I just want a regular woman, low maintenance, for friendship, dating, romance, and occasionally casual sex. Where can I find a nice, normal, average looking girlfriend with some body fat and some flaws? I like some flaws to me it's sexy, and I don't need a gal with a slender body. To me big girls are perfect.

My husband was driving and an angry older woman who was angry at his rough driving shot him in the head, he bled in the head but didnt die instead he stood up and picked a pistol to retaliate and i pushed him back saying you cant pay evil for evil

My husband started calling me a who**e and a b**tch because he thought I was looking at a guy who was sitting behind us and because I walked towards that direction to throw trash, he called me out of my name. I got mad and called him out of his name too then he yelled at me and told me to quit making a scene and to get in the f**king car. I said no, I want to call a cab and he told me I wasn't calling a f**cking cab then grabbed me and dragged me and shoved me in the car while our dog was stepping over me too then he tried to smack him but instead it landed on my head. I started crying because I felt so humiliated that two men were watching and didn't even tried to help me when I asked for help, instead they just watched. I feel so humiliated and low. Any advice?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 years now and about a year ago, my boyfriend brought up the thought of us getting married and asked what my thoughts were. I told him that I had been having dreams about regretting choosing to settle down with him since he is my first boyfriend and first love. I told him that I had dreams of dating other men to see what it was like and that I had a fear of commitment. Since then however, I realize now that I do really want to marry him so I brought it up and I got a response I didn't expect. He said he can no longer marry me due to the things I told him last year and he thinks that it would be best if we ended the relationship so that I could date other men. He said that he can't comitt to a woman who had dreams of dating other men and was hesitant to settle down with him due to fear of conittment and he said he has never felt that way and knew he wanted to marry me since the day he fell in love with me.

Im so ashamed of the marriage, I don't talk about it to anyone. Im re married now for about 5yrs. I still talk to his 2 kids often, since I have known them since the youngest was in Kindergarten. Their mother just died and I went to her funeral and sent them both a card. I want to know if its acceptable for me to still be friends with his adult kids? If its not, I will cut it off..

I feel a little weird telling strangers my problems, but I rather ask you guys then my family, now a days you can t trust nobody with personal problems.. So I been married for over a year now and moved from a big city to a small town for my husband, he has a brother here witch he didn t really speak to before I came in the picture, but now all of the sudden he wants to invite him over to eat, drink, ect all the time. Anyways today my husband told me he was going to borrow a tool from his brother to fix my dog s house, so I said OK go before it gets dark so our dog will have his house ready for the night, so he left at 8 and came back till 11 p.m after he told me he was going to be right back.. This is not tge first time he does this to me and I m just so frustrated i don t know if its normal to be this mad, all married people please give me some advice, I ll appreciate it...!

HI I was wondering if anyone had any advice on my situation . Tonight i invited my best friend over for some drinks with my wife and i , things started out fine with the usual banter of laughing and joking with each other , but as the night progressed and drink started to kick in i felt more and more like an outsider in the conversations and the banter between my wife and my best friend started getting more sexual innuendo orientated , this bothered me and when i tried to get in on the conversation my wife put me down sexually and although she put it across as a joke this hurt me , i have noticed many times before that my wife and my best friend seem to get on very well but tonight i felt very uncomfortable with things that were said , anyway to cut a long story short when my friend left i decided to talk to my wife about tonights events , i told her that i felt like crap with all the flirting going on and asked her if she found him attractive. Perhaps i should never have said anything as this went down like a lead balloon and we ended up having a massive row and i'm now sleeping on the settee tonight . Was i wrong to say anything to her ? Do you think that perhaps i came across as accusational ? Any help would be gratley appreciated.....thanks

I was in a relationship and married to my ex husband for a total of four years we have two girls I am currently dating a guy whom I am totally in love with a he treat me like a princess and can't wait to start our lives together but theirs a bump in the road my ex doesn't like him my ex is white I'm white and my guy is mixed half Korean / black and my girls loves my guy they call him daddy when they aren't around there dad. My ex husband was married when we meet and cheated on his ex wife well he cheated on me with his ex wife and now he's back with his ex well the complication is I am now pregnant and we recently eloped but haven't told anyone due to way my ex husband will react saying he will take the girls from me I'm thinking my ex is just blowing smoke and trying to use that as a way to still control me. Any ways he remarried his ex wife and she is hotel to our girls and acts like they don't exist and doesn't allow him to bring them to family function sometimes he cancels his time with them due to his wife. He has every other weekend and every other holiday if she allows him to have them. Should we just happily just announce our news and act like his threats are meaningless .

