 PM PDT |
| Question: Why no reply when I offered him to stay w me a couple days? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 04:08 PM PDT I'm a woman and good friends w a man. I'm 20 years ago we dated /slept together but we were kids. We both struggle w relationships however, it's one thing we support eachother through. Well he called me upset because he is losing his housing and has no where to go, no money and freaked out. I told him he could crash at my place a couple days. Now he's been online but has not respnded Did I offend him somehow?? |
| Question: Can you meet new people over yahoo answers? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 04:07 PM PDT |
| Question: I really need advice rn? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 04:03 PM PDT I don't know who else to go to so I need help, it's complicated I'll try my best, I like my best friends brothers best friend (we'll call C) C and I had/have a thing and had sex. (REMINDER I SEE HIM AOT CUZ IM ALWAYS AT HER HOUSE)His other best friend (J) also likes me and told C, C got mad that we were friends and got lowkey jealous, J and her bro (E) picked me up & we went to the mall & I invited C but he left me on read and didn't reply to when I invited him so after a couple hours we went home and they came over to help me edit a movie for film class, I called C and asked him to come over and he said nah I don't have a ride. and then E knocked out & we couldn't wake him up to take him home. so we waited till like 5 am for him to wake up so we can go home. So the next day he texted me and really thought I did stuff with him behind his back? I'd never do that, and now he's being really petty and not texting me, or talking to me even and I'm just really confused. And I need advice on how to fix it. J keeps trying to get him to talk to me but he won't :/ |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 03:59 PM PDT i feel so bad about him whenever i get victory but he will never stop messing up with me i tried to be friends with him but he dont want to but the problem is that my parents want him to be a man and manup they always yell at me that he will not be a man but do u think beating him up will not let him manup? and what should i do to him to let him be my friend and hug each other (he never hugged me in his whole life ) |
| Question: Would it sound bad/needy if I asked to hang out? What should I do? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 03:49 PM PDT My best friend is going away for a while in a couple days and I just saw her a couple days ago. I don't want it to be the last time I see her for months, and I didn't get to say goodbye. She said she's busy and she'll have to let me know if she's free, but it's been a couple of days and I'm considering just asking to hang out. She made the last plans we had together too, so the balls in my field to make plans. I don't want to sound needy or anything and I know she def wants to see me too, so I'm contemplating just asking if she knows if she has time this week. What should I do? Should I just ask? |
| Question: Online School OR Public? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 03:46 PM PDT Another reason I don't like public school right now is because in a month we are going on this camp.. (school camp) and I'm a picky eater, I don't know what I'll eat for a week and there's only one other girl not going and I hate her!!!!!!!!! So there's no way I'm staying at school with her, and if I don't go to camp for the next 4 weeks I'll get jealous because everyone will talk about it. I am really good with computers and spend half my day on my laptop so online school won't be hard. I'm also getting a horse soon so I'll need extra time to see her. The other thing is I would WAY prefer doing 3 hours of school than 6 hours. But I don't know if I'll get bored and will be sick of having no friends. |
| Question: Facing a dilemma at my job. Any advice? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 03:44 PM PDT Yet again, I work as a glorified babysitter at a youth rehabilitation center... I am 26. I find it EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to maintain my "adult" persona. I have to hang out with the kids, i.e. play games with them, eat meals with them, bring them to meetings and groups. Yet, I find myself joking with them as I would friends. Inappropriate things such as "suck it", or "blow me" etc... boundaries just aren't my thing, they never have been. How do I maintain composure while still having fun with them? I need to learn and quickly because this **** can get me canned in a heartbeat, I would assume. And the entire "grow up " bit generally isn't beneficial. I'm mature, but I'm also a jokester and I also sometimes lack awareness when comfortable. These kids are 12i-21 and i get along with the 16/17 year olds because I have a disgusting sense of humor but how do I nip it in the butt? It isn't right and I and the kids can get so much ****. Maybe I'm not meant for it. Idk. |
| Question: Why couldn't my friend accept the person I like? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 03:31 PM PDT She's very welcoming to my other friends with open arms, she's very nice to them and respectful toward them. But when she comes to the guy I like she's not welcoming and she is not nice. She treat him differently than my other friends and he never gave her a reason they never met. She turned everything positive thing happen into a negative thing that involves him. Does that mean she doesn't want him in the picture? Why would she treat him differently than my other friends? For example she is friends with them on Facebook no drama no fighting she's friends w him on Facebook there's drama and fighting. I don't understand that. Do you consider her behavior rude |
