If I was to get married in new York to one woman, then in a place where it s legal to have another wife and marry another there, and then come back to NY would I be breaking the law, the new York law sites have nothing about this matter at all, so if I was to come here with 8 wives I d be breaking the law? Cause me and my wife have agreed to have another wife but we don t want to move

I recently got married and my husband is very attractive! So the issue is, the first time I introduced him to the fam, my aunt totally flirted with him and almost kind of hit on him (in front of my uncle too)! So we were ALL very uncomfortable and it was just a weird situation for everyone. My uncle and aunt recently divorced, and this weekend there is going to be a sort-of family gathering that my now e-aunt will be going to as well. I am not an assertive person usually and I hate confrontations, but is there any advice on what I should do or how I should act if she starts getting too friendly with my new hubby? I am really dreading seeing her so any advice would be great~

We're canceling our wedding but not the marriage because of parents. My fiancee's mother is calling all the shots and didn't involve me at all nor took any consideration for my situation in life. She demands reparations for the expenses I was never a part of. Would I be required to pay at all? Where do I find this information?

My parents keep talking about divorce and my dad keeps saying that my mom doesn t want him around. He says he s gonna go back to Mexico but I don t want him to leave and I don t want to choose so can I just go live with my grandma and grandpa

I'm wondering how much of the cheating is because the wife doesn't want to have sex as often as the husband or at all. Or if it's just that the husband doesn't find the wife attractive as she ages.

I have realized that my husband is abusive. I didn't see anything wrong with him calling me selfish or evil. I have heard the same thing from my mother all my life. I feared my going home to my mother.When I told my mother how I felt as a child she said its because I was naughty and normally in trouble. I never felt like I could tell her about my friendship troubles at school or problems about boys, as she was dismissive. When I cut my wrists she made me feel so guilty, telling me how bad I had made her feel. She helped me out academically, she seemed proud. Just I'm confused my Dad was lovely to me, I would confine in him and he would help me when my mother was angry at me. She also didn't appear to act like this to my brother, she always told me how he has a lovely he is and how nasty I am. As an adolescent I hung around with children from poorer back grounds, I suffered depression and took drugs. My parents always said they didn't understand why i acted this way. I now have a son and a couple of time I have yelled at him and thought why was I mean to him just then? I am planing an exit strategy, yet I have no one to turn to. So I am seeking advise here. Do you think she was abusive? Did my Dad know? The realization of how I might be an abuse victim is something I can't put into words. It explains a lot. Now I just need to get out...

I don't know why but my vagina has a slight smell of vanilla. I don't know why it smells like that and I know people may say I am lucky or whatever in the comments but I'm concerned because I've been having clear discharge like everyday ever since I had my first orgasm. Please help, I don't know if this is something I should be concerned. By the way, I don't wash my vagina with heavy fragranced soap. Is this gross to men?

i live in US and 23 currently and my nationality is indian as aryan race, im considered as US resident... does it means that i have to marry a white girl ?!!!

I found out recently my husband cheated on me 7 years ago. We have been married for 6 years. We are 25. I found out by looking in his messages he had sex with 3 girls while we were dating 7 years ago and he had sex with another girl a few months before we got married. He hasn't cheated since we've been married. should I ask him about it or let it go? Should I tell him I know or let sleeping dogs lie?

She is my everything my wife feels that she will die soon cuz her health is down recently well she keeps telling me stuff like find another girl that will make you happy (that's after she dies) I know this is painful for her and me but this is too much I can't take it please someone have mercy on me I can't see any good sign in this life darn it ......

I mean there aren't that many hot guys in america like 3/4 american men are overweight! How can a hot girl be a SL*t? I mean most people say "most hot girls are SL*ts" but how its not like ugly men get very hot girls so how would they know? Unless they speculate? Its just most people on yahoo say that most hot girls are wh*red but that doesn't add up? Someone explain pls?

I'm kinda freaking out right now! I got my first period today and when I looked in the pad, the blood was brown and not red! Am I sick?

We have merry good times, things are so happy. But Ive noticed a trend since being married, if I say the smallest thing, or if I get worked up in the slightest about something she has said, then she will burst into a fit of tears when only moments ago we were happy as could be. And now she is uncontrollably bawling. And this is regular. The smallest things turn into uncontrolled sobs and weeping as if a family member has passed. And our happy times are full of laughs, and smiles. And if I tell her I suspect this is what is happening with her, she ll go into a fit of sadness again and cry for hours sometimes and she usually says, "dont tell me how to feel, Im allowed to be sad and feel this way", and will cry for hours. And its usually something rather small. How do I tell her I think medication and a doctors visit would benefit her without her having a manic episode?