I ve been with my husband for 11 years we have two kids 11 and 9. He has no interest in spending time with us. He s either on his phone or watching TV and when he s not home he s hanging out with friends. I m seriously thinking about leaving him but I feel afraid of being on my own. We ve had other issues such as cheating. I have done everything thats in my power to help fix our marriage but he shows no interest. Anyone in the same situation?

I lost the map to where I buried her.

I'm a military wife. My husband was drunk texting me, He was expressing his feelings to me, And he mentioned "I don't know how you changed my life".What could this mean ? Thanks in advance.

But he looks for me only like 1 a week sometimes longer if i dont look for it.i feel bad to do this but im always horny we have been married for 6 years im 25 he is 34.

before all of the lovey-dovey stuff before. Right

that he will bring his son over from his first marriage to rape me if I don't do as I am told. is this messed up or what because it feels bad.

Details please

I don't want to add to the stress for the kids but I know my mother has pledged never to speak to the woman again even if she is with the kids. I would never seek her out as a friend again but should I ever speak to her? The wife is leaving my brother so he is the victim int he divorce (though I know there are always issues on both sides).

People tell me how good I look because I look racially and ethnically ambiguous. I'm multilingual, hence also learning Korean, and a creative type which has ruined my marriage to my husband and made him feel very insecure because he lacks talent and isn't considered attractive to others except my parents who encouraged me to marry him. People don't say he's good looking. My husband told me if I walked out on him, other people will feel insecure around me and think I'm a whorey player(ette) or international playgirl who doesn't want to settle down and have children and that no one will ever trust me. He and my family talk about how my female cousins have better marriages because they're not as attractive as I am and that people trust them better than me and that they are easier to tell. Should I quit being myself and be more like my female cousins?

I'm an attractive 57 yr old jewish man who is balding but I take care of myself. I shave my head, do crossfit, swim, go hiking, do yoga, play tennis. I eat a pure raw vegan diet and plenty of sleep. I regularly do chemical peels, moisturize, exfoliate, wear sunscreen, dermaroll, do thermage, sleep with those plastics that keep your face wrinkle free as you sleep. I dress very fashionably yet masculinely and am a glorious male specimen if I do say so myself. So why is it that whenever I attempt to strike up conversation with younger women they turn me down and accuse me of sexual harassment? Why have younger women become such vicious anti-semites? I saw this gorgeous leggy 20 something year old blonde at the beach at night. Why was she walking around if she didn't want to meet men? I approached her and followed her to her car but I wasn't at all creepy! I broke the ice by pretending to be lost and struck up fascinating conversation about how I am so wealthy and know so many celebrities in hollywood. I grabbed her steering wheel in the car so that she'd give me her #. When I started texting her later that night and asking her to let me court her and take her out, I started receiving antisemitic insults and threats. Why is this? Why does she think she can turn me down and abuse me like that verbally? Why does this keep happening to me? Should I move to Israel where I can be safe from this kind of racist abuse and where I can meet a nice Jewish goddess instead?

I am a 22 year old woman who is scared to have kids and get married. Is this normal?

Husband cheated and wife started tracking him on his phone She constantly tracks him and calls or texts him when he isn't working just to see what he is doing. Since he was cauggt they been going to marriage counseling. Husband was caught going by mistress house and wife conformed him and now he feels he can't ever leave house do to wife not trusting him. What do you think will happen?

I'm pregnant with my first. My husband isn't so happy about the news since we weren't ready for a child yet.. we both work full time jobs and wanted to be more financially stable. We are in our 20s.. and I wanted to be done with nursing school first. I had no idea I was pretgnant, I thought I was just gaining weight! But a visit to the doctor confirmed it. I don't know what to do.. my husband and I argued but then he hugged me and told me he loved me and he started feeling my stomach.. will he ever accept our child? I plan on having my baby.