| Question: How to leave my online life? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 03:14 PM PDT For the past 3 years I've spent a majority of my time building an online life and creating friendships all over the world. We all met through similar interests on twitter, and we've talked almost everyday. It's come to the point where I just don't want to live behind a screen anymore. I have very few friends in real life. I'm anti social and awkward. I want to end my online life but I'm scared I'll get exposed. My friends have a photo of me. I keep saying if they post it who cares? It'll never reach me in real life? It's eating away at me too. I'm a boy who is turning 18 in a month and entering my senior year of high school. My main fear is they'll find my personal social media and try to reach out to me. I've changed my number and the last step is to deactivate my online accounts where I associate with them (Twitter). It's an addiction and I feel like im trapped. Does anyone have any advice? |
| Question: Can someone please help me? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:58 PM PDT I feel like a nuisance to everyone. I can hardly keep a friend. In the group of friends that I've hung out with for 3 years, I'm losing that connection with them. I've joined sports and tried to make friends, but I always just feel excluded in the end. If I try to speak, someone just talk over me. To my family, both of my sisters hate me. My parents are divorced so I never really talk to my dad anymore. As for my mom, she hangs out with my 6-year-old sister and basically ignores me. I just don't know what to do anymore. Advice? |
| Question: Hi everyone, i'm italian, please click on the question? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:40 PM PDT I'm 17 years old, never been engaged , do not go out on Saturday , I have no friends , and the community of Italian answers does not help me . That is, I do not understand .... I'm a good guy but he never come enhanced ! My mom has mental problems and my father always comes back late from work . At school they always beat me . I have heart problems and could die at any moment , please help me . I am expressing repressed anger, I can not say no to anyone ever , with the hope that wish me well , but no, |
| Question: I think my female "friend" is jealous of me?!? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:28 PM PDT Hello, I have this "friend", not a close one, we meet from time to time. I just have that feeling that she might be jealous of me. I have a strong feeling that she used to like my ex boyfriend (which she didn't deny indirectly when I asked her if she would date him), now she wants to study the major I studied (although I recommended her with sincere not to because there's no jobs opportunity), and she is a bit insecure about her look. I don't think I have anything to be jealous of, in fact, I am looking for a friend but I'm just not comfortable. Now I feel motivated to get a job before she does.. she is motivating me in a indirect way without feeling it is a competition.. I used to always help her find a job but she isn't. I may be wrong.. but how to deal with her in such case? |
| Question: 22 yr old and never had a girlfriend!? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:28 PM PDT m a 22 yr old guy. I never dated or had a girlfriend. I feel kind of down about this. I have been feeling lonely, I just want to have someone to talk to. I have good friends, but they have girlfriends. I don't care about losing virginity or anything. I just want to experience a relationship. I would like to get your thoughts. I am in University and will be graduating in a year. I am a pretty decent looking guy. I am kind of shy, but i am coming out of my shell. I just need help approaching girls.I just have been feeling lonely. Should i just be patient and wait for it to hit me when im not looking? Having girls on your mind all the time just makes it worse! I'll appreciate any tips you have! |
| Question: My friend has no sense of humor? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:12 PM PDT With one friend I have we both call each other names and cuss at each other all in good fun. We can both say anything no matter how nasty or vulgar or just plain F'ed up it is and still have a good time. But with another friend I have, if I playfully call him a cuss word he gets really mad and takes it to heart. I can't joke around with him at all. If I say something that's even a little bit sexual he'll cut me off in the middle and be like "alright stop it" or look at me and be like "what is wrong with you?" So I feel like I just have to stay completely serious around him all the time. Is this normal? |
| Question: This Guy Obsessed W/ ME? Stalking Me? What is his deal? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:05 PM PDT His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he's made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He's asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he's studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn't work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I've seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can't be interested in me and he said he said he wasn't and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym advice and said "don't you have a bf to teach you all this?" and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What's his deal? His parents also look and smile and fidget when they see me.People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don't think the gf relationship is serious cause no photos together on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they've been together for 4 years already. He also doesn't go to his grandmas when my car isn't parked and i'm out of town(my roommate tells me) |
