Basically, I'd say this happened around a month ago. Me and my ex used to have dates in the park. So our last date before we broke up was also at the park. He had taken me to the back, to a cemetery, and suggested that we'd hang there since we have had a picnic and watched the sky previously, but not in the same location. I was already uncomfortable that it was in the cemetery, so I told him no. He found another place, saying we could look at the clouds. I agreed, and we laid down for a bit and looked at the scenery. Then out of nowhere he started to grope me and forcefully kiss me. I was trying to move but couldn't breathe or speak since he was practically pushing and smothering himself on me, and he's quite heavy. While he was doing that, he started to take off my underwear without my consent. I tried to pull them back down but he didn't let me, and started to touch me down there. It hurt and I couldn't breathe or speak my mind (btw, I'm a teenager, and not 18 or above). I went home soon after because I was scared, since he said that he didn't care what I think, he was going to do it anyway. I told my mom, and she suggested we go to the cops. He also "playfully" punched me in the face on several occassions, sometimes in front of other people. There were no bruises, but I didnt like it and told him to stop firmly multiple times and he still didn't until about a minute or so after. At the time I didn't realize, but would this be considered sexual assualt, and physical abuse?

I don't really have an attitude problem normally but working at McDonalds makes me so angry. We have these somali teenagers or young adults that come in and make a mess, ask for free water and yell at us staff for no reason. I'm not allowed to be rude but it makes it really difficult for me not to be rude and impolite when they act like they just walked into olive garden. They literally have no patience for anything. I was rude to one of them today and I'm sure my *** is gonna be on the line from now on. Please does anyone have any tips on how to stay calm or experienced similar situations? Please help me, I'm a student and I really need to keep this part-time job.

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He messaged me on whatsapp saying he hopes I'm well. I responded the next day saying I'm well and I hope things are good with him too. He didn't reply. It's a month later now. He's hardly ever online. We broke up because he's not a relationship guy & he wants a girl to love him even though he wants to live his life his own way with no responsibilities, seeing me only on the weekend. Apparently I was the closest person to him & even put down as his next of kin at work. But I want to tell him I miss him, but we can't be together, and I don't like how he never even wanted to talk about the break up or see me because he didn't want to see me upset. Shall I tell him this & then block him or is it immature? I want to tell him everything I'm feeling and let go..I wanted him to make an effort to talk, but he didn't, unless he's thinking I've moved on.

My boyfriend has a younger brother about my age who is dating an under age girl. I constantly worry that either her or her parents are going to press statutory rape charges on him after an incident between him and her stepfather. My bf's brother and this girl have been on a "break"/"broken up" for quite some time now but still continue to hang out. Recently they had gotten in a fight that resulted in her telling him not to come by her house or she would call the cops on him and they hadn't spoken to each other for a short time. This makes me worried that she's going to eventually get mad enough to press harassment, trespassing, and statutory rape charges on him. Not to mention that he buys her alcohol and provides her marijuana when she comes over. His mom really worries for him after the incident with the girl's stepfather and she doesn't know about the girl threatening to call the cops on him and I don't think anyone plans to tell her. My bf's brother and this girl are now on speaking terms again and act as a couple. I made my boyfriend promise me that he'll tell his mom what's going on because I feel out of place telling her what happened and I don't feel like I should be the one to tell her. My boyfriend told me that he didn't want to cause problems with his brother by telling her what's going on but I think it's wrong to keep her in the dark when she worries about her son. I just don't want him to mess up his life for this girl. What do I do???

How to make message interesting since i do not know why my message easily become boring. More, it is hard to ask a girl out if you have only number. It is hard to get a girl accept

He's home from college for the summer and I walked in his room and he was playing Grand theft auto should I tell him he's not allowed to here? I mean he's 22

Okay so I'm a 21 year old guy and I have a girl whose 15 that I consider my younger sister. She's been staying with us for half a year and I've noticed that whenever I say something she gets overly sensitive about it. Like just yesterday she was asking me why I always have my mouth open and I told her because I breathe the my nose and mouth together.she said I looked retarded doing it laughed then continued doing what she was doing. Ten minutes later we have the same conversation but this time she attempts to do it but fails I laugh and say she looks like a 'tard'. I then notice she looks sad and see what's wrong. Turns out she wasn't to thrill about being called a tard and goes on to ignore me for the rest of the night. This was not the first incident and has been going on for a while and at first I thought she was extremely sensitive or I was just being a jerk but over time I've noticed her other siblings or friends doing the same thing and she's all giggles with them. I think it's the type of person she thinks I am sardonic, sarcastic, and grumpy which I'm not and have explained to her that I'm not. She's usually very playful and attached but when it comes to joking she gets sensitive when I say something. Idk, I need some help yahoo answers. Any opinions or guesses as to why she acts like this.