So once or twice a year

I want him to think it's his idea to have sex and somehow arouse him. Maybe a certain smell ?

I'm in my 50's, went thru menopause. I wanted to know if there's some pill or anything I can take right before sex to make me super aroused? A one time thing? I'm just never in the mood. I'd prefer something oral, I think I've tried all the creams and KY stuff. Anything safe and legal? I found some on EBay but I'm not sure how safe it is to order pills from eBay. Thanks!

And you're a 35-year-old woman who is running out of time and would be childless otherwise?

During sex, my wife's vagina starts out nice n tight, but by about a minute or two BEFORE she orgasms, she becomes "cavernous". Her vagina opens up real wide, accompanied by an excessive increase in sex fluids. She stays this way up to and through her orgasm, right up until we finish. This is most noticeable when she is in the doggie position. Now I am "thicker" than the average guy, but I often lose feeling and can't finish myself once she gets to this point. Sometimes feels like I'm not hard or am going to slip out, even though this doesn't occur. I tested a dildo thicker than me (by about 1" circumference) on her and she seemed to grip it tightly the whole time. Even though she is 43 and had two kids vaginally, she is tight to start out...so she is not "loose", per se. And she is a tri-athlete, in great shape. So why such a huge difference once the orgasm is imminent? Are her orgasms becoming too intense? Is this normal, or is she a bit abnormal? Or perhaps she is a closet "width queen"? And what can we do, if anything, to fix this?

I would like to get an opinion from different people (old/young, male/female, married/single) on the situation I have. Married for 10 years, but 5-6 years ago i started being interested in gay porn, I even naughty-skyped a few times with guys. I would not call myself gay as I'm not physically attracted to them in person, I go to gym and see naked guys everywhere, I never had any desire to touch them or even stare at them. If you give me a choice whether to make out with a girl or a guy, I would choose girl any day. But still, I like gay porn as much as straight, and virtual sex (with both girls and guys) attracts me. I'm aware that some people consider this as cheating but please spare me from moral lessons. Wife doesn't know this and I never had any physical contact with anyone except her for the last 14 years and plan on keeping it like this in the future. Opinions? Normal or not? What would you do? Quit doing this? Cheat on your partner with a guy? Cheat with a girl, just to check if I'm missing extramarital sex?

Telling her "No" only results in her doing it without you and wasting the kids time doing things that are meant for kids half their age. Example: There's a summer reading program at the library which we've been doing since the kids were 5 years old - now that my kids are older they need to be spending less time reading fiction novels and more time doing life skills around the house so they can be ready for adulthood and life. My wife however believes otherwise. She enjoys her family traditions and she puts the tradition over the life skills. I told her that we will NOT be doing the summer reading program to receive crappy $5 off coupons as a reward for reading 6 weeks of books. She told me that she was going to take the kids without me and that this is something she believes in so we'll just have to find time to do BOTH the reading program and teaching them maturity things.... We're now on week 3 of the program and my wife has sabotaged all of my efforts to teach the kids anything maturity based and she has resorted to EXTREME micromanagement of the children. In other words, she has overstepped her bounds to make sure HER initiative is being executed and she is ruining MY initiative. Mind you, I have a 14 year old and a 10 year old; neither of them know how to use the Microwave to cook frozen snacks, and neither of them know how to do homework without supervision to keep them on task... This is going to be a long 8 years of 8 school (4 with son then 4 with daughter)... In top question I meant to say "if" not "of"... Also, this is both a parenting question and a marriage question. Obviously I know I'm in the right when it comes to academics and she's in the right when it comes to family, but this is a marriage question too because I'm dealing with a very stubborn and arrogant woman who refuses to communicate or cooperate. She just wants to get her way and won't consider any one else's goals or points of view.... HOW CAN I HANDLE SUCH A PERSON!?!?!?

We are married for 20 years. He started chatting online with girls 2 years ago. We had few arguments since then. He is with his mobile 24/7 and chatting and smiling. When I ask why are you smiling, he says why do you ask me this? He doesn't want me to ask anything from him and he wants me let him do whatever he likes. What should I do?