| Question: What to do about an ineffective leader? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:04 PM PDT This guy is the leader of our senior class (high school) and he wants to get rid of senior privileges, (even though he's a senior himself) because he thinks it is unfair to the underclassmen. However, he made a decision to get rid of senior privileges without asking any of the seniors for their inputs. I think that is not fair, because an effective leader knows what's best for EVERYONE, and not just him. He has a tendency to make decisions without asking anyone for their opinions. What can I do about this? I am pretty sure I am not the only one who wants to keep senior privileges. |
| Question: People are saying stuff behind my back? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:03 PM PDT Basically school has been stressful and a few weeks ago I got diagnosed with anxiety and I only told some of my closest friends. One of them told the whole of the year and they won t stop talking about me. Please help!! |
| Question: Friend hates me help!!? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 02:01 PM PDT Okay so I was put in a situation recently when I saw cut marks on my friends arms... There were pretty bad so I went and spoke to a teacher about it. The teacher got it sorted and the girl found out I told and now she hates me... She blocked me on Everything!! The thing that really bugs me is she has done so many things to me and I was always the stupid one to forgive her... What can I say to her for her to forgive me even tho I'm not the one who should apologise but I don't want her to hate me again last time she put me through hell.. Please please help! (I'm 15 if people are gonna say I sound young :) ) |
| Question: How do I get rid of bitter emotions and let go? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 01:56 PM PDT I was in a group of friends who basically turned on me and ganged up on me and kicked me out and it hurt badly, I have been moving on and I feel like it's best that I forget the toxic group of people that I thought were friends... I have even taken steps to make amends with some of the people and extend an olive branch and it was successful... I even got closure from a few and we wished each other the best, and you would think that I would be happy now... However moving on hasn't been so easy, I hear songs or see things on tv that remind me of them and it triggers bitter feelings, and sometimes on social media I see the group hanging out with people they once disliked and talked badly about, and I get bitter because I am no longer there for petty reasons, but they have invited back people that they were so cruel to... How do I not care about what they do? How do I stop getting triggered with reminders? How do I let go? |
| Question: My friend is suicidal, what should I do to help and encourage him? Any suggestions? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 01:54 PM PDT |
| Question: Is a used Land Rover too nice for a first car? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 01:54 PM PDT My parents recently purchased me a 2008 V8 Land Rover HSE. The car is fully loaded with the Lux package the DVD player and every other option that came with the car. I know they purchased a car mainly because of the safety ratings but also because it was fairly nice. Even though the car is a 2008 it is still very fancy for a first car. A lot of my friends have new cars that cost the same or even more but just because this car is a Land Rover I'm nervous about being called spoiled or rich. I go to a private school where some kids have a lot of money and yes there are nice cars but I would definitely say mine would be one of the top brands in my school parking lot. Would you say this car is too nice for a new driver who is 16? I am nervous to drive this car because I'm not sure about the ridicule or thought that I will get from my friends and people at my school even the teachers because there was a kid who drove his dad's Maserati sometimes and everyone always talk about how rich he was and how spoiled he is. Do you think that I will be fine or should I try to talk to my parents about getting me a car that doesn't have such a materialistic brand? |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 01:44 PM PDT I had a friend who was a girl and we weren't close as my other best friend. I kinda hated her. She became best friends with the guy. I'm so sad. Why did a 'friend' of mine steal my friend. Okay, so this part might play a role into the conflict. Whenever I wasn't looking, he would stare at me. Duh, I can see him. But when I look at him he smiles a bit and says hey. Then he would go back to whatever he is doing. I kind of like him lol. BTW if u already didn't know I'm a girl. So answer why he isn't talking to me anymore. |
| Question: My friend keeps bailing on me!!? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 01:34 PM PDT So we are both 15 im an only child and she has five sisters. A week ago we were going to the movies and we already had a certain time to go after 6 when my mom got off work so she could drive us and before that i dont have a ride. She called me that day and said can we go at 5 i made planse witb my sisters to go to the mall at 6. This pissed me off so much but I played it cool saying we'll just ho another day and she said okay. She was the one with the idea to go to the movies on saturday,so yesterday, i had time and so i said yes she told me about this on wednesday on friday she texted to see if we were still good for going and i said yes. Well saturday morning comes and she said she made plans for her aunts birthday because she never heard from me!! When the day before i said yes and she reaponded okay!! I am annoyed with her rught now. Why is she doing this? |
| Question: I dont want to be Friends with benefits anymore how do i tell him? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 01:01 PM PDT we have been really close friends for a couple of years now he tells me just about everything. but lately iv just been getting annoyed with him and hes been treating me like **** so how do I basically end everything with him? I honestly dont know if i even want to be friends with him anymore. |