She's been a bit elusive lately. She always spent more time on her smart phone and the Internet, but spends even more time now checking her phone. Lately she's started shutting the laptop when I enter a room or quick turning the phone screen to black. On her Facebook, there's this one particular guy who keeps "liking" nearly everything she posts esp her photos. I noticed one day on her laptop when it was open, he'd sent her a Facebook message. Meanwhile, she's been obsessively dieting to lose weight. She wore makeup for the 1st time ever last week. She has started digging out all her old clothes from 10 yrs ago, back when she was in her 20s and had a much more active social life, was popular, rebellious, and very very sex-centered (her clothes aren't necessarily sexualized, just from a time of her life when she was more sexualized). She's overall been acting younger, like she's trying to relive her 20s or something, and driving her sportscar when normally she drives the other car instead. This started soon after she caught me flirting with some female friends of a friend online, She'd shown great disdain & upset bout that. She's been offering to go without me on small errands--e.g., if we're in the car in front of home ready to go somewhere and realize we left our water bottle in the house, she'll be all like "stay there, I'LL get it!" and then take like 10 mins longer than necessary to come back with it. What do you think? Should I worry something's going on behind my back?

No matter what race of guy i date, his mom has a problem with me not being their race. And I've always lucked out with guys of my own race. Does it always have to be like this or am i just getting into relationships with guys with racist moms?

I'm asking married people for advice - i'd appreciate it. I've been with my bf for 4 years. He comes from a big family which can be a bit overwhelming. Unfortunately, the women are catty and act like they're on "housewives", even his own mother. Because I don't gossip like they do or am submissive (as they expected me to be), this hit a nerve. It's just like high school/mean girls. His sister never liked me from the get-go (my own mother sensed this) & bc of this, his mother becomes very overprotective when she's around and treats me differently. I used to be friends with a cousin but we grew apart. It took me a while to realize that she was a user/toxic/not good for me. I tried for more than 10 years to justify it until I realized it. I've talked to her many times about it but her behavior switches and she continues to gossip about me.I distanced myself but still polite. Bc I'm not warm and friendly towards her, she's greatly offend. I'm sorry but I don't suck up to anybody. With this, the females are always throwing shade. At this point, it sounds petty to my boyfriend (which it is) and he can't "fix" it because they're not "directly" doing it, so there's no "evidence" to call them out on it. I was recently at a family get-together & his mom was introducing me to new guests. She sarcastically says, "and you know cousin, right?" Me: of course. Cousin starts sarcastically laughing while giving me the death stare. I walked away. Cousin likes to say silly things for attention (just like Kanye). She said something kind of inappropriate and I kind of smiled but I wasn't laughing like the women in the family (the other guests were kind of shocked). My bf's mom instantly turned around to look right at me for a reaction. I looked her dead in the eye..not sure why she did that but it made me feel uncomfortable. Women - we all know little clues when we're being talked about & that was one of them. It's a fact w. them bc they gossip. It's the instigating I don't like or how they feed off of drama with me. I don't know how I can take it anymore. Their whole family has turned it into a "juicy storyline" bc I'm not warm & friendly w. cousin anymore. She hates that I ignore her tactics and not feed her attention so she'll go around and share the news. I'm sick of it. I can't change them. I tried being patient and ignore it. What do I do?

His gambling addiction has forced his wife and kids to leave him and I was wondering if I should open my doors to him, or should I teach him 'tough love' and let him know what it is like to be alone. He is 34 years old and needs to learn from his mistakes. We have solved his problems in the past and he does not learn from his mistakes. I want him to understand their are consequences for bad decisions. Please advise.

Me and my ex had a fall out. Long story short we made a truce. Next 2 days at work he was friendly coming to me etc. Then the next day he flirted with me a lot. Even tried to hold my gaze twice while smiling. Just being outgoing goofy and said he was happy to see me. Then next day on to recent nothing. He doesn't even acknowledge me and when i do ask him something he just provides short answers. Its like he doesn't know me now. Why did he change so drastically within days?

I need to help out a friend. If the noncustodial Parent is paying child support regularly throughout the school year. There was an agreement that during the summer that the child will spend one month at the custodial parent's home and one month at the noncustodial's parent. Does the non custodial parent have to pay child support for the month that the child is not in the custodial parents home. Can anyone give me a yes or no answer according to the Maryland Child Support Laws?

Me and my ex had a fall out. Long story short we made a truce. Next 2 days at work he was friendly coming to me etc. Then the next day he flirted with me a lot. Even tried to hold my gaze twice while smiling. Just being outgoing goofy and said he was happy to see me. Then next day on to recent nothing. He doesn't even acknowledge me and when i do ask him something he just provides short answers. Its like he doesn't know me now. What gives?