My husband is currently in school taking to classes. Last semester he paid someone 180$ every 2 weeks to take a course for him. I told him he should let me help him. Before his classes ended last semester he stated that he was not going to pay no one else to take his classes because it was too expensive. I insisted that I'd gladly help. Well he new semester just started and I just recently found out that he is paying someone 80$ every two weeks to take his class. When I asked him why didn't he tell that was what he was planning on doing? He told me he didn't feel need the need to. Now, I'm not currently working so I'm very sensitive about where our money is going. Should I be upset? Is it okay for me to feel just a little angry? I just feel like he should of told me. I know it may petty for me to get upset over this but this not the first time he's done this. He also wants to buy some tools that's gonna cost a little over 100$. My input was that we should wait and what our money is looking like. He told me that he was gong to buy it regardless. I just feel like I'm being overlooked.

Basically I want to know if anyone has been at a point in their marriage or relationship where they looked at what there partner was becoming and said to themselves that they don't like what they see anymore? What's hardest for me is seeing other couples spending time together. I look at other men and their partners and wish I could have that secure feeling of being the leader in the relationship. Of having my wife at my side and spending quality time with me. With is discussing normal everyday things. But in fact we spend a lot of time apart. She won't spend the time with me because she cares so much about her job. We end up not speaking much to each other. We still have affection but I am still struggling with the confusion of responsibilities. I work and study hard. I just can't get her to spend any quality time with me at all. She does unacceptable stuff like throwing food and stuff in anger. The last time was because I took too long shopping. So she threw yoghurt and eggs to the ground and they stained the carpet and went all up the wall. Last night she got angry again and told her colleague over the phone that I'm stupid. I can't believe I had to explain the repercussions of what she said... As I get around more (thanks to better hours of work and more freedom), I'm overhearing other adjusted young people and their talk about what is and isn't acceptable behaviour. It makes me realise that many things in my marriage are unacceptable. Apologies for the bad grammar. I left autocorrect turned on. One of the sentences should have read...we don't discuss many things together.

So we were happily married at first until i started messing up. I had intentions to be with other women but never actually did while we were married. Wife would find texts and messages that I sent to other women. So i admit to my mistakes and letting my wife walk out on me because of my repetitive cheating. So my wife decided to cheat on me with a guy she met at work. She slept with him several times before I found out. I forgave her because I knew I tried to do the same to her before and I felt like I understood why she did it. We are now trying to rebuild our relationship. But she still blames everything on me and wont admit that what she did was wrong. She says im the one that has to prove I still love her and wont cheat on her. She has not even asked me for forgiveness. I gave her 25 roses for her birthday and I feel like she didnt appreciate them by what she told me. She says she was used to me giving her things after we had issues and i tried to win her back. Do you think this marriage is worth saving? She says she still loves me. Shes not showing that she does even though I am really trying hard and going out of my way to make her happy again.

We've been married for 28 years. We have two daughters 27 and 22. I thought our marriage was good. He had been the main breadwinner of the family while I did a lot of volunteering with the school, in the community and worked 10 years as a LPN. In 2010 I was diagnosed with breast cancer. My husband was there for me all the way. A week ago, I went on my husband's laptop as mine was in getting fixed. He left his email open. He had been sending emails back and forth with a woman. Among some research she is a 29 year old waitress. My husband is 52 years old. I confronted him and he admitted he met her at a bar when he was out with friends. He flirted with her a bit but didn't see her again until he went out for lunch with a co-worker. He said he liked the attention but had no intentions of it going anywhere. He claimed he went there a few more times, when on one occasion the waitress, wrote her number on the receipt. So they started an emotional affair which lasted a few months, with the last month being a sexual affair. They met up about 4 or 5 times during the time. He admitted he would have never stopped if I didn't catch him. Here I am heartbroken. My husband stopped all contact with her and wants to work on our marriage. This is seriously the hardest thing that has ever happened me, even worse then battling cancer. A part of me wants to give him another chance, but I don't know if I'll ever look at him the same again. I feel so bitter.

Very successful married man, emotional, good looking...total package Really sad...dose not smile Has his pic with his wife on his FB profile...not on Tinder He did not lie...but he hesitated to say he is married...and then he said don't judge He has such a beautiful wife, no kids yet, seems like she is not jealous or dependent or a psycho...she actually is an elegant nice lady...they have some recent romantic pics together on FB... The guy liked a little bit of mystery I first suspect if he has any problem with his wife...I donno what r ur thoughts

I had a really bad attraction to the same sex when I was younger and I am embarrassed to tell my future husband. I love him though and I want no secrets in our relationship. Should I tell him?