I understand you can leave instructions since an Obit would have to be paid for but what if you don t want a death notice either? Surely, it can be considered "legal" by other methods.

after 5 months of dating, my bf recently broke up with me. he's 33 &unhappy with his job and income and just went back to school recently. he had little time to give to me &couldnt handle the stress of the relationship, school, work, &his family all at once. he told me he couldnt be in a relationship right now but we can be good friends &see each other bc we have a deep bond & will always be here for me. I took his virginity &was the first girl he got close to after 10 years. he doesnt have friends he sees often so I was the only person he could talk to. at the end of the relationship he would ignore me &refuse to make time to see me but now he is attentive &came over my house bc I asked to talk. he was adamant on not getting back together but then he was holding my hand &hugging me telling me he will always be here & he's not going anywhere. he admitted he still loves me &we stood hugging each other for a few minutes &he kissed me on the forehead. we have plans to see each other tomorrow &I'm trying to figure out if there is a chance we could get back together. I asked if the break up was permanent he told me he didn't know, but I feel he still has the same feelings for me &just feels like he has to get some things together &improve himself. the last 2 times he broke up with me were rash decisions &we were back together after 2-3 days, it feels different this time. whats going thru his head &do you think we will reconcile if he has a bit of time to straighten out his plans?

My dad's family doesn't believe I'm his kid. My moms only family aren't really close to me. We grew up like brothers & sisters but I'm excluded from everything now. I'm 17 this fall & im scared. I'm scared because my career is a blessing from God but I'm scared I'm not gonna make it. I fear I'm not good enough cause at school the other kids tell me to hang myself. I'm Latino & they don't understand that I'm a mixed Latino. They just think I'm a white guy with lip fillers, so they say racist things to me like calling me a sand N word. I fell in love with for the 2nd time with this woman she's 21 but she's the only person who hasn't treated me like **** she's got a bf but IDGAF. We've expressed feelings for each other but I texted of she was alright & she hasn't answered any of my texts lately. I think she hates me. I'm in a really dark place mentally. My teachers see me as a criminal cause of my race. The other kids see me as some comedic but quiet nerd. Girls are split on wether I'm cute or ugly. U can tell me look for a girl my own age but f dat. She saved my life. When I met her I had suicidal thoughts. My dad & I aren't good. I love him but he's childish & my mom is sick. I look for God but he's not here & im scared I'm crying. I wanna leave Chicago this is a horrible place. I'm scared. If I killed myself I don't think she'd care. 1 moment she says I'm smart,cute, sexy & now I think she hates me. Should I text her again it's been 3 weeks since I asked if she was alright

I posted something early this morning about this guy I met on omegle. He was asking all sorts of questions. Asked if I was submissve, asked what I looked like and I showed him pictures, asked when I first had sex, asked where I lived (I only told the town) and asked if I live in a bad area with crime, prostitution, or druggies. He also asked where I work and I told him an he asked if I was in school . Asked if I lived alone and if it was an apartment or house, asked me to search for bad areas in my town. Asked if my neighbors made "a pass" at me, asked if I hated cops and had any "skimpy clothing" , then hr told me to put it on sometime and go outside but I told him it was late. He then said message me when you're going out and disconnected the chat. I obviously can't message him because it was on omegle. Does he have enough information to find me... Oh and he also asked if I was happy with my life and if I ever wanted it "just to end" I'm kind of nervous now.

My ex left me over a year ago - he got cold feet and supposedly flipped out because I accused him of cheating. I don't think this was his reasons at all, but got my own closure and built a life for myself not thinking he would EVER come back. Nevertheless, he contacted me last month and we met up and he took full blame for what happened in the past and said he wants to move forward with me and rebuild what we had. While I'm curious about how things will be now and I still love him and was so in love with him that I was going to spend my life with him (we lived together), there's something that's giving me doubts about a second chance. Now he has his own place, his own life and routine and I feel like we don't fit into each others' new lives. People learn from their mistakes and try second chances, but how long do I wait to see if our reconnection is possible? Months? Years? I still have feelings for him, but it's not at all like it was when we were originally together. Is there any hope?

I will try to summarize this as best I can. My wife and I have been married for 3 years and she is currently pregnant with our second child. We have been having hard times and arguing a lot because I have been out of work for a while and only going to school. Recently, I visited my hometown to pay off an outstanding ticket and I met up with an old female best friend (an ex girlfriend) of mine. We got to talking and I realized that I never got over her and have subconsciously been in love with her. I confessed my love for her and she made my heart melt when she confessed the same love for me. The passion was so great that we kissed and I knew that I wanted to be with her. When I returned home we started talking on the phone every night and things began to feel wrong. My ex knows I am married and the my wife is pregnant so she tried to avoid talking to me but I kept pursing her. Like I said it all felt wrong but before I could stop talking to her to end it my wife caught us talking and called me a cheater. She cut me off of the phone bill and our account. I took that as a sign she wanted to divorce but I knew she was just hurt. We talked about it and she didn't want to divorce initially so while I thought she did I started seeing my ex during the month of our separation. When finally talked about everything I realized she didn't want a divorce at first but I also couldn't let my ex go. I love my wife but I feel a much stronger connection to my ex. I don't know who to choose

I recently began talking to a man thats not my race. We've been talking about two months now, and only seen to like each other more as time goes on. I recently shared this with my family, they cannot stand the thought of me marrying outside my own race, and despite my telling them he's Christian, they claim he's secretly a Muslim... what should I do?

My Mommom and Poppop have been in an abusive relationship for years and it has only escalated. My Poppop has been out of work and my Mommom has been breaking her back working double shifts at two jobs to pay the bills. He s an alcoholic and sits around and drinks all day and yells when she comes home, screams at her, throws things, etc. They re only in their late 50 s early 60 s. My Mommom calls me crying today because she can t afford to leave him and live on her own there s two much risks involved. She raised me and did a lot for me growing up and it pains me to see her like this, We need to figure out what to do. He hasn t been physically abusive but it is mental. What are some steps that we could take? Please help

Should I tell her the truth or just keep ignoring her? He is still saying that he wants to be with me but I don't want to be with him but now his wife is berating me, leaving me nasty voice-mails and text. I know what I did was wrong but I don't deserve this! Should I expose him for the liar he is, he kept telling me that he was leaving her to be with me Calling & *texting me non-sto0

Btw were both 13 and were dating eachother

Ola necesito ayuda urgente un compa mio me dijo que estaba haciendo cosas con su novia y que en unas de esas mi amigo se masturbo y le callo el semen en las manos pero despues mi amigo dijo que le habia metido la mano con semen a la vagina y lo que se pregunta mi amigo esque si puede quedar embarazada porque metio su mano con semen a la vagina de su novia

And how to date them?

okay so i a girl messages me on Instagram with "heyy" and i replied with the same thing. next thing you know, were hitting it off. we then start getting flirty and she wanted me to meet her requirements which was good personality, good body and good... you know..(D). I told her everything about myself and she asked for my number so i gave it to her. we started talking in whatsapp very freaky you know she really wanted me in bed sort of thing. I mean, so did i, she is the bomb! Now, i started having feelings for her and i started to express my mind on how i feel about her. she melted with compassion and she felt the same way. thats when i realized, i found my true love. we both fell in love with each other and showed our compassion. keep in mind that we havent met each other yet. she is from and exotic island and Caribbean and i am from an african decent with a Caribbean side as well. we argued about me not thinknnnning my dick size will plesure her enought because she had a 8 inches plus before. she said she want som alone time. i really want to win her back and tell her how i feel without her. i need some pointer that could help my situation and make her fully take me back. she still ooves me and she wants alone time because we not in a good place right now and she has personal probelms . what can i do?

So I was pending good time suddenly a thought stuck my mind, oh at that event i did this, i must be looking ugly. god what people thought of me, what will happen people will call me ugly, oh god what happened, i was so focused on that, that suck all my energy, feeling tired and numb, was it panic attack? I cant understand how it could be that i was focusing on people on past god save me

They constantly FOLLOWS me EVERYWHERE I go around the apartment room. Whenever I move to the bedroom, he walks in. When I walk in the restroom, he walks right in too. What can I do about this?

There is a guy I work with. We talk and he is really nice. Recently, he started talking to me about Starbucks. We were working but he was going to go on his break and asked me if I wanted anything. I paused a little because if I wanted to get something I was going to give him money for my drink. I then said no thank you, I can't drink coffee at this time anyway, because it was already late afternoon because it keeps me awake. He then said that's because you're tiny in a joking way because I'm thin. He then said I could get a non coffee drink. I said no thank you its okay. He then smiled and said you know what I m going to get you a drink and he walked past me. I laughed and said its okay but he was was persistent. I then tried to offer him money when he came back but he declined. I told him thank you and he was smiling. Another time he asked if I wanted to split an ice cream coupon a buy one get one free deal. Why was he so persistent about getting me a drink? Should I give him something in return? Supposedly, he has a gf so I don't want to do something back in return to show interest if he does have a gf.

I'm 15 and since Christmas, I think I have a small crush on my cousin that just turned 19. I have always been close with all my cousins but I feel like I wasn't as close with the cousin I'm talking about because we didn't see each other as much. But now we see each other more often so we got a little closer in the past years. Is it weird to have a crush on your cousin? Is it normal?

Why are bars considered a place that is acceptable to talk to the opposite sex and be flirty, etc? Why not the park? Why not the grocery store? As long as there are men and women there, it is perfectly reasonable to want to talk to the opposite sex. But if you approach someone at a grocery store trying to be flirty, it won't go over well. Why is a bar/club the designated place for meeting men/women? As someone who doesn't like going to bars, this makes it harder for me to meet men. I just think that men only want sex when at a bar/club. I don't know why women go there expecting to meet their husband.

I try involving him but he told me awhile back that it was going to be hard for him because he Is still married. He does tell me he wants to see his son and be involved but since I gave birth to my son, he has came to see his son 1 time, which was a week after I was home from hospital for about 30 minutes and his wife wouldn't allow it if she couldn't be present. Now since then, every time I send him a picture or message him in regards to his son, he ignores me, or he tells me He can't drive and he doesn't have time. It's starting to upset me because I'm trying to do right for my son being he is the father but it's getting harder everyday to even continue to acknowledge my son's father. Any idea as to why or what is the reasoning he is being so careless when it comes to his son? Should I continue involving him? Is it possibly his wife causing his careless ways? I just am getting stressed out over this nonsense. Will he ever be a involved with my son if I just I stop trying maybe or what would you think or any opinion of this situation and any advice as for what I should do. Keep trying

I m 19 and have been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years now (he s also 19 and we met in high school). I live with my parents and go to college locally in NY while my boyfriend goes to school in CT. When he s home for the summer I can see him whenever I want, but during the school year I m only allowed to see him if HE comes home. I m not allowed to visit him because I m "not old enough to spend a weekend (or even a night) alone with him." I have a good relationship with my parents and they trust me with a lot of things, but this is something they won t let go of. They re very strict with it and I m not sure if I have a right to be angry. Is there anything I could do? Help :(

My instructor recently passed away and I've been taking it extremly hard, we were so close, he was basically family. I've recently contacted his older sibling (sister) and we've gotten really close through his passing. (Is that weird?) After learning my story, all that I went through not only with him but me as an infividual, how special he was to me.. she messaged me saying she wants to give/mail me his bible. (We both are very religious) I feel so honored to receive it, I cried so hard when I read her message, why would she want to give me that? (Not in a bad way) that's his prized possession, why would she give such a special thing to me?

I'm a 14 year old Chinese girl who lives in Canada and my mom is overprotective of me. Examples of her rules are no dating until I'm 18 (I don't mind because I have no interest in dating and 18 because the age 16 is not important to Asian families, they don't throw sweet 16th parties for their kids or are officially allowed to date and go out at night), no makeup other than perfume and lip gloss, maybe mascara, no hair dying, no going out alone with friends without adults unless it's a school event like a grad ceremony or a party (she allows me to go to parties that other schools throw too and she says that it will be safe there since there's securities and teachers watching but if it's a late night party that another kid is throwing while their parents are out, you never know), no provocative clothes (she let me buy a pair of short shorts after a long lecture and disagreement and she said I could wear crop tops as long as I wear those pants that are longer at the top so it WON'T show my belly button, and it will just look like a normal shirt that DOESN'T show anything except it's shorter). I have brothers that are 8 and 11 and she isn't as protective of them, no it's not cause they're younger she says it's because I'm a girl so I need more protection. She's been more protective of me since I was a baby. I'm not allowed to go over to a guy friend's house. A year ago, when I first started high school she became even more protective because that meant that her 13 year old daughter would have to ride a public bus because I don't go to the local high school, I go to one that's really far away, and be in school with guys as old as 17-18 years old. Kids start high school SUPER early here, earlier than usual. High school starts in 8th grade, which means at 13-14 years of age. My mom kept warning me about strangers and perverts. And I was told that some of those senior guys at my high school could take advantage of me, etc. and to not be alone with them or even boys my own age. I was/am always allowed to hang out with older people because my mom says that if it's an older GIRL then she can be a good mentor and help me throughout teenage years, with homework, and have someone to talk to but however if it's a guy then you never know what may happen and that guys at this age are extremely hormonal.

Bueno es una manera de despedirme de alguien que me gusta, estaba pensando en crimen de Cerati pero muchos la ocupan para dedicar, alguien sabe que otra canción que sea agradable para dedicar sólo con piano que se trate con el fin de un amor o algo parecido?, soy chica y se la voy a dedicar a un Argentino.

Does not providing the other person with a [confident] "yes" qualify as sexual assault? or coercion if you felt pressured into activity? I never provided the other person with a [clear], [sure], [confident] "yes". I felt pressured into activity, as if they'd sought out to "impair" me by arousing me, that I may be vulnerable and thus able to be taken advantage of. I was scared. It wasn't sex, but it was enough to really trigger me... I've heard that anything but a clear, sure, confident yes means no, including an unsure yes, and I understand that people can be impaired by fear and arousal, to the point which would reduce them into only being able to speak out of their genitals after exposure to constant pressure. I'm so so confused because it was so subtle... but nowhere did I indicate confidently that I wanted to do anything. It just happened and I felt taken advantage of. I felt like it was their plan to arouse me, make me vulnerable... take advantage of me. I never said I confidently wanted to do anything. I have social anxiety, and am generally not a very confident person in comfortable situations, much less something like this, I couldn't imagine I could have came off as anything but unsure and paralyzed. Are my feelings validated? does this qualify as sexual assault? I'm talking about a situation where someone sneakily is able to conduct a similar activity to rape in a subtle manner and within the same concept..., does that make sense? but under the broader umbrella of sexual assault, since I know sexual assault doesn't always look the same for every single person. The pressure was exuded upon me, the uncertainty and fear and hesitation was present at the time as far I was concerned... and that's all I know. The reason why I'm so confused is because there was never a point in which I decided that I wanted to do anything. I have trouble asserting myself, and I understand that, but despite that I know that by my demeanor it should've been clear that I didn't want to do it... that's why I'm so confused, because I know that and at the time the other person was really taking charge in a subtle way, and I felt violated... i don't know... "I have trouble asserting myself, and I understand that" ... that's where I feel like I was taken advantage of, because the other person... knew me well enough to know that... I was very evidently hesitant, confused, scared and undecided… and that's where I feel assaulted, because I never initiated anything. In that context I feel like I was taken advantage of in that it was clear that I wasn't in the mindset to give the other person consent which was not undecided and hesitant and confused and thus very obviously unwilling, but upon initiation I felt powerless and I didn't know what to do. And as I said before, I feel like the other person knew me well enough to sort this out in a way which would benefit them upon taking advantage of my emotions and of who I am. The second time this happened I even said "I'm done" in an attempt to better assert myself, despite the fact that it was evident that I didn't want to do it to begin with by my demeanor and in the context of the fact that they knew me, but they said "I'm not" and I became even more paralyzed with fear. "Consent is an act of reason and deliberation. A person who possesses and exercises sufficient mental capacity to make an intelligent decision demonstrates consent by performing an act recommended by another. Consent assumes a physical power to act and a reflective, determined, and unencumbered exertion of these powers. It is an act unaffected by Fraud, duress, or sometimes even mistake when these factors are not the reason for the consent. Consent is implied in every agreement." "In the context of rape, [submission due to apprehension or terror is not real consent]. There must be a choice between resistance and acquiescence. If a woman resists to the point where additional resistance would be futile or until her resistance is forcibly overcome, submission thereafter is not consent." http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/consent "Consent is an act of reason and deliberation. A person who possesses and exercises sufficient mental capacity to make an intelligent decision demonstrates consent by performing an act recommended by another. Consent assumes a physical power to act and a reflective, determined, and unencumbered exertion of these powers. It is an act unaffected by Fraud, duress, or sometimes even mistake when these factors are not the reason for the consent. Consent is implied in every agreement." Here's a video I found on the matter, if that would help ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=myY1xm5-iSg

I never provided the other person with a [clear], [sure], [confident] "yes". I felt pressured into activity, as if they'd sought out to "impair" me by arousing me, that I may be vulnerable and thus able to be taken advantage of. I was scared. It wasn't sex, but it was enough to really trigger me... I've heard that anything but a clear, sure, confident yes means no, including an unsure yes, and I understand that people can be impaired by fear and arousal, to the point which would reduce them into only being able to speak out of their genitals after exposure to constant pressure. I'm so so confused because it was so subtle... but nowhere did I indicate confidently that I wanted to do anything. It just happened and I felt taken advantage of. I felt like it was their plan to arouse me, make me vulnerable... take advantage of me. I never said I confidently wanted to do anything. I have social anxiety, and am generally not a very confident person in comfortable situations, much less something like this, I couldn't imagine I could have came off as anything but unsure and paralyzed. Are my feelings validated? does this qualify as sexual assault? I'm talking about a situation where someone sneakily is able to conduct a similar activity to rape in a subtle manner and within the same concept..., does that make sense? but under the broader umbrella of sexual assault, since I know sexual assault doesn't always look the same for every single person. The pressure was exuded upon me, the uncertainty and fear and hesitation was present at the time as far I was concerned... and that's all I know. I'm not trying to "justify a case" against the other person and I'm not trying to "ruin" their life... I just genuinely felt pressured into doing something I clearly didn't want to do, and for the benefit of my own mental health I thought I'd reach out for help... The reason why I'm so confused is because there was never a point in which I decided that I wanted to do anything. I have trouble asserting myself, and I understand that, but despite that I know that by my demeanor it should've been clear that I didn't want to do it... that's why I'm so confused, because I know that and at the time the other person was really taking charge in a subtle way, and I felt violated... i don't know... "I have trouble asserting myself, and I understand that" ... that's where I feel like I was taken advantage of, because the other person... knew me well enough to know that... I was very evidently hesitant, confused, scared and undecided… and that's where I feel assaulted, because I never initiated anything. In that context I feel like I was taken advantage of in that it was clear that I wasn't in the mindset to give the other person consent which was not undecided and hesitant and confused and thus very obviously unwilling, but upon initiation I felt powerless and I didn't know what to do. And as I said before, I feel like the other person knew me well enough to sort this out in a way which would benefit them upon taking advantage of my emotions and of who I am. The second time this happened I even said "I'm done" in an attempt to better assert myself, despite the fact that it was evident that I didn't want to do it to begin with by my demeanor and in the context of the fact that they knew me, but they said "I'm not" and I became even more paralyzed with fear. "Consent is an act of reason and deliberation. A person who possesses and exercises sufficient mental capacity to make an intelligent decision demonstrates consent by performing an act recommended by another. Consent assumes a physical power to act and a reflective, determined, and unencumbered exertion of these powers. It is an act unaffected by Fraud, duress, or sometimes even mistake when these factors are not the reason for the consent. Consent is implied in every agreement." "In the context of rape, [submission due to apprehension or terror is not real consent]. There must be a choice between resistance and acquiescence. If a woman resists to the point where additional resistance would be futile or until her resistance is forcibly overcome, submission thereafter is not consent." http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/consent Here's a video I found on the matter, if that would help ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=myY1xm5-iSg

I said I was ugly to this guy& he replied : "sure, you keep thinking that " does that mean he agreed with me or is that sarcasm ? Serious yet dumb question ... But I don't get when people say that..

My GFs family is really anti gun, left wing family and my gf and i have a daughter and its like i dont exist to her sisters. Her sisters talk **** behind my back and speculate who i am based on facebook posts and try to liken me to some right wing extremist since i dont agree with obama on gun laws. I am a disabled marine so im pretty pro gun. Anything i try and do i feel like no matter what it just gets thrown in my face. I asked my gf sister if she ever plans on having kids to just start a conversation and she said "some day!" Then told my gf i was insulting her about having children. I feel like its really starting to effect our relationship as my gf is out having dinner and lunch and days off with her sister while im at home alone with my daughter. I feel more like a baby sitter and our sex life has been dead for almost a year now. So i guess my question is how do i engage her family without having to lie or change who i am as i am not irrisponsible. Im not disengenuine. Im not lazy and im extremely hard working and polite. I am not passive aggresive at all though and like to squash any kind of miscommunication or beef but now im being told that im too abrasive. So im lost. Any advice with someone who has delt with something like this would be helpful.

I've went out with my ex 3 times. 2 times in school and 1 time in college. 2 times were my fault because I was too shy. The 3rd time was we didn't see each other. But I've had a big crush on him again for 5 months. He finally told me yesterday he loves me and that he'll always like me but today my friend got involved and he text me saying that he wants to stay best friends because he doesn't want to lose me. He's scared to lose me. I wanted to cry, it hit me hard. I finally got him to understand that he'll never lose me if we break up cause I don't even want to lose him. We already decided we will talk about this when we next meet up or when it's my birthday which will be in a few weeks. But I don't understand why he's changed his mind in 1 day. I don't understand. I really want to be with him but it just hurts when my friend got involved and he said he doesn't want to date me cause he doesn't want to lose me, i understand that but he was all up for dating yesterday. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do

I look like a girly girl, but deep down I'm not. I wear skirts/dresses, girly clothes/accessories, but I also care if it's comfy I don't always wear makeup I'm not popular and only have one group of 7 friends I'm not scared of dirty My favorite color is green I hate shopping, fashion magazines, most things a girly girl should like I dont care about boys, their personality matters most I only have these few hobbies, I love playing guitar, alternative music, art, exercising, and reading classics Or not? Also I'm not materialistic but always groomed, only watch old shows on TV and hate pop songs Personality: I think I act normal and average, and stick to the rules, some label me "goody two shoes" And no, that doesn't mean I'm all sweet or bubbly, I try acting normal not girly I don't curse and I hate bright and love neutral colors

If a co worker is always hugging you (everyday, at least one hug) and sometimes she says that I will be her husband down the road. We are close and everything. But is that too close at the workplace?

Surname: Purdy, McAuley, Criasia, Reynolds, Hill, Vaughn (Choose a first name & a middle name) Mom: Celeste, Aurelia, Juliana, Brooke, Abigail Dad: Liam, Keegan, Aristide, Silas, Jacob Daughter 1: Alice, Katharine, Marigold, Leah, Mila Husband: Tobias, Noah, Keaton, Francis, Casey Girl: Aphrodite, Julienne, Lara, Isabelle, Sydney Girl: Raelynn, Alexis, Carolyn, Chapel, Emerson Boy: Colin, Atticus, William, Dakota, Shea Boy: Leon, Cameron, Edward, Rylan, Reign Girl: Alina, Karla, Ruby, Paige, Madelyn Son 1: Gerard, Hunter, Morgan, Justin, Brock Fiancée: India, Brooklyn, Soleil, Hailey, Jocelyn Boy: Evan, Jared, Sean, Christian, Donovan Boy: Xavier, Cole, Nicholas, Ian, Nathaniel Girl: Diane, Ainsley, Eliza, Natasha, Peyton Son 1: Shane, Stephen, Colby, Alexander, Augustine Wife: Phoebe, Joy, Bailey, Tiana, Hannah Boy: Frederick, Bryce, Roman, Patrick, Andrew Boy: John, Louis, Brockton, Kyle, Dawson Daughter 2: Adrianna, Rachel, Grace, Alyssa, Sophie Husband: Gunnar, Hugh, Austin, Malcolm, Zachary Boy: Dennis, Joseph, Kyle, Owen, Ryder Girl: Ambrosia, Jillian, Elaina, Kaitlyn, Eve Daughter 3: Dana, Elizabeth, Carlie, Kendall, Angelina Husband: Jack, Domenic, Jeffrey, Aaron, Connor Girl: Arabella, Miranda, Shannon, Mairead, Danielle Girl: Sonja, Allison, Jacqueline, Olive, Nicole Girl: Asia, Kathleen, Kelsey, Rory, Marianne