I have a 15-years-old daughter

I'll try to explain this as best I can. A few days ago my wife brought home one of our visiting friends I hadn't seen in nearly five years. When they entered the house, my wife made her way to the kitchen and her friend made her way to the study to greet me. I had to avert my eyes almost as soon I looked at her. She was in a tight top with her breast near bursting out her shirt and she had the tightest navy blue shorts on. I don't think I have to say my body was heating up and going haywire at this point. I quickly said hello while keep my eyes pinned to the floor, but she walked over to me and said 'Don't just stand there, let me get a hug'. She hugged me and she felt so soft & smelled so good my breathing slowed and my instincts kept screaming that I wanted to take her body right there. However nothing happened and the rest of the visit went off without issue. That being said... I did touch myself in bed thinking about her that night and I feel extremely sick & guilty about it. I need to know from an unbiased source if I betrayed my wife by being aroused by this woman.

I'm under 18 and my mom is getting married today and it just makes me really upset because I can't wait to get married. I talked about it with my boyfriend and he's all for getting married , but I feel like time is going slower and slower . I know most of you will say I should embrace my youth, but most of my childhood was taken away from me when my dad left. I've always had to be the man (I'm a girl) of the family . I just wish time would go faster but I don't know what to do till then..

My husband and I recently bought a new house and have been planning to invite our friends over to come and see it, and we also want to make a barbecue. We rarely see those friends since we are all busy with kids and stuff. Well yesterday I fell ill and today I'm feeling really terrible. I work 2nd shift till late in the night, wake up early with my daughter in the morning. So I am both tired and sick. Today is my only chance to work in the morning and come home for the evening and I'm dying to regenerate myself with sleep since I don't get to do that much. My only time and we have this party planned with 10+ people showing up with their kids :/ I don't want to be a rude guest but I feel like I'm gonna collapse on the floor once I get home. Should I sleep and have my husband explain? Or should I suffer downstairs? I'm not in the mood to entertain and host. My mother in law is coming over to help out with the food and everything. What do you think?

she won't change he wants it and love it with other woman,does the marriage work?

My mum and dad are always arguing now and my mum is always the one who ends up crying, my dad feels alone and thinks no one in our house likes him. I've never been close to my dad and neither has my sister because he's always been quite mean to us especially me and so I'm scared of him still (I'm 14) I never thought about them splitting up until one time in the car when dad wasn't there mum said to us how would you feel if me and dad split up, I thought the question was coming anyway but it made It made me and my sister really upset, also I'm worried that if they split up we'll never be able to do anything because of money problems not that it matters but I enjoy doing stuff like going out as a family. Also it really upsets me that I'm not close to really any of my family, my sister never wants to talk to me, I've never became close to dad and mums always been at work and sometimes I just feel like I don't connect to her and it's horrible bc IM basically by myself all the time

We live in a one bedroom apartment. My wife lived here before we married. Recently we find out the house is in Lien and my said we should save all her salary to buy a house. She said we should use my money to pay bills as we lived on one source of income in the past. i want o open a joint bank accont but she doesn't. I feel like she's using me. I'm 60 and she's 36. She says she needs to save because she wants our son to live in a better place. Should I divorce her?

I'm 27 years old and he's 47 years old. We had instant chemistry right away and he looked way younger for his age. Should I pursue it though? I know it's kind of an age gap. Would be better if he was 10 years older but you can't help who you fall for. Not sure what to do.

My wife says I'm not nice to her, when I point out the nice things I do for her, she says I'm trying to take credit for being nice to her... I have no idea what to do. We had argument, because I was upset, she kept calling me and texting me while I was out to the theatre... because she thought I was with another woman... (I've never cheated on her, although I've joked about it, because she always accuses me of it and it's such an absurd thing).

Let me start by saying husband and I have never used condoms ever, even before marriage. One day I was cleaning out all the junk my husband left behind in our 2nd car. This was the 1st time I'd entered this car in months, since I usually use the other car. I found an opened 3-pack box of condoms missing 1 of the condoms, under some junk and shirts on the backseat. No sign of the missing 3rd condom anywhere in or around the car. When I confronted my husband, he reacted badly: denied, got angry, stormed out, etc. A day later after I threatened divorce and stuff, he showed me that he'd kept the missing 3rd condom on him the entire time, unused. (It's definitely the exact missing condom because the numbers match) It seemed bizarre he would carry condoms on him. First he said it was because he thought we should start using them, since we already have a kid and aren't planning to have any more, but didn't know how to tell me. Then when I didn't believe him, he eventually said that he was thinking of cheating but decided not to. What should I think about this? What would you think is the most likely reason he bought condoms, carrying one in his wallet and leaving the others in the car, never to use them? How should I react?