| Question: I want to cheer my best friend up, is this okay to do? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 12:31 PM PDT My best friend got hurt last night by a female he was extremely in love with, he says if he cannot have her he rather be single. He doesnt know I know because our mutual friend told me as our mutual friend was a witness to what happened. I want to take him out to cheer him up and my best friend collects lego sets and he's been really wanting the New York City set. I was thinking of buying it for him just to cheer him up. I really do care about him and hate seeing him hurt. He told me he rather be single if he can't have this girl (shes blocked him from everything and he did nothing wrong to her shes just jealous he has female friends as friends only) Is it okay for me to tey and cheer him up? |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 12:25 PM PDT So basically, I have a really good female friend I met working overseas about 2 1/2 years ago. We had training together and became pretty close, we talked and texted every day, she d come stay at my house, we d go hiking, etc. I ended up falling for her hard, but kept the sacred bonds of our friendship in check. I ended up letting it all out one day, even though she had a boyfriend and it was kinda awkward for a few weeks, but we soon became even better friends. We have both since returned to the states, and she married the man she met overseas (East African). We talk everyday more than ever. I still flirt with her pretty regularly and she receives it well, but I make sure not to cross any lines and show her respect. My question though, We talk about everything, but she never brings up her husband. I sometimes want to ask, to be friendly (maybe even a little nosey) because they have only been married for two months now, but she has never brought him up much. The very few times I have, she brushed the subject under the rug. Why has she never even mentioned anything about their relationship? We are very very good friends and talk about everything and know each other very well. Is she afraid I will get jealous? I think Ive composed myself well. What could be the reasons? Obviously if she brought him up I wouldn t flirt so much. Should I just ask her or would that be wierd? I m happy the way our friendship is growing. She is amazing... What should I do? Thanks ☺ |
| Question: Is it odd that an 18 year old is friends with a 23 year old? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 12:23 PM PDT I don't have any Friends that are 23 or 22 |
| Question: How can I feel better about this? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 12:21 PM PDT I'm 14, and my 50 years old uncle who I've never really spoken to got drunk and started bullying me. He was calling me names and making fun of me and was gonna flick me in the head and stuff. It really hurt my feelings. That stuff is okay for a friend to say to me as a joke but not a grown man I've never met. He didn't even apologize later for being such a jerk. Now I just feel sad. |
| Question: How do I handle this annoying kid in my neighborhood? (I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE)? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 12:14 PM PDT This kid in my neighborhood loves to mess with me a lot. He knocks down the garage can, throws rocks at my house, and pee on my plants. Yesterday I decided to get him back when he threw a rock at my car window and broke it. I went to his parents house to tell them what he did, but instead his parents kicked me out and didn't care at all.... What should I do????? |
| Question: How do I move on from the past? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:59 AM PDT I lost my friends and my boyfriend. It's been over 3 months now and I still miss them. Yes I know I can just make new friends, but the problem is, is that I don't want anyone new, I want them. Everyone keeps telling me to get new friends and a boyfriend but there's no one like them. I feel miserable and alone. Please help |
| Question: Roommate threw a party and stuff was stolen? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:56 AM PDT He throws huge parties all the time without telling me and this time I had my IPad and old iPhone 5 (extra working phone) plugged in in the living room. I walked in at night with people all over the place so I just went straight to my room and the next morning, they were gone. Is there anything I can do? I asked him about it and he just shrugged. |
| Question: Bros- can a girl be a bro? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:53 AM PDT |
| Question: I can t text my best friend because her mom constantly reads her texts.? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:46 AM PDT This has happened more than once. I feel like her mom is just waiting for me to send her something that is "bad" and then write a paragraph saying "please don t send this to her" and blah blah blah. She doesn t like me very much because we got in a fight not to long ago.. So this is the 3rd time it happened since the argument and I sent her something from a website that would calculate how old you were and find your face. It framed it around the face of a tiger (which was on my shirt) and I typed "lol this likes the tiger more than me". About a minute later I get a text saying that it s from her mom and what I said in the first paragraph. It s to the point where I don t even want to text my best friend anymore. It s just frustrating because I already have to use a code we made up to text her. And the worst part is, it s not just me! She has to call that friend by a made up name and can only text her. I can understand her checking her phone for safety purposes but this is going to far. Plz help! |
| Question: AM I THE ONLY ONE?!!? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:43 AM PDT So I'm 15 and I want to go out, the problem is that my friends can't hang out with their friends (don't have a lot of friends) because they are always with their families out doing something and I don't my family is always working and I don't have someone my age to hang out with! I want to go out by myself but I am scared!! Is it normal? I always feel like having someone with me and I need to get over that. What can I do so I won't be scared to go outside and by outside I mean go to the mall and the movies because I do have my own money to spend. Help :) (my siblings use to go out all the time by themselves at my age) |
| Question: Please be my friend im lonely? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:29 AM PDT im a 15 year old girl i dont have anyone im suicidal my family wont help me |
| Question: Did God do this to spite me? So frustrated :( please read all? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:23 AM PDT t's almost as if He created two versions of the same person. I am a teenage girl and I have a friend that I have known since I was 3. We have never gone to the same school, so we aren't incredibly close, but whenever we're together, something just clicks. We have so much in common it's honestly a little creepy. I'll list our similarities... -Born one day apart in the same hospital, moms met there -Same cultural background, therefore similar upbringing -Our rooms are literally identical, bed, chandelier, walls, everything. It was never planned. -After we were born, we both got the SAME STUFFED ANIMAL from our aunts. Literally the only difference between the two is that one has her name and one has mine. -We finish eachother's sentences, suddenly start doing things at the same time...things like that -Personalities are creepily similar. There's a lot more, but you get the gist of it. It's almost like we're the same person in two different bodies. But...her version is 10x better than mine. It's almost like everything that I have that I am so grateful for, she has it a million times better. I'll compare... |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:23 AM PDT I use to have a problem with my anger and I would hit and say the meanest things ever to him and I blame myself . He stuck with me and all but now he has turned it around and acts like he can say and do whatever he wants to me now(hitting calling me names) I have stopped but he won't stop. I got drunk yesterday with friends and we got really drunk basically embarassing drunk and we were all him and his friend suppose to go to the club together but we didn't feel like we could support outselfs while they went and handled business (his friend and him) my boyfriend then got really mad calling me a stupid ***** and name from him wanting me to die and how he wants me to kill myself 😔. I do admit I was being annoying but him calling me that made me cry and he kept saying he wanted me dead and how he hates me and I'm a dumb embarassing ***** even his friend said chill out she's drunk but he kept going at me. His friend left to go into store and then I was hysterically crying and he slapped me across the face 15 times and yelled SHUT UP ***** SHUT UP. They then took me home and his friend said" I get how u say it's torturre to be with her" and he said exactly. He then comes home says can I have sex and I half say yes then pass out and he ***** me then goes 2 bed. He says he loves and I know he does but what happened last night is scaring me?And the day before I figured out he grabbed a girls butt at the club and he told me to shut the **** up. He also is acting as if he didn't do ANYTHING AWRONG AND it was all my fault because I was drunk. I wasn't really doing much except talking and laughing and wouldn't go to the club because I felt like we couldn't take care of ourselfs and thought that maybe he would understand. I didn't even know I was gonna get that drunk I realized I didn't eat before it was too lateAm I in the wrong? I feel like I deserve it because I use to hit him when I got mad and say mean things... I stopped months ago. |
| Question: This is absolutely insane..am I in a lifetime movie? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:10 AM PDT Ok. So I was friends with this guyfor 3 years and even though it was kind of a friends with benefits relationship after a while I started to like him( it first started as a friendship).. I mean we talked like every day..but within a year he had a gf which I was cool with and we were just friends while it happened. But a little while after that he started trying to be sexual with me again and I told him no. Then he started lying that he didn't have a gf but I would still ignore that. After a while he stopped talking to me. So a couple months ago I get a message from this dude and we start talking and then after a while I realized it was him pretending to be someone else. I confronted him about it but he denied he was fake. Then I found out that he still had a girlfriend and he was being sexual with me. So I thought the right thing to do was to tell His girlfriend. I was also mad that he just used me and led me on. I told his gf and she believed me immediately because something similar had happened before (keep in mind she just broke up with him) I show her evidence to. Then he got ******* mad at me and stopped talking to me which I wanted because he was so evil to me. But recently I've noticed that I've been getting weird messages. And I know their from him and he's still trying to pursue something. I keep blocking him but he keeps on coming up. He keeps threatening me too. What should I do? |
| Question: Should i tell her parents ? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:09 AM PDT she's 15 and talking to a lot of guys online, she dirty talks and sometimes she even send nudes... she lies to her parents so she can meet some of the guys and now she's planing to meet a 23 years old :/ and sometimes she talks about cutting and that no one cares about her and that she wants to die if the guys don't answer her |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:07 AM PDT I'm a very blunt person, even though I am kind, I just feel that sometimes to get your point across you can't always sugar coat things. My friend who can be a little sensitive is always telling me about the EXACT same issues in her relationship and I always try to give her advice. Or when they break up, I try to be sensitive as well as honest. Whatever the situation, a day or so later she will tell me they are back on good terms. Now I am at the point that I don't care, its a waste of my time and energy to comfort her and give advice when she ignores it and then forgives him only to call me crying a few weeks later. How can I tell her that I am now at the point that I don't care because its always the same cycle and I know how it will end. I care about her but I don't want to hear anything about her bf, their issues, or their relationship. I'm tired of going in circles with her. I can come off really harsh when I'm annoyed and frustrated so I don't want to her feelings or make it seem like I'm not a good friend or we don't have a real friendship because I don't want to deal with their drama. |
| Question: Has anyone ever stolen your personality? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 11:06 AM PDT I've had a few friends who I had caught stealing anecdotes of mine, funny comments I made in past conversations to others when they thought I wasn't around, one girl who took up very specific interests of mine (to impress guys) that she was never into... does this happen to a lot of people ? |
| Question: I'm hanging out with an old friend... What do I do? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:55 AM PDT I'm going into 10th grade and I had this friend in middle school and we were good friends but never hung out. She messaged me and asked to hangout so we are tomorrow. I'm nervous because I haven't talked to her in two years and I get really anxious and I won't know what to talk about. Any tips for things to do or talk about or anything? Your help is much appreciated. :) |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:52 AM PDT I've been diagnosed with ocd-anxiety with slight depression nearing the end of high school. I get many tics, restricting my breathing at times, have invasive thoughts/uncontrollable urges, and am generally in a low mood every other week, not to mention subtle but controllable rituals. I've been unmedicated since freshman year in college because it's not severe so far. However, when I prepare to hang out, I can somewhat hide it under "I'm just an introvert". When I felt comfortable enough to reveal to a friend that I technically have ocd, after hearing him keep laughing to people that he has ocd because he's a neat freak (which *I'm* not), he just rolled his eyes and thought I was trying to get attention/lying. It was very betraying and I cut him and a few others off because of that. How would you react to a surprising reveal like that? Would you take it seriously? |
| Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:48 AM PDT I never get to do anything at all. I'm always stuck in the house 24/7 as my father never lets me go anywhere. I'm constantly in the house during the school year and summer break (I'm 17,going to be a senior next school year). I only get to play my video games, which are very boring and frustrating, playing them 24/7. He tells me that I'm not going to be stuck in the house all the time and he blames it on us not having any money. The thing is, is that when we do have money, we never go anywhere. I don't know what to do. Im very depressed, knowing my friends are doing this and that, while I'm ALWAYS stuck in the house. |
| Question: Im so lonely please be my friend? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:48 AM PDT please im 15 year old girl i dont have anyone |
| Question: I´ve got 22 days to go to Amsterdam,how can I make the waiting to go by fast? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:45 AM PDT |
| Question: Why did I get so ****** up and go to the hospital? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:26 AM PDT I drank a 4 loko and a half 3 shots of fireball and shot gunned a beer then smoked some random guys joint all in 30 minutes on an empty stomach. I was so ****** that I called my mom and kept asking if she'd take me to the hospital. I would randomly start crying then forget a second later. I ended up going to the hospital cause I thought I was gonna die. I've done this kinda thing before but why was it this intense this time? (16 years old) |
| Question: This Guy Is Stalking Me?! What Is His Deal? Posted: 17 Jul 2016 10:15 AM PDT His grandma and I live in the same apt complex and her grandson comes there often, the thing is he's made excuses to text me like did my grandma make it up ok? When he could just call his grandma. He's asked randomly to send me exam prep material online he's studying for too. In the beginning I asked to go out and it didn't work out but we became friends again then he asked me to go eat, I've seen him glance in my apt direction when he goes to his grandmas. When I called him out from all the signs knowing he had a gf and I said a guy who has a gf can't be interested in me and he said he said he wasn't and that he had a gf he was happy with. One day he was giving me gym advice and said "don't you have a bf to teach you all this?" and i catch him glancing over and looking a lot? What's his deal? His parents also look and smile and fidget when they see me.People say friendly but why would he stare and look secretly?? Also, i don't think the gf relationship is serious cause no photos together on fb or ig and his relationship status is hidden and they've been together for 4 years already. He also doesn't go to his grandmas when my car isn't parked and i'm out of town(my roommate tells me) |
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