My girlfriends ex husband is a creep (long story, has legal issues involving creepy perverted stuff, treated her like crap then tried to flirt with her via text while she was with me). They share children and he's invited to the events (which I understand) but is it ok for me to not want to go? Its kids stuff anyways and he seems like drama.

We live in a very liberal society where premarital sex is encouraged... and not surprisingly, we have huge rates of abortion and single motherhood. How can a person fail to recognize the benefits of waiting until marriage to have sex?

I ve told my husband it s okay to watch porn since I know a lot of us watch it. I even watch it when he is not around. We don t really make love like we use to when we first started dating but I know that s anyone after getting married. But is it okay if he watches even when I m at home? I ve caught him several times. I don t know if it s me? If I m just boring or I don t know? Maybe I m just over thinking ? Is it normal or what is it ? ... Ive noticed I m the one who s always asking to have sex .... What do I do???

I have 2 cars. Hadn't driven one of them in months. Husband sometimes drives that one to work. I decided to drive that car to work today for the 1st time in months. Apparently husband's been keeping my car a mess, letting random stuff pile up in it. While cleaning out the car, I found an opened box of condoms on the back seat, with 2 out of 3 left in it. It was under a pile of shirts (husband's), water bottles, and old newspaper circulars. No condom wrapper or condom itself found anywhere in the car. We've never used condoms together, ever. No one else has driven that car to my knowledge or with my permission except our single mutual friend, once, months ago, following us somewhere, so no chance that he used my car to hook up in, and unlikely he'd put his stuff on my backseat. No one else drove that car in months except my husband, unless my husband's been lending out my car without my permission, which itself is a major no-no. What to think and what to do? When I confronted him, he denied everything, got mad at me, then made up a very obvious lie about the same guy friend borrowing the car when the friend hadn't (trying to falsely claim condoms were his friend's). Eventually after I threatened divorce and stuff, admitted they were his, but proved he never used any by showing me the unopened 3rd condom which he had on him the whole time. Definitely was the missing 3rd condom because the manufacture numbers match for the whole box. So he bought condoms, but didn't use any. Why would someone do this? - He wants to suddenly start using them with me? - He is thinking about cheating? - He was thinking about cheating a while ago but ultimately decided not to? - He is/was thinking about cheating so he bought the condoms but ended up cheating without using the condoms? - The whole thing was done purposely as a ploy to get me jealous and start wondering things, as a way to spite me for him suspecting I might be cheating on him?

So, here's what's up. My name is Ram. I'm a 26 year okd Indian guy, but I have lived in the US (Seattle as a kid, NYC now). Anyway, I've always been opposed to arranged marriages, but my parents have very strict conditions if I'm to marry out of love, and those are, that the girl has to be from the same town as us, two, that she has to be the caste as us, and three, she can't eat meat. Of course, I didn't find a girl. Anywsy, my parents say it's time for me to marry, because I have to have babies soon, or something. See, Indian arranged marriages are basically for gold diggers. See, not to brag, but they will probably be jumping all over me. One, because girls have told me I'm good looking, two, I have a good job, three, I live in the US and four, I come from a pretty good family. This is why I'm opposed to arranged marriages. Anyway, it's a either death or dishonor thing. If i don't marry someone, my parents will be really angry. If i do, I'm stuck in a bad marriage, and I can't divorce either, because I'll dishonor my family.

We booked a vacation, and I asked to see his phone to download the expedia app. Once I opened the apps he downloaded, I saw he not only had facebook, but also facebook messenger. When confronted he denied knowing why it was on there, but eventually after my questioning he told me he had a fake profile. I asked him to pull it up, and he claims he hasn t used it since before we started dating. What I found alarming was that the only friend he had on it was a woman he told me he had a one night stand with prior to us dating. He has had his current phone since February, and it is an IPhone. He swears up and down that he never downloaded the app on this current phone, and the information must have transferred over because it is the same account. I am confused as to if what he is saying is true about information transferring over, and if that is a possibility. Also, if there was nothing to hide then why hide the profile? And why continue to lie when I confronted him? He claims he no longer has access to it and can t log on. He agreed to get a new phone to "start fresh" but when it was time to actually go he resisted, afraid of losing all his contacts, which is why I am posing this. I am at a loss, does this make sense to anybody?

My in laws kicking me out . I got 1 month to find a home hubby wants to stay . I have to live alone and hubby lives with parents . I'm 25. Hubby